I have this and I hate when my friends take a picture without me knowing and then I get a glimpse of it and my stomach drops and ruins my whole day 🤢

@aylinuysal4908

4 жыл бұрын

Same here I am terrified of photos

@Kayla-kd8ov

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. I know that feeling.

@noahtashi

4 жыл бұрын

Reading this comment ... wow ... i didn't think there would be other people out there who are exactly like me in this situation. In the moment you see that picture and realize how ugly you are. I die everytime from the inside ...

@thirtyonepigeons9539

4 жыл бұрын

One of my friends (I dont like calling or referring to her as a friend bc shes never done anything to deserve that title for me) made a whole album of pictures of me (it's the type of pics when you dont give someone your permission to take a picture of you.) I remember the day she told me about the album after school, I was crying and felt mad/annoyed at her. I remember being in such a bad mood and it bothered me so much. I told her to delete them and she didnt. I dont have the condition btw it's just I hate the fact that she has over 100 pictures of me showing my early teen stages to my older teen stages and I cringe at how chubby I am in the pics and my ugliness. It ruins my day seeing pictures of me aswell ugh :(

@africanqueen5292

4 жыл бұрын

Same😫

This is what I cry about everyday and ppl just don’t understand

@ecem0089

5 жыл бұрын

I do

@niyareaction1685

5 жыл бұрын

Same ppl be judging others and i told my friend idk if it makes since cause it like a skeleton judging another skeleton.. Like what skeleton look better

@melissarivera7477

4 жыл бұрын

Courteney Campbell join the ride

@adellaadella3044

4 жыл бұрын

You have to learn to ACCEPT YOURSELF and LOVE YOURSELF .You are PERFECT the way you are! 💜💜💖

@leannechapman2446

4 жыл бұрын

If only there was a switch to turn off these thoughts and feelings.

Ugly+social anxiety=hell

@luciletepeeu3076

4 жыл бұрын

Yessss and acne too 😔 What ppl didn't understand when I had social anxiety is that I'm not afraid of being ugly, I'm afraid of being ridiculous bc of my ugliness

@chrissiology

3 жыл бұрын

@@luciletepeeu3076 worst of all, I was used to it. When people would mistreat me, I let it happen because I thought it was normal. I was desensitized to it. I love COVID because it taught me a lot. I got to learn about myself more.

@bandori485

3 жыл бұрын

I have the same as you

@Mehhh_z

3 жыл бұрын

body dismorphia and social anxiety= Hell

@bandori485

3 жыл бұрын

Same ofcc

It’s even worse whenever I start comparing myself to other girls because I know that I’ll never be as pretty as them

@christinarose3254

3 жыл бұрын

Is that you in your profile picture? If so, I think you have a beautiful smile and I love your hair. 💖 I compare myself to other girls too, it really hurts inside.

@idontwannatalkaboutit8660

3 жыл бұрын

Chris Torres thank you so much this is literally the nicest thing someone has ever said to me

@christinarose3254

3 жыл бұрын

@@idontwannatalkaboutit8660 Really? Maybe people are too shy to speak up.

@Eplo1

3 жыл бұрын

it or telling me that's u in ur pfp!? Gurl embrace that beauty becuase you are! Dont let anyone else bring u down ❤ we only live once so make the most of it 😉💕

@thesoftestworld

3 жыл бұрын

Girl you are incredibly pretty

I hate when people compliment me because I convince myself that they are either lying or saying it out of pity. And when I say I am ugly and they say no you're not I know they're lying.

@aikaterineillt9876

5 жыл бұрын

Yea people do that so it’s hard to know, you can only trust yourself

@ryvr.

4 жыл бұрын

Same. I just avoid people now

@poppitpop

4 жыл бұрын

I know. I believe this thoughts are because I'm going through my teenage years and I really hope I eventually stop having these thoughts.

@btsgirl2288

4 жыл бұрын

Same 😭

@ryvr.

4 жыл бұрын

@@memshinlamed9079 don't come here and call people that word. you're a bad boy! bad!

I don't think I'm ugly. I know that im ugly...

@frozengamer3030

6 жыл бұрын

Mr. Roshi We all are

@sarahsuliman4462

6 жыл бұрын

Frozen gamer no Im not

@emilies1839

5 жыл бұрын

i felt this

@Imhim247

5 жыл бұрын

I'm ugly too

@BelenOcampo11

5 жыл бұрын

Mr. Roshi No,you are not. Trust me

when attractive people feel ugly we help them. when genuinely ugly people feel the same way they get shunned because everyone hates ugly people.

@Checkerbear

4 жыл бұрын

Like me haha I’m so ugly when people see me they are surprised you can see it in their eyes. It’s great.

@jusdgaf449

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly, they just agree if you call yourself ugly

@kaedetsu7652

4 жыл бұрын

Yup and the worst part is when your "friends" joke about it like "Do u rlly have a mirror im ur house? Do u not see what u always look like?" and then people would laugh so i just join them... Rlly great isn't it? 😊

@entx8491

4 жыл бұрын

@Telive Qwenton Alot? Good grammar matters even more.

@greyrose1052

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve had guys tell me that they couldn’t date me because I looked like a naked mole rat without makeup. And I also remember genuine pretty people would say “ I’m so ugly” and people would rush to them and comfort them, but when I said “I’m ugly” they just say same

People don't get it.....we don't want to be beautiful in our own way,we don't want to be unique and we certainly don't be to be confident....We want to be beautiful like normal people

@fahimbae7209

3 жыл бұрын

Yes,we do

@Abr022575

3 жыл бұрын

But nobody is. Not one.

@veraelena00

3 жыл бұрын

@@Abr022575 not true

@iamamultimillionaire6299

3 жыл бұрын

@@Abr022575 how is no one beautiful?

@GabyGonzales23181

3 жыл бұрын

@@iamamultimillionaire6299 what people usually call "beautiful" is based on the beauty standard that society has created. We grow with these beauty standards and we are shown that, on ly people who look a certain way are beautiful. But in reality, "beauty" is subjective, because one person may think someone is really pretty and another person may think the opposite. Wich does not mean one is right and the other is wrong. So technically no one is "beautiful" because that is not a fact, it's just an opinion.

When I see myself I feel like I don’t deserve to be alive

@idktbh3955

4 жыл бұрын

Me too...💔

@seven2178

4 жыл бұрын

Me tooo

@nisa-fj1rs

4 жыл бұрын

Me too 💔💔

@tamara7301

4 жыл бұрын

You do

@diorphine

4 жыл бұрын

this...

"Sometimes I feel my face is so ugly I just wanna scratch it off" Sadly same

@gomezv8944

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed 😔

@subhamnayak7283

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@memshinlamed9079

4 жыл бұрын

Do it

@sleepypigeon8560

4 жыл бұрын

Same, I wish I can cut it open and deform myself completly knowing that i will never be beautiful by any circumstance.

@shishirmadhu9661

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

I just saw my side profile and I’m so disgusted of myself I want to just tear my face off cause I’m so ugly

@schutzstaffel6337

4 жыл бұрын

Hey

@Jojosiwo

4 жыл бұрын

Oh yyeah yeah

@orhandelrey

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@user-jx7cz8ud4u

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@hannahbanana9901

3 жыл бұрын

I hate my side profile and even though I know people aren’t, I always feel like people are judging me for everything

I am obsessed looking at the mirror, seeing my body and have anxiety attacks on how unattractive people see me and cry because I can't love myself like other people do

@Chromedome-ss6mg

3 жыл бұрын

My gosh your not ugly at all

And the worst part is comparing yourself to others

@maressa.m

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@skylar1751

4 жыл бұрын

I know I spend hours looking at beautiful girls, I wish I was one of them.

@charismamina8461

4 жыл бұрын

@@skylar1751 same

@CassieJazz96

4 жыл бұрын

that is the worst😔

@earthalien7777

4 жыл бұрын

@@skylar1751 yeah I just stop looking at social media it really helps

I can’t even imagine having a camera in my face

@hann2007

4 жыл бұрын

In your face?? Hahahaha

@Emisnyan

3 жыл бұрын

That camera would be deep under the sea if someone did that to me

@Ladyblue7620

3 жыл бұрын

@@Emisnyan and the person too.

@Emisnyan

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ladyblue7620 HAHA YES

@user-lm9gf2wh6t

3 жыл бұрын

@@Emisnyan same

I’ve been bullied since the 3rd grade and it’s still happening (I’m 14 now) and honestly sometimes I just think if I was pretty, so many bad things could’ve been avoided in my life. If I was pretty my life would be so much better.

@schutzstaffel6337

4 жыл бұрын

Hey

@Gavrochee-lk3qu

3 жыл бұрын

Is that you in yr profile? You are so beautiful!

@zilaxia

3 жыл бұрын

Telive Qwenton wym dark

@yuen7515

3 жыл бұрын

Same.... I feel like everyone in my family would just like me more if I was good looking......

@spmoran4703

2 жыл бұрын

No you would just get other bad things .

This was so painful to watch. I literally despise looking into mirrors. I find it increasingly difficult to not be entirely appalled by my looks. I can’t accept compliments, I can’t be in videos, I walk with my head down in public, and my confidence is non existent. Some days I stare at myself in the mirror and just cry my eyes out. It sucks and it’s genuinely one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to go through.

@shawnlewis5644

2 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@oliverjones2426

2 жыл бұрын

join the club

@rossrobson6935

2 жыл бұрын

Me too I just can't bare looking at myself in the mirror and when I go out in public I'm just so insecure all the time and if I'm in a busy place with a lot of people around my face starts going red and sweaty it's just so ridiculous

@Smiledogbeats

Жыл бұрын

Ive seen i lot of comments like this, a lot of us relate, look at every comment like yours, look at their pfp if they have one of themselves, none of them are ugly neither are you, its in your head, which is funny coming from me cuz its what people say to me, i think they are lying, you may think im lying but no one is ugly, everyone looks different

@blakebortles6098

Жыл бұрын

Lol good humor

I cry when I look at my face sometimes-💀

@beatricebeatrice4481

4 жыл бұрын

Same💔

@livyflores

4 жыл бұрын

I cry every time I look at my body/try on new clothes. I hate it so much :(

@mossybricks8682

4 жыл бұрын

Olivia Flores at least you can change your body

@livyflores

4 жыл бұрын

MoorsBoors you’re absolutely right, but that doesn’t mean my feelings aren’t valid/don’t matter.

@mossybricks8682

4 жыл бұрын

Olivia Flores well of course not, but you can choose to be proactive about it

The poor woman who didn’t give birth because of it. Breaks my heart how common this is

@user-vb5yg2ef3m

5 жыл бұрын

It's TRUE. Cause it's like deases. It's big problem

@nikolaimaharaj2319

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe they can just adopt children they feel look better than them I was honestly thinking about doing the same

@Sunflower-xn9ce

4 жыл бұрын

Holly Fogarty I might do the same thing

@damarh

4 жыл бұрын

there are a lot of super models in the world who have parents with questionable looks. So it can go both ways depending on what genes comes together, and usually it doesn't even matter.

@facellina

4 жыл бұрын

I did the same. Pretty often decision.

sometimes when i see a girl with a perfect body and is really pretty i just wanna hide underneath a rock i compare myself to girls for no reason even when im looking good even my own family makes me lose confidence. sometimes i cry because the way a outfit looks on me is ugly.

@atefehbaqeri8474

Жыл бұрын

Same with me

Everytime I look in the mirror, I wanna punch myself because of how ugly I am.

@schutzstaffel6337

4 жыл бұрын

Hey

@ranjitregmee2571

4 жыл бұрын

Most relatable comment so far

@charismamina8461

4 жыл бұрын

same but i want someone to jump me because im so ugly

@hopeminerva5250

4 жыл бұрын

@@charismamina8461 ugly plus social anxiety =hell

@theharshtruthoutthere

5 ай бұрын

@@charismamina8461 What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? And have we forgotten who we are? DUST, we are dust, directly formed from it. Genesis 3:19 In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return. And to be hurt or not about others opinions = false judgment, about you, you 1st make sure you know from where they take their “judgment”. Often and by many it is taken from movies, from magazines, from hollywood. Well, lets hurt everyone a little more, Hollywood club is filled with “transgender's” who even shave off their own bone anatomy. And normal human with sober mind should not find any living soul “attractive” or we`d be paedophiles, are you? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

I'm not even 20 seconds in and already crying. She didn't have kids because she felt she was so unattractive... my God. That hit me like a ton of bricks.

@jub8891

5 жыл бұрын

nothing to feel bad about. you arent ugly like her or me. enjoy life to your full potential and never let uglies bring you down.

@sandranenadic4356

5 жыл бұрын

I feel like this too, like today i wanted to get pizza and i looked in the mirror or a reflection of myself waiting, and I looked so thin and frail... i thought OMG at home I looked way FATTER than this. Like throughout, the day through my perspective I see myself one moment really fat or the next too skinny.

@missbelladonna24

5 жыл бұрын

@@jub8891 not cool. Call yourself ugly if you want but dont you dare make someone with bdd feel worse.

@jub8891

5 жыл бұрын

​@@missbelladonna24 ugliness is objective, just as beauty is also objective.. whether it makes someone feel bad or good doesn't change reality.. i know first hand it is painful to be ugly but im not denying reality because of how i feel

@missbelladonna24

5 жыл бұрын

@@jub8891 you say its objective, then you say its reality...which one is it?

Sometimes I think I have this but I’m pretty sure I’m just ugly

@Bluue7000

5 жыл бұрын

No you're not beauty is not just in one look it's deeper than this just give yourself time to grow and love your body and be grateful for it 💗💗💗

@thngan194

5 жыл бұрын

Nina Nini yeah you’re right. Laddy Donglegs you’re not ugly ☺️☺️

@koopakidd5382

5 жыл бұрын

Nina Nini “it’s what’s on the inside “ say all girls . Girls are more vain and look based then us men usually . It’s on the inside but would u date an ugly man ? Exactly

@gj9157

5 жыл бұрын

@@koopakidd5382 No reply lol

@gunnasintern

5 жыл бұрын

Koopa Kidd lol you got rejected

God favors people. How come everyone else in the world is so so so beautiful, then there’s me... I’m the only ugly one in my family.

@kabiin3190

3 жыл бұрын

That can't be true . Cause I still exist in this world

@sarahvince1767

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. The ugly duckling.

@Gatoradeia

3 жыл бұрын

High five.btw im 20

@bengbeng2005

3 жыл бұрын

God make you that way for a reason, and no one is ugly

@edynasty9380

3 жыл бұрын

@@bengbeng2005 bullSh₩it, there's ugly people and stop lying to people that are ugly looking. I've been called ugly by around 55 people. So why should i lie to myself and think I'm "beautiful"

When you don’t even want to look at yourself in the mirror, it’s a horrible type of pain. I would have to avoid anything reflective or else I would breakdown in tears.

never knew there was an actual name for this i just thought this was just a me problem haha

@Wendy-jt2dg

6 жыл бұрын

chibiyaten15 yea I always thought it was normal to hate yourself

@maireadhudson6523

5 жыл бұрын

chibiyaten15 but remember there’s a difference between thinking you’re ugly and actual body dysmorphia

@emmagjeldsen7721

5 жыл бұрын

Mairead Hudson Whats the different? I think Im ugly an fat...but anyone Else cant Even understand Why i feel that way! ❤️

@croissant._.003

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@chanelcallaway3915

5 жыл бұрын

AHAGSGSHAHA SAME

It feels like I wish I was never born, ugly is not a symptom its a fact it's the hardest pill you'll have to swallow when you realize it's you.

@betamass3803

4 жыл бұрын

True

@ra6153

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I love how all the people on the video get people to affirm them that they're not ugly..like attention seeking much..no one spends every second of everyday telling me I'm not ugly. Lol I say it and joke about it it's tumbleweeds and crickets lol

@user-lm9gf2wh6t

3 жыл бұрын

True I can feel you

@chimjinxii2130

2 жыл бұрын

True

@rossrobson1045

2 жыл бұрын

Know the feeling I hate my life because I know I'm not an attractive looking guy, never had one women fancying me, I get so jealous and depressed when I see good looking dudes with women makes me feel shitty knowing I'm missing out just so unfair and would rather be dead

This generation is soooo broken. If you don't meet a person requirements when it comes to your face you are defined as ugly. My self-esteem was ruined at age 11. Being called ugly by my friends and others. Even if they are just joking. It still hurts inside. Today I have to cover my face everytime I smile or laugh. It still hurts thinking about the fact that I am ugly. The worst thing is that we are still judged just because we look different. You simply start to feel alone. And no one should feel that way. It's just so unfair. No one should be judged like this.

@schutzstaffel6337

4 жыл бұрын

Hello

@chrissiology

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you are healing especially during COVID (which is the best time). I can relate SO much to you and I’m 100% healed from it bc I’ve worked so much on myself. My self-esteem was ruined when I was 14. It gradually got better once I was 18.3

@pjnaszxx581

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus sees you, knows you, and understands you, come to him he’s waiting for you with open arms. ❤️

@swagknightx

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

*Say a girl beautiful she will believe it for sometime* *Say a girl ugly she will believe it for lifetime* 🙂💔

@neoncolored6307

3 жыл бұрын

Umm... because negative feedback ALWAYS sticks with you. Has nothing to do with gender or egoism or whatever you're trying to imply.

@michelle2561

3 жыл бұрын

Uh no lmao tell someone with BDD that they’re ugly and it lasts a lifetime…I promise you women don’t care if a random guy insults them 😂😂

@spmoran4703

2 жыл бұрын

Say a girl or a boy has a beautiful mind . It's TRUE.

@Pink_pr1ncess

2 жыл бұрын

@@michelle2561 maybe you don’t care but lots of women care

@Pink_pr1ncess

2 жыл бұрын

@@neoncolored6307 funny how you tried to make it a gender thing out of nowhere, I forgot how this generation politicizes everything

I smashed my face into my eyeshadow palette while I was putting makeup on and I just started sobbing. I cried all the makeup off and I cried till my eyes were bright red and stinging. I hate myself so much for being just a horrific looking being

@codyanntaylor9623

5 жыл бұрын

Aiko exactly it’s been months since I looked in the mirror my friend/cousin is pretty I hate going out with her because she’s so pretty and I’m so ugly

@maryam6211

4 жыл бұрын

Oh no :((( I hope the best for you to get better!! I feel ugly often times too, I avoid looking in mirrors, taking selfies, but there are days I realize that my looks don’t matter as much as I think they do. I might be the ugliest person in the room but I’m the ugliest person who can make an positive impact and can be remembered for my personality. I always keep this in mind: when I die, most people would remember me for who I was, not what I looked like

@Ana-vx7yi

4 жыл бұрын

You aren’t a horrific looking being focus on positive things ;)

@dariyabadra9804

4 жыл бұрын

Ik what u mean.......

@jeangrey6278

4 жыл бұрын

You are not ugly/horrify. I am the ugly and horrific.

This is one of the reasons I have never been sexually active,I feel like when the next person sees me in my vulnerable(naked) state they'd just be freaking out at how disgusting and unappealing i am😔💔 its the worst feeling ever

@gtrrrx2919

5 жыл бұрын

can relate

@maverick6775

4 жыл бұрын

try to build up confidence and see yourself normal.

@Aries_Superstar_Army

4 жыл бұрын

GTRRRX29 I feel that way too. That’s one of the reasons why I’m single.

@sarahtonin4020

4 жыл бұрын

Maverick easier said than done lol

@milky3269

4 жыл бұрын

Maverick omg you’re a genius

The only thing I can say is that I have to avoid every mirror and camera no matter what, as long as I dont see myself infront of the mirror I'm okay. I don't want to look at myself because I can see how horrible I am.

@bloodomen2794

3 жыл бұрын

i was the same way i remember i use to go to the bathroom and dead ass not look in there mirror but since i grew my dreads out i look a lil better but still ugly

I feel pretty when I'm in my home after checking 4 mirrors but as soon as I leave any reflection I catch of me makes my tummy drop.

i don't think i have body dysmorphia, but i am genuinely disgusted at the face and body i see staring back at me in the mirror, i never go out if i don't absolutely have to because no one should be subjected to seeing my horrible face tbh

@melekdemir2203

6 жыл бұрын

Doesn‘t sound healthy either. I‘m sorry that you feel that way

@oasis6137

6 жыл бұрын

I really thought I was the only one to do this - I don’t really leave cause I don’t want anyone to have to see my face

@BINCH-xe3kp

6 жыл бұрын

oasis I thought it was just me for a while.. I'm sorry you feel that way though, I know how tough it is

@iqons350

6 жыл бұрын

Malachite My face and body is an obsession to me. It has to look good and some of the standards I set up for myself are too high and I know that, but the other part of myself just can't help it

@alessias.4733

6 жыл бұрын

With humans it is only when their privileges such as health etc are taken away that they realize how good of a life they had. Don't realize it too late, embrace yourself. It is never too late to change what you don't like. Love yourself, see a counsellor or therapist and talk to them about your issues. All the best x

I would love to ask everyone "do u think im ugly?" And get an honest answer. Not what I want to hear, not what they think I wanna hear. I wanna hear the truth and only the truth. Im tired of people telling me im pretty to then find out I repell them

@ra6153

3 жыл бұрын

Same this ponders my mind. I always think if my husband actually thinks I'm attractive or is because he's too insecure to find someone better than me. Because he is a bit anxious and introverted. Although he's attractive, not just to me, but generally, he isn't Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp. I sometimes think he just settled with me because we were really good friends before we got together. And that I'm actually truly ugly. His sister is so pretty like.. why would he want ogre if he's seen attractive people in his life? His parents and family are attractive

@ra6153

3 жыл бұрын

I would like to hear the honest truth. but then at the same time I already know what my flaws are. Fluctuating weight, fine hair, wide face, pudgey nose, gappy eyebrows. Endomorph body shape where I gain fat everywhere. If I gain weight goes straight onto my face. I have small eyes and low brow line. I have perpetual lines on my neck, even when I have lost weight to a healthy size. Even when I was fitter and did kickboxing and trained hard, I have an over hanging belly, back fat, saggy but enlarged chest, hyper pigmentation, no real curves. Every wide shoulders and chest awkward hands. Basically an ogre. Don't even need to describe it. What can anyone say if I already know. What difference would it make?

@nikkidarden2301

3 жыл бұрын

those ppl you "repell" don't need to be in your life anyways if they aren't genuine with you... trust me, they did YOU a favor... beauty is skin deep, if ppl don't wanna be around you just because of how you look on the outside, then they don't need to be in your life period. this so-called "truth" you'd be getting when asking if a person thinks you're ugly, their answers would only be their OPINION... only truth that matters when it comes to how you look is how YOU feel about yourself. ask yourself, do you really wanna value the opinions of random ppl who serve no positive position in your life?

There’s just one mirror in my house I look at myself in and I think I’m somewhat attractive. Then I look at the other mirrors and my phone camera and I’m hideous. My friends shared a video of me and them . When I saw myself I was disturbed.

@medusachristo8614

3 жыл бұрын

Same.. in some mirrors I think not too bad. But in others I just want to cry when I see. Mirrors give me anxiety.

@kataraminari7026

3 жыл бұрын

me too

@zenzenkimaranai

3 жыл бұрын

@@medusachristo8614 literally yesterday I went to the mall I looked in the bathroom mirror I looked okay then I loooked in the store mirror and I looked like the most hideous monster to ever walk this planet. I hate it soo much!! No one has ever called me beautiful except family’s and really close friends but I know the way there saying it they don’t actually mean it. I’m the most ugliest person on this earth and it’s the truth😔.

@user-rb6je5ug4t

4 ай бұрын

same. that's literally why I'm watching this video. My friend sent me a video of me and I saw another picture they took of me in my swimsuit and it triggered the body dysmorphia

This is the reason that i never wanted to show an intrest on others or ask out anyone, cause i already know i'm gonna get rejected because how hideous i look.I don't have a single picture of me, cause i know imma look ugly on them.I don't allow anyone to take pictures with me.Even if someone took a pic of me i'm literally scared to look at it.23 years single, i don't even had a crush on anyone, cause i know that aint gonna happen.I love the pandemic situation going on, it makes everyone wear masks.And i love wearing masks and hiding half of my face .

And this is why I walk up to random ppl on the street and compliment them. My friends are always annoyed but I love boosting ppl’s confidence. If I think you’re beautiful i always go out of my way to say it!

@ES11777

5 жыл бұрын

Wow, that's so nice of you

@iolemaffei

4 жыл бұрын

This is so sweet thank you for doing this 💞💕💞

@jontimmy3075

4 жыл бұрын

You probably just come off as patronizing though, that's why it pisses your friends off, and the other randoms.

@goodmythicalpainus8946

4 жыл бұрын

you’re a great person for doing this

@kareemrussell4930

4 жыл бұрын

That doesn't help

Ugh it’s videos like this that make me feel so much less alone. I actively avoid mirrors just so that I don’t have to see myself. I’m glad I’m not the only one.

@fukushimadaichi415

5 жыл бұрын

Im always looking in the mirror its like looking at a train wreck or something so grotesque you cant stop staring.

@natashak8946

5 жыл бұрын

Can relate :(

@LiSa-fc5sp

5 жыл бұрын

@S p a n i e l T o w e l I didn't go to classes and sat in bathrooms or went out/ back home very often lol:d

@moreym.528

5 жыл бұрын

Me

@projectpotato1499

5 жыл бұрын

I don't even own a mirror..

I was called ugly for 7 years straight by my siblings. I started working out and they started saying: "You'll be ugly anyways" or "Your stupid abs won't show anyway". I go to the bathroom and cry there. I choke in silence so they won't hear me. I'm so worthless.

@user-jx7cz8ud4u

3 жыл бұрын

No you are not and I don't give a f*ck of what your siblings said neither should you. You are beautiful, you just haven't realise it yet because of the constant slenders .Don't work out to please others, do it to please yourself ,do it for your health do it because you want to.

@Gatoradeia

3 жыл бұрын

Lol u make me laugh,i was scrolling down comments(sad relatable).tks for making me smile,this reduce my pimple by1%

@dylanstewart5479

2 жыл бұрын

That’s a real shitty thing to hear from a sibling. But I’m sure it says everything about them and nothing about you… if they continue to be abusive I’d just cut them off if confronting them is out of the question…

@saylorgrey1029

Жыл бұрын

Wtf is wrong with your siblings. They’re a bunch of bullies, that’s so messed up

@SarahSaadsaoud

8 ай бұрын

Same

When l was 15 years l went outside by myself fo do some errands l was waiting for the bus. A group of guys stop by in thier car shouting how ugly l was. My hair was puffy curly and thick . Still is lm 51 years old now. People are so cruel but whether you are unattractive or attractive slim or overweight small or tall prople will akways criticize you. You just have to accept yourself and live your life. Well lm married and havevtwo beautiful daughters.

I've been told I'm ugly since I was young. I don't want any relationships or children to share my genetics. I have enough

@Yourownlittlenightma

6 жыл бұрын

Papi Harpy I’m sorry I don’t know you but you’re beautiful

@minstac1530

6 жыл бұрын

Me too. I actually had some boy ask my little sister to call me out to the playground just to call me ugly, literally just to tell me that. And now I have issues but still trying to get my self-esteem back.

@strangestateofmind7039

6 жыл бұрын

Me too😢 we live in a world where people are way too judgemental

@cecilial.m2201

6 жыл бұрын

Listen, I do not think you’re ugly. I think you’re normal or good looking. I think you should truly consider to have children. There is so much more to life than looks and YOU deserve to have a good life. You deserve love. Love from your children and the one you love whom will love you too. Love is the most important thing in life, not looks not money, I wish you will be love and love and get children.

@lilacpetals2006

6 жыл бұрын

@@Yourownlittlenightma not to be *that* person but you don't know anything about them, inside or out. It kinda pisses me off when people online say that to others, it get why they say it by its annoying

The main reason I think I'm ugly is because in school, others called me ugly. Then I would see other people and think they are handsome or beautiful and that I'm super ugly and that everyone was better looking. I constantly avoid social activities because of this reason. Feels nice to know that people think the same way and that I'm not alone.

@intense_vibration

5 жыл бұрын

MarioD420 even my dad said I was ugly. How can I ever be fine when that always runs through my head?

@kaishapage2443

4 жыл бұрын

@@intense_vibration you're dad is abusive then. U deserve a better father.🧔😇💚

@ninjapurpura1

3 жыл бұрын

It happened exactly with me. A lot of girls and some guys called me ugly. Everyday mocking by me. I cried several times and wanted to die and born again as a beautiful person. Or just sleep and wake up in the next morning as a handsome man. I'm too ugly to pick up girls and i feel so bad going out and see everyone better than me.

@momspaghetti420

3 жыл бұрын

i can relate. I’ve been called ugly by people at my school multiple times. it hurts and it’s something that sticks with you forever.

@spmoran4703

2 жыл бұрын

First of all they called you ugly at school . Well they have got ugly minds and ugly mouths to curse you. That's their opinion and it's not a very clever one. I have met people from school but they were not bullies. I often see a woman from my school days Anita . She was the best track athlete at the school . She goes around in a wheelchair now. Those people at school that bullied you, they have changed also, some of them might be disgusting in looks and in personality now . Take comfort from that.

It's even harder when you have an incredibly pretty sister… while you're nothing like her. I hate myself so much that I think I don't deserve to be alive. I have a feeling that I should give my life to someone else who loves it more than I do… I know it's wrong, but I just can't help feeling that way. Please don't judge me.

@Mamta22xx

2 жыл бұрын

Same. She's fuckin gorgeous and many people are like uhhh you guys are sisters? You look polars apart. And I can see that. I can see what they're thinking. Fuckin shatters my confidence

@Amelie-mk5bw

Жыл бұрын

@@Mamta22xx wanna talk?

How do I tell my parents that this video describes me perfectly without telling them that they’ve created an disgusting child

@tillthisday1286

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way

@centurionstrengthandfitnes3694

3 жыл бұрын

@arianna shay and @TILL THIS DAY!!! The video is about *feeling* ugly, not being ugly. You can safely express to them that you *feel* this way and need to get support.

@ramansangha1028

3 жыл бұрын

Centurion Strength and Fitness what

@brookemoran5739

2 жыл бұрын

same and i don’t wanna tell my parents that and make them feel like it’s their fault

@sonofsanto

9 ай бұрын

@@brookemoran5739i did to mine, and they got offended

The older I am the worst it gets!

When that woman said that she hated her face so much that she wanted to scratch her face off, that brought tears to my eyes because I think she’s absolutely beautiful. And the fact that you can hear the pain in her voice shows that she really thinks of herself as hideous. Breaks my heart.

@ace-dj1dm

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@sarah37452

7 ай бұрын

Lying and telling unattractive people they're attractive won't solve anything If society wants to help, lookism (discriminating based on looks) and pretty privilege need to stop, as well as the halo effect and horn effect.

@sealizabrown7228

7 ай бұрын

@@sarah37452 Who said I was lying? Don’t project your wack ass opinions on to me.

i’m so obsessed with my appearance. i won’t leave the house without makeup. won’t post a pic without eyeliner. my body is a different story. i’m so insecure i hate it

Yeah this is me. I cannot go one day without feeling ugly

Fearing one day that, the person you love, may wake up and realize how horrible or ugly you are... Hearing that just broke me. I've never heard anyone say that before, but I have always felt that way. I try explaining it to my husband and he just doesn't understand. He's been telling me for years that I have BDD but, I just ignore him. Today this video popped on my feed and I felt so embarrassed to watch it, I went into the bathroom where I could be alone. I actually feel fucked up after watching it though...like, is this what the fuck is wrong with me? What do I do? Who do I talk to? I've never thought Ive had anything wrong with myself, other than some low self esteem But after hearing him say that..just taking thoughts out of my own head...its just a messed up feeling.

@22NOLIMITS

5 жыл бұрын

Wtf. Your actually really gorgeous from what i see.

@Madihah100

5 жыл бұрын

This sounds like a self esteem issue. You really are physically attractive and no it’s not a compliment. Beauty isn’t an accomplishment either. Beauty nowadays is totally associated with goodness which isn’t true at all. There are actual unattractive people out there. Like to tell them just because they were born unattractive, it’s a bad thing? Like isn’t that a fucked up thing to say? Anyways sorry I got distracted. The main point is you don’t have to be beautiful to matter. But yeah anyway you are physically beautiful so idk why I’m even saying this to you

@jasmina.6181

5 жыл бұрын

This answer is a little late, but have you tried therapy? If you dont want to go there are helpful forums, self help groups. Or just exervise. It helps

@dicksdrugsanddebutantes9305

5 жыл бұрын

It’s a step towards loving yourself,

@nataleeochoa5025

5 жыл бұрын

Marie Tourniquet I felt the exact same way. It’s like he took the words straight from my mouth. I had never heard someone say that. It really just hit me like a bus; my jaw dropped when I heard him say that- Someone finally understood what I was feeling.

i've been call ugly more than beautiful in my life time.and most the time i feel ugly.i always feel a bit weird when a cute guy have crush on me and say that they admire me.

@katelinecarrasco2044

5 жыл бұрын

Sameee

@xinmath4195

4 жыл бұрын

it hurts me and they dont even realize it

I’ve been called ugly almost everyday for damn near 6 years from random girls to girls that was in my class even to this day I’m still called ugly😂😂😂 ik im ugly but it doesn’t really bother me as much anymore because not everyone can be attractive. Sometimes I do wonder what it would feel like to be attractive but I never will so I just have to accept that fact!!!

@Sualaurangelica

4 жыл бұрын

Beauty is subjective. Maybe you are ugly for some people. But, you are beautiful also for other people. I find beautiful people my friends don’t. We all are different, not ugly. Of course the are “beauty models” but these are few, most of us are normal humans that are subjective in all their choices.

@hii2773

3 жыл бұрын

There's 7 billion people in the world everyone has a different concept of ugly or beautiful just because some people find you ugly doesn't mean the rest of the world does too. I'm sure your absolutely stunning 💖

I'd just like to take a moment to thank everyone who commented and opened up. You are all strong individuals who have so much to offer the world in your own unique ways. I believe that I have BDD and it leads into depression. I feel weird going out and being seen, I feel like everyone is watching me and judging me based off of my looks. The first lady to speak in the video about not wanting kids really resonated with me, I thought that I was the only one that felt that way. I wish everyone with BDD or just self esteem issues healing and happiness. I have to work on it everyday and some days are better than others. Remember to be kind to others because you never know what they are going through. Thank you again!

@TimmYCode

4 жыл бұрын

I dont know if its you on the profile but you look very handsome.

@zz5601

4 жыл бұрын

you're so nice omg

@SonyaKhanOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

Respect.

@kyleeskreations8237

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong

Wow this hit me hard. I always feel like the ugliest person in any given room & that everyone else is beautiful and I’m just a troll.

@averagecitizen863

4 жыл бұрын

That's because we've never been in a room together...

@rOxene0

4 жыл бұрын

Relatable

@cat1312.

4 жыл бұрын

i feel like a monster with other people

@nicola2884

3 жыл бұрын

Let's all stay together then :)

@Vasileski88

3 жыл бұрын

You must be trolling us right now cuz you're not ugly at all...

I have BDD since I was in my pre teens. It is hell. I am 25 and have a relationship for the first time because before I was too mentally ill to let anyone in cuz I thought I was so ugly. One time I even referred to myself as human waste during therapy and he was shocked. A lot of people have told me I am beautiful, but I thought they were lying to me because they felt sorry for me. I am much better than how I used to be, but the symptoms are still there. All thanks for extreme verbal and emotional abuse as a child.

@ladeerachel1

6 жыл бұрын

LariBroo i feel exactly like you. A crappy childhood caused me to think the way I do and I dont see what others see when they look in the mirror.

@hanawana

6 жыл бұрын

LariBroo I’m so sorry about that mate. Best wishes for the future xx

@BeatriceLap

6 жыл бұрын

If only parents, colleagues, teachers, mentors knew how much every word spoken without sensitivity and wisdom can hurt and trigger the worst experiences years later...Coming to get you when you were hoping to be a grown up fulfilling their dream...:( I feel you!

@robbyamparo2297

6 жыл бұрын

I'm 17 and have the same exact thing feel to ugly to date even though I get called hot but I ignore them because I feel like they are trying to be nice and also look fat to myself while others say diffrent

@BeatriceLap

6 жыл бұрын

You are very young at 17, go get the help that you need as soon as possible. Don't underestimate your needs and don't be ashamed to ask for a specialist's help. Not even loving, caring friends can fully understand this phenomenon. And neither internet alone will help. Go see a doctor, it would be a shame not to take advantage from everything therapy has to offer. Twenty years ago they wouldn't even get the right diagnosis. Good luck and never forget you are not alone!

I'm tired of people taking pity on me and trying to convince me that i am not ugly

I'm ugly. I don't have body dysmorphia. The only reason I'm not happy with myself, is because of how people have treated me because of it. Or, hearing how people hate an ugly face. I can't help it. I don't expect people to find me attractive, but if people could stop disliking me because of it. Well, that would be a nice start.

@schutzstaffel6337

4 жыл бұрын

Hey

I just want to get a new face I hate being so ugly it’s so hard Edit: Y’all this was a year ago I’m happy now y’all lol

@aurora9426

3 жыл бұрын

Μ Z what did you get done?

@goobrocket8

3 жыл бұрын

@Μ Z not even surgeries are gonna help me completely

@masonr3013

3 жыл бұрын

@Μ Z oh dang this was a year ago lol I’m happy now

@clumsyme179

3 жыл бұрын

True ...I wanna get a new face

@spmoran4703

2 жыл бұрын

Did the happiness stay with you?

Sat here in tears because this is all too relatable, definitely need to watch the full thing. Thanks for shining a light on this condition.🖤

@ellajayne5652

6 жыл бұрын

Kashleigh B I agree with you on this. I definitely feel all of us as sufferers to this deserve for people to become more aware. X

@subscriberswithnovideos-ql3cc

6 жыл бұрын

Kashleigh B my condition is alike to it but different in a lot of ways. I have dysphoria not dysmorphia. And who ever has body dysmorphia I feel for because I feel like the same way but gender wise. I feel for these people even though my dysphoria is way different

@hollymcgrath1337

6 жыл бұрын

Kashleigh B to me you look beautiful! Keep your head up

@maikalnait8604

5 жыл бұрын

Holly McGrath Same

@blessingashanti7039

5 жыл бұрын

You're gorgeous though!

1 in 50.... why did i had to be that ONE

I remember when it was so severe , I would stare at my face until I got so angry that I would pinch my nose so hard and slap myself for being so ugly.

@tillthisday1286

3 жыл бұрын

How were u able to overcome this?🥺

@pawmean

3 жыл бұрын

TILL THIS DAY!!! I was able to overcome only the slapping part because it hurt too much , I still prefer not to look at my nose... I now found asymmetry in it 😖

@pawmean

3 жыл бұрын

TILL THIS DAY!!! but it surely does get better 🥺💖

@Amelie-mk5bw

Жыл бұрын

@@pawmean hey id love to hear how you're doing now

@pawmean

Жыл бұрын

@@Amelie-mk5bw hi! Looking back at what I said in my initial comment I can say I was very wrong saying that. I now accept myself a little more, though i still have some days where I can’t help but compare myself to others. I believe most of us feel like we will never be enough.

I get looks and have been called ugly numerous times. Its killed my self esteem and I am scared to even pursue anything in life. It sucks ☹☹

I don't have body dysmorphia I'm actually just ugly. I know this because people will look at me and jump and I will look at myself and jump(get scared/surprised), like it's just something I have to live with.

@NoName-mm6gh

6 жыл бұрын

LikedMyOwnComment I'm with you.

@thatsachecktalking2703

6 жыл бұрын

LikedMyOwnComment yeah same I'm just ugly and I can't stand it.

@ninafuckeodogder7044

6 жыл бұрын

Me too mate. Power to the ugly people ✊

@mihaelaiankus3201

6 жыл бұрын

I can understand what you are saying, i am not pretty either. I have a big nose and i hate looking at me from the sides. All i can say, try doing a sport of some kind, anything, like running in the morning, if you don't like meeting people, or simple exercises at home. Trust me, it is going to help you. Exercises are a perfect way to get that anger out and you will see improvements in your body, your skin will be more clean, you hair will glow more. I can do nothing about my face, but surely i can do something about my body.

@tasmin0202

6 жыл бұрын

well if you've been diagnosed (idk i'm saying it) you probably do have body dysmorphia

I feel ugly I'm 36 and never been in a relationship

@js-mg3rh

3 жыл бұрын

You're beautiful. I hope u read this.

I struggle with this every day. Each day is a fight to remind myself to keep living and try to push those thoughts away. So hard :-(

I dont look in mirrors...never did in jr high...never did in high school... I would wash my hands looking down always...as an adult...I challenge myself...I look very quickly...but the reflection I see is 👎 I change twice in the day bcuz i dont like the way clothes look on me or feel on me...im constantly thinking about my body n face... Not all mirrors are the same...10% of them ill like a lil the reflection while i pass...then ill see another n i look grotesque...😞 Id love to live on a planet ALONE...so i dont have to worry about this bullshit...

@smet4182

5 жыл бұрын

rivers nature MEE ON 💯💯😫😫😫😫

@demmemes1407

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly me, the reflections I like are those that warp my face in a way that makes it hard to judge actual proportion tricking myself into thinking I'm more attractive than I actually am. I can't cope, I have to delude myself in order to survive. Suffering is unbearable after I have to descend back to earth from my spaceship ISS DELUSION.

@safiakausar3792

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@marisolet

5 жыл бұрын

i’m so sorry you guys have to go through this, i hope it gets better so you can see how wonderful each of you are 💖

@weird9738

5 жыл бұрын

Try to make yourself better...Sports is important..go and work hard in sports im sure ull have a beautiful body then whenever u get mad or sad bcs of ur body go to gym!! And try to wear beautiful clothes and do a better hair cut

This is why it is important to not judge other people's personal appearance

I just feel like everytime I get my hopes up it comes crashing down, and I’m not really I’m not good enough for anybody you know?

The feeling of being ashamed to go in public….the disgust you suddenly feel when you catch a glimpse of yourself in the reflection of a window…right after you were feeling good…. Just….you wish you could disappear and never be seen again. How on earth do you fix something like that…

EVERYONE made it their business to let me know I was ugly. From Family to friends.

@SaithMasu12

5 жыл бұрын

Your family and friends are not worth your time then. If a friend calls you ugly then its not a friend. Its that simple.

@immir6647

4 жыл бұрын

Me too :-(

@CassieJazz96

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. That is so heartbreaking 💔

@luciletepeeu3076

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@goobrocket8

3 жыл бұрын

Tell your parents that its their genes

I really hate the way I look. But I've learned to just say even if I'm ugly it could be worse. But I still feel like hideoslly disgustingly ugly and undesirable. I generally don't go outside much anymore because I don't want people looking at me.

@quook8586

6 жыл бұрын

Donagh C everyone is beautiful, don’t be a afraid to show who you are 💓

@NoName-mm6gh

6 жыл бұрын

quook you're part of the problem

@thatsachecktalking2703

6 жыл бұрын

Donagh C if you think you're ugly then how are you capable of having yourself as your profile picture? i'm ugly as shit, and having myself as my profile pic would be a huge disservice to everyone and it would be extremely uncomfortable for me. I genuinely want to know, not judging!! I see a lot of people saying they hate their appearance but still post pictures of themselves on the net and it's like...is that not difficult? Also, you aren't ugly. I know you can't see it.

@creativeprodigies1322

6 жыл бұрын

If that is you in your profile picture-I do not perceive you as ugly at all. You have some pretty attractive features man. Keep your head up!

@BevvyIsTheBest

6 жыл бұрын

Ur clearly not ugly, and I don’t think u would have a pfp if u truly felt that way

As a person who's suffered with self-hatred all my life, I see people who do as highly intelligent and aware. They realize how much their looks make or break their social/professional status. It's scientifically proven that we like and are drawn to people who are good looking.

the comment section is comforting knowing that im not alone but its scary how we all feel the same..

I dont have horrible confidence issues, but i feel like i literally always look bad in pictures.

Positive social experiences cure this , these people have suffered trauma and have been left isolated to long the thoughts in their minds have become poison.

i been called the ugliest in the family when i was 13 and now 23 and it still eats me up .Why ???????? i rarely appear in sociol groups nomore

I really do appreciate the awareness they’ve brought to this subject. It’s difficult because people don’t understand and you feel like your alienated, I have similar I can’t stand how I look in photos and sometimes won’t even go out because I’m scared of how ugly I look and I won’t believe others if they tell me otherwise and it’s stopped me jumping into relationships. I think this has helped put things into perspective as I denied I had anything wrong with myself mentally as I was scared to put a label on it and feel humiliated and stupid.

I feel ugly too. most days I feel like dying.

@nisa-fj1rs

4 жыл бұрын

Same here 💔💔

I wish i was as pretty as other girls, the ones who wake up in the morning and don’t even have to put anything on and they look beautiful, naturally beautiful. They go to school and have conversations not having to worry about people looking too closely at their face without having constant anxiety that they’re picking out every blemish and bump on their skin. I wonder what that feels like and i hope i get that privilege to be comfortable in my own skin one day.

@divine3096

4 ай бұрын

Same!

I sometimes day dream about just cutting my face off and starting over… I sometimes feel so bad because I blame my parents… thinking maybe if they didn’t look like that I wouldn’t look like this….

@thevegantitian

3 жыл бұрын

That's how I feel. My mom is beautiful but I look nothing like her. I took after my dads looks and because of that I look like a boy. I think he had me himself.

I've always felt rejected by people and I believe it's because of how I look. It led me to just accept that I am the way I am. It was worse in my teenage years and 20s, now in my early 30s and it hurts to think I also feel I'll never be with anyone and have a family because no one finds me attractive enough. I try to look at the bright side and make myself busy with hobbies and self-improvement (mindset), it's a process and it is quite difficult.

@charlest2858

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing I'm facing too

@sarahvince1767

3 жыл бұрын

I believe I’m going to die alone, if I don’t kill myself first. No one would want to be with a disgusting creature like myself.

@malikusama8781

Жыл бұрын

Same

@malikusama8781

Жыл бұрын

@@charlest2858 hm same

@malikusama8781

Жыл бұрын

All of us ugly people need to chill together

So much kudos to the couple the guy must really love her

@Julia-zi9ng

6 жыл бұрын

Deer Heart How can you ever say something as tasteless as that?! He isn't forced to be in a relationship with that poor woman, he simply loves her and finds her beautiful. PERIOD.

@killjoy6666

6 жыл бұрын

Kocisko I don’t think they meant for their comment to be offensive ... calm down

i have this with my face. i feel ugly even though people say i am beautiful. i dont believe it. in my mind its like everyone is lying to me to be nice. on some days its better on some days its worse

@Womp_Womp266

2 ай бұрын

Exactly like this..

i remember watching this video a few years ago, and feeling sorry for them. im watching this video again today and i completely relate to everything they are saying. how different i was a couple years ago, i miss the old me.

I am hideous. I stay at home on my own, hiding my face as much as possible, because I am so ashamed of it. The thought of anyone seeing me and considering how ugly I am as they pass me by on the street just knocks me sick.

a lot of people don't believe that BDD exists so I don't talk about it so of course people feel even more isolated.. but it is a very real thing and often starts in childhood, A key classic feature is a crippling shame about your appearance - like when one of the women said "I don't deserve to be among people" they really believe that in their worst moments. I remember when I was only 7 I told my friend that I didn't deserve to come to school because of how awful I looked.. of course totally irrational but at the time I really felt like I was grotesque and should be hidden away. this is a learned behavior in a lot of ways and can be unlearned.. these days I battle BDD everyday by challenging my thoughts and fears around my appearance - facing them is the only way to overcome them and to understand that no matter how you look or think you look you still have the same rights as everyone else. It is obviously a mental illness and needs to be understood and taken seriously

@favooolosa

6 жыл бұрын

Lisa Marie thnk you

@woonko3300

6 жыл бұрын

crippling shame - so much of this

@babyfather

6 жыл бұрын

the feeling of isolation is sooo damn real. there's a couple of bdd support groups on facebook with 3k-5k+ people if any of y'all are ever looking for support/advice from people who fully understand.

@lisamarie4048

6 жыл бұрын

there is help out there though, get CBT counselling, from your doctor. it really does help.. its not a cure but it gives you the tools to battle it everyday :)

@stephaniegraham6685

5 жыл бұрын

I love your comment and you are very courageous to battle those nasty little thoughts in your head, I know it can become overwhelming, especially when there is so much going on around the world and then you are faced with the guilt of focusing on something so insignificant and allowing it to consume you. I have tried what your saying before, and it does help at times but it is truly a constant battle,. I just wish we can send a memo to each and every one of us that it is okay to be ugly! We are human beings, no one is perfect but we've all been lied to from a young age and have been misled to think that our worth is measured by our beauty on the OUTSIDE. This pressure used to be mainly directed to women, but Ive noticed that men are now falling victim to this BS. We just need to stand up against it, but it is challenging!

did she just describe literally everything im feeling in this video? yeah she did

I not all the time but feeling so alone in this world can be hard. I don't have anyone who understands me or cares about me. I struggle with dysmorphia and other mental health problems that make me hate myself and isolate myself from others. Sometimes I wonder if there's any point in living. The only thing that gives me some hope is watching BBC docs . They have shows that make me laugh, cry, and feel something. They have stories that inspire me and challenge me. They have people who are different and proud of it. BBC makes me feel like I'm not alone, like I matter, like I have faith.

I wish my parents had never given birth to me. I am ugly and my parents were ugly...that's why i would never have kids, so they would never be treated the way i was

@happyhorse1028

5 жыл бұрын

Augford P. Doggie beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What is ugly to you, may be considered beautiful to others

@astoldbynickgerr

5 жыл бұрын

Happy Horse 🙄 “bEuTY iS iN tHE EYe oF tHe bEHOLdeR”

@happyhorse1028

5 жыл бұрын

A ViRGO 🤷🏽‍♀️

@happyhorse1028

5 жыл бұрын

Brandy Nicole that is more or less what the expression “beauty is in the eye of the beholder “ means.

@Amina-yl7im

5 жыл бұрын

Augford P. Doggie oh don’t be so harsh

Omg these human beings are beautiful, honestly... Why don't they see what I see 😔

@agentsquid9079

4 жыл бұрын

I guess it’s because we tend to focus on the negative parts. Because if we ignore all the bad things, if might spiral out of control. Maybe if we ignore all the good things, we become delusional. Also from my experience, Humans don’t really see outside of themselves as much.

None of these people are ugly which is so sad!

watching this bcuz i can't deal with how horrible i look anymore its so unfair so many people looking good effortless while im here being the way i am and not living life bcuz of this

I suffer from 4 different mental disorders (BDD,OCD,ADHD,APD,) BDD is by far the worst one. I always am having these battles in the mirror, always looking "different" everytime I look at the mirror, and it REALLY sucks, it is an obsessive behaviour that ruins any chance of me ever having a girlfriend or a stable group of friends. I also constantly compare my face to other people (Real life or online) it's a pretty sad existence if you have this condition, and it has left me depressed and tearful. Really hope any guy/girl can relate to what I said, cheers.

@cprejan

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing well now! ^^~

scratch it off? thats how i feel. i always say i wanna peel my face off :(

This kills me inside literally. It pushed me to unfriending everyone. Now I’m alone and I can hear these voices more clearly.

Its actually nice to see people who are suffering from the same thing as I. I thought I was the only one in the world suffering from this. We have the face we were given and it is what it is. The only thing we can do is move forward. Thats what it means to be humans. You have a life and you are obligated to make the most of it. You existed as a human in a universe absolutely devoid of life. Your existence is worth something. No matter how insignificant, it was never zero. Live life. Move forward. What better way is there to live.

I struggle with BDD too and this breaks my heart to see :( I hate when everyone else says that I’m “beautiful” but my brain just can’t see that. All I see are flaws and imperfections.

@niyareaction1685

5 жыл бұрын

Samee it get on my nerves and when ppl say im cute front of the classroom i feel like my classroom probably thinking im ugly

I think I had that for a long time - the feeling of thinking that I was better looking than I was. I would look in the mirror and be like “oh, I look pretty darn good today” of something, and when I was younger there would be guys I’d like, and I’d think that I was pretty enough to be liked by them. But they would never like me back. I remember playing spin the bottle with my friends, and I’m surprised at how I still managed to think I was even slightly attractive when the guy it landed on practically retched at the thought of having to be kissed on the cheek by me. It was relatively recently that I suddenly realised that I wasn’t pretty. I don’t know if I’m truly ugly, as everyone is too nice to say anything, but I’m very, very plain. I think it started to hit me when I would make a passing comment about how awful I looked, and no one would correct me. Like you know how teenage girls are like “ewww I look gross today” and their friends are like “nooo you’re stunning”? That never happened to me. So now I’ve switched to “traditional” body dysmorphia. At the moment, when everyone is talking about the people they have crushes on etc or the guys they are dating, I keep quiet. I don’t tell anyone who I like, because I know their reaction will be pity. Not for me, but for the guy I might like. I know they’d feel sorry for anyone to have to know that they were liked by me, that they would be disgusted. Because who would want to be crushed on by someone as hideous looking as me? I’m not fishing for compliments. I’m not trying to get pity. I’m just saying my personal experience.

@ninafuckeodogder7044

6 жыл бұрын

Austenelia x story of my life

@hidayaamani2904

6 жыл бұрын

The first time I realized I'm not really as good-looking as I thought I was was during highschool. I was talking with my mom about a bunch of stuff and we brought up a friend who is a neighbour of mine who was so pretty. I asked her why people kept flocking to her even when she doesn't approach them, and my mom just stared at me for a while and then said awkwardly: "Well, your beauty is the sort where you the more you spend with the person the more you see it, your smiles don't hurt either." I was honestly shell-shocked since it came out of nowhere and just tore my self-confidence to shreds. I think now that she saw I was delusional about my looks and wanted to snap me out of it. Anyway, even if it really hurt me at that time and the following years too, I think right now I'm more grounded in reality and more confident about myself since I know what to expect and not put myself in embarrassing situations: No more daydreams about hot guys or expectations of getting tons of likes of my photos on IG etc. It's honestly liberating to be one with yourself. That's why I hate people who comment that 'eVeRY onE is BeAuTifuL' bs. They just make people more delusional OR in my case, plain angry.

@Madihah100

5 жыл бұрын

Shimaa Hakim you wrote this so perfectly. People should definitely think way more like you. When people stop associating ugliness with worthlessness, things become a lot more easier. I mean it’s ridiculous how people treat each other in a shitty matter just because of something as small as looks.

@edwardsgregory5287

4 жыл бұрын

This is the story of my Life .

i feel like this everyday its so draining

This whole video is making me cry… it hurts so bad that this is so on point

I feel exactly same as these people. Literally I always feel ugly af for years. I don't remember the last time I felt pretty or normal. I feel beauty is everything especially if you're a girl. I don't go outside, or talk to people cause i will cry if i have to walk to my mailbox being seen. If I must I wear makeup and good clothes if I have to go outside and it still gives me shitton of anxiety. And when I cook or something or do something to bring my mind off it for a few momments 5min later I will cry and run to mirror to stare at my face. I think I look at my reflection more than I look at my computer.

@intense_vibration

5 жыл бұрын

Lily Zhou I hate looking at my reflection. Almost threw my mirror on the floor

@xoxomangakcorxoxo

4 жыл бұрын

@@protoiboi666 ah, I lost weight and I got into modelling now. I'm now a small time model for this college. But I went anorexic not eating anything and running 2hrs a day.

@chrissiology

3 жыл бұрын

@@xoxomangakcorxoxo man, man, man... you are right when you say you feel like beauty is everything especially if you’re a girl.

@Chromedome-ss6mg

3 жыл бұрын

Your NOT ugly by any terms

@xoxomangakcorxoxo

3 жыл бұрын

@@Chromedome-ss6mg thank you! 2 years passed I decided to cry about school more haha