Should a husband clean ?? the honest truth | Loumed
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May Allah reward you for the vid ameen. Just like feminism ruined the women, the red-pill ruined the men
@lamiaislam1
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and misogyny ruined it all. May Allah soften our hearts to accept the true Islam and rid us of these damaging ideologies.
@TheHumi
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Every single thing he was saying I agree with 100% May Allah grant us with righteous and pious husband ❤
@mimistate2371
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your saying this like feminism doesn't have all the values of islamic text lol pls. women should be allowed to work, um ring any bells? the quran says the same exact thing. woman should be allowed to have a voice in intellectual conversations, also in the quran. women should be given the same education as men WHOS THE FIRST PERSON TO EVER OPEN A WOMEN'S COLLEGE? all of these feminist values stem from islam. the only difference worth acknowledging is women's choice to cover less. yall act like feminism is so bad but majority of muslim women are feminists and yall say it will pull us away from islam but you don't see us following some bloke (andrew tate) and comparing him to the prophet now do you? really the only thing that changed is now muslim women don't blindly follow their husband who has the ability to lie and twist the quran so it can fit his personal motives. now muslim women are educating themselves on their rights in islam and you can see that happening all around the world especially in muslim countries, mashallah. yall call feminism a curse because of the western view of it but you don't realize you yourself fall under the category of a feminist, because your to blinded by what the media says about it. hell, you just praised him for being a feminist without realising it. just because some random white girl has personally changed the meaning of a feminist, doesn't mean the dictionary definition of a feminist has changed at all.
@lamiaislam1
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@@mimistate2371 yes, they often forget that feminism is a response to misogyny and the rights that were taken away from women. a lot of these people believe that feminism and redpill/misogyny are equally as bad but that is just not true. misogyny existed way beyond the time of the prophet (saw) and Islam was a means to guide humanity towards restoring order and justice for those oppressed ie. women, orphans, the poor, slaves, etc. however, we as Muslims shouldn’t subscribe to either ideology as they are not infallible. Islam is the only truth we should hold ourselves to. we should acknowledge how feminism and other movements came to be, as well as take from the good and forbid the evil, but it’s better not to follow in accordance to it as a whole. your last point was that Ahmed was being a feminist by speaking out on these issues but really, he was simply being a Muslim as he was reinstating Islamic values. may Allah increase us in faith, knowledge, and goodness, as well as forbid us in corruption, deceitfulness, and arrogance. Allahu a’lam
@AnimatedIslamyoutube
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God bless your mother for raising a great man and your father for being a great role model 👏
@samiramerkhel3956
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Ameen
@s.ibraimi
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Assalamu aleykum.This is the point the mothers and the father's educate those people so how can they be educated in a great way when they don't have educated parents?.We ask God to make us educated and to raise educated children.Ramadan Mubarak❤🌙
Wallahi may Allah protect LouMed y’all showed us that halal love exists and practicing proper sunnah ❤❤❤ Allahuma barik
@hamsahalane7481
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Ameen
@aishabako834
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Amin so true!!!
Ahmed this is a form of dawah bro, you guys should make more videos like this for sure insha'Allah. May Allah bless and preserve you two as well as your family.
Every guy needs to hear this right now... there's this weird trend going around where men believe that being harsh to women is 'manly' (dysfunctional mentality at its best). In sha Allah men come back to the sunnah and stop following this trend.
@jamal22958
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Lol women love harsh men hence why they end up with them in the first place. Women generally in the west especially dont respect a man that doesnt have some form of toxic masculinity. Women say it themselves that they love bad boys. But they hate the bad boy treatment they get.
Aisha r.a., the wife of the Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.s., was asked, “What did the Prophet (ﷺ) use to do in his house?” She replied, “He used to keep himself busy serving his family (كَانَ يَكُونُ فِي مِهْنَةِ أَهْلِهِ) and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it.” (Bukhari) an easy answer to the question.
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Yes, thank you!! I’ve seen multiple videos on KZread about this topic with sisters and brothers debating for 1hr+. The Hadith is so clear it would put an end to the discussion in a second. SubhanAllah.
SubhanAllah, well said! What a world we live in, let us never forget that shaytan’s big goal is to tear families apart. May Allah make us of those whose hearts are soft especially towards our families 🤲🏼
@Firme001
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Ameen ya rab
@anushrighosh2202
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Ameeen
I understand why your mum called you Hakeem. You truly are. May Allah preserve and protect you and your family and grant this ummah more men that are hakeem and great leaders who adhere to the sunnah Ameen ya rab. The biggest thing though is I can tell your mother has raised you well. May Allah be pleased with your mum, may he bless her with a long life of happiness good health and ease and May he make her of his slaves most beloved to him. Ameen ya rab! This video was so very much needed. Much love to louisa and baby amanah too! Wassalam
Thanks for posting this! I think I lost sight of why marriage is important and hearing that you’re doing things for Allah’s sake is what I needed to hear to get me to be open to marriage again. Many thanks and may Allah protect, provide and grant you and your family the highest level of jannah ameen
Insha Allah my future spouse has this type of mindset. I think people forget that we already have the Sunnah as a way of life to follow till the final hour, these red pill/feminism/social type movements are for the non believers who flip flop their ideas with the times. May Allah SWT protect us all. Thank you for sharing this
I respect you when I see you clean bcs you help your wife and that's sunnah
Subhnallah, ive been saying this to brothers for a while now. May allah reward you, I feel relief watching this that someone is saying it correctly.
Everything you said was perfect, put my thoughts into words!! Do everything for the sake of Allah! And Allah will always support you!
Subhanallah I cried listening to this. May Allah grant those of us who are unmarried and married righteous spouses who will deal with us according to the sunnah. I have not found my husband yet, but listening to your 2 cents made me re-evaluate my relationship and dealings with my own family. May Allah make us the coolness of our families' lives.
Thank you so much brother for being realistic and understanding about this topic. I've also had a daughter a few months ago and wallahi if my husband was not helping me here and there with baby it would be really hard. Alhamdulilah he knows I can't have everything done perfectly any more and he doesn't pressure me for anything. I appreciated everything you said, allahuma barik. I hope your little girls doing good. May Allah keep you and family happy always 😊
Mashallah! Just the way you are to your wife and siblings say it all! And the fact that you and your brother recite diffrent Surah and translate the meaning of it say so much of what type of people you guys are💕 if I just told u the pain i get from so called muslim males, people like u would get disappointed especially because they are Muslims M..... and treat females like that. But what makes me even more happy is the fact that they will get their revenge from Allah!
Honestly Ahmed, such an important message to the youth and specifically the males. Thank you for this message 👍🏽❤️
may allah keep you all protected allahummabarik 💗
I’m so glad I’ve come across your page. Alhumdullilah for Muslims like you both May Allah protect you, your wife and child/ren and answer all your prayers 🙏🏼 this is a very honest and well needed video to post well done 👏🏼 Subscribed 🙏🏼
May Allah reward you and your parents for raising such a level headed young man. Mansha Allah
Well said Ahmed, Allahuma barik may Allah make the men in our lives kind , thoughtful and kind Allahuma Amiiin ❤️
Perfect perspective! So many fall into the hands of the creation rather than our creator. May Allah protect us all ameen.
This made me want to cry. Well said brother you speak the truth.
Uximubillahi I love both you and my sister's approach on matters. I am your older sister, 33, but you give me hope there are young Muslimimeen who have been granted hikma. I would absolutely love to speak to your mother and ask her how she's raised you boys to be this way. As a single mum to a 9 year old boy I need all the advice I can get! Your mum reminds me of my mum, a quran and Arabic teacher. A woman full of wisdom but she never had sons so she couldn't give me as much in this arena. Allah yahfathkom and I hope we meet in Jannah one day
So well said Allahumma Barik, love these kind of videos as well, I’m looking forward to it during Ramadan InshaAllah
Spot on!! This is so real and informative.
Personally I definitely will, I like a clean house and it'll be faster and cleaner if 2 people are helping on it daily/weekly, then pushing it all on one person, especially if my spouse also got a job, who am I to deny that because "Im working why should I help?"
Thank you for covering this topic. May Allah protect us all ameen!
ramadan mubarak loumed!! 🎉
May Allah swt reward you brother for speaking the Haqq 💯
May Allah reward you. I wish more people realized that there is so much wisdom in the Sunnah.
Very wise and like you said hakeem, allahumabarik. We need more muslim men with this mindset, may Allah reward you and bless both you and Louisa and little ammanah 🩶 Ramadan Mubarak!! And we definitely need more videos like this
BarakAllahu feekum very beneficial reminder, May Allah keep us firm
Nothing to say other than this was a much needed video. Alhamdulilah what a great topic to address..much needed Alhamdulilah
Maashaa’Allah excellent video. Looking forward to more in Ramadan. You and Louisa should start a podcast🙌🏿❤️
May Allah reward you akhi Ahmed. We need more videos like this. May Allah bless you and your beautiful family.
"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought." Quran surah ar-rum
Mashallah well said !! Strongly agree!!
I really enjoyed the talk, but I missed Louisa’s input on this matter haha!! I am looking forward to more of these kind of vids 😊.
Thank you for speaking on this topic. So many people on soicla media have used and abused this topic and given the incorrect perspective which has brainwashed the Umah. May Allah SWT reward your family and place endless barakah in all that you both do. Ameen 💙
I love this thanks for understanding us as a women.
Well said! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻bravo to your parents for such upbringing
Thank you for this brother ❤
I like the balanced approach this brother adheres to. When we don't stand on Islamic principals after studying them properly, we'll stand on the next agenda & recent trends blindly and wholeheartedly. The brothers with a balanced mind-set & by extension true students of knowledge, you will not find them staunchly gripped on red-pill. They stand on real principles, realistically principled & it works well for them.
I was watching that vid and was like man we need the buisir brothers in this pannel. Thanks for making this Jazakallah khair
I love this video, i feel like this is the perspective of real couples who actually care about eachother, alot of these red pillers either are unmarried incels or resent their wives. No one in a loving marriage would watch their partner suffer and not help because of 'gender roles', whether that means the husband helping in the house or the wife helping with bills!
Thank you - Alhamdulillah this is a balanced discussion
I have seen so many youtube channels talking about feminism and red pill. All these things i can say we would love to see more videos like this it actually beneficial for muslim brothers and sisters.
Baraka Allah fikom ya rabb May Allah bless and protect all your family
Great words..Allahumabarik
This was needed 💯💯💯
You guys are a beautiful couple ❤I love watching you !!!!!!
Allahumma barek. Thank you for practising the Sunnah! May Allah SWT bless your family
Jazak Allah khair bro for speaking the truth.
Perfectly said!
May Allah reward you abundantly for this video , ameen ❤
Masha'allah well said .....
Subhanallah an educated Muslim!
Barakallahu feek akhi for saying the haq and being fair to women and following sunnah The Prophet ﷺ said «إنما النساء شقائق الرجال ما أكرمهن إلا كريم وما أهانهن إلا لئيم» “Women are the twin halves of men. None but a noble man treats women in an honorable manner, and none but an ignorant treats women disgracefully He ﷺ said, «أَكْمَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا وَخِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ» “The most perfect believers are the best in conduct and the best of you are those who are best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi)
BarakAllah feek beautifully said
Allahumabarik, such a great video!
Well said! Ramadhan mubrak assalamu alaikum war rahmantuallah
amazing points Allahumma barik
The further we go away from the Quran and Sunnah, the more misguided we become. People are trying to find guidance from strangers when the Prophet ﷺ has already provided it to us.
Asalaam aleikum loumed family,i strongly agree with you ahmed .its simple agreement or wish for the husband to help his wife and if a wife love to keep the house herself and give her man rest since he's providing whole day at work ,its ok.but nothing to debate about or feel bad about at the end of the day this ability to work if we can't help now 🐜 will eat at end so may Allah bless all couples and give good understanding between them.
Machaellah Can you plz do more of such videos in wich you discuss certain topics especially about genders and marriage...
Allahumma barik well said
Allahuma Barek, I wish some of the Muslim men who spoke on the bitter truth show look and truly learn from your video. May Allah guide them 🤍
Allahuma barik, very good way to put it. The problem with our ummah now is people are either too liberal or too extreme because they’re scared of what others will think of Islam. As Muslims we speak the haqq, no matter what. Islam is the middle path we are neither extreme nor liberal. May Allah guide us all Ameen
Can't believe we even have to have this conversation. Do things for your spouse for the sake of Allah, even if it means a man cleans/cooks or a woman supports her husband financially here and there if she sees him struggling. It is called being in a partnership. It is as simple as that.
Allahuma barik love you're vids ❤️🤍❤️🤗
Wallahi I always wonder, do they not want love in their household? Do they think their wives will respect them more if they cant even sacrifice and help them when theyre lacking? So weird 🤨
allahhumma barik may allah protect u and ur beautiful family 💕🤲🏻
may Allah protect you and your family!
Masha'Allah Allahuma Barik 💯
May Allah bless you brother for sharing your thoughts
Well said اللهم بارك
Great point of view, your mom was right to call you that!
ماشاءالله تبارك الله ، أحسنت جزاك الله خيراً
Maaaan Allahuma barik may Allah protect you and Louisa and ammanah from evil eye wallahi you are such a precious family props to you mother and father for raising a man like you and your family believe me I lost hope of a righteous and beautiful marriage but when I discovered you guys everything changed no lie you guys give me happiness and hope ربي يحفظكم Pleaseeeee say mashAllah whenever you watch this family and DONT YOU DARE JINXING THEM AND I MEAN IT🙂😡
god bless this man may allah protect you and your fam from evil eye 🤍
I have severe OCD so I personally cannot handle a souse that cannot clean up after themselves and are disorganized . To each their own .
Allahumma barik
Allahuma barek lahum
Make this video viral 💯
This is beautiful. Agreed 100%. When the brothers are complaining, they are complaining usually about women taking advantage of them. That they are required to come home to clean even after paying 100% bills. What you have highlighted above is 100% correct in my opinion. The two extremes of men and women are the problem.
They shouldve added Ahmed on the show Allahuma bariklahu it was a good answer
May Allah bless you for this
Alahuma barek
may Allah protect you and bless your family.
Allah reward you and your parents, and grant them Jannah.
it's quite funny because a lot of young men are searching for an answer. I was looking for one too, but most people just go deep into the red pill content, yes a lot is true about the Western woman with no morals, but the same as Western men with no morals. They are trying their best to follow a subjective truth that society gives them, for me it made all sense when I reverted to Islam, I came from a Catholic background, but some family members are just atheistic. You see a big difference, a lot of divorces, no good role models for the children, and their kids will be miserable in relationships. When you follow the prophet (SAW) and follow the word of Allah (SWT) you will be guided the right way. Don't fall into the trap of following society's norm brothers and sisters.
We need more videos insha'Allah ameen 😊😊😊 baraka allahoe fee subhanallah
May Allah bless you both. It's heartbreaking to see Muslim men and women tear each other apart instead of working as a team and supporting each other and fighting against our true enemy which is shaytan whose biggest pleasure is to break marriages because broken marriages make broken individuals that lead to broken societies.
السلام عليكم What a lovely down to earth video. ماشاالله May Allah bless this br and grant him goodness آمين
May Allah rewards for this video more man should have this mentality
This is how you know someone is learned or not. What you're saying fits the description of in the books of fiqh and Mannerisms throughout history. Thr scholars have been saying this for centuries. It's a shame we look to others when we have Islaam and tradition of the sunnah. It's ridiculous
May Allah protect you and your family from all harm, may He bless you all and grant you all firdous.
MashAllah we need more men, hence husbands like you.
May Allah reward you for speaking according to the Sunnah and the Quran wich is the only true and the only one that matters