She Doesn't Want You

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On today's video Hafeez continues his new eight part series "Lessons I Wish My Big Brother Taught Me About Women." Every Saturday at 9am EST a new episode is going to be drop to help young men maximize and optimize their dating lives. Today's video is Part 7: She Doesn't Want You. Be sure to subscribe to get up to date on the content from the series and sign up for Patreon.
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  • @independentthought3390
    @independentthought33903 жыл бұрын

    When a girl ghosts you, flakes on you, is always late, she is not playing hard to get. She just doesn't give a crap about you.

  • @1BoiHot

    @1BoiHot

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @rm5282

    @rm5282

    3 жыл бұрын

    She acts like that when you are the reserve dude. You are either second or third string on her team. When Chad, or Leighton aren't available, it's your turn to waste your money on her. The thing to understand is that she is the second or third option for Chad and Leighton.

  • @rm5282

    @rm5282

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kuba P not at all. Like another commenter said yesterday the boulevard hath owneth her.

  • @tbys1416

    @tbys1416

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tradealotinjj9464 I don't expect anything from you all anymore

  • @kaylacarter8766

    @kaylacarter8766

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kuba P or maybe she just doesn’t want to hurt your feeling and you can’t identify social cues. I don’t know why men continue to pursue woman who made it clear they are not attracted to them. It’s not hard. Get a clue.

  • @Avallachgrey
    @Avallachgrey3 жыл бұрын

    My Daddy told me one time "Don't settle for a girl that settles for you. Find the one that wants you so bad she'll treat you like the man you should be."

  • @toomuchinformation

    @toomuchinformation

    3 жыл бұрын

    But what if you're not attracted to her?

  • @Avallachgrey

    @Avallachgrey

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@toomuchinformation Find one you are attracted to. Men like women don't have to settle.

  • @NeisiKay

    @NeisiKay

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lauriston Smith they’ll pass right over her in the same way that attractive women are passing over them

  • @kisigma1102

    @kisigma1102

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@toomuchinformation brother if it ain't mutual move on and build a life u like everything a gamble

  • @UltimateD755

    @UltimateD755

    3 жыл бұрын

    Factsssss

  • @bmblafamilia7761
    @bmblafamilia77613 жыл бұрын

    Treat a woman like a CELEBRITY and she'll treat you like a FAN.

  • @loranaSays

    @loranaSays

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao im a woman and I don't know why I find that funny lmao😂

  • @neilwilliams3639

    @neilwilliams3639

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@loranaSays because u got plenty of simps dudes u run over.. Its the truth

  • @tweeks9896

    @tweeks9896

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@neilwilliams3639 Ong

  • @jaspercooper5180

    @jaspercooper5180

    3 жыл бұрын

    "nice medifore".....

  • @leevankabonga9680

    @leevankabonga9680

    3 жыл бұрын

    Vice versa 🤗

  • @blackmantravel6954
    @blackmantravel69543 жыл бұрын

    The worst is when she only wants you when she becomes a single mother lol

  • @EJ-lh9co

    @EJ-lh9co

    3 жыл бұрын

    But never wanted you in highschool 😂

  • @benhartart9487

    @benhartart9487

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even then you will be priority number 5 after the kid, the dog, cat, the ex, then you

  • @1BoiHot

    @1BoiHot

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@benhartart9487 lol

  • @JAFFEJOE718

    @JAFFEJOE718

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @MobilediscowirralCoUk

    @MobilediscowirralCoUk

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@benhartart9487 Chad & Cat

  • @LordWinter
    @LordWinter3 жыл бұрын

    If she's "hard to read" she's not interested

  • @Tethloach1

    @Tethloach1

    3 жыл бұрын

    well said.

  • @D878D5g7

    @D878D5g7

    3 жыл бұрын

    Say it louder.

  • @LordWinter

    @LordWinter

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Tethloach1 Took me the longest time to figure this out, especially in online dating anything that's not an enthusiastic "YES" is just shades of "NO"

  • @dreamchasers7702

    @dreamchasers7702

    3 жыл бұрын

    damn, that hurts.

  • @breakingthemasks

    @breakingthemasks

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kawhi's burner account... accurate

  • @nathangood24578
    @nathangood245783 жыл бұрын

    “Choose a woman who chooses you.” -The Way of the Superior Man

  • @grichkabogdanoff6244

    @grichkabogdanoff6244

    3 жыл бұрын

    A 22yo angel georgous sexy petite blonde with blue eyes sociopath narcissit choose me... Worst experience of my life.

  • @G.DD3SS

    @G.DD3SS

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nobody likes low hanging fruit. Not men, not women. Most of us want people who don't want us and we have no time for the people who would do anything for us.

  • @kisigma1102

    @kisigma1102

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nah I'm good

  • @reydensmithen3124

    @reydensmithen3124

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@G.DD3SS Your way of thinking is why many relationships don't last. Pick the fruits at your level. It's all about compatibility.

  • @G.DD3SS

    @G.DD3SS

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@reydensmithen3124 It's not my way of thinking; it's an observation.

  • @l.a.beltranmusic4554
    @l.a.beltranmusic45543 жыл бұрын

    we associate good looks with quality, like they associate money with quality

  • @STMARTIN009

    @STMARTIN009

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good looks on the outside but ugly on the inside.

  • @kaym4389

    @kaym4389

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @onlythebrave4655

    @onlythebrave4655

    3 жыл бұрын

    Huh?they who?can pple stop talking en behalf of everybody?thanks

  • @Bolero_Son

    @Bolero_Son

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not really money. It is more like if the guy provides and protects. A rich guy with no intentions to provide and protect is a turn off. At the same time, a guy of moderate means, who would practically provide and protect, is great !

  • @neilwilliams3639

    @neilwilliams3639

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Freedom_and_Acceptance total bullshit

  • @joshua38410
    @joshua384103 жыл бұрын

    I guess the real question is, why would you even want to try to force being with someone. Love is so much better when it’s reciprocated

  • @heatherstacy2976

    @heatherstacy2976

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep. It really doesn't matter male or female. The shit is true regardless. If you are chasing someone who doesn't want you, it's because you don't love yourself.

  • @Jsalcedo23

    @Jsalcedo23

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@heatherstacy2976 Damn. That hit so deep, but oh so true. That was me though. Chasing a woman who was playing games for a year and I tried SO fucking hard to make it work, I did everything. I completely put myself out there, I was vulnerable with her. But NOTHING worked. Eventually I just told myself, "what the hell are you doing man... you don't deserve this." I've had past relationships/situationships where I felt like I could have done more to make them work... but for this, I have 0 regrets because I put it all out there, and if it didn't work that's on her.

  • @Silvercentipede

    @Silvercentipede

    3 жыл бұрын

    90s and 2000s movies my friend,that's why

  • @tanghho
    @tanghho3 жыл бұрын

    Im turning 38 soon. And hafeez is 100%. If she doesnt want you, move on. This is what you have to do: Heal and confront your issues, go as deep as possible, work on yourself, if you want a high quality women you gotta level up yourself, never forget your personal growth comes first, you cant help anyone else without being solid yourself, when you find the right person, you gotta put in effort , consistency, and maintenance. Listen to me, no good things come easy. And if for whatever reason things dont work out, its never wrong to love, its always good to give love, forgive yourself and others, you are loved, you are respected, you are worth it. I love you guys and wish only the best for remainder of 2020. -a healing heart

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for the love brother.

  • @justanotherfellaliving5171

    @justanotherfellaliving5171

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing such powerful advice! Can apply these tips

  • @tanghho

    @tanghho

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheRoommatesPodcast thank you your content has helped me

  • @saywhatondat

    @saywhatondat

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is gold

  • @neil12011

    @neil12011

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Tanghho Perfectly said sir. Just turned 38 here, and your advice is spot on. Appreciate this more than you know. Let’s do the damn thing gentleman! All the best sirs.💪

  • @Tarumarugan
    @Tarumarugan3 жыл бұрын

    Being a man isn’t just about getting what you want and celebrating your successes, it’s also about knowing when to walk away, knowing how to learn from your L’s.

  • @kisigma1102

    @kisigma1102

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly I took mines

  • @nuttybangerz

    @nuttybangerz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the advice my fellow King 🤴 "Learn from your L's" 💯

  • @elrickpenn

    @elrickpenn

    3 жыл бұрын

    ... Word ! ... Deadass ! ...

  • @oaklandsoldier5920

    @oaklandsoldier5920

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. Real talk.

  • @harishlodha8645

    @harishlodha8645

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes sir

  • @ceeKay007
    @ceeKay0073 жыл бұрын

    Summary: take your Ls, make lemonade and chill. Stop simping

  • @elrickpenn

    @elrickpenn

    3 жыл бұрын

    ... Indeed ! ...

  • @thomasyoung3268

    @thomasyoung3268

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @KavTheDon

    @KavTheDon

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like this 😂

  • @legitballin1986

    @legitballin1986

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep pimpin

  • @mikehunt7360

    @mikehunt7360

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@legitballin1986 says the guy that ain’t pimpin lmfao

  • @yougottachillbruh
    @yougottachillbruh3 жыл бұрын

    You don't want to be a woman's free agency pick..that statement got to me

  • @cryptoaddict3531

    @cryptoaddict3531

    3 жыл бұрын

    That some deep shit right there

  • @rodrigooyague8425

    @rodrigooyague8425

    3 жыл бұрын

    Always be the 1st round pick boyz!

  • @trinap.8904

    @trinap.8904

    3 жыл бұрын

    If men and women are getting the same advice; who is leading the courtship? Men lead period. Women dont chase. This is the natural order.

  • @airidhsj302A

    @airidhsj302A

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rodrigooyague8425 that shit made me die

  • @airidhsj302A

    @airidhsj302A

    3 жыл бұрын

    Also subscribe to my KZread I'm on the grind

  • @alexward8596
    @alexward85963 жыл бұрын

    She’s either a lesson or a blessin’

  • @maxprime6452

    @maxprime6452

    3 жыл бұрын

    Simple and to the point

  • @cryptoaddict3531

    @cryptoaddict3531

    3 жыл бұрын

    Word

  • @Yamaguchi2Chris

    @Yamaguchi2Chris

    3 жыл бұрын

    A blessing or a curse

  • @JW-gv1mu

    @JW-gv1mu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Speaking truth, right here!

  • @ChooseFreshAtSubway

    @ChooseFreshAtSubway

    3 жыл бұрын

    Shit even if she’s just a lesson, I still look at it as a blessing. Just more experience for me

  • @ivanaivanusic1910
    @ivanaivanusic19103 жыл бұрын

    If you have to convince someone to spend time with you, something is not right. Don't beg for anybody's attention, you deserve better! That goes for friends too, not just love interests.

  • @Alinda1308

    @Alinda1308

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @jerrystacks8538

    @jerrystacks8538

    3 жыл бұрын

    #concur

  • @jepkofficial

    @jepkofficial

    3 жыл бұрын

    But, you do have to be mature enough to ask. But if there is a clear lack of interest then burdening yourself further will only hurt you and possibly the other person. Move along, heal if you need too, and keep bettering yourself as a person.

  • @BossItUp911

    @BossItUp911

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes - there should be one set of rules for everyone in that regard with maybe the exception being you're paid for your time.

  • @kisigma1102

    @kisigma1102

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jepkofficial this is why I miss clubs now the game is alot harder..

  • @beauti2thecore
    @beauti2thecore3 жыл бұрын

    I’m a woman and I have to applaud this video👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @xsamitt

    @xsamitt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Smart woman!!!!

  • @dr.sampco3115

    @dr.sampco3115

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @adamknight5089

    @adamknight5089

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep that was me in teens and early 20s.. kept thinking about that 1 person.. for way too long.. then that one other person for way too long... wish I saw this at a younger age, so that I wouldn't have wasted so much time dreaming

  • @Silvercentipede

    @Silvercentipede

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know my god if he was around when we were growing up 😍😍

  • @mikehawke2172
    @mikehawke21723 жыл бұрын

    “Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.” - Bukowski

  • @mackf7275

    @mackf7275

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen. Truth right there brother.

  • @CosminPerisan

    @CosminPerisan

    3 жыл бұрын

    Because they think with emotion, not with logic.

  • @independentthought3390

    @independentthought3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CosminPerisan The problem is not that they think with emotions, it's that their emotions are all over the place.

  • @CosminPerisan

    @CosminPerisan

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@independentthought3390 you are right, man, I was wrong on this one

  • @moonlightstargem1006

    @moonlightstargem1006

    3 жыл бұрын

    a female in her true feminine energy would save your life! she would come after you and aid you in a hospital. stop with this misogany. it's bad. it's so bad. if a woman hates you she can control her emotions and turn back to loving you to save you. don't underestimate the power of a female's love and emotions.

  • @millienunes
    @millienunes3 жыл бұрын

    First of all, if she is "playing hard to get" or being rude with you is because she never been genuinely into you. I can garantee you 100% that's not how she would behave with a guy that she keeps on her mind. Don't waste your time guys, she is not the queen of Wakanda! I support this channel. From a Brazilian girl 😘

  • @GEMINI_THE_BES89

    @GEMINI_THE_BES89

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Millenne Nunes. I take it to heart.

  • @jefferyboat7428

    @jefferyboat7428

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Anne So how do you expect a good man to know you like him? I don't get it. Whats the point, if it works against you?

  • @UltimateD755

    @UltimateD755

    3 жыл бұрын

    Brazil😍

  • @millienunes

    @millienunes

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Anne That's what girls in high school do. Mature women don't play these stupid games, period.

  • @ryy4659

    @ryy4659

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@millienunes well said 👍

  • @inkelf
    @inkelf3 жыл бұрын

    All women want a good man, until they meet one that requires them to be a better woman.

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sheeshh

  • @STeroidsnicca

    @STeroidsnicca

    3 жыл бұрын

    No... they want a good man after they hit the wall.

  • @Laoriginal718

    @Laoriginal718

    3 жыл бұрын

    No. A lot of women don’t want a good man they just want a man to finance their lifestyle so that they can sit at home and be stay-at-home mothers. That’s all. That’s 85-90% of women. Majority of women don’t wanna work.

  • @johngood7619

    @johngood7619

    3 жыл бұрын

    As the great Patrice o neal said a lot of women self sabotage when it comes to the elevating. Be ready to move on at any giving moment with or with out them.

  • @J.H90

    @J.H90

    3 жыл бұрын

    john good that’s what you’re supposed to be doing anyway lol

  • @tstewart1963
    @tstewart19633 жыл бұрын

    Guys: I'm almost 60 yo and married for 30 years and I can attest that what Hafiz said is spot on. I wish someone told me this stuff when I was 20. I had to figure it out on my own.

  • @Ace.0.0.0.

    @Ace.0.0.0.

    3 жыл бұрын

    Copy that. Late 50s guy here. 30 years with the same woman. She, and I, can leave at will. 30 yrs later we are still together.

  • @ARTDEVGRU247

    @ARTDEVGRU247

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Ace.0.0.0. you not married?

  • @Ace.0.0.0.

    @Ace.0.0.0.

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ARTDEVGRU247 I am married, for 25 years, and counting. My point was that despite the ups and downs we've had, we still choose to stay together. I look to the future. And as long as my woman treats me right, most of the time, I will stay. I understand that people have bad days, and I am willing to cut her some slack. But I have made my boundaries very clear. Recently, she crossed the line, and I very openly searched the 'net for alternate accommodations. When she reluctantly asked what I was doing, I told her. I also told her I would stop looking if she gave me an honest apology, whereby she acknowledged her misstep, and then said she would not do it again. So far, she has not done it again. But if she tests me again, she knows I won't stay*. I told her less than a year ago, statistics say I have 20-25 years left, and with more yesterdays and fewer tomorrows, I have precious little patience left for being jerked around. Age gives freedom. The life I have given her has been, and continues to be, better than anything she could have had without me. It has been said that a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything. *Action speak louder than words. Talk is cheap. Actions take effort. Also actions, by definition, cannot be faked.

  • @britishbulldogsvsthehartfo5677

    @britishbulldogsvsthehartfo5677

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Ace.0.0.0. what line did she cross Ace?

  • @ajormoses2067
    @ajormoses20673 жыл бұрын

    "Save the damsel from distress" mentality needs to stop guys.

  • @wilfigs9705

    @wilfigs9705

    3 жыл бұрын

    100%

  • @hangukhiphop

    @hangukhiphop

    3 жыл бұрын

    especially if you're the one distressing her 😂

  • @ajormoses2067

    @ajormoses2067

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hangukhiphop I had to unlearn & rewire my self this year. Alot of us guys think it's our job to safe her and we end up sacrificing ourselves in the process. If she need help she should seek therapy. Alot of women out there are aware of this masculine energy we bring in and they capitalise it once you're not useful they move on to a better partner leaving you instead of you to channel that energy into building yourself as a Man

  • @mrkiky

    @mrkiky

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or the "winning the trophy" mentality, where she does absolutely nothing and you jump through hoops and compete with other guys to prove yourself to her.

  • @comedytv2832

    @comedytv2832

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hangukhiphop and here we see antoher comment making it about how women feel. idc how women feel. This is about men. Stop trying to co-opt mens issues. and also if an attractive man was doing it it probably wouldn't be very distressing. Also, women are distressed by lots of things. Its cause theyre neurotic have a lot of irrational fears. not something men can help.

  • @Nothank1997
    @Nothank19973 жыл бұрын

    When men start valuing themselves, women will follow suit.

  • @DekkarJr

    @DekkarJr

    3 жыл бұрын

    ^ this is a good one! :D

  • @thomasyoung3268

    @thomasyoung3268

    3 жыл бұрын

    Big facts.

  • @kendallpitt4795

    @kendallpitt4795

    3 жыл бұрын

    Never chase never date. Only fuck and go do not invest in things that will leave you because they are a losing bet

  • @jcsmooth70

    @jcsmooth70

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts! The best advice on here.

  • @ianakamrsilly123

    @ianakamrsilly123

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts. Too many beta simps out here nowadays

  • @Omnitrix8
    @Omnitrix83 жыл бұрын

    I am so happy that so many men have woken up. The other day a friend of mine was complaining saying men have changed. That fellas don't care. She said initially when she rejects a guy, the guy would always come back. she says now, when she rejects a guy, he disappears for good. ✌🏿

  • @WiER0

    @WiER0

    3 жыл бұрын

    srly why wouldn´t he? what does she think she is? a pizza and coffee breakfast? xD

  • @cc-by8uk

    @cc-by8uk

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is good news. This begging is embarassing for girls too.

  • @BossItUp911

    @BossItUp911

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, she may be hitting that wall too and/or developing a body count. 20 year old virgin? I might beg her back - can't find those. 35 year indebted femi-nazi drowning in debt who has been ran through? Dime a dozen.

  • @Djn3mesis1

    @Djn3mesis1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Caught on to the game and no longer interested in the time wasting nonsense 👍

  • @deborahalston7472

    @deborahalston7472

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes move on!!!

  • @brandonhanner5525
    @brandonhanner55253 жыл бұрын

    My homie always says, "If I was Chris Brown, you would return my call immediately." That is the standard to live by; she needs to act urgently towards me or I'm out!

  • @michawkwalter4205

    @michawkwalter4205

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah cause he would whoop her ass if she didn't

  • @aceguevara2000

    @aceguevara2000

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@michawkwalter4205 you a fool😂

  • @rm5282

    @rm5282

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@michawkwalter4205 that's hilarious

  • @mysty0

    @mysty0

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Armine Bagdasaryan i see you plan on taking the wall on at full speed, best of luck

  • @ARTDEVGRU247

    @ARTDEVGRU247

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@michawkwalter4205 that's fucked up. lol

  • @liberationgz4120
    @liberationgz41203 жыл бұрын

    "ANIME IS A LIE!" I laughed waay too hard when he said that🤣

  • @user-pf5tz6jh3l
    @user-pf5tz6jh3l3 жыл бұрын

    "Anime is a lie" All my dreams... Shattered.. in to pieces

  • @lwazizozi5469

    @lwazizozi5469

    3 жыл бұрын

    You should've worded it like "All my dreams... Shattered.. into One Piece"😹

  • @champ1159

    @champ1159

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lwazizozi5469 nice one

  • @Corythehausbaus

    @Corythehausbaus

    3 жыл бұрын

    Into One Piece

  • @johnsonleon16

    @johnsonleon16

    3 жыл бұрын

    We all want a konan or hinata but all we get is a delusional sakura 😔

  • @KAMProductions

    @KAMProductions

    3 жыл бұрын

    Idk. Naruto was on point.

  • @benaiahwright937
    @benaiahwright9373 жыл бұрын

    100% accurate! It literally took me years to understand you absolutely CAN'T "make" a woman want you. The sexiest woman is the one who sees your worth and thinks you're the man.

  • @michaelangst6078

    @michaelangst6078

    3 жыл бұрын

    not true... You can with money.. I have made relationships work for awhile solely on the fact that i offered them a free place to stay. if I didn't the relationship would have went nowhere

  • @haza123b4

    @haza123b4

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@michaelangst6078 *That is essentially prostitution.*

  • @michaelangst6078

    @michaelangst6078

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@haza123b4 and?? It's better than being a sexually frustrated incel virgin making ignorant women hating comments on all videos like this everyday

  • @michaelangst6078

    @michaelangst6078

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Jaylin Owens They were somewhat... All 3 of them have wanted to leave only because I wasn't comfortable with her bringing friends over/ me getting jealous of her cheating on me... if I would have been laid back, and accepted the chances of her fucking another man from time to time on the side..... I still would be fucking a woman I find quite attractive to this day just for providing her free rent.... If you throw out morals, you can live a happier live I am finding out...... I'm in that situation now....

  • @benaiahwright937

    @benaiahwright937

    3 жыл бұрын

    @s 97 which it's fkn crazy when you think about it

  • @danzeltshuma2024
    @danzeltshuma20243 жыл бұрын

    If a girl likes you, you will know. There won't be any confusion

  • @blackkyurem720

    @blackkyurem720

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nah alot of people can be oblivious or the woman doesn't want the man to know because she's shy. I've definitely seen these cases.

  • @neverbackdown1918

    @neverbackdown1918

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@blackkyurem720 well, tbf, a lot of these stories that I’ve heard are from guys who don’t want to ruin a friendship, or they can’t tell if a girl is flirting or just being really friendly (naturally more extroverted).

  • @bobbyjamabo3296

    @bobbyjamabo3296

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @mikeysweetfolksfiv3ohthr332

    @mikeysweetfolksfiv3ohthr332

    3 жыл бұрын

    Always keep a pair on the spare...Don't ever let a woman own or control over your sexuality plus women are at their best when they compete

  • @brainrich1358

    @brainrich1358

    3 жыл бұрын

    I understand that but I gotta say I'm pretty oblivious when it comes to it.

  • @josecmunozromero
    @josecmunozromero3 жыл бұрын

    Whoever is reading this, you deserve someone who wants you just as much as you want them. YOU DESERVE BETTER!

  • @FireAngelChris
    @FireAngelChris3 жыл бұрын

    A lot of people needed to hear this. Don’t chase after people who don’t want you. Think about all that you are missing out on with focusing on things that’s not pertaining to you or have your best interest at heart. We are here for a short time,don’t waste it on people who don’t value you.

  • @FireAngelChris

    @FireAngelChris

    3 жыл бұрын

    Q Lock swear

  • @emanuelbaxter285

    @emanuelbaxter285

    3 жыл бұрын

    Big facts

  • @andrebaxter4023

    @andrebaxter4023

    3 жыл бұрын

    100%

  • @ARdave311

    @ARdave311

    3 жыл бұрын

    “Here for a good time, not a long time”

  • @chadjones6313

    @chadjones6313

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @Marsellis
    @Marsellis3 жыл бұрын

    She doesn't want you, she wants what you can do for her

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    And it's time for all men to move on...

  • @Joker200084

    @Joker200084

    3 жыл бұрын

    How much for 2 hours a week chick?

  • @brandyandcream2

    @brandyandcream2

    3 жыл бұрын

    The same can be said for men.

  • @brandyandcream2

    @brandyandcream2

    3 жыл бұрын

    KingJugganaut19 Really? So you are willing to date any woman? It doesn’t matter her size, how she looks or her personality???? Bro, the only difference is the type of “what you can do” For some people (men and women) it’s looks, for others it’s money, e.t.c

  • @strikerron2252

    @strikerron2252

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brandyandcream2 looks aimt what we mean by bringing to the table. This is 21 st century. We look for more in women. Every time I ask what women bring to the table ,all they say is sex and looks. We men have moved on from such things and are looking for more then that.

  • @Skymaaan
    @Skymaaan3 жыл бұрын

    I did stop chasing women for two years ago, haven't dated a girl since 😂😂

  • @paulwilliams2024

    @paulwilliams2024

    3 жыл бұрын

    Been 4 years for me

  • @RekoneInkings

    @RekoneInkings

    3 жыл бұрын

    I stopped chasing women in 2005. I only have access to one stand nights. I am well positioned and I saved lots of money so people are a bit jealous of my lifestyle. With covid everything is different, I can't do that much but I keep studying and I work twice so: more money.

  • @Valhalla_Heathen

    @Valhalla_Heathen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Almost 4 years here 😎

  • @SantanuPaul27891

    @SantanuPaul27891

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think we respect time. There is nothing important than time in this world. Time flows like water, once it gone, it gone forever.

  • @jenlanmoinyak8659

    @jenlanmoinyak8659

    3 жыл бұрын

    3 years in my college days I liked a girl, went college jst so I could see her , been 2 years since I completed my college N guess what I'm happily single Learned it the hard way but I guess we all learn.

  • @ntuthukoboizen7777
    @ntuthukoboizen77773 жыл бұрын

    Bro is straight up talking to me

  • @primordialtitan2874
    @primordialtitan28743 жыл бұрын

    I don't care cause someone do desire me, just not her stay on your purpose and move towards your purpose MEN..

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Focusing on your purpose is so key.

  • @user-kx2vw8xe5h

    @user-kx2vw8xe5h

    3 жыл бұрын

    The numbers are in your favor men. There is always some woman who will desire you. Remember, most women want to be in relationships.

  • @primordialtitan2874

    @primordialtitan2874

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheRoommatesPodcast Absolutely definitely cause it alleviates you from having to be needy by focusing on self improvement growth..

  • @felixtrinidad793

    @felixtrinidad793

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @SirBrucie

    @SirBrucie

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-kx2vw8xe5h Most women want the bag.

  • @carameldarling2980
    @carameldarling29803 жыл бұрын

    Don't chase her, initiate and wait for her to reciprocate. Women like men who take initiative, trust me if she likes you she will show it. There's a difference between pursuing and chasing. Chasing implies the object of the chase doesn't want to be caught lol, pursuing should be on both sides. You both pursue each other

  • @laja82

    @laja82

    3 жыл бұрын

    As a woman I agree with this. I don't want to be bothered by someone I don't want.

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mutual pursuit is everything.

  • @joyfitzgerald9878

    @joyfitzgerald9878

    3 жыл бұрын

    laja82 💯

  • @chaseo4557

    @chaseo4557

    3 жыл бұрын

    laja82 don’t expect a guy you do want to put effort into you then because he doesn’t want you. So many women say my man doesn’t put in effort blah blah blah

  • @laja82

    @laja82

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chaseo4557 so my punishment for not entertaining a man I don't want is that a man I do want won't put in effort. Cool. Thanks for sharing.

  • @RiperSnifle
    @RiperSnifle3 жыл бұрын

    I've been stuck on a girl I work with for a year now. Falling in love really, been on dates and chased her the whole time. She cancelled on me on the day many times, slow replies always, of little interest but would never admit to me she wasn't interested, she told me she liked me but her actions said otherwise. Thanks for this video, I needed to watch something like this. It's time to move on, I deserve better!

  • @Eagleburger90

    @Eagleburger90

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope you did. Love attachment is powerful. Give it to someone who is deserving.

  • @lombardia1509

    @lombardia1509

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep it up men. You need to be first round draft pick

  • @meganalves9967

    @meganalves9967

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are in the friend zone. Smart choice to move on

  • @kylemathis1562

    @kylemathis1562

    3 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @ARTDEVGRU247

    @ARTDEVGRU247

    3 жыл бұрын

    she's playing you my dude. Move on.

  • @ViperSRTnACR
    @ViperSRTnACR3 жыл бұрын

    Never become an option. The second you realize that you are her option and not first choice... MOVE ON and don't look back. I have this happen and the girl messaged me a few months later and said she wanted to go out but was shocked when I passed. When she asked why, I told her it was because I was just an option to her and not a primary first choice.

  • @raviagarwal6492

    @raviagarwal6492

    3 жыл бұрын

    whoa man. You're the king

  • @SantanuPaul27891

    @SantanuPaul27891

    3 жыл бұрын

    All hail to the king 👑

  • @SantanuPaul27891

    @SantanuPaul27891

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same thing happened with me, she likes to monkey branch. I hate monkeys 😂

  • @jamesrussell2936

    @jamesrussell2936

    3 жыл бұрын

    What did she say in return?

  • @josemariatartufo7240

    @josemariatartufo7240

    3 жыл бұрын

    What did she answer?

  • @zero1188
    @zero11883 жыл бұрын

    forest gump is the darkest romantic movie ever, just think about it.

  • @frankiebursey7745

    @frankiebursey7745

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thats sooo true

  • @jokersshs

    @jokersshs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Forest Gump is a Red pill movie. Pay attention to what Jenny does to Forrest throughout the whole movie.

  • @jokersshs

    @jokersshs

    3 жыл бұрын

    @southern king I'm not denying that and I agree. I'm just pointing out that it's a red pill movie and that it's relevant.

  • @neil12011

    @neil12011

    3 жыл бұрын

    I never thought about it. Also, look at what Forrest does when Jenny leaves each time. He keeps going and does his thing.

  • @zero1188

    @zero1188

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@frankiebursey7745 then the real question you want to ask is, is that his child?

  • @mr.e5791
    @mr.e57913 жыл бұрын

    When a woman desires you, you don't have to 'work hard' to get her or keep her. Nothing you do will keep a woman who doesn't want you. You may do all the right things, but the point is, she doesn't want those right things to come from you!

  • @TheLeftRbabieskillers

    @TheLeftRbabieskillers

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right on!

  • @Richjunior1

    @Richjunior1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mr.e5791 The day these simps understand and practice what you've just said will be the day when they will start winning

  • @unapologeticallyAA

    @unapologeticallyAA

    3 жыл бұрын

    @spyda E. You are right

  • @Noname-si6jr

    @Noname-si6jr

    3 жыл бұрын

    You work hard for EVERYTHING you want.

  • @MSNFE_01

    @MSNFE_01

    3 жыл бұрын

    ​@The monster under your bed You DAMN right because MOST of you men are unattractive to women. Now, your gender gets to see what it's like when you are held to the same superficial standards of beauty.

  • @JY601
    @JY6013 жыл бұрын

    He said “I’m proud of you guys” I felt that Big Bruh. We appreciate you!

  • @boxingshifu
    @boxingshifu3 жыл бұрын

    He’s right fellas. I ended up in a 2 1/2 year relationship (got engaged too) when something awakened in me that the relationship was never set on a strong foundation to begin with. It was my lust that allowed me to “pursue” her then it wasn’t till we were separated (she lives in Germany and I live here in the states) for a year AND during this COVID mess that forced me to sit down and ask myself, “Does this relationship actually make sense?” From there, I became enlightened on everything and realized I not only had a lot of personal issues to work through but I needed to end the relationship altogether before it would go too far (marriage).

  • @JosephCMiller
    @JosephCMiller3 жыл бұрын

    Although I didn't know how to articulate it back then, I married a woman at 22 primarily for one reason - that girl was on team ME. 27 years later, successful largely because of her support, and I could not be happier with how things turned out. So glad I didn't end up with one of those girls that wanted me to chase after her.

  • @MrIFARI

    @MrIFARI

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right on and CONGRATULATIONS -- A marriage should be a Partnership because it take Teamwork to make the dream work. A woman is supposed to be a 'helpmate' according to the Bible -- If she is not willing to help you, she will likely end up hurting you.

  • @rajnimalakhelawan6439

    @rajnimalakhelawan6439

    3 жыл бұрын

    you are a smart man!! That's what retain love in a relationship: being on the same team!

  • @GreaterThanSolomon

    @GreaterThanSolomon

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pimp mentality right there

  • @GreaterThanSolomon

    @GreaterThanSolomon

    3 жыл бұрын

    c1981 simp

  • @GreaterThanSolomon

    @GreaterThanSolomon

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Maip video says the one triggered about my comment lmao

  • @Xjes06
    @Xjes063 жыл бұрын

    Don’t bother a woman who doesn’t want to be bothered with you🧐

  • @BootiEatinBandit69
    @BootiEatinBandit693 жыл бұрын

    Treat her like a celebrity and she´ll treat you like a fan

  • @nishisalott1839

    @nishisalott1839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @jamalthompson5583

    @jamalthompson5583

    3 жыл бұрын

    Treat her like queen she'll treat u like a peasant

  • @invaderjet5946

    @invaderjet5946

    3 жыл бұрын

    So treat her like garbage

  • @BootiEatinBandit69

    @BootiEatinBandit69

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@invaderjet5946 no

  • @siddharthr1853
    @siddharthr18533 жыл бұрын

    The greatest problem in the world is distribution. There are millions of young boys and men in early 20s who need this video so bad but they will never watch this cos they don't know this exists and sadly most of them learn after going through a very demoralizing experience lol

  • @codyj6505

    @codyj6505

    3 жыл бұрын

    it'll be okay - you ever notice how there's a hundred different versions of the "Hang in there" motivational poster? same concept here. there's a book that became popular a few years ago (cant remembers its name atm) but it had the same message in one chapter, "Don't be with someone who isn't excited to be with you" the message is getting out there, even if they don't see this video, i have faith they'll see a version of it and take action

  • @unique7988
    @unique79883 жыл бұрын

    Live in abundance gentlemen, have options and be on your grind. There are billions of women on this earth, do not concentrate and focus on that one woman who is not investing in you. Keep your heads up and stay strong my fellow men.

  • @Rich20109

    @Rich20109

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks boss I’m in that situation now

  • @matrjmiratovic920

    @matrjmiratovic920

    3 жыл бұрын

    Guys, its a last call from God, believe in Jesus and repent for your sins( change mind about sin),Jesus loves you and is going to give you peace and joy, hard times are coming to the Earth, you will remember my words, repent today and put your trust in Jesus, read the Bible to get to know him, tomorrow is not promised❤️

  • @bloopdaddy

    @bloopdaddy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @BubonicTonic literally. lmao

  • @itsmztee

    @itsmztee

    3 жыл бұрын

    @BubonicTonic 👏👏👏👏it's rare to hear this from a Man. Self reflection on point 👌

  • @shorts26

    @shorts26

    3 жыл бұрын

    @BubonicTonic false most fat women especially bw want what they can't have and they will try to get with the best looking and most in shape guys, they don't go for the fat or balding guys unless they have no choice or are benefitting, most fat women can sleep with the attractive guy but he'll usually never be in a relationship with them

  • @therealsouthernbelles
    @therealsouthernbelles3 жыл бұрын

    Amen hafeez. Be with who wants you. Women need to take heed as well

  • @hansmemling7605

    @hansmemling7605

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am happy so many people on both genders are concious of this or waking up. Gives me hope for the future

  • @shawncummings6529

    @shawncummings6529

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @missmaverick3477

    @missmaverick3477

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please women check out salkis re channel

  • @whyme7862

    @whyme7862

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Lions Hunt view a man as the prize? 🤔

  • @jepkofficial

    @jepkofficial

    3 жыл бұрын

    @MeTHoD Yes, the first lesson is always: are you a mature and good enough person to be dating right now? Low self-esteem? Get it in check FIRST. If you are not good enough without an SO then you will not be good enough with an SO.

  • @Hungrybird474
    @Hungrybird4743 жыл бұрын

    The really attractive ones are looking for a man that doesn’t exist 😂

  • @goatmanindustries7182

    @goatmanindustries7182

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts. Even ones who are moderately attractive

  • @augustoluimbo2627

    @augustoluimbo2627

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @ESFDragxnFistEntertainment

    @ESFDragxnFistEntertainment

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm extremely attractive n even I'm not good enough its usually ooohh ur a fuckboy or he's too pretty i rather go for a guy thats lesser than me so I can get validation from him while ironically I'd be the better match for her n can please her more than that simpleton ever could.

  • @kenshi600

    @kenshi600

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ESFDragxnFistEntertainment damn bro you too?

  • @keepthatsameenergypodcast

    @keepthatsameenergypodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @MultiDaisy1995
    @MultiDaisy19953 жыл бұрын

    Female prospective: I can recall two separate instances when I politely rejected a man, not because of any fault of his or appearance reasons...I was just genuinely not interested. I politely rejected them & they both took it in stride. They didn’t try to convince me, question me, or suddenly become outraged like many have in the past. They pretty much just smiled, said they enjoyed hanging out with me, and said their goodbyes. I can honestly tell you I felt a tremendous amount of respect for them as people & how they conducted themselves. I actually thanked both of them for being really cool about it and told them I really appreciated it.

  • @urbanphil0s0phy

    @urbanphil0s0phy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Female 'perspective'.

  • @charlesxavier2905
    @charlesxavier29053 жыл бұрын

    In my last relationship, I started to have feelings for my friend, I told her I liked her and I wanted her as my girlfriend, but she rejected me at the beginning. Then I kept seeing her and hanging out with her, and of course she liked my attention and my begging. She continued rejecting me for a while and I continued insisting. At the end she accepted to be my girlfriend and we dated for around 7 months... but guess what?... all that rejection from her and all that begging from me before, created resentful feelings towards her and that didn't help in the relationship once we were couple. Lesson learned! NEVER insist a woman to be your girlfriend, you ask her just once, if she says no, NEVER ask her again and move on!

  • @Greenrivers14

    @Greenrivers14

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had a similar thing happen. I liked my brother's friend and would text him sometimes and he didn't really seem interested and wouldn't text back as much but we started dating a year later and the resentment got the best of me as well so I had to end things.

  • @paulkofa3238

    @paulkofa3238

    3 жыл бұрын

    You SMASHED TAKE THE GIFT N MOVE ON LOLOL

  • @charlesxavier2905

    @charlesxavier2905

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Greenrivers14 Yes, why would we want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with us? Now I see it, but it takes a while to sink in our mind

  • @charlesxavier2905

    @charlesxavier2905

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@paulkofa3238 Lol

  • @AldermanFredCDavis

    @AldermanFredCDavis

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is REAL talk!

  • @autismwalk6855
    @autismwalk68553 жыл бұрын

    If a woman does not want you, move on, and move on quickly! In my opinion, his analogy of a job interview is right on point. If you were an employer, it would be highly foolish to hire or to even keep an employee who does not want to be there. Having such an employee would simply just bring more problems. So having a woman who does not really want to be a part of your life will bring you a great deal of drama, chaos, and disappointment. Staying away from such a woman is akin to dodging a bullet, so moving forward is a tremendous blessing. Better to find out now than later. 👍🏋😊

  • @youssoufmoussa3874
    @youssoufmoussa38743 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes you can't always have what you want in life and its okay, you're still alive, just take a breather and you'll come to understand you can live without it.

  • @benzox9940
    @benzox99403 жыл бұрын

    I recently started practicing this. I invited a girl over about 2 months ago and she didn't show up. She texted me 4 days ago, i dont plan on replying

  • @independentthought3390

    @independentthought3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    The funny thing is, many girls will try to get into contact some time after they flaked or ghosted. Sometimes, you can get some action out of it, but I can guarantee you that sooner or later, they will flake or ghost again. Once a girl flakes or ghosts, never plan anything long term with her.

  • @daniellele9634

    @daniellele9634

    3 жыл бұрын

    What happend man?

  • @rm5282

    @rm5282

    3 жыл бұрын

    I would take a girl out im my car which okay but not really expensive. Then on the second date I would drive my dad's work truck and give no explanation as to why. If they avoided me after that then I knew what they were about. My wife rode with me no matter what I drove and we have been together for 32 years. We built together and she has my back.

  • @GhettoJohnWick

    @GhettoJohnWick

    3 жыл бұрын

    Get you some and move on. She doesn't actually want you, she's playing you. Make it difficult for her and act aloof. Be distant, distracted and unfazed by her effort.

  • @jarrettcollier181

    @jarrettcollier181

    3 жыл бұрын

    May be she was in jail 🤣

  • @poobado
    @poobado3 жыл бұрын

    I’m an older man and I hope the young men listen to this message. It is 100% accurate. Unfortunately “most” young men don’t follow the instruction of their seniors...it will be to their detriment.

  • @helgard36

    @helgard36

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm listening! I'm trying to apply this! Don't stop trying to teach, for there are those of us who hear!

  • @raskult

    @raskult

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m not rebellious and I really appreciate posts like these

  • @lindsayc1971
    @lindsayc19713 жыл бұрын

    “My mom told me I need to stop screaming on my channel” 🤣 HAHAHA

  • @usmanfaraz2057

    @usmanfaraz2057

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol that was jokes

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    She did lol

  • @returnofdarazz

    @returnofdarazz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheRoommatesPodcast grandma said you need stop all that noise cause you running up her phone bill

  • @kidbrown2010

    @kidbrown2010

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh Canada peak Inceldom lol. People can watch whatever the fuck they want brah.

  • @mr_sugas_fire3015

    @mr_sugas_fire3015

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh Canada Lol no

  • @stefanelmapugay1103
    @stefanelmapugay11033 жыл бұрын

    Focus on your career, keep hustling and build self-esteem. Always have low expectations in relationships and marriage or else it will destroy you.

  • @kwekumensah5642

    @kwekumensah5642

    3 жыл бұрын

    P O R S C H E

  • @nizzyneyrogers1181

    @nizzyneyrogers1181

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can’t be disappointed when your expectations are already low to begin with 💯

  • @jmceballos6777

    @jmceballos6777

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @ARTDEVGRU247

    @ARTDEVGRU247

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nizzyneyrogers1181 exactly

  • @butlerproman

    @butlerproman

    3 жыл бұрын

    I beg to differ. Have high (but realistic) expectations and find a woman with integrity and class. Don't settle for defeat.

  • @shaironification
    @shaironification3 жыл бұрын

    "My mom told me to stop screaming on my channel " gets me every time! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @bill7481
    @bill74813 жыл бұрын

    I am forty-eight years old, and here is what I have learned: There is a small minority of women that I didn't get with because they didn't want me, like Hafeez says, or I had no game. But for the vast majority of women who didn't get with me, it was a huge blessing. I look at these women now, and I am like, "And to think that I could have ended up with her! Thank God she turned me down!" I want to clarify my statement because I can now see the ambiguity in what I said, based on some of the comments that have been made. First, I want to apologize if my use of “God” offended anyone. I am sorry. Staying in the context of the video, I am saying that men need not wallow in self pity for not being wanted by a woman. Rejection can lead you to a better place. I am not referring to misfortunes that have befallen anyone. It rains on all of us. Let’s just say that I am happy with my journey, thus far, and I doubt it would have been possible with these women.

  • @caragous

    @caragous

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Rasul Daniels Absolutely!

  • @chadbaker2224

    @chadbaker2224

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm 26 and I feel like even sooner than your age I will feel that way about my ex. We are the same age, were together 8 years and have a child together. Shes definitely starting to go downhill....😂

  • @perfectbeat

    @perfectbeat

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Rasul Daniels lol, good one.

  • @antoniolima1068

    @antoniolima1068

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Rasul Daniels no is not, it is dumb luck, she had another sucker with better prespectives lined up, do not use God name in a situation like this, when you feel God protection you dont need years down the road and the misfortune of others to feel blessed, can you understand?

  • @antoniolima1068

    @antoniolima1068

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Rasul Daniels obvious you do not, you are a modern person, the type that dosent respect the life experience of their ancestors and even worse dosent respect others beliefs.

  • @rdthaprariedawg
    @rdthaprariedawg3 жыл бұрын

    I have also been That Guy who was up late crying because my “friend” who I loved so married another man. My moment of clarity was figuring out “while I’m lying here crying, she’s laid up under her husband not giving me a second thought...” So I decided right then to not let people stay on my mind whom I know don’t have me on theirs.

  • @migueljonz3901

    @migueljonz3901

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your last thought has also been mine for the last 20 yrs. I would sometimes stop communicating with people just to see if they'd ever try to initiate contact. Let's just say, I have lost several 'friends' cause they never really were.

  • @STMARTIN009

    @STMARTIN009

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@migueljonz3901 yeah also family members can't seem to pick up the phone either.

  • @shiningdragon8737
    @shiningdragon87373 жыл бұрын

    The problem with this is, for the overwhelming majority of men, that woman he's with, he still wasn't her first choice. And she mostly still doesn't want him.

  • @ThisisPhillip
    @ThisisPhillip3 жыл бұрын

    I did the same thing I tried that giving her “distance “ thing and we haven’t talked since . That SKANK

  • @GhettoJohnWick

    @GhettoJohnWick

    3 жыл бұрын

    Did yourself a favor

  • @jayschipp7529
    @jayschipp75293 жыл бұрын

    Why pay and jump through hoops for what someone else got for free?

  • @breakingthemasks

    @breakingthemasks

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. Virgin women can demand a man wait. Non virgins cannot. Period.

  • @reeldeal2149

    @reeldeal2149

    3 жыл бұрын

    Would they make their celebrity crush wait? Ask yourself that when dealing with a female

  • @salvadorcastro925

    @salvadorcastro925

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bro stfu 😂 ouch!!!! I’m shook

  • @reeldeal2149

    @reeldeal2149

    3 жыл бұрын

    IvanXredpill women know who they’ll give it to on sight or during a first link up. If you out here wining and dining multiple times then you’re not Chad,Tyrone

  • @elrickpenn

    @elrickpenn

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@breakingthemasks ... Word ... This is the only exception !!! ...

  • @derriusgooden7021
    @derriusgooden70213 жыл бұрын

    Needed this reality check!! I’ve been the guy who did all type of stuff to get a girl to like me, want me, and thought if I just kept trying it’ll workout. But like you said, we not doing that anymore!

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast

    @TheRoommatesPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am glad you're getting better Derrius. We all need it.

  • @user-kx2vw8xe5h

    @user-kx2vw8xe5h

    3 жыл бұрын

    The more confidence you have to walk away, the more they will flock to you. Show her you’re interested, but leave it there.

  • @amandak2763

    @amandak2763

    3 жыл бұрын

    Doing nice things for women (and others) is great! Just make sure you are doing it out of a selfless pure space instead of hoping to receive something in return. If you do nice things to try and win someone over, that's a form of manipulation that isn't so subtle.

  • @D878D5g7

    @D878D5g7

    3 жыл бұрын

    AJ L it’s also manipulative for a woman to take things from a guy who she knows is into her but she’s not into him. Woman keep these men around for validation and non sexual attention all the time.

  • @amandak2763

    @amandak2763

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@D878D5g7 How is receiving a gift manipulative? Non-sexual attention? You mean FRIENDSHIP?

  • @whoasupercrazy
    @whoasupercrazy3 жыл бұрын

    "ANIME IS A LIE" Whoa man. I was with you until you said that. My childhood friend who beat me up when we were kids will definitely fall in love with me by next year.

  • @showspotter
    @showspotter3 жыл бұрын

    this man has spoken the most truth in any dating video ive ever watched

  • @prestonlee2573
    @prestonlee25733 жыл бұрын

    I heard this in the radio yesterday and I think it applies here. love is like a fart, If you have to force it, its probably sh**

  • @andreamagyar7776

    @andreamagyar7776

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @MrIFARI

    @MrIFARI

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂👊

  • @ateam388

    @ateam388

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @alexingram127

    @alexingram127

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao 🤣

  • @EzeICE

    @EzeICE

    3 жыл бұрын

    You ain't never lied lmaoooo

  • @eon001
    @eon0013 жыл бұрын

    "If at first you don't succeed, dust yourself off and try again" That song just encouraged stalkers.

  • @lizethcalvario9038

    @lizethcalvario9038

    3 жыл бұрын

    Try Again by Aaliyah? No, I viewed it as: know your worth, dust it off and try dating again by seeing other people.

  • @eon001

    @eon001

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lizethcalvario9038 "See you don't wanna throw it all away. I might be shy on the first day, But what about the next day?"

  • @hangukhiphop

    @hangukhiphop

    3 жыл бұрын

    with a different girl

  • @angelphoenix7784

    @angelphoenix7784

    3 жыл бұрын

    I tried this very often, when I was trying. I was told there is someone for everyone; and everyone has a soulmate. These are all lies. I dont believe any of this crap, not after 30+ years of trying. Only to get the old "can we just be friends." 7 years ago I came to the conclusion that I am going to die alone, not have a family. Now the end result of trying for so long 9and other reasons) I'm clinically depressed.

  • @eon001

    @eon001

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@angelphoenix7784 Sorry to hear this man. I can relate. You need to find a purpose outside of marriage and a girlfriend. Self improvement, gym, make new friends, look for a new job. That's what I did. Still single, but I recently got a new job with one of the biggest tech companies on the planet. Working out, changing my diet. Honestly haven't been this happy in years despite being single.

  • @clockworkclockwisepro4925
    @clockworkclockwisepro49253 жыл бұрын

    Just found this channel and I'm thoroughly Impressed. I'm 36 and have been thinking like this for years so it gives me hope for the future. Good job fellas, great content 👍😎

  • @abehylden2265
    @abehylden22653 жыл бұрын

    I just got reccomended one of this guys vids, and he already makes me feal like a brother.

  • @LMAAAAYOOO
    @LMAAAAYOOO3 жыл бұрын

    I wasted so much time but I'm glad I learned the hard lessons.

  • @Nikolebichon

    @Nikolebichon

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @princewillmadugba

    @princewillmadugba

    3 жыл бұрын

    You sound like me but yeah 9 years is too much of my teen years

  • @shadowgod7523

    @shadowgod7523

    3 жыл бұрын

    We all learn brutha...trust...no man is immune to the bull $hit.

  • @hikari2827

    @hikari2827

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am there with you, lad.

  • @andrewoliver9686

    @andrewoliver9686

    3 жыл бұрын

    When I was 21 I think...I wasted 2 years of my life chasing this girl. I mean from treating her to bowling and dinner, to hanging out with her. Trying my best to get her to change her mind..even after she friend zoned me. Years later..I was buying my current gf a gift from a store, and there she was. I just looked at her and laughed so hard 🙉😁. The cashier wanted to know what was so funny. I told him life lol👌🏾🙏🏾

  • @Steph-sl2uo
    @Steph-sl2uo3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely agree! I had a guy walk away from me just to see him chase after a woman who didn’t want him and seemed to be very toxic. Even had a baby on him with her ex. When you see your interest chase after people like that, it’s not you. They are trying to fill a void they haven’t healed from yet. Everyone deserves to be desired in their relationship. Know your worth Kings and Queens!

  • @kayhawkins5925

    @kayhawkins5925

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes happened to me as well. Reminded me of women that come from abusive relationship and jumps right back into another abusive relationship. No time in between to reflect or heal. Unfortunately they generally are late to the game and continue this pattern thru out their life.

  • @NYJGreatness

    @NYJGreatness

    3 жыл бұрын

    Steph: You probably put him in the friend zone. Tell the whole story lol

  • @NYJGreatness

    @NYJGreatness

    3 жыл бұрын

    Karen Aguilar: Because women don’t know how to take responsibilities. He moved on for a reason. I’d like to hear his side.

  • @cashflowhustles

    @cashflowhustles

    3 жыл бұрын

    @MeTHoD Dysfunction. These types of folks and relationships are out there.

  • @kzk1789

    @kzk1789

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cashflowhustles thats true but i guess this guy is another all women are the same so he thinks is her fault. Same shit that girls do when they say that all men are bad

  • @godsnobody2915
    @godsnobody29153 жыл бұрын

    Always remember this: you can't live with them, but you can survive without them.

  • @SuperBdog92
    @SuperBdog923 жыл бұрын

    You’re literally the big brother I never had but needed

  • @Think_For_Yourself_

    @Think_For_Yourself_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @karlbrown352
    @karlbrown3523 жыл бұрын

    Deep down you know straight away when a woman really likes you.. But when you’re younger you think you can run these tricks and games to create genuine interest.. We’ve all had the feeling of pulling teeth and getting know where, and yet other times women have made it really easy.. That’s the difference between genuine interest and not.

  • @namaste348
    @namaste3483 жыл бұрын

    Also, if you're pinning after IG models, all of this is your fault

  • @Sarah-tk1py

    @Sarah-tk1py

    3 жыл бұрын

    He’s lusting after woman that are out of his league and complaining about getting hurt 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @TheMackash2

    @TheMackash2

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sarah exactly... I don't feel sorry for Men like this. They act like victims because they simp after "IG Models" and get denied.

  • @TheEnigmaticBM39

    @TheEnigmaticBM39

    3 жыл бұрын

    And the same for women lusting after thugs and playboys

  • @thelovelylife7451

    @thelovelylife7451

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sarah Instagram women aren’t all that. Most of them are highly insecure and would not make good long term partners.

  • @spazz-ok9nr

    @spazz-ok9nr

    3 жыл бұрын

    I truly don't understand this theory of human beings being out of another human beings league. Y'all funny as hell. If u want to say that type of women isn't for everyone say that. Insta picture takers have plenty to bring up in terms of negative attributes but to say somehow there above someone else is ridiculous.

  • @mr.commentator3558
    @mr.commentator35583 жыл бұрын

    I just came across your channel recently Hafeez. Your content really means a lot and it challenges the way we currently tend to think as a society. Thank you for all the content you do, it is much appreciated.

  • @Tyranix97
    @Tyranix973 жыл бұрын

    Keep preaching the truth. More people need to hear it.

  • @sandrasolomon6937
    @sandrasolomon69373 жыл бұрын

    Spot on, and this goes for ladies too. If a man wants you, you will know, if he doesn't want you, you will be confused....keep it pushing.

  • @heatherstacy2976

    @heatherstacy2976

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep. Never let someone make you crazy.

  • @rey-nf3nh

    @rey-nf3nh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha guys remember that women has an expiration, when they age 30+, they are now consider left over, you can see first with looks, flabby arms, wrinkles, bloated abdomen, and like a drum body. You guys cn lways get 20+yrs old, just improve yourself confidence. Those 30+, women only want your resources. Dont marry, because the court is always on their side. Dont give them chance to bite you. Just pump and dump hahaha

  • @everythingsfine1395

    @everythingsfine1395

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rey-nf3nh I'm a man i hate feminists ideology but No i dont agree with you there are 20+ woman who will make your life hell in the west so no

  • @ginnyfromdablock7551

    @ginnyfromdablock7551

    2 жыл бұрын

    Rey has already been rejected and expired hahahahaha

  • @08Coolster
    @08Coolster3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely! TV and movies got us guys all messed up in the head. Begging like Steve Urkel is not reality. Brothers DO NOT SETTLE. DON'T ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE MARGINALIZED.

  • @moneybags999

    @moneybags999

    3 жыл бұрын

    TV has messed up us women, too.

  • @cashflowhustles

    @cashflowhustles

    3 жыл бұрын

    I learned this years ago. TV screws up real life relationships with Hollywood script written fantasies. I swallowed their tripe myself until I hit my 30s. This information has been around for centuries just not shared or known to everyone especially men or your AVERAGE man. There were dudes in high school who knew about this but I was clueless back then.

  • @EzeICE

    @EzeICE

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girls don't want Steve Urkel but they get sopping wet over his alter ego Stephon. TV also taught us that. When you have confidence, be about your goals, be the smooth alpha and women fall over themselves to get to you. Trust.

  • @MzCrayKray

    @MzCrayKray

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@EzeICE they crazy thing about Steve Urkel. He wanted Laura so bad. She did not really give him the time of day unless he was more like his Alter ego Stephan. He literally had to change who he was for her to give him a chance. Whole time his equal Myra was in love with him. She was smart and beautiful. They had more in common but he could not see that. I think she mirrored who he was and Laura mirrored who he wanted to be when it comes to social status. He could not see what he had in front of him.

  • @andrebaxter4023

    @andrebaxter4023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Word. Very few TV shows get it right in that regard.

  • @kathybreig1386
    @kathybreig13863 жыл бұрын

    You are such an amazing, godly, handsome man!!! The loss was hers. She really did not see your value. She definitely was broken. Thank you for all you do in these podcasts. Love listening to your advice. Wish I had this information along time ago.❤️🙏

  • @heha9752
    @heha97522 жыл бұрын

    I just found this channel, and already feel SO much better about myself. We're all kings on this channel

  • @StacyBreakchesser
    @StacyBreakchesser3 жыл бұрын

    Yo, I'm a woman watching this, THIS MAN IS PREACHING. There have been guys I didn't want and then I hated them MORE because of them trying too hard, it was suffocating.

  • @edwardpulz8830
    @edwardpulz88303 жыл бұрын

    My man, Hafeez, is exactly on point. I'm 59 and have chased too many women top many times and the urge to chase still remains. We must always remember that if we as men are constantly chasing it simply means that the woman doesn't want to be caught. Pursue? Absolutely. Chase? NEVER!!!

  • @gs2496
    @gs24963 жыл бұрын

    So true, I truly appreciate your words. I'm hurt now for doing these mistakes. Thank you, these videos and the bible is helping me recover.

  • @MaximusRacellius
    @MaximusRacellius3 жыл бұрын

    Props and love my brother from another. I did not think that I could genuinely feel somebody being honest from behind the screen of a KZread channel. I really felt the sheer honest desire to help us bro style. Thanks man keep doing what you're doing.

  • @blacksheepwall79
    @blacksheepwall793 жыл бұрын

    "I don't want nobody that don't want me."

  • @TwinGearHero
    @TwinGearHero3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah it’s true. The exact thing happen to me in my early 20’s with I a girl I was working with in Walmart. Spent 2 years pursing her all while telling myself “just be myself, prove my worth and putting in the effort and time.” Did everything she said she wanted from a man. Guess what I was putting in all the hard work and effort for other man that weren’t even doing half the things I was doing for her. It was a wasted 2 years but a valuable lesson. Know when to walk away from a women.

  • @TwinGearHero

    @TwinGearHero

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah dude but the anger of being lied to about women and the time wasted creeps up on me from time to time.

  • @sage_comics

    @sage_comics

    3 жыл бұрын

    I always tell my guy friends, look you know that most of these ladies dah keep high standards, you know there are one or two guys, that easily mess around with her and you could even be better looking. So why waste your time investing.

  • @j.m7713
    @j.m77133 жыл бұрын

    These present-day relationship coaches be making women look like villains, when it's just simple logic.😂 She don't want you get off her back, find your purpose start working on it, she's gonna start chasing.

  • @rm5282

    @rm5282

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't accept her if she only wants you after she sees you achieving in life. Good women can spot potential in a man that on his way up. She will remain engaged with him throughout his journey. At a certain point it will become their journey. Keep striving and keep the hanger on type people away. That goes for men and women.

  • @samnaylor9218

    @samnaylor9218

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kuba P I don't think so. most girls chase a very small percentage of men though. that's true

  • @AizakkuZ

    @AizakkuZ

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@samnaylor9218 I've been chased before and I don't think I've actually liked any of them it's weird. It's as if you admire their courage but you just don't like them.

  • @charlesgordon5156

    @charlesgordon5156

    3 жыл бұрын

    👏🏽 treat your dream woman like a dream sports car. Level up till you an afford her & have the skill to drive her! & don’t worry about taking too long, there’s always a new model out lol

  • @zacharyball3055
    @zacharyball30553 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this man, I wish I wouldve seen this a long time ago. Nearly everything you said hit home with me on such a major level.

  • @hmy755
    @hmy7553 жыл бұрын

    Couldn't agree more. Chasing is tiring when the energy is not reciprocated. And having the right mindset will lead you both to pursuit each other. I know this sounds cliche but always choose YOU first and put yourself first. Once you establish you, trust the process. Someone amazing will come along and sweep you off unexpectedly. It did for me. Thanks Hafeez for another good video!

  • @jepkofficial

    @jepkofficial

    3 жыл бұрын

    There is a difference between "chasing a girl" and "a girl who wants a little chase". The first is *your* decision and you look immature and desperate. The second is her decision and is only one among many hints she has made obvious that she is into you.

  • @libraz8826
    @libraz88263 жыл бұрын

    Love this video! As I woman I think this is spot on! Even when she says she wants you but her actions say something else, MOVE ON!

  • @davon_DaGod

    @davon_DaGod

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is not even for you

  • @libraz8826

    @libraz8826

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@davon_DaGod what's your point! I am a young woman showing support to a young man you should be proud! Smh

  • @libraz8826

    @libraz8826

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Oh Canada y'all men should be happy a woman is agreeing! Smh small minda

  • @bloopdaddy

    @bloopdaddy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Scooby Doo lol. ure rudeness is for what reason? stay in your own lane...

  • @bloopdaddy

    @bloopdaddy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@davon_DaGod so?

  • @Dread873
    @Dread8733 жыл бұрын

    Speaking amazing facts man I have made so many mistakes and had heartbreaks at 18, I needed this vid

  • @DG51440
    @DG514403 жыл бұрын

    Young guys out there you need to watch this everyday. You need to watch this whenever you meet a girl. Take those blinders off.

  • @DN809
    @DN8093 жыл бұрын

    All facts. I learned this at 20 years old. The "average Andy" part had me laughing. Great video.

  • @Fortunee44
    @Fortunee443 жыл бұрын

    Learning abundance really helps with this sort of thing. Girls want 'confidence' and an abundant personality is what I think that looks like.

  • @Freezo85
    @Freezo853 жыл бұрын

    Dopeness galore. Just found this channel, 5 videos in and I’m digging it. Great content, awesome interviews, keep it up bruv.

  • @Jayveel
    @Jayveel3 жыл бұрын

    Love this video. Found a new channel to watch 🖤 I think this applies to everything, if you have a new client that doesn’t bother replying to you, they’re probably not worth working with. This video has nailed it.

  • @nebulajar3259
    @nebulajar32593 жыл бұрын

    You are like a cleaner version of AMS. More people need to know and learn this. We need strong men back in this feminine society

  • @TuneinR
    @TuneinR3 жыл бұрын

    I was in this situation in my early 20s and it was really painful to the extent that i started doubting myself.It can destroy a young mans confidence as he grows up to become a better man.

  • @MrThmT
    @MrThmT3 жыл бұрын

    Making mistakes is super important thou. It's also important to have someone to teach you about those mistakes.. Made a shitload of mistakes still do and no one there to teach me what I'm doing wrong or have to do right. Thou...The roommates is changing that! Awesome stuff!

  • @enriquet4083
    @enriquet40833 жыл бұрын

    This is more useful in life than 4 years in college