Not pregnant and have no kids *watches all pregnancy vids*

@emilysturgeon4856

4 жыл бұрын

Maria Charry SAME I NEVER WANT CHILDREN BUT I LOVE THESE

@catrinamariemaguire

4 жыл бұрын

@@derekg5563 not everyone wants kids derek

@AIANDCREATOR

4 жыл бұрын

I CAN GIVE U ONE 😆

@AIANDCREATOR

4 жыл бұрын

@@catrinamariemaguire That's Funny Cuz i wasn't even Talking to u. -_-

@Claypeony

4 жыл бұрын

exactly me rn

The pair we wanted, maybe didn’t know we wanted but definitely wanted

@nikkidee9383

4 жыл бұрын

I don't have kids and cant relate yet some how I still can. Single without kids and watched while very engaged in the conversation.

@elizabethjulia20

4 жыл бұрын

didnt' know I needed them but they're so well matched!!

@QueenDynasty98

4 жыл бұрын

YESS! ❤️

@SuperToocool4skool

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad Ashley corrected Shay about just saying 'Africa'.👏👏 Africa is not a country! People who say that sound so stupid!

@shanash3879

4 жыл бұрын

Couldn’t agree more 😅👍🏽

Ashley Graham is such a good interviewer! For real, she has that certain something that produces a great interview (IMO).

@adora1308

4 жыл бұрын

Kayla Christenson right?? She lets people talk and make people comfortable, without being a try hard

@kaylachristenson9664

4 жыл бұрын

​@@adora1308 Totally! Plus she has this knack for going presenting a tangential question that is actually relevant, then returning to the topic at hand. Some of my favorite interviews to watch/listen to!

@lovejademonet

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed, she always asks amazing questions and gives whoever she's interviewing room to answer!

@hasnaasalaheddine2023

4 жыл бұрын

Kayla Christenson true first time I watch her and I like how she interview

@jilenaj06

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, not like others who magically had mainstream talk shows and such just because they were famous on KZread. I have nothing sour against them, it's just that poor sense of judgement by the mainstream media.

This was such a heartwarming talk. It’s not even an interview, it’s a wonderful talk between two wonderful women. I feel privileged to been allowed to listen to this.

Shay is perfect looking. It's almost unfair. Like holy shit girl, how?

@fletcherxdesign

4 жыл бұрын

Dani biore lmao 😆

@dede4866

4 жыл бұрын

her make up artist. are you really that stupid?

@Daaaanielle

4 жыл бұрын

@@dede4866 Calling someone stupid for complementing another human being. Take a good hard look at yourself and how you talk to others, and stop being disrespectful. I am very smart, and I know her make up artist is probably fantastic. But she also has a beautiful bone structure and a very unique mix of backgrounds (Not sure which, don't care) that make her face very pretty, at least to me. Honestly, if you don't have anything nice to say, why say anything at all?

@Jayjay_07

4 жыл бұрын

I started watching PLL after seeing her in a trailer just because I was stunned by her beauty 😍

@elishavaughan3733

4 жыл бұрын

Makeup buckets of it

Ashley's presence makes anyone feel comfortable with her!! She's such a breath of fresh air!!

@catherineroberts1969

4 жыл бұрын

So true

Women talking to women, openly and honestly... It's what we all need. This was such a beautiful interview. Thank you two for being so honest!!! We need more ladies like you.

@missestomlinson99

3 жыл бұрын

They didn’t save the amazon rainforest. It’s just two women taking openly, how sheltered are you, this happens all the time

@morganraelee

3 жыл бұрын

@@missestomlinson99 Not sure why you choose to be unnecessarily negative and rude, but I hope your life gets better and your attitude changes. Have a lovely day

"Cmon Africa, where?" God bless you for saying that Ashley. You just earned yourself a new subscriber.

@annayuan2831

4 жыл бұрын

dark nath 26:50

@freddy7534

4 жыл бұрын

I said the same thing when I heard her saying that, thank you Ashley!

@Bexans

4 жыл бұрын

yeah, and people do that all the time with Europe too. like what do you mean "Europe"? are we talking about Denmark or Albania or..? like what. It's soo ignorant.

@MayaParris

4 жыл бұрын

bexans Never heard anyone say that unless they toured Europe, people never specify what country in Africa

@dianeghazaryan4773

3 жыл бұрын

@@MayaParris about the same amount of people people specify where in africa, europe, and asia. just not westerners lmao

I love how this didn't feel like an interview, it felt like two friends chatting

It’s so awful how Shay was treated after she gave birth.

@fartunl9135

4 жыл бұрын

Alyssa L. What happened

@AlyssaL731

4 жыл бұрын

People were just saying she was a bad mom for going out and stuff

@Fvv45698

4 жыл бұрын

REMEMBER. you dont live FOR your kids, you are LIVINIG with your kids.

@crystalg4943

4 жыл бұрын

@Toxic Neon Gas You must have missed where she said it had been weeks not a week. You also can't be a good mother if you dont tske care of yourself, going out for an hour and a half is nothing but it's a healthy break for the parents.

@blink5h576

4 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure the baby was taken care of. Yes prioritize your children 100% but if you have never had a child, you wouldn't know what its like the 1st few weeks. Its literal hell. She needed a small break, pretty sure there was someone, pretty sure she didn't go starving, pretty sure she was fine for a few hours. Its not like she went on a trip for a few months or something. Also, newborns don't know anything rn, so this would be a good time to take your breaks. Now when she's like getting toddler age, Shay will definitely be with her 24/7 that's when they really take in information, learn and need the most attention.

I'm not pregnant nor planning on being pregnant soon, but they gave me so many tips I feel prepared

@val8263

4 жыл бұрын

Feel you girl 😅

I don't even want to have children but seen two mommies talking about pregnancy and labor was incredibly informative and interesting for me. This interview was everything. 😍

@Daaaanielle

4 жыл бұрын

It was so sweet. I never want a kid but this was super nice and super sweet. It also opened my mind to a lot of things that I never even thought of with new mums. Taking notes when my friends give birth to next round lol.

Thank you for having her specify what *countries* in Africa she enjoys, so important for people to understand that the entire continent of Africa can not be lumped into ONE!!!!!!

@SuperToocool4skool

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah!! Africa is not a country! People who say 'Africa' like that sound so stupid.

@MrsDaedalus_

4 жыл бұрын

With Europe it's the same. Some people of US say: "oh I want to see Europe!" Me as someone who was raised and still live in Austria: "Which Country?" Them: "What do you mean?" Me: "you know that Europe is a continent not a country right?" Them: "Really?" Me: " didn't you have geography in school?" 🤦

Women supporting women this we don’t see enough of this is so refreshing to watch . Shay looks amazing after her pregnancy she has never looked better Ashley is glowing congratulations to her 🎊 . I love both of these beautiful and strong ladies 💪

Thank you Ashley for acknowledging Africa is not a country

I’m an OB Nurse and I can’t say enough that I appreciate so much that Shay understood that you CAN’T have a birth plan because anything can happen. it’s so nice to have mommy’s that are able to adjust with change. Not having a birth plan helps mom’s be more flexible and able to prioritize the safety of their baby and themselves. I find those are the most successful deliveries!

“9 months..I ate a lot of chips and...that’s what’s happened..wow” 😂

Ashley Graham's laugh is the only thing I need in life

@mamalee8842

4 жыл бұрын

samee

@josephinelee9996

4 жыл бұрын

Hanna Okay but literally like not even to be rude does it or does it not sound like ursala off of little mermaid?

@haleycooper3332

4 жыл бұрын

I heard her laugh the same moment I read this comment and couldn’t agree more.

Mom shaming is mostly done by other moms. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@IvetteC15

4 жыл бұрын

Unicorn Soul I feel sorry for those moms

@Exoticpinupbabee

4 жыл бұрын

Mom shaming are mostly done by horrible, depressed insecure moms!

@Eucis93

4 жыл бұрын

There are also women who simply don’t understand why anyone wants kids. I have a friend like that, she’s over 50 and still makes a stank face when she sees babies or pregnant women.

@vernelle6

4 жыл бұрын

Unicorn Soul sad story! It’s such a shame

@prnst4r

4 жыл бұрын

@@Eucis93 Okay, so? Your friend is smart.

Have birth “preferences” but not a plan. As you say, plans can go out the window depending on how the birth goes. I had to get pitocin (and they forgot the epidural for 5 hours!), followed by a c section. It wasn’t what I wanted, but it was what was best for baby. The problem with a plan is that women can feel disappointed if it doesn’t go to plan. There’s no “correct” way to give birth other than the way it ends up happening for you.

@BK-xg4xs

4 жыл бұрын

Agree!

not pregnant, no kids, somehow found this weirdly empowering 💪

This is like the best interview so far. I feel like they were so honest. THANK YOU!

I love the fact that they talked about pre partum depression I had it so bad with my son and it was crazy

I gave birth on the same day! Oct 8th. Planned to be all natural, ended up emergency C-section, & my little girl didn't latch. It's true, you never know. Breastfeeding issues and postpartum depression is real. Thank you for this 🙏

@Sandakan00

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats new mama 💕

I lost my first daughter when she was 17 days old, so this time around I didn't tell hardly anyone. I completely understand where you're coming from. It's so terrifying and the thought of god forbid something happening the thought of telling everyone all over again was DAUNTING AFFFF! Congrats, mama, and thanks for opening up about everything

@rhiannonbeth4352

4 жыл бұрын

Oh I’m so sorry!! My heart honestly goes out to you sweetie xxxx

@jennifercate8996

4 жыл бұрын

Rhiannon Beth thank you so much.

@Sandakan00

4 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss, wishing you a healthy happy pregnancy, delivery and new mommyhood 💕

@anjanachandran2701

4 жыл бұрын

🌈💕

@julietteweima3572

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss!

I love shay’s parenting style, take it as it goes

As someone who is expecting and in the midst of prepartum depression (just learned that was a term from this video!), this level of candor and normalization made me feel so much better. Many tears of gratitude and relief were shed. Thanks, Ashley and Shay!

@wanderingoldsoul420

4 жыл бұрын

Highly recommend a doula if you haven't heard of one or are able to afford one

@farooshkahstallbaum2475

4 жыл бұрын

I will surely be looking you guys up as soon as i am pregnant

Shay looks amazing shes got that new mommy glow

This is the most realist and honest interview

This interview is so good! Ashley Graham is so good with conducting an interview. This just seemed so honest.

Ashley you look angelic 😻💛

I could not stop being mesmerized by how beautiful Shay looks here

Ashley Graham has THE best laugh! Lol i love it!

She says Toronto the only way a Torontonian would say it “ trono”

@baileyskinner8931

4 жыл бұрын

Or trona haha

@waiwhaa6912

4 жыл бұрын

LMAOOOOO

@countdowntovan8663

4 жыл бұрын

Chronno

@farhia711

4 жыл бұрын

when does she say toronto ... i left

@LivvyAlexW

4 жыл бұрын

Middle

Omg like ashley need to have a netflix or tv show, i mean like she is so damn real

@fernnyfeen

4 жыл бұрын

Angela Kalita i know what you mean, but this is her show! :)

My mum onece said.. 'When you're a new mother you'll genuinely be unbothered about the hate you gonna get.All you would care and be bothered is the new family you just made'

even though i adore this whole series and i've loved loved loved so many of the other interviews too, this one has to be my favourite

Ashley! If you're tight with Revlon, can you use your influence to convince them to stop testing on animals?!

@cmarie8846

4 жыл бұрын

Yes please Ashley!! 💛

@gaila.9852

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for saying this!!!

I love that they really vibe off of each other and this interview is so engaging and I love the conversation and the topics they bring up 😁

You guys are everything and its so cool hearing you guys be able to share that bond about motherhood and pregnancy. I love you Shay and Ashley❤❤

ashley makes everybody feel comfortable talking!!!! love your podcasts

I love these videos so much. These conversations between women are so beautiful and much needed these days. Thank you!

Love love love this!! ❤ YES to all the real mommy talk and support. I am due end of April with my 1st and love knowing as much as possible from other mamas!

Two queens in one video?? Does it get any better than this?!💗

Never wanted this interview to end

Currently 32 weeks pregnant and I can't tell you how much this real talk about pregnancy and motherhood means to me! Thank you, Ashley and Shay! :)

this was so exceptional! Thank you so much for talking about pre-natal depression. I was diagnosed with Hyperemesis (24-7 morning sickness and i'm 5 months pregnant and still puking all the time) and people keep telling me i'll forget and not allowing for me to express how sad i feel over the loss of my healthy body and life... it felt so validating to hear you both speak about this. THANK YOU!

Honestly, the pre-partum convo really hit me. I’m 16 weeks right now and have never related to anything more in my life so thank you for talking about this ❤️ it feels less lonely knowing there are other people who feel or have felt the same way. Everything else you two talked about was so good to knowwwwww!!

Thank you for this beautiful conversation, and double thank you, I had never heard about prepartum depression even after having browsed so much around pregnancy and new mum videos

Absolutely loved this!

Ashley's laugh is SO contagious! Also...such a good, real conversation with 2 gorgeous Mummys!

Omg how I loved this conversation. So honest and fresh and the female bonding is so heart warming. Learned so much!

Just like all your pretty big deal portraits! Shay Mitchell has become one of my inspiring figures of 2020! Thank you Ashley for shining light on so many beautiful souls like you! Your conversation about pregnancy has caught my whole attention cos that’s sth I am manifesting in my life. I wish you guys had talked longer. 🙏🙏🙏❤️👌😘

This made me feel so much better about my prepartum depression, thank you for shining a light on it as I thought I was alone. Beautiful interview.

Oh my gosh. I stumbled on this video and thank god I did. Hearing you guys talk about prepartum depression, and your mindset while beginning pregnancy hit the nail on the head. I thought I was the only one who went through that and even now at 6 months I feel so guilty for having those thoughts of not loving being pregnant. So happy that I’m not alone. It’s so weird to lose your body/ part of your identity but to be excited at the same time about the thought of a baby.

I'm so so so glad and thankful that you talked about that kind of depression!!! I'm in my first trimester and I'm feeling the same! If I'm not nauseous, I'm crying. But because of the most simple thing like today I cried because my sister came over and I was happy to see her (I see her multiple times a week btw). I was never that emotional before... So it's good to know that it's normal, it reassures me so much, so thank you.

Thank you for talking about pre partum depression! It’s a topic that’s hardly ever covered. A lot of women suffer from it, I was one of them! Can totally relate.

This didn’t feel like a 37:49 long video and I only wish it was longer! Both women are so beautiful and powerful. I never watch PLL but I’m so inspired by Shay’s journey as a mom and entrepreneur, 2 goals I would love to achieve one day! Thank you Ashley for sharing this 💛

I feel like because of the internet, it is so easy to find actors/musicians/artists etc. so it's nice to have something that is a little more personal, like youtube, so now we can pick & choose talented people who are also nice, good people. And I love that is gives these talented people the creative freedom that it does.

I totally get it when shay says It didn’t feel real until I had the baby.. that hit hard.

this was amazing. This conversation resonated with me so hard. I had pre-partem depression for all 3 of my pregnancies and am so glad this is being talked about. thank you ashley!!!

I love this interview, so real and raw. Ashley’s laugh is also so contagious 😂

Feeling every single one of these emotions so happy I stumbled across this discussion ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ so much love towards all the women going through this!

A very calming interview... Much love from Kenya🇰🇪

This was really fun to watch! It didn’t feel like an interview at all. It felt like two friends chatting and catching up. I absolutely love Shay and all her ventures. She’s so talented and inspiring! Loving this duo ✨ I really loved this. I learned a lot of pregnancy terms that I had to google which was fun 💀

I loved this conversation! Such great energy and coziness and warmth. All the best for you Shay and Ashley! :)

OMG I absolutely love this. I'm 23 weeks pregnant and due in May. I'm terrified and feeling the same way about delivering like y'all... It's so comforting hearing y'all talk about everything. We need to hear more of this type of conversation...

I have to say, thank you for this!!! I’m currently 35 weeks pregnant and I loved this whole interview it was so helpful and relatable! I really identify with these ladies, first baby and around the same age. It just feels nice to hear other people going through the same thing especially because my closest friends do not have children. This was just great 🥰

I absolutely love this!! I’m 31 weeks pregnant and this is so interesting to listen to! :)

Such a real and beautiful conversation! Loved it xx

This was such an amazing conversation! One of the best interviews I’ve watched. They are both such beautiful, talented women!

I seriously adore this whole podcast, have listened to it several times. I am 36 weeks, induction is in 2 weeks, a nd I love how relatable this is and how it normalizes everything that we go through. I LOVE you both so so so much for talking about these things.

Please have her back next season!! Y’all are amazing 💕

Yes, talk about the Depression!!!! ‼️ So important, thank you for this honest conversation it’s so on point!!!

Weeks 5-10 of my pregnancy were when I felt prepartum depression. I am happy that they addressed that because even though my pregnancy was planned, I still remember not feeling like myself with the 24/7 nausea and fatigue. I had no desire to get up for work in the morning or to do my hair or make up. I stopped caring what I looked like and felt like I was not me living my life during those 5 weeks. I remember not wanting to see anyone or make plans with my friends even. Then once the depression wore off after my morning sickness stopped about week 10-11 , I felt more energized and like me again. So, it is a real thing for sure. I am glad I came across this video

just discovered this channel, love this chat! So refreshing to hear about genuine women talk about all sorts of topics and not being all pc, love this vid!

This was such a great interview 🥰

Just started my second trimester (of my first pregnancy) and already know I shouldn’t have a “plan” but rather preferences because anything and everything happens and you can’t control it. So smart to share that with her because so many women get disappointed if something doesn’t go according to their birth plan.

Being a first time mother, myself. I found this very informational and totally know what you both went through on pre and post partum depression because I went through it while pregnant with my son. I didn't feel like talking about my emotions with others around me and everyone around me said that's hormones and you'll feel that way for a while... My son's now 2 months old and I still feel at times I feel that way

I could watch Shay and Ashley talk for hours, their bond and empowerment towards each other is so inspiring and comforting. Maybe when I’m 30 I’ll find friends as genuine as these two ♥️😅 much love!!! 🙏🏼🙌🏼💜

I love this interview was sooo real and entertaining could have watched for hours

Showing love Ashley.. I'll be back later to watch, I'm working!!! ❤

This was raw and refreshing. I came here for shay but actually ended up enjoying the entire video. Also thank you ashley for being real on your opinions because i to as a regular watcher of shay's series was side eyeing some of shay's decision as well but at the end it all came together and im really happy for her. I can already tell you to are gonna be an amazing mom.

This was such an open conversation that was so amazing to watch 💜❤ The stories mothers share about pregnancy, birth and raising children always reinforce how they are the world's greatest superheroes 🙌🏾

Best Mom conversation I've ever heard! Wish I had this pre-baby!

Thank you so much for talking about pre-partum depression. It’s so comforting to hear someone else talking about something you’re currently going through.

15:35 Finally, Thank you for opening up.. I have gone through a pre-partum depression 2 times. I went to hell and back. I know I was not alone in this, but it feels really good hearing other women talk about iT. Thank you again, much love from The Netherlands ❤️

I enjoyed this! We as women definitely need to be more understanding and supportive of other women. Ashley you are doing an amazing job and please share more about your pregnancy and what you are feeling so the rest of us who are yet to be moms can be prepares as much as we can. I love Shay since her pretty little liars days and I watch her youtube all the time. Love you ladies!!!!!!

The both of you were amazing and are amazing. I was 21 when I had my son 15 years ago. I remember being freak out mode. I lost my mom the year before in december. the following year i had my son in september 10th. I'am a april 4th child myself.

Ftm & just had my bby n the whole time im like “yup, mhm, exactly, yess” 😂❤️

currently 36weeks with my second child & I'm so glad I came across this video & your channel Ashley, everything both of you spoke about.i couldn't relate anymore, new subscriber here 👋

Omg! Shay is sooooo relatable, the drive back home with my new born girl felt soool real, and to this day my husband says that was the hardest drive of his life. I was so worried the whole journey too, also could t believe we just made this and now we are taking back a new person we just made.

So helpful!!! I’m pregnant and this is amazing. Thank you for the realness 😊

Both of them have never looked more beautiful... and that’s saying something seeing how they’re both stunning. Motherhood really suits them well.

I love these interviews so much, it's kinda soothing, kinda awesome, cool and interesting - love all the guests that come on the show!

The pre-partum part of this episode. Thank you Ashley. Im 19 and just started my 3rd trimester yesterday. I’ve never been so uncomfortable with myself, my relationship, my personality my soul everything. You guys make it a little easier

I had pre-partum depression and was pregnant at the same time as shay & her KZread show really did help me feel less alone in the experience

Loving that she's sharing all the labor, and post labor, and feeding advice. ❤

Love the Vibes!! Amazing interview. I Love Shay’s channel.Loved hearing all the deets. Blessing to 2 Beautiful Moms

OMG the pre-partum depression topic really resonated with me. I'm 9 weeks and I know exactly what they're talking about! I feel it also has to do a lot with how sick and weak you feel all the time. I can't do a lot of house work because I'm nauseous all the time. Seeing my house like that really f's up with my psyche. I also throw up every day on my drive to work... It really affects your mental state. Luckily my mom really understands because she went through the exact same thing with her pregnancies. Love you mom!!!!