Self-help for social anxiety 1: Introduction

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  • @omar_102
    @omar_1023 жыл бұрын

    Reddit brought me here :)

  • @jamien.5528

    @jamien.5528

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @zerowarr5095

    @zerowarr5095

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same :)

  • @A_Random_Rat

    @A_Random_Rat

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same! :)

  • @kwamewilliams3031

    @kwamewilliams3031

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @hievan3559

    @hievan3559

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @kenm.4132
    @kenm.41322 жыл бұрын

    The most frustrating thing is that I don’t actually care about the people around me or their opinions. But my body involuntarily starts shaking and sweating anyway even when I know I’m not nervous. It’s like I’m fighting against myself and it’s exhausting.

  • @belle3055

    @belle3055

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel you.

  • @Bass12524

    @Bass12524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thats what a trauma does.. keep on fighting man.

  • @saladine

    @saladine

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have that too. I think it's just automatic reaction, reflex. Sometimes it helps me to start thinking about it every time it happens and analyse it. What it feels like, what is triggering it, breath through it. For me it feels exactly like sharp pain inside my head. I heard that in brain, center for anxiety and pain are linked (or are the same i don't remember exactly). Another feeling is submission. I want to disappear. It's just my defense mechanism misfiring. When you can name that sensations, you can consiously do something with them. Is it at least somewhat helpful?

  • @timothylippert3244

    @timothylippert3244

    Жыл бұрын

    Same man. It’s so bad.

  • @rya117

    @rya117

    Жыл бұрын

    yes me too, it's weird i really don't care about people and if it's necessary i won't hesitate to call them out or say what comes to mind or whatever, but the feeling i have inside me is too much, sweats shakes etc. Mental health is really a battle with ourselves brothers & sisters

  • @lucutes2936
    @lucutes29362 жыл бұрын

    Anyone else here feels like they want to say something very simple but you just can't? Like you become instantly doubtful about it.

  • @Munnwort

    @Munnwort

    4 ай бұрын

    all the time. literally have to force myself to speak

  • @alyssagsm
    @alyssagsm4 жыл бұрын

    cheers to everyone working on themselves in quarantine :)

  • @benjhamincasadiego5383

    @benjhamincasadiego5383

    4 жыл бұрын

    Many thanks, I've been looking for "how do you reduce social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my co-worker got amazing results with it.

  • @stefanmitrovic973

    @stefanmitrovic973

    3 жыл бұрын

    This was great, I've been looking for "free of inhibitions social anxiety reviews" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Senonnor Puzzling Superiority - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? It is an awesome exclusive product for discovering how to conquer your social anxiety minus the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my mate got cool results with it.

  • @nadiayvonnerazanajao7082

    @nadiayvonnerazanajao7082

    3 жыл бұрын

    Many thanks, been searching for "distraction techniques for social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my colleague got cool results with it.

  • @danielatomescu3487

    @danielatomescu3487

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about "social anxiety self treatment" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my partner got excellent results with it.

  • @MsLet-et4wf

    @MsLet-et4wf

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi 👋

  • @megrocks3026
    @megrocks30264 жыл бұрын

    As much as I’d love to go to an actual therapist, I’m struggling with money right now and I wouldn’t be able to go to therapy without my family knowing about it and making a big deal about it.

  • @ganbatte1260

    @ganbatte1260

    2 жыл бұрын

    we can have chat, and i hope i can help you. i ama blusher and it has ruined my life. maybe sharing our stories will make it easier

  • @Dreamy-M

    @Dreamy-M

    3 ай бұрын

    @@ganbatte1260 hey 👋🏾

  • @radioactivel1609
    @radioactivel16094 жыл бұрын

    Here i am. It's the last day in school before summer break and I'm sitting alone watching this.

  • @pleasereducethevolume1701

    @pleasereducethevolume1701

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t worry covid will make you feel like you are not missing out

  • @andrefierens7594

    @andrefierens7594

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pleasereducethevolume1701 Great ! I love quarantaine !

  • @kammuiwan6701
    @kammuiwan67013 жыл бұрын

    Ik it sounds wrong but it's a relief that there are lots more around u, 10 percent of people apparently experience this. Now that's a fck ton. For the most part, alot of us internalise most of these feelings simply because noone else can seem to relate or share similar feelings. Knowing that alot of people go thru this and are also struggling with social anxiety makes me feel less alone

  • @Channel24377

    @Channel24377

    3 жыл бұрын

    True but it sucks no one takes it seriously when I tell people they are like really wow and move on the converstationbut when I show signs they act surprised and tell me it’s not a big deal to be scared of. Also some people are like same girl but are the most talkative with others and don’t understand my symptoms I think they confuse it with shyness.

  • @Keni-Ann
    @Keni-Ann3 жыл бұрын

    It makes me feel better to know that I am not alone!

  • @Dreamy-M

    @Dreamy-M

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes, how you doing now 😊

  • @nikkinicole4990
    @nikkinicole49902 жыл бұрын

    I developed social anxiety at around 13 yrs old and I went to therapy for it which helped, but back then it wasn’t as bad. Just talking on the phone, interacting with new kids and the lunch room. I made a lot of progress and was really growing into myself, as I got to freshman year I became super extroverted and had a huge friend group which I’d never had in my life. Then Covid happened that same year. And in those months of isolation my fear returned but worse. I still struggle and now I’m 17. So the fear is affecting my life more than ever, I want to get a job, make new friends, go out by myself and I’m going to college next year. I’m really happy for these videos. It’s been really tough for all of us who struggle with this and quarantine on top of it

  • @ilatic

    @ilatic

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m the exact same, as it’s been a few months have you recovered or found any ways that can help?

  • @m135i7
    @m135i7 Жыл бұрын

    for me its communicating with people, I don't mind going to busy places by myself etc but when it comes to conversation I don't have the energy or I think I don't think im special / interesting enough. the thought of speaking in front of people I don't know scares the shit out of me and I know its ruining my life because I put off everything that could be good for me due to this

  • @secureverifytm4686

    @secureverifytm4686

    Ай бұрын

    I feel the exact same way like it’s effecting my everyday life style and just continuously getting worse. I hope things get better for u and know ur not alone

  • @Muna-t9o

    @Muna-t9o

    20 күн бұрын

    THIS IS EXACTLY ME IDK HOW TO GET RID OF IT

  • @cp2342
    @cp23423 жыл бұрын

    Dealing with social anxiety hasn’t been easy just started talking to a psychologist about it but started googling to find advice and found this on reddit gonna give it a watch

  • @ellutal

    @ellutal

    2 жыл бұрын

    how did it go?

  • @w7shal3dan

    @w7shal3dan

    Жыл бұрын

    any updates ?

  • @orhidia6047
    @orhidia60473 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for doing this.

  • @unitedsalsa2305
    @unitedsalsa23053 жыл бұрын

    I just want to say thank you for this incredible resource. I’m currently experiencing lots of social anxiety and I hope this can help

  • @kai-hv6nx
    @kai-hv6nx Жыл бұрын

    The way this guy breaks things down is amaizing

  • @matthewJeanGilles
    @matthewJeanGilles2 жыл бұрын

    You’re the best psychologist a person can ask for. Love you Magnus ❤️

  • @MrJatind3r29
    @MrJatind3r293 жыл бұрын

    You are a great guy for sharing these informations without additional costs for us. Thank you!

  • @InsertblamehereHighlights
    @InsertblamehereHighlights Жыл бұрын

    I made it around 2 minutes into the video before I involuntarily started crying, just listening to how calming and understand you sound when explaining this for some reason made me emotional

  • @abbeyh
    @abbeyh2 жыл бұрын

    ever since i’ve started university my social anxiety has gotten really bad. i made a few friends during the first semester but i’ve had a really hard time maintaining those relationships, so i’m mostly alone now. i hope these videos help a little bit lol

  • @belle3055

    @belle3055

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you now?

  • @Malibuka55

    @Malibuka55

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@belle3055 rip

  • @Hanna-ni3si
    @Hanna-ni3si5 жыл бұрын

    Hey, I just wanted to say how grateful I am to have found this! I've struggled with anxiety my whole life and only now after watching your anxiety modules do I realize being "normal" is actually a possibility for me. Learning to accept the feeling of anxiety rather than fight it has helped me more than anything I've tried (anxiety meds, counselling, cbd oil.. Etc) in the past 20 years. At the risk of sounding dramatic, thank you for helping me change my life, Magnus. ❤️

  • @akashverma5756

    @akashverma5756

    4 жыл бұрын

    Are you ok now ?

  • @saiswaroop2189

    @saiswaroop2189

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@akashverma5756 hi bro do you suffer from SAD?

  • @akashverma5756

    @akashverma5756

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@saiswaroop2189 ya

  • @saiswaroop2189

    @saiswaroop2189

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@akashverma5756 oh same like you bro

  • @saiswaroop2189

    @saiswaroop2189

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@akashverma5756 have you tried anything to overcome it?

  • @Self-taughtJay
    @Self-taughtJay3 жыл бұрын

    I'm here because the only way I can feel better in social is, I have to feel hate towards others then there presence won't bother me.

  • @treefitty937

    @treefitty937

    Жыл бұрын

    U can do it with love

  • @minar5653
    @minar56532 жыл бұрын

    This series is appreciated, thank you! God bless 👍🏻🙏 ☺️

  • @nikkitude
    @nikkitude2 ай бұрын

    For me… work is easy. So easy to converse and just be myself. Now when I go to places with hubby… it’s like my entire body is on the defense and I just lose myself. Thanks for these videos!

  • @souhaila5879
    @souhaila58793 жыл бұрын

    Ohhh, before 5min I was crying because of my social anxiety and now, finding those videos, I have joy's tears in my eyes. Thank you very much, really from the bottom of my heart 💞

  • @vibes7756

    @vibes7756

    3 жыл бұрын

    How did it go?

  • @souhaila5879

    @souhaila5879

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@vibes7756 like I'm too lazy to try, when my self esteem is low I run to watch those videos and they make me feel good, after that I don't feel the urge to change myself, l'm keeping doing the same thing over and over again. Now I'm returning here to motivate myself I hope I will take the step to overcome this stupid situation. I hope that my answer will not disappoint you, keep trying please don't be like the lazy me 🧡

  • @OfficialAshLynx

    @OfficialAshLynx

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@souhaila5879 Same here, I don't understand why we're like this and I really wish to break this cycle already 😔

  • @Dreamy-M

    @Dreamy-M

    3 ай бұрын

    @@OfficialAshLynxhow did it going now?

  • @LyriczBeast
    @LyriczBeast2 жыл бұрын

    Life is so fucking hard dealing with this bullshit 😭😭 bro wtf

  • @OfficialAshLynx

    @OfficialAshLynx

    Жыл бұрын

    Ong

  • @joshbih

    @joshbih

    21 сағат бұрын

    rs. how you doin now?

  • @mattbishop7796
    @mattbishop77962 жыл бұрын

    Great stuff! All the modules are very helpful thanks!

  • @garycoachclinton
    @garycoachclinton2 жыл бұрын

    Good work man 😎 Love the translations you do too!!

  • @MoroccoUnfiltred
    @MoroccoUnfiltred Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for making this available for free, this is a great resource :)

  • @justinorem1211
    @justinorem12114 жыл бұрын

    You are a saint sir. I can’t thank you enough for these videos! God bless you sir!

  • @ashnagangoo6728
    @ashnagangoo67284 жыл бұрын

    You are an amazing teacher 👍

  • @giveitupforbeabadoobee
    @giveitupforbeabadoobee2 жыл бұрын

    i found this playlist on reddit, i'm gonna try to watch it and maybe overcome my social anxiety, although the current pandemic may not really help, but i'll try.

  • @PinkPandaCandy
    @PinkPandaCandy3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @linnhjertberg1110
    @linnhjertberg1110 Жыл бұрын

    I had social anxiety since my childhood and it kept me from living a good life. I am so tired of social anxiety dictating my life. I'm going to work on it really hard from now on and hope that in the future i will be able to get rid of it.

  • @gritted

    @gritted

    5 ай бұрын

    how’s it going

  • @carlosmunoz8789
    @carlosmunoz87892 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this

  • @BoldResilient
    @BoldResilient2 жыл бұрын

    It's been really help full thanks

  • @JuanMoreno-lx3fg
    @JuanMoreno-lx3fg2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you Seriously

  • @naturallyherb
    @naturallyherb Жыл бұрын

    Awesome and helpful resource!

  • @user-gk5kj8sl5d
    @user-gk5kj8sl5d2 жыл бұрын

    I do not have any problem in social situations where all people are interacting with each other. But I face sever social anxiety in situations where I am the center of attention I.e giving a presentation or explaining a topic to the whole class

  • @libertychannel6620
    @libertychannel66204 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much from Russia.Best videos I’ve ever seen on this topic

  • @Malibuka55

    @Malibuka55

    2 жыл бұрын

    Как ты сейчас ?

  • @Hakunamatata-rh1bt
    @Hakunamatata-rh1bt2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @arlen5914
    @arlen59145 ай бұрын

    Thank you so so so much

  • @wasimsekh9936
    @wasimsekh99363 жыл бұрын

    You are help me lot!! Thank you

  • @Luna-2122v
    @Luna-2122v Жыл бұрын

    I'm trying to find ways to help myself because I couldn't afford therapy. So I happen to see this and I hope it'll be a great help for me. Thank you for the worksheets, I will use it

  • @gritted

    @gritted

    5 ай бұрын

    how’s it going

  • @JoseGonzalez-tu1qx
    @JoseGonzalez-tu1qx Жыл бұрын

    So helpful!!, great vid 👏

  • @olebogengthomas
    @olebogengthomas4 жыл бұрын

    these modules are a blessing to me. i have been on a self destructive course. lost money, family and are about to loose my wife. these are giving me hope. i have not shared my condition nor have had it diagnosed by a profession but now i know what i am going through.

  • @anusha4505

    @anusha4505

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks to you for working on yourself. You can do this. Let us all fight this together.

  • @riaparumog3288
    @riaparumog32884 жыл бұрын

    I always been impulsive, i get mad easily even in very small things, it affects everyone around me.. i hope this one would help. Thank you so much..

  • @ralph7545
    @ralph75454 жыл бұрын

    I'm inspired to take cbt course video. I need it. Greetings from Florida.

  • @willtrev
    @willtrev4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️

  • @Heavenlyartdolls
    @Heavenlyartdolls Жыл бұрын

    So happy I found you

  • @AIsaac-sx1ed
    @AIsaac-sx1ed5 ай бұрын

    Thanks, very interesting and helpful...

  • @perryb8846
    @perryb88462 жыл бұрын

    Ive been trying so hard to break it. I got a sales job door knocking literally the epitome of a social job I do real estate, talk to everyone I can at the gym. But still I cant break it sometimes its the only thing holding me back in my opinion! Im going to go through all these videos and hope they help.

  • @MMyktv

    @MMyktv

    Жыл бұрын

    hey man how's your journey? Have you got any better? would love to hear

  • @yugo1690
    @yugo16904 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for this

  • @kelso381
    @kelso381 Жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel. Thank you

  • @shreyassgawande19
    @shreyassgawande19 Жыл бұрын

    I got very anxious going anywhere alone even walking on the road is really hard. My voice cracks and my heart beats very fast when talking to lot of people. It also really hard to understand what others are telling me. hope your videos really help me

  • @teenietins1558
    @teenietins15583 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this very helpful program

  • @laycebug3260
    @laycebug3260Ай бұрын

    im 17 and i have social anxiety. it’s the only thing holding me back, which is just silly because technically i’m holding myself back. today i had my first ever therapy appointment for it but i just feel so guilty because my mom is partially paying, partially covered by insurance. i’m so money conscious that i hate when my parents pay for things. it makes me feel like a burden. my greatest dream is to one day be a lawyer, not one that appears in court, but a government lawyer who works 9-5 reading, researching, and drafting documents. i have strong written communication skills but probably the weakest verbal communication skills on earth. just today while i was at therapy i could barely talk to the therapist because of how much my voice trembled involuntarily. i practice positive self talk all the time, i know that nothing socially can hurt me physically but my body still reacts terribly. hopefully therapy can help me. i’m not entirely socially inept, i have a friend group, though my parents certainly think i am. i feel silly telling anyone irl my dream. if you happen to see this years in the future, don’t be afraid to reply and ask me how i am.

  • @VirtualTech
    @VirtualTech3 жыл бұрын

    God I'm sweating like crazy going red, getting fidgety, overthinking it's hard

  • @ganbatte1260

    @ganbatte1260

    2 жыл бұрын

    how is it now? how old are u? what did u do for livings? i also struggle with blushing, it has ruined my life.

  • @VirtualTech

    @VirtualTech

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ganbatte1260 I'm 19 and I'm ashamed to say I've done absolutely nothing and social anxiety is affecting my life everyday. Please don't be like me get help.

  • @ganbatte1260

    @ganbatte1260

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@VirtualTech im 26. I quit my job, no income, no activity, no friends. I want to pursue my master degree but i am afraid to be bully by others. Everytime i had presentation, it will be guarantee 100% someone whispering “he’s blushing..” Just do it, we are so unlucky. But there are no escape i think. I had it because of my family genetics. My family had it all

  • @VirtualTech

    @VirtualTech

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ganbatte1260 I have the same thoughts, I'm in first year of my engineering degree and when I have to give presentation and I feel myself sweating and getting red and stammering I think all my classmates are saying "He's sweating, he's so bad, he's so scared" etc I feel like they are making fun of me? Where are you from?

  • @VirtualTech

    @VirtualTech

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ganbatte1260 I also don't have any friends.... It gets lonely everyday

  • @karmanuenes7629
    @karmanuenes76293 жыл бұрын

    Bruh i used to be hella extroverted before quarantine and now I'm super anxious and stuttering, becoming a mess around friends.. like wth I know these peeps are cool but I'm just soooo nervous, i ended up chewing a mf water bottle to try relaxing when i was hanging out with them the other day 😭

  • @kanayo8816

    @kanayo8816

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same quarantine has f d me up lol

  • @mariorosales1510

    @mariorosales1510

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same bruh, what a hell

  • @nicolegenerale

    @nicolegenerale

    3 жыл бұрын

    i feel ya, frr

  • @Channel24377

    @Channel24377

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same but mine is so bad too when I started working omg I felt horrible I couldn’t talk to my coworkers and felt so awkward during lunch I didn’t have a car so I had to eat lunch with others there.

  • @liyemasibizo3529
    @liyemasibizo35293 жыл бұрын

    Am I the only one who started having lower grades because of social anxiety?

  • @cryingcat6516

    @cryingcat6516

    3 жыл бұрын

    I dropped out of college because of social anxiety so yeah, you're not alone 🥺

  • @a.90129

    @a.90129

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same ):

  • @channel-nb4he

    @channel-nb4he

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same!!

  • @RedShirtMenace808

    @RedShirtMenace808

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cryingcat6516 same man and I’m scared to go back 🥺

  • @meowmeow-hj4kw
    @meowmeow-hj4kw Жыл бұрын

    The thing is that I don’t care about How others see me but I still feel like this

  • @TuiHom
    @TuiHom26 күн бұрын

    I will start to study at a college in September, so I want to make my SA less powerful, because I want to make some friends there. Hope this video will help!

  • @tysonfriend8789
    @tysonfriend87893 жыл бұрын

    Just a question here.. is it normal to experience social anxiety within family? I’m currently 16 and feel very bad talking with relatives, almost as they are strangers!

  • @glu3dd

    @glu3dd

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's normal if you dont talk to them often

  • @littlejoestar4

    @littlejoestar4

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m the same way with my relatives. Most of my family lives hours away, so I only see them once a year or less and I get extremely anxious every time.

  • @wiffywiffy7896

    @wiffywiffy7896

    2 жыл бұрын

    My cousins are pretty much strangers to me cause they live far away so ur not the only one

  • @Professor_brawlstars

    @Professor_brawlstars

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same i can talk to my family very frankly but I can't much with my relatives :(

  • @blackman67

    @blackman67

    2 жыл бұрын

    Here i cant talk to my mom looking at her face

  • @user-hp6bd3ks3p
    @user-hp6bd3ks3p Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the video and to folks for comments. I thought sth is just wrong with me and i couldn't figure anything out, really. Now I at least kinda understand what I'm deeling with. And i hope I'm gonna overcome this and be happy living life)

  • @Unknown-ej6np
    @Unknown-ej6np2 жыл бұрын

    I really wish that I was a extrovert. these past days has been a living hell. Im going to school trying to talk or do anything but I just can't get a word out or join the conversation. I feel imitated and belittled and just inferior to my "new" friends (started new school 2 months ago, and my group they talk like thev've known each other for years. most of the time im just sitiing and listen what they say, and I bet when im not around they properly mocking me. I really need some help.

  • @whiterozz

    @whiterozz

    11 ай бұрын

    Open up to a friend but not just to any friend. Find a great person, make him your friend then open up. People who you open up to, they become your solace.

  • @ranger8839
    @ranger88392 жыл бұрын

    i dont wanna end up with no job and future just because of social anxiety I rather kms

  • @ganbatte1260

    @ganbatte1260

    2 жыл бұрын

    what kind of anxiety do u have? i am a blsuher and it has ruined my life, no jobs, no income, no friends, noa ctivity. idk what to do now

  • @ranger8839

    @ranger8839

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ganbatte1260 i dont go i only go out for school and to go to the grocery store Idk what kind but i feel like everyone is judging me and i get stressed and I'm scared to get embarrassed i had a lot of bad things in my life cause my dad was alcholic and other things I'm disappointed at my self and I'm only 14 i don't have friends never had a girlfriend even tho I'm good looking just because of social anxiety

  • @belle3055

    @belle3055

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hang in there ✊🏾 we are here for a reason ♥ we will get through this.

  • @belle3055

    @belle3055

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ranger8839 you are so young. Please don't waste your time with fear. I didn't try hard to have fun as a teenager because of fear of disappointing my parents. Now I'm 25 and wish I could go back live my life, go out with people, do sports, get into many activities... Now I'm 25 with a mentality of a 12 years old. It's sucks because now people judge me for being imature, and I feel so dumb because everyone my age is so mature, I act like I was born yesterday.

  • @ganbatte1260

    @ganbatte1260

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ranger8839 sorry i think i missed your replies. I feel sorry for you to have this feelings. You are still young.. Hang in there buddy, we have the same condition. Maybe your emotion are still very high because of your age, but let me tell you soenthing. Right now i am trying to start doing it again, rebuilding my confidence. I also have good shape, i do trainings everyday, but still have high anxiety and nervous. But i dont really care about it anymore because i dont want my life to be ruined anymore by this. This 2021-2022 has been a rough years for me, i can simply say ive lost everything (job, money, friends, you name it). But remeber me, No Changes Are Permanent. It will get better soon, try to read some people opinions in reddit who have anxiety like us, most of them will have method to overcome it and courage. My brother has the same condition like you, everyday trapped in his room. He is 40 yo now. But i feel that he is building confidence now and dont really care about it anymore. Because i sometimes think, what is the worst case if i going through it?? It wont make me die. And it will get BETTER, Nothing much to say, Hang in there :) We’re in the same war hahaha

  • @bananablu47
    @bananablu47 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video series! I just had a new catastrophic thought - what if the catastrophic thought isn't a catastrophic thought. Most people are actually mean. So if the thought turns out to be reality will my anxiety increase?

  • @alysgrant6723
    @alysgrant67232 жыл бұрын

    THANKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOYTHANKYOU

  • @firewolf7108
    @firewolf71083 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ;-;

  • @ALIVE.Offical
    @ALIVE.Offical3 жыл бұрын

    Hey everyone, I’m currently trying to find out how one could make the lives of socially anxious people a lot easier ;) Which is why I have two very simple questions: 1. As someone struggling with social anxiety, what are the 2 biggest issues you’re dealing with? 2. Regarding your social anxiety, what would you wish for more than anything else? Thanks so much in advance - looking forward to reading your answers!

  • @TornaDoza

    @TornaDoza

    3 жыл бұрын

    1. There is a whole part of life that I'm blocked off because of my anxiety. Friends, dating, social hobbies. And it's getting progressively worse, with not much hope for a remission. 2. I'd wish to be as obnoxious and non-caring as some people, say whatever and do whatever, but that's not going to happen anytime soon. Holding a conversation without starting to sweat. Being able to meet and date with people. Easy things that others take for granted, but people with SAD are deprived of.

  • @marlinepinto3689

    @marlinepinto3689

    2 жыл бұрын

    1. I'm struggling with: talking to people whom I don't meet much including my family members. I worry about my appearance. I'm very much self conscious when around a group of people with whom I'm not close with. I feel like someone is watching me. 2. I want to go out and enjoy life like others and make good friends and be happy without the fear of being judged.

  • @randomfornow

    @randomfornow

    2 жыл бұрын

    a problem that often happens to me is that once I feel anxious after a social interaction that i perceived as going badly, when i try to speak to the people involved, sort of to see how they perceive me, they do indeed seem to perceive me the way I thought they did. If they wouldn't, I'de drop that negative perception. So basically, if people would show extra love and acceptance, not just the average ammount. I know I try to.

  • @lennaymaboyyy4848

    @lennaymaboyyy4848

    2 жыл бұрын

    1: public speaking 2: maks speaking aloud in classes not mandatory

  • @valec9186

    @valec9186

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't know if this is still helpful since this comment is from 1 year ago, but could be helpful to me so I'll just tell my experience anyway. I'm a 25 y.o. male from Italy (sorry for my bad English). 1. The first one is that I struggle to make friends and to find a girlfriend (never had one before). The second one is that I struggle to find a job and to keep up with my studies at university since talking in front of other people and getting along with colleagues/classmates is obviously crucial. 2. I'd like to have a lot of friends that care about me. I'd like to have a girlfriend while I'm still young, since I feel that I'm missing out on so many experiences that most of my peers are having. I'd like to feel normal and to be able to relate to others without shaking, sweating, blushing, be flooded by intrusive thoughts ... This is absolutely debilitating, so I'm watching this video and I'm taking medication to get my life back.

  • @Fin3rain
    @Fin3rain Жыл бұрын

    My social anxiety is that I can't initate conversation and I can't small talk or hold a conversation unless I am 1. passionate about a subject in which case I can talk to much and mess up the flow of the convo. or 2. I have already spoken to the person several times before which is very few people because I can't make new friends because I can't hold conversation

  • @emmma4012
    @emmma40123 жыл бұрын

    Its been 4 years since my first panic attacks. 💔💔

  • @MsLet-et4wf
    @MsLet-et4wf3 жыл бұрын

    I pray this will help me... ❤️

  • @Stuggersc

    @Stuggersc

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you ok now?

  • @blubpu___7399
    @blubpu___7399 Жыл бұрын

    for some reasons I’m scared but I wanna do this, cause therapy is an expensive thing In the end of it I’ll write my results

  • @solo94gt
    @solo94gt3 ай бұрын

    What about social anxiety because of appearance anxiety? Plz help

  • @cj18519
    @cj18519Ай бұрын

    Have you heard of eft tapping and do you think that it’s effective to treat social anxiety?

  • @hassancheema1284
    @hassancheema1284 Жыл бұрын

    Do I have to do the worksheets for every video

  • @querty985
    @querty9852 жыл бұрын

    If social anxiety is similar to pain the does it go away on it's own?

  • @classy5539
    @classy5539 Жыл бұрын

    As long as a remember I have social since I was born...my parents where protectives with me... They didn't allow me to go out until I had 11... They didn't want me to embarasse them so they Always asked me to go into my rom when relatives come. I got used to it so now when my uncles or aunts Come, I go hide myself... and now they compare me with other children saying that its not normal that I can't even respond to the phone when my 4 years old cousins Can do it... They where l also ashamed and disappointed when the teacher told them that I cry when he shouts at me...

  • @classy5539

    @classy5539

    Жыл бұрын

    I can't act normal in public even if in reality I have the same type of hobbies as all the other students. I hear them talking but I never manage to integrate the conversations... problem that I had since I was in kindergarten... my father was summoned a lot of faith because I don't speak. I remember once I couldn't ask permission before going to the bathroom...I started running outside...my teacher thought I was trying to escape so she grabbed me and i peed in front of the whole class 😭 (shame) it happened when i was 5 but i still remember it... i could name all the embarrassing moments i had in my life because of my social anxiety because I never forgot them...💀

  • @OfficialAshLynx

    @OfficialAshLynx

    Жыл бұрын

    I think my social anxiety was also exacerbated by the fact that my mom is overprotective. I'm sorry for all the bad things you had to experience and I hope we get through this 🫂

  • @johnaronperezb5984
    @johnaronperezb59844 жыл бұрын

    Hope this would help me

  • @glitteresque
    @glitteresque2 жыл бұрын

    Can I do it on quarantine? Does it count as a life crisis?

  • @elifkaya4496
    @elifkaya4496 Жыл бұрын

    Could you also make a serious for people with ADHD?

  • @dogtrooper22445
    @dogtrooper224454 ай бұрын

    Hi and Tnx. I can’t seem to find the link for the app. Am I missing something?

  • @genuineperson3540
    @genuineperson354011 ай бұрын

    What's bad for me is people telling me I go red. So rude!

  • @mauriceb5992
    @mauriceb59922 жыл бұрын

    There's a cbt app called "loop" where you talk anonymously with people that have social anxiety. No one can see you or know who you are . It's really helpful for talk therapy and $14 weekly

  • @berfincerenonal1108
    @berfincerenonal11084 жыл бұрын

    I want to add Turkish subtitle for this module set can I add?

  • @anusha4505

    @anusha4505

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mail him...

  • @Yenisen.

    @Yenisen.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yaparmisiniz ? Cok yardimci olurdunuz.

  • @2010RSHACKS
    @2010RSHACKS2 жыл бұрын

    What if I have adhd that makes me even more embarrassed and different

  • @Oaisus
    @Oaisus Жыл бұрын

    Why must the acronym be CBT

  • @sherminatorex
    @sherminatorex2 жыл бұрын

    man my life suck i am tired of that, i done went to see two psy but it don’t works… what should i do ? live in a treehouse in a forest and eat worms ? my god….

  • @ganbatte1260

    @ganbatte1260

    2 жыл бұрын

    what kind of anxiety do u have? i am a blsuher and it has ruined my life, no jobs, no income, no friends, noa ctivity. idk what to do now

  • @farazmaqsood5190
    @farazmaqsood51903 жыл бұрын

    Is this really helpful. Update plz.

  • @ReportsOnChina
    @ReportsOnChina2 жыл бұрын

    Are you Icelandic? I can tell, because your accent reminds me of Bjork. 😁

  • @OfficialAshLynx

    @OfficialAshLynx

    Жыл бұрын

    I think he's from Norway

  • @whiterozz
    @whiterozz Жыл бұрын

    I wanted to bring this into your notice that sometimes even doctors diagnose wrong. You might be on medication for years but no good. That might be because diagnosis was wrong.

  • @fugitive_
    @fugitive_2 жыл бұрын

    It looks like this vid has bot views but i think were all a little too anxious to comment much

  • @eduardogallegos9
    @eduardogallegos93 жыл бұрын

    Magnus, is being afraid of talking to girls considered social anxiety?

  • @ganbatte1260

    @ganbatte1260

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes, i have this too

  • @user-wf2mz5fb1x
    @user-wf2mz5fb1x2 ай бұрын

    Are you perhaps Swedish? Your accent

  • @nicolumbrosul3322
    @nicolumbrosul3322 Жыл бұрын

    does anyone wanna be friends and overcome this together?

  • @flo6577

    @flo6577

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah let's go

  • @nicolumbrosul3322

    @nicolumbrosul3322

    Жыл бұрын

    @@flo6577 whats ur ig?

  • @koshka5242

    @koshka5242

    Жыл бұрын

    meee

  • @nicolumbrosul3322

    @nicolumbrosul3322

    Жыл бұрын

    @@koshka5242 insta?

  • @whiterozz

    @whiterozz

    11 ай бұрын

    How is this going so far ?

  • @noone-yt2li
    @noone-yt2li19 күн бұрын

    reddit brought me here :D

  • @gudgel5307
    @gudgel53072 жыл бұрын

    im batman

  • @whiterozz

    @whiterozz

    11 ай бұрын

    I am invincible

  • @lonettehistoria1663
    @lonettehistoria16636 ай бұрын

    anyone else here with avpd?

  • @lingtoone3719
    @lingtoone37192 ай бұрын

    Reddit brought me here

  • @richardgray1890
    @richardgray18903 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha why is it called CBT

  • @milk5002

    @milk5002

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

  • @yummysoup
    @yummysoup3 жыл бұрын

    Iam here because of dubious_unicorn.

  • @siddhoot

    @siddhoot

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @belle3055

    @belle3055

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yh