I typically do not voice any comments or opinions on social platforms. Yet, I absolutely adore you, Ling and Lamb. Although we are only watching from the outside in, I pray that God blesses me with a beautiful, loving, understanding, open, secure, joyous and sensible partner, as I sense you both have found in each other. May the Lord continue to have favor upon your union, as well as each of you individually.

@MsTvet

2 жыл бұрын

Yassssss I agree with you totally

@tajudeenoalaka6781

2 жыл бұрын

Sure GOD will always meet you at the point of ur needs just be cool. GUESS YOUR DAY WAS FINE

@mandyforest2286

2 жыл бұрын

I am SOOOOO with you on that... I ABSOLUTELY LOVE watching them!

@MochaDoll

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful comment 🥰

@kei-shandasaddler9284

2 жыл бұрын

This was absolutely beautiful! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

My husband and I sat down and had real life conversations like this. What is it you expect from me as your husband/wife? How many times you want sex in a week? How are we going to handle finances? Who’s going to be responsible for paying the bills? Do we want children and if so how many? Keep outsiders out of our marriage!

@mariangaji7212

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, that’s a recipe for a successful and loving marriage

@adezco

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. My husband and I also had those conversations too before we got married. I'm glad we did.

@crisliv528

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately many go into marriage/relationships with the mind of changing the other partner or lie about what they want in marriage.

@adezco

2 жыл бұрын

@@crisliv528 that's true, it's quite unfortunate really.

@rosemary7346

2 жыл бұрын

@@crisliv528 Even lying about themselves.

Had that convo with my husband. His drive was 5 times a week. I'm more 1-2 times a week. We settled for 3-4. And as I'm doing it more often, I'm liking it more. The thing is, I got married a virgin, and sex took time to grow on me. After the first time, I asked my husband: why would women do this? 😂😂😂Thank God for patient and communicative husbands.

@ceceprincess4758

2 жыл бұрын

Well that's good yall came to an understanding. Good for waiting til marriage

@keahharrison4765

2 жыл бұрын

It married or a virgin but I remember my first time. When it was over I wanted to say “that’s it??” So bad 😂😂😂😂

@MEKAlovePEACE

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 I'm so happy you both came to agreement

@sheraicampbell9543

2 жыл бұрын

Aww this warmed my heart because I am striving to stay a virgin until marriage.

@tijoinathompson7447

2 жыл бұрын

We still have to remember that sex drive change, my younger self is not the same n even now with contraceptive its worst, sex has become almost a duty to some woman because of hormones

I absolutely LOVE how Lamb always includes God. He speaks to and about God as if He was not only a benevolent Father but also a best friend, which He is. Thank you for not hiding your faith, especially on social media!!! 💗

For me; sex is an exchange of powerful energy between two people. Be careful who you share your sexual energy/ intimacy with

@naturalmysticone7721

2 жыл бұрын

Yes yes YES!!!👍🏻

@anonnona6433

Жыл бұрын

Same here. I don't take it lightly 😂😂😂😂😂

Very VERY good advice guys!! What you said is soooo true! My husband and I didn't even kiss each other until we where 3 months into our relaytionship. The reason why is because both of us where so very hurt in previous relaytionships. We spent those months being honest about our expections of each other. After 3 months, we found we both agreed on most everything. So after 6 months into our relationship, he asked me to marry him. By the end of our 6th month, we where married. 27 years later, we're still going strong 😁 Great vid guys!

Lamb is giving such a valuable advice "look for people who match your energy , don't dump all the pressure on one innocent partner" Wow!

@bggees

Жыл бұрын

How realistic is that advice? Men do have more drive than women in most cases. This is why Islamic religion encourages polygamy for men who can afford it.

Before I got married I could stay a virgin with the idea that I can have enough sex when am married. But, that was a false thought. She didn't like sex as much I thought I did. I wanted to have it at least 3 times a week but she s OK with 1 in each month. She thought sex was stressful even without kids in the marriage. Long story short, we came to a common grounds after 10 years of marriage and only because she realized my inability of not getting enough sex was getting a bad tone on me. Ling&Lamb, it took PRAYER and patience to conquer this barrier without cheating. It's worth giving sex a discussion before saying Yes to your would-be spouse.

@misstiquewoman777

2 жыл бұрын

Wow! What an encouraging story. I know it’s your real life and real struggles but just know I’m encouraged that the marriage was still protected and kept through the struggle. More love to you and your wife. Pray that you’re blessed with many happy years together

@siqandcypress

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like there my be some trauma there that may be helped with counseling. Sex and intimacy though different are very important in a relationship

@arichalevas2298

2 жыл бұрын

Yes marriage is about give and take and comprise and meet in themiddle

@nathaliasimone_

2 жыл бұрын

@Edwin Adu-Ansere Amen 🙏🏾 ! Well I’m glad God answered your prayers and you both are doing better. May God continue to move on both of you as a couple and may you guys grow closer together and win with God in the center and his guidance!

@adamanonipitts8827

2 жыл бұрын

Sex was stressful? Sounds like it’s painful and maybe she feels disconnected from the actual experience? It’s important to explore what’s her love language. What turns her on. Has she experienced any pleasure from it like an orgasm. Many women avoid sex when they feel as if they are only involved in the equation for the mans pleasure. And when it’s painful due to the lack of four play.

Lamb is 💯 right! Sex is a MAJOR factor in EVERY relationship. And it’s not just sex, but other behaviors as well. Are you vegan and your partner isn’t? Do you drink alcohol and your partner doesn’t? Do you exercise and your partner doesn’t like exercise? Like Lamb said, don’t hide your identity or behavioral tendencies. BE YOURSELF from the start and be true to yourself because you have to keep the expectations real. It’s so important to have these kinds of conversations with your partner early on to be on the same page 🎯 💯 Edit: and keep having those conversations because people change and grow

@MrsMovieLuvr

2 жыл бұрын

Just to add they will continue to expect wherever you started in the relationship so if you falter they will feel like something is wrong or lacking. You are setting a standard for your relationship with what you are doing.

@jackiebrainy2274

2 жыл бұрын

Ding Ding Ding! Very true. Do not pretend until you get the ring. Be yourself so you are both aware of what you are committing into the relationship.

@rosemary7346

2 жыл бұрын

@@jackiebrainy2274 Don't pretend even after the ring. Be yourself all throughout

@jackiebrainy2274

2 жыл бұрын

@@rosemary7346 I know. I meant people tend to pretend until they get married then they finally show themselves, which is why people's relationships/ marriages ends

@JaIri122

2 жыл бұрын

Very well said! 💯💯💯💯💯 (@original comment)

It’s Ling mimicking Lamb for me😍😍😍

Love is not only admiration for strength. It's tolerance for weakness. Everyone we love has deficiencies. The best way to spice up our relationships is to become good teachers..

@tahmercynung2498

2 жыл бұрын

Woooow kudos to your first two sentences

@olaoluwabode-omoleye356

2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said.

@kuyonza94

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@MeriamH.

2 жыл бұрын

🥇

@footballloverz6340

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much.

As a young 25 year old Christian virigin woman I definitely agree that sexual expectations should be talked about before marriage. It's an important part of marriage.

@kianamorris9507

2 жыл бұрын

It is literally apart of the reason we are waiting!! To be with only one man that God made for us ❤. It's such a great feeling to know that our husband is our first. Sex is important but it's not as important as our relationship with God. God will grant us the desires of our heart we just have to trust him and follow his will. We will be ok!!

@lucilleokonkwo5821

2 жыл бұрын

@@kianamorris9507 ♥️

@m77ast

2 жыл бұрын

To be honest when a woman says she is a virgin. I cough a bit not because I don’t believe them but because something just mysteriously gets stuck in my throat. 😳😤

@blackfeet5810

2 жыл бұрын

@@m77ast same here. There’s so many born again “virgins” out here lol

@felixaihie1861

2 жыл бұрын

AMEN OOOOO, oya oooo all of us virgins gather here oOoOO

100% ... but this convo needs to be had after significant life changes as well, such as after children, health issues or tragedies; because people can change. Do not just have it once. Being able to have to have these talks and communicate is so important. If you can talk about his you should be able to talk about anything. Can't wait for part 2 !!!

@gabyzico669

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Some women have 1 kid and her libido decreases to zero and like you said she and her partner need to sit down and talk about it. If she is okay with him getting it somewhere else or if they both decide that the frequency of intercourse is going to reduce and he should adjust. It’s all about communication and understanding.

@danielorji2309

2 жыл бұрын

Wow... This is something I didn't realise was necessary but as you've mentioned it, it makes alot of sense and I'm not even yet married.

@TheInquizitiveOne

2 жыл бұрын

This is a word in this comment! Everyone is different!

@JBTHEJEWELER

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯

@introspective_One

2 жыл бұрын

@@gabyzico669 I had only one kid and my sex drive is the same or better! 🤣 my husband is the one that slowed down. Which is boring. I’ve adjusted to it over the 26 yrs of marriage.

The joy these two have is so contagious 🤣🤣

She is so in love she can’t keep her hand off him. Their chemistry is insanely good!

Lamb: ‘Even God in heaven will clap for you.....”😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

I think that is a valid point people need to understand people change....people are not the same person they were 25 years ago and as limber or excited lol ...but people change and you go with changes in each other....open communication is always needed! Sometimes people aren't on the same page ....but eventually they catch up to each other.... Good luck to the lady writing in. 💞

@justinkizube1213

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 25 years ago I wasn't alive 😂 (17 year old)

@carmentulloch4367

2 жыл бұрын

Lamb you killing 😂 me ...if you play Local, International and World cup let the partner know... 😅😀 Funny but Powerful and it's a Fact...💗

@justinkizube1213

2 жыл бұрын

@Abe M. ?

@titi9238

2 жыл бұрын

@@justinkizube1213 😁

@tsav1613

2 жыл бұрын

Not as limber 😭😭

He said, “You big broccoli head” 🥦 😂 Love it Getting married August 7th, and everything you all are speaking on is sooo valid. Thank you 💯

@jelornmccomie9123

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🥂All the best to you and your partner

@bls7645

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations! 😍😍

@SunnyV3official

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations, God bless your marriage

@mariangaji7212

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!

@leonietaylor7054

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!!May'God lead'your marriage.Cherish every second of the event and take lots of pictures and videos.I lost All my chances.I want the BESTfor you.👍🏽🙏❤💙❤💙❤⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘

As a Christian woman, my dedication to Christ is very important to me, and very difficult for men that I've dated, in terms of my scriptural belief regarding intimacy before marriage. Therefore, I've remained celibate for nearly 15 years. I've dated one gentleman, off and on, for nearly 12 years, who refuses to give up, and hopefully, he'll come to the conclusion that after 12 years, I'm not the one that's going to change. He's handsome, and successful, but if he doesn't respect my views, and values before marriage, he won't respect and value them after marriage. While I wait, I'm going to keep trusting God, and His plan, which is always unfailing. Great video you guys.

@jideabiaka4487

2 жыл бұрын

Amen if he doesnt respect your views before, he won't after.

@MManuhz

2 жыл бұрын

My sister keep waiting, as if God is your brother or sister to go market bring you a man, this dating thing has nothing to do with christ or God, this is trial and error, true marriage is a covenant between 2 people not a ring, get rid of these Hollywood fantasies, this thing of put a ring on it is just pathetic given the divorce stats, a man will give youca ring just to conquer your pants and then dump you, emancipate yourself from colonial fantasy, a ring means nothing, the heart and soul is key here

@brendajohnson1

2 жыл бұрын

@@MManuhz My Brother, after waiting 15 years, a man is not going to put a ring on my finger, get what he wants and walk away. If I was that easy, that would have already happened. I've already proven to the Lord, that I will wait on Him. My trust is in Christ, not mankind. God bless you, and thanks for responding. Proverbs 18:22 "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord." If it's God's will, I will marry. If it isn't, I will remain as I am.

@brendajohnson1

2 жыл бұрын

@@allinsoccer4542 Amen! 🙏🏽

@brendajohnson1

2 жыл бұрын

@@jideabiaka4487 Amen, this is very true.

I also think it is good to talk about this is because either one of you could had a terrible trauma where you’ve been sexually abused and you have certain triggers. So it’s always important.

@MariAnnRoss

2 жыл бұрын

En pointe!

@julietboakyeyiadom4372

2 жыл бұрын

Very true

@biodunafolabi4674

2 жыл бұрын

It true

@anthonydavid6974

2 жыл бұрын

If you can't out grow trigger . You stay single nobody is going to die for your trigger or don't punish another person because of your past.

The way lamb sad "Ah" when ling read the topic killed me 😂😂😂😂

@naijabelle4961

2 жыл бұрын

hahahahaha

Love how attentive he is, when she's talking 💕. They seem so happy and that they respect one another; love to see it 👌🏽💛💛💛

Well done guys! This is the reason why some relationships dissolve or remain stagnant. Some persons think there's a limit to what they can discuss as a couple. If they were to spend the time having open discussions - and not just about sex, but anything, it will eliminate some of the misunderstandings they face and mentally prepare them for what to or not to expect. Effective communication will always be a crucial element in any relationship.

The best thing for me about you guys beyond being a totally 'gelled' couple, is that you are changing perspectives about who can and what goes into having a great relationship! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Finding someone with the same sexual taste and drive is almost like finding a unicorn. You just need to have an honest talk on each other's sexual expectations and come to an agreeable compromise that can be reevaluate should the need arise in the future. Age, health and financial status can change sexual drive and taste in the future. This has worked for me.

@CuratedVibes

2 жыл бұрын

So true!! In my experiences, all the best sexual partners I've had were always surrounded by toxicity. They usually were the type to be monogamous.

"Knack"😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣...Soon Ling is going to have a dictionary diary of Nigerian pigdin slangs I Love how real 💯% Ling and Lamb are🥰... Learning alot from both of you. Can't wait for Part 2🤗

@ao5624

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂I can't believe he said that. He is hilarious!

@dawoduomolola3672

2 жыл бұрын

She had to define knack to us😁

@Theheavenly1

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

I’m engaged and yes we are talking about this very thing. It is very, very important to have these conversations. Great Topic!! Can’t wait for part 2.

Yesssss! Good discussion. We need to be open and honest before marriage. This might even decide if you get married or not. Truthful communication beforehand is THE KEY.... Then stick to it. Marriage is a covenant that should be taken very seriously.

I'm definitely waiting for part 2...My current relationship, my mate (I call him Mate instead of baby & all that) 😅 is sooo honest, outspoken, pretty much like Lamb😂,so when he came up with this convo a little while ago, I was shook. I'm a typical African girl and I come from a home where even sex talk is reeeeally awkward, almost like forbidden lol. I had to read about periods & stuff from a book,(of course I learnt that in school as well), but none of my parents told me any of that stuff. Anyway, he taught me a lot of stuff, it was really weird for me at first but because he was so open, I opened up too. We definitely need to have that convo again. I watch KZread most of the time but people barely ever talk about this. Thank you Ling & Lamb❤️

Lamb/Ling PhD, great advice for many going into a partnership, even for those that been married for awhile. There is people that do still love their partner but physically cannot/fall out of is tough. Even if it’s not fair for your loved one…I agree with Lamb, “Don’t Lie!” Because of this advice and same belief as Lamb, we decided to divorce last year…pls do pt 2 !! Mahalo, Yong

You guys look so real, my doubts about your authenticity can't seem to find a place for stay. I love love the way you accept each others difference and doing life in complement. You inspire me seriously! I can't even lie. And everything you said, are true. Talk about everything worth talking about with a would-be spouse before marriage. It helps prepare one for what to expect.

I thank God for this power couple that is changing lives. this is really helping others

I smile every time I watch you two. I agree with everything you said...and I'm still amazed at the wisdom you both have at such a young age. Love you guys!

This is a very good conversation. Something I realized too late to save my own marriage: a woman is more inclined to meet her husband’s physical needs when her emotional needs are met. As God created us, men are visual and physical while women operate from an emotional aspect

@inomabriggs2778

Жыл бұрын

Very true, most people expect women to be mechanical, and some women are, but others better satisfy their husbands physical needs when he meets their emotional needs.

@teecop4735

Жыл бұрын

❤ wise words ! I’m marries 37 years !

After 40 years together married, fires are still burning. This was our marriage counseling: a marriage of 2 takers will eat each other up. A marriage of a giver and a taker will lead to frustration. A marriage of 2 givers is a beautiful thing! This had held true in every area and especially the bedroom! According to statistics, my husband and I should have been divorced. We chose to beat the statistics. We got books on marriage like His Needs Her Needs, read them together and followed the directions! Don't give up young people! Make your family last. Be real (no porn) laugh and have fun! Resolve your arguments and you will find that before long you'll be helping others! Marriage is not rocket science! It's loyalty! You can do it!

I love this conversation..."look for someone that matches your energy" great advice

I really like Lambs Honesty, playful But totally serious, no games excepted, additive approach to this conversation!!!!! it brings great energy to this conversation. His approach was like an icebreaker and his wife was the total serious no nonsense part of this equation. I think both were needed in order to discuss this topic. Great job guys and definitely a part two should happen

Am a proud west African Liberian 🇱🇷🇳🇬🇭🇹🇯🇲. Here to support my African family. You guys are out of this world beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

I love Ling's laughter 🤣 😂 So much Joy 😂 It's lovely to see that Lamb causes 😊 your Joy to well up in your laughter.

Thanks for taking the time to share this guys. I've never really had this conversation with anybody yet believe it or not at age 29. Blessings to you

KZread's favourite couple

You guys are legit my favorite couple on YT! Y'all are the best!!! Much love from Barbados

I absolutely love the connection, transparency, and humor between you two. Lamb is giving me Myles Munroe vibes. The way that man used to speak of God, love and his wife within ministry was awe inspiring ❤️❤️❤️ My husband and I had the full out open abs honest conversation on our second date. I gasped a few times lol as did he regarding our drive and freak level; but it made for a great marriage.

You both nailed it... Like Ling said, you need to figure out if y'all just keeping up with each other's sexual energy for the sake of the relationship only to change after marriage. Lamb also raised a very good point; I know there's a saying that 'opposites attract', but as a player who has gone through every variation of women or men, you might want something different even a direct opposite of yourself but despite the desire for good girl/boy, deep down you will still expect some level of freakiness from them and that is not fair to them.

I love your topics and thank you for being so real. I can only add, always be absolutely truthful and honest in your conversations before marriage. I was married once and my ex husband was not honest in the worst way after having conversations prior to marriage. I found out after we got married. Love you both ❤❤🙏😊🌞 Lol I should have listened in your entirety before I left my comment. 🙃😊

This is a REAL, ADULT and LOVING conversation that MUST be responsibly had. Approaching it from any other perspective may unearth negative issues you may not even know existed. Btw, you guys are awesome!

Great topic guys! It's very important for individuals to work on themselves before entering a partnership. Couples must communicate clearly what they need from each other before they commit to spending a lifetime together. It's necessary to research the effects that children, work, sickness, success or failure and other things can have on a relationship. Basically the partnership has to be open, honest, responsible and respectful and the commitment has to be such that they're both willing to stand together as partners until the end. It may sound unrealistic but relationship takes time and energy and hard work. Period. Full 💯. Please do a part 2. You're good marriage/relationship counselors. Happy that you're sharing your knowledge with the world. God bless you both 😊❤️🙏🏽

I'm a stong believer of getting to understand as much as possible of your partner before marriage, it has saved many marriages

🇿🇦🇿🇦🇳🇬🇳🇬 LOVE FROM BOTH COUNTRIES

Lamb be raising legit points

@moeokoye9915

2 жыл бұрын

Voice of reason!

@georgedoubra4559

2 жыл бұрын

Home boy be dropping hits on hits

3:53 “Sex is a major factor in every relationship!” 🙏 Lamb! 9:42 “Don’t Lie!” This was an awesome topic! Thank you both for bringing it up!

I just love how you guys love each other! So sweet.

I so much love you guys, Lamb giving the right advice ❤️❤️

You two are just amazing. Lamb, your awesome, African male common sense intelligence is so refreshing, and Ling with your own too-hard-to-find-today authentic femininity, beauty-from-the-inside, joy and et cetera, you both are blessed in and through each other...so beautiful to see...such a beautiful witness

I soooo love 💘 you guys. You're so real and so practical. There's no doubt that God brought you together 🙏🏾🙌🏾 love you

This is a very great video because like you both said, COMMUNICATING is the MOST IMPORTANT thing to do within a relationship! Lamb spoke nothing but straight facts!!

Lamb is just having me laughing, I see why Ling laugh all the time with her husband. Your conversations are so teachable and interesting. I think God is taking this channel in a new directions. People are learning and enjoying you'll conservation about relationship, finances, sex and marriage. I understand what he was saying about the levels.

@kemilolafadeyi5483

2 жыл бұрын

I love the way you guys approach the issues about sex People shy away from the truth instead of facing it . You are not postponing your evil days . I love Lamb , the way he address this sex live based on their level . We are different that is why a meaningful conversation about sex is much needed before saying I DO . You will be so glad you did !!!!

@michaelanderson1449

2 жыл бұрын

100% correct

@christieatuh

2 жыл бұрын

a moving combination of all those satisfactions

Lamb your the realest man. Preach brother preach.

Honestly, people that dislike your content i wonder what kind of life they live or who they are. Your content is soooooooo educational and funny at the same time. I come here to learn and have a good time. Long live @Land and Lamb

8:25 Amen Lamb! That’s the key to being a successful spouse and having a happy marriage! You got it Lamb!🔑

Level 5 = We understand each other. Lamb was quick to rescue himself.😅😅😅.Nice topic guys

@durbansaladyinaccra2173

2 жыл бұрын

..."while others are on level 💯"😂😂😂

When he said, "Some men, they will hang you-oh" I died😂😂😂😂😂

@samuelosagie-aruya923

2 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@pamelanafuna7082

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@youngbidam

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@naijabelle4961

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅

@freedom7539

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

Hands down, Ling and Lamb are the best!!!❤❤💯💯

the best thing that ever happened to KZread was you guys.....funny enough most people don't put this into consideration before going into marriage, and they feel disappointed when issues starts popping as time progresses......like I always say, its more easy to handle situations if there was prior knowledge about it rather than unexpected surprises. .

Kudos guys! I was waiting to hear lamb on this topic. PS: I was not disappointed on his analysis. 👏 👏

Lamb you are soo full of wisdom and I appreciate you.keep on doing this.

😃😃😃 it’s sooo sweet how Ling is listening with all seriousness to Lamb while he’s joking around

Ling & Lamb, this Ah topic that needs to be discussed on a extensive level. I thank you both for touching the surface. When truth is revealed life becomes peaceful, every man in his heart knows exactly what he/she wants. We must ask & pray for a life of Truth, it is then life is less complex. Life has many levels, let us all begin to peep back the Onion of life, you may say why an Onion, in doing this there will be tears. Much love always ❤

I was smiling sheepishly while watching this & I completely agree with what you guys said so YES. Do a part 2.

@meowmeowmeow2362

2 жыл бұрын

Are you muslim?

I dont think the issue is the conversation, I believe most couples have it. However, the issue is that the sexual appetites and routine change. The honeymoon phase/excitement of something new brings out that passion and euphoria. However, once you settle into a maintenance of a home particular for the women, she is often fatigued and it plays on her libido. I am speaking from a medical point of view. I am a medical student. That is why women that are working and taking care of kids and a home will often state they are just too tired to then put in the work in the bedroom. Edit; to add if the household responsibilities are shared INTIMACY IS GREAT AND SATISFYING FOR BOTH PARTNERS.

@sonsy040

2 жыл бұрын

Which I can thumb this up multiple times.

@teedoug5433

2 жыл бұрын

👍x100. Nothing kills libido than male partner who doesn't contribute to household chores... Regardless of who is more financially stronger Or doesn't know how to 'care' for their spouse

@augustaonuoha4499

2 жыл бұрын

Very true!!

@gabyzico669

2 жыл бұрын

Pls sex is a very important. Libido reduces as you grow old yes but please sex is very important. Find yourself sbdy who matches your energy. You should talk to your husband if you doing all the chores at home decreases your libido. If not your marriage would crumble. Unless both you and your husband don’t like sex.

@teedoug5433

2 жыл бұрын

@@gabyzico669 easier said....

Thanks for covering this topic, hit close to home, cannot wait for part 2, awesome job you two👏👏👏

I love how Nigerian Lamb is... it’s crazy real 😂😂😂 I feel like I’m talking to my guy and Ling OMG! You’re so cool 😎 the balance is mad beautiful 😍 y’all bursting my brain 🧠 Abeg! He say knack and then Ling explained it... Divine 😇

Awww it’s the matching blazers for me!

This conversation is very much needed!!

Its absolutely positively important to discuss. For many reasons. Including if both parties are interested in the same things. Because one may really enjoy a certain act and the other may not be interested or willing. Also, important make sure everyone is healthy and have had a recent check up if they're sexually active. Be safe!

Level 20 and another level 2 😂😂😂❤️ wow u guys are educating me ... I'll surely use this in the future God continue blessing you people

Thanks for this discussion, its really a good one. My husband and I had to adjust to each others needs, even though we knew our expectations, because, kids bring another dynamic in marriage

I’ve been married for seven years now, and we talked about it just like any other major part of a relationship like religion, children,money, in-laws etc

@lindacallimaque6845

2 жыл бұрын

what if your fiancé is avoiding the finances topic what should I do. it is tiring to keep asking to discuss finances but keeps avoiding it

Love how real these two are. Def my fav couple out here

This is so great approach, Instead of making sex before marriage it's good to check if we match sex-wise by communicating our desires. This is great way to create healthy strong relations and remain friends with each other in case the expectations don't match

When you put kids into the factor, health, healing, sometimes it is unrealistic to stay with the conversation you had before marriage. I feel that both people need to be realistic and compassionate. My husband through a fit after I had his kids. Mind you I was pregnant 3 yrs in a row. The 2nd one we lost a twin and I had to have an emergency csection. Therefore the 3rd was also a csection. I had to heal and juggle the babies him and the home. There was no we for yrs during that time. He resented the kids for taking all my time which was his issues he needed to deal with. It is difficult to foresee the future.

You guys are str8 up goals! If my partner doesn't love me like lamb loves ling I don't even want it!

man i love watching the two of you. yalls chemistry is beyond cool

Waiting for the podcast 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

You an amazing couple, just saw your channel today and already saw 3 of your episodes. Love is all over you guys. This topic is important, got married a virgin at 36 but you know the thoughts that you will do it everyday to cover for the years you didn’t do it makes me laugh out loud . True religion plays a part always listened to elders and preaching and then I developed myself to have self control and respect so that by the tym I get married I will have good characteristics and won’t compare my wife to past experiences, it really helped me and my wife was surprised how can a man stay that long without longing for sex little did she know that I was expecting it 365 days , but by discussing and understanding each other we came to an agreement on how many times and stuff . When you truly love someone you always find ways to meet each other halfway. Marriage is beautiful folks. God bless this marriage and those anticipating to marry soon. God is good all the time .

The thing that you didnt get to touch on yet is that sex drive for both men and women can change over time....we go through different seasons that influence libido. It can be common to go through times where spouses may not align. After 11 years of marriage, we've had a few seasons where our libidos didnt line up, and that's ok! Because marriage is an ever evolving relationship. We get through it with lots of communication and effort from both of us to make sure we are happy and getting what we need. We also try to be creative in providing intimacy in other ways than sex. And keep we please acknowledge that sometimes its the wife with the higher libido 🙈 we're unicorns 🦄 but we do exist!

@similoluwaoni287

2 жыл бұрын

I love this comment. I wish it could be pinned…. Stress levels at different seasons of ones life can increase or decrease sex drive and that’s ok. As long as there is communication and compromise.

You're fun to watch. This is also educative. This is one area in relationship/courtship that people shy away from.

Ohhh I love u guys. Thank you for existing and being a great part of KZread. Great topic

Great topic, love you ling and lamb

You guys are amazing. I am going to discuss this with my boyfriend. He had been asking that we should discuss it since but I was like we will when we are married.

I just love you guys 😀 always brighten up my day. You guys are real and that is what I love. You can see and feel the ❤ that you share.

There is so much wisdom in what u guys have said... Thanks for this great advice... Love u guys ❤️

I always hoped you guys will go into relationships things. I am very glad it is happening, well done guys. Like I said before, this your relation is not made in America or Nigeria....it is made in Heaven! Transparency is the keeeeeey! I see that couples react first by getting upset before they even think of talking about it. Like Lamb said.....DON't LIE! Some of you have played the Olympics, won all the gold medals before getting married :). Abeg Sista Ling and Broda Lamb, do a part 2, 3, 4 and 5 sef.

You to are a blessing to relationships continue blessing us with your words.

@darlenelane392

2 жыл бұрын

AMEN🙏

The reality here is real! Thanks so much for being yourselves, that's what makes you both loveable!! New subie here!

Love the way you guys connect really its so powerful and it teaches us a lot about real love thank you

I really love the advice that you guys give up and we really need the part 2.. 😂😂

I learn so much from yall🙌🏿🌸🌺🌸

This is the man of word. Thanks you guys we love you. Go Big my men.

Mr Lamb, inspite of his comedy is very wise and has good advice. I love both of you. I pray God blesses you abundantly.