Ryan is 100% right here, and I respect him for it. I think it's refreshing when celebrity couples are protective and private about their relationships. Someone who asks for more than what a person is comfortable sharing is entitled and out of touch. Celebs don't owe us an explanation beyond what's shared (and for what it's worth Shay did answer the question, which was reiterated here word for word! "Partners in Life" and "Marriage was not in the cards"). It's rude to ask people "why don't you want kids?" when they don't. Same concept here. Respect boundaries and give people their privacy. This need to know everything about everyone is giving extreme desperation. If people want to know what works for themselves and their partners...go to counseling.

Shay don’t speak why you do what you do! You’ll only be criticized don’t get baited into nonsense conversations.