Should Christians Kiss Before Marriage? | Kissing Before Marriage Boundaries

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  • @bakundaemmanuel8566
    @bakundaemmanuel85664 жыл бұрын

    I don't know who needs to hear this but...There will alway be someone out there who is willing to wait for you. Don't lose your line🙏🏾

  • @TM-se5jf

    @TM-se5jf

    4 жыл бұрын

    LOSE not LOOSE😐

  • @issyzh

    @issyzh

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Tracey Mair K, way to spoil the mood 😂😐

  • @nimusiimapatience2099

    @nimusiimapatience2099

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen !!! Thank u

  • @nibbi6992

    @nibbi6992

    4 жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @nimusiimapatience2099

    @nimusiimapatience2099

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow! So inspiring to here such good words from a man, may God bless u more wth in this lost generation.

  • @enny_vicky
    @enny_vicky4 жыл бұрын

    I can't believe this!!! I literally just had this conversation with my bf 2 minutes ago!!! Thank you Holy Spirit!!! and Thank you Karolyne for yielding to the move of the Holy Spirit!!!

  • @user-xi8yh8qi9j

    @user-xi8yh8qi9j

    4 жыл бұрын

    @VIII Maus wtf are you doing here?

  • @childrenofgodstudios
    @childrenofgodstudios4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 24 and never had a first kiss, waiting for my wedding day🙏🏼

  • @notpunishmentbutdevelopmen8260

    @notpunishmentbutdevelopmen8260

    4 жыл бұрын

    AMEN GOD BLESS U SIS

  • @chelsieromero4874

    @chelsieromero4874

    4 жыл бұрын

    You're better than me

  • @nakiarobby3996

    @nakiarobby3996

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen😘

  • @djanedadebastien4153

    @djanedadebastien4153

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same girl 😭

  • @ArtnFunk

    @ArtnFunk

    4 жыл бұрын

    💜 Beautiful... please don't change. Praying God sends you the right man and that you'll have a happy and successful marriage....✍️

  • @emeraldmoses63
    @emeraldmoses634 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes its feels lonely but with God all things are possible

  • @shari9707

    @shari9707

    4 жыл бұрын

    True true continue to believe with deep faith for the best Amen.These days are not easy like when my parents got married;

  • @abrahamdebrahnarh4911

    @abrahamdebrahnarh4911

    4 жыл бұрын

    Emerald Moses Yeah, very lonely but God strengthens and provides comfort

  • @nomfundonodliwa2273

    @nomfundonodliwa2273

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same sentiments but nothing beats waiting on him

  • @brittanyb5942

    @brittanyb5942

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes 🙏🏾

  • @candyfacey2562

    @candyfacey2562

    3 жыл бұрын

    I share your sentiments

  • @alexandriaedwards1937
    @alexandriaedwards19374 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you for doing this video, a lot of people ask this question and I personally tell them that I am a virgin and plan to be one until I am married and I haven't kissed anyone in almost 8 years and I'll be turning 30 and November it's only by the grace of God that I've been able to do this, thank you Jesus!

  • @mushabenelson6450

    @mushabenelson6450

    4 жыл бұрын

    wow its a grace of God..keep those boundaries till marriage. God will bless you more Alexandria

  • @alexandriaedwards1937

    @alexandriaedwards1937

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mushabenelson6450 Thank you

  • @msjordanndasilva

    @msjordanndasilva

    4 жыл бұрын

    Proud of u Alexandria!!!! That is so honourable in the sight of the Lord!! And He will surely bless u in His perfect timing with His best for u. Continue to pursue God and walk according to His Word. I too, am a virgin (turning 26 in mid December) and I haven't kissed in 5.5 years, and I plan to have my next kiss on my wedding day! I know that God will eventually bless me with a guy who wants this too, so I ain't worrying. Unbelievers think this is crazy, but that's not my concern, cuz I'm not changing my stance. Just like how they're bold in talking about sex, we too can be bold in talking about purity! Can I get a halleluyerrrr saints?!! Hahaaa. Those who are bold for Christ stand up! 😁😎

  • @Sibumagazine

    @Sibumagazine

    4 жыл бұрын

    It can only be God, He deserve all the praise

  • @alexandriaedwards1937

    @alexandriaedwards1937

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Sibumagazine Yes thank you Jesus!

  • @cedricadaniels7983
    @cedricadaniels79834 жыл бұрын

    The entire time I listened to this, all I kept saying to myself was "I'm cool with it, but will I ever meet a man who is patient enough to wait and is truly seeking after God in this manner?" Then I heard a voice say "Are you patient enough to wait for that man and are you truly seeking after God in this manner right now or are you waiting until you get into a relationship to do so?" Can we say convicted!

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cedrica Daniels hi I am a new KZreadr , come and learn more about god learn the truth .

  • @slimchica1

    @slimchica1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cedrica Daniels Wow so true 😮

  • @itsbrianothoo

    @itsbrianothoo

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@slimchica1 waaaaa,on that conviction i am a witness.soo real,God knows us so well.hahaaa indeed he is our Dad.

  • @abrahamdebrahnarh4911

    @abrahamdebrahnarh4911

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cedrica Daniels You will meet a godly man like that if you really look up to God. He wants the best for you

  • @cedricadaniels7983

    @cedricadaniels7983

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@abrahamdebrahnarh4911 Thank you! I absolutely agree. Who I attract starts with who I am and if who I am is not in alignment with God then honestly, I can't expect Him to be pleased or the situation to be blessed. It's so easy to point the finger at what seems to be external factors, but it's so important to be able to recognize when issues are internal.

  • @jamesellis9872
    @jamesellis98724 жыл бұрын

    I think it’s a matter of personal conviction. I see no problem with dating couples kissing. But if you can’t kiss without it leading to something further such as sex, then you shouldn’t kiss. Saying it’s wrong for ALL Christian couples to kiss is wrong. Each person needs to know their individual boundaries of sin/temptation, and for some that boundary is smaller than for others.

  • @Brirose17

    @Brirose17

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @condonadia8556

    @condonadia8556

    4 жыл бұрын

    Boundaries! Your biggest weakness can be your eyes or even touching the hand of your lover! Convictions are personal, never live someone conviction except when it s clear in the bible saying that kissing is a sin in a direct way! Know your boundaries!

  • @condonadia8556

    @condonadia8556

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Walkingwithchristmiz Thank you so much for your inputs! But allow me to tell you that yes i know God, yes i love God and yes i learn everyday to know him better! And hey; i know how convictions can destroy or save you. But here is my point, the true Christlike is someone who follow the bible instructions without putting emotions, culture,..... God gives us the Holly Spirit through him he guide us in everything ( he guides us with God instructions not CHURCH or culture instructions)! That s why you need to sit down and know why you are following some rules, your boundaries,..... it will help you protect your identity (Christianity). Thanks

  • @gracedomain

    @gracedomain

    4 жыл бұрын

    She never said it's wrong for all.

  • @юбилейн16777

    @юбилейн16777

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen. Couldn’t have said it better.

  • @SanctifiedSista117
    @SanctifiedSista1174 жыл бұрын

    This is so good! I really want my next kiss to be my husband at the altar and I pray God will send him next year and that he will have the same standards! 😭 👐🏾 Waiting is so hard, but I know it will be worth it!

  • @1Tara

    @1Tara

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lifenuggets6051 you nosey as hell but so am I 💀

  • @tendaimtizva6404
    @tendaimtizva64044 жыл бұрын

    I can't change my past but I can change my future.i will teach this to my child ,grandchildren and great grandchildren for as long the Lord allows me to live.

  • @beckyesther8669
    @beckyesther86694 жыл бұрын

    Kissing is not a sin but it can lead to sexual sin hence not beneficial. And a couple can still be healthy without kissing.

  • @MelB868

    @MelB868

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kissing takes 2 seconds it leads to nothing because it means they are leaving a kiss means bye.

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Becky Esther hi I am a new Christina KZreadr , come and be part of our group come and learn more about god .

  • @beckyesther8669

    @beckyesther8669

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@myfit1912 thanks for the invitation. A link?

  • @lonnie008

    @lonnie008

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@beckyesther8669 If you ask me... I think y'all Christians need to get laid more.... Then maybe you can stop being so angry at the world and let people live their life.

  • @beckyesther8669

    @beckyesther8669

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lonnie008 I don't think we are angry at the world. And normalising a behaviour does not make it acceptable. Are you a Christian?

  • @FSSPodcast
    @FSSPodcast4 жыл бұрын

    I am a 32-year old virgin, by the grace of God. I have also struggled with lust on/off for the past 20 years (since I was about 12). I have won more battles recently over this and I believe God is leading me to hopefully breakthrough and overcome it for the long haul. Not planning on having sex until marriage of course. Given my struggles with sexual immorality despite my virginity however, I would be prudent to set clear boundaries when I start a dating relationship again. I think friendship is a good platform to start forming a potential romance and eventual marriage from. Unless both parties are on board, each person can genuinely get to know one another authentically without striving to impress. I think not leading one another on or pressuring each other will end up giving the couple clarity about their potential in a romantic relationship and eventually marriage. While I don't think I would necessarily turn away from kissing, I wouldn't take it lightly and I am sure before that will have had conversations on important boundaries with the God-fearing woman in question to make sure neither of us do anything we'd regret. Great video, keep up the good work. It's good to hear that other men and women out there are fighting the same battles and in many cases persevering by God's grace and mercy. Cheers, to God be the glory.

  • @brittanyb5942

    @brittanyb5942

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏾

  • @brandiknutson2338

    @brandiknutson2338

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha that’s sad😿

  • @leahk.chanda4946

    @leahk.chanda4946

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless you

  • @vvlogs2656

    @vvlogs2656

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless u, keep it up 👏 👏

  • @hughesheisinghuntsman

    @hughesheisinghuntsman

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you brother for truly loving God.

  • @eugeniyah8078
    @eugeniyah80784 жыл бұрын

    Tbh, I think that the topic of kissing before marriage really depends on the couple and the type of boundaries that The Most High wants the couple to have. Although I see the logic behind getting married if you can’t control the temptation to have sex because it’ll be experienced within the right context. But at the same time, a person who can’t control their flesh before marriage won’t be able to control their flesh once they get married, because lust is a heart issue, not a status issue. Saying “I do” won’t change that unless that person experiences a true change of heart and mind by the grace and healing of The Most High. Otherwise, the person can be very detrimental and toxic to the spouse.

  • @naomia5475

    @naomia5475

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yahuah Is My Everything this is so true 🙌🏾

  • @mushabenelson6450

    @mushabenelson6450

    4 жыл бұрын

    TRUE

  • @evernechatman1590

    @evernechatman1590

    4 жыл бұрын

    yes because that's where Adultery comes in if you can't control your flesh, marriage doesn't cure lust

  • @crownedmelaninqueen

    @crownedmelaninqueen

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yahuah Is My Everything I agree with the “ lustful heart “ and struggling with lustful desires within a relationship and or marriage.

  • @crownedmelaninqueen

    @crownedmelaninqueen

    4 жыл бұрын

    Everne Chatman Omg yes !!!!

  • @TLIMSdisciple
    @TLIMSdisciple4 жыл бұрын

    Been single for awhile and want to get married. So did a pray and fast for my love life this week and here today in my recommendations...lol

  • @hawk6143
    @hawk61434 жыл бұрын

    I'm 20, never been in a relationship , I don't even desire to be in one but I've always wanted to know this and it was recommended 😂😂 yay answer found, now I can advice people 😂😂😂

  • @keynss8748

    @keynss8748

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too, I'm 20 and I'm always been asking myself "how does it work ?" 😂

  • @hawk6143

    @hawk6143

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@keynss8748 🙌😂

  • @nmirriaml6247

    @nmirriaml6247

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too 😂 Though I'm 26

  • @hawk6143

    @hawk6143

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nmirriaml6247 ahh, a woman of decent culture😂

  • @rosalindpeters1807

    @rosalindpeters1807

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂same

  • @irenemuchina3734
    @irenemuchina37344 жыл бұрын

    You really don't understand how much you have saved me, please continue living your purpose because you are a blessing to my life and am learning alot from you .Especially at my age, THANKS SO MUCH, GOD BLESS

  • @cyberguru09
    @cyberguru094 жыл бұрын

    Well said sis. we really shouldn't be testing to see how close we can get to sin ...without sinning.

  • @patriciarichardson5570
    @patriciarichardson55704 жыл бұрын

    We must also remain vigilant to guard our ear and eye gates which can be sources of temptation. In practical terms I can't watch sexually explicit movies or listen to provocative music.

  • @zachaazakah

    @zachaazakah

    4 жыл бұрын

    Patricia Richardson same

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Patricia Richardson hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @mikep3455

    @mikep3455

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes that I agree with.👍Dating a woman for year and half before you actually get married and you never kiss the woman? Nah that's foolishness! No sex yes. No sugar? That's nonsense...

  • @jenna8987

    @jenna8987

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree. But I also feel like there are no movies or any music God would approve of...99% of it is sinful. I'm staying away from it all...Being a Christian is a little difficult.

  • @sunshinesarah4746

    @sunshinesarah4746

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jenna Lee Prado: Check out some worship music. Like Bethel, Travis Green, Upperroom, Elevation Worship, Lecrae and many more. I typically enjoy the PG Christmas movies, game shows. A lot more. replacing what you use to watch and listen to to more wholesome things is a good way. Don’t just take away but replace.

  • @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415
    @emmanuelnwabuodafi64154 жыл бұрын

    She never said "do not kiss" She only admonished that do not awaken love before its time, what that means is kissing can start a fire you can't quench, so if you know you struggle with sexual stuffs it's better you just shut it out,, because as humans we're adventurous in nature so you could kiss, tomorrow you want to go a Lil further and so on Then we should always know that as Christians the relationship isn't just about us but about God and how he intends to use us to show the world a portrait of he's intentions, so we should focus on being models and examples in conducts and all and not on attraction.... The whole thing comes down to, discipline/boundary, self control, and the love of God by the believers/couples.... The devil always looks for loopholes that he could use to come in so the believers should be wise as doves and gentle as serpents The whole point of abstaining from kissing at all is because of the destinations it could lead to, if the couples can handle it then there's nothing wrong with it just that it should have boundaries.... God bless and help us...

  • @rogerstanley5920

    @rogerstanley5920

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry bro I can’t agree to this simply because even Jesus himself was tempted and almost gave it Mathew4:1-11.. now this is a man in a Godly spiritual body but was tempted in his flesh . What makes you think any of us can have the type of self control to never be tempted? If you are with some one then naturally you are attracted to them physically and mentally right ? So I’d be crazy to think I can constantly place my self in situations like kissing or even holding a certain type of way with out feeling any other desires then love...yes maybe a couple of times we may be tempted n control but what happened when lust kicks in? Proverbs 23:7 tell us as a man thinketh then so is he .. so at any point n time there is any other thought while kissing then you’ve already sinned it doesn’t matter if you did not finish with sex .. proverbs 4:14-17 says 14 Do not set foot on the path of the wicked or walk in the way of evildoers.15 Avoid it, do not travel on it; turn from it and go on your way.16 For they cannot rest until they do evil they are robbed of sleep till they make someone stumble.17 They eat the bread of wickedness and drink the wine of violence. Solomon is clearly saying do not even set foot on that path and avoid it turn away from it because Satan will do what we. He has to to get you to slip .. our flesh always wants to make things look good to us and then to scripture but truth is God knows .. so even if or when we lie to ourselves he still knows.. so no she never said do not kiss but I don’t think she has to the bible says use your spiritual discernment the Bible doesn’t specifically say not to eat bullets or dog poop but discernment would tell us not to ... I hope this finds you with peace brother this wasn’t meant to argue but just make another view point God bless

  • @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415

    @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rogerstanley5920 hey Bro ❤, I get your point completely and for the records I'm also not encouraging people to go unruly... I'm just exploring a scenario and I was just trying to believe people can handle somethings and others can't, the whole subject of how far is too far in a Christian relationship is very broad... But I think the most effective strategy is to WALK BY THE SPIRIT and you won't gratify the desires of the flesh... Just really be in love with God when you're about to cross a boundary you'd have the witness in your Spirit... Personally I don't even know much about kisses but in my opinion I don't think kisses always have to be sexual, you can kiss someone as a sign of affection... I wasn't saying believers should go and make their relationship about kissing, I only trying to say maybe once in a while you can kiss your partner goodnight it doesn't even have to be on the lips... Kissing isn't the problem here it's all the things it can lead to... Personally I don't believe in impossibilities but that's me so I was only saying its possible people can still kiss and still not lose it....

  • @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415

    @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rogerstanley5920 exactly matter how sugar coated the internet will try to make wrong things we as believers have our own standards... Bro Stanley, remember when I quoted her about the scripture of "do not awaken love before its time" like you said if you can't handle it then don't even go down that part at all, my point is that I like to believe that it can be handled knowing that kissing or a kiss isn't the problem here but what it can lead to... You were talking as if I said BELIEVERS SHOULD GO AND MAKE THEIR RELATIONSHIP about kissing, no not at all.... I'm of the opinion that believers that are in relationships should even have some of the tightest boundaries like not even being alone 95% of times like behind closed doors... I'm of the opinion that believers should focus on BUILDING FRIENDSHIP rather than physical relationships, I'm of the opinion that believers should focus their relationship on pleasing God with their relationships this will involve sacrifices like purity...I was only saying that the kissing there isn't a curse word and that the reason we are advised to get rid of it totally is to not start a fire you can't control but I like to believe that controlling it is possible, and there are different kinds of kisses believers should definitely steer clear from French kisses... I don't know if you understand me...

  • @cellylozwe4853
    @cellylozwe48534 жыл бұрын

    "You may NOW kiss the bride." "Now" Sooooo uhmmmmmmm

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Celly Lozwe hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @nothingdarling4788

    @nothingdarling4788

    4 жыл бұрын

    Celly Lozwe You don’t need a ceremony to be married. That “you may now kiss the bride” is just tradition.

  • @shari9707

    @shari9707

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hilarious 😆 lol

  • @TLIMSdisciple

    @TLIMSdisciple

    4 жыл бұрын

    give a good peck kiss I'm guessing and figure the rest out on the honeymoon.😉

  • @theglobalpremierfutbolshow8621

    @theglobalpremierfutbolshow8621

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @hyenaman007
    @hyenaman0074 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sister, I can relate to you cause I’ve lived a sensual lifestyle and had same sex attraction stemming from a life of porn. Was also sexually active but Jesus delivered/ freed me ! Hallelujah! Glory to God the Father for His Word, His Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit! These are questions we have today and I’m thankful for how you blessed me with this vid in Jesus name !

  • @юбилейн16777

    @юбилейн16777

    3 жыл бұрын

    I respect and rejoice for what your saying. Same sex attraction isn’t a sin though...

  • @jordonrenaud1178

    @jordonrenaud1178

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@юбилейн16777 pretty sure it is

  • @юбилейн16777

    @юбилейн16777

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jordonrenaud1178 then you should probably do some research

  • @danielmoges6653

    @danielmoges6653

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@юбилейн16777 you need to read the bible before you try to “correct” someone right

  • @юбилейн16777

    @юбилейн16777

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@danielmoges6653 same to you. i didn’t correct anyone. i added to the conversation. please do some research before trying to argue about something you aren’t educated on.

  • @mushabenelson6450
    @mushabenelson64504 жыл бұрын

    This is so much helpful, its I needed to hear now, God be glorified even in our relationships/marriages. Thank you Karolyne you are a blessing to our generation.

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mushabe nelson hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @brittanyholman6545
    @brittanyholman65454 жыл бұрын

    Great topic of discussion. Some may call it legalism but it's more about upholding God's standard of holiness and righteousness. It's important to know what gets us going and without the leading of the Holy Spirit, it's easy to backslide into sin even after we've been delivered from the spirit of lust. #boundaries

  • @karolyneroberts

    @karolyneroberts

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes!! You explained it so well.

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Brittany Holman hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @quinoasongs2507

    @quinoasongs2507

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@karolyneroberts thanks. More questions to consider. I before had only 2. One, can you stop there easily? Two, if you break up, will it make it more painful or harder to move on? I've heard even Christians fall for the "good practice" rationale. And as for the "having my first kiss in front of a whole bunch of people and I don't even know how" well, you can always pull a Ben and Jessa

  • @shari9707

    @shari9707

    4 жыл бұрын

    True saying!some may say it's there choice and body,!but one day they may say I wished someone had warned/ or told me.people continue to do what they want becas they haven't they enjoy what they're doing!

  • @k.5425

    @k.5425

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@quinoasongs2507 ben and jessa ?

  • @seanthemessenger2809
    @seanthemessenger28094 жыл бұрын

    Boy oh boy, I always seen your videos on my timeline but never watched any. Some moments ago this video showed up and I decided that I’m going to hear how you unpack this topic and I haven’t regretted clicking on it. This is definitely the type of videos I need to spiritually grow- straight to the point, not holding back unpleasant truths and backed up with scripture. Awesome vid!

  • @Tchineey

    @Tchineey

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. I don't regret watching for the first time today... and I look forward to more of these truthful reminders (cz sometimes it's not that we don't know but it's easier to reconstruct some truth in a way that makes us feel better).

  • @OVP422-_

    @OVP422-_

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too it's awesome

  • @cadeturner8097
    @cadeturner80974 жыл бұрын

    So it’s okay, but you have to be careful because it can lead to sin

  • @chesronfaria154
    @chesronfaria1544 жыл бұрын

    This came in my recommendations just when i needed it the most. God used you to reach so many people. God bless you.

  • @taylorwilliams1974
    @taylorwilliams19744 жыл бұрын

    A light peck on the mouth versus “French kissing” with tongues and all are NOT the same type of kiss. A kiss on the cheek, hand, forehead is still a kiss. I agree with not putting oneself in a tempting situation. Also if you’re struggling with lust it will be more difficult and perhaps not even holding hands is for you. But, if you’re able to be respectful and honor one another’s boundaries, exercise self-control, and bathe your relationship in prayer fully open to Holy Spirit current flow, a light “peck “ on the lips is just a gesture of caring and is okay in my opinion.💋 Use wisdom above all and have the initial agreement to wait for marriage for the more intense type of kissing. Only your spouse should get to explore the full dynamics of a kiss. 😇

  • @naturallygigi3294
    @naturallygigi32944 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video! So glad it showed up in my feds. I can tell the Lord is really wanting to mold me in every way. Definitely desire to glorify God in my relationship so when the person he has for me comes into my life, I'll be ready and will have these boundaries in place for the glory of God! #holinessaboveall 🙏🏽❤

  • @esthersunday5705
    @esthersunday57054 жыл бұрын

    We comment reader association 👍 click like

  • @mosesmoise9897
    @mosesmoise98974 жыл бұрын

    I clicked by curiosity but man, I thank Jesus for what I have learned.! Thank you ma’am.!

  • @FernideN
    @FernideN4 жыл бұрын

    THIS was so on time for me especially in this season thank you for yielding to the Holy Spirit!

  • @bettyekhator5265
    @bettyekhator52654 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this, because it was what I needed to be reminded of. So much is being excepted in Christian community now. It really helped! Keep on teaching the truth. I appreciate it. 🙋‍♀️👍🏽☝🏽🙌🏼💖💯

  • @karolyneroberts

    @karolyneroberts

    4 жыл бұрын

    Aww I'm so glad you found this helpful!

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Betty Ekhator hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @CRYSTALTURNER84
    @CRYSTALTURNER844 жыл бұрын

    This was right on time, God is amazing & strategic🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @serinabrown1681
    @serinabrown16814 жыл бұрын

    Thank You So Much Karolyne 💝 Thank you for talking about a woman’s position in Christ before marriage ❤️ Praise God that you didn’t forget how life was prior to getting married 🙌🏾

  • @alubezetony8545
    @alubezetony85454 жыл бұрын

    What an inspiring video... So powerful, indeed the goal of every Christian relationship should be to glorify God

  • @Asyaril_
    @Asyaril_2 жыл бұрын

    Iam not even christian, but found it so meaningful in my life. Thx for opening my mind from my very worst past-life. God blessss🥺🙏

  • @costatipanyeka6199
    @costatipanyeka61994 жыл бұрын

    This is completely perfect wisdom, and how i so wish that all sisters in our Churches can sound the same. Im subscribing... 💕

  • @missbynx3
    @missbynx34 жыл бұрын

    Wow my boyfriend and I agreed to be a couple and then he did not want me to kiss him and it was literally because of the temptation and enticement it stirred up. And I’m glad I watched this Bc we will be able to adjust accordingly.

  • @paulinakaulinge957

    @paulinakaulinge957

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's awesome

  • @chelsieromero4874

    @chelsieromero4874

    4 жыл бұрын

    Girl you definitely got yourself a keeper who is grounded in the Holy Spirit😄😉👰🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏👑💍

  • @юбилейн16777

    @юбилейн16777

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m sure he’s a great guy! Congratulations! 🎉

  • @tiseytise
    @tiseytise4 жыл бұрын

    A friend of mine from school had told me that in his current relationship, him and his then girlfriend did not kiss before they got married; because he wanted to follow God and I was shocked at first! Now I understand where he is coming from. I am guessing that I lusted kissing in the relationship that I just got out of and we did other stuff too! I also understand why Christian couples fall into marriage shortly after they date because they don’t want to wait too long until they kiss and have sex.

  • @hermannjeanclaudeakpatou803

    @hermannjeanclaudeakpatou803

    4 жыл бұрын

    Winifred Weaver I’m agree with you but this causes problems sometimes because people don’t want to know them better before to get into it ! It’s dangerous to rush in a marriage because we can’t wait to have sex ... beware !!!!

  • @namugerwashamim1159

    @namugerwashamim1159

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dear Winnie though you are right somehow..but their is a big mistry behind why christian may keep them selves away to many proposing guys and marry one quickly......its mostly because before he comes you know him ...you can separate him from a million....

  • @millieempowers
    @millieempowers4 жыл бұрын

    I love your approach on this. You re not condemning or overly churchy, just straight wisdom.

  • @nsaaneemary1442
    @nsaaneemary14424 жыл бұрын

    Your teaching is amazing and timely Karolyne.. God bless you! Just what I needed to hear right now

  • @messengerofchristjesus4236
    @messengerofchristjesus42364 жыл бұрын

    Amen! Praise the Lord for leading me to this video! Very truthful and full of Godly wisdom! God bless you!

  • @choicegospelnetwork
    @choicegospelnetwork4 жыл бұрын

    GLORY to God for you my beloved sister in the lord! Any thumbs down to this video is from a lukewarm or a backslider or Reprobate.. This is SOLID WORD!!

  • @FeliciaJ805
    @FeliciaJ8054 жыл бұрын

    What a great lesson!! Thank you for sharing your struggles and your experiences. Marriage is for God’s glory.

  • @wiser0185
    @wiser01854 жыл бұрын

    I am sooo glad u did this video👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 cause alot of ppl don't understand this or play they don't want to.

  • @masterstepz9800
    @masterstepz98004 жыл бұрын

    Your vid was recommended to me and ot came just in time. I was struggling with lust for a bit, but your vid calmed me down and helped me see what is important.

  • @asukarei5013

    @asukarei5013

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah me too I'm 19 and never have been in a relationship but it seems like adolescence is kicking hard for me and my curiosity is killing me. Glad I stumble upon this 😭 cause all my friends are doing it and thye've been encouraging me to do it especially when playing games. It's really hard to control when you start to feel weird and someone is taking advantage of the situation you get the urge to do it but luckily I manage to stop it on time. My first kiss and my V card safe.

  • @jfizzle1014
    @jfizzle10144 жыл бұрын

    I think everyone has lust or urges. We are human and not Jesus. We are born into sin. But we can practice self control.

  • @xolanimdunge1410

    @xolanimdunge1410

    4 жыл бұрын

    As he is, so are we 1 John 4v17

  • @ivarenetulloch9101

    @ivarenetulloch9101

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @martinagorh1937
    @martinagorh19374 жыл бұрын

    Hi Karolyne, your video blesses me soo much... I am not in a relationship yet but you've just confirmed my conviction and more importantly you did it with some scriptures. I think I am more empowered to do the righteous thing and to convince friends the Godly way... Keep this stuff up Mrs... The Lord Jesus assist this glorious effort to share scripture's perspective on some of these things we blindly practice in our relationships... Thank you... God bless you...

  • @hanpraisestudios6236
    @hanpraisestudios62364 жыл бұрын

    Wow. This is the first video of you I watched. You're beautiful sis! May you continue to share God's Word and God bless you more!

  • @nkerukaiferika7307
    @nkerukaiferika73074 жыл бұрын

    LOVED the 5 tips🙌🏾👍🏾

  • @GlowinggUpWithGOD
    @GlowinggUpWithGOD4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this Women of God, I've been blessed by this. I was just telling myself how I am waiting until marriage to kiss, and what would my response ve to others when I tell them how the guy I'm courting with currently haven't kissed. I love how you added, how are ways we can glorify God together ! 🙌 love it !

  • @lechetimmie2593
    @lechetimmie25934 жыл бұрын

    This is the first time that I have come across any of your videos. I am not in a relationship at this moment, but this video really has great advice and will be very helpful for when that time comes around. Thank you so much.

  • @lislourenco8630
    @lislourenco86304 жыл бұрын

    Great message! Thank you. I should have heard this last week..😊. But I know that there’s still hope for me. God help me to be strong and wait on you.

  • @BAYBEET23
    @BAYBEET234 жыл бұрын

    Great nuggets of wisdom 🔥

  • @26nadz
    @26nadz4 жыл бұрын

    I am DONE I am not kissing or touching no man until we get to the alter because a girl is EXHAUSTED Lord I’m waiting on you! 😩

  • @kessacooper1663
    @kessacooper16633 жыл бұрын

    Great message Karolyne, hope you and your family are keeping well 🙏🏾

  • @juanpaolosandrino3800
    @juanpaolosandrino38004 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this! We're in a courting relationship and this vid reminds me a lot as a man. I need this. Thank you.

  • @mirthacarpio8514
    @mirthacarpio85144 жыл бұрын

    Sis just read me up and down.... talk about convicted 😭😭 thank you!

  • @fultch6717
    @fultch67174 жыл бұрын

    This is goals...it was really helpful

  • @ImeUdo-ObongMesoEx
    @ImeUdo-ObongMesoEx4 жыл бұрын

    Hmm Karoline..I am watching from Lagos, Nigeria..you definitely need a certain ammount of grace, power and ANOINTING to preach this on the pulpit in today's generation....

  • @herbertawudzi
    @herbertawudzi4 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!!! This is Powerful!!! Thank You so much for this light

  • @altoviseogilvie5122
    @altoviseogilvie51224 жыл бұрын

    Karolyne I love all of your videos, but this one is going in my Karolyne Roberts folder ❤❤❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Altovise Ogilvie hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @veecharlez6395
    @veecharlez63954 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Karolyne may the Lord continue to bless you and your family

  • @karolyneroberts

    @karolyneroberts

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @gracepirationmotivations8233
    @gracepirationmotivations82334 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video and your own struggles with your past. I love this

  • @oteikwufrancis1108
    @oteikwufrancis1108 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mrs. Karolyne. This is a very critical issue and many people are confused about what's right or wrong as it concerns kissing. Thank you for addressing this.

  • @shanea2392
    @shanea23924 жыл бұрын

    Wow!! I was literally just discussing this with a friend a couple days ago.

  • @karolyneroberts

    @karolyneroberts

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow!

  • @DoofanHiikyaa
    @DoofanHiikyaa4 жыл бұрын

    This is the best answer to this question I’ve ever heard. Thank you.

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Marriage dipped in blood MDIB hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @faithkumwenda6436
    @faithkumwenda64364 жыл бұрын

    I've always had this strong desire that it may not be right in a way but I couldn't back it up.. Thank you so much

  • @melaninhunnie328
    @melaninhunnie3283 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for summoning that up for me, I really enjoyed it🥰

  • @MpumiKMbonane
    @MpumiKMbonane4 жыл бұрын

    Karolyne, this was soooooo good ma

  • @stansilousnkawisi605
    @stansilousnkawisi6054 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the teaching....... God bless you

  • @JustyLynn
    @JustyLynn4 жыл бұрын

    You speak the word and back it up you have a new subbed. God is blessing you for this channel.

  • @nakaibaledamalie7409
    @nakaibaledamalie74094 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Karolyne for this message. God is using you to reach out to us. You have answered one of my questions. May God bless you abundantly

  • @TheFitChemist
    @TheFitChemist Жыл бұрын

    Amen to all of this! Well said

  • @m.a.williamson85
    @m.a.williamson854 жыл бұрын

    Well said! God bless!!!

  • @latashathomaa2712
    @latashathomaa27122 жыл бұрын

    Thank you soo much for this thank you for being transparent. This subject isn’t talked about as it should because it is a struggle or have been for so many Christians ❤️

  • @tendaimavhengere6857
    @tendaimavhengere68574 жыл бұрын

    Powerful message some good teachings thank you

  • @kaylyamba7070
    @kaylyamba70704 жыл бұрын

    You've helped me a lot I wish you could tell my fellow teens in my country

  • @ruthanne6002
    @ruthanne60024 жыл бұрын

    Why is this in my recommendations? What is KZread tryna tell me😭

  • @fashionista12rw

    @fashionista12rw

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ruth Anne oKAy soo my name’s Ruth, my nickname usta be Ruth Anne, & this is my reaction...sooo

  • @ayobamiomowunmipatrice-arc4613

    @ayobamiomowunmipatrice-arc4613

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol, IKR

  • @WatchingMyFigures

    @WatchingMyFigures

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ruth Anne facts lol

  • @nicolemulure

    @nicolemulure

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr😂

  • @ruthanne6002

    @ruthanne6002

    4 жыл бұрын

    YA GIRL UNCONVENTIONAL 😭😭😭

  • @victoriayates8765
    @victoriayates87652 жыл бұрын

    This is soooo good! Praise the Lord!

  • @DB_Prime223
    @DB_Prime2234 жыл бұрын

    You be Preaching rn 🔥🔥

  • @fabriziammanuli1672
    @fabriziammanuli16724 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff. God bless

  • @chevychelios4672
    @chevychelios46724 жыл бұрын

    No. Ephesians 4:27 and give no opportunity to the devil.

  • @chineloelizabeth6619
    @chineloelizabeth66194 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing all of this. I needed to hear them

  • @don-mily
    @don-mily4 жыл бұрын

    Wow I needed this powerful message 💪🏿thanks

  • @melisshalindsey4032
    @melisshalindsey40324 жыл бұрын

    Very godly advice. I wish I had insightful directives like this when I was coming up and even in the church. As it is said, “hindsight is 20/20.” I wish I’d known then what I know now. Just wanting to honor God with my life.

  • @alainyapi8273
    @alainyapi82734 жыл бұрын

    If a man truly fears GOD , even if you try to kiss him he’ll just push you to stop it . My brother and his wife before they got married she would try to kiss him but he would always push her away lol but today they are married oh GOD we are tired of seeing them kissing

  • @nimusiimapatience2099

    @nimusiimapatience2099

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow!! I had a dream when I was wth a man I normally dream about to become my husband bcse one time we were going for introduction at my parents' home and another day we were at th church I was in a white half gown wedding wth him and so many dreams of getting married to him SO I HAD A DREAM WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER ON TH BENCH IN THIS DREAM I WAS TRYING TO KISS HIM BUT HE TRIED TOO TO DEFEND IT , I WAS FEELING HIM I HAD TOO MUCH FEELINGS BUT HE REFUSED ME TO DO IT and then we continued having a conversation but I felt shame in th dream when he tried to defend it not to happen and even Wanted to inform him tht I dream him to become my husband but I did not tell him, then th dream stoped from there and this guy is a pastor. So my friends wht do u think about this ? Dont u think this man might be the the one God wnts me to be mine????

  • @alainyapi8273

    @alainyapi8273

    4 жыл бұрын

    KiddRogers see ? My brother and his wife stopped kissing too when they were not even engaged . It’s important to go beyond the carnal process

  • @gma904

    @gma904

    4 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful.

  • @zellesev1240

    @zellesev1240

    4 жыл бұрын

    wow this comment section and feed is rly convincing HAHA just had a conversation about it with a friend who is strongly no no about it and all that, while we were watching an online show... I didn't see it coming nor ever really thought about it. I guess I was left shocked and scared with how pushy he seemed haha it seems kinda deep in a Christian perspective hmmm

  • @ivarenetulloch9101

    @ivarenetulloch9101

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sml 😊

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR44 жыл бұрын

    This makes perfect sense. I got it now!🙌🏽Praise The Lord! Thank you beautiful!💞

  • @koley1723
    @koley17234 жыл бұрын

    This is serious 👌🏾. Love your channel! God bless you x

  • @priscillaxsafi
    @priscillaxsafi4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your transparency from that part 6:50

  • @rhakheltv4989
    @rhakheltv49894 жыл бұрын

    I was so amaze ...because i was thinking about this...Thank You holy spirit

  • @hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
    @hirtzlifechristianblogs92854 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @THEHOLYGHOSTCLUB
    @THEHOLYGHOSTCLUB4 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Your bible verses are a great tool here! I so much appreciate this video.

  • @destinynitunga1583
    @destinynitunga15834 жыл бұрын

    You are sooo blessed for telling the truth. I especially love the PART that we have the responsibility to BE AN EXAMPLE. The world is watching HOW WE LIVE OUR LIVES. Christians want to blend so much now . THAT IS WHY THEY EVEN RAISE UP THE QUESTION. NOW a Pastor even put it that way , IN DATING OR COURTSHIP YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED AND YOU CAN EVEN BREAK UP IF YOU are not meant for each other. SO UNTIL MARRIED YOU ARE BROTHER AND SISTERS IN CHRIST , KISSING IS INTIMATE it is not a hand shake. SO WILL YOU KISS YOUR BROTHER OR SISTER IN CHRIST that you are not married to???? CONSIDER YOUR TESTIMONY ... IN LOVE I AM CALLING OUT ALL CHRISTIANS-- NON MARRIED--- THAT WILL SLEEP IN HOTELS IN THE SAME ROOM EVEN IF ON SEPARATE BEDS... DON'T OPEN DOORS TO ANYTHING. CONSIDER YOUR TESTIMONY EVEN IF YOU ARE SUPER STRONG (YOUR SPIRIT IS SOOOO STRONG) IN LOVE GOD BLESS.... CAN WE UPHOLD STANDARDS INSTEAD OF DRAWING LINES CLOSER TO SIN.

  • @navycorpsman2007

    @navycorpsman2007

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's good stuff you wrote !

  • @behindcloseddoorsministries
    @behindcloseddoorsministries4 жыл бұрын

    Love it.. love it..love it!!💚💟💚I totally agree with this message, God bless you!☺

  • @myfit1912

    @myfit1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Eva Kelley hi I am a new Christian KZreadr come and learn more about god come and study his truth .

  • @behindcloseddoorsministries

    @behindcloseddoorsministries

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@myfit1912 hi there thank you I will be praying for you also.🙂

  • @karubuarmelgael9632
    @karubuarmelgael96324 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sister. It was highly helpful. I had that question (Kissing) and I was not finding scriptures to base on my position as a Christian. Be blessed. Thank you again.

  • @1takeee__614
    @1takeee__6144 жыл бұрын

    This my first time on your channel. and you touched on some amazing points .🔥🔥🔥 no cap you went in .

  • @LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv
    @LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv4 жыл бұрын

    Great message! Yeah it could lead to the wrong place.

  • @ednelson4759
    @ednelson47594 жыл бұрын

    I just love watching ur video's as you mean good to Christians growth.

  • @laneym5893
    @laneym58932 жыл бұрын

    This video was so helpful ! Thank you!

  • @loissarpong5621
    @loissarpong56213 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Karolyne. This video has been very helpful.