He kept referring to getting girls, too. If your intentions are to attract a lot of girls, why not continue what you were doing before? Having a purpose is always important.

@Robuu

Жыл бұрын

Problem is, if your primary reason for doing things is for the validation of others, you're just setting yourself up for failure.

@acethemain7776

Жыл бұрын

i wish i could get girls :(

@void2920

Жыл бұрын

​@@acethemain7776Drink enough alcohol to make you brave and no more and go to a club. Try to get girls. Repeat untill success

@knutzano

Жыл бұрын

@@acethemain7776 You can

@gxtmfa

Жыл бұрын

Also… kind of lame bar for measuring self-worth

I don't like when people say "doing this ruined my life" like it's the thing's fault. You choose how you act, it's your fault, nobody else's.

@Fernandez218

Жыл бұрын

yeah true. i mean cocaine addiction didn't ruin my life. it was my choice to snort cocaine. nothing wrong with cocaine. it's my fault. we shouldn't make it illegal 😉😉

@mlemmery

Жыл бұрын

that's flawed reasoning. I mean they literally said "doing this", thereby blaming their own actions.

@WCfanboy

Жыл бұрын

It can completely be the things fault. Sure it might be partially the persons fault for doing it, but the thing still caused it

@F.R.E.D.D2986

Жыл бұрын

Thats what I'm thinking, shit happens, life happens, but it's your fault if you sit there and cry about it rather than improve your situation, this logic can't be applied to everything, like, murder, you can't improve if you're dead. But ultimately, how you choose to react is the thing that helps you, and if you react by throwing a tantrum, of course it doesn't get better

@aj.4022

Жыл бұрын

​@@Fernandez218You're goddamn right, every move you do has consequences.

It's not just the hair, his body fat percentage also went from 12% to 25%. He probably took the McDonald's self improvement course

@hayvantv4210

Жыл бұрын

Even dropping %17 to %13 makes significant difference.

@aryanmhetre201

Жыл бұрын

He just failed at it and drowned himself in Shame. And just to cope he blames self-improvement

@adinahum4606

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@aflyingspaceship

Жыл бұрын

The eternal bulk can be cruel

@mlemmery

Жыл бұрын

true lol

if self improvements worsens your life, then is what _you_ are doing really self improvement? some people will come up with the wildest of claims.

@hakerananasek

Жыл бұрын

*cough cough* Andrew Tate

@Snp2024

Жыл бұрын

​@@hakerananasek Andrew tate is not worse off i mean yeah he may be piece of work but he is definitely richer and excalty knew what he was doing his intentions may not be normal though

@tiefblau2780

Жыл бұрын

I dont think he understand *SELFIMPROVEMENT* its more of a *SELFDESTRUCTION* thing

@askeladden450

Жыл бұрын

​@alex ander if someone tells you wrong scientific facts, would you blame science? 'Improvement' literally means changing your habits that will improve you life. If your life doesnt get better, you did not apply 'self improvement'.

@sirtoxic5147

Жыл бұрын

​@alex ander True, but a lot of people need to realize self improvement is mostly subjective to the person. Yeah, of course being healthy and confident will always help but it's still a subjective term. It's about what that person wants ultimately.

Self improvement didn't ruined him, The self improvement industry does. Posts that are splattered over social media whose only job is to sell you the next big thing about self care. Basically making self care more like a trend. That shit can get addicting to the point where it becomes overwhelming you don't even know which ones to apply irl.

@sirmaidixxyrekt7322

Жыл бұрын

Absolute facts

@kumarparopgopal4478

Жыл бұрын

lol i was thinking the same thing, but some idiots r gonna get offended and start arguing. Best of luck u might be going to get some hate

@wrongthinker843

Жыл бұрын

Or maybe he just made a bunch of dumb choices and didn't want to own them.

@deputyschrute4504

Жыл бұрын

@@wrongthinker843 or maybe you didn’t even read the original comment ya cro magnon. Your username adds up

@soullessangel207

Жыл бұрын

not only that the useless podcasts, courses and products that feed on people's insecurities and unrealistic expectations. I see guys hating the gym because they can't get the results they wanted which is ridiculous. you don't just work out and eat healthy for looks, it's for your physical and mental health. I don't need to spend money to strangers who will teach me how to work out or eat through the internet or make me buy some essential-oil like product that is absolutely useless or even harmful.

This is what you call self downprovement

@H.K.5

Жыл бұрын

It’s the beard, all he had to do was shave it off lol

It's simply just to get better at everything, If you go backwards then you doing it wrong , try again, keep improving , appreciate little improve ❤

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

Better at stuff like what? Define everything, how do u measure self improvement. For example in the gym I just measure the weight in lifting? What do I measure with self improvement

@DefeatLust

Жыл бұрын

@@dosomestuff1949 You're thinking too hard. It's really simple. Whatever you wish to improve, you just measure it over a period of time to see if you have. For example, have you been consistently eating healthier, sleeping better, better grades, focusing more on tasks, etc, over time? Very simple. Not easy, but, simple.

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

@@DefeatLust the thing about grades is no matter how hard I try I just never get a 99 percent, i alwyas get low A ‘s and best and I’ve hit a plateau on that’s what do I fo

@azouitinesaad3856

Жыл бұрын

​@@dosomestuff1949 by the way you talk you must be a 12 years old. Self-improvement just means instead of just sitting and blaming the world for what's happening to you. you take responsibility and try to improve yourself. Now imagine if you didn't work hard you wouldn't even get low A's you don't have to always get a perfect score.

@Unknown-si8yx

Жыл бұрын

​​@@dosomestuff1949 improve knowledge, improve fitness etc. It's more so to be the best that you can be.

Bro went from prettyboy to polish truck driver

@PolishGod1234

3 күн бұрын

Lol

@dr.jillalicecooper2587

Күн бұрын

Good thing he didn't go for a British lorry driver look😂

When you do it for the girls, it doesnt depend on you anymore, you lose all control, but if you do it for the possible results of your own hard work on improving yourself, or the place you live, or your family, good things start to happen because you put them in motion, it depended on your action first, then, in your consistence and investment.

@tton5544

Жыл бұрын

Cope

@gaelr.s7123

Жыл бұрын

Insane amount of cope

@gordonramsay8351

Жыл бұрын

gym comes first hoes are an afterthought. set your priorities 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

@nunyabeezwax6758

Жыл бұрын

The girl is the only thing I want. Even at 35, 45, 55+. I only want the 18 year old cute faced basic white broad. I don't want or need anything else. I guess if you got the Rachel Brockman type of brown it might work. But this whole self this, self work effort this and that doesn't COMPUTE with my SPERG BRAIN DAMAGED BRAIN. And there's no 'treatment" or "cure" for autism disease brain. Unfortunately core brain shape and structure being different means I can NEVER be rewarded by what you are rewarded by but feel harsher punishment than you do and more effort and exhaustion from the same things that you do...

@hendrx

6 ай бұрын

extreme amounts of copium detected

This makes you wonder how fighters like Khabib and Khamzat would look like if they shaved their beards and got the pretty boy haircut 😂

@Arcdelio

Жыл бұрын

Haha, love the profile pic btw

the fact that he was talking about his before as "getting plenty of girls" and not "i was happier, healthier, productive" has me worrying about his definition of self-improvement💀

Something that is kinda related to the video, is that self improvement is literally what arcdelio said: going to the gym, journaling, things related to personality and social interactions, etc. There's no need for courses nor books. A ton of shitty people make money out of the conditions of others, and that sucks.

@Limonaid

Жыл бұрын

That’s the plot behind redpill. Profit off lost young men.

@roywempor8395

Ай бұрын

​@@Limonaid nah that's the surface, the plot is actual self improvement

Guys, let us not judge this man only by seeing him for a few seconds. This video is out of context a little bit and it is true that I think it was him not improving and not an idea of self improvement. Still, we should not judge this man even if he is mistaken. Show him support, show him it is possible to really improve and it´s okay to fail and later learn from it.

@mellomations449

Жыл бұрын

Yea I wish the KZreadr and everybody who are in these comments practice what he preached. With all the tribal helping out the bros and all that but. Be so ready to judge and dismiss someone else's journey because they don't look like the stereotypical red pill bs. This is why I just improve myself and never follow KZreadrs like this guy being rude to the man who didn't have a good improvement

@Alainmontpellier1000

Жыл бұрын

​@@mellomations449 Maybe that's not really self improvement is it?

@tomscarborough

Жыл бұрын

I’ve watched a few of this guy’s videos. He is very likeable and genuine. I have not seen this specific video but I feel as though this clip has been removed from all context and he had some explanation further down.

@Inmate16

Жыл бұрын

Why not? He probably ate fast food and grew a discord mod beard but blames it on self improvement. People these days be like

@fillkeiderbing1763

Жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts. Just making fun of his appearance like some immature kid.

What he meant was that most people apply male gaze to their looksmaxing and they end up looking like their favourite influencer - Hamza. If you want to attract girls below 25 years old then growing a beard and becoming really masculine wont work, its best to just be prettyboy. If u want to lie to yourself that youre not doing self improvement for girls then it means that you know deep down that no amount of self improvement will get you girls im so sorry.

@stranger45369

7 ай бұрын

You got it.

People totally misunderstand self-improvement. It's not about blindly following items on a list that someone has prescribed you (e.g., getting a haircut, different clothes) for the sake of doing them. It should be a guided process, in that it actually improves your circumstances. So, you become fit and healthy because of how it makes YOU feel, you find a hairstyle that works for you, you dress in clothes that fit and that you feel confident in, and you take up hobbies that you're interested in. And so on and so forth. If "self-improvement" isn't improving you, what's the point?

@Saitama308

5 ай бұрын

No amount of self improvement gonna save your ass from getting beaten up by this kid named mueen khan kzread.infof0yMkdh6ZkM?si=z6xNfGFLtP2TYtB0

Dude took "I need to be more masculine" to the extreme lol

@AbuBased731

Жыл бұрын

Embrace Muh-sculinity bruh fr fr

@roywempor8395

Ай бұрын

he doesn't look masculine in either pic

Don’t blame others for something you don’t want to take responsibility for 💪. Just got a buzz cut today and it feels incredible .

@chaddraven9311

Жыл бұрын

keep up up the energetic comments king

@pureone8350

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, but I would recommend people to stay away from gurus that say "get a buzz cut". It's different for everyone, do what suits you and compliments your goals.

@wrongthinker843

Жыл бұрын

@@pureone8350 Someone who just chooses to do as told deserves to get scammed.

@pureone8350

Жыл бұрын

@@wrongthinker843 I guess I would agree with that, it's a learning experience for them.

@shreeleshvijaykhedekar7679

Жыл бұрын

Same

I believe he refers to “self improvement” of guys like Andrew Tate and these “no nut” guys.

@Japathic

Жыл бұрын

haha lmao

@roghider3552

Жыл бұрын

he definitely has the look of that demographic

@VaultDwellerOG

Жыл бұрын

definitely did

@roywempor8395

Ай бұрын

none of them tell you to shave your head grow an ugly beard and become fatter

@TheLongQuiet10

Ай бұрын

​@@roghider3552nutty pervert

Can somewhat relate. Things in your environment can cause you to go downstream. Sometimes you don't know what you don't know. With that said, if you knew you might end up a certain way and still persist in bad behavior then thats all on u

ngl i do standby self-improvement a lot but like it kind of made me worse in some ways. Like I remember at one point a lot of my friends hated me (in secret) due to me giving off the impression that I have this massive ego due to how well I was doing for myself and I kept trying to convince them to join me on self-improvement too. Also a lot of the advice I was given when it came to women didn't work and the advice almost ruined my relationship with my gf. Like fair enough I probably interpreted it wrong but from my point of view I followed closely. I do appreciate that it helped me mental health and physcial health wise but otherwise some of the advice kind of made me almost lose relationships with the people I did care about at that point.

@eloquentsloth6080

Жыл бұрын

The argument can be made that losing friends that are not wanting to also better themselves is good for you. Better to have friends that want to grow and will motivate you toward it than ones that will celebrate when you stumble. A good friend will tell you to get back on the horse when you fall, but a bad friend will say, "I'm glad you've joined us on the ground again."

@kish6888

Жыл бұрын

Two things are possible, one that the people you lost were not conducive to your growth as a person and you are better off without them/they themselves have not attained the level of growth they need and resent what they don't understand, or that you came across as self-righteous and obnoxious/preachy when you started learning these new things and didn't stay grounded when expressing stuff to people (even if you didn't intend to do it, it can happen).

If self improvement ruined your life, it was definitely done wrong.

@markh.6687

Жыл бұрын

"Dear Ann Landers: My self-improvement actually wrecked my life. What do I do now?" Signed, Confused.

When you start to stress yourself out for changes that can happen. We dont know what the man's been through

@mellomations449

Жыл бұрын

That's what I'm saying I hate how this KZreadr and people in the comments forget that just because self improvement is the new crazy for a bunch of degenerate men. While judging a man who became less due to the stress of always "trying to improve" base on the over simplefication of masculinity that's sold in a nice package of capitalism. Sometimes improving got nothing to do with going to the gym or eating healthier sometimes it's staying away from movements like a lot of these red pill tubers preach to men who barley follow the practices which lead a lot of guys like him in this video which is sad

@Alainmontpellier1000

Жыл бұрын

@@mellomations449 What are you on about? Capitalism? Hahaha. The western world is feminizing more and more and becoming degenerate, and the only thing that is getting in the way is 'le capitalism' you complained about. And no, self improvement doesn't really have to be related to the red pill movement, which too be honest isn't a necessarily bad movement even though there are bad actors in them who spout out the worst advice.

The most important part of self-improvement is motivation. If you're driven by insecurities and desire to be accepted, it can easily lead you down a wrong path and rob you of your authenticity, leaving you feeling betrayed by the end.

@ColemanOrWhatever

Жыл бұрын

Relate heavy to this. But at least you can achieve authenticity after much of the work had been done

@vlst8715

Жыл бұрын

​@@ColemanOrWhatever I agree. IMO finding the aspects of yourself you love and focusing on improving those even further is a good start. It builds self-respect required for working on your shortcomings as well.

Improving myself saved my life. And for all my brothers out there that relate, fuck yeah. I'm proud and happy for you all.

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

How do I start improving myself and how do I measure this? And what should I improve?

@anzarv

Жыл бұрын

@@dosomestuff1949 How: First, what is self-improvement really? It's a broad topic to begin with. But in general, it means to improve yourself in multiple facets of your life. For example, improving your physical health, looksmaxxing, improving diet, sleep, getting rid of bad habits (like porn, drug use, any addictions) etc. Measure: This will be largely qualitative. You don't need to worry about 'measure', you will see progress within the first few months though. After the first year you'll notice the significant changes in my opinion. However, it's important to assess that you are progressing in your chosen goals. Each goal has their own nuances for progression that I won't get into but you should do your own research on that. (That is another big part of self-improvement: knowledge.) What: This is largely up to you and your own goals, some examples were mentioned in the "how" section.

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

@@anzarv okay, let’s say for example I want to improve my looks, how do I measure short term progress in this to assess whether I’m progressing or not?

@solarpolariod6688

6 ай бұрын

@@dosomestuff1949 Up to you bro. At the end of the day, find out what works for you. Taking inspo is fine, but as long as you feel good, look good, that's what matters and that you're better than yourself yesterday.

I think he’s just one of those that peaks in high school then when he gets into the world and outside that smaller circle of young women he can’t cope with the fact that he’s actually a average guy with not endless amounts of options just falling in his lap in all his time “peaking “ in high school he didn’t develop the skills to understand the person who taught him self improvement and probally took his advice horrible wrong seems like a sad situation he has my pity I guess

@LWS23

Жыл бұрын

Like his tiktok talks about how working out is bad because the more jacked you are the less attractive you are I’m not even gonna comment on that and let that statement do the talking for me at this point plus his “points” always assume the world is simplistic and most things can be put in a catch all bullet point as if every girl thinks and feels the exact same which is pretty insulting to say the least everyone is a individual with preferences based on numerous factors and hey big brain what if she’s not picky and likes both or just not give af about that stuff at all … good grief I guess I’m just a lil peeved that here’s another person with the let’s shame ppl who work hard and train to do stuff not many ppl can do who I feel deserve respect like good lord you get shamed for being fat skinny jacked or anything really at this point unless your just a genetic god or something

@rottedyouth

Ай бұрын

no its just because he was female gazed and then he male gazed aesthetics wise. Shaved head and beard attracts other mens respect, not 18-25 year old girls attraction. His old looked attracted women because that's the aesthetic they like, he's above average facially

@LWS23

Ай бұрын

@@rottedyouth woman do say they like beards and some of the things he tried to do, now that I’m older I will say your supposed to try out looks and see what works, but also it’s not as simple as having a beard or whatever he didn’t play to his strengths much to like you hinted at he already could attract girls so he should have leaned into his already established strengths and incorporate small changes to feel out the “vibe” positivite or negative everything in moderation bigger or drastic is not always better

Naah dawg wasn't on self improvement, blud was on self degradation 💀

thank you Arcdelio, your content is always top quality!

i feel sorry for him because he only wanted to better himself but couldnt make it i hope you guys also understand his feelings

@SrZakachu

Жыл бұрын

he is getting older too and he doesnt know what style fits him,and also is more fat and have less hair,also looks depresed.

@gaara2447

Жыл бұрын

​@@SrZakachu yea thats why you should enjoy or make something with your teen life because life is going fast

I've been lifting weights for 2 years, the last 3 months of them I was really doing everything, that stood in a book I read. I counted my calories, 300 calories above maintenance, macros, 3 times full body per week, 1 day cardio, compound movements mostly, slept 9 hours a day always from 7PM till 4AM, stretching 2 times a day. I was really not happy and satisfied with my results, so I stopped doing all of this stuff and now I'm eating and living like a normal person. I'm not depressed anymore and actually happier. I went to 2 trial trainings for kick boxing, because I want to do MMA now. I was overthinking way too much, as I always do.

@markh.6687

Жыл бұрын

"You have to remember not to remember to think. It's a lot not to think about." -- Leslie Nielsen

@nghtbot340

Жыл бұрын

I feel like you just can't find a middle way. Sleeping at 7 pm is nowhere practical. If you can regulate it, 6-7 hours of sleep will actually suffice. But if you want to sleep 9 hours, you can simply wake up at 6-8 am. Personally, I sleep at 10 and wake up at 5 and it easily suffice me and I don't think it's tiresome.

@RealRezzo

Жыл бұрын

I had this phase where I used to try do everything that all these self improvement youtubers did. I knew it was good for me, but I never really looked at how I can find a way to implement it into my life instead of trying to be someone else. Now I do keep some of the habits but I live by Bruce Lee's saying of "absorb what is useful, reject what is useless".

@amberlerae6033

Жыл бұрын

We all have this phase I swear

@RealRezzo

Жыл бұрын

@@amberlerae6033 yup, but at some point we gotta realise it

I think what he meant was that he adhered to the male gaze as most guys would tend to call his previous pretty boy self "gay" out of jealousy so they told him to become hyper masculine which attracts only males and repels females. It kind of is a problem with the male self-improvement space.

@AbuBased731

Жыл бұрын

Embrace Muh-sculinty bruh fr fr

@iiCounted-op5jx

Жыл бұрын

lmfaoo true

@remixmas

Жыл бұрын

small hats brain wash women women like fem men men become fem to attract women society turns to a hell hole Its true but its because of the small hats fking shit up

@johncrow2852

Жыл бұрын

If women are into feminine looking males are they really even straight?

@AbuBased731

Жыл бұрын

@@johncrow2852 Br00tal LesẞianPill lol

Improving can take experimentation. An experimental phase can last for years. Don't beat yourself up over it. With the right growth mindset improvement is lifelong.

Thanks for making me laugh at the end of a rough day 😂

Ironically, the only good, actual useful and life changing "self improvement" book i have ever read is "the suble art of saying fuck it" by mark manson i wish everyone could give it a chance, at first i was like wtf but honestly it makes a lot of sense and helps a lot on our reality without glamorizing or romanticizing anything. It's a slap on the face that i actually needed. I remembered of mentioning it because of how the guy said he is doing it "to get girls" and because of how he blames something else for something that was his responsibility. The book adresses things like that.

@nghtbot340

Жыл бұрын

For me, Mark Manson milking his book's reputation a bit too much on KZread. My best self improvement book is Atomic Habits by James Clear. I like the author is genuine and he bolster his advices with his personal experience. Even if not the whole book, I recommend you to read at least preface.

@mickystuart7706

Жыл бұрын

@@nghtbot340 thank you for your book reccomendation, i will read it once i have the opportunity

@adacta756

Жыл бұрын

it is indeed a really good book. I’ve read it twice already and it helped me a lot to find the thing that I define today as my purpose and that purpose is that thing that launches me out of the bed everyday and reminds me to say „fuck it“ to everything else that stops me from working hard towards it.

@kristianjensen5877

7 ай бұрын

I am pretty sure you have never read a book with that title because it doesn't exist. =p

@mickystuart7706

7 ай бұрын

@@kristianjensen5877 im portuguese so im not sure if its correctly translated and im lazy to check it rn, in portuguese it's "a sutil arte de ligar o foda se" :p

I don't get all this 'ruined my life' bullshit. Everyone suffers setbacks and failures. Your life isn't ruined unless you're permenantly injured, have some kind of criminal conviction, or suffer a massive traumatic event. And even then you can still push forward. This guy's claiming shaving his head and losing the attention of a few girls 'ruined his life'? That just shows a lack of perspective and self belief.

@voskresenie-

Жыл бұрын

yep, I've experienced the latter two (even ended up looking like the guy in the video lmao) and my life wasn't ruined, although for a while I thought it was. If anything, those things turned change from a nice-to-have into a necessity and I ended up better for it. It's easier to keep climbing than to start climbing, and when you're stuck in a ditch your only option is to start climbing. All you have to do is keep going after you're out and eventually you'll find yourself on top of a mountain.

@clickbaitpolice1750

Жыл бұрын

What’s wrong with his look? I’ve seen rich people look like him.

Self improvement ruined my life too there are things will never be fixed and seeing my effort and not changing this broke me

The path for the better life is just for those who willing to take the pain to get in there. Just the one who really want to change and DOING it can get the result. Its not for someone who just want to blame things when it didn't work like that bald beardy guy(in the video).

I don't know how gym could ruin you, it can only improve your body. Dude said it destroy him and post only photo of his head(part that you can't train on gym as its mainly bone and brain, not the body, what you actually working on) If shaving his beard and growing back the hair is his biggest problem and he cant deal with it there is no hope for this guy.

Why did he like intentionally make himself less attractive and say oh no self improvement did this 😢

True not everything is for everyone. 😊

Someone its good to be what you are ~

the problem was he was suited for pretty boy phenotype and he went to hypermasculine route and destroyed his aesthetics.

Another case of, "if it ain't broke don't fix it."

there is a saying i hold dear in my life, "there are only two kind of people in this world, people who choose to do bad things, and people who choose to do the good thing, no matter who you are before or what you could've been, if you do something bad, you should take responsibility and own up to it"

Spot on.

Him saying this is like me saying I went on a healthy diet but became obese. Lol own up to your own mistakes or you'll never do better.

I mean, you can improve in a number of different ways other than physical appearance and your bench/squat/deadlift. Maybe he finished university, got a great job, took up languages, crafts, maybe it's the sigma mentality people talk about that he means by "self improvement" so I don't know why we jump to the gymclusion immediately.

@voskresenie-

Жыл бұрын

guy looks like a classic victim of the starting strength meme. improve numbers weekly at all cost, even if your weight on the scale is rising faster than the weight on the bar

@Bulgarian_supremacist1483

Жыл бұрын

​@@voskresenie- i dont see the benefit of just increasing your lifts if you arent a powerlifter i mean why get fat just so you can say you lift 100 something kilos on bench and that doesnt even make you a good fighter quite the opposite getting fat and bulky like a powerlifter makes you slower less agile and you will get your ass whopped by someone more mobile with lean muscular build

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

@@Bulgarian_supremacist1483u still need some good amoiunt of strength for fighting so u don’t get tossed around lmao. I had some fighting knowledge before I started lifting but it wasn’t shit because my strength just wasn’t this

@Bulgarian_supremacist1483

Жыл бұрын

@@dosomestuff1949 i mean going for powerlifter level of strength like above 100kg bench 150+ deadlift/squad and such, having strength is important but going for just numbers wont do any good. do you think eddie hall can beat some middle weight fighter half his size? He wont be able to even land a hit, in fighting you mostly need speed and thechnique

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

@@Bulgarian_supremacist1483 yea exactly

It is not bad to have goals but do what you need to without regrets.

Self improvement is mostly there to help you achieve your dreams, self-improvement isn't a dream itself. I've implemented alot of healthy habits that make me more focussed, productive and happy so that I can make a certain amount of money, get a certain kind of house with my girlfriend, don't have to keep working 5 days a week til 70 y/o, and get in some (hobby)band with my electric guitar. I have a very detailed vision about how I want these things to be, and I enjoy the journey towards it.

Bless you man😂, loved this one! Made me crack up. Great content, keep it up. Remember, stay unique, do the good habits and become a better version of YOURSELF

So basically the way I understood is simple: Self-improvement did not ruin his life, but self-improvement tips from tiktok did, he got a buzzcut which is currently popular within the tiktok "alpha male" community, he grew his beard out to assumingly look more "manly" which is also something a lot of tiktok people promote. I can't talk about why/if he actually went to jail to get that mug-shot since I don't feel like doing my research, and all my "data" on this guy comes from me looking at 3 pictures of him.

Self-Deprovement

Even if so, some girls be into that, you have to understand there is always a niche market.

16 into 45 real quick

I shaved my head completely 3 months ago and wet shave it 2-3 times a week, I also grew a full beard and I’m loving my new look

Self improvement is good but stressing a lot can cause hair-loss, so don't over-do things in a day and yes, stay healthy, if you want to still look good (I guess). You can push yourself to the maximum but you wont look pretty due to the effects of stress and constant work; it may be worth it in the long run.

@b-doi1211

Жыл бұрын

fear/stress can also lead to a pretty bad and debilitating burnout. Dont overdo it. Depending on your circumstances the health loss of stress may or may not be worth it depending on intensity, duration, reward and what not .

@unknownname854

Жыл бұрын

@@b-doi1211 It can be worth it for some people, if they are used to being stressed then a stressful workout plan might be beneficial; however if you lived a life of just sitting all day and doing nothing with barely and stress then a workout like that will lead to a lot of changes, they can be bad, so gradually go up there. For me I was working out since 10 and at the age of 15 I put a really heavy workout plan but it worked out for the best, my hair is fine and all, just a lot of spots (cause of the stress), but everything else seems fine.

German knows a word for that: Verschlimmbesserung which means to try to improve something but actually making it worse on the way

@Arcdelio

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I’ve just recorded a different video where I use that word as an example!

@BuyBitcoinBefore1Million

Жыл бұрын

Deutsche Sprache, geile sprache

@mlemmery

Жыл бұрын

am german, never heard of that. thanks.

If you still want you attract girls Then boy you haven't even started self improvement

SELF-IMPROVEMENT IS RUINING YOUR GAINSSSSSS!!!

My life situation also same like you . But hey i wanna know what's your second hairstyle Name

Females looked at me constantly when I had my shirt off and I was 18 at the beach. Then, Father Time gave me "self improvement" by making me age and after 38 years I am bald, fat, and wrinkled. Darn.

Some people gotta realize that you don't have to sacrifice your looks to look "masculine" especially when y'all just want to get girls. Know what female gaze is. Masculinity isn't looking unkempt. There are many cleanshaved pretty looking yet masculine men.

@azathoth4473

Жыл бұрын

Yes Bro 😂

If self improvement is harming you then by definition you´re not doing self improvement... There´s a difference between being on a journey of true self improvement and being on a journey of copying others. Although there is overlap between the two because you do need to aspire to be more like certain people or things you idolize. I think the trick is to seperate the traits that make someone admirable from the person in question and then only emulating the good traits and not the bad ones.

Bro got destruction and improvement mixed up

The picture he is showing appears to be from a very different point in his life. You’re going to grow older, you’re going to lose hair, you’re going to have your facial structure, body structure, and bone structure alter as you mature. Your metabolism is going to slow and you’re going to retain more bodyfat. This seems like less of a “self-improvement” problem and more of the effects of aging. He still looks above average in his video…I’m not really sure what the problem is here? He tried a new haircut and grew out his beard and put on some weight. He didn’t like it. So now he changes things up. This really is making a mountain out of a molehill…

@H.K.5

Жыл бұрын

He didn’t lose hair at all, his hairline looks completely healthy. He just shaved it.

"Self improvement is mast-rb-tion, now self destruction is the answer"

You know this type of people who admires their idols like Jocko and David Goggins just to get through becoming successful and there's nothing wrong with that but to become like one of them may cannot be worked for everyone. But it will literally change him as a whole, but doing for himself and what works for him can be a better solution that self improvement is not an issue for himself.

Self improvement isnt necessarily keeping to a difficult regimen. Its more improving different aspects of your life to feel more fulfilled and stay mentally, physically, and emotionally healthier overall.

if you say that self - improvement ruined your life that means you did something wrong, because the whole point of self improvement is to obviously improve, that's all on you

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

Some people become egomaniacs when on self improvement and consequently end up like this.

@clickbaitpolice1750

Жыл бұрын

What did he do wrong here then?

@fubkegt4964

Жыл бұрын

@@clickbaitpolice1750 why tf are you asking me, idk what he did, but if he says that self improvement ruined his life that means that he did something wrong in his path of "self-improvement"

@clickbaitpolice1750

Жыл бұрын

@@fubkegt4964 I’m not only asking u I’m asking ppl in the thread too

"Improvement ruined my life" was thw dumbest thing i've heard today

What's the song u use in these? Love it

I don't think there is anything wrong with self improvement but it's different for everyone because everyone is different there is no one size fits all solution. For me I just go to the gym more consistently but I need to do more like better skin care the why I dress etc. But that might not be right for everyone like for me I can't change my diet because it makes me depressed but some people can and it will make them happier doing it. People need to do what makes them happy.

"Self improvement ruined my life." Clearly you did it wrong then, its called improvement for a reason

I shave my head and grow a beard not because of someone I don’t know called Jocko, rather that I just feel happiest that way. If you aren’t happy mentally, physically and spiritually then you aren’t really self improving.

@fortnitetrashcan8308

Жыл бұрын

thing is jocko doesnt even have a beard

@sfridisow185

Жыл бұрын

IS "SELF IMPROVEMENT" FOR YA'LL ALL ABOUT BECOMING A NEW PERSON AND TRYING TO LEAVE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR OLD SELF BEHIND OR IS IT IDENTIFYING AND FIXING YOUR PROBLEMS IN LIFE?!!

@CoachSeamus

Жыл бұрын

@@sfridisow185 I don’t see how the two things you listed are different from each other. If you have issues in your life, which you identify and work towards fixing, then youre undoubtedly going to become a better version of yourself. It isn’t about being someone else, it’s about constantly putting in the work towards becoming the best version of yourself. So I really don’t see how those two things you mentioned are different.

@sfridisow185

Жыл бұрын

WHAT?!! THEY'RE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!!! BECAUSE PEOPLE START "SELF IMPROVEMENT" BEFORE EVEN THINKING CAREFULLY ABOUT WHAT PROBLEMS IN THEIR LIFE ACTUALLY NEED THE MOST FIXING!!! AND THAT'S BECAUSE SELF IMPROVEMENT HAS BECOME A TREND!!!

@CoachSeamus

Жыл бұрын

@@sfridisow185 “self improvement has become a trend” Good, so people are trying to better themselves? I don’t see what your issue is really. Also, is there any particular reason why you type everything in capitals? You’re already making a pretty stupid point to begin with, but it just looks even dumber in capitals lol

Bro i'm doing self improvement and i'm glowing up like no star glow. This is bs, he looks like he had a depression not like he started lifting and taking care of his apparences.

Self improvement never destroys an individual it only destroys if your motive is wrong i mean u don't do self improvement to attract or get girls u do it to become best version of yourself

He probably tried to be "disciplined" and tough and cut out all the fun parts making him unhappy. Hustle culture must have ruined him.

@dosomestuff1949

Жыл бұрын

Hustle culture is absolute fucking garbage and is not self improvmenrt

@b-doi1211

Жыл бұрын

likelty what happened

My guy doesn't even know what self improvement means 🗿 Dawg if ur not getting better than its not called self improvement its called self worsening of course to improve yourself in ur life is a journey that is different for different people so if u chose to live by someone elses lifestyle and u dont like the results u didnt improve yourself u just made it worse and u also chose a bad way of life wich lead to u getting worse than before...cant believe we have to state the obvious

Their is a difference between bear mode physique and female gaze physique

how do you post these videos that are under 60 seconds as "videos" instead of shorts? when i upload under 59 seconds its auto makes into a short

Lmaoo if self improvement is ruining your life then it’s not even self improvement tf he saying😭

"My guy went from pretty boi to convict" that really hit me

Self improvement is forming a bond within yourself, not self harming putting pressure on your body making your body a machine not a temple.

tbh he has got a point(most redpilled advice is lifting weights and appealing to the male gaze which is not gonna attract females)

@kokogo673

Жыл бұрын

@panzerfk06 redpill advice is teid with self improvement

The problem with the hype around self-improvement isn't the process itself, but how it uncovers people's shortcomings and bad habits but they STILL don't change anything out of comfort. Then they blame it on self-improvement and claim it ruined their mental health, whereas in fact it does the exact opposite if people would just follow it as instructed

It was definitely the self improvement. I am currently trying to improve, but let's bet honest. When doing such things? The outcome may not be the best for you.

I think I have been a victim of this phase of "self improvement" 😂. The thing is, social media exaggerates everything, and anything in excess is bad. Some people do look better after they shave their head and grow a beard, but that's not for everyone you know. Self improvement should be IMPROVING OURSELVES, like actually making better what we already have 😂 If that makes sense.

bro just copied Andrew Tate's cut and called it self-improvement 💀

@niggagaming4335

Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😂😂😂💯

Obsession is bad. If you are obsesed with self improvement you will never be satisfied and that feeling can make you feel bad and start having bad habits. Thats is maybe what happened to him. Wanting to improve is great, but don't get obsesed

@GustavoHenrique-ok5su

Жыл бұрын

Nah, I'm actually obsessed with it and I'm fine,

@pedrogarcia137

Жыл бұрын

@@GustavoHenrique-ok5su Give it some time and you will realize why it ain't good

@GustavoHenrique-ok5su

Жыл бұрын

@@pedrogarcia137 My friend, I've been doing this for 15 years before it even became popular, it may be bad for other people or for you, but for me it's still good, the world doesn't revolve around what you think.

@pedrogarcia137

Жыл бұрын

@@GustavoHenrique-ok5su K, I hope it keeps going good for you. Have a good day

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How come whenever a guy goes in to there self improvement monk mode, they shave their head and grow a beard, lol I am trying to self improve but I am doing the opposite keep my beard shaved down and growing out my hair

It’s not self improvement if it fucks your life up 😂

@niggagaming4335

Жыл бұрын

😂😂💯😭

He lost his looks

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

never had them his hair was his looks

@CollagenExpert

Жыл бұрын

@@beganitdidnt6535 those are still looks... name checks out.

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

@@CollagenExpert not really he went bald and people were coping by saying it was a "bad haircut" truth is what u look like bald is what u really look like

@CollagenExpert

Жыл бұрын

@@beganitdidnt6535 His hair is a great part of his looks. Most “chads” I know you worship would look terrible or not as good without hair on their head. The haircut unified his looks as it’s looksmaxed. His hair is apart of his looks. It depends on the persons skull as Brad Pitt still looks good without hair. However you’re denying that looks give you points in looks. He also gained tons of weight too.

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

@@CollagenExpert yeah they wouldnt look as good but still good the point here is is that this guy cannot pull off the bald look which means he probably cant pull off any short hairstyle and i dont worship chads women do its just reality and common sense observation he barely gained weight lol i see fitness trainers purposely gaining weight just to lose it and they even looked great overweight

He looks cool asf with the beard change my mind

If you undergo self improvement to attract girls you aren't ready yet Don't do it for them, do it for yourself

@AKDHFR

Жыл бұрын

thats dope, but i wonder why he decided to change his haircut like that because of this "self improve" thing he does or just because he is trying to be those "gym beast" looks and girls started to leave him and start blaming on becoming a "men" 😂 *theres something fishy with his story or he is just that stupid"

@BuyBitcoinBefore1Million

Жыл бұрын

@@AKDHFR it's bullshit for sure. He looks worse than before, he gained bad weight and his beard just looks messy Has nothing to do with improvement

Dude forgot how to use logic....

Bro got self improvement confused with self destruction

Idk what does your haircut and self-improvement or discipline have in common?

I think the guy just matured and became more masculine, when that happens you lose a certain aesthetic that would qualify you as a pretty boy and enter the grown man category

Tf bruh he shaved his head, deliberately grew a beard put on a chunk of fat and he's blaming all of his choices on self improvement......ufff idk wt to say 🤐

I see Opie Winston from SoA