I have a beautiful beautiful marriage of 30 years that lm about to end because of juju.No one is going to believe what lm going through with someone who decided to join illuminati and my life is on the line😭

@Ruthie4j

4 ай бұрын

Wow God's protection over you ma'am

@ya12347

4 ай бұрын

Jesus madam divorce oooo, your life is important, Jesus will protect you. Your story is similiar with my mum that ended 21 years of marriage with my dad 8 years ago, we know what we are seeing but we can’t explain it to people because they won’t believe, like, who will believe a rich man is evil? I get you, run for your life madam.

@merrydienye5980

4 ай бұрын

That is ít, deep world, if you did not write this truth, no one would ever understand this truth. God bless and protect you.

@user-ho2qt1qh5v

4 ай бұрын

Run for your life my sister. You and your children will be protected by The Most High and Jesus is the Only Way to Salvation.

@anthoniaehikwe128

4 ай бұрын

😢

This is the first divorce I feel no human should have an input in; why?? Because they have gone through a life that most haven’t even thought of being in and if she says she has had enough then she has had enough💯. I can’t help but wonder if at her lowest (eyesight decline) she just realised who she was married to. For example, Wendy Williams left her marriage when everyone thought there was nothing Kevin could do to her that would ever make her walk away, mind you, I am sure cheating was never the problem but the outside child was the deal breaker. Every human has a breaking point and when the one person you have pardoned all your life break that point then freedom is permitted 💯 I wish mama all the best with her life 😘

@amarasarah9332

3 ай бұрын

You said it all. Well summarized

Their life, their decision. Couples don’t just go their separate ways for no reason. Some things must have gone on for a while before they got to this point. We don’t have those details. It is never too late to walk out of an unhappy situation.

@janebassey3943

4 ай бұрын

May be a whole hidden family emerged out of no where.. i mean a whole wife and children grand pa was keeping all these years. while the woman kept her status aside and worshipped her husband in full submission. not every woman can deal with such level of betrayal and heartbreak 💔 because seeing that man everyday will only succeed in shortening her life.hence she has to be alone. i wish them all the best.

@blessinguyi-omorodion753

4 ай бұрын

I am not happy about this news. This is too much.

@ngozinwankwo5051

4 ай бұрын

👍

@judeikeh8063

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@dorothyngowari

4 ай бұрын

​@@janebassey3943o

The Nigerian way of shaming single and divorce women makes some Nigerian women to live and sometimes kpai in an unhealthy marriage. It is never too late in any relationship or marriage for one partner to say enough is enough and get out of an unhealthy relationship or marriage. People, please wake up. Noone was created to be a doormat for the other in any relationship or in any marriage.

It's never too late to choose yourself.

@tanishanightingale

4 ай бұрын

That’s right! 🎉

@lilyofthevalley2248

2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯

My prayer goes to the entire family and things will work out within the family in Jesus name 💖 🙏

For a marriage that lasted this long to break there has been many hidden underlying issues and the children are in full support of the separation. Last year my aunt's marriage of over 38 years broke, the pain we felt was intense but it was surprising that my cousin's were actually in support of the separation.

@danielflorence7686

2 ай бұрын

Woww!

My mother is waiting for the right moment to leave my father after over 30 years. The notion that men change as they grow older is mythical, some men don’t change if anything some of them get worse with time. Choosing peace over disrespect, humiliation and inconsideration is better at a latter time than dying unhappy. It’s never too late to choose happiness than feigning happiness. I learnt a lot from my parents marriage and one of them being it’s better to actually be happy on the inside than showing everyone outside that you are happy but are actually dying on the inside. Most women from our mothers’ generations endured a lot in the hands of their husbands but God is gracious. I don’t support divorce per say but I know that leaving my father will give my mother the peace and integrity she’s deserving of as the hardworking woman she is. Don’t always place the value of a relationship on how long it’s been lasting, it could be lasting on abuse at the cost of one person. God is good

@Nwakaego_

3 ай бұрын

Good for your mom!!!👏🏿🥰 Tell her she has a supporter and that a stranger in the states is proud of her for choosing herself.❤

@danielflorence7686

2 ай бұрын

Kudos to your mum.... wish her all the best!

@irenebenibo6787

Ай бұрын

I can relate very much with this. I could have taken such a decision to back out of my marriage after 40 years too but something miraculously happened. He became sick and looked like dying. The fear of death and hell which he's heard severally previously became bare. He has been humbled by God and now I have peace ✌️. 😅. Genuine repentance changes people. Keep praying for God's intervention 🙏. Believe. My children suffered emotionally too but couldn't face their father's ..... All is changed now. With God, all things are possible.

@cathypenda8461

Күн бұрын

God is good but not everybody Will change even after sickness so… sometimes You have to go .

Neze, I love listening to you because you are not a blogger or even a content creator. You are an educator, will I say motivation 😅speaker or journalist. All these bloggers like. “ ewooo ewooo” or my “my people my people”, etc. Today they say one thing, tomorrow they say another thing complicating what they already said. I love to listen to you because you are not just chasing cloud but instructive and informative with clarity and genuinity. Blessings, love you and your beautiful family.

@gloryohia4836

4 ай бұрын

U are right about her dear

@emilyegerue73

4 ай бұрын

❤

@Chukwudi529

4 ай бұрын

Well said about her. She's my favourite.

@nelsielanzaderas3881

4 ай бұрын

Yes,its true,neze is everything

@graceyusufu8505

4 ай бұрын

👍

My grandparents were married for more than 50 year about 60 I think my grandma sat me down and said she regrets enduring in that marraige she suffered for the better part of it cheating that almost brought her death and a lot of other things she said assuming she left and went to school and picked up the pieces of her life early she wouldn’t have felt trapped with 9 children I felt a sharp pain in my chest as she narrated her ordeal nobody knows what happened sometimes it’s better to let go 😢

@flourishorji6681

4 ай бұрын

Hmmmmm

@candidtalkswithlauvena1835

4 ай бұрын

Grandma's experience sounds familiar 😢. I can relate with your grandma's story.

@chinyereibeh-ebeh2499

3 ай бұрын

The things women go through in the name of marriage just to remain a 'Mrs' is too hurting. Me, I left barly two years after marriage to keep my sanity and to stay alive. That has been the best decision I ever took in life. I would have long been gone from the surface of the earth if I had remained in marriage. Thank God for the decision to go my way.

@orjibaby

Ай бұрын

​@flourishorji6681 how far. I have seen your comment from 3months ago

If it's not working, if they unhappy, then it's better to go their separate ways!

I am Ghanaian living in Germany, I love 💕 you and your family too much,may God bless you and protect you ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@Beautybymoi1

4 ай бұрын

Me too in Germany 🇩🇪

@abaji3536

4 ай бұрын

​@@Beautybymoi1Germany is beautiful. Was there in the late 90s. But now living in the US.

@Beautybymoi1

4 ай бұрын

@@abaji3536 it is but now very stressful country now 😂😂!

@shokokrossi

4 ай бұрын

@ Evelyn and Beauty, Where are you in Germany? Which State? Thanks.

@Beautybymoi1

4 ай бұрын

@@shokokrossi im near Düsseldorf ( Nordrhein Westfalen)

If she had past away before now she would have been described as a “happily married woman “. Marriage is not meant to favour women. Her kids are grown so no reason to continue suffering in silence. Good luck to her.

@olujonzin

4 ай бұрын

She wrote a marriage book and so we thought all was well.

@nodogwu

4 ай бұрын

Yes it doesn’t favour women true talk

@erinma1238

4 ай бұрын

​@nodogwu what do you mean?

@canesugar911

4 ай бұрын

At all.

@emilyegerue73

4 ай бұрын

​​@@erinma1238 What @nodogwu Means is that, we live in a men's world. Especially as Africans Where women's voices are always blocked in a hole by men. And they do it unconsciously sometimes. But women still love being women.. and will want to be women again and again.

Madam Funsho Alakija has my high respect! This is what many women will not do, they'll rather remain in an ugly situation and continue to FAKE it out there, even misleading many. She's truly courageous and I truly wish her the best.

@osayanmon

4 ай бұрын

hmm, People will always find every way to still blame women shaa.. is it every man that can stand a woman's success? you didn't mention that.

It could be infidelity. I had an Aunt and uncle who were together over 60 years! About 5 years before that Aunt died, she answered a phone call from one of my uncles side chicks! She was shocked! I believe he hid everything so well that she didn't find out anything until very late in the marriage. From there she spiraled. She refused to go back to her house, she moved back and forth between 2 of her children's houses( she had 5 kids total ) and eventually dealt with dementia! Not long after all of this, she died!! It was horrible! My uncle felt terrible but it was too late. They never divorced but my aunt did permanently live with her children in her final years.

@tamiausten873

4 ай бұрын

Hmm, I was also going to add that sickness actually affects old people more: mentally. The fact that recovery isn't as fast as when they were young can be nerve wracking and coupled with infidelity, it's probably too much for her. I actually feel really sad.

@angelicakweku5293

4 ай бұрын

Love is indeed wicked!!!

@oma7698

4 ай бұрын

@@angelicakweku5293Love cannot be wicked! God is love. It is people who are wicked.

@olaitanolajide290

4 ай бұрын

How I wished she found more strength and other joys to live for.😢

@blessedone.3721

4 ай бұрын

Jesus,!!! I'm so sorry, I can imagine how heart broken, she must have been. What an animal in human form, some unreasonable cheating couple could be? Many people did not know that this body is just a vehicle. The real person is the spirit that no one sees physically. That spirit is directly from the thrown of God. It is very sensitive, and it is equivalent to the holy spirit, that God put inside of us. The moment that spirit is deeply wounded, which the physical body reacted as being hurt, that spirit flew away. The sensitivity reaction could be very high if the person hurt is never living a life of no comprising. Obviously, maintaining the boundaries of marriage according to that first day marriage instructions by the minister. It does not matter if it native /customer marriage or a white wedding marriage .Loyalty, faithfulness, love, and honesty are highly required.. People should be conscious that this earthly journey is just a moment. At the end of the day, everyone will stand to give account of all their work in this world. No, sorry, there.

Couples go their separate ways when one party keeps abusing the emotional stability of the other party. As one grows older, it's expected to drop old habits but when the case is otherwise, separation is necessary. I have seen a couple who separated when they were in their 90ties, because he found out all the children he trained and fathered were not his... Currently, one has left because of continuous abuse from her partner even with grand children, some men still misbehave. It's your choice to stay or leave. But for me, if a partner consistently misbehave in a union, it's better to leave and have your peace.

@nkondelisky5736

4 ай бұрын

When is no more love as from the beginning, trust, happiness, good communication in the relationship seeing someone else to compete the love which is no more active then that can be the reason/ divorce at that age.

Marriage should be enjoyed not endured. She deserves to be happy and respected after all the hard work.

@frederick205

4 ай бұрын

True🔥

@limfenyuykinyuy4861

Ай бұрын

Respected indeed. This is something that is underlooked. People think only the men need respect.

Life is too short there is no smoke without fire in her final decision. Being happy is what matters in life. there is no sentiment about this age, experience does not matter. I praise her courage! My mum is stuck in her marriage she is just there like living in the same house with my dad like a house mate with no commitment to each other. Leaving unhappy marriage is a personal decision; no one can make it for you not even your children or loved ones. I always believe what is not good for you walk away from it! Don’t care what people will say though it takes a lot of courage to do so.

Marriage is interesting. Unless two people merge and choose to truly become one, most marriages will have issues sonner or later. Peace of mind is important in life. And life moves by so quickly.

I am a Zimbabwean living in Canada 🇨🇦 🇨🇦...l luv you sis.

Thanks my dear, God please continue to help us ooo, it is not easy

Peace matters! Having peace by all means. If separation is necessary to have peace so be it.

Sending you love all the way from South Africa ❤

@sindi.h9225

4 ай бұрын

Here i was thinking im the only South African who loves and watches this lady😊

I like the way you started the episode with Folorunsho Alakija story and then mixed with other story... That's how people can stay and watch your KZread channel 👍👍

I AM LEARNING MUCH FROM THE COURSE. SO EDUCATIVE ❤

The fact it was 30 yrs and she was giving all those sweet stories doesn't mean it was marital bliss. It could either be it was blissful up to the point one or both weren't getting what they wanted . Or She could have been suffering and smiling for all these yrs waitingfor kid to be mature a d grown... we woman are known to put up fronts and pretend when things are not working in relationship.. infact the sweeter the story the more suspect the situation in the relationship.

Beauty and brains, much love nezevile

Even at 1000 years provided one is still in good Health and still have a good sense of reasoning he or she is bound to feel pains. A marriage does not necessarily have to dissolve because of physical abuse, there are other forms of abuse that hurts deeper than even a physical one. Nomatter how rich or influential she is, she is still a person and feels pains. A woman with a healthy self esteem will always find the courage to walk out of any relationship that saps her energy and this may include physically, emotionally, or mentally. To me, it is a lesson we should learn from that sometimes if it is not working then it is just not working! Let it go and find peace, if it comes back to you again and if your heart can take it, then enjoy it and if otherwise, move gradually or swiftly!

@luthandob

4 ай бұрын

I could not agree more. What has this super woman not done on earth? She is an Elite in all respect. I like her strength, intelligence and beauty. I am not going to downplay how broken she maybe. I wish it did not lead that way. But her happiness is key to her sanity. I believe it is for a good. Neze before we judge because we are quick to do so. If we could get a little tangible information about her respectable husband too. We maybe less bias in our comments. I know you will do that.

Divorce can occur anytime, because of the hardness of human heart

@janebassey3943

4 ай бұрын

yes its never too late to escape hell

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A reminder to single ladies desperate for marriage. Marriage is work and imperfect. You both will continue to evolve into new persons and must decide if you truly want to put in the work. Nigerian men also have been handed the right to bad behaviour because of this desperation. I hope people would truly look inward and evaluate their desire for a lifelong commitment.

@kasikwagoma6740

4 ай бұрын

@Seyi.O, I am not Nigerian, yet your comment should apply across Africa in its entirety. Marriage has been so overblown, that it is marriage and not education or self advancement that has become the ultimate goal for the girl child. Have you heard of the women only village in Kenya called umooja? It was founded by a kenyan masaai lady so fed up with the horrible abuse she suffered at the hands of not only her cruel husband, but the males in her masasi community(it is highly patriarchal) and the last straw for her was when she was raped by a group of British soldiers as she went to collect firewood and water(these demonic British soldiers have a training Base or shooting range in Kenya, close to where the masaai community live. After she reported this to her husband, he beat her up and then the men in the community beat her up so badly she ended up in hospital. African men who have ruined Africa, did not support this poor woman, but instead said she had brought shame on the community, just imagine this rotten thinking and mindset. When she left hospital she decided that she could no longer live alongside men, whom she thought would protect and defend her (trust me, had these soldiers raped any woman in Arab muslim north Africa, their base would have been blown up by islamist suicide bombers, even the British would have seen this coming, but they know blacks will do nothing and forgive them instead). That rape incident made her realise she actually didn't need men. She went and got a small piece of land and built her own hut because in masaai land it is the women who build the houses. Gradually other abused women joined her. No men are allowed to live there and the community is thriving so much, the men have become envious and jealous. They have tried many times to attack the women, but they ladies always put up a fight and chase them away. This lady proved that women can do things also, not just the men.

Neze, you are doing well,am recently glued to your channel.your annalytical skill is topnotch.Thanks for your very infomative and well researched videos.

The best story teller Neze.

Doing great dear...love you...

hi Neze, love your work as always! I am not sure whether my views are applicable to our own African contexts, but for some years now, I have spoken to a few women who I met in diaspora ending marriages after 27 years+. These women often say they get to a certain age and they start evolving, growing, but the men get to a certain age and they're done evolving (hence things like mid-life crisis). As a result of this, they find themselves in a situation where the woman has changed a lot and the husband is still the same. This often creates 'irreconcilable differences'.

Nezzy has come again. Not too far from home informant lovely lady 😂😂😂❤❤🎉🎉

Most times its wives who do everything for their husbands who end up heart broken, cheated on, abused. Its so unfair.

@janebassey3943

4 ай бұрын

true

@zainabinti5170

4 ай бұрын

Because those women are going against the nature ordain by God. The moment u provide for a man, he becomes imasculated. Therefore,He will go to another woman where he provides and feels like a man.

@aishaahmed4553

4 ай бұрын

Well, humans will always be humans. We do our best, pray for our spouse & leave the rest to God. In her case, its the man who will lose

@mosesadeoye7275

4 ай бұрын

What does he stand to lose ? Maybe because the woman owns everything. Only God is the right judge. The two of them know better than everyone. It is a family issue and it is better resolved in the family not here.

@Womanlikeme127

4 ай бұрын

💯

Thanks Neze, as always looking forward to seeing your videos. I don’t know what will make a couple that have spent almost half of a decade together separate. If they endured each other’s excesses all these years, then nothing should separate them, except it’s a life threatening issue. I pray and hope that God will touch them both to work through this phase.

@sose9601

4 ай бұрын

You are NOT to decide what should make a person decide to leave a marriage. Stop projecting what you will do unto another. She has left, You can stay,in the name of nothing should separate them,except it is life threatening. Pray for her and wish her well.

I'm addicted to nezeville channel. I hold my phone all day waiting for Neze. God have mercy. These 2 people should settle and co.e back together please. Divorce at this stage won't seat well but if it's the case of infidelity, they can separate. I don't excuse that because it comes with heartaches and untimely death....

Neze,u are so educative,and u are very interesting.

I was waiting for you to touch on this.

@CaramelFynessh

4 ай бұрын

Same .

@janebassey3943

4 ай бұрын

me as well

Wow, wow ,wow! I hope they see your video and decide with such a beautiful introduction they deserve to give the marriage another try!!!

Neze hmmmmmmm are you sure you can produce story tellers like yourself? I doubt o because you're second to non. My number one youtuber. Your grammars are all on point. All the lexis and structures are top notch..... Who will be like you???? I come in peace ooo

@sose9601

4 ай бұрын

It is hard until we start practising. The truth is anything and everything is possible to those who believe and take active steps to it.

That was a very respectful and unbiased coverage of the story.Unlike other social media personalities who jubilate over bad news, you seem to have a very balanced perspective on the matter.And your communication skills are at another level.We have come to learn ohh.Well done!!

God knows best! We pray the Lord God will speedily step in and settle the matter and receive all the glory in Jesus mighty name amen 🙏🏾

Hmmmm I was really shocked when I got to know about this news. God help the family

@GraceMbawuike-ew8ic

3 ай бұрын

Amen

Im first again for my favourite KZreadr❤

I totally agree with you that it’s never to late to pursue peace and happiness. It’s sad though. That they cannot reconcile their differences. May they both find peace

I believed they are coming back, it is all hallucination. They will come back, Gods willing. Please Mummy e gbesuuru je ooo

@sose9601

4 ай бұрын

Pray for her healing. That is where you should say ki Olorun gbesuuru je.

This reminds me of the 92 year old media tycoon who divorced his wife via email with 11 words! 😳 The wife said they had never fought except for small disagreements that are normal. She was given 30 days to move out of his property & was required to show RECEIPTS to prove that what she was taking belonged to her. 😮 A 99 yrs old Italian man filled for a divorce from his 96 yr old wife of 77 yrs after he found letters from an affair she had 60 yrs earlier. I think one can get a divorce at any point in their lifetime. Once a man starts thinking that he can abuse, disrespect & humiliate you because you are too old after 60 yrs of marriage and you can't go anywhere, you need to choose how & with who you want to spend your last years on earth with. As people get older, their time becomes very valuable. Achieving their goals before they die can push them into extreme actions. Also, Ending your life well and at peace with yourself, God & others becomes very important. Your legacy and what you want to leave behind and with who defines your decisions.

@sabinedouble07

4 ай бұрын

Beautifully said, very true🙏🏼

@user-lc9id9dq4h

4 ай бұрын

Neze my😂sister wonders shall never end, most men do not value their humble, respectful and hardworking wives, rather those men will be cheating excessively and humiliating their wives

I pray they resolve this and come back together to live out the rest of their years!

With this issue I can't think far. I don't know what or why they're getting divorced. But I know we'll hear the truth or reasons from you Neze some time soon.

Whatever happened they know better. I still love mummy Apostle Alakija. Thank you for being a role model

Growing older is a challenging transition. Particularly as one can not truly lose another. Many times, people assume that older couples are too familiar with one another to break up, but in my opinion, the reverse is true. Some develop excessive grumpiness, others disproportionate gloom, or behaviour and expectations that are almost hard to meet. Simply put, the goalpost move & nothing is a guarantee. Unfortunately, things change and sometimes the path to a happily ever after may involve a breakup.

So sad that they are separated 😢. The separation will definitely affect both of them deeply because they have lived together for so many years. May they find the grace to live apart. May they find some peace & happiness 🙏.

Maybe when you feel you don’t have much time left to live, you want to live authentically so no time for non value-added compromises 👀

News like this, is the reason I never post my hubby or our marriage on my one and only social media platform (WhatsApp). Let’s just be loving ourselves under our roof. The world does not need to know or see how we are loving and living. Maka, God forbid, mgbe o g’esu…. If the chips are down, all the lovey dovey you posted will end up being “wash”!

@okohogechiflorence1431

4 ай бұрын

Same with me😂

Neze oooooo………. Cruise realeased a video titled “ SHOULD MARRIAGE BE A LIFE SENTENCE “ it will be very interesting to share your views on the discussion they had cos I was so shocked.

Wow this story is devastating, i pray they will settle and forgive themselves, may God take control over this home.

I remember when she dethroned Oprah as the richest black woman in the world several years ago.l now she is #6 on that list. What an accomplished woman. All the best to her.

Peace of mind, respect. Hmmm

May God intervene in their marriage...

These are all speculations regarding reasons for their separation. We can only continue to speculate.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

You kind of look SIMILAR #NEZE

I enjoyed the class neze

This woman will not kill me she own the carpenter that make table

Me reading/learning how to go about my marriage by learning from people's mistakes 😊

Anything goes nowadays. Satan knows his time of destruction in this system is coming to an end. He aims to destroy as much as possible. The whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one!

@obn1459

4 ай бұрын

Janet you are very wise to have said this. I really appreciate your wisdom and insight into the real situation of things ...weldone you!

They should resolve it. These are people that I take as role model. Why divorce! Its not good ooo! I believe God will intervene and they would come together as one in the next few days from today. Pls Sir/ Ma, kindly reconcile the differences pls and pls! In love and on harmony nothing can separate your household. Pls also forgive each other just as God forgives us as written in the bible. Remain blessed Sir / Ma.

'Things fall apart, the center cannot hold' says the writer, let's give peace a chance. Let's stop interfering in people's private lives. With an intelligent woman like this, you should know that her actions must have gone through many stages of scrutiny before divorce became her final decition. There is no marriage in heaven.

Mrs Alakija and her husband just had their own taste of human imperfections. No perfect marriage anywhere. With understanding and being able to forgive each other, marriage can last longer. However, if it is not meant to be forever, when the time comes it will definitely crash land and nothing anyone can do about it. I wish them happiness for the remaining years of their lives.

@sose9601

4 ай бұрын

My sister, Until you walk in someone's shoes,don't teach them how to bear their burdens. You sound very judgemental.

The reason why she wants divorce is that she must have discovered that higher husband has a child house the marriage so that the child outside will not get anything from her wealth.

At a certain age in one’s life, you need a peace of mind in order to continue a meaningful life./living. This applies to both men and women , as we can see money is not everything. There has has to be a long existing problems in the marriage she could tolerate or suppress in good heath that one can no longer in failing health . Women go through a lot in marriages especially in Nigeria specifically in those days when divorce was viewed as somewhat of taboo , people were willing to stay in undesirable marriages and

As for me, it's their business and their cup of tea

@hariethjohn1729

4 ай бұрын

It can happen to anyone

INTERESTED

Who are we to determine if and how people should handle your personal lives ?

This is one of the many marriages that some people will envy. The crashing of this marriage carries a number of questions to which answers can hardly be found. Infidelity, jealousy and other "external forces" are likely to play some role.

I wish her a speedy recovery.

After so many years of marriage ,something that they could not work through I believe would have propelled them to this point.

Their life, their happiness, their peace of mind, their sanity, rheir decision. Its never too late to leave an unhappy relationship. Violence is not the only reason to preas the delete button.

Nezenwa how much do I need to pay for the master class?

I am just lost for words, Neze!

God help this family....

Though as for me all I read from above it's meaningless on my heart because.at 50yrs of marriage what else remain that break heart and then results to Divorce again just forget everything and move on peacefully Thanks

My grandparents wasn't like that they was together for a long time until they both passed away separately why do people feel money is overpowering than a relationship she must be a good mother and he was a good husband and that's crazy how people put their business out there to spokespeople and not think of how it will feel to them

Thanks for this update. You know. I found out that African men find it belittling to support their wives when they fall sick. Could it be part of it. What on earth would bring them this far. At the very advanced stage in life. I wish them well.

@tamiausten873

4 ай бұрын

Hmm, I have never heard this before but I'm not surprised. I know the illness has a huge part to play. I'm watching a series where an older character is sick and she's extra cranky: at first she begged the nurse to cover her face with a pillow. She had a stroke all of a sudden and she felt her life was over. Old age is actually not easy, life has changed mostly for the worse in terms of health and agility, for someone who had been influential and powerful (she seems to have aged well too) the thought of having bad eyesight is probably a lot: she's probably moody all the time. I pray God sees her through anyway. Life no easy at all, even for billionaires.

@oma7698

4 ай бұрын

“African men?” Whatever you found out, on what basis do you generalise it to all the men in the 54 countries of Africa? Even in your country alone, do all your men think and act the same way?

I honestly do not know what to think. I wish them the best.

They have tried for 50years. if they can't continue they should go their separate ways .It's unfortunate this is happening when Mama Fola Alakija's sight is failing her .The African society especially Nigeria naturally and culturally dislikes,spites and talks down on financially successful women.If you like die on the cross for a man it is never enough respect.There is already a negative picture kept in their minds waiting for the right time to spill. They naturally battle with complex challenge, even if they pretend to support you through life.Its a dysfunctional, cultural mentality.When anything goes wrong in a marriage where the wife is more financially empowered, she is always blamed. Let's leave this matter,they both have accomplished a lot in life.They must not end life together

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To me, this is a great life lesson. I don't pray or wish this but learned that : It's never too late to move on once things just don't work out. Choosing peace all the way. Divorcing does not mean we are en'ne-mies.

The unpleasant situation that comes with the said separation may just be far too higher than what the two can live with at this stage of their lives. They will sure come together as ONE again.

So sad to hear, menaupause and Andropause can cause a person attitude to change a little,why are they divorcing at this age😢😢🇬🇭

I watched such kind of situation at Divorce court in America and the Judge refused to grant the wife what she wanted because of the grandchildren and advice them to go back and start have quality time as they started in their youthful age. Travel around, have fun, have a date night every which and just be happy for themselves and everyone around them. I thinking the judge will grant the divorce but she was wise enough and say at what age, what example are they passing to the grandchildren? I hope they can both have good marriage counseling.

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Neze, you and your big mouth sef! Ha, every story you will suyarize it putting onions and pepper. It is almost like being in a trance listening to you, extremely good storyteller. Wish you well. Are you married though because you are moving your hands too quickly I can't see if there is a ring on it. Please confirm...waiting....

No matter what mama is passing through, my prayer is that God almighty should intervein and give both of them good life and sound health to come together and eat d fruit of there labours in Jesus ' ame. I love the woman she is so loving and ready to put smiles into people's llives. Mama pls forgive and forget your God will fight your battles for you pls, and heal ur inner wound that nobody knows and restore whatever is dead in ur life pls pls mama and baba come back together. You gave my grandchild life without knowing us from Adams and mama you spent millions upon millions on d child and never want me crying because of this child since this story going round I never stop praying to God to intervein. And keep asking God why are they both having this issue at this time. But God will sure put an end to d crisis and put the devil into a shame. I love d family as one. Because dey are loving especially d mama.

She's Mt role model whatever went wrong must be from her husband bcos not minding hwr status she ended it there and didn't let anything come in between them.is it at this old age that they have to stay apart when this is the time they need each other's company God will direct their paths

Its not like before anymore... irrespective of age , women are increasingly choosing peace of mind & their mental wellbeing over drama.... I wish them all the best

I wish them well.