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Sex and Fasting | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @keneilwemarwane
    @keneilwemarwane2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jesus, the way I will share this video. I was attacked for this. There must be an agreement between the spouses when fasting, I said it. Not all fast include sex, and not all fast should be too long for spouses without agreement, Fasting is for us not God. I said it. 🙌🙌🙌

  • @oniadenike
    @oniadenike2 жыл бұрын

    Stumbled on this video and couldn't help screaming, "This man is wise." When he said reading the Bible and praying are more important than starving, it made a lot of sense. Thank you, sir.

  • @rccgLWF

    @rccgLWF

    Жыл бұрын

    This is new age christianity, using human knowledge to interpret scripture. What is now self denial. Luke 9:23-24, Luke 14:26-27. Isaiah 58.

  • @EMENIKEP

    @EMENIKEP

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@rccgLWF he didn't say fasting or self denial (as you call it) is wrong but it's useless to starve without praying

  • @sewonikufunke6315
    @sewonikufunke63152 жыл бұрын

    Religion has scattered a lot of things for us

  • @goldchinenye3160
    @goldchinenye31602 жыл бұрын

    This has always been my opinion. Thank you P.K. I dont know why people generally feel food fast must imply no sex. Anyways I think some people who think that way, the mindset came from not having sex only when they are fasting during dating because of fear of God's thunder will not allow them🤣🤣🤣. They now still carried the fear into marriage

  • @ninertactics
    @ninertactics Жыл бұрын

    Good stuff. I work so I can only fast by eating one meal a day plus other responsibilities. Need the energy and all. My wife and I get intimate at least once a week, sometimes more but not without it past a week. I find its just more sustainable for all our needs.

  • @elviranwana1466
    @elviranwana14662 жыл бұрын

    I like this pastor to too much

  • @olabisichristianah2207
    @olabisichristianah22072 жыл бұрын

    This is just awesome I have always wanted to balance this mentally Thank you PK for this

  • @rosemarymallya4458
    @rosemarymallya44582 жыл бұрын

    God bless U & ur Wife🙌🙌I NEED THESE TEACHINGS LONG AGO👍Frm 🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿

  • @zohrehshiri2942
    @zohrehshiri294221 күн бұрын

    Thank you lord.❤️🫶🏽

  • @blessingshumba3629
    @blessingshumba3629 Жыл бұрын

    Wisdom from above...lest the devil takes a foothold...

  • @olutayotoluwalase
    @olutayotoluwalase2 жыл бұрын

    Somebody should shout Rhema abeg💕 💕💕💕

  • @evangelistavanesa-fermin7227
    @evangelistavanesa-fermin72272 жыл бұрын

    In my first weeks of marriage i used to say it jajajaja i cant have sex during fasting jajajajjaa until my husband explainted to me......plus this explanation

  • @josephuwakmfon7693
    @josephuwakmfon7693 Жыл бұрын

    I love what you are doing Pastor Kingsley in the area of Sexual Abstinence till Marriage. God bless you.

  • @plamialuisa823
    @plamialuisa8232 жыл бұрын

    Pastor K have landed oooo... Thanks sir for this video, can't wait to repost it.

  • @Godturneditaround4427
    @Godturneditaround44277 ай бұрын

    Been starving my husband lack of knowing the word and understanding

  • @cuteblessn4806
    @cuteblessn48065 ай бұрын

    Thanks sir,I was so worried today

  • @elite-realtors
    @elite-realtors2 жыл бұрын

    I have been in need of an answer to this o

  • @alexisbyishimo
    @alexisbyishimo Жыл бұрын

    May God bless you man of God. You have answered the question that I had in my mind.

  • @cornerstonelawyers7319
    @cornerstonelawyers73197 ай бұрын

    Thank you pastor, I needed to hear that.

  • @rccgLWF
    @rccgLWF Жыл бұрын

    This is a new age philosophy, totally against scripture. Christianity is not about our personal comfort and self fulfillment. Luke 9:23. What is self denial, what is self discipline, what is crucifying the flesh? This is the kind of message lots of people are looking for in this dispensation. God have mercy. This is using human knowledge to interpret the scripture. The true way of Christ is still the narrow way. God have mercy.

  • @maine_obioque

    @maine_obioque

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much.

  • @ajanibisola4431
    @ajanibisola44312 жыл бұрын

    Find it useful pastor

  • @martinsiyere3947
    @martinsiyere3947 Жыл бұрын

    aDefraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that bSatan ctempt you not for your incontinency. 1 cor 7:5

  • @lebechiveronica4345
    @lebechiveronica43452 жыл бұрын

    Thank you😘😍speaks like Fr. Rufus Arji

  • @nkechio9245
    @nkechio9245 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir for this great insight.

  • @nnenniaifepe5073
    @nnenniaifepe50732 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this clarity because some people are holier than God himself. Some even use the excuse of fasting to punish their partners and it's funny

  • @marythehousemaid2679
    @marythehousemaid26792 жыл бұрын

    I have been waiting for this oo thank you sir k

  • @amoduqueen1222

    @amoduqueen1222

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here o

  • @beckyokoro5104
    @beckyokoro5104 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir🙏

  • @victoriaokeje364
    @victoriaokeje364 Жыл бұрын

    Nice message sir.

  • @dramos5233
    @dramos52332 жыл бұрын

    Wow, Pastor K!!! you are the BEST!!!

  • @onahujunwa2895
    @onahujunwa28952 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much pastor k

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld60722 жыл бұрын

    Bless you sir

  • @miracledamian
    @miracledamian2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir

  • @adelekegbemisola288
    @adelekegbemisola2882 жыл бұрын

    Sir, but fasting is denying oneself of things that gives one pleasure carnally to elevate the spirit. Sex (within marriage) is a carnal pleasure sir, it's not elevating the spirit. Couples can always reach a compromise of how to do it in order not to starve each other, but not during active fasting time. And sir, I agree with many other things you said. I pray the HolySpirit give us understanding in Jesus name.

  • @ekeminiessien409

    @ekeminiessien409

    2 жыл бұрын

    Read the text. He quoted scripture but you're adamant about whatever notions you already have about sex. Again, read the text that was mentioned. Describing sex as carnal pleasure is as a result of giving in to the perverse definition that the world has placed on it. It is given by God and is meant to be enjoyed in marriage. Robbing your partner of it simply because you don't understand its place, is wrong.

  • @docsidetheaters4064

    @docsidetheaters4064

    Жыл бұрын

    How can you open your mouth and say sex is a carnal pleasure for married people? Not fornicators or adulterers o. Omo 😮. Pls read the Bible for yourself and stop following your Daddy Go’s orders. Even after this thorough explanation with Bible verse to back it up you are still arguing. Abi you don’t believe in the bible again? Or you take only the part of the Bible that Suits you and leave the rest? 😂😂😂. You better wake up from your dogma.

  • @adj5767

    @adj5767

    6 ай бұрын

    Read that scripture again. The pastor's study is very sound.

  • @amoahkakra1243
    @amoahkakra12432 жыл бұрын

    Insightful one sir👌💖

  • @uzuazorblessing1155
    @uzuazorblessing11552 жыл бұрын

    Thk u Sir

  • @thischimavoice7706
    @thischimavoice77062 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @ifeoluwaomolola5040
    @ifeoluwaomolola50402 жыл бұрын

    🙌🙌🙌🙌Thank you pastor

  • @olaidebalogun1461
    @olaidebalogun1461 Жыл бұрын

    He did not clear the air on the timing. Is he saying you can have sex during the period of the sex withing the day or you can have sex after breaking your fast for the day and continue your fast the following day?

  • @sajimwise.8336
    @sajimwise.8336Ай бұрын

    Correct! Fasting is for us, not God.

  • @marysuleman3477
    @marysuleman34772 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing pastor Kay

  • @mboweninelly4421
    @mboweninelly44212 жыл бұрын

    Hhhhmmm great clarity Pastor . But Guess it also has a lot to do with one's school of thought about 'fasting' in general, for those who are coming from the school of thought that says...fasting is purely flesh denayal at all level just to feed the spirit will likely to find it hard to even consider sex during the fast. I usually like referring to # Isaiah 59 on the kind of fasting that is pleases the God

  • @nnenniaifepe5073

    @nnenniaifepe5073

    2 жыл бұрын

    The bible is also clear when it states that couples must get consent from each other before engaging in fasting. Sex is holy within the confines of marriage and its not unholy as some of us were raised to believe. Having sex between husband and wife is approved by God and stating otherwise simply means that we are equating sex within the confines of marriage with fornication

  • @mummyd3874
    @mummyd38742 жыл бұрын

    Really i never think is right to do sex when fasting my husband we always say before going into fasting i should tell he i was thinking one needs to be holy during fasting thanks 🙏 pastor K

  • @gegedee281

    @gegedee281

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you mean that sex within the boundaries of marriage is not holy?

  • @ednatoluhi6955

    @ednatoluhi6955

    2 жыл бұрын

    @mummy d And who told you sex between husband and wife is unholy?.... Nawao, Religion has affected people's minds We really need understanding of the word but ma, sex within the confines of marriage is a holy act

  • @ednatoluhi6955

    @ednatoluhi6955

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@gegedee281 ask her o. Exactly what I was thinking

  • @nnenniaifepe5073

    @nnenniaifepe5073

    2 жыл бұрын

    @mummy d, Sex is holy within the confines of marriage and yes, marriage within the confines of marriage is God's approved standard hence we cannot claim that having sex while fasting as married folks is unholy. Saying that having sex during fasting is unholy simply means that we are equating sex within the confines of marriage to fornication

  • @simpliceiradukunda276
    @simpliceiradukunda2762 жыл бұрын

    1 Corinthians 7:5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

  • @ritaagbor7487
    @ritaagbor74872 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sir, just what I told my friend who was fasting and avoiding to have sex with his wife bc of the fast, even when he broke the fast for the day, he still won't have her. And they just got married too?

  • @princessades3108

    @princessades3108

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sad...

  • @chrissblueocean

    @chrissblueocean

    2 жыл бұрын

    So sad, please share this video with him... this should not cause future misunderstandings ooh

  • @darlingtonodom6913
    @darlingtonodom6913 Жыл бұрын

    I have one question for you Pastor....where did you get all these wisdom....haba now!! Share small for us...We self want to be wise...

  • @LindaFrankv
    @LindaFrankv2 жыл бұрын

    Increase the volume sir😂

  • @favourskitchen
    @favourskitchen2 жыл бұрын

    Man mist not live by bread alone 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @princessades3108

    @princessades3108

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

  • @pas5122
    @pas51222 жыл бұрын

  • @lolabee772
    @lolabee7722 жыл бұрын

    👀

  • @Hotahe
    @Hotahe2 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏽❤️🙌🏼

  • @mercybadoe3086
    @mercybadoe30862 жыл бұрын

    Will couples really die when they won’t have sex for a couple weeks lol? Sheesh.

  • @michelleadebiyi2341

    @michelleadebiyi2341

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣😁

  • @RhNegA-
    @RhNegA- Жыл бұрын

    So.... you can not have sex..... (Hanky Panky) during fasting... Now explain to me what is the nature of your PROBLEM...

  • @israelekpe2911
    @israelekpe29112 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir for this... Please i Will love to get your insight on this... A situation when a woman in her late 30s looses her husband, she has children possibly already in their youths/ some even married. How is she expected to stay put without having sex(assuming she still has to live for extra 30years after husband's demise) when nature/biologically she will often feel horny and in need of sexual satisfaction. Not her fault that husband died...buh here is nature(biology ) calling & she has to deal with this for the next 30-40years What is your advise /recommendation regarding such case. Remember she has Children already (some even married with kids)

  • @IamTheRarestGem

    @IamTheRarestGem

    2 жыл бұрын

    Widows and widowers can get married again. The covenant term is till death. Now death has indeed separated them then go through the process to marry again, according to God's will. Consider the children, yes. But lest you burn with passion, do marry. Ruth and Bathsheba were widows. Children may have not been involved but they did marry. I cannot over emphasize the "according to God's will'. And its in this PK's channel we have a testimony of a woman who married in her advanced age for the first time and the husband was a widower with a married daughter. The man was 71 if I remember correctly, from last December posts. NB: I am not PK.

  • @NaaDeedeeAmartey

    @NaaDeedeeAmartey

    Жыл бұрын

    Pls the matter is sex during fasting, not general sex life. She can remarry and have sex as the couple pleases. Be intentional to seek her partners consent during fasting periods. By the way, how does a woman in her late 30s have kids who are married 🤔

  • @stephanienissen4439
    @stephanienissen4439 Жыл бұрын

    Your lying

  • @nompumelelonsibande6856
    @nompumelelonsibande68562 жыл бұрын

    Wrong doctrine!!!!!!!Man shall not live upon bread alone. If it was the case ,Jesus would have turned the stone the devil offered him into bread!

  • @nnenniaifepe5073

    @nnenniaifepe5073

    2 жыл бұрын

    In your mind the bible is also wrong when it stated that couples should get consent from each other before engaging in fasting. Sex is not unholy dear Uncle and we need to stop this religious attitude that is ruining many Christian marriages. Stating that having sex while fasting is unholy simply means that we are equating sex within the confines of marriage as fornication. Who gave us the right to call sex which is created by God as unholy because this is what we state each time we distort the scriptures

  • @ronsey7533

    @ronsey7533

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nnenniaifepe5073 That’s why you need to read the Bible yourself. Paul clearly it’s not a commandment which means it’s not a law and that’s just by permission or concessions. Totally wrong doctrine. So if your wife tells you that you can’t fast, so what happens?

  • @godfreymathebula6931
    @godfreymathebula6931 Жыл бұрын

    You cannot fast & sleep with your partner dis is wrong sir don't justify this gospel and mislead the people of GOD -PLEASE