Proud to be a 40 yr old virgin. I know I'm worth the wait! Praise God 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤

@kadijahduarte

Жыл бұрын

That's so awesome! I'm 25 and used to wish that I was a virgin (at least until marriage, if it's God's will). However, I don't feel regretful about it anymore 'cause God's gonna use that. But, man! What a blessing purity is.

@misstramaine1981

Жыл бұрын

@@kadijahduarte Thanks. I'm 41 now, still a virgin, still waiting, but I'm in no rush. God knows what's best for me and He also knows what's best for you. God bless you.

@Jericho-xs3ju

8 ай бұрын

Trainine Your standards must be through the roof. How many men have you passsed up to make it 41 and still have not found a man But good to know there’s still women that value that It’s rare

@AshtasticAcrobat

4 ай бұрын

@@misstramaine1981 That is so wonderful! I've seen a few others say the same thing and I am always so impressed. God is going to use your story to give him glory.

@shariefrancis6518

4 ай бұрын

one of a kind

I’ve been sober and celibate for two years now! Praise the Lord! He is so good 😭🙏🏼❤️

just got a bible verse notification while watching this "wait for the LORD; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the LORD!" Psalm 27:14 ... wow isn't that SO GOOD! I know that's a word for someone here

@GodSoLoved.Yeshua

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I think it's me!

@shekinafaith

3 жыл бұрын

@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua yay! I pray God gives you strength

I love this sermon. It’s so well put together. He has that audience’s full attention. They are all dead silent. He’s speaking truth and their spirit recognizes that.

Great sermon. Notes for me 5:12"

@melaniemartin4319

3 жыл бұрын

🤯

@rannydewah8549

6 ай бұрын

Thank u

Did any of those who commented negatively about the video even watch the video? It's obvious that sex before marriage is destructive and not biblical. He is preaching truth if you would just watch. Unreal. There is always a Karen and a Kevin 🤦🏾‍♂️

@cecep7477

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly🙄🤦🏾‍♀️

@PurposefulLife123

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@pbm863

2 жыл бұрын

No,no. “Karens” are you dude. Dont try and deflect the ignorance

Amen, Bro! Great message. I’ve blown it at times, but am committed to saving it for my next marriage. I just uninstalled a Social Media app that was the main instrument in my struggle.

This was so life giving and it has renewed my mind….thank you man of God🥺🙏🏾

thank you so much Jesus for such a beautiful and impactful message. spoken to us threw pastor David and thank you church for the messages we can listen to and the effort put in for all of us.

This was so well put! Thank you!

Love this series. Thank you for the truth

God Loves YOU...

Please, God, help me break any soul ties in my life, in Jesus's name, Amen

@misstramaine1981

3 жыл бұрын

Pray and fast so you can break the chains of willful sin, if you're serious. Don't overthink it, just do it. 24hrs, drink only water, read scripture, listen to worship music and pray. You can do it. I believe in you. Break the chains of sin!

Mark 16:15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.

Great sermon he's so funny

Wonderful 😮

Wow🔥🔥🔥🔥

preach

I’ve never read it in the Holy Scriptures-just many words taught by preachers. The Lord does not mention it in his word or pull up anyone for sex before marriage. So, I say, why sweat about it? Enjoy your freedom in God.

I'm a 27 yr single mom of one and am ashamed and feel like damaged goods. I know who I am in Christ Jesus. I'm redeemed. But sometimes cant help feeling like a lost cause

The cargo pants hot take!!! 😂

At 23:45 my life 2014-2019... Not anymore! 🙏 I recommited my life to Jesus and left. Moved home into my mom's basement. The best choice I've ever made.

yo...glutton allergy...LOL...loved it...TRUTH...

Sex before marriage is only amazing for as long as it last and its only amazing because of a chemical reaction in the mind. Sex after marriage has both physical and spiritual pleasure, that makes it worth the weight. Besides your combining your soul with that person for the rest of your life, why would you waste it on someone thats a hookup or someone that you think you love. If you actually love him or her, wait till they are ready to make that commitment to you and have made that commitment to you. Then you enjoy eachother for the glory of God

Yep. Happened to me:(

im 32 and iv never had sex and im proud of it God has something better

@jaybah836

10 ай бұрын

Really, that's good. Sex is overrated. It's like food, or alcoholic drink. Its just instant gratification, it's just a feeling that'll go

One thing is to save yourself for the one you marry. The other thing is to not have another option. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have committed to stay pure and holy - and God is answering my prayers by not letting anybody come even close who is not supposed to be there. On the one hand I get tired sometimes because I asked God to send the One finally and he takes his time. On the other side I know for sure this is for somebody out there: Keeping yourself pure is worth it!! Just imagine, it is something only between you and the one you trust your life with. And imagine, nobody is going to compare to or fantasize about any other experience... What a pure experience! It is worth it! Keep on trusting, praying, staying pure. Set your focus right. Sex or marriage is not for eternity, but purity and not sinning is. And also: We never are entitled to a partner. It is what God gifts. Ask and you'll receive. That's it. Am not going to preach here, watch the video. But let my testimony be yours. God bless.

But if Sex has permanence, then that actually bothers me, because my gf has had sex before she met me, so how do I deal with that? Even after forgiving her?

@Bunnyinthebasement

Жыл бұрын

The blood of Jesus can break all bad soul ties. If your gf has laid her past relationship before Jesus, then she can be free from remaining ties to other partners. Remember, Rahab the harlot who helped the spies escape Jericho married an Israelite man and became the mother of Boaz, from the Book of Ruth. As such, Rahab became not only the ancestor of King David, but Jesus Himself. Also the Book of Hosea deals with a prophet who was ordered by God to marry a prostitute (to illustrate how the Israelites were committing adultery against God by worshipping idols), and Hosea continued to love his wife, even when she was unfaithful to him. These are the extreme cases, of course, but even if your gf has had multiple partners, Jesus can still heal everything and give you a loving, godly relationship and future marriage.

Some thoughts: - Some women extremely do _not_ bond with their new infant, and it can be incredibly painful and even give rise to postpartum depression when they’re told over and over how beautiful the instant bond is, that they by design felt upon birth completion. We tell them how much they love their baby, while they know inside they don’t even like the baby. Obviously bonding with your child is extremely important, but I’m js - for many mothers, it happens later, or even not at all. - My former spouse (they left, not me, and it was for reasons related to their parents being upset they left the family religion) and I waited until marriage to have sex. All we’d ever done before that was kiss. It was great, and we were very compatible, and learned to really bring each other a lot of joy and pleasure and togetherness through it. But.. it was never a part of our real bond for me. It was a fun and excited shared interest that promoted teamwork with somebody I felt bonded to, sure, but the sex itself did not ever - not once - make me feel in love with them or bonded to them. And no, it wasn’t because my tape was unsticky.. Like I said: virgins when we married; I’d only even kissed one other person (someone I dated for a year). Oxytocin serves an extremely important purpose, and it’s important for MOST people’s ability to bond, but some people (such as myself, I suspect) are genuinely “oxytocin deficient.” My bond with them was a cognitive one; a deep, significant soul bond, but not one spurred on by oxytocin. We were together 7y and I didn’t ever even want to cuddle after; I just wanted to do something else 🤷🏻 Also, I think the duct tape analogy is very flawed. A better analogy would be: the duct tape is ripped off, it really hurts...and then _a new piece of duct tape is applied to that skin,_ and it is ripped off. This second one hurts even worse, because it was fresh tape! But over time, as the hairs are ripped out and dead skin is sluffed, it’ll end up very similar to waxing: the skin will be tough and handle pain better, but also smooth and silky and thus better able to connect with the stickiness of new pieces of tape (or a new piece, maybe for good; doesn’t have to be several). Also, tape often relaxes over time and comes off on its own, with little to no pain...like relationships where you’ve drifted apart. - So much about this talk presumes pain is BAD and should be avoided. What about being forged in a fire? Is it not also possible that the pain of breakups can be purifying and fortifying? - There’s also an assumption that not only should we avoid this one specific type of pain, but we should also aim to suffer as few losses, big and small, as possible when it comes to love. That’s very small minded imo. Loss, like pain, should not be avoided! It should be felt, understood, acknowledged, and assimilated. It is part of this rich spectrum of the lifeforce God imbued us with, and an integral piece of the cycle that underpins all of creation. So, in summary: If you want to stay comfortable and away from pain, don’t ever put a single piece of tape on unless you’re reasonably certain it’ll NEVER be taken off. And even then, if it tries to rip off, do not let it. But if you want to flow with Life’s river, growing and becoming enriched - so that you can in turn enrich the world around you - humbly accept both losses and gains that come your way, with childlike wonder, and childlike grief. He gives and takes away, after all. Don’t seek to deny His gift to you of loss; accept it with tears like you accept his gift of gain with those same tears.

@melaniemartin4319

3 жыл бұрын

Not for kiddos, fornication!🍅🥝🍅🥝

" But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice witchcraft, the idolaters and all liars they will have their part in the lake of burning sulphur which is the second death." Revelation 21:8✝️ Sex before marriage is not amazing It makes a liar and thief of both liar and immoral no part with God

@ashisfine1092

3 жыл бұрын

If you listen all the way through, he explains it all. Saw it in person in its entirety and he's actually accurate. :)

@dapperdan1017

3 жыл бұрын

What he says in the title let alone the video does not agree with scripture? Sex is amazing but sex before marriage is destructive. I dont mean this harshly, I'm simply making you aware :)

@jessyjonas4988

3 жыл бұрын

@@dapperdan1017 the title said sex before marriage is amazing. Sex before marriage IS NOT amazing and it does not agree with Holy Scripture

@ashisfine1092

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessyjonas4988 "Sex Before Marriage Is Amazing (But It's Destructive) " is the title of the sermon. God designed sex to be amazing for humanity, which is why so many people have sex and culture is extremely sexualized. It's always amazing regardless of before or after marriage because sex was made and created by God. It's extremely destructive prior to marriage because sex binds people to each other. The point he is making in the sermon is that God set those boundaries and rules to make it that much more special for everyone involved. Again, I really encourage you to watch the video entirely start to finish as he explains everything on this very clearly with very great examples. :)

@jessyjonas4988

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashisfine1092 too much emphasis on sex. Where is the balance There is no reason to be talking about sex it is a private thing. Sex falls into place like everything else when you put God first. Preach HOLINESS and sex is addressed with everything else. Preach HOLINESS Preach PURITY Preach SANCTIFICATION Preach the WORD OF GOD

I'm 41 and still a virgin!! Jesus Christ has delivered me from porn. I hate that garbage now!!!

Beyonce was great in destiny's child. After that 👎

In our culture we dont have arranged marriages in our teens like they did in Biblical times. The simple fact is that people were not intended to wait until they're 30 years old to have sex. Unless you want to go back to arranged marriages then you are going to have to accept that single people will have sex.

@colbyharris7229

3 жыл бұрын

Hes not going to have to accept anything. Each individual person doing that to themself will have to accept that.

@bethanyp.6490

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 29 this year, single and a virgin! 😊 Following God's word to the absolute best of my ability.

@brothertoad6107

3 жыл бұрын

@@bethanyp.6490 Congrats. You aren't getting any younger and your ovaries are slowly drying up. But at least you're still following all the rules from an ancient culture where people had arranged marriages at 16. How does following the Bible to "the best of your ability" benefit you or society in general?

@Annie-wg3ud

3 жыл бұрын

@@brothertoad6107 She can always adopt of she has to. I was adopted by childless parents. Poor kids need good homes.

@yveherbert7494

2 жыл бұрын

@@bethanyp.6490 you should be proud of yourself. God always reward our obedience!

Wrong, sex before marriage it is a Sin Sir! All the way. I object, no excuses

@1909aliceC

2 жыл бұрын

Huh .?

Smh... all about himself and being liked.. no truth

@samreedmusic

3 жыл бұрын

tbf yeh i thought the same thing, didn’t reference the bible once. Oh wait....

@TheMindfulOpinion

2 жыл бұрын

You don’t have to use the Bible to talk about the love of God. Your judgement shows that your relationship with God is where you truly lack. You MUST get closer to God. Don’t lean on Man for their word. Lean on God. He has the answers. These type of messages aren’t for everyone. But don’t knock this man for spreading a message. It can lead someone to Christ. And that’s the goal. We all are unworthy, yet God loves us anyway. Including that man on stage who is doing what he can to spread the Gospel. Even if he didn’t use one Bible verse. God is Love. That book was written by Man. Call God!