if you have the power to get people fired, you're not the oppressed, you're the oppressor.

@Jojo-eb1gi

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!!!!

@godfatherpenguin7801

Жыл бұрын

I know this is another echo chamber channel but I have to say this take is bad. If someone who interacts with customers shows racism a company would sack them to avoid backlash, to protect the people of that race and keep a certain standard of customer service. That means practically anyone has the power to get someone fired depending on the actions of the customer service provider. In this instance of course it was not racism but personally I feel it was understandable ignorance and all she had to do was explain and not over-react. This was not an instance that got him fired hopefully partially because most people are disagreeing with her and clearly it was not racism.

@genseven4616

Жыл бұрын

@@godfatherpenguin7801 there's always one....okay I'll explain. My comment was not about the average person experiencing racism at work and reporting it. I'm talking about this woman and people like her who are professional victims who are looking for any excuse to be victimized despite who it damages.

@briandunlapamyfraser6340

Жыл бұрын

@@godfatherpenguin7801 actually, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but it’s become ridiculous at this point that anything that anybody says is racist. I am sorry people have to grow up and people have to stop being so sensitive that no matter what is said, they take it as racism. It is a bunch of BS.

@BrownGirlColorStruckWorld

Жыл бұрын

You are confusing the power to fire with the ability to plead a case. Anyone and any group can plead a case. The people that get to make the decision- aka the power to fire still belong to the hegemony.

I'm African and I am dying to meet her and ask her which country I come from. If she doesn't correctly say my country from the 54 countries in Africa, she is getting canceled. This victimization is getting really offensive for people who actually are victims.

@alexayuso3563

Жыл бұрын

I see more racism from women leftists and liberals than I do from conservatives. African American leftists are very racist in the USA.

@siobhanoneill2360

Жыл бұрын

😂you’re absolutely amazing ❤

@Cornet_Tooter

Жыл бұрын

It's a nuts situation, and you're absolutely correct. Yeah, our skin colours are different, but we are still the same species and thinking on the same page. A big deal was made out of nothing from that woman and it'd be awesome if you could give her a taste of her own medicine!

@OMGANARAB

Жыл бұрын

I'm Middle Eastern and I was thinking the same damn thing 😂

@ulfrinn8783

Жыл бұрын

And how many people are actually "victims" in this case? Virtually none. It's all identity politics and their narcissistic products.

For someone who didn’t feel safe in the car, she sure overextended her time in the car.

@alleycat616

7 ай бұрын

And felt pretty safe in confronting him about it at the end.

@oahuhawaii2141

6 күн бұрын

If she's afraid, then she'd leave ASAP, and not keep chatting and extending the interaction. In actuality, she enjoyed the question because she thinks she can make it a viral sensation.

I’m so done with these narcissistic lunatics thinking they can control the rules of human interaction. It’s time that we as a society begin ignoring these childish outbursts.

She's the one who was racist. That poor man was trying to be nice and connect with her and she turned it into something else. This has got to stop.

@flipf615

Жыл бұрын

wait hows that racist

@nicolegroves6880

Жыл бұрын

​@@flipf615because she's the one who turned it into a race issue.

@flipf615

Жыл бұрын

@@nicolegroves6880 no, OP said she was racist. who was she being racist against?

@nicolegroves6880

Жыл бұрын

@@flipf615 you don’t have to be racist “against” someone, you can be racist by simply stating an idea or opinion.

@UltraGamma25

Жыл бұрын

​@@flipf615 Shut up liberal

She objects to the idea of Asians being grouped together, but then repeatedly refers to Asians in a collective way by saying "Us" - thus reinforcing the idea that Asians operate as a group and are indistinguishable from one another. You don't get to have it both ways lady...

@Remy4489

Жыл бұрын

If they ("wokies") didn't have double standards, they'd have none.

@Anonymous-uw4sr

Жыл бұрын

Right..

@katiejon17

Жыл бұрын

I’m native, and cannot tell any of us tribes apart 🤣 This woman is a real sicko.

@yinoveryang4246

Жыл бұрын

Can people be racist against their own race? yes, Sadly, when you delve into the psychology of the "woke warriors", the root cause very often turns out to be a lack of self-esteem and self-immolation. What does she mean by "us", what else could she mean?

@orwellmushaikwa2591

Жыл бұрын

Sadly that's the typical hypocrisy of the leftist ideologies. Pick anything from identity politics to CRT is there's always some contradictions like this and it's comical that people fall don't even think twice when they start contradicting themselves

She’s got major issues. If you won’t even accept a sincere apology, what do you want out of these confrontations?

@hazydaze1170

Ай бұрын

An upload

@michelleraborn6886

22 күн бұрын

She just wants something to be mad about

hearing that man plead and apologize broke my heart. she so unnecessarily made a sweet, kind man, feel like he did something wrong. and also was being racist herself!!

@shawna5706

Ай бұрын

she was Torturing him...that's what Cluster B personalities do to people..they literally TORTURE

I’m a black woman, I used to think it might be racist if white people say we all look the same. I recently moved to a town that is 98% white. And when I tell you, many times a day I think to myself “damn…many of them look the exact same”. I do not believe it’s a racism thing. I think it’s simply an ethnic thing. Even when two black ppl look very similar I can tell them apart because I grew up around black ppl. So it makes sense to apply to all ethnicities. You’d probably have to be someone who always grew up around people who were like so incredibly diverse

@MephiticMiasma

Жыл бұрын

Pretty much, I would say that the human mind learns to distinguish faces at an early age, and if you have a limited training set, it's harder to pick up other differences as an adult.

@alexguerra1668

Жыл бұрын

Such good points ☝🏼 Having grown up by DC I’ve been used to seeing all kinds of people. & when I have family visit from Colombia 🇨🇴 I’ve seen them marvel at the diversity. Man, to be truly curious to learn about people’s backgrounds takes a level of humility to be wrong on some things cuz it’s news territory, but so worth it cuz our differences are awesome 🎉I think they make the world go round, but dang, must be hard getting to know someone that acts like this girl.

@lindawatters9632

Жыл бұрын

Kind of true, if they are just acquaintances. But in the case of Asians for me it is hard to tell if they are Japanese, Korean, Chinese, Vietnamese etc. put on top of that her British (I guess) accent. Asking people where they were from used to be a conversation starter, now I just rarely ask any questions that could possibly offend someone, which pretty much could be nearly anything. Sad. With that deterrent, along with everyone’s nose being buried in their phones, soon it will be rare to talk to anyone unnecessarily.

@MephiticMiasma

Жыл бұрын

@@lindawatters9632 you can't even talk about the weather anymore.

@utubewillyman

Жыл бұрын

It all depends how much time you spend with people. If you spend a week with identical twins, you'll be able to easily tell them apart by the end of the week.

I actually cried for that Uber driver begging her not to get him fired. What an entitled narcissist.

@felinespirits

Жыл бұрын

Poor guy will probably be afraid to make small talk with passengers in the future.

@fmor2779

Жыл бұрын

I had to speed it up because It was so heartbreaking. This usually doesn't happen to me. There was something about his voice when he asked for forgiveness that just made me lose my composure.😭 The nerve of that woman! 😠

@kytticockroach2299

Жыл бұрын

When he said "please forgive me" and received nothing from her, that was sad. He sounded so earnest. He was not in the wrong.

@mary-janereallynotsarah684

Жыл бұрын

Very sad.

@lyingcat9022

Жыл бұрын

For real, that was rough to listen to…. And is this a Cats only comment thread? ;)

First she is saying "them" is the keyword to recognize racism - and then she uses "us" for herself. When you are seeking problems, you will find problems. I am so happy that she didn't get the reactions from the internet that she actually wanted.

I am from South Africa and, whilst travelling in America, when people asked where I was from because of my accent, 99% of the time the immediate response was "but you are not black!" (almost like a shock knee jerk reaction) I found this very funny and only appreciated their curiosity as it gave me a chance to explain my country to them. Curiosity should never be "offensive". This is how we get dumbed down as a society. Curiosity is key to education. Education is key to understanding. Understanding is key to tolerance. Tolerance is the key to rid ourselves of racism.

@saiyan2510

Ай бұрын

Hello from JHB, South Africa. We're not sensitive over here. ❤

I’ve never mentioned the trauma I endured in 2013. I was in a taxi in Buenos Aires and the driver mistakenly thought I was Canadian. I was shaking, barely made it out safely. Please would you all tell me how brave I was

@silviamateevaloveintimacy6591

Жыл бұрын

😂

@crissd8283

Жыл бұрын

You are extremely brave!!!

@ponderwithjess

Жыл бұрын

sooooo brave.

@SDelSasso

Жыл бұрын

CANADIAN!! How dare the driver! That’s just so unbelievably racist 😂😂

@SJRD18

Жыл бұрын

You're stunning and brave!!!!

As a white guy who lived in China for 10 years and took lots of taxis - I had this conversation every single day. They tried to guess where I was from. Nothing offensive about that. They are trying to connect with you by asking about your culture. They usually guessed wrong…but instead of being offended, I took the opportunity to share culture with one another.

@suzanne2

Жыл бұрын

Same experience here. 😂 Where you come from? Followed by a wrong guess and the assumption that you are a teacher. Every single day. Who cares? How else are people going to learn about different cultures than by asking questions? Curiosity is the opposite of racism.

@JadeRunner

Жыл бұрын

I'm white British and I get it _here_ in Britain because I don't have a regional accent. Every now and then someone asks me where I'm from because they can't place the accent. Same happens when I go to the US. I think it's funny. 😂

@bowserificB

Жыл бұрын

@@suzanne2 I’m from Canada. I would get all sorts of guesses - American, British, Russian, Swedish.

@jairvera722

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! I'm Hispanic and my Uber driver was from Iran, we talked about culture, food, where my parents are from, his home life, and how he had to leave his business and home behind because of the Stuff going on in Iran regarding women's rights he was afraid for his wife and they came to America, and now he's driving for Uber to make ends meet. We talked about football (soccer) and I ended up giving him a pair of football shoes I had in my luggage I gave him a hug, and wished him success. We're all humans just trying to survive out here.

@a.nonimus6705

Жыл бұрын

People like this perceive reality through the lens of racism. Everything is about race, and everything about race is racist. Which is indeed the new form of racism, as the old form of racism mostly died out a while back, aside from a small fringe minority (despite what people may tell you)

As an Asian person, I am embarrassed about this girl... This sad generation wants to be offended by everything. Poor man. I ask people all the time where they are from etc.

I had an Uber driver try to guess where I’m from, when I told him I’m Mexican he said but you’re not “round” like the others. I laughed, and told him wait until I’m 40. I would never take a man’s job.

He's literally begging her forgiveness, explaining how her actions could get him fired, and pleading for his family's sake. She is an awful, vile, narcissistic, manipulative piece of human trash. She instigated this "conflict" just to massage her own fragile ego, and to get internet clout. That is truly disgusting.

@Val-ul9gn

Жыл бұрын

t 🎯

@blindjustice8718

Жыл бұрын

Welcome to the entire Left.

@joycecardinot9284

Жыл бұрын

100% don't agree with her actions, but do you KNOW that she is all these things or are you just assuming because of the video? Many people are getting trapped in this woke mentality, without the slightest notion of what is *really* going on. It is brainwashing. I suppose Amala herself has done similar things, but I don't think she deserves that kind of comment. Narcissistic, manipulative? Unfortunately, yes. But awful, vile piece of human trash? That says nothing, it's just offensive... There's no need.

@wilbur218

Жыл бұрын

I wish that one day she experiences indiscriminated violence and racism. Just a little taste

@pjt5992

Жыл бұрын

POOF just like that....everyone is either a narcissist, expert or victim. Stupid word of the day calendars.

As an Asian I denounce her actions on behalf of all the sensible Asians in this world that don't act like entitled victims of nothing.

@willrose592

Жыл бұрын

Thank you - my wife is filipina, and I can't tell you how many times she's been asked casually if she's native American, hispanic...or, my personal favorite, "what kind of asian are you?" 😂 We live in the southeast, so it's not too out of the ordinary for well-meaning folks to ask in ernest, not meaning to sound offensive in the slightest. She measures her response based on the intent of the person asking. If they're literally well-meaning and just curious, she'll kindly tell them. Only 1-2 times in the near decade we've been together has someone come off intentionally snarky / rude / mean-hearted...to which she either ignores them, or replies with "figure it out on your own time - have a blessed day!" I honestly find myself getting more upset in those rare instances than she does - but then again, she's so graceful and kind in all she does, it's just natural for her to handle even the most uncomfortable situations with such class. I'm very blessed to have her as my partner in life and best friend.

@stevesnodgrass7434

Жыл бұрын

All white people look the same. They do so there.

@mrs7serpents157

Жыл бұрын

​@Will Rose yeah, intent counts for almost everything

@rkhandle

Жыл бұрын

As a fellow Asian, I feel embarrassed by her actions. What a moron

@stevesnodgrass7434

Жыл бұрын

@@willrose592 so I don't ever won't to make light of someones pain but is it truly racism. I mean some folks are interested in folks who are different . I am a question asker I find other cultures fascinating. That doesn't make me a racist.

She was trying to hurt him. She was trying to get enough on this video to get this man fired. She was and still is a bullying bigot, and like all bigots, when it comes to it she a low-life coward. These sort of people need teaching real lessons.

@shawna5706

Ай бұрын

CLUSTER B PERSONALITY DISORDER EVERYONE

My heart goes out to that poor guy. I hope he doesn’t have to deal with more of this kinda stuff.

As a white guy I had a very similar conversation with an Asian uber driver where he said I looked French and I replied that I was Scottish heritage. We had a very funny conversation about the differences in European facial features and laughed. I can't imagine how sad someine must be to get this uptight about that

@cplcabs

Жыл бұрын

yeah, she is clearly a professional victim as a lot of people of colour in the western world are because they know its an easy way for them to gain.

@sophiek.7465

Жыл бұрын

I work with a lot of guys from India and they are always very curious about my green eyes and wonder where I’m from because of how rare bright green eyes like mine are. They’ve found it fascinating to learn about my family and how surprisingly enough because we have an English background a lot of us have green eyes. It wasn’t racist at all. It was just curiosity about the different features humans have and it’s been a fun topic discuss because they have their own differences that I got to learn about

@Kaelland

Жыл бұрын

As a point of interest, there was a wave of Norman settlement in Scotland in the late 12th and early 13th centuries. The Normans, as I'm sure you know, come from Normandy, and are a people who resulted from the intermingling of Norse settlers and native Franks and Gallo-Romans. So, it's entirely possible that as someone whose ancestors are Scots, you may also very well have ancestors from France.

@petesmitt

Жыл бұрын

@@sophiek.7465The rarest eye color is green, according to the American Academy of Ophthalmology (AAO). Only about 2 percent of the world's population have green eyes.

@thenonexistinghero

Жыл бұрын

That's the way it usually goes. Someone sees something, makes a guess based on their own knowledge, experience, assumptions, etc... asks that person about it... and then the person is wrong. And then you have a conversation about that. I'm mixed race of a few and people ask me if I'm Mexican, Native American, etc all the time. I'm not, not even close, but it doesn't offend me at all. It's often even hard to tell where someone's actually from even if they're native. There was that one Japanese guy (I think Yuta or something) with a KZread video where he asked Japanese people if they could recognize from which south-eastern Asian country people were from. And... they had just as much of a hard time telling as non-Asians would. Even for Japanese people themselves they had a hard time telling. It's just dumb to assume someone knows everything about you just by 1 look. Not just dumb, it's very arrogant. And then getting mad about it as well. Honestly, it's no different from those pathetic nobles that got mad at people not being able to tell their status just based on how the nobles acted. You'd think we went back to the middle ages.

She specifically scolds him for his use of "them", but then she uses the word "us" herself. Fantastic hypocrisy.

@amberscott1867

11 ай бұрын

I caught that too. Smh

@crookedcrowstudio3135

11 ай бұрын

I thought the same exact thing! Shameful

@fr3akvankuchen825

10 ай бұрын

tbh saying us when youre not part of the group you are refering too seems a bit...dumb-

@sash4all

9 ай бұрын

Maybe she identifies herself as we, us and not as they, them? Ever thought about that? 😅😂

@alvinhelms2170

9 ай бұрын

@@sash4all - I tried telling everyone I know that my pronouns are "Milord" and 'your Highness", but none of the peasants would oblige. Where do I lodge a complaint?

I’m British but when I lived and travelled in South East Asia it was very common for people to start a conversation by asking me if I was American. I’m sure you can imagine how furious I was, almost 24/7, in the face of such an offensive comment. I’ve never really got over it. I also didn’t get much done because of having to confront, film and denounce them all.

@mischellyann

7 ай бұрын

Sounds exhausting.

@bridgetteowen5242

7 ай бұрын

riiiiiiiggghhhhtttt

@caesarjergens

7 ай бұрын

My first language is not even English yet I often got asked the same question, the never ending racism was exhausting.

@faithdrawing3858

6 ай бұрын

this comment is sarcastic right?

@vandalgod1134

5 ай бұрын

@@faithdrawing3858 Wish I could tell you, but I hope to the gods this op is 100% satire.

I am an Uber driver. My name is extremely uncommon, and often when people’s names are different we talk about it. I have picked people up from many backgrounds, many countries, and any other difference that can be thought of. I love learning about our differences, and often love the conversations! I rarely have people who are rude like her. That is going to stick in his head for who knows how long, along with how his interactions with other people.

As a former toddler that showed immaturity and lack of ability to control my emotions, I can relate to her.

@MS-mw8zg

Жыл бұрын

😂

@cr0wguitar

Жыл бұрын

This comment is great. :)

@sailnekkid

Жыл бұрын

Goooooood'un!!! bwa-hahahahahaha

@1whitkat

Жыл бұрын

Well said, thanks.

@Ezekiel903

Жыл бұрын

this happens only in the US, i no other country in the world this would going viral! the level of insanity and sensitivity is insane!

As an Asian American (I know she’s not American), I’m so freaking embarrassed. This is not racism. She is trying to attention from the left. I’m glad people are on his side.

@johnwong5317

Жыл бұрын

Yup, even as Asian, there are Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Cambodia, Indian and more. Each with theirs own unique culture and I have talked to other Asian besides myself who proudly said which countries they came from.

@arnie3631

Жыл бұрын

I don't agree with Asians all looking the same. But yes, she overreacted here.

@Sansaar1331

Жыл бұрын

She’s British or Australian ?

@ericparis224

Жыл бұрын

even if it is racist, NO ONE CARES ANYMORE.

@Michelle-uh7qi

Жыл бұрын

I'm from the UK further up North. She has a London accent and the woke nonsense is rife down there. This isn't surprising!

We have a DEI dept at work that is entirely against showing curiosity, because they say it might offend people. They call them micro aggressions. 🤦‍♂️

It would be interesting to see how many times this passenger created this problem with other drivers just to get a free ride to her destination.

I love how she is offended when he refers to Asians as "them" but has no problem using the term "us" ,herself, when she describes Asians

@yellowjoe.2000

Жыл бұрын

great observation

@juliasummer97

Жыл бұрын

YES! That’s exactly what I was thinking… what a world.

@tb1235

Жыл бұрын

Peak hypocrisy.

@orionhan2431

Жыл бұрын

Asia stretches' from [generally] Russia to India to Indonesia to Japan. And all of "us" hate our neighbors. Unless me and her are from the same country, there is no us. 😆 Also she sounds Australian to me so i assume she is a second generation immigrant

@chahinebourenane6291

Жыл бұрын

True.

As an Asian woman, I am offended by her attitude. So disgusted at how she treated this poor man.

@jilianemorales2074

Жыл бұрын

Simple. She is a Democrat from California.😂

@Fifth313ment

Жыл бұрын

My wife is Mexican, came here in 2001. I'm on my HOA board where I live and I had to get estimates for sidewalk repairs. So a vendor comes and we're walking our property and just talking and I ask if he's Mexican. I told him what state my wife is from in Mexico and we were just joking around about women. His wife is American. So I was talking to my fellow board members and we had already been discussing three companies we had bids from, so I said I think the Mexican guy (for the life of my i couldnt remember his company name) is the best price and does the best work as he did the development across the street. Well one of the other board members says to me that's offensive and racist as her husband that died was Mexican! And I was flabbergasted and said BUT HE IS MEXICAN! And how can what I said be racist when my wife is Mexican?! People will be offended by everything and you have to keep it moving and ignore them.

@jam99

Жыл бұрын

She's also a hypocrite. Offended at being compared with 'them', she then states that what he has said offends 'us'! That she cannot see this is amazing.

@jam99

Жыл бұрын

@@Fifth313ment Yep, some people are morons lacking basic rational thought processing capability. Some of those just want attention. Your example is a case of the classic false assumption some people have that naming a characteristic is racism. It is not. Judging because of an irrelevant or unjustified characteristic can be racism if that characteristic is race related, otherwise it is prejudice.

@amandafaulks2515

Жыл бұрын

You are definitely not the racist in that situation. Unfortunately that woman was the racist and and was projecting into you. It's sad how often this can happen.

I am a white french canadian dude. I am SSSOOOOO offended. Some racist dude told me he thought I was from UK because of my accent and my white skin. I busted in tears, what a cruel world we live in.

@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro

17 күн бұрын

Hey man, it could’ve been worse. He might’ve thought you were Australian, you don’t really come back from that mentally.

I was once investigated for “being a racist” against Asians. I apparently was only correcting him at work and gave him the most work. None of his claims could be proven after talking to my section and the investigator laughed when they found out gf was Filipino. This lady is a bully.

You can tell she has NEVER experienced racism....she doesn't know what it is...

@HavianEla

Жыл бұрын

She was just told by society she was an oppressed person, so she thought she had the right to oppress others.

@alexguerra1668

Жыл бұрын

@@HavianEla that’s the trouble with these ideologies getting pushed on our society to supposedly defend rights 🤦🏻‍♀️

@lilithabunni

Жыл бұрын

@@HavianEla i think it’s people being told they are oppressed and so act accordingly. instead of thinking for themselves and acting on their experiences. some people absolutely go thru racism or xenophobia. but not this woman in this situation lmao

@justsomeguy5417

Жыл бұрын

But she WANTS to experience it soooo bad

@brmbkl

Жыл бұрын

@@lilithabunni "i think it’s people being told they are oppressed and so act accordingl" I don't think deep down she believes she was oppressed here. People are being told that drama gets you attention.

I'm an arab/Muslim and an uber driver was asking me about my hijab, the talib@n, !s!s etc. I was a bit shocked but I wasn't offended because he was an older white man and i assumed he probably never really met a arab/muslim and only saw us on the news. We had a really good conversation and I explained to him how not every Muslim supports these groups or are associated with them. He was very kind and open-minded. It's easy to get triggered, its hard to swallow you initial emotions and ACTUALLY talk about things.

@lizziejay5362

Жыл бұрын

❤ When ppl are from different countries they don't really know much about the different groups so when they meet someone who is actually from there they are able to ask about the different groups to better understand what's going on. When stuff is reported on news/media they just report on the current issue. They don't take time to explain the background of different groups and such. Every country is going to have different gangs, religious groups, ECT.

@k.sb.9153

Жыл бұрын

@@lizziejay5362 i agree! It's better to be curious than to stay ignorant

@northern_soul

Жыл бұрын

❤

@allisonhunter1063

Жыл бұрын

​​@@k.sb.9153 Thank you for taking that opportunity to teach a curious older man, who has probably since corrected others in their wrong thinking because of your kindness. I had a Muslim customer when I worked at Lane Bryant and she used to always call me sweetheart, and Habibi. One day I asked her what Habibi meant and she told me "it means you are my love" and it just melted my heart. It felt like such an honor. In Hispanic and Latinx families, Mija/Mijo (pronounced "mee-ha" and "mee-ho" with a heavier breathy H sound where the J is, you kind of say the H in the back of your tongue/throat if that makes ANY sense lol), means "my daughter/my son" but it's also used as "my darling", and our late family friend who was Mexican called me mija my entire life, so does my best friend's Grandma and her aunts lol. Just so much love and warmth. But she was always my favorite customer. She would hug me and kiss my cheeks and forehead when we greeted and said goodbye or if I had a migraine she'd stroke my hair while I helped her shop. Just the sweetest woman.❤

@EyeSeeThruYou

Жыл бұрын

In 1998, I was flying from Washington, DC to Arlanda, Sweden. My seat mate for the first leg of the journey was a Sikh man. When passengers got settled in and the flight stewards were finished with the safety demonstration, one came through the cabin, verifying meals. She asked my name and verified my vegetarian meal, and then the man in the seat beside me, and he confirmed, too. She grinned, and in a friendly nature, surmised we must be friends, since we had the same meal types, side by side. We all smiled and laughed, understanding it was humor meant put us at ease before a long flight. As a vegetarian for a decade at that point, I'd heard far less kind things - even cruel and threatening at times - directed towards me. My seatmate struck up conversation with me (I'm of NW European origins, he of Indian origin), asking how I came to be vegetarian. He then shared with me that it is a feature of his culture and faith as a Sikh. We had a wonderful conversation over the hours of the flight, celebrated our vegetarian meals, and talked more. At the end of the flight, we shook hands and wished each other well and departed. I would like to think my experience was not an aberration, but the norm among decent, civil people everywhere.

It's always interesting when I watch videos of people filming themselves being upset. If I were being victimized, I would point the camera at my offender. That makes a stronger case. That didn't happen here, so it shows that she considers herself to be self-important and that the rest of the world by default should adore her and admire her courage. Her acting is laughable. Thanks for your spot-on analysis.

It breaks my heart, he’s trying so hard to explain but it’s clear his language barrier was inhibiting him in noticing how certain words offended her. She bullied him and he is clearly afraid of what she’ll do to him and his reputation. All he tried to do was ask question to learn about her and educate himself better. She could have helped him, maybe even give him some sentence examples to better get across his curiosity and learn easier. instead she used this as a chance to be a victim and get internet brownie points and sympathy. . Horrible woman, glad it backfired.

I'm Asian (Korean), and I get asked all the time what I am because people can't tell, which is totally fine. It's not meant to hurt or degrade you. It's a simple question to understand you or your culture better. People need to stop being such spoiled, entitled little shits and realize there is actual racism being experienced in the world.

@Njx063

8 ай бұрын

Yuppp exactly. It only becomes annoying when they say stuff like “Chinese and Korean is the same thing” or some variation. Still don’t feel the need to pick a fight with them.

@jimmyyounger618

8 ай бұрын

Yes! I grew up in S.F., in the Richmond District, a mixed salad of ethnicities with a variety of Asians. As a kid, I was always interested in the cultural distinctions between groups and over time I acquired the ability to observe subtle patterns in appearance that might indicate ethnicity. Instead of being offended by my guess, they were entertained by my curiosity and surprised by my frequency of guessing correctly. I would follow up by saying hello or using a phrase in their native language. This never offended anyone, and instead was met with a smile that opened the door to friendship - enduring friendships now many decades old. The best man in my wedding is half Chinese. Fast forward some years and my young blonde son was the ring bearer in his sister's wedding. At the altar, his blonde hair stood out like a soar thumb in a line up that was otherwise entirely Asian. 😄 To think, the beginning of our friendship and discovery of what would become my second family all started when I was 11, after I approached a kid in boy scouts and guessed his father was a serviceman and his mother Japanese. (She's Chinese, but met his father in Japan... Close enough!) I'll never understand how she was offended. I might easily do the same thing with no intention beyond starting a friendly conversation, which I believe was his intention as well. What she did will probably change his attitude toward Asians. His caution will make him seem cold and unfriendly, which may be interpreted as racist by Asians meeting him in the future. These leaps to accusations of racism in the absence of racism only makes things worse. Plus, she blew an opportunity to reciprocate and inquire about his background - to learn and build another bridge between cultures. Damn shame.

@EzBible

8 ай бұрын

I was married to a woman from Laos. And you are right. Koreans are the hardest to tell where they are from. Should be proud of that. It is only natural for a man dating an Asian to look and try to figure out where they are from. Which is the opposite of saying all Asians look alike.

@michelleheadley2911

8 ай бұрын

It’s not like people can tell my family is greek. I’m blonde and blue eyes. My mother is tan skin and brown hair and eyes. Sister too. But they could easily be mistaken for Italian or Turkish.

@thandolwethufezilencanana1792

8 ай бұрын

Right? Asia is not one country and people want to educate themselves instead of assuming and acting ignorant

I'm uncomfortable people like her are walking around.

@Remy4489

Жыл бұрын

Yep, she's an entitled little brat who needs to check her woke privilege. She needs a time-out, as she's not ready to be part of real society.

@Remy4489

Жыл бұрын

Yep, she's an entitled little brat who needs to check her woke privilege. She needs a time-out, as she's not ready to be part of real society.

@cindyt2420

Жыл бұрын

Right, she makes me uncomfortable as well

@leniobarcelos1770

Жыл бұрын

She'd probably get offended with you saying that lol. "People like us? Who's US?" 😏

@paulw5039

Жыл бұрын

@Ailbe Woke weirdos of any race make me uncomfortable. They make everyone uncomfortable. Also nauseous.

Victimhood Olympics 🥇

That poor guy 🥺 Thank you for making this video on this

As an Asian American, I'm getting second-hand embarrassment from this woman. How is she on the verge of tears from that? Unbelievable. What a disgrace to her ancestors.

@WarriorofIslam-fd1nr

Жыл бұрын

As Steven He would say. FAILURE

@biscoito1r

Жыл бұрын

"second-hand embarrassment" - We have a word for that in Portuguese :)

@JesusChristisGodintheFlesh

Жыл бұрын

@@biscoito1rwhat is it?

@Adeon55

Жыл бұрын

@@biscoito1r Tell us >:O

@zxyatiywariii8

Жыл бұрын

@biscoito1r Please tell me? 🙏🏽 I need a word for that! People often ask me "where are you from?" because I'm American of Polynesian/Japanese/Roma ethnicity; and it's usually simple human curiosity.

To think that he probably went home that day and felt so bad… its so heartbreaking. Her entitlement is ridiculous.

@josephpark2093

Жыл бұрын

@@Time_to_Stop_Animal_Abuse ??? I don't see why you felt the need to post this at all. Nearly everyone who watched the video would've felt sympathy for the man. Why are you going on about something nobody talked about? No one is going to applaud you for caring about bigger problems. Grow up.

@kwak1k

Жыл бұрын

​@@Time_to_Stop_Animal_Abusegot another one here☝️

@Time_to_Stop_Animal_Abuse

Жыл бұрын

@josephpark2093 - u reported me, hence got all my comments deleted. That was Uber Woke of you Mr. Park. 나중에 말하자.

@josephpark2093

Жыл бұрын

​@@Time_to_Stop_Animal_Abuse ​?? For starters, I didn't report you. I don't give enough crap about internet drama to report anyone online. Secondly, I'm surprised and also not surprised that you managed to find out my ethnicity, probably thanks to your screen-addicted nature. Firstly, let me state that I agree with you. People of our generation are intellectually and morally crippled. They've been unexposed to a lot of hardship and forgot about the higher purpose that is in dealing with it. Then there's your case; why the heck are you so caught up on dogs and cats? It wrenches any person's heart to see such disfigurement. Once, 2 mice got caught in a trap I set in my house. They were pests and as a man in my household, I took up my duty to painlessly kill them. It was an awful experience. I don't like death. No one does. Change, however, does not come through starting needless arguments online or forcing your worldview on others. That's a brassy form of virtue signaling and, I assure you, nobody cares and nobody thinks you really care about what you talk about. What are you doing for the poor animals? Are you out in nature saving the animals? Pushing for more eco-friendly codes? What have you besides a nihilistic attitude and a willingness to dig up information on strangers online? Did you feel accomplished finding out I was Korean? Did the retorts you came up with satisfy your deep quenching need to feel like you're doing something grand, Mr. I-call-myself-humans-are-the-worst? Pretending you are so above others morally and intellectually... Golly, I pity you. Grow up, kid. You can't possibly be anything besides 14-16 years old.

@aidensnow5017

Жыл бұрын

@@Time_to_Stop_Animal_Abuse There is a clear difference between someone being "woke" and not having the patience to deal with your unemployed behavior in these comments.

Attention seeking, plain and simple. How can someone actually function in society when they are this easily offended?

that girl never felt threatened in her entire life. If you truly feel threatened, you bolt it out of the car, you don't stay there filming yourself and arguing with the person who's "scaring" you.

We need to stop calling these people "sensitive"; this assumes they actually believe they're being victimized. We must call them what they actually are: harassers.

@TheTetraDZN

Жыл бұрын

straight narcissists is the correct term

@ponderwithjess

Жыл бұрын

absolutely. This was harassment. Emotional and psychological. She messed up his day so bad. And probably believes she was offended. She didn't get that she was being mean with confidence and entitlement.

@MeganMay62442

Жыл бұрын

I agree being sensitive is different. At least it used to mean that you were very emotional, empathetic, and feel things deeply and sensitive to others' emotions. So for example you may easily cry when you see someone else upset or watch a sad movie. Whereas some people who are not as sensitive don't cry easily, etc. It's a totally different thing just like they have appropriated the word "trigger" which is a mental health, trauma related thing, not just anything that piss you off. But they've taken these words and worped the meaning.

@leetinder2314

Жыл бұрын

@@MeganMay62442 Megan, I agree with most of what you're saying. Tho, I disagree with it being a mental health issue. ADHD, Autism, those... are mental health issues. A legitimate something wrong, in the brain. This is wokeism. It's not an illness. It's a derangement. It's a craziness. And it's not biochemical, it's social. This person is a snowflake. Pure and simple.

@fredhughes4115

Жыл бұрын

I was about to post this exact thing, when I saw your comment. This is not "sensitivity". This is being on a mission to seek out and find racism, whether it actually exists or not - and they WILL find it, even where it doesn't exist at all. "Sensitive" implies that there was something - any little thing - to be sensitive about. These people don't require any kind of trigger, they bring their entire agenda with them.

My husband is Chinese and when the woman said “it’s racist to say we all look the same” he started laughing saying “because all of us do look the same” 😂😂

@randomshorts739

11 ай бұрын

Based

@Yukari499

11 ай бұрын

Half white half Japanese and people always guess but I’m never offended! Even been called a gook and a jap but they’re words that’s all! People are soft and ridiculous these days and lack humor

@napa5235

11 ай бұрын

@alittlebitofjessica6924 tbh Latinos don't look all the same... Simply because latino is not really a "race"...

@mgordon1100

11 ай бұрын

Truth is, we all look the same! There's only so much genetics to go around. Ever run into someone and think they look familiar to you? That happens all the time. It's a fantasy to go around life thinking that you're completely unique. This goes for all genetic make-ups. There are really only about a dozen or so different faces.

@LordSabbathiel

11 ай бұрын

@@napa5235 Because there is such a broad spectrum of Latin peoples, or Latinos, of multiple races. The most unique are the Asian Latinos, The many Asian Latin-Americans of the South American continent and Mexico, AND the Filipinos of the Philippines, named for King Philip of Spain.

Amala Im so glad there are young people such as yourself with incredible sensibility and reason. I love your show.

Elevating personal offense to the same level as lynching, beating, blackballing, etc is offensive. You’re offended and uncomfortable, fine. Get out the car and don’t call your “offender” racist and imply he’s dangerous. She spent minutes with the door open just to get more “footage” despite her being uncomfortable. What was more important???

This woman wasn't on the brink of tears. She wasn't raging. She was ENJOYING this. This is what bullies do. She deserves every bit of shaming she gets. She should get called out, to her face, on what an awful human being she is.

@JanieBee

Жыл бұрын

I agree 😢 so sad. I think bullying is necessary to society to an extent, however I think because we’re living in the end times, we are breeding too many narcissists and sociopaths who are bullying others by creating problems and then playing the victim. It’s one thing to have someone call you nasty names, or even try and sabotage you because they don’t like you. It’s another thing to be having a totally normal conversation with a STRANGER and having something you say twisted and painting you out to be an evil person

@herbertbell9438

Жыл бұрын

@Sarah Joyce Ya, NKVD material.

@Alteori

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! It is typical bully and abusive behavior. I hope she gets what's coming to her

@jozillarex

Жыл бұрын

Even if she WAS on the brink of tears, who gives a shit? She's an immature adult who's this way because she never got counseling, that's all. What do you do with misbehaved children? Well, best solution is to put them in their place. Humans need leaders.. whether they be mom, dad, the gang leader, the country's ruler(s), or God. The qualities of the leadership are a direct reflection of the populace.

@killcat1971

Жыл бұрын

Yup crybullies, a scourge.

I love how she says, "Don't worry, I won't tell the company," but then proceeds to post this video on the internet to blast him to millions of strangers.

@bink

Жыл бұрын

And guaranteed Uber has seen it by now, but at least she didn't show his face or give his name.

@arlenadietz4344

Жыл бұрын

She is just wanting clicks. Hoping she would get her 15 of fame.

@_M-_-C_

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. I feel so sorry for the guy, hes gunna be watching everything he says to everyone now and scared to ask simple questions. The only racist in that Uber is her

@Melethasgar

Жыл бұрын

@@_M-_-C_ Imagine this guy not making smalk talk for fear of this BS happening again, and then someone doing the same thing because they felt uncomfortable due to his offensive and clearly racist silence.

@pstew5309

Жыл бұрын

I hope they do see this. To show that some percentage of complaints are this. This right here. So nownitels even harder for the company to do something about the real problems. Because this gets reported as the same thing as some guy who tried to lure her into a dark alley.

She wasn't a victim,she is a bully.😡

This is a massive slap in the face to people who actually deal with racism on a daily basis. My God. What is the world coming to where people are not just so easily offended, but feel it's their right to not be offended. I just don't entertain these idiots anymore. You want to be offended? Be offended. I couldn't care less.

Last Uber I took, my driver had an "accent"... I asked him where he was from. He said, "A place maybe you never heard of, Mombasa." I told him I have always wanted to go to Kenya. He was thrilled I knew of his home town and amazed that I wished to visit his country. We talked about The Big 5, the Maasai, their jewelry, the poverty in Mombasa, as well as Tanzania, Namibia, and Botswana. He was proud to talk about his heritage and delighted to meet someone who appreciated his culture. This person was looking for a fight. She blew it. It is a sad commentary on society if we have to fear trying to connect with people.

@blah914

Жыл бұрын

yeah, most ppl are happy to talk about their homeland - myself included - ppl like her ruin interesting icebreaker conversations. i love leaning about other places from the perspectives of the ppl that are actually from there. i was chatting (gaming forum) with a pakistani guy the other day, and I guessed where he was from based on his name, which just happened to be a flower thats the main ingredient in my favourite perfume ❤ he was so happy i knew anything about his culture that wasnts... yknow, politics and sad stuff.

@marilynb1298

Жыл бұрын

@@blah914 Exactly! People want to share the good of where they come from and they love it when you are genuinely appreciate where they come from. I admit I am sad when foreigners poo on the US. Yeah we are not perfect but we are not a bad lot... And I am really happy when people tell me they enjoyed visiting or are curious about my country... I was a visitor in the country my driver immigrated to so maybe he felt good about someone being excited about is homeland. Who knows? He was definitely surprised I knew his home city was in Kenya. Maybe not a well known city? Americans are a little notorious at being bad at geography... But it's my trivia hobby... : )

@eamonnmckeown6770

Жыл бұрын

I joke around with an African lady and mentioned the name of two warring tribes in her country. She feigned ignorance the first day but when I pressed her on it she boisterously told me her father was very rich and they had a big house in the city and those ' people ' were way off in the country and were nobodies. All in good jest but it shows even touchy subjects can be handled lightly.

@janel7533

Жыл бұрын

Famous for Tanzanite and Botswana agate..probably racist if i said that to him.

@astralbee2102

Жыл бұрын

@@marilynb1298 foreigners have never shit on the US, without them we wouldn’t have very many things like different restaurants, shops and even infrastructures. Illegal immigrants are one thing but people that come here legally wanting to better themselves and their life are fully welcomed in my eyes. The best restaurant I worked for was owned by a polish man and I’m so thankful to have experienced his culture. I’m so thankful to be living in the USA period because of how diverse it is. Sadly identity politics is ruining that diversity.

Also, I love how she was offended when he used the word "them" as a generalization, but she has no issue generalizing with "us"... The double standards are strong with this one

@iroccata

Жыл бұрын

He was using the pronoun he identified people as, she should have been proud.

@cerajane11

Жыл бұрын

Darn I thought I got in on the first comment on that... 😊

@zbrlvr

Жыл бұрын

This was exactly my thought!

@annward7794

Жыл бұрын

Yea I noticed that as well 🫢

@Itsrebekahstar

Жыл бұрын

Good catch.😊

It is so upsetting to see people try to do this to people who have no ill intentions.

What's worse is that he might stop being friendly because of one girl's meltdown!

I am Italian and some Asians women told me they struggle to distinguish Europeans because they all look the same to them. they are right, it's difficult for a foreigner to distinguish between an Italian and a Spanish person. it was actually interesting hearing it from someone edit: if she truly felt uncomfortable and unsafe she wouldn't have started the argument

@Tinaleann_

Жыл бұрын

Im Italian and I also have gotten confused for being Spanish. I wasn’t offended at all .

@Jianju69

Жыл бұрын

That's different! They are white! ;o)

@nodiggity8746

Жыл бұрын

@@Tinaleann_ they constantly confuse me for french, because of my accent too. I am like ok who cares

@Grail434

Жыл бұрын

This right here!

@nodiggity8746

Жыл бұрын

@@forsociopoliticalstuff2629 to be honest i struggle to distinguish between spanish and italians sometimes. I think the main thing I notice is that spanish women often have an oblong face opposed to italians, but aside from that it's hard. Often I can't tell the difference. Usually it's more about the way they dress. I can recognize an Italian person from miles from the way they dress lol people constantly think I am polish, french, hungarian...they rarely guess I am italian. I don't take offense. I mean it's not offensive to begin with

So upsetting to hear him plea with her for his job. Her lack of empathy and self importance to do that to this guy speaks volumes about her character.

@d3w3yd3c1m4l

9 ай бұрын

She's gross, entitled and manipulative.

@eduardochavacano

9 ай бұрын

I have encountered a really Woke gay Americans, who are just Immigrants from Asia and so I wont think this video is fake. This is so real. Such people exist. I only met one. I feel really bad for the taxi driver.

@TheTwil1

9 ай бұрын

Someone should find out where SHE works……..

@Dementia_Joe

9 ай бұрын

She was probably one of the bottom feeders cheering the Israeli baby massacre... Total lack of empathy... But it's unreasonable to expect empathy from a STOOL SAMPLE....

@donnah.3779

8 ай бұрын

I know! I feel so bad for this guy.

Anything for a social media video. Shameful. Shame on this girl. Shame to the maximum.

Omg thank you for sharing this and your total insightful, sane, and human commentary.

I'm offended how she treated that nice man. She made him feel horrible and embarrassed him. Way worse than what he did to her, which was nothing wrong.

@wdiprod

Жыл бұрын

Yes. She should apologize.

@Enoo-Wynn

Жыл бұрын

And now he might be scared to be friendly to people, If so she's just made the world a little bit worse.

@bludmonk

Жыл бұрын

She best apologize to him

@NinaCruz21361

Жыл бұрын

It's doubly awful because he experiences racism, he sounded so hurt that he offended her. She didn't wanna hear it.

@whisperienced

Жыл бұрын

This is the uber equivalent of the feral, feral, feral gym girl.

she's not sensitive, she's looking for trouble

@emanx222

Жыл бұрын

Oh she's both 😆 the 2 can be true at the same time

@shagaltolud327

Жыл бұрын

And one day god is gonna give her the trouble she is looking for,just waite and see and it is gonna be real for her.

@momof1576

Жыл бұрын

She is looking to cause trouble

@zazilicious

Жыл бұрын

Right? She wanted to be the victim and act like she was the bigger person by not reporting him but what she really wanted was for us to say report him to Uber then she would have made a part 2😂😂😂 How do you spend your time editing a video and adding caption then say you weren’t looking for clout smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

@melancholycollie1466

Жыл бұрын

She's "entitled" by offendedness

I hope she’s ashamed of herself. I felt so bad for him

Its so much better to ASK someone rather than ASSUME their race or ethnicity, he was being polite in asking!! What a sensitive woman.

She’s not offended she’s just the pettiest of tyrants wanting to hold power over a foreign taxi driver while pretending she’s the victim

@cintiapollock2486

Жыл бұрын

oh this is best sums it up post so far!

@KiwiLuvsPieOfficial

Жыл бұрын

A person with an understanding to her country giving a foreigner a hard time. That is literally the actual problem here 😞

@Mustang1984

Жыл бұрын

This is the exact way I would have summed it up. She seems to relish the "power dynamic".

@bestdjaf7499

Жыл бұрын

Notice her "upper class" British accent. Older Poor Immigrant guy is begging her!! What kind of world we are living in?!

@querida1809

Жыл бұрын

I am so tired of this victimhood mentality culture going on. Some people are so sensitive.

I'm a Brit in Japan, and yesterday I was cleaning my bike on my doorstep. A random guy comes up to me and asks me where I'm from, how long I've been in Japan, what Japanese food I like, what nationality my family is, and what passport I hold. He also told me that I'm a Christian. What do I do? Scream racism and get offended? In that case I'd be offended pretty much every time I stepped outside my house. People are curious, that's all.

@dominiguillen2473

Жыл бұрын

That's the way people make friends, by asking about the person. Yes exactly, curiosity. Plus that's how we learn about other cultures too. Otherwise, we'll all roam around being ignorant. :)

@mhuston865

Жыл бұрын

Our family was stationed in Misawa for four years. We loved it. The locals were very helpful and were happy to try to work with us when we stumbled over the language. They appreciated that we tried to use the language, even if it meant using a phrase book, dictionary, and various gestures. They were just so happy to see people respecting their culture and trying to learn about it. Loved our time there.

@gardendancing1012

Жыл бұрын

I love how genetics combine. I like learning about people’s ancestral background, I find it fascinating. So far people have been proud of their heritage and are happy to share it with me. But I live in a small town with small town values.

@giza8746

Жыл бұрын

AMEN

@decepticonmecha

Жыл бұрын

@Art Garfunkle I wonder if it's because Christians still hold on to traditional values that the Left tends to abandon, and the Japanese can relate to that.

She is so determined to be offended. Putting his job at risk so she can get 'clicks'. How selfish and entitled she is.

Thank you, thank you for pointing out the obvious. So frustrating to watch some either extremely ignorant or just trying to get on social media. This poor man having to apologize for absolutely nothing.😢😡

I feel so bad for that poor man. He's just trying to make a living and support himself, his daughter, and his girlfriend, and this snowflake is criminalizing him and putting his career in danger all because he asked a simple question about her. Absolutely insane.

@paulw5039

Жыл бұрын

Legitimately sociopathic.

@ohsweetmystery

Жыл бұрын

Stop conversing with random people. Anyone might be a woke lunatic. It's nuts.

@jenniferpearce1052

Жыл бұрын

He's just trying to connect with someone, through the fact that his girlfriend is Chinese and this woman might have been too. It was clearly meant with warmth, not I'll intent

@scratchpenny

Жыл бұрын

@@ohsweetmystery I agree, but it's not the long-term answer. That just creates a world of paranoia and fear that keeps us separate from each other. And that makes it easier for us to be controlled by the power players who thrive on this agenda.

@sugarspice7768

Жыл бұрын

Yep. He was literally just trying to make small talk and connect. So said--- we can't even be polite and social without someone taking offense. 😢

She is awfully calm for someone who feels so uncomfortable. It seems more that she has been waiting for this moment to twist someone's words to get her 15 seconds of victim hood.

@caleidoo

Жыл бұрын

Obviously she had to hide her fear of death, or the man would have skinned her alive on the spot. While spitting jokes about Asian people.

@TexZenMaster

Жыл бұрын

I've got 23 stitches in my face and a loose septum from >200 violent racist attacks, but this woman got asked where she is from. How terrible...

@GeckoCityUK

Жыл бұрын

She's an Ass-Hat

@poohb22

Жыл бұрын

@TexZenMaster I know right. My niece her mother is filipino and her dad is white. She was bullied at school by 2 girls because her dad is white. Now that is horrible

@bryanwoods3373

Жыл бұрын

She literally held the door open the entire time. At any time in her lecturing, she could have just stood up.

She damaged him and now he will be afraid to talk to anyone in the future. He was probably a very nice man but he will probably look at everyone else differently because of what this awful woman did to him.

Thank you for highlighting this video. There are too many negative people just looking to go viral without any regards for other human beings.

She creates a problem out of thin air. Continues to say she’s uncomfortable, yet doesn’t exit the car. Makes sure her camera never leaves her face. Feigns tears while still filming herself. Girl deserves an Oscar.

@MLWJ1993

Жыл бұрын

I don't know, looks like your typical movie without any clear plot 😂

@bradgaw3353

Жыл бұрын

Her acting was as good as AH

@YoungMommy14

Жыл бұрын

I'd hardly say that she 'deserves an Oscar'. Her acting was pretty horrible.

@JB-yt9im

Жыл бұрын

She deserves something but not sure it’s an Oscar.

@erindeerhart5538

Жыл бұрын

​@@YoungMommy14Well, she's on a par with Will Smith, if that counts for anything.

So true 👏🏾- I get asked where I’m from all the time. It’s a conversation starter. The individual in video is ruining the art of conversation. I hope she learns from this experience.

You’re the best! So glad I found this channel revolving around logic and facts.

I’m happy this woman is seen for the villain she is . This man’s voice makes me want to cry . A beautiful person being manipulated , bullied, and guilted for being a perfectly friendly person . Disgusting . She should get fired from HER job .

@kymo6343

Жыл бұрын

...Nah. And then we have crazies like you who go completely over the opposite deep end. I think she overreacted a bit too, but also, being friendly can easily be seen as being nosey if you don't know a person. It's her right not to share personal information like that which he was asking for, she didn't handle it the best, but I get why some ppl would think it's rude to ask that of a stranger in a workplace setting esp. This woman is no saint but she's certainly no villain either.

@whatever1661

Жыл бұрын

@@kymo6343 i think she is clearly the villain in this story and should feel ashamed of that. Nontheless i agree with you. How can we blame others ruining life if we want to to the same. This is the hypocrisy which turned me (partly) away from conservatives.

@kymo6343

Жыл бұрын

@@whatever1661 I think villain is just a pretty strong word. Misguided, in the wrong, sure those fit, but villain just seems like too much IMO.

@whatever1661

Жыл бұрын

i see your point.

@arthurtwa

Жыл бұрын

As an UBER driver, we are at a huge disadvantage. People do not realize that puttin a false accussation (or even low scores) just out of spite affect our work. If you get reported for sexual harrasement or something similar we could lose our account and the ability to continue working.

I feel so sorry for the uber driver. He clearly just being friendly. Hope he is okay and aware he is not wrong. She is so entitled.

@downtime86stars17

Жыл бұрын

"Entitled" is the new euphemism for "spoiled brat."

@jensphiliphohmann1876

Жыл бұрын

She isn't. She believes she is.

@swind2553

Жыл бұрын

According to video uploader "Amala Ekpunobi (however you even pronounce that name)", she said "this wasn't even racist, why is she recording this incident"🙄 In other words, only blaks can be hypocrits and play the "victim card". Nobody else can be entitled, only blaks like her, ok 🙄

@2st486

Жыл бұрын

i would love to hear his girlfriend ranting at this idiot passenger in chinese XD

@francismnyele

Жыл бұрын

I pray he does not develop a fear of people of other races

I don’t know how your channel ended up on my feed, but I’m glad it did! You are so real and so right. Thank you for your videos.❤️🇨🇦

I found this informative from both angles. So thank you for sharing this.

Even though she felt uncomfortable, she managed to overcome that and remain in the stationary vehicle for several minutes while collecting enough footage to confirm her victimhood and martyrdom. Stunning and brave!

@Samlebens1

Жыл бұрын

Haha

@JanieBee

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, every time I genuinely feel terrified for my life I’m totally able to continue a relatively calm conversation with said person trying to destroy me 😮‍💨

@gracymitamura8547

Жыл бұрын

sarcasm?

@HolisticLady-kh2im

Жыл бұрын

​@jayy.alexis7720 exactly and on top of that purposely keeping yourself there for several more minutes

@Which-Craft

Жыл бұрын

Stunning yes. Brave? Never in physical danger, so no. I can appreciate your sarcasm though, especially since she was willing to "go through" all that with an urgent meeting and took the time to argue and wait for an uber instead of just getting there like she actually did have priorities.

She really thought everyone would bandwagon behind her. Smh. Oh, how the tables have turned. "Cancel culture" actually did something right for once.

@junior.von.claire

Жыл бұрын

Man, the obsession with feelings is a liability for many people.

@TheProdigalMeowMeowMeowReturns

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t call it “cancel culture” when those who promote cancel culture get their comeuppance

@sampsonroofing7377

Жыл бұрын

I think the tide is finally turning with this awful cancel culture insanity. Bill Maher deserves some of the credit.

@Ota_ku69

Жыл бұрын

@@TheProdigalMeowMeowMeowReturns good point

@paulw5039

Жыл бұрын

@@TheProdigalMeowMeowMeowReturns Flip the script on them. They call it 'consequence culture'. Let's see how they cope with the consequences of their behavior.

Omg that statement “I don’t feel comfortable, you have to respect my wishes”.

Great video, and I’m sure you hear this ALL the time but you’re so amazing - thank you for doing what you’re doing.

She has put a man's livelihood at risk by feigning victimhood - that is a selfish act on her part.

@adamjuneau6287

9 ай бұрын

seeking false sympathy

@nenabunena

9 ай бұрын

Narcissist and a sociopath

@kealik5235

9 ай бұрын

This lady should lock herself in her home till she grows the ability to get through life without seeking sympathy and being a victim from a simple interaction

@debmoadd

8 ай бұрын

The complaining woman may have ego-poisoning. Or she may think he's too far beneath her in the sense of class. THAT is part of many cultures in the world, including (dare I say I?) Asia?

@flowermeerkat6827

8 ай бұрын

You put that well. I was feeling the same thing. They young ladies condescension and arrogance is amazing.

I’m an ethnic Chinese Singaporean and have lived in Scotland for 6 years. I went to my local chippie and after placing my order the lady there said to me, while she was cooking, in her Scottish accent: “you have a strange accent! Where are you from?” I told her I’m from Singapore and she explained afterwards that while I looked Chinese, I did not sound Chinese, and was simply curious because she had never met a person like me before in all of her life making fish and chips at that store. She was very friendly and we had a nice conversation about what life in Scotland and Singapore was like for me. Nothing racist there!

@izabellavanryn3531

Жыл бұрын

I was just on a day tour in Scotland a week ago, and our tour guide was talking to my husband, myself (U.S.), and my Aunt who lives in Surrey, England. He was trying to guess where we were from based on our accents, and my Aunt's was completely throwing him off. Because while she has been living back in England for 7 years now, she moved to the states in her 30's and lived there for 30 years, so she had lost some of her accent. He was a lovely man who was just curious.

@izabellavanryn3531

Жыл бұрын

It makes me sad that the driver probably doesn't feel like he can ask this question any longer, he probably asked that question to everybody, enjoyed knowing where all his fares are from and what brought them to that particular city. A conversation that was once considered normal, polite, and expected when traveling abroad.

@SaraLee1

Жыл бұрын

That was due to the place - Scotland & you're friendly. In America, everything is offensive and name calling is the trend.

@constantineblinkov2972

Жыл бұрын

Did you get it on tape??? Alert the media!!!

@TremblingQualifier

Жыл бұрын

Considering the context of the video, your comment is fairly dismissive to bring up. On first glance, your comment has a lot to do with the experiences of the Asian in the video but looking deeper, it's quite different. Also, the experiences of those who emigrated later in life versus those who were born or emigrated earlier in their life tend to be much different.

Amala God bless you for the content you make in the understanding you show everyone. I think you were doing society a real service.

She's not sensitive, she's SELF-OBSESSED. Her behaviour is disgusting and she should be thoroughly ashamed of herself for this exchange. What an embarrassment she must be to her parents.

@mikeydoodle143

Жыл бұрын

She is trying to soooooooooo hard to have a british or aussie accent. still sounds like Asian to me. I, an Asian, myself. She does not like to be called Asian??? Did she look at herself in the mirror???

@ernsttrekiew198

Жыл бұрын

@@mikeydoodle143 If that entitled little tw@t feels that she isn't safe when someone asks a "wrong" question, she should just stay home, hide under the bed and never go outside again.

@raevj

Жыл бұрын

@@mikeydoodle143 yeah, I couldn’t figure out the weird faux-British accent

@mikeydoodle143

Жыл бұрын

@@raevj "faux brit accent" LOL hahahahahahahhahahahahahha

@lea-anne9133

Жыл бұрын

She thought she was being smart😅 And anyone who knows her will hate her for this now

These false claims of racism need to be punished.

@lithari1480

Жыл бұрын

I agree, but we both know, it won't.

@worstcaseofcrabsever5510

Жыл бұрын

Actually we need to stop caring if someone IS racist. Who cares. Racism is not illegal. Racism is simply a form of tribalism and therefor human nature. The notion that we can dictate the beliefs and opinions of others is quite silly. I dont care if someone chooses not to like any group. Because they have a right to their own opinion and often the stereotypes are true.

@ericparis224

Жыл бұрын

I just never take that claim seriously and automatically start calling out the accuser regardless, racism exist get over it.

@thelegend3965

Жыл бұрын

@@worstcaseofcrabsever5510make me think of that Morgan Freeman interview, where he was asked how we can stop racism, and Freeman said “stop talking about it.”

@tink8956

Жыл бұрын

She exerted power over him in claiming racism. Hearing him asking for forgiveness for sure gave her the power feels. Crazy sad. No one will talk to each other in fear of offending at this rate.

It's annoying that we've convinced people that being curious about other people is somehow a bad thing. We used to encourage that and find common ground through discussing our differences.

If I ever had to do this kind of job, I would be silent and pay attention to the road.

If she’s going to apologize, she should apologize to the Uber driver. ‘Apologizing’ to the people angry at her instead of the actual person she harassed just proves that she doesn’t truly mean it.

@HavianEla

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@MarinaCadenza

Жыл бұрын

Yeah exactly, she is only apologizing because people got mad at her. If no one told her to apologize she wouldn't

@sharmundt6188

Жыл бұрын

A true apology is not the words you use (ie I'm sorry) but the action to try and never repeat that original action again, otherwise it's like someone slapping you in the face, and saying sorry over and over again. How many times do you accept their apology before you realize they don't mean it? Forgive, change, remove yourself if need be, and move forwards. If you've done wrong, apologize and take the steps to make the positive changes you need to become a better person for yourself and for those around you, regardless if it's constant contact or a once off.

@feanorian21maglor38

Жыл бұрын

It's typical narcissistic behaviour, these non-apologies.

@debbiehall9396

Жыл бұрын

She doesn't! She's a fake, from beginning to end!!

"I experienced racism this morning," she felt excitedly.

@MikeMakesUK

7 ай бұрын

To be fair, she did experience racism. It was just from her. And she is obviously very experienced at it.

@laurahuynh8333

7 ай бұрын

She wants to be the victim so bad.

As a german I learned that in English such a person is called KAREN :))

This reminds me of that time in the early 90s when I was the only Hispanic girl in school and was followed by 5 students off the bus to my apartment. They banged at the door with knives threatening to slice me up because I didn't belong there until my neighbor stepped in. What this "poor' woman went through is exactly the same thing... *sarcasm

He is literally scared halfway to death begging her, telling they would fire him, pleading that he has a family... it's gotten so bad that he is begging as if they are about to murder him... this is getting infuriating

@sarahberkner

Жыл бұрын

She did explain she wouldn't say anything to the company, also it was dumb to get offended and film it but at least she didn't show his face.

@e.starling141

Жыл бұрын

​@@sarahberkner The point is that he shouldn't have to grovel to her to not lose his job. And if he hadn't, I guarantee he would have.

@moverick

Жыл бұрын

Yeah these women are real bullies

@HavianEla

Жыл бұрын

I need people DESPERATELY to understand that when the left want you out of your job - they ARE trying to kill you. No income so you can’t keep up with rent/house payment, utilities, gas, groceries, medicines if you take them, etc. Sooner or later you’ll be out of shelter and at the whims of society, or dead. Your job is your means of obtaining goods and services legally in exchange for cash. They WANT to destroy you. They just don’t want to get blood on their shoes while at it, so they take more passive aggressive routes to their enemies’ death.

@RR-ds4sd

Жыл бұрын

What comforts me, is that if she has a job, she's going to get fired as soon as the matter settles. I she doesn't have a job, whenever she has one and a colleague wants her fired, the video will resurface and she will be fired. This video will haunt her forever. Internet never forgets.

I hired a cab earlier today and the driver was an older Asian woman , I'm an older native American woman and I live in southeast Asia for some time back in the 80s , I asked her if she was from the Philippines , she smiled and began talking about Thai food and we had a wonderful conversation about Thai cooking which I absolutely loved . there was not even a mention of racism both going and coming from my destination . that my friends is the difference between the generations . being a victim is a choice 🗝️ thank you Amala 🕯️

@IsThisThePrizeIveWaitedFor

Жыл бұрын

I am also of an older generation. It concerns me how young people these days blow so many things out of proportion. They can no longer distinguish between actual problems with their feelings. Even if what he said was offensive (which I don’t think it was), getting that upset over it is mental. No one is responsible for your feelings but you.

@im_noToKa

Жыл бұрын

@@IsThisThePrizeIveWaitedFor isn't it quite rediculas tho and correct you are in regards to being caretaker of anyones feelings . these young folk are coddled brats in my honest opinion , they need to go out a get a real job as we may have at about age 15 .. smh 🤦 peace and joy to you 🍵

@bobbiejojackson9448

Жыл бұрын

I'm a Gen-Xer (I'm 41) and I couldn't have said it better myself. That was perfect. Thank you, Tanya! ☺️

@im_noToKa

Жыл бұрын

@@bobbiejojackson9448 💜🕯️

@shaquanjamison8161

Жыл бұрын

The younger generation seem to be choosing victimhood more and more.

Great commentary. Dead on. I feel so sorry for that Uber driver. Do we know if that evil woman has apologized to him?

It's truly depressing how far we've regressed as a society in the last 10 or so years. Basic curiosity and small talk can now literally upend your life. All the strides we had made to be accepting of people how they are have been wiped away.

I’m an Asian and that Asian girl is utterly an embarrassment to me

@Bertranddeghaul

Жыл бұрын

Why are you embarrassed? Are you responsible for all other Asians (and is that just you or is there some secret rule I don't know about that every Asian in the world is responsible for every other Asian?) Unless you raised her as a parent, you are not responsible for her bad behaviour and shouldn't be embarrassed.

@mariaylllow

Жыл бұрын

@@Bertranddeghaulshe can still feel embarrassed

@tb1235

Жыл бұрын

You don't need to take ownership for other people's idiocy.

@tb1235

Жыл бұрын

​@@mariaylllow Of course, but feeling embarrassed for your ethnicity because of another person's behavior is silly.

@truthseeker4740

Жыл бұрын

@@mariaylllow I understand my point👏👍😊

“I was scared, he was a bigoted racist!” She sure did stay in the vehicle for A LONG TIME with that “aggressive” man 🤦🏻‍♀️

@katielee7364

Жыл бұрын

yeah he wasn't holding her Hostage, she quite literally could have just got out of the car.

@jadesterbaby

Жыл бұрын

@@katielee7364 you’re absolutely right. She didn’t get out and get away because she knew she had the upper hand the *whole* *time* Seems like she enjoyed making that poor man squirm in fear for his job.

@UltraGamma25

Жыл бұрын

​@@jadesterbaby Yepp

@leehalloway8787

Жыл бұрын

​@@jadesterbaby She's definitely a bully.

@Chiefs555

Жыл бұрын

Anything for content. She was so full of it