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She was married for 19 years. New man should make at least $100K. 12 min mark things got awkward.
She was married for 19 years. New man should make at least $100K. 12 min mark things got awkward. She reached out to a guy from my show and he sent her a message he sent to all the women.
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She’s in her 50’s?? What youth fountain has she been drinking from???
@buffalo.blackk
Жыл бұрын
Her arms are flabby and her boobs are droopy. Hard pass. Why do 50 year old women think they qualify for an ambitious man? If I’m 47-60 and I’m ambitious and doing anything in life I’m dating women in their 30s. This is the problem when women get to pick heir own mates. She’s a bust-down for old heads at this point. Now she’s going to trick off on some impoverished African dudes. Sad how pitiful all these old single women look. Sad indeed.
@4656superman
Жыл бұрын
definetly still looks nice,
@Veronica-dc5ms
Жыл бұрын
@@4656superman , I agree ~ whatever she’s drinking I want some
@dionthornw9838
Жыл бұрын
@Veronica-dc5ms probably because certain people look good up to 61, after that gravity handles you if you aren't in shape..
@Veronica-dc5ms
Жыл бұрын
@@dionthornw9838, I’m also curious about the aging process of Asian women ~ they could be in their 40’s and look 20. There was a documentary about it that I have to research again….
She looks so beautiful I would not have guess she was in her 50's.
@brielax4441
Жыл бұрын
Very beautiful Sista
@nmmboy
Жыл бұрын
Facts 👌🏽
@lupavo1738
Жыл бұрын
You're right, she looks like she in her 40s at least, but she does have the mindset of someone in their 50s.
@factlife2.o270
Жыл бұрын
But she is still delusional at 52
@mztisfeisty8024
Жыл бұрын
I thought she was in her 30s.
She was practically drooling over Dwight. He hit her with the “Thank you for applying but we’re going with a more qualified candidate”. If he was interested, he would not have sent you the rejection template.
@beemonique8466
Жыл бұрын
Lol😂😂😂😂
@chancexthexchief
Жыл бұрын
meanwhile she’s happy she even got that lazy ass message & really thinks he going to “reach out by the end of the week” 💀
@shennarice5749
Жыл бұрын
Yep 🤦🏾♀️
@mabele7014
Жыл бұрын
You nailed this response
@sakpase88
Жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😭
Sounds like he cheated on the first wife with her, and then cheated on her with the 3rd wife! 😂
@JustBree716
Жыл бұрын
Listen I wanted Kendra to ask if she knew if the husband was a cheater before she married him. My son father is a cheater and he's been married 4x's now. Twice to one woman. And I have to wonder if they bother to ask or care. I think most times they don't but that's just my 2 cents😅
@nmmboy
Жыл бұрын
Lmao that sounds about right 😂
@omgimover4075
Жыл бұрын
💀💀💀
@abdoumassah
Жыл бұрын
She will find a man in africa if she’s whiling to give up that green card
@cecilemorton8109
Жыл бұрын
Right🤦🤔
Thank you Kendra for holding both men and women...... ACCOUNTABLE!!!!!
@brandonbrown6918
Жыл бұрын
23:35 is priceless 😂😂
She’s gorgeous! I’m 48. She’s 52. People in our age bracket have met, married and dated people in our community, schools and work places for ever. The internet shit doesn’t work. Focus on people you actually know or have access to. Not people you see online. We gotta get back to the REAL. From 2010-2023, how many solid people have you met online and had it actually go somewhere??? 🤦🏾♂️
@perdybirdie
Жыл бұрын
I'm 28 and tired of online dating. I want to meet my spouse in the outside world bc I've tried online dating for years and it's never worked.
@kamkam4571
Жыл бұрын
I agree. I don’t even like social media because it’s NOT REAL. Nothing like face to face interaction and creating real memories. Honestly, if you’re attractive and friendly you will meet potential mates.
@Blueberry_muffin42
Жыл бұрын
Whew! You ain’t lyin!
@Blueberry_muffin42
Жыл бұрын
I’m not even on social media anymore. Over it
@jrock7561
Жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous? You gotta have some standards bro. But to each their own.
I think Jackie is a good woman. The way she interacted with Kendra without becoming defensive/argumentative shows a lot about her character. She's also beautiful and vibrant.
@LOSTGPS
Жыл бұрын
as a man, she seems like a headache to me. Being "very" opinionated is a masculine trait and she has trust issues. She's also fixated on a man that's not even feeling her. NOPE buy a cat!
@candorsspot2775
Жыл бұрын
She was argumentative. She just wasn't belligerent and hostile. With that said, she's a reasonable catch, but she's here reaching out for a man who is clearly not interested.
@KeepinItOneHunnnid
Жыл бұрын
She does look good for her age, but she's still in her 50s, soooo... 🤷🏾♂️
@lordtrill7731
Жыл бұрын
Date her then🤷🏿♂️😂
@stevenharris1460
Жыл бұрын
Then you date her. We good.
As a 6'4, black man, women legit put us on a pedestal and will give us 10k passes compared to a short man. It's nuts. I've been on dates were some just rag on short men 90% of the time. Tall men do not have to work as hard. My 42 year old, 6'5 brother with 15 kids proved that. 😂😂😂
@evaphillips2102
Жыл бұрын
Being tall is like having pretty privilege. I hope your brother made sure all those kids are aware of each other.
@slangtang6671
Жыл бұрын
They will tell men they dont shit on them tho 🤣
@perdybirdie
Жыл бұрын
That's why I don't care about height and prefer men between 5'9-6'0. They're more humble and less competitive lol
@Rightousbleavher
Жыл бұрын
Sad reality…
@alp.9672
Жыл бұрын
I'm only 6'1" man If I was your height or your brother I would need to be NBA.........
Her hair, style and complexion are on point! Her clinging onto those who aren't clinging onto her are red flags tho. Best of luck!
I am so glad Kendra called out her mess! This is an issue across the genders. Women find a man physically attractive and will put up with his nothingness and his disrespect just because he looks good beside her. Men go after the woman they find physical attractive and when they get dogged out then suddenly all women are the problem. People are shallow. Period! That shallowness guides decisions and this is why some men and women keep finding themselves in the same type of situations. But these folks won’t admit that they’re the actual problem in their own life, they’ll instead say “men ain’t sh!t” or “women don’t know what they want!” Well he’s been not sh!t and you’re not so special that he’s going to change. She does know what she wants and it ain’t you.
@digigum5996
Жыл бұрын
I honestly have to agree with all of this. Shallowness has ruined dating and marriage, but we all looking for arm candy.
@maxxpopp2373
Жыл бұрын
I mean you are right. I don't have any old boyfriends except a guy I went out with for 3 months after my husband died 25 years ago. I learned real quick that sumbody can claim they are sure they want to date you 1 moment and not sure the next. Thing is, I knew I didn't like him like that anyway and was just doing it because he asked me out. I got what I deserved in that case. My whole life I've never cared for having boyfriends. All through my highschool years, I would only be friends with guys. It was never a priority.My senior year i fell for a guy that I married after my 1st year in college. We were married 10 years B4 he died. We had 1 child. But I never dated again except them 3 months I mentioned above. I'm in my early 50's now and I still don't date. I've always had men wanting to do all sorts of things with me and for me. But I've always been happily single, choosing who and what I do. But I know everyone isn't like me. I just can't imagine being at the mercy of waiting in line with thousands of other women for a man to choose if he wanted to talk to me. But he sends me a printout of what he wants in a boo. If I'm not it , don't bother, but I'm still being hopeful. These women are Looney AF if you ask me. Low brain power!
@sheriharris7635
Жыл бұрын
@@maxxpopp2373 couldn’t imagine it, never have done it, and better not catch my daughter or son being so dusty. I’m on the older side of the millennial generation and like I told my husband, we’re becoming the parent generation. Where did we and our parent generation go so wrong that these youngsters coming up can’t manage relationships? Well here it is. This woman is in her 50s and willing to deal with this mess. How would she teach anyone any better?
@FaithandPurpose828
Жыл бұрын
What I read from your comment....blahblahblahblahblah....
@sheriharris7635
Жыл бұрын
@@FaithandPurpose828 you read it, got the message, and felt attacked. Do you and your struggle. Makes me no difference.
After 3 yrs of doing the show KendraG has really learned so much about men & women. I really appreciate her telling women straight facts. It's the way we should all do our friends. Especially women in the sisterhood. Friends don't let friends waste their own time & gas them up with expectations that aren't realistic.
@1232N
Жыл бұрын
What did she set straight in this episode?
@TheCakediva08
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@lakeishag76
10 ай бұрын
Yeah, you can definitely tell the progression in her some of opinions. I appreciate the feedback she gives.
@Postc0ital_mal0ne
10 ай бұрын
You'd think she'd be off the market
@thinkman2467
6 ай бұрын
She definitely cuts through most of the typical wmn double talking nonsense. Which for a modern career wmn is nothing short of a miracle. Once she drops the what's your sign nonsense, she'll be as reasonable as a wmn in her position can be.
She keep saying “I receive it” but steady trying to justify it. 😂
@MichelleWilliams-rd4is
Жыл бұрын
U ARE ABSOLUTELY SO RIGHT 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🤭🤭🤭🤭😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯
@texasaggieinorlando2396
11 ай бұрын
She will keep waiting for a guy like other Dwight instead of the guys who want her. That is why she will probably stay single because her standards are so high.
@glynisgibson4933
12 күн бұрын
KG, dont want to be the loser in her interview..
Girl, your hair is beautiful and healthy!! Thank you for NO BONNET Sis. I wish you the best of luck.🙏🏾👍🏾
If a 50+ year old says "i got my lick back" leave her in the streets 😂😂😂... she is very clueless too, kendra is realizing the crazy shyt thats going on lol
@nneenaa6343
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@RahYisrael99
Жыл бұрын
I couldn't believe she said that.
@Intentionaltia
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Jmaury-iv9te
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@KingDavid0501
5 ай бұрын
Right...she said she wants a loyal man...she is not loyal herself...just cause he cheated doesn't mean that you have to do the same...just leave!!!😮
She’s 52? Omg I thought she was her in 30s
@thebestchannel5456
Жыл бұрын
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@ThisIsWar_B1_FBA_ADOS
5 ай бұрын
😂 I thought she was in her 20s because she said, “she got her lick back”. Grow up ma’am.
So many women are willing to wait in line for "that dude." I'm glad Kendra told her that cut and paste message should let her know she's not an option. She's in the same age group as my mom, so this was so interesting to see. I didn't realize grown people put up with that kind of shit...
@sheilae.9670
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I absolutely agree with you
@itypethetruthnobshere8975
Жыл бұрын
when you desperate you will do anything. There isnt an age limit for anything. I dont get why people dont realize that. What exactly should "grown people" act and do? Is there a standard?
@candorsspot2775
Жыл бұрын
Lol they don't wait.
@Fabrizio7171
Жыл бұрын
@@itypethetruthnobshere8975 I believe where they are getting at is that we had ages in the past where people would get ridiculed for living a certain lifestyle after a certain age. It’s actually what’s missing in todays society . Like are you gonna go out every weekend ,get sloppy drunk , suck dick in the club bathroom while hoping a trazillionaire grabs you out that situation for the rest of your life?
@slangtang6671
Жыл бұрын
I mean they dont want a broke or average man so they might as well compete or wait in line for the highly desired man they want. Does every lady think they will get the guy they want ? 🤔
She actually seems like a good person, and she looks good and takes care of herself. I like her.
@jenkericj
Жыл бұрын
I agree but like KS said Nurses are the worst.
@buffalo.blackk
Жыл бұрын
You’re a dork, bro. You simping on a 58 year old single mom who’s thirsty for another man. She spent the last half of the conversation talking about some dude named Dwight who wouldn’t date her. And she said she has trust issues from past relationship trauma. And she’s willing to cheat on her husband. And this adds up to a good person and you like her??!! What hell. These dudes like Lucas take simping and whole new level.
@gregb1374
Жыл бұрын
Yeah she's attractive. But she lost me at the I cheated back (got my lick back). Nit only did she revenge cheated, she wanted to keep her marriage and lost. Lost the husband and obviously the man she cheated with didn't want her either.
@serious7179
Жыл бұрын
@@gregb1374 I don't understand the revenge cheating either. If my husband cheated on me, he will be out of the house and there will be no coming back. I don't know why women tolerate a cheating scum bucket.
@itypethetruthnobshere8975
Жыл бұрын
idk what yall are seeing. I see a head full of messy nappy hair, darkskin and big glasses
Whew...she got on my nerves claiming she didnt know the dude's name. Girl, bye! 🙄
@MichelleWilliams-rd4is
Жыл бұрын
OKURRR 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🤭🤭🤭🤭😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💯💯💯💯
@Ev-rd2lw
Ай бұрын
Simple, Log off
People really need to know what and what not to say online. What man will take her seriously knowing she cheated back on her husband.....
@yournamemustbejealousy2062
Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story, don't cheat on her because she will do the same to you.
@vendeverous886
Жыл бұрын
@@ajt8967 I believe one day she will look back and regret that she didn’t just take it and stay in her marriage.
@elroy1rose139
Жыл бұрын
@@ajt8967 that's wat happened when you choose the wrong guy. Now you'll never know what it feels like to have a man who truly loves and respect you as a woman 😊
@SofeeYAH
Жыл бұрын
@@vendeverous886 genuine question, not arguing, i am very curious: would you stay with your wife after she did back what you did to her? in other words, if your wife cheated on you, would you stay in the marriage?
@Magnolia3720Slim
Жыл бұрын
@SofeeYAH I knew this question was coming! 🤣🤣🤣 When are you women going to realize that you're not built like us, so can't do what we do and it be looked at the same
Kendra, you won me over with this one. She is in que, and she wouldn't give the guy that is pursuing her time. You opened her book and she didn't realize it until you said something.
@brandonbrown6918
Жыл бұрын
23:35 is priceless 😂😂
She looks amazing for 51 years ❤
This woman NEEDED TO BE RIGHT so bad. She was arguing with Kendra too damn long.
@TyWerks
Жыл бұрын
facts
@bombay3201
Жыл бұрын
She received that lol
@TyWerks
Жыл бұрын
@@bombay3201 🤣🤣
@jrobinson39
Жыл бұрын
That wasn’t an argument. It was Kendra digging into trying to figure out what the woman wanted lmao
@jay4341
8 ай бұрын
@@bombay3201gawd damn I hollered 😭😭😭😭😭
Pro tip for women: If you're on a dating show looking for a man, don't voice your interest in another man publicly. The type of men that you want, the successful ones that already have options will put you at the bottom of the list.
@citrustaco
Жыл бұрын
It's really not about other men having options, but what you actually want. If a man was on here looking for woman, then at the end he's thirsting over another woman he saw on the show, talking about how he wants to be with her, no sane woman is going to want to talk to him now because he's made it very clear what he truly wants. Doesn't matter if the other woman (or man) has options. The person calling in isn't focused on the person who might contact them.
@citrustaco
Жыл бұрын
This woman is attractive, fit, and has good diction. She hits a lot of checkboxes for what men are looking for. But she's going to turn down a lot of good men over a fantasy.
@beemonique8466
Жыл бұрын
That's why she was hesitant to give his name.
@janine7185
Жыл бұрын
I think she came on the show, just to get his attention. Her energy around Kendra's questions about a potential was lack luster and like she made up something, anything.
@blacklegacyentertainment5757
Жыл бұрын
I only make 50k a year and Im not even interested.
Maam the market you left 19 years ago isn't the same market
@reeree5748
Жыл бұрын
😩🤣😂
@tammy2839
Жыл бұрын
I no right times have changed since 19 teen years ago
@R.Yvette.X.
Жыл бұрын
It's not a market anymore. It's the gazelles and the hyenas.
@beedubbya2278
Жыл бұрын
@@R.Yvette.X. omg lmbooooo
@wjohns911
Жыл бұрын
You prefer her to stay in a marriage where she is getting vm cheated on is wwwiillldddd
I'd recommend women her age let go of the 100k salary requirement. If the man is making 80K and his kids are grown, he should have plenty for discretionary spending.
@cecilemorton8109
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@mkmeabeliever
Жыл бұрын
LMFAO! You make that sound like 80K is avg when it's not. 54K is the avg median income in AMERICA. Plus BM don't avg 54K. Good luck to her. 😂
@SunshineKK99
Жыл бұрын
@mkmeabeliever Yeah, but in your 50s, you should have been working for at least 30 years by then. So that $54k average is for grown grown BM?
@mkmeabeliever
11 ай бұрын
@SunshineKK99 NO BOO! Stop it! Y'all just regurgitating social media "talking points". Numbers/Data don't lie.
@judahdash2807
2 ай бұрын
How dare u tell someone what their requirements should be😂 more than likely you are a man & ya'll see 5- 30min clips of women & come to the dumest conclusions ever then have minions following u with a upvote👍🏽 smh See u don't know this woman or the next which mean you don't know her value of worth I'm not her age but u should know this day in age a woman that age 90% have grace respect & less 🐈 miles will support encourage will not talk dw to a king more than helpful in many ways no interest in running the streets & that alone is rare u think having a 30 yr this day in time is more valuable u don't get out much u thinking a 20 yr old should more likely to ask for 100k is rt !!! crazy work see my friends will take your 100k & spend it on the next 🥷🏽😂 and will so b4 u put a lady dw for asking for her worth just know another woman my age has to figure out what to do with that cause at this age I want a wild toxic excitement on the road🥷🏽 and if he give me 100k me & my girls gonna get hair & bottles in vip & yea spend it on the next one so play it safe & watch what u say of course I have respect for myself but I'm just saying I know she's more together & rounded or whatever who are u to say she should ask for less cause of her age ......and I'm only saying that because my sister is her age & we are totally diff just to show u men are weird & don't know us sad but go give your money away idc & if your a woman your a hater for sure be honest
She didn't receive what was expressed. She brought him up in hopes he would see this so he could possibly respond, lets be real. If he does, by some chance hit her up, she would obliged. She threw herself out there so much, he could probably hit. I don't have the highest self esteem but even I would remove myself from the flock if I received a automatic reply😂 NEXT CASE(khia voice)
@brooklynforever1990
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely he’s clueless
@bobbym1799
11 ай бұрын
Facts
@ExtraterrestrialBeing-jc7to
9 ай бұрын
90% of women are chasing %10 of the men
@VendieSolde
3 ай бұрын
Spot on!
Dwight a post wall unwed 3x baby father sending copy & paste messages like a HR recruiter is what these women are going crazy for?????
@thelessons3768
Жыл бұрын
No. It was a pre-written "reply" that he stated it was pre-written for respect to reaching out to him because he got tons of messages.
@bruceleroy838
Жыл бұрын
Excuse me men don’t hit the wall. That’s a female thing
@loyalandkindsunshine3382
Жыл бұрын
@@bruceleroy838 Everyone "hit the wall" to the opposite gender.
@Ms.Carter90
Жыл бұрын
😂
@njpme
Жыл бұрын
City Boys up!
This conversation near the end is awesome, is literally shows the truth about dating women of today, and the lack of listening skills. This is the most real conversation I heard in years.
@chancexthexchief
Жыл бұрын
i felt the same way & this doesn’t only apply to women b/c every person at one point or another are partly responsible for not getting the life they want SIMPLY b/c they’re holding on to relationships that don’t serve them, holding on to people who don’t want them, holding on to bad habits that keep the great people away & holding on to unrealistic standards that will leave them alone! love this show b/c i get to learn more about others & myself
@chillycharles910
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This conversation really needs to happen more.
@NurseHancockAndFamily
2 ай бұрын
Wow! Kendra is so smart! Ladies, regardless of age, skin complexion, whatever, you have options. Trust me, I know…
Kendra realizing a lot of things men say about some women is correct about attractive men getting away with shit other guys can't.
@LOSTGPS
Жыл бұрын
yep but most women would never get it because they're not speaking to countless women every night.
@R.Yvette.X.
Жыл бұрын
Attractive Women get away with shit other Women can't, so it balances.
@buffalo.blackk
Жыл бұрын
Shes old. Masculine aka “opinionated”. And she’s delusional thinking at 52 she’s gonna get a man that’s attractive to her and ambitious.
@LOSTGPS
Жыл бұрын
@@R.Yvette.X. not really because those attractive women are with men every other woman wants, theyre not dating average guys.
@tippy06
Жыл бұрын
I've also heard men say they would put up with more for a very attractive women
She looks every bit of 37
She really takes care of herself! She looks great! And she has good vibes! I wish her luck! 🙏🏿
Kendra done flipped this entire interview on Jackie!!! Lordy!!!
@LadyK007
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
She got an automated message and counted that as an actual conversation 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂…… I can’t put enough laughing emojis at how that sounds…. Beyond stupid
Wow momma have 31 and 23 year old boys she definitely could've fooled me she looks good.
Kendra is 100 percent correct! I’m not waiting on no man that sent me a pre recorded message and a text at that. He not that fine, because what’s gonna happen is, he may find a woman and women still going to be reaching out to him so it’s gonna be hard for him to even be faithful. That’s exactly why I don’t go with these oh so fine choices.
@LadyK007
Жыл бұрын
💯🎯
@JD2.0N54
Жыл бұрын
He not that fine. But if he's fine enough, you'll act the same way she did.🤔
@kujas
5 ай бұрын
@@JD2.0N54 as it should be
If a man has 4,000 options, it is really unlikely he'll pick an older woman.
@chillycharles910
Жыл бұрын
Zero chance unless she's famous like Erykah Badu. Her young dude is a nobody but probably has a lot of chicks attracted to him.
@barbarablackmon7807
Жыл бұрын
Most black men slso choose mixed race or white women rather than older and dark skinned. Just look at athletes and celebrities.
@RahYisrael99
Жыл бұрын
@@barbarablackmon7807exactly. She made a big mistake saying she prefers black men. They definitely don't prefer her.
@mr.culturefreedom2073
Жыл бұрын
@barbarablackmon7807 you mean the less than .001% of black men? BTW most black male athletes are married to black women just like the average black man. Yall stay lying on brothas. 😂🤦🏿♂️
@jfarm30
11 ай бұрын
@@barbarablackmon7807no, most black men are married to black women. We much rather date black women but if you are a man that makes money and have a ton of options, it can be difficult to marry a BW. I’m an attorney and at my last job, I was the only black attorney that seriously dated black women and when I asked them why, the black guys explained how easy it was to date outside. The women were young, in shape (normal BMI), and had been lightly touched! They prefer BW but there was a large gap in the quality of women when considering marriage. And my white counterparts were having sex black women but were not interested in marrying a BW.
When Kendra was schooling her about ignoring those guys that are attracted to her and instead chasing the player with 4,000 women chasing him I just started laughing because that's exactly what Kevin Samuels used to call modern women out for. Older generations of women put more emphasis on a man's ability to provide and protect instead of his looks. But modern women put more emphasis on looks and swag.
@AzPhattygyrl
Жыл бұрын
She was older 😅
@bernardtalbert6729
Жыл бұрын
@@AzPhattygyrl "older generations" of women (i.e. women from the 50s and 60s) vs modern women today
@allthatsheiz
Жыл бұрын
She all but 50 her damn self 😂
@deekay1747
Жыл бұрын
It’s a 2 way street. Too many men chasing “badies,” instead of focusing on quality, morals and character. Both genders need to shape up in order to make things work.
@bernardtalbert6729
Жыл бұрын
@@deekay1747 not true. Unlike women men know where they rank. For example most men know they can't get a Beyonce or a Halle Berry. On the other hand you got women as big as Lizzo running around saying that their a 10 and deserve a HVM?
Thank you Kendra. You gave Jackie some great advice.
She's 52 with a 22 yo mind of thinking when it comes to men. This is crazy to me.
@RM-po5pn
Жыл бұрын
It’s the norm.
@texasaggieinorlando2396
11 ай бұрын
I agree ☝️
Wow... I'm shocked that she is 51... She looks at least 10 years younger...but she needs to dig deep and be honest. Women let men treat them like trash because they find them attractive... it's crazy.
@alp.9672
Жыл бұрын
Yea I will not deny she looks great for her age.
DAMN she looks amazing! I hope she finds what she is looking for! Good luck.
Fluck the interview ladies...can this segment just be about her skin care regimen
@dangdeionn
Жыл бұрын
Right I think it’s because she really melanated
@scorpiocara6798
Жыл бұрын
@@dangdeionn idk I see a lot of 50 year old dark women that don't look 2 decades younger. Black ppl usually look younger than they are but this is an extreme case n plus her skin is so clear. Not a lick of makeup
@SunshineKK99
Жыл бұрын
@@scorpiocara6798 Self care. Water. Working out. No stress. 😄
@scorpiocara6798
Жыл бұрын
@@SunshineKK99 i want to know if she does anything else or uses anything
She went from being married competing against one woman to divorced and competing against 4000 women for one man 😂😂😂
@sarantoure7233
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 this is so true that it feels ridiculous to me
@sosaray7624
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is the funniest comment yooooo I'm so deaaaaad
@idubldairu8330
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ordellmichaels7866
Жыл бұрын
Lol 😂 52 delusional and the need to be right.
@hotindecember1951
Жыл бұрын
She was not in a marriage if she was competing with another woman! Y’all men are clowns.
If Dwight wanted a 1 night stand w/her she'd be down because "he's clearly out of her league".
She is fifty-fine!
'the more attractive a guy is, the more options he has'. It took Kendra 3 years to figure that out? As a 40 something year old woman? Sigh...
@Intentionaltia
10 ай бұрын
😂😂
Omg this lady looks so fabulous! For her age! I hope I look like her when I get that age!
She was doing good ,she had to bring up Dwight 🤦🏾♀️. Than she wanted to argue baby them true colors start showing. The delusional is real.
@kenyab3526
Жыл бұрын
So true… it was like just give A person a lil rope and they will do the rest..
This conversation got annoying with they started talking about the man with 3 baby daddies ....at her big age, she couldnt stop interrupting and would not comprehend.
@damonpayne3765
Жыл бұрын
Right!
@phytgurloptimalhealth1527
21 күн бұрын
😂the man got 4 baby daddies 😂
OMG I FLUCKING LOVVVEEEEE HER HAIR!!!!! WHAT THE FLIP IS SHE TALKING ABOUT THAT'S THE MOST BEAUTIFUL HAIRSTYLE YOU COULD POSSIBLY HAVE....AND HAIR TEXTURE!!!!!!
@worldpeace0266
Жыл бұрын
She was frontin .. sis knew her hair was bomb. She was trying to be humble, she wanted to brag😂😂😂. Her hair really beautiful though.. ❤
@thuandao4243
Жыл бұрын
Looks like she just woke up 😂
@cecilemorton8109
Жыл бұрын
I said the same thing. Her hair is freaking bomb fr....and she is gorgeous.🥰❤ She looks like she's in her early 40's I wouldn't have thought she was in her 50's at all. She's tough..❤🥰
@scorpiocara6798
Жыл бұрын
@@thuandao4243 looks sexy and bomb even IF it did look like that. Gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous
@scorpiocara6798
Жыл бұрын
@@cecilemorton8109 I initially thought she was in her 20s
She really looks good for age , I thought she was 30.
@Kyle97492
Жыл бұрын
40
@digigum5996
Жыл бұрын
I would definitely say about 45 she does look good
Her hair is beautiful!! I LOVE IT!
She left a man who cheated... She cheated... She wants a man that makes $100K who will most likey put her in rotation and cheat on her.
@sweettea8790
Жыл бұрын
You act like 100K is 1 million. 🙄
@abrown6214
Жыл бұрын
@@sweettea8790 It's is to the women that want that
@thelessons3768
Жыл бұрын
@@sweettea8790 No. Not one bit.
@GrownMenTalking
Жыл бұрын
@@sweettea8790 $100k puts you at the top 15% of earners in the United States. It's not a million but it's above average...
@joeem1502
Жыл бұрын
@@sweettea8790but a single man who is attractive and makes $100k is pretty rare
Keep waiting for Dwight…while he explores his 5k options. KS would’ve loved this. 😂🤣
@brielax4441
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 that man sent her to Voicemail, social media style..
@alyu9337
Жыл бұрын
She’ll be the magical one 😂😂😂
@chancexthexchief
Жыл бұрын
@@brielax4441 mind you he more than likely glanced over her profile before sending her the “i’ll get back to you later” message meaning that was an informal rejection letter 💀 and she still waiting smh
@KeepinItOneHunnnid
Жыл бұрын
She's in the queue without really realizing. 🤦🏾♂️
@SweetEssie
Жыл бұрын
Yeah KS definitely loves dogging out women when they truly don't know
Exactly! Kendra's right! Id never talk to a guy who sent me a message like that. Id also be turned tf off but yet and still she brought him up because she still wants him and was hoping to get his attention. Just move on. Dwight is busy 😂
@elroy1rose139
Жыл бұрын
See many women don't realize. A with that much option the woman he's looking for has to be very very special
@blessedforever1424
Жыл бұрын
Lmao😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
So here's my take. She initially stated that she brought up Dwight because she might take his lead and use an automated message as well. However, that was just a guise to shoot her shot at a man that she couldn't even remember his name. Awkward. I understand Kendra's point to a certain extent. This is online dating on steroids so the rules are a little different. A woman could create a dating profile and recieve over 100 messages in a few hours. That doesn't mean that she has 100 options. She, just like Dwight, has to take the time to filter through the messages to determine who she may be compatible with because not all 100 suitors will fit the bill. In this instance, it takes time to figure it out because you know nothing about the person besides pictures and a few posts. So i wouldn't immediately be turned off when someone says that they are trying to sort through the prospects, nor would I ruin my chances with others while he sorts it out. (I also would never pursue anyone from Kendra's show because of this). But if he knew her in real life and this was his response, then yes automatic turn off. I also agree that she was allowing lust to cloud her vision with Dwight. I hope that her prospects give her a chance and still reach out.
@onepanwonders3579
Жыл бұрын
She didn't remember his name so I don't think he was very significant to her. Kendra overreacted in jealousy.
@quettiageter3352
8 ай бұрын
Absolutely right how is she waiting on a ghost man. That's weirdly
Have fun in Africa queen!! She seems fun but i dont think she is gonna be ready for what the dating pool is nowadays and for that-i will pray for her lol,she looks great for 52 also!
@thelessons3768
Жыл бұрын
Um she has been on the market for 6 years
Why are we still talking about this guy. She spent more than half of her interview talking about a guy who is not an option.
@bruceleroy838
Жыл бұрын
BW have a thing for men they can’t have
@BrazThinker
Жыл бұрын
Guys like him are rare.
@SIRENTHEROCKER
Жыл бұрын
to educate women on how they should think of themselves and not wait in line for a raffle. it was needed and I'm glad she did.
@tashlaine
Жыл бұрын
@user-vt7tq4ue3c but he really wasn't a prize..twice divorced I believe
@BrazThinker
Жыл бұрын
@@tashlaine the 4k women say otherwise lol.
We 70s babies are the truth. We age so gracefully. The last generation who played outside 😂😂
@zacharywallace2243
Жыл бұрын
We are! But my kids played outside born 2005/2008! 🤣
@denzelsnipes13
Жыл бұрын
I was born in 1982 and played tackle football outside and drank from grandma's water hose. You were saying?? 😂😂
@mharp6166
Жыл бұрын
Maybe she should have went to the library... She isn't too smart
@tysieirvin7620
Жыл бұрын
@@denzelsnipes13 you are gen X so yes you played outside. That what I was saying. I guess you haven’t grown up but I understand many didn’t
@tysieirvin7620
Жыл бұрын
@@mharp6166 probably not your in eyes but who cares.
Kendra dropped gems! I really hope other women are listening...
Kendra, you would be a great coach for women. Because, the things that I’ve heard you tell women in reference to a man are golden! In addition, a lot of black men women chase the man that don’t have the same interest in them. They would rather chase a guy who isn’t interested in them, as they are interested in the guy. And, I end this message by saying, I hope to one day find a woman who has the wisdom, as you do! Keep up the great work!
I can’t slide in a man’s DM. I’m just not built for it … I believe in liking who likes me … you gotta apply some pressure this way ….
“What’s gonna happen when you’re 70 years old” 😂😂😂
@JustBree716
Жыл бұрын
Now Kendra Samuels worried about somebody being alone at 70. Whew child, it's the I been doing this so long the delusion is real Kendra Samuels ain't it😮😅
@Donmecca415
Жыл бұрын
These women need to get a damn membership to the nearest SPCA
@04ccarroll
Жыл бұрын
@@JustBree716 It’s called reality she should be more realistic about what she is looking for dating wise
@danielademide
Жыл бұрын
@@JustBree716 You and your ilk are the reason the black community is at the bottom of the barrel. Look at the results of your single, independent and strong, don’t need no man across all cities. Compare it to the gains of all other minority groups on the back of the civil rights black men fought and died for. Your children are wiping one another out like chickens and you are the queens of the landfill. Are you married? How many children? How many fathers? Your boys can’t read or write and your girls are popping out bastard children by age 11. You black women are definitely winning. Baltimore, St. Louis, Memphis, Detroit, Atlanta.
@suckersandmarks4986
Жыл бұрын
That was the sentence of the evening. You're too old to make your sole criteria for dating what a man looks like on the outside. That could be anybody.
I feel in love with a man who could not communicate if his life depended on it, by far the most difficult relationship to maintain.He was good to me and yes made a good amount of money and took good care of me but never would I ever recommend a woman to stay with a man who can’t communicate, especially when he’s older. He’s not going to change, he’s just looking for a woman who will tolerate it.
@candorsspot2775
Жыл бұрын
How did that happen? If communication was important, how did you manage to fall in love?
@yoyomabach4518
Жыл бұрын
@@candorsspot2775 that’s exactly my thoughts
@Al-Ghaibb
Жыл бұрын
@@candorsspot2775 "He made good money and took good care of her"
@candorsspot2775
Жыл бұрын
@@Al-Ghaibb It's never enough. 😞
@mariim6245
Жыл бұрын
Respectful & effective communication is important. A relationship will not last without it
"I have options but they're not all the options I want" Woman you're getting the men on your level, she's too old to be so clueless.
@tpoppy9303
Жыл бұрын
This applies more to men than women. Losers talk to women above their level all day everyday.
@4656superman
Жыл бұрын
a women is never to old to be clueless😅😅😅
@maxxpopp2373
Жыл бұрын
Women seem to never tire of chasing men that don't want them. If she manages to catch up with the 4000 deep dude, he gonna screw her once and then talk bout how he's had better. Shame the shyyt out of her, then she'll be on to the next guy and have a bitter attitude about how she tired of being used by men.
@tpoppy9303
Жыл бұрын
@@kuja5809 Just say you're a virgin fam... ..yall the only ones complaining
@tpoppy9303
Жыл бұрын
@@4656superman I see a whole lot more old men trying to holla at young girls and wondering why they keep asking for money and end up cheating on them. Most older women are totally fine with being alone. Old men are willing to pay for company in droves! Not even sex. Smh.
The lesson I learned from this video is “attraction” plays a big part. Attraction will have women break rules that they set for other men. I keep telling people attraction plays a huge part, especially the amount of effort she’s going to put in to get to know you, notice how he may not been in her qualifications but yet she will wait from 20s to 50s a lot of these ladies act the same.
@tmston2
Жыл бұрын
Imho and experience, physical attraction is a small part for women, women tend to be more “attracted” a man’s qualities of consistency, thoughtfulness, confidence, intelligence, humor, security…..typically the looks are a plus with women
@IamRonJackson
Жыл бұрын
@@tmston2bullshit.
@FearNvl
9 ай бұрын
@@tmston2BS. I know for a fact if a woman is really physically attracted to you she'll break all of the rules. You get the sweet watery guts with zero effort.
@ExtraterrestrialBeing-jc7to
9 ай бұрын
@@FearNvlfacts I'm a perfect example I'm 6' 4" x navy and I've always had women ready to give me box I'm 40 and just getting close to 100k but I've always had women even in a relationship they know about they still will spend time with me...
@Coco-uk9tv
6 ай бұрын
@@tmston2 I think this maybe the case when a women is a certain age and has some wisdom, experience, and perhaps some heart brake, behind her, but I'd say physical attraction and looks is a major factor at the beginning of a relationship.
Single in Chicago. Looking for an honest, God loving brother between 45-60. I got my bag: come with yours. I wanna travel and laugh and have fun. No entanglements or situationships. I'm not an option, I'm a great choice.
@Sam-zr3ly
Жыл бұрын
All the best my sister
@kujas
5 ай бұрын
Why not become content with dating yourself, you don’t need a man, sis.
@cherylmcallister1134
5 ай бұрын
@@kujas never said I NEED a man. Currently dating me. I'm interested in a connection and companionship.
@phytgurloptimalhealth1527
21 күн бұрын
I hope a man finds you, sis. I moved to the Chi in 2020, met my hubby 2 months later. His dad was my patient & hooked us up. We got a home in 2021 & married last year. We met at 43 and got married at 46. I wasn't requiring a high earner, but he is. Anyway, just know there are options out there for you; and you don't have to turn into the bitter "I don't need a man" type of woman. Date yourself, date others, enjoy your fam/friends and most of all stay open & optimistic❤
Black dont crack...goals🎉
KENDRA was giving the real when she started talking about the options capable men have. However we'll see if her female audience FINALLY listen and understand. Most females are ignoring their best options they'll ever get and will be perpetually single because of that there!! Preach to 'em Kendra
@scorpiocara6798
Жыл бұрын
He'll cheat n do her wrong anyways....whatever she gets
@R.Yvette.X.
Жыл бұрын
If the best Man you can pull is not good enough for you, then you're better off Single.
@jfelton3583
Жыл бұрын
@@R.Yvette.X. Exactly stay single, because clearly most of y'all aren't good enough for the man you want... That's why you don't have him CLEARLY ✌️✌️
@jfelton3583
Жыл бұрын
@@scorpiocara6798 not necessarily but here's the thing she's chasing men that literally every woman wants and then is surprised that he cheats... The guy that was broke didn't cheat he just ain't good enough for her. Which is fair, I'm not suggesting she settle for completely broke (however females call 50k broke when that's literally what the Average American makes) but miss me with the notion that every man is out here cheating. They aren't.
@yettiluch1
Жыл бұрын
@yvette that's silly logic. If the best you can get isn't good enough, you need to step your game up. Cuz you aren't who you think you are.
Kandra was on point on this show. She seems to have learnt a lot over the time she’s been doing these shows. Kudos to her. When men tell tell women these things we get shut down, told we’re hurt, we gay, we hate women etc. so I’m glad Kendra gave her a respectful reality check
You were spot on Kendra. She said she was going to persue him after she return from Africa. So yes she put herself on hold .
$100k in South Carolina? 😅 Where are the Make-A-Wish comments at?
Self-Esteem Session 💡 She needed this💡💡
“He doesn’t have my number “ He didn’t want it ma’am 😂😂😂😂
I love Jackie’s demeanor she seems such a pleasant woman. I hope she finds her person. And she looks beautiful for her age. Yes go Ms Jackie
@LOSTGPS
Жыл бұрын
notice none of the men are saying shes pleasant, women keep other women single. Kendra was even getting annoyed at her.
@WordsMatter1982
Жыл бұрын
Shoot your shot ma
@tippy06
Жыл бұрын
Me too. I totally agree
@stevenharris1460
Жыл бұрын
Then you date her.
@johnjay3308
Жыл бұрын
So u got pleasant from an over opinionated, argumentative, 50+ yr old chick with an attitude problem? Y'all will lie just 2 leave a comment. Jeez🤦😤
Her hair and her skin are on point tho I gotta give her that! That hair and skin healthy af ! Body nice too. She’s taking great care of herself. I bet dressed up she’s a show stopper.
@Coco-uk9tv
6 ай бұрын
I agree with everything you said, but she needs to change her specs as they are so unflattering.
Her hair is gorgeous ❤❤
Over 3 years, Kendra has turned into a top level chess player and teacher
I love how respectful she is and how she say she received that I love her attitude nice lady hood show
This highlight is when Kendra G went Super Saiyan…. It was for the history books 📚
"I have integrity"... but I will give up this box to get my "lick" back. Interesting perspective on integrity isn't it? 🤔
@MrsRease2011
Жыл бұрын
Well said!
I knew you was gone make her a highlight 😭😭
Like Kevin Samuels always said. Women are attracted to the same type of man who don't want them
She's looks dope. But she's set in her ways. She's mentioning all these dudes because she doesn't have any options. Typical bluff strategy. She's discussing a dude who didn't want her. Women with options dont move like that.
Ma'am, you are 50+ year old goals!!!
She was tryin to have small talk like Kendra was her friend and then ended up getting embarrassed 😂😂😂😂
Kousins! Anyone know which highlight Dewight is? 🤣I just want to put my eyeballs on this matter!
Poor thing.... told facebook she on kendra show just to make a fool out of herself. Ex husband is laughing his ass off 😂😂😂
@beedubbya2278
Жыл бұрын
How? He’s a thrice divorced cheater. He’s the clown 🤡
@alyu9337
Жыл бұрын
@@beedubbya2278 and she gave the pum pum away for nothing 😂😂😂😂
The way I took it, she probably brought him up in hopes that if he is watching he will move her up in line and maybe reach out to her but I get what Kendra is saying. After he sent the generic message she shouldn't care if he's watching or not.....but then again Kendra did give the disclaimer that he literally has 4000 women hitting him up. So what do you expect? Of course he left a generic message. He could've just left her on read.
@brandonlongdikjones8117
Жыл бұрын
She would have gotten a real response if he was interested even if it were a million women
@blessedforever1424
Жыл бұрын
Period !!!!!!!!!!! Ain’t no man that mf special that after you send me generic response I’m wait to see if u come back with something else ……… just don’t even respond cause if u got that much time on ur hand to look through over 4K profiles something wrong .
@sandranorton53
Жыл бұрын
Kendra understood what she was saying but is telling her she's silly for doing that. Let's say he does hit her up two weeks later she WILL entertain him and he WILL cheat on her and most likely just have sex and bounce. What that message means is he checked her page and he don't want her so he's entertaining the women he's actually attracted too. If he does hit her up it's after it doesn't work out with the attractive women and he need a booty call. If you entertain a man that disrespects you like this he's always going to disrespect you. The correct thing to do is to block him after that message and move on. Have some self respect. A lot of women like herself are average looking and don't realize the men chasing them are their looks level and the only type of men that will fully commit to them. If you're an average looking woman an attractive man with options won't settle for you. He'll just be having fun for a period of time.
@JD2.0N54
Жыл бұрын
She's not what he's looking for. Why would a 45 year old man with opinions date a 50 year old woman.. Kevin Samuels was right ✅️.
That was a good discussion. It shows why a lot of people are single. She was focusing on the man who was unavailable and totally ignoring the guys who are available and actively pursuing her.
Kendra will constantly ask the same question and not understanding this woman. I understood what she was talking about the 2nd time Kendra asked the question. She’s OPENED to talking to the guy but that doesn’t mean she isn’t going to stop talking or getting in a relationship with someone else. She’s not waiting for the man. And if she isn’t attracted to the men in her inbox she isn’t. The end of this video was irritating me so much. 😂😂😂😂
@tre12124
Жыл бұрын
Kendra is weird af. See right through the weirdo
@muchaluchagigante6318
Жыл бұрын
She tried to get some sense into her. Thats why.
@brandonlongdikjones8117
Жыл бұрын
She stuck on Dwight, if any fool gets with her they know as soon as Dwight hits her up it's on, she played herself sweating Dwight so tuff
@sandranorton53
Жыл бұрын
Kendra understood what she was saying but is telling her she's silly for doing that. Let's say he does hit her up two weeks later she WILL entertain him and he WILL cheat on her and most likely just have sex and bounce. What that message means is he checked her page and he don't want her so he's entertaining the women he's actually attracted too. If he does hit her up it's after it doesn't work out with the attractive women and he need a booty call. If you entertain a man that disrespects you like this he's always going to disrespect you. The correct thing to do is to block him after that message and move on. Have some self respect. A lot of women like herself are average looking and don't realize the men chasing them are their looks level and the only type of men that will fully commit to them. If you're an average looking woman an attractive man with options won't settle for you. He'll just be having fun for a period of time.
@sakpase88
Жыл бұрын
🤦🏿
Preach Kendra!!….She is trippin’ just admit that you have no problem allowing Dwight to treat you like a number. Come on Sisters, maintain your dignity.😊
Kendra I am so glad you had the opportunity to discuss this topic of this beautiful sister selecting this unattainable guy sending a cut and paste message. You are the prize not a option. Thank you ❤
@JustBree716
Жыл бұрын
It's not about carrying on like your some prize at 50 plus to men who are mostly either married and are in long term relationships at this age that the you don't see a decent man staring you in your face because you stuck on copy and paste. No mam. After 40 you have to get creative and stop all that queen shea butter, I'm the prize bs. That's an unnecessary ego trip. Be nice, be pleasant, be fit.
@jfelton3583
Жыл бұрын
"you are the prize" wasn't the message that she was trying to convey to her. You MISSED IT. Y'all keep missing it.... Smh
@bruceleroy838
Жыл бұрын
Bullseye 🎯
@jfelton3583
Жыл бұрын
@@JustBree716 THANK YOU. I'm so glad there's a "woman" who gets it and is saying it. Because they don't want to uear it from men and they get mad at Kendra and just stop listening. But yes you get it. These females don't see the good man in front of them that is the best option they'll ever get but they ignore him chasing a man that is essentially unattainable for them but they holding out hoping and wishing.
@JustBree716
Жыл бұрын
@@jfelton3583 and did you hear how she answered Kendra's questions. She's a prize alright 🤓 Seems like a nice lady but even when Kendra asked about finances then told her a man could work at McDonald's and be able to take care of himself then suddenly she says he has to make $100k. Should've just said that from jump. It was a lot passive aggressive for me. But shit I don't chew on carpet so let me back down a bit🤓
I don't have much respect for Kendra's intellect, but she was very much on point with this sista. At 52, you should not put such a premium on a person's looks.
@Babyluv_
Жыл бұрын
No intellect ever present 😂
@serious7179
Жыл бұрын
Well dang lol...
@spb8039
Жыл бұрын
Why not! At 52 is she supposed to settle for an obese troll? Looks are important at all ages.
@alp.9672
Жыл бұрын
lmao I agree with you on that statement, Kendra was clockin' her.
She is very beautiful 💜
So is she admitting to being with a broke guy at 50😅😅😅😅yo im sitting here cackling at Kendra Samuels. RIP to the godfather 😅😅😅kendra done reached her breaking point with these chicks😅😅😅she got options but she taking messages from Mr cut and paste 😅😅😅she got options but she admitting to just been with a brokey😅😅😅sis get off my line
@MrsRease2011
Жыл бұрын
Chile, 🤣😂
It just blows my mind when women say they will only date Black Men. They are like 7% of the population and that is before you adjust for married or gay men, prisoners and loads of individualized incompatibilities. It’s just nuts. You’re looking for like 1 or 2 out of 100 men. Why be that profoundly limited? Then even of those 1-2 men you cut that to a third based on age and then how many of them are attracted to that particular woman and as a group BM are the least married? It’s just begging to stay single. Why?
@toricollins6516
11 ай бұрын
This.
@jfarm30
11 ай бұрын
BW are not the least married because they specifically chose to date BM. They are the least married because of their character when viewed through the lens of marriage. If a white dude will marry you, then a black one would too. Most black women that are not a married, wouldn’t be married regardless of the racial make up of who they dated. Men are very similar in what they are attracted too. Women should Be interested in marriage when they are young and at your best. Be fit (normal BMI), friendly, not to old (meaning you wasted your best years) and don’t sleep around (bw have terrible dating and sexual histories with who they choose to sleep with). Honestly, We just don’t have a lot of women in our community that fit those basic criteria. Kendra spoke about the guy at the end that was a terrible guy and he had women calling in left and right trying to get to this guy. BW make bad dating decisions. You know who was calling, BW!! 🤷🏾♂️ It’s not the men, it’s you.
@toricollins6516
11 ай бұрын
@@jfarm30 The massive generalizations you made to justify your opinions is wild. BM are the least married men. Marriage doesn’t appeal to them collectively. I also would like to know what evidence you have about the sexual decisions of women you don’t know. “We don’t have a lot of women that fit that basic criteria”. Serious question: if we did, would the majority of BM earn more than $42K? Would BW have lower DV and homicide rates? Arguing that the reason BW have lower marriage rates due to issues that have no bearing on how we’re treated by BM collectively is simply poor logic. Marriage sadly isn’t valued in modern Black culture. That’s hardly the fault of BW alone. What “character” would that be? I grew up during crack-cocaine, the character of BW kept this community together. It’s unbelievable hearing the same regurgitated talking points from men creating bastardized biracial children more than any other group of men, holding BW to a European standard of femininity that BM fail when compared to masculinity. It’s unbelievable how so many folks in our community act as if marriage is something BM collectively prepare themselves for.
@jfarm30
11 ай бұрын
@@toricollins6516 I don’t know why some of you act like you have a problem with generalization, how else are we suppose to talk about a subject containing 20 Mill individuals. We can’t discuss every single person in the class, so yes we speak in generalities to understand the dynamics of the group. The fact that I have to explain that is what is wild!! Also you want evidence that BW make poor sexual decisions especially when they are young, how about the 40 MILLION ABORTIONS that black women had from 1980-2000!! The highest rate by far of any group. Men have absolutely zero control over abortive rights, that is solely the decision of black women. Very few abortions occur within marriages or for medical reasons, 99% happen to women who are not married who laid on their back with the wrong guy and now want to correct a mistake. That alone tells you what is happening in our community. And as far 42k a year goes, Latino men earn less than that and have no problem finding a wife, if he will work, a Latino women will be with him. I also grew up in the crack era’s in one of the toughest cities in the country (Memphis), in one of the toughest neighborhoods and I’m not sure what you saw from black women that you thought held us together, but ok. And I’ve lived in several big black cities, I grew up in Memphis, lived in DC for years, and now live in Atlanta and literally did not meet any black women that I thought I could easily be married too. None of them appealed to me as a wife, BW are the most physically appealing but not appealing as a wife. But I meet a few bi racial ones with white mothers and Latino ones, and Asians and white girls that I thought looked and acted like a wife. And I’m not the only guy that that has said this. We have been saying this shit for years, but just among ourselves. And all my close friends are professionals, make over 100k and are married. So this is not regurgitation internet talk, I’m in 40’s!! I chose to still marry a sister but honestly it wasn’t easy and wasn’t the best option available to me. I did it out of loyalty. BM have their difficulties also and there are definitely things to be critiqued but in this case I can speak definitely about what I and men in my financial and educational bracket have talked about for years! Im not saying it’s solely BW, BM play their role too, but I think the main culprit is poor dating habits and sexual control especially when BW are in their best years.
@missamanda1430
7 ай бұрын
@@toricollins6516 omg tht was articulated beautifullY!!!!!! And On Point🎯🎯🎯
I get what you were saying to Jackie, Kendra. Too often we give people passes for poor treatment because we found some value in their appearance or some other non-factor. Great perspective and insight Kendra!
Kendra wants to tell her to pick the men who love you but the sisterhood would kill her. That beautiful woman is chasing Chad.
Kendra hit it on the head this time. She literally has people that genuinely want her for her and she’s going after the Nigga with hundreds of options. She herself said in so many words that he has the choice to jump from girl to girl if one ain’t doing what another will and she’s willing to take that risk cause he makes her lady parts tingle. I think I can speak for all men when I say if I knew FOR A FACT hundreds of women were in line to date me I couldn’t MAKE myself be monogamous even if I wanted to 😭😭
@XYtrumpsXX
7 ай бұрын
Facts✊🏼
@aliatianna888
7 ай бұрын
That’s kinda sad.