Literally, none of this helped her shopping addiction. This is literally the worst thing you could do to someone that has an addiction.

@angelikalaser7778

Жыл бұрын

First thing stuck with me when learning about hoarders is that getting rid of stuff won't help and may have the opposite effect on the people. Therapy is the only right way. Edit to add: getting rid of stuff without real consent, as it happened here in my opinion.

@Palestinian_holocaust

Жыл бұрын

Why baby her mentally illiness

@Lisa-di4ql

Жыл бұрын

@@angelikalaser7778 I totally agree. A home makeover does not fix addiction. I hope she gets the therapy she needs.

@zuzanaxyz8866

9 ай бұрын

The interior designer doesn’t understand hoarding even a bit. Her actions are counterproductive and I bet, that the young woman went straight to hoarding again, the minute they left the house. It has nothing to do with how pretty the home design is, hoarding is a mental condition/illness of (mostly) very sensitive people and this hoooray approach is a catastrophe for every hoarder. Doesn’t help at all, if anything, it makes it all worse.

@KoolT

3 ай бұрын

Not really. My sister hoarded shopped we had to force her because she fell and we couldn't walk around to care for her. We loaded it up . Gone ❤

Hording is generally a result of deep psychological issues. Usually it's a case of some form of trauma from the horder's past, which results in a need to have "control". That need manifests itself in hording. Forcing a horder to sell their material possessions and giving their home a makeover is like putting a band-aid over a gaping wound. It's solving nothing. It's a short term buzz and the hording behavioral patterns will soon return in spades. Ultimately, a decent therapist would have solved a lot more than a pre-packaged reality television show.

@rawyam

Күн бұрын

The way they're forcing her to watch as people take all her stuff isn't helping at all, like instead of making her feel like she's in charge as the seller, they're making her stand there and consent to people stealing her children away for ransom

& kept threatening her with “do you not want to get married”… well maybe not after this trauma

@lucialuciferion6720

5 ай бұрын

The 'we are going to have an arguement' line he said at 13.04 is a huge red flag. My narc ex said this all the time, and it was always my fault! I'd run if I were here, he doesn't seem supportive just expecting her to bend to his will.

@rawyam

Күн бұрын

Yeah like she shouldn't have to change herself to please him but they're acting like compromising is the ultimatum

no addiction informed therapy here

@angelikalaser7778

Жыл бұрын

Made me feel so sorry for poor Amy. 😢 I experienced same with a relative,she was shamed and pressured into purge half her stuff. She ended up filling the house up again and then some and getting bitter towards the "helpers"

@tomsdottir

Жыл бұрын

Clearly the intention is to provide 'entertainment' rather than to charge behaviour. It's the equivalent of removing all the alcohol from the home of an alcoholic and thinking that will stop them drinking.

Wow, they were so aggressive with her.

After that emotional pressure, the wedding would look like the last thing I would want. These people have ZERO understanding for Amy and her emotional state,This is the WORST thing you can do to a hoarder. And the remodel is just too dark for such small spaces. Not worth all her lost clothes :D.

New design was more junky than all that cheap shoes she collected.

As some one who has a shopping problem I can say getting out of debt and being able to spend with In budget is really satisfying u can do it

that reno left a lot to be desired tbh....the space is way to small for such dark colors

I think the reason she gets sad is that she sees selling as a loss where she has to part with an item as opposed to seeing it as a gain in terms of money return

I don't understand why people buy so much clothing, i have stuff from twenty year's ago i still wear, jeans especially. I will wear my stuff until it's worn out, i will even do some sewing , and then i just use them for shop rags when they aren't good enough to go out in public. G-d bless.

@zuzanaxyz8866

9 ай бұрын

And I don’t understand why someone drinks alcohol, smokes, swims across the Atlantic… We all are different and I personally understand Amy much better than someone who let’s say is an alcoholic or likes adrenaline sports or whatever… We all are different human beings with different emotions and different opinions on pretty much everything around us.

"I'm a vegetarian." "Amie's a vegetarian and I've put a cow on the floor." Sums up what is wrong with the entire show: Amie is a "problem" and so just a passive participant in her own life. Put that marriage on hold and sort out your issues, please, for the sake of yourselves, your future marriage, your future children. Dear Designer: slow down, pick up the people on the route, play nicely together.

He doesn't see a future but got that stupid tattoo? lol!

Cheap looking "makeover" looks tacky! Wasted their money.

Ouch the designer 😬

This video again? Why can't we get others that haven't been uploaded here?

Everyone needs new new new.

@KAdams-dr4pc

Жыл бұрын

Yep .... one day people will realize it doesn't take an abundance of items to live or to be happy. I learned that lesson in 2011. Best year of my life.

Fear of loss or grew up poor

Near Chicago. Neighbors converted spare bedrooms to closets. I don't get it. Tina, Al's wife

I dont know if shopping ruins a relationship i have never in my life neen taken on a shopping trip nut i would imagine it is fantastic but only if u can afford to do so i often have walked by the stores or looked at the beautiful watches or earrings nut as soon as they spot u window shopping they are right at you and as soon as u say i can not afford that they are cruel people to you

9:49 the average British woman has 39 pair of shoes. I have 20 pairs?

@Nightmareinthedark11

5 ай бұрын

Got not that many

If I we’re him I’d be very wary of marrying his partner. I wonder how they are doing now.

I am a maximalist but no hoarder😊

You can't have everything. Where would you put it?

@altanaeliza

11 ай бұрын

On the roof I guess