The definition of a feminist is simply: believing that women should have equal rights and opportunities as men. That's it. Men and women should both have an unencumbered opportunity to live the best life they can.

@skurinski

4 ай бұрын

nah, feminism is toxic these days

Her posting this blurry is the cutest thing ever hahaha love everything you said in this video. You’re my fav.

@sunblazn

6 ай бұрын

Literally going to blur my camera, moving forward 🤣 genius!

KRISTIN! it made me so happy that you said that you don’t want to just talk about dating! I love the pods when you talk about your dating experiences, but my favorites have been when you talked about self, growing, shadow work and also the beginning of this podcast when you were talking about your word for the year. This is what I want more of please more of the self building. You’re awesome at it and I for one NEED it all!!!

@jessicasmith1292

6 ай бұрын

Im pregnant for the first time any advice? 🤰❤️

Do NOT Settle!!! I spent my 20's single,traveling and partying then got Breast Cancer at 34 and spent the next 10 years getting my life back physically and mentally. I did a LOT of soul searching and self work and had no interest in dating and then BOOM out of no where the PERFECT man for me, in every aspect of life, came into my life and I can honestly say I finally found "my person" It didn't happen until I was alone and found love and grace for myself and became happy solo at 46 years old...now I am happier than I ever thought was possible. I didn't settle like all of my friends...I was content being single and that allowed me to be open to just getting to know my guy on a deeper, intamate, vulnerable level then we were both like wow I am in love with everything about you...let's do this.! When you know you know and everything else dissappears.... You are on the right track with everything you said in this video!!!!! You DO YOU girl! ")

Happy New Year Kristin! JOYFUL is a great word. You’re absolutely divine and I’m sure the right guy will make his way to you at the right time. Much peace, happiness and love.😘

Hell yes, Kristin!!! 👏👏👏🙌 Let's have a GREAT year... Virgo sun, Libra moon, and Capricorn rising here!!! Let's do this!!! 🎉

Kristin! Your podcast is so refreshing to listen to. I love how your not afraid to say what you feel. People are always going to twist your words. When they know well and good what you meant. Don't change a thing! I enjoy the channel and it's brought a lot of insight to my life.

Flow and joy are definitely my words for 2024✨ I’m also getting out of the 15 year long relationship lesson phase of my life and I’m ready to just do me. Truly learn to enjoy my own company and stay grounded in the present moment 🙏🏻

Ahhh i cant watch its too blurry

@MyVlogTherapy

6 ай бұрын

Then just listen 👂

@jenn_81

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for announcing it. It’s not that big of a deal. Podcast are meant to listen anyway.

Yes Kristin, normalize loving being single. It’s so fun. Love your honesty.

You are 💯 correct. Avout all of the talking poiints and its refeeshinf to hear you be so comfortable and grown into yourself! From a mommy of 3 to another. You're doing more than amazing.

Happy belated birthday twin! January 5th is the best day of the year. Totally agree with the look at the reset with our birthday and the new year. My word has to be “present” .. to be present, every day is a present. Cheers blurry queen!

I swear everything you’re saying is exactly how I feel about my life. Zero settling still single but by choice and just hoping for the right person that I’m going to be able to have both chemistry and all the attributes that I’m looking for in a man!! FYI like you I hate when people in our lives are the worst critics almost like they feel sorry or say I’m way too “ picky “ but I don’t want to just randomly settle if the person isn’t right for me doesn’t matter what anybody else says!! Your podcast …Literally hit home with me today!

Absolutely here for everything you say! I lost my fiancé in October 2023. Together for 16 years and engaged for the past 10 years. Wild, I know! It’s been a wild ride with him and his passing. Thank you for sharing your life stages with us! You are so relatable & also informative to a girl 45 & heading into a new life cycle. So many questions I have, where can we send them?!? You’re the best girl!

I love your perspective on the right timing for the right person. Keep up that attitude!!! Faith!!!

Happy New Year & Birthday Kristin❣️🎂💕 I am always appreciative of your podcasts (even though this was a bit painful bc it was burry). Love your truth, tell it like it is, sharing tips even if it’s hard to hear advice, and love to hear whatever you have to say. I waited for this one eagerly and will do so for the others. 💕🎉

Another great podcast. Happy Birthday for the 5th! I’m on the 6th of Jan 🎉 ♑️🐐 I also feel the same about this time of year with new years and then birthday, we have quite a few life similarities actually so I resonate deeply with your views and perspective. Two of my guiding words every year are joy and freedom. Those two never seem to change, they are at the core of what I want to feel in life. I often add an extra one to carve out more of a theme for the year. I’ve added devotion this year as I’m studying Chinese medicine and need to anchor devotion into my studies. Wishing you all the best for this brand new year for you. Love the podcast. ❤🎉

I agree with you in so many ways!! Basically everything you've said through this entire podcast 🙌

I love how real she is! Always have! She’s so amazing ❤

Oh. I just heard the portion re Nick. Thanks for tackling this in the past, present. The whole male to female misnomers need to take a back seat to making sound choices for ourselves. ❤

I think a good reason why a lot of people put so much value on who Kristin is dating is due to her constantly talking about dating, men and relationships in her podcasts. Even on Laguna Beach & The Hills her sole interest seemed too be about boys, partying and having fun so it attracts superficial people. A lot of her UJ video shoots are racey, materialistic and suggestive and that also attracts the wrong guys / wrong perceptions. This is what Kristin portrays versus charity work, any interesting hobbies away from UJ, giving or caring about people in general such as what Lauren Conrad does with Little Market, etc. When she said about Sienna Miller: "it doesn't affect you so why do you care" - people DO care about things that don't directly affect them. It's called humanity. I think she finds it hard to distinguish her past/present "celeb" status/ego when it comes to relating to genuinely nice, ordinary people. You attract what you put out there a lot of the time. Good luck!

Love Kristin, and agree with what she said about just being content in your life. Have to say though......feminism isn't about being given a "handicap". It is the idea of being treated equally and fairly in comparison to men. So you are a feminist and most people are and should be! It's not a bad word.

@skurinski

4 ай бұрын

nah, feminism is toxic these days

I love how wholesome you are ❤ have a joyous & peaceful year

Having discernment and the ability to be decisive is such a superpower & I say that coming from someone who has been indecisive most of my life. I've always respected that quality in you. You know what you want. Once you've made that choice, that's it. There's no swaying. It's a strong, clear choice. I aspire to be more like that.

Really proud of you for being vulnerable but also not tolerating bs from guys(this is coming from a straight dude) You deserve the best! Keep doing this podcast! I'm learning so much from your experience!

My son started watching your show. Then he stopped and I became addicted to it. My children laughed at me. Anyway your Mom must be so proud of you. So many go down the wrong road. You have always stayed true to who you are. God bless you and your children.

It’s so crazy how watching this after you met Montana!!! ❤❤love

So glad you’re back! Happy New Year! If I had tried to guess your sign I would have said Capricorn 100%!

Happy belated birthday 🎊. My biggest red flag in men is when they drop the ball more than once. Tbh even one time is alot. I recently read this 1995 dating book called The Rules: Dating Dos and Don’ts and it’s still pertinent dating advice today. It made me realize approaching men first will hardly ever end up in a long-term relationship let alone marriage. The book says when women approach men and end up dating them the relationship will end because the guy is settling for the woman who approached him instead of being with the woman he truly wants. I always approached men first and it never worked. I will be 32 in April and I am single. I wish I had read this book years ago when I began dating. And yes astrology is real. I believe. You’re a Capricorn sun and Aries moon, very strong cardinal energy. You are very forthright and not a shrinking violet. You don’t take shit from stupid men. You’re also a Cancer rising like me. Cancer risings will be lucky this week because there will be a new moon in our 7th house of relationships, Capricorn, on Thursday and Mars in Capricorn is trining Jupiter in Taurus in our 11th house this week too. So lots of luck in dating and possibly starting to date a friend or meeting a lover in a group setting. And the 15 year cycle is ending because Pluto is going to transit to Aquarius and leave Capricorn. As for dating in SoCal, I mean I grew up here and I have met guys from other states who become super into themselves. I haven’t noticed that SoCal born and raised men are worse than guys from other states. All of them whether they were born and raised in OC like me or born and raised in another country they have all been bad😂.

I hate the misconception of what feminism is. Feminists just want equality and to not be subject to the bullshit sexist double standards that you yourself are calling out. You sound like a feminist and that’s a GOOD thing! And men and women can both be feminists. ❤

@tmbrad1288

5 ай бұрын

Most feminists tho act like they hate men.

@skurinski

4 ай бұрын

nah, feminism is toxic these days

My word is “Stability”! I moved last year, got a great job and just overall need to find stability in my new place of living and financial stability!!

Yes Kristin! I’m totally getting where she is right now. I to have been on the dating scene and I’m over it. Just the same old questions and conversations just looking for that certain something, I’ve come to the realisation that it doesn’t exist, that Mr Right ain’t out there and I’m no longer putting energy into men. I’m de-centering them and centering myself. It’s a change as my whole life as been based on my relationships with men and how they viewed me. Not just romantically but with my dad, my friends, my bosses. Getting older I am no longer the pyt. I have wisdom now, my mind and body is changing. I’m happy and if he does come along it won’t be from dating apps.

I recently got out of a relationship with a narcissist. Looking back at how our relationship first started, I realized he never asked me questions about me. And at the time that may have been one of the things that drew me to him because he was so open about himself I could ask him all kinds of questions about his family and his upbringing and he would endlessly talk about himself, but he never brought the question back to me., Which at the time I didn’t want to talk about me or my family or what I had been going through. But those were red flags because that carried out through our relationship. we dated for four years into this day. I bet he doesn’t know my mom’s last name even though he’s met her. He might not even remember my sister’s name. And probably doesn’t remember my birthdate. Because he was a narcissist. So look out for those early warning signs. If they don’t ask you questions about you in the beginning… That’s a huge sign.

My word for the year is ‘Balance’. I love the idea of ‘Joy’ though, that might have to be my next year’s choice. And heck yes to a Karma year. 🍿

Hey Kristin, my word for the year is balance.

I understood what you meant about if someone likes you, they will want to still be with you even if you sleep on the first date. It is unfair, as you said you are attacked by this. Keep it up, I also understand how you feel about your father. You will find someone who apprecietes all of you. You are great

2023 was my year of shedding and 2024 is my year of JOY ACCEPTING NOTHING LESS

Love you always Kristin.... I feel like we are long lost sisters. I relate to you so much, keeping be real.

1000% agree with your thoughts on being single. It's like you're voicing my exact thoughts.

yes Kristin speaking on astrology Pluto will be moving into Aquarius freeing capricorns of their 15 year karmic cycle congrats ❤💫

❤❤❤❤Kristin this episode resonates with me so much. I’m in the middle of a divorce with my husband that I met 15 years ago. I’m a Libra so saying the closing a 15 year cycle makes so much sense also with me. I also hope you are correct about the karma for 2024 as he is being a huge jerk, to say the least, during this divorce. Hoping for great 2024. ❤❤❤❤❤

@sugarncupcakes

6 ай бұрын

Going through the same thing

Narcissists don't change no matter if they r ur dad ur husband ur wife or anyone in ur life. NARCISSIST relationships can destroy your life and break ur heart. God bless u Kristen for standing up for yourself and speaking your truth. Self Love is the most important characteristic u can cultivate

I kind of took the media twisting your words (re: sleeping with a guy on the first date) as a sign that you're just way more relevant than the other guys who have said the same thing. love the podcast and i hope you continue to share your life with us!

I love when you go on a rant because I agree with you 💯 - 😁👏👏👏

I’m 32 and a year out of an eleven year relationship - going through the dating and non dating phases too - ❤ - also not settling - so happy you spoke on the issue of those folks around you who care more that your single than you do - I have experienced this a lot, it’s mind boggling how many friends and loved ones are way too concerned about my relationship status. Unfortunately, I think it stems from jealousy and have noticed that the very ones who are worried about my status are not happy in their own relationships/ marriages etc. However, I feel sooo lucky to be in a position to find love at this stage in life. ❤❤❤

I already have astigmatism this is what I see lmaoo. I'll just listen girl. 😂

Calm is my word! Love ya!

You have the coolest personality! You never had that laguna beach snobby attitude. That’s what I liked about you. You were more relatable to the average American than what we seen on laguna beach or the hills. Down to earth chill vibes. If I could go nightclubbing with any of you = you’re my girl!!! That would be a blast. I can tell from listening to ya that you can let loose and really live it up from time to time… aside from that.. you’re just a nice person. Great energy and vibes from you. You bring positive energy every time I hear you

Great stuff❤

People prob ask you about dating so much bc you tell the stories with such entertainment. They seem so interesting, it’s hard to go on dates to meet people, there’s probably always something new to say etc. Plus I’m sure kids are off limits and work can be too. When you tell the stories, they are so juicy for some reason! Plus your tell it like it is is refreshing bc a lot of time people are too shy to say how they really feel and don’t protect themselves.

Happy belated birthday!

They say, paying attention to the negatives protected us from danger (evolutionary purpose) These days, ignore the haters b/c they were waiting to say something negative anyway, no matter what you said. Focus on those of us who understand you and your intent. My word for 2024 is: “streamlined (simplifying my life, cutting the excess, to enable me to focus better on bringing joy and healthy productivity)

I agree. Normalize being happy on your own. Not everyone is desperate to be in relationship.

Joy and the Pursuit of Happiness

What I keep going back to is basics. It’s not my place to be with someone if it doesn’t feel copacetic. Without getting more wordy, I was brought into this World alone and I’m okay and dating is just what it is and relationships are just what they are and SINGLE is also just what it is and all deserving of celebration 🎉

@morganlsmusic

6 ай бұрын

I’m the only child and have been creative with alone time for a while so.. one or the other in my soul has never been a do or die for me - I like it all

@oooh19

6 ай бұрын

Yea it’s good to get your space plus many people in relationships become idiots and they get too wrapped up in that

KC! PLEASE TELL US MORE SPECIFICS ON THE LAST GUY THAT JUSTIN WAS GOING TO DINNER WITH YOU GUYS; HE SOUNDED SO GOOD! WHAT HAPPENED?! (PS- my word for 2024 is ABUNDANCE!)

Capricorn here!!! Yeay for ending a cycle!! Bout time for a shift and yessss to karmic justice lol

I believe people harp on relationships from my experience because being alone people are concerned about when you get older who is going to take care of you and be there for you when you are sick? Luckily Kristin has her kids and she is absolutely right, that if you are single in your 30s people find that weird and not empowering at all. As a gay(demisexual) I believe that love is special and being single is a sign of strength. People in relationships sometimes live vicariously through single people. Because sometimes their lives can become routine and boring. Sure you have your responsibilities as an adult, but being single means a lot of freedom and their is a sense of jealously from people in relationships because they sometimes miss that freedom. I am 36 turning 37 and I am glad Kristin is sharing her views on being single, dating, and overall being strong with her views!

I think people ask about your relationships because it is something you discuss often and you have interesting stories

Kristen i would love to be one your show im not famous but I would totally would love to talk about toxic relationships and I learn a lot about my pass exs that weren't good for me but love hearing you❤❤❤❤❤ and happy new year and happy late bday 💖 😊

girl, yes! i didn't even know who jeff dye was until i read through the comments and found out the name of the comedian you were talking about in that podcast episode! & i had to look him up on google because i thought - what a mess 😭 you definitely didn't mention his name, he basically exposed himself by trying to call you out for talking about him lol 🤣💀

You are so awesome ❤

Kristin should date Joe Santagato!!! or atleast do a podcast with him and Frankie on the basement yard! they are the funniest most down to earth guys and I feel like they would just vibe and have fun lol

have a wonderful week happy new year

Got a kick out Of your video today. Really enjoyed it. You seem like a pretty insightful gal. Just dont try too hard to find love. Your mr wonderful could still be years away. Chill and let things flow naturally. Only then will love sneak up and bite you in the ass when you least expect it.

My word is Consistancy !!

The blur is a vibe 😁

have a wonderful weekend

I think it’s about the circles you run anywhere. Aspiring actors, models, influencers are going to act the same everywhere. But maybe I’m wrong.

Love, less, learn for 2024. ❤

I channel & the word that came in for 2024 was transmutation❤

there are parts of Kristin that may need professional working on, her vulnerability is always capped with a cover. It was nice having Justin who spoke a bit more truthfully and why she hasn’t found a successful relationship

Can't blame these guys being worried about you talking about the dates. I know it's part of the job but I would be worried knowing thousands of people listen 😅

When your camera is having autofocus issues place your hand over the lens while it's recording then remove your hand and it will refocus

The cycle is ending for Cardinal signs - Capricorn, Libra, Aries, & Cancer signs, not Virgo (and if I remember correctly from an episode of Very Cavallari, your Sun, Moon, & Rising signs are all cardinal, so you were even more affected by this life changing transit).

Hey Kristin love your views on dating and age differences in couples I am a married women going on 32 years of marriage, I am my 50’s but I look like I am in my 40’s which is kind of weird I see younger guys staring at me I feel flattered but also a little uncomfortable I don’t know why?? I imagen you do have this happening to you since you look younger than your age maybe make a podcast about this subject?? As far as dating after a divorce I feel like is ok to be with someone and not necessarily get married I feel like men stop trying when they marry you what is your view on this, how can we make men keep trying to impress you even after marriage??

I have the same birthday as you and I hate it. I wish I thought about it the way you do. Maybe I can think about it like that next year

Patti stanger can definitely find Kristin the perfect guy. I wish she would go on million dollar matchmaker!! Patti’s got the skills. Kristin ditch the online dating or the dating apps! Patti will fix you up!

As a Catholic I would never ever give up my body while just dating someone, men want the chase, men want a women who is a challenge, men want to feel like you respect yourself. We have to be the gate keepers because men will always say yes to sex. Eeek!!Anyhow, happy you are finding yourself more and more Kristen!! #Happilymarried Word: Peace! Peace! Peace! ~ way easier to gain with God

I mean it doesn't matter if it's blurry for me I just listen in my car 😊

Action. Enough talking about it, were doing it lol #aries

Aside from misogyny I think that why women dating younger men is seen more negatively is because women mature more quickly than men so it seems to some as especially predatory because young men are even less mature than young women in general. But I've gotten plenty of judgment for dating a man 8 years older than me so I would say the judgment is pretty equal.

My man is 30 I’m 45 … def didn’t plan it … met by chance and began as friends … I don’t worry because he doesn’t belong to me. Wherever his happiness is I want him there

If you were my friend I'd probably point out that people talk to you about dating so much because in general that's what we hear you talking about

Hi Kristin 😊

Also, yay for karmic justice ❤

i would say if you want a long term relationship dont have sex right away the power of friendship is real it the foundation to trust and respect if you have sex right away i just assume you have sex with anyone right away be more selective it way more attractive

Virgo here and my word for this year is detachment. (Healthy detachment) ❤

I cannot watch this it's making me sick how blurry it is

Fuck em… don’t waste your energy on little boys anyway. And the press is the press. I know easier said than done but don’t let it suck up your energy. I think you’re kicking ass and doing it in the most amazing way! You do you!!

A large age gap will show up for sure in life SOONER OR LATER

The public just wants to know about your dating life cuz you're hot, fun and have interesting stories!!

Lovely lady and sharp

Wait, I’m an Aries and my husband and I have been together 15 years.. he’s a Scorpio though so maybe we’ll be okay 😂

You're so brave talking about this knowing they're gonna watch. 😂

Happy New Year! 🎉

happy birthday kristin you are a Capricorn year of the tiger you are a 4 life path with 5 energy. 4 attracts law and order and 5 energy are the best looking people in the world the tiger is the 3rd zodiac and they have a lot of energy and they are good speakers. Capricorns are really stubborn

@SumanSridhar1023

6 ай бұрын

It's year of the dragon in 2024, and I think she was born in year of the rabbit for Chinese zodiac (am also a rabbit). So she's not technically a tiger astrological I think.

@rickynunez3109

6 ай бұрын

@@SumanSridhar1023 in 1987, the year of the tiger ended January 29th she I still in the year of the tiger because her birthday is January 5th.

I am pretty sure one of her kids can set up the camera and make the image sharp :D

My eyes 😢

You don't look 37, more like 27. You need to share your workout and eating lifestyle hacks with us. 🍀