63 years old, and just starting to learn how to love myself, when I lost my mother, I realize that I was alone, and I needed to reprogram my mind into the future, I’m doing it now, but man is it hard and painful?

@justjosie8963

8 ай бұрын

I think there are more in our age group than we know. I struggle between feeling bad it took me so long and self congratulatory for finally taking a stand and being friend to myself. ML to you. 💜

@tmo.48

7 ай бұрын

It took me years to get through missing my Mom. It was hard, I felt like I lost my identity. It takes time!!!

That was the first thing I learned was not to avoid pain, I lived my whole life, avoiding pain, but pain was always there in the front steps waiting on me

Thank you this was so needed! In bad relationship we are taught to hide, and not to be seen. Our value and voice doesn't matter. *Let yourself have a voice...

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi darrell Good morning. I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

My life - finally escaped in my fifth decade of life. The suffering indescribable-walking through healing alone now is almost unbearable at times, but onward i go - freedom from the prison of poison of abuse is a gift I finally found.

I am enough. We are enough. Thank you Lisa❤ God bless you❤

I definitely was raised to be seen, not heard, A lot of times not to be seen either, I was programmed to never voice your feelings, cause if you did you get a beat, Understand why I have a hard time asking for help

@alerdman2002

8 ай бұрын

Ditto on steroids... 🖐😢...thats me...invisible

@diane2413

8 ай бұрын

Yes! I was told this too. It was only in my grandmother's presence where I felt seen and heard. How do I keep myself from wanting to go back to the time when she was here? When she left this world changed me so much and led me down a narcissistic path.

@marceloper8257

8 ай бұрын

@@diane2413 thank you for sharing, i’m at my wits end, so angry at myself that at 63 years old, I don’t know how to live, I gave my life up for my family and now my family is not here for me, person that truly loved me my mom and now she’s gone. She’s been gone for about a year now. I listen to Dr. Joe dispenser a lot, but I wonder if it’s too late for me , can’t find a job about to get evicted. All of my savings went to my mom when she was here now I’m pennyless. Walking around in fair despair, afraid of the unknown., I wish I was a lot longer than I am

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Dannie Good morning. I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

I am nearly 68 and only in the last 15 yrs or so finally realized what was going on in my family or origin. I was always invisible yet responsible for the way my mother felt and how her day went. My brother was the golden child, and still to this day has no recognition of the dynamics of our family and my father also had some narcissistic tendencies. However, he learned to have his needs met by giving my mom whatever she wanted he never stood up for me to protect me from the emotional and verbal abuse, and he himself participated in physical abuse, my whole life has been colored by this horrendous abuse. With whatever time I have left, I want to honor myself and give myself what I need. No one can understand this unless they have experienced it.

May the eternal light forever be in you always

I’m trying so damn hard not to give up to continue fighting, but I will be honest. I don’t know how long I can continue this.

A great video. I'm 65 and I wish I learned all this years ago. Thank you for these videos

You have helped recognize my codependency and gain self love. Becauae of this I am in the process of leaving an abusive relationship. I appreciate you. Keep doing good in this world ❤

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Boca Good evening I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

Many thanks, Lisa Romano. You have inspired me through the years.

I love you Lisa❤thank you❤ I do your meditations on youtube along with the 12wbtcp meditations daily. Its esstential for me ❤

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Love ❤️ Good evening I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

* Real feel, .....Helping heal *. Thank you, Lisa, as always. P.S. listened to your recent "Meditation" video, focusing, breathing & counting those "golden stairs" 🙏🙌. ✌️☮️

@lisaaromano1

8 ай бұрын

Wonderful!

… as a German Biologist - this is Genetic - Domestication and Conditioning become fixed in the Genome - with a fixed Pattern of PAIN - Reward - a Mind Prison we can not escape. It takes intense Endurance and Inner Strength training for a sort of meta Morphosis. The person becomes past and a new Person is formed. This makes it so difficult - as it is genetic. The Fortunate with Inner Strength never get there - so it appears for them - so easy and non existent… “very hard to do” - Bruce Lee

I’ve been seeking this information for a real long time, so grateful to finally have it, thank you

Thank you. Yes this was happening to me. Appreciate your videos

Love this. So worthwhile to take on. Thank you Lisa From Stockholm Sweden

You are so awesome Lisa…thank you so much for such excellent information. Finally someone who understands our pain.

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi margaret Good evening I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

This information you have given me has definitely made me hopeful. Thank you so much I need it that lift.

@lisaaromano1

8 ай бұрын

I'm so glad!

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

@@lisaaromano1 Him good morning, Lisa how are you doing? It’s nice coming across your amazing profile. With beautiful smile , where are you from

Thank you Lisa! Excellent as usual ❤ It’s exactly what’s been on my mind, in my heart

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Deborah Good evening I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

Thank you for this , my mind has been so missed up and telling lies , I hate it and I am trying to redo how iam doing thing , as a child I was abandoned both from birth parents and then adopted parents where being left alone at home, while they were at work most of my childhood

Thank you for opening my eyes. 🙂❤️🙏🤗

@lisaaromano1

8 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

I appreciate you Lisa ❤

I'm challenging it for years now. But the program runs deep and my "unconscious" or "subconcious" still often reacts to the negative, oppressive energies. 😔I need to conquer the next step. 🙏💙

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Josie Good evening I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

Love you Lisa

From Morocco sending you love ❤

Thank you 💚🙏🏾😇

It is working for me. ❤

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Kristin good evening. how are you doing it’s nice coming across your amazing profile. 🌺🌺where are you from🌺

You touch me deeply

Hello Lisa, thank you so much for sharing, SO insightful!! I am trying to help a friend who's asked for advice in dealing with her Narcissistic mother and, so I automatically thought of you, and your wonderful insightful videos!! If I may ask, what video of yours could I start her off with to begin her journey to "self-awareness, learning about Narcissism/Codependency and overall self-healing" while still dealing with her mother? If this video is one, it's a great one!! I would so appreciate your input and so will she!!❤️🥰🙏

Thank you...😭

I don't know this young man, but I pray he thinks long and hard about even continuing to deal with this young girl if she continues treatinh him this way!! I for one, feel that when you're with a person/people and they choose to talk on, text, and pay attention to their cellphone more often vs the person they should be engaging with, that is very rude and disrespectful.

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so how do I ,as a sleeper help my children and make them feel seen and give them what they need when I'm still asleep and trying to wake up myself..? when and how do I shift???

@jl3268

8 ай бұрын

❤with empathy, honesty and authenticity. ❤

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Janna Good evening I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

It was my fault. It wasn’t their fault. We just didn’t know.

What is karma , and does the Bible speak of it

I mean, it wasn’t my fault

Children are not programmed with negativity because children are not robots... children live through trauma inflicted by family and then have to let go of the negativity. If the children do not have freedom from the neural implants and the illegal medical devices in their brains... they will never be able to let go of it because abusers who like to justify abuse will chase them around and remind them of it consistently...

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

Hi Lydia Good evening I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….

@LydiaMonahan-jo9ss

7 ай бұрын

@@Raymondgogolf I was directing that towards the speaker and creater of the video... Thank you.

@Raymondgogolf

7 ай бұрын

@@LydiaMonahan-jo9ss it will be good to know you. Read what I wrote in my cover photo 🌺🌺🌺🌺💯

Sounds like the girl was on a app date and just wanted free dinner