Secret of Happy Married Life | Sudha Murthy

Secret of Happy Married Life | Sudha Murthy #shorts #relationshipadvice #marriage

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  • @user-sg1nn1fb7s
    @user-sg1nn1fb7s Жыл бұрын

    Sudha Murthy ji is to the next level women, mother, wife, grand ma .

  • @mahasampathgowri824
    @mahasampathgowri824 Жыл бұрын

    I liked when she say.. dont give too much opinions..

  • @MaithiliKulkarni

    @MaithiliKulkarni

    Жыл бұрын

    . . . . .after giving her opinion!!! 😅😅😅😅

  • @phani123d

    @phani123d

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, She is Gold 💎 is absolute genius. Giving advice and freedom is the first and best thing for a healthy relationship.

  • @Sana-su2se

    @Sana-su2se

    Жыл бұрын

    So you are telling. Your wife has no rights in the family. You just want to use her as a slave? Don’t marry anyone!

  • @phani123d

    @phani123d

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Sana-su2se Awful. I don't think, Sudha Murthy ever felt as Slave in her family. Edit: Do you have any information to make such statements.?

  • @Sana-su2se

    @Sana-su2se

    Жыл бұрын

    @@phani123d I’m talking about Indian men who treat their wife like that. Not sudha Murthy

  • @nishalakshmi3435
    @nishalakshmi3435 Жыл бұрын

    Understanding each other in every situation of his life with him that's all ❤️

  • @anupeter3604
    @anupeter3604 Жыл бұрын

    She can ofcourse do that coz she got a wise partner. It is not the matter of many other people.😂

  • @ishanegi5738

    @ishanegi5738

    Ай бұрын

    True that😅

  • @LizaS191

    @LizaS191

    17 күн бұрын

    😊😊😊😊

  • @jeevithagowda2046
    @jeevithagowda2046 Жыл бұрын

    "...and don't give too much advice" - best advice ever, thank you!!

  • @vanibaskar1027
    @vanibaskar1027 Жыл бұрын

    He is listening to her that's why she could able to tell as a friend and as a wife . The person who is not listening to his wife alone then what should they do. He respects you that's why he is listening.

  • @geegeepa8123

    @geegeepa8123

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fouziasadiq4223 if you marry someone who has to gain your respect, then your marriage is not based on respect

  • @Sana-su2se

    @Sana-su2se

    Жыл бұрын

    So you don’t naturally respect anyone? Until they earn it you don’t want to respect anyone?

  • @phani123d

    @phani123d

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Sana-su2se Hey you were there here as well. Sadiq is wrong or probably his word selection for conveying his intention is wrong. But in this entire thread, the most I'm interested in and liked is you. Because you or people like you, we were able to understand her greatness. I like you more than I like Sudha Murthy.

  • @sadhananarendar2992

    @sadhananarendar2992

    Жыл бұрын

    It is not practical because the final decision with most of them will be the man's decision.💪😂🤣🤣

  • @eklavyas9146

    @eklavyas9146

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@geegeepa8123 so you expect your husband to give respect but dont want to respect to gain it lol sorry to say but you are nothing more than a hypocrite loser who is born to cry like most women lol cry babies

  • @arindamhalder3482
    @arindamhalder3482 Жыл бұрын

    She's a brilliant women that's for sure. A real intellect , flair of einstein

  • @NotAWhiteKnight
    @NotAWhiteKnight Жыл бұрын

    Because she is not trying to be his equal. She is just trying to become best companion she can, with respect for him in her heart.

  • @icysnow57cold64

    @icysnow57cold64

    Ай бұрын

    I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.

  • @88GrandMrs
    @88GrandMrs Жыл бұрын

    She helped me grow so much in just those few seconds ❤😅😊

  • @opneon4444
    @opneon4444 Жыл бұрын

    This is a conversation of the intellectual kind..inspiring and beautiful..

  • @shababfatima2492
    @shababfatima2492 Жыл бұрын

    I would die to meet Mrs. Sudha Murthy. I am a die hard hard fan of her's

  • @moviefantollywood741
    @moviefantollywood741 Жыл бұрын

    She just gets too much credit for things she really didn’t mean to do 😂

  • @9lirika

    @9lirika

    Жыл бұрын

    Her PR is wonderful

  • @9lirika

    @9lirika

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MaithiliKulkarninowonder she may have.... Infosys employees swear by the tortorous work they have to do compared to any other IT firm.. Just because she travels economy class once or twice doesn't make her saint...people are so gullible...

  • @ettayi987

    @ettayi987

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@MaithiliKulkarni do u want to boss on your husband.. She said ryt.. Eventually her husband is the decision maker.. Many women dont like that

  • @ettayi987

    @ettayi987

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MaithiliKulkarni giving advice is never bad!! When u think that u are the ultimate source of infoemation and knowledge and the opposite person is a fool, then its a problem.. She said that ultimate decider is her husband.. Atleast she is acknowledging him in the crowd.. Very rare to see a woman doing for hwr hisband.. Whereas yoj can find only women bashing their husbands in public.

  • @jamiedavids6974
    @jamiedavids6974 Жыл бұрын

    She has a amazing skin.. I had to compliment her.

  • @gurnoorkaur3471
    @gurnoorkaur3471 Жыл бұрын

    I think Sudha mam is absolutely correct! But I also feel that the other partner should also be enough open-minded to hear out that advice that is different or opposite of his current mindset. Sudha mam is a wonderful wife but she's also lucky to have such an Understanding man as her husband! God bless them both! 💕💕💕

  • @86trs

    @86trs

    Жыл бұрын

    very true.....

  • @LizaS191

    @LizaS191

    17 күн бұрын

    😊😊😊😊

  • @dr.kaursingh8853
    @dr.kaursingh8853 Жыл бұрын

    Same I do with my husband. Advice him but final decision is his own. Guess what? 99.9 percent of the times, he goes with my advice❤🙏

  • @hannahselvin4015

    @hannahselvin4015

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha ha! So sweet and so beautiful. This is real wisdom!!

  • @phani123d

    @phani123d

    Жыл бұрын

    99.9%...? 🤔🤔🤔 Do you really just advice..?

  • @dr.kaursingh8853

    @dr.kaursingh8853

    Жыл бұрын

    @@phani123d, yes 🙌 this kind of understanding doesn’t come in one day or one year. Life partners walking parallel in lifetime. Many things matter to build strong relationships🙏

  • @dr.kaursingh8853

    @dr.kaursingh8853

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes because we are above the materialistic world. It doesn’t matter who earn more money! End of the day we are one family including our love ablation grownup kids who are independent with their own lives.

  • @phani123d

    @phani123d

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dr.kaursingh8853 That's awesome to be above the materialistic world. I wish everyone should be like that. I noticed most of the females being more materialistic. ( They love gold more or less like their husbands and feel jealous of other ladies or families others growth). I really love you for not being like that. Still I couldn't digest that number 99.9%. When I and my kid are discussing/advising each other, atleast once in 100/500 times, he gives me some better idea or make my ideas better. In your case 99.9% !!!, which is like your husband's contribution in making decisions is once in 1000 times. That is surprising me.

  • @suniljoseph5888
    @suniljoseph588810 ай бұрын

    ❤Moorthy😅😂

  • @malek5504
    @malek550425 күн бұрын

    Best answer and advise for women . !

  • @preetibadve5262
    @preetibadve5262 Жыл бұрын

    In front of her twinkle twinkle little star 😂😂

  • @dibya8319
    @dibya8319 Жыл бұрын

    My ex used to control all my decisions and choices.. dress colour, lipstick, what food to eat in restaurants and so on... If i ever wanted something different.. he used to give silent treatment. It does not matter how much polite understanding i stay with him. He would remain dumb@ss and keep mentally torture me. Marriage cannot work one hand..you need two intelligent human to work it out. FRUSTRATING MAN

  • @contrawisecontrawise7215

    @contrawisecontrawise7215

    Жыл бұрын

    He was a perfect husband.

  • @arjunm6866

    @arjunm6866

    Жыл бұрын

    With thos minrset u can achieve multiple x

  • @bive4167

    @bive4167

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@contrawisecontrawise7215 then marry him yourself. What S.M said in this video is applicable to both husbands and wives. You don't want your wife to be controlling, don't be controlling to her. Respect individual differences and boundaries.

  • @bive4167

    @bive4167

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@arjunm6866 with what mindset? You want your wife to control what color you wear and what food you eat and should you wish differently, she doesn't talk to you? Sounds ideal life for you?

  • @RajeshriThota-xi4ls

    @RajeshriThota-xi4ls

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally relate with that kind of frustration. That mental torture led to divorce. When I wanted friendliness he said it's not needed for husband and wife to be friends at all! Yes it's terribly toxic and negative to be in such an environment.

  • @pareepatel911
    @pareepatel911 Жыл бұрын

    I'm sure Mr Murthy also gives same kind of advice and freedom of decision to Mrs Murthy. Many times wives give this kind of freedom to husband's but husband don't show the same courtesy to wife and viceverasa...

  • @remakishore2196
    @remakishore2196 Жыл бұрын

    People who have been fortunate, had their efforts bear fruit, and had most things in life going right, have the right to sit and talk 🙄

  • @nehasdrama1358
    @nehasdrama1358Ай бұрын

    Maintaining individuality while staying close together is the key❤

  • @srisarada.p3635
    @srisarada.p3635 Жыл бұрын

    Mam namasthe..your words are so much inspirational to most of the women including me..your are a real role model.🙏

  • @hannahselvin4015

    @hannahselvin4015

    Жыл бұрын

    True true...so many including me look up to her with awe and admiration.

  • @onlyhuman2936
    @onlyhuman29367 ай бұрын

    Her talking style very much reminds me of Abdul Kalam Sir. Thank you ma’am for sharing your valuable insights🙏🏽

  • @dipudtt
    @dipudtt Жыл бұрын

    Very diplomatic way of doing things. The moment you try and instill one to do the way you want thing's go wrong.

  • @maryutube2173
    @maryutube217310 ай бұрын

    Agree that you won’t always see eye to eye. Allow each other to think differently and to make their own decisions even if you think it’s a mistake.

  • @littlebirdiee12345
    @littlebirdiee123459 ай бұрын

    That is what we call cooperation....

  • @sweetyka6677
    @sweetyka6677 Жыл бұрын

    Ideal couple... congratulations 👍

  • @chilchiltv1129
    @chilchiltv1129 Жыл бұрын

    I will follow this in my life

  • @joysaab3440
    @joysaab3440 Жыл бұрын

    Mother-in-law of British P. M. is always right!

  • @ettayi987

    @ettayi987

    Жыл бұрын

    This interview was taken 2 yeras back🙄

  • @joysaab3440

    @joysaab3440

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ettayi987 yes you are right. She was a mother in law waiting....!

  • @shilpasankadal7895

    @shilpasankadal7895

    Жыл бұрын

    She is Sudha Murthy herself...!!! An intelligent and kind hearted woman ,a philanthropher. The British PM is lucky enough to be Son-in-law of Sudha Murthy. He will and should be introduced after her identity and not vice versa..

  • @AK-yw9qs
    @AK-yw9qs Жыл бұрын

    What a answer, never expected it. When you think about it, it do make sense

  • @shivam6410
    @shivam6410 Жыл бұрын

    Husband : modiji aap aam kaise khaate hai? Contrary Wife : asking so deep and meaningful questions.

  • @namratasharma8828
    @namratasharma8828 Жыл бұрын

    You inspire my life

  • @gulandamfarhat5920
    @gulandamfarhat59207 ай бұрын

    Respect ur partner's space and individuality. That's the sure way to a blissful relationship.

  • @kasturinaidu8277
    @kasturinaidu8277 Жыл бұрын

    Very correct once in a way we can share your opinion if wright ir wrong

  • @RBM369
    @RBM369 Жыл бұрын

    I'm soooo impressed with SUDHA MURTHY MA'AM G ,she is awesome

  • @daneoneeza7916
    @daneoneeza7916 Жыл бұрын

    You are very correct your decisions should be respectful But his decision is the final

  • @ushamovva3693
    @ushamovva3693 Жыл бұрын

    Wrong question wrong answer.

  • @nothingnesstonothingness
    @nothingnesstonothingness Жыл бұрын

    People who keep this thing in their heads continuously - the marriage of equals can never achieve that kind of marriage but only stressful marriage 😂😂😂

  • @aishcart
    @aishcartАй бұрын

    Paise aye to har koi Updesh dene lagta hai...aur log bhi sunte hain..

  • @geetanjaliacharya6079
    @geetanjaliacharya60794 ай бұрын

    God bless you to your family ma'am 🙏🏻

  • @sithakavalur7374
    @sithakavalur7374 Жыл бұрын

    Legend ❤️🙏

  • @nandinipatel8723
    @nandinipatel872313 күн бұрын

    Right sudha ji❤

  • @RAJMANOJ01
    @RAJMANOJ014 ай бұрын

    Maturity levels 👌 💯 🙏 👏

  • @Shivavishnubrahma
    @Shivavishnubrahma Жыл бұрын

    Excellent answer

  • @justynab2806
    @justynab2806 Жыл бұрын

    Love her advice 😊thank you

  • @piyalisarkhel5335
    @piyalisarkhel53352 ай бұрын

    Very well said mam..I am also agree with this.

  • @kanchanarajagopal1693
    @kanchanarajagopal1693 Жыл бұрын

    Sooooo sweet she is

  • @christirose6813
    @christirose68132 күн бұрын

    "And don't give too much opinion." This is a challenging thing for most wives.🤫

  • @paulsubhra1887
    @paulsubhra18877 ай бұрын

    Intelligent answer ❤

  • @inboxofsharad
    @inboxofsharad Жыл бұрын

    The lady with lot of wisdom ❤

  • @florencegajjela4407
    @florencegajjela4407 Жыл бұрын

    Loved your opinion...

  • @manjuk1708
    @manjuk1708 Жыл бұрын

    By speaking English fluently, Twinkle Khanna thinks she is asking intelligent questions. These star kids head are so full of themselves.

  • @kavitagera6101

    @kavitagera6101

    Жыл бұрын

    Twinkle is just overrated. She has nothing intrinsic really. Nothing.

  • @koelray8810

    @koelray8810

    Жыл бұрын

    She's a published author and coloumnist. She was never a star coz she never gained fame as an actress. She's extremely well- read.

  • @MaithiliKulkarni

    @MaithiliKulkarni

    Жыл бұрын

    Twinkle has an IQ of 120+ She is well-spoken, well read, has a fabulous sense of humour, and does not tomtom about philanthropy done on husband's money. More than what i can say about the other published author of English books sitting in saree. I am not fond of Twinkle, but i give credit where it is due.

  • @kavitagera6101

    @kavitagera6101

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MaithiliKulkarni 🤭🤦🤦🤦🤦

  • @jainbsjainbs
    @jainbsjainbs Жыл бұрын

    Now you got the advise and implement in Akshay Kumar, your husband’s life.

  • @savitachaugule4776
    @savitachaugule4776 Жыл бұрын

    Sudha ji .always in Sarees n thus time mogra also 👌🙏

  • @friendship8539
    @friendship8539 Жыл бұрын

    This sounds good to ears. But in real life, a spouse's decisions deeply affect each other's lives, even their children and parents are affected where families live together. So you can't stay mum.

  • @rupamchatterje1647
    @rupamchatterje16472 ай бұрын

    The point is there should be balance in relationship....

  • @sukanyasuki7218
    @sukanyasuki7218 Жыл бұрын

    super 👌👍🙏

  • @Ashwinthrock
    @Ashwinthrock Жыл бұрын

    👌👌excellent mam

  • @Dr.SG_official
    @Dr.SG_official Жыл бұрын

    How matured you are madam, you are really great.

  • @preethip3711
    @preethip3711 Жыл бұрын

    woww...." Don't give too much opinion " 👌

  • @RajendraPatel.
    @RajendraPatel.7 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing the thought of long bound ❤❤

  • @badariprasadms7126
    @badariprasadms7126 Жыл бұрын

    Final decision was always yours 😆😅🤣😜

  • @Sehat36995
    @Sehat36995 Жыл бұрын

    Yes agree i also do the same with my husband nd having a beautiful bond nd sweel relationship

  • @sairanikhatimam
    @sairanikhatimam Жыл бұрын

    Companionship is the secret of happy marriages.!

  • @Clairmindbyprajaktta
    @Clairmindbyprajaktta8 ай бұрын

    On a lighter note… Staying with your own mom

  • @saraswathikr2249
    @saraswathikr22497 ай бұрын

    Main reason for happy marriage is spending quality time with wife and kids and grooming kids to be responsible citizens of tomorrow's nation. NARAYAN MURTHY SUGGESTS 70 HOURS OF WORK PER WEEK. TJIS WILL DEPRIVE SPOUSE AND KIDS OF THEIR QUALITY TIME WITH PARENTS. IT WILL DEIVE EMPLOYEES INTO DEPRESSION ANXIETY AND DEFINITELY GROKEN MARRIAGES AND CUSTODIAL BATTLES. LET HER ADVISE HER HUSBAND ON THAT

  • @rajnikantsinha2636
    @rajnikantsinha26367 ай бұрын

    Simply, it is Sudha's luck, to have got a wonderful husband. Narayana is rich as well as a modest man. He can't dare to go against Shudha's will.

  • @sadhananarendar2992
    @sadhananarendar2992 Жыл бұрын

    It is getting a bit monotonous. Sounds very comical.

  • @neelt4975
    @neelt4975 Жыл бұрын

    That's a healthy relationship...!

  • @sharni888
    @sharni888 Жыл бұрын

    In his professional career he can ask advise to hos spouse if he wishes, but anything to do with household, ALWAYS better to discuss BEFORE deciding 🤣🤣🤣

  • @maheshmkaplapure4518
    @maheshmkaplapure45183 ай бұрын

    Amma nimma matige nanu sharnu ❤

  • @thankyouuniverse9116
    @thankyouuniverse9116 Жыл бұрын

    she reminds me of Atalji...love her style

  • @rajbollam2289
    @rajbollam2289 Жыл бұрын

    So you will advise as a friend or as a wife? Or both same?

  • @nilabmansur2331
    @nilabmansur2331 Жыл бұрын

    It works with the right person ONLY.

  • @supriyarai271
    @supriyarai271 Жыл бұрын

    Never find any of her statements relevant🙄🙄

  • @seemagrover4228
    @seemagrover4228 Жыл бұрын

    Madam i agree with you in totality jee

  • @tazeenmhatesweetmemoriesmi6769
    @tazeenmhatesweetmemoriesmi6769 Жыл бұрын

    I do the same....so if anything goes wrong I won't b responsible

  • @sachidasaru4393
    @sachidasaru43934 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nainaa3788
    @nainaa3788 Жыл бұрын

    Secret of every relation don't give too much opinion s.😘😘😘😘

  • @mariadsouza8759
    @mariadsouza8759 Жыл бұрын

    Twinkle looks more like her father Rajesh Khanna

  • @Behappy11231

    @Behappy11231

    Жыл бұрын

    In the married life journey of an equally educated couple , whose aim is to transform their fortune from middle class to super rich is destined by sheer hardwork .When the husband opts his involvement to that enterprise solely and the wife prioritise family and stays at home. Knowing every move of her husband , she has the privilege to talk, critically analyze and put her perspective .It is the right way of enhancing the family fortune as well as the enterprise they own. Definitely Madam Sudhaji has succeeded , thus evolved herself a role model. There is no doubt about it. 🙏🙏🙏 Decision makers do consult .Let others not think decision makers are introverts forever .

  • @melaniemunien6789
    @melaniemunien6789 Жыл бұрын

    It's true...

  • @shreyaswaraj5040
    @shreyaswaraj504010 ай бұрын

    Why boys / men are liking her idea so much .. literally can't be understood...😅jab aise he understandable partner chaiye jo wise and smart ho toh shaadi ke time yehi check kerlo ki how's the mentality of girl . ...but criteria for shaadi is that girl should be of good height,fair skin ,not fat, housewife sanskari jo kuch bolti he n ho toh agge ladegi nhi shayad (although it doesn't happen as phir bhi ladegi),long black shinning hair is preferable 😂😂😂 Haad hai yrr Hippocrates hote hain ladke .... Ek teraf smart intelligent wife chaiye dusri teraf jaam dimag ki jo jaisa bolte jaao waisa he jre zuban n ladaye waise chaiye jo apne dimag ka kabhi n istemal kare wo chaiye 😅 Can't understand the boys mindset....ek teraf physical appearance ko he priority denge phir bolenge akel he nhi hai ladki ki

  • @praveenmishra430
    @praveenmishra430 Жыл бұрын

    Well she was expecting a different answer

  • @hemanshushah7067
    @hemanshushah7067 Жыл бұрын

    Want to ask, in extension to this conversation, how many times you felt his decision is not correct and you are proved correct? Just curious.

  • @sanjayvaidya4925
    @sanjayvaidya4925 Жыл бұрын

    One needs to have a sugar daddy like tata.

  • @sushmasolanki3594
    @sushmasolanki3594 Жыл бұрын

    All husbands are not Narayan murti

  • @GrowthMindSet-Hun
    @GrowthMindSet-Hun4 ай бұрын

    She is such an overly nice lady, you think she would ever do anything that would be offensive to him?

  • @piak78
    @piak786 ай бұрын

    If anyone wants to do something by himself/herself then why get married? Marriage is itself a sacrifice. You sacrifice your singledom, your freedom to be by yourself. You are not single anymore. You are joined as one after marriage. I advice especially the men to not get married if they want to do things without their wife. That means letting go of Saturday night house parties with opposite gender friends, letting go of clubbing with drunken friends and so many other things. And yes always have your opinion and give your opinions without fear. Otherwise he/she will take it from someone else.

  • @balachandrap8450
    @balachandrap8450 Жыл бұрын

    Amma 🥰🌞🕉🔱😇🌙🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sachinkumar-xe5rh
    @sachinkumar-xe5rh Жыл бұрын

    What just she said is the way to control a man 😂😂

  • @komalmishra1012
    @komalmishra101215 күн бұрын

  • @aparnana7828
    @aparnana78284 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @jeevanjyoti3999
    @jeevanjyoti399910 ай бұрын

    Truee

  • @manalitiwari2173
    @manalitiwari2173 Жыл бұрын

    That's right.....don't give too much opinion

  • @saradaajarananda1584
    @saradaajarananda1584 Жыл бұрын

    On the whole ego of each individual needs to be controlled. Look at the person interviewing you has such a big ego that it clashes with her husband

  • @BeingDevil-zn1id
    @BeingDevil-zn1id Жыл бұрын

    I'd Rather Suggest Go To Any Village In India And Ask A Farmer's Wife Regarding Lifelong Bonding As Husband-Wife....

  • @Jo1975S
    @Jo1975S Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @manoramabhatkk7708
    @manoramabhatkk77084 ай бұрын

    Don't give much advice to others. U can't change others. Only to change your self. Ego hurts them

  • @Rahul_Lata_
    @Rahul_Lata_27 күн бұрын

    Maybe they fight at home we never know

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