Scott Galloway Crushes the Anti-Trans People

-- Scott Galloway, Professor of Marketing at NYU's Stern School of Business and author of the book "Adrift: America in 100 Charts," joins David to discuss masculinity, media, politics, and much more. Get the book: amzn.to/3Xr9dmQ
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  • @marvintpandroid2213
    @marvintpandroid2213 Жыл бұрын

    Masculinity is not antithetical to femininity, strong men are pro others, no matter where that otherness comes from.

  • @davidhughes4089

    @davidhughes4089

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly, it's the opposite of being insecure

  • @mba321

    @mba321

    Жыл бұрын

    This person gets it.

  • @django3422

    @django3422

    Жыл бұрын

    Something my sister pointed out to me... the phrase "toxic masculinity" gets misused by writers so damn much and it sounds like an attack on men. A way of pointing at them and saying "you, you're the problem". But the actual full phrase is something like "the toxic expectations and pressures of masculinity on men"... and it's one of those things that really changes the whole meaning, it's actually something men are a victim of, it's about helping free men from these angry, repressed pigeonholes that we get put in.

  • @honeychurchgipsy6

    @honeychurchgipsy6

    Жыл бұрын

    @@django3422 - so nice to see someone who knows a it about this subject. I am a humanities researcher (doing a PhD in English lit ), and I am looking at how certain female writers explored what we would call toxic masculinity after the first world war. One writer in particular seems very clued up about, not just how oppressive the constraints of femininity had been for her parents' generation but also how ideals of masculinity harmed men.

  • @hajkie

    @hajkie

    Жыл бұрын

    People who usually are transphobic, does not understand that you can have several gender identities. They confuse gender with sex. Yes gender can be used to EXPLAIN sex, but its not an absolute term. It simply works like that, because we understand it to mean that. But it doesnt mean that gender means ONLY DISTINCTION OF SEX, and nothing else.

  • @barbarac9805
    @barbarac9805 Жыл бұрын

    Please give some/any example of "far left" behavior that equals far right behavior. This "both sides" nonsense just doesn't exist.

  • @Bubbles99718

    @Bubbles99718

    Жыл бұрын

    True. Love the one where they say domestic terrorism is more from the left while it's over 90% from the rt wing. Facts don't have no play with them

  • @skyra1der

    @skyra1der

    Жыл бұрын

    I mentioned that in the comments for the original episode from which this was taken. There's nothing even remotely close. I am sick of hearing people perpetuate that myth.

  • @Bubbles99718

    @Bubbles99718

    Жыл бұрын

    @@FleurPillager LOL. What's the color of the sky in your world

  • @Bubbles99718

    @Bubbles99718

    Жыл бұрын

    @@whyamimrpink78 wrong

  • @yukari2617
    @yukari2617 Жыл бұрын

    I don't know if David will ever see this comment, but just want to say thank you, David. I was literally stuck in a snowstorm in traffic for like three hours and listening to your show helped me get through it.

  • @diannabryzicki7111
    @diannabryzicki7111 Жыл бұрын

    I don't believe it's all or nothing. Understanding your strengths both physical and mental, using them to both, to provide, protect, and nurture. It is a virtue for both men and women. It's HOW you demonstrate those qualities with intelligence and wisdom.

  • @ricequin
    @ricequin Жыл бұрын

    I hate his assertion that masculinity should manifest as physical strength. Men with disabilities can also exhibit strong masculine traits of emotional strength and assertiveness without being able to wrestle a bear.

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    Жыл бұрын

    Great point 👍

  • @as_yet_unwritten

    @as_yet_unwritten

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed. I wonder if he meant strength in general (mental, emotional, and physical) and used the physical aspect as his example because they were discussing young people. Previously, I think, he’d been talking about younger guys reaching out to him bc they were offended. I hope that is what happened. A person can be strong in so many ways :)

  • @benjaminrickel
    @benjaminrickel Жыл бұрын

    This was an excellent interview, sir. Thank you.

  • @terriej123
    @terriej123 Жыл бұрын

    Why doesn’t he give any examples of how the “far left” is doing the same thing? I suspect that there aren’t any equal examples.

  • @Val_Emrys

    @Val_Emrys

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, I am getting so tired of the both sides throw out statement that never has any example in reality.

  • @skyra1der

    @skyra1der

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed. False equivalence.

  • @MarkRadcliffe
    @MarkRadcliffe Жыл бұрын

    Perhaps one of Galloway's most stunningly insightful interviews yet. But David, this video title doesn't do it justice. "Scott Galloway explains how America has gone astray" is way more encompassing. 🙏

  • @mistym0rning

    @mistym0rning

    Жыл бұрын

    @Tim DaHuman - nah, Scott Galloway isn’t saying we should force women into monogamy to fix the problems that lonely men have (which is shit that Peterson says). Peterson is waaaayyy more into the victim narrative of how difficult it’s been for men; how women in the workplace are too distracting; not to mention, Peterson is 100% anti-trans people. I can’t believe you think Peterson and Galloway have much in common at all.

  • @jainthorne4136
    @jainthorne4136 Жыл бұрын

    It's always interesting to me when people talk about the far right and the far left as if they are equivalent. In America the far right is roughly 60% of republican voters while the so-called far left is barely 5% of the Democratic party. I say "so-called" because in Europe our far left would barely even qualify as progressive. They are only progressive in comparison to the neanderthals of the far right. I would love to see the GOP disappear and the Democratic party split in half. Right now the mainstream Democrats are basically what the republicans were in the 1970's. I know it won't happen and our best hope is to simply outnumber and out vote the far right. Still it would be lovely to have two parties actually working to address our very real problems. The GOP is gearing up to obstruct and "investigate" and do absolutely nothing. We need to find ways to work around them and move forward.

  • @Doeyhead
    @Doeyhead Жыл бұрын

    I'm not going to lie. I found what this guy said, especially around the idea of "we are all Americans" to be rather naïve. We have never been more divided and to compare how unified we were in WW2 to where we are now is childish to say the least. There are some "Americans" literally trying to take away the rights of other "Americans". I think it's VERY appropriate to be concerned about this, in a manner far more associated with stomping them out then unifying with them. Because If they succeed, ill be moving out of this country, and you wont be able to call me an American anymore.

  • @Val_Emrys

    @Val_Emrys

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree. Back in the day both parties adhered to the authority of the white male patriarchy. You knew which lane to stay in and you did that with no arguments allowed. Now people (rightly) understand switching lanes is possible and one party is very loud in trying to put on the brakes.

  • @Bubbles99718

    @Bubbles99718

    Жыл бұрын

    74 million people voted for trump. With that kind of number, it begs the question, What is America? He represents the worst in humanity and 74 m are with him

  • @waitaminute2015

    @waitaminute2015

    Жыл бұрын

    In his defense, he maybe only hears the BS on line or now and again, but those of us constantly being subjected to the division in our families or communities, it's past the point of reason.

  • @jasourwnjl

    @jasourwnjl

    Жыл бұрын

    Never more divided, 1861 would like a word. I don't see where you think "stomping" is going to get us screaming at people and calling them Nazis will just make them entrench themselves more. Any changes will have to be induced from subtle techniques and influences maybe even from Trumpism destroying itself through its own contradictions. I already see a the Trump spell being broken in some. This Fall's election lit a small flame of hope.

  • @helenlauer9545

    @helenlauer9545

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeh. And what I want to understand is his obsession with masculine/feminine duality. Why is it important to preserve that? It's not a huge leap to get beyond mind and matter, nature and nurture, and he's so comfortable to say we are all Americans -- yet we can't be all JUST HUMANS. Class-blindness, color-blindness are so convenient for the affluent to maintain, and it's so convenient for the gender that has socio-economic advantages . . . so boring. Yawn.

  • @Agapanthah
    @Agapanthah Жыл бұрын

    Scott needs to run for office :)

  • @elsagrace3893

    @elsagrace3893

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah he’d be great. Another money grubbing politician.

  • @dannylifted9441

    @dannylifted9441

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah hes great

  • @krimmer66
    @krimmer66 Жыл бұрын

    Yeah no, toxic masculinity is not attacking masculine men, it's attacking masculine men who clearly believe they are better than everybody else, who believe they are superior, who believe they are right about everything.. these 2 types of masculine men are not the same.

  • @brassman7599

    @brassman7599

    Жыл бұрын

    No, Toxic masculinity does not exist. Toxic behavior is not exclusive to men. Toxic behavior is using your power or position to hurt or put down/keep down others. It may be more common in men because men tend to hold more and greater positions of power but it is by no means a masculinity thing.

  • @krimmer66

    @krimmer66

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brassman7599 We are talking about men and it is specific to men.. "Toxic masculinity is a set of certain male behaviors associated with harm to society and men themselves. Traditional stereotypes of men as socially dominant ..."

  • @exiledfrommyself

    @exiledfrommyself

    Жыл бұрын

    @Grant Kirtz Do you have real world examples?

  • @exiledfrommyself

    @exiledfrommyself

    Жыл бұрын

    @Grant Kirtz Like some mundane thing that was done by a man that was labeled by others as toxic.

  • @django3422

    @django3422

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brassman7599 "Toxic expectations and pressures of masculinity on men". It does exist and it's not something we're guilty of so much as it's something we're victims of.

  • @cerveza2297
    @cerveza2297 Жыл бұрын

    I call it quiet masculinity. One of my friends has it.

  • @elainegoad9777
    @elainegoad9777 Жыл бұрын

    Why do you have a professor of marketing discussing how women tolerate pain and trans issues ?

  • @jdice6868
    @jdice6868 Жыл бұрын

    When I worked with a woman's advocacy group assisting victims of assault and domestic violence I raised extra funds for a project to expand the advocacy to men. It is unfortunate that men who are the victims of domestic abuse have nowhere to go. If they are abused by a female partner, they often feel shamed by others. If they are abused by a male partner, they feel they are shamed for different reasons. Women in shelters may be put at risk if they open the shelters to men, not to mention the discomfort felt by women who are escaping the men in their lives. I became ill and had to leave my group, but refused to do so until enough funds were raised to see the project was well underway. A shelter is not financially prudent as it would sometimes be empty. Men need somewhere to go, but the need is far less frequent. However, a network of volunteers has been created to keep a spare room open should the need arise. I hope that more people in victim advocacy groups and social services respond to this need. I am unapologetically feminist, which means I want equality, bodily autonomy, and respect from men and women. I also want to help the men in our lives to be offered assistance when they need it as well and to feel respected when they do.

  • @WanderingExistence

    @WanderingExistence

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your work. For equality to happen we need to be able to empathize equally.

  • @jdice6868

    @jdice6868

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@WanderingExistence The work was its own reward. I miss it very much. I know that sound terrible to some people. I didn't enjoy the pain I saw. I just am always aware it's out there, and I felt better spending time addressing it. I hope men don't think all women are unaware they hurt too. Most people of both genders are unaware of how much we leave in the shadows. Men don't face domestic violence as often as women. The problem with addressing it is about money. It's not about gender. When we starve social services and charitable institutions, they can only address the biggest few issues. Raise awareness of domestic violence in general, and that there is not enough to address the problem of women who are abused and nothing for the men who are abused. It's heartbreaking, and weirdly exactly where I want to be. My son is in college and active in local politics. Even if you average 1 evening a month addressing the things on your mind with local committees, you can help. It shocked me, and I regretted that I was 37 before I knew I had some time, enough to make a difference, all along. Take care!

  • @flakeyjay
    @flakeyjay Жыл бұрын

    Been following Scott Galloway for a while now and he has become an important voice for change and progress. Great interview David!

  • @stevenm732
    @stevenm732 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve watched Scott come onto other shows recently and am glad to see him here. As a 32yo man he speaks directly to so many of my concerns. In a nutshell finally getting to a debt free position and an income of 65k a year I’m still finding myself priced out of housing and rent if I were to go for a 1br apartment. By priced out I mean rent would be at least 40% of my take home pay each month making it incredibly difficult to save 20% for a down payment on a house. I know I’m better off than many guys my age but the generation before me would have been living comfortably on my income. To even get in this position I worked multiple jobs for 2 years and moved back to my parents house for most of my 30th year.

  • @dustyc324

    @dustyc324

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm also in a fortunate position compared to other men my age. I'm 37 and got a lucky deal on a house. I'm finally making good wages after years of struggling in my field. I see other folks in a really tough spot that work won't get you out of. I want to move out of state possibly but I'll never get housing as affordable as I have know and once ou take the equity, it's gone.

  • @jerrygerard5464

    @jerrygerard5464

    Жыл бұрын

    I would really love to know how he "Crushes the Anti-Trans People" which is really just people who will admit that there are only two biological genders. David using dishonest clickbait. Imagine my shock.

  • @uncleanunicorn4571

    @uncleanunicorn4571

    Жыл бұрын

    How will the situation be improved by attacking trans athletes and destitute immigrants?

  • @roddyboethius1722

    @roddyboethius1722

    Жыл бұрын

    Thats the problem. We have all been priced out of the market by Reaganomics

  • @roddyboethius1722

    @roddyboethius1722

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jerrygerard5464 your point is feeble even by your standards

  • @rygy729
    @rygy729 Жыл бұрын

    So happy for this interview

  • @johnspivey8960
    @johnspivey8960 Жыл бұрын

    Never heard of Scott Galloway but dang. I like what he has to say. The other interesting thing about his takes on the social issues is that it is better than 90% aligned with the things that Jordan Peterson says yet for some reason the left despises Peterson. I find that very interesting. Without knowing Mr. Galloway's political affiliation I would have guessed he was a left leaning conservative and would have bet money on it. His logic seems very sound and the things he is saying (at least in this video) are very close to the way I see things and I am for sure a middle of the road conservative leaning person. The real problem I am seeing with the world is that people like Mr. Galloway are silenced because they do not appeal to the mob/extremist narrative so he would be called a RHINO if he was Republican and a DINO if he was a Democrat. I have always argued that his positions are the positions of most people in this nation. What I would call the true silent majority. Add the fact that he seems to present with a fantastic temperament and ability to speak matter-of-factly it makes for a tremendous opportunity to have a reasonable conversation. One that is generally not expressed on this channel. David Pakman's condescension and arrogance is off putting which is a shame because I feel that he does posses a level of intellect that could be helpful. However the same applies to the conservative speakers I also listen too. Even when I agree with their sentiment I am just so put off by the dismissive attitude and any sort of ability to recognize when their counter parts actually do something good.

  • @Xershade
    @Xershade Жыл бұрын

    I'm thirty, I was in school not even two decades ago. I primarily took Math, Music, Cooking, Sewing, Baking, etc. with the only exceptions being required courses to graduate. I used to get made fun of all the time for taking "girly classes" by the male students in my class. For some odd reason though the girls were more interested in talking to me than the boys who thought all those life skills classes were beneath them. Also one time I snapped when the jocks were making fun of me and said: "Yeah well I'm one of two guys in a class of thirty students." not my best moment but for some other odd reason the jocks shut up REAL fast when they read in between the lines there... So yeah I sucked at sports and all of the "male" classes of the late 90's early 2000's, but "female" classes I took helped out a lot more then kicking a ball down a field, an activity I was never going to do again outside school...

  • @Cancellator5000

    @Cancellator5000

    Жыл бұрын

    Cooking, baking, etc. should be required classes nowadays. Men shouldn't expect that all those things will be taken care of by women for them. Even if they are in a relationship, this economy requires 2 income households unless one person nabbed an insanely good paying job and so the days of women taking care of most of the household chores are over or at least they should be.

  • @honeychurchgipsy6

    @honeychurchgipsy6

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Cancellator5000 - when I was at school in the 70's the guys did cooking and the girls did wood working - but only up until age 13-14 - then it was optional and I only remember one boy doing Home Economics - because he wanted to be a chef. He was given some jip for this but only light heartedly. Everyone needs to learn how to cook, shop for healthy food, manage a home etc - as well as understanding banking and basic politics.

  • @honeychurchgipsy6

    @honeychurchgipsy6

    Жыл бұрын

    @XerShade - my partner of 30 years was an only child and learnt to cook with his mum. Both my brothers can cook, bake, and sew - one of my brothers is a car mechanic - so not exactly a wimp - and he wants a copy of Mrs Beeton's book for Xmas (she was a Victorian cookery writer - although it has recently come to light that her husband was the actual cook) By narrowing what it means to be a man or a woman to clearly defined parameters we limit our experiences as human beings.

  • @brozius

    @brozius

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Cancellator5000 In the Netherlands I went to a technical school and in the basic lessons there was also lessons about cooking, I loved these classes.

  • @wet-read

    @wet-read

    Жыл бұрын

    I heard that Bobby Flay wanted an Easy-Bake even for Christmas one year when he was quite young. His father didn't like that notion, thinking his son should get a G.I. Joe instead. A compromise was reached and Flay got both!

  • @WanderingExistence
    @WanderingExistence Жыл бұрын

    This is an amazing interview. Scott is a great reflective thinker. Thank you, David.

  • @scottg2946
    @scottg2946 Жыл бұрын

    David, sir, this is literally the best video I've ever seen since I started checking out various youtube videos six or seven years ago, and I spend more time on your channel than any other, by far. Scott Galloway in my estimation is the most articulate and on-the-mark commentator of our era. Having the two of you together is just unbelievably good fortune. Btw, I have Scott's book, America Adrift, and I cannot recommend it enough. Yes, it's 100 insightful charts, but there's also a lot of excellent context and set up, and they're organized in a very logical group of sections that focus in on specific societal ills. Thank you so much for having Prof. Galloway on!!

  • @madelyn5376
    @madelyn5376 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your calm rational guest, enjoyed the video💖

  • @madzmidz
    @madzmidz Жыл бұрын

    Need more people from left/liberal side offer healthy perspective of masculinity without degrading men or women.

  • @wrenlittle8826
    @wrenlittle8826 Жыл бұрын

    Great interview. Very insightful.

  • @JAGRAFX
    @JAGRAFX11 сағат бұрын

    David; you can kill the "beeps" being used for partial purification. We feel that most of your audience knows exactly what Scott is all about. Thanks. 😅

  • @reallydoe2052
    @reallydoe2052 Жыл бұрын

    I hate when people don't understand what toxic masculinity is he should learn it

  • @jujutrini8412

    @jujutrini8412

    Жыл бұрын

    I know, it’s so annoying as it is not in the least bit hard to understand.

  • @reallydoe2052

    @reallydoe2052

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jujutrini8412 Tru they act like people hate masculine and toxic masculinity is just regular masculinity they are so slow Dave should have corrected it

  • @terrifrances6290

    @terrifrances6290

    Жыл бұрын

    Obviously youre the one who cant comprehend this level of intelligence. Your loss.

  • @reallydoe2052

    @reallydoe2052

    Жыл бұрын

    @@terrifrances6290 tell me what I don't get

  • @reznerPTV
    @reznerPTV Жыл бұрын

    The title doesn’t do this interview justice, Scott touches on soooo many topics with amazing insight. I’m definitely buying his book

  • @markeagling2897

    @markeagling2897

    Жыл бұрын

    It was a dreadful title, that completely misrepresented what Scott Galloway had to say.

  • @karlssmith92
    @karlssmith92 Жыл бұрын

    The channel Cinema Therapy do an excellent video on the topic of toxic male masculinity, acknowledging it as something that exists but distinguishing between positive and negative traits.

  • @GeoGuy388

    @GeoGuy388

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that was probably the one area where I disagreed with this guest. I think "toxic masculinity" does exist, but that doesn't mean all masculinity is inherently toxic or negative. I think he made a great point about how de-escalating a bar fight is one of the best/most constructive expressions of masculinity. If you wanted to directly contrast that with toxic masculinity--it would be the person who seeks out and starts a bar fight just to prove something to friends and/or a romantic interest.

  • @dago87able

    @dago87able

    Жыл бұрын

    @@GeoGuy388I don’t think he said toxic masculinity doesn’t exist, rather more or less what you’re saying.

  • @vietnamd0820

    @vietnamd0820

    Жыл бұрын

    @@GeoGuy388 I formulated my own definition of “toxic masculinity” to mean someone who believes initiating violence makes someone manly…and I came up with that definition after someone at a bar challenged me to a fight simply because he believed “fighting makes you a man”…the example you gave of toxic masculinity really resonates with me

  • @karolinawww6834

    @karolinawww6834

    Жыл бұрын

    Cinema Theraphy is brilliant!

  • @terriej123
    @terriej123 Жыл бұрын

    I actually loved the end there though. Gotta face the facts. People get it. I think they sense that things are wrong. So it’s nice when someone lays it all out like that. I don’t agree with everything that Scott Galloway says. But he comes in good faith & that’s what’s needed. He would probably consider me “far left” though, so I doubt that he’d be willing to engage with someone like me, without all of the mocking &/or false equivalencies. But then again, I don’t even know what he means by “far left”. If wanting everyone to have healthcare is that, then I’m definitely far left.

  • @JFromAcc
    @JFromAcc Жыл бұрын

    Love Scott Galloway. These are two men America can look up to.

  • @Gerryjournal
    @Gerryjournal Жыл бұрын

    Men might ask the question 'What is a woman' which be reversed with equal ignorant, bigoted and absurd answers. The whole point about being human is continued advancement on all levels.

  • @dwightschrute47

    @dwightschrute47

    Жыл бұрын

    Adult human female

  • @biggtrux
    @biggtrux Жыл бұрын

    I could never undertsand people hating other people for living a lifestyle that effects them in no way whatsoever. It's just pointlessly stupid. Just think about how you'd feel, just trying to live your life, and for some reason this @sshole hates you so much they actually want you dead.The biggest haters seem to be the deepest in the closet and filled to the brim with self loathing. Or is it jealousy that someone else has the courage to live they way they WANT to live?

  • @Bubbles99718

    @Bubbles99718

    Жыл бұрын

    Insecurity, stupidity and religion pushing their ways on everyone is a powerful force

  • @lots3799

    @lots3799

    Жыл бұрын

    We went from closet homosexuality ,to promoting it like a holiday or mouthwash. Pins,buttons, parades, t shirts, flags. Ok, whether it be trans or gay, I won't say what I believe is right or wrong. But why do people have to tell the whole world their sexual preference, and try so hard to sell the idea and convince everybody its as normal as Apple pie?. Why not just shut up snd do it, and stop trying to market it like cocaine....

  • @lots3799

    @lots3799

    Жыл бұрын

    Well ,as long as you really believe that. I just hope I don't live long enough to see people having sex with children or farm animals. Because now that a percentage of society not only thinks it's ok to remove your sexual parts from your body that God created you as ,and trade them like baseball cards ,we also have accepted gay marriage and sexual relationships between two same sex people. It sick as what that sounds like , the children and farm animals. Thats how a percentage if people feel about the other. Some people believe gay people, or removing your pens and trading it for a vagina is abnormal.

  • @Bubbles99718

    @Bubbles99718

    Жыл бұрын

    @Mountain Hacker Yeah, they should apply for tax exempt status....

  • @MrBennie2069
    @MrBennie2069 Жыл бұрын

    That was awesome. I love David and I love Scott and I wish this was 4 hours long.

  • @DanTheMailman330
    @DanTheMailman330 Жыл бұрын

    Holy shit, he's on fire. I have read the book.

  • @digydog205
    @digydog205 Жыл бұрын

    All my friends are Republican. I refuse to let the media get into my personal life, and shape my friendships. When I hear bs I say something, and use rhetorical logic to help shed light on complicated issues

  • @philliphessel6788
    @philliphessel6788 Жыл бұрын

    I greatly enjoyed Galloway’s business commentary that used to appear as ads on KZread. This is my first exposure to him talking about gender issues - or about anything in however many years - so I’m glad David got to do this interview.

  • @justanotherskeptic1113
    @justanotherskeptic1113 Жыл бұрын

    Fascinating interview David! I am left with more questions. Trying to get ahold of his book now. Would love to hear your take on the book at some point.

  • @nicholasbestevaar6064
    @nicholasbestevaar6064 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely frickin loved this interview. Thanks David and Scott.

  • @sleekblackroadster
    @sleekblackroadster Жыл бұрын

    He's usually pretty good but never heard him talk about people in need of health care or the disabled he just kind of puffs up about how all men should be strong and row boats which is unrealistic

  • @saratemp790
    @saratemp790 Жыл бұрын

    This guy needs to look at movies before the 1950s. Society was very feminine back then. The men acted very polite and classy. At least the upper class did.. And that seems to have been a very successful time for America. So it's maybe not that we are becoming less masculine, we are going back to a normal balance.

  • @qjtvaddict

    @qjtvaddict

    Жыл бұрын

    Pink was manly before

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 Жыл бұрын

    Great interview

  • @sarahengert4541
    @sarahengert4541 Жыл бұрын

    Mother of two boys here, not surprised to hear this man has the support of moms ❤ my boys are little. Hoping his work helps.

  • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
    @nicholasschoonbeck6866 Жыл бұрын

    Its a weird feeling that I agree with some of what he's saying, but I would say that its still too "toxic" for me. I don't need do have big dick energy or think about how I could murder someone. Those are actually the antithesis of celebrating masculinity & feminity as something for everyone. Yes, its better & more impressive to be able to deescalate a heated situation, but if part of that if making sure everyone there knows you can kick the shit out of them, you're starting with a basis of "I could kill you, but I'm going to talk" but its always important to be aware of the unspoken parts of what we think & say, & the dark reflection of being a tough guy is that you're suggesting they should listen to you "or else" as opposed to using your mind to be able to analyze, empathize & be compassionate when finding solutions. Its interesting to me how even the better men still can't really let go of being toxic.

  • @dago87able

    @dago87able

    Жыл бұрын

    I get what you mean, but I doubt that if you encounter someone like Scott Galloway in a bar or elsewhere what transpires is “I could kill you, but I’m going to talk” or that you should listen to him “or else”. What he’s saying I think is precisely that he rather prefers using his mind, analyzing, empathizing and being compassionate.

  • @django3422

    @django3422

    Жыл бұрын

    I think that some of this is your own interpretation, rather than a dark reflection. Saying it's about "listen to me or else" is presuming the intention of the individual. If I'm trying to de-escalate a potentially violent situation there's a good chance that I'm dealing with someone really in the mindset to listen to reason right now. So some of that de-escalation is physical, such as how I position myself between them and their intended target, how I hold myself to appear in their eyes etc. I'm not thinking "listen to me or else". I'm thinking and trying to project this idea that "I'm not just gonna let you do this". And I think it works a lot of the time, because it forces them to start reasoning in their head. That suddenly what seemed like easy pickings is now going to be hard, it's not what they wanted at all. Before, when they were too angry and too sure of their own capabilities, they wouldn't listen. Now they're re-assessing their capabilities and that's sapping their anger. Now they're starting to calm down because they WANT to find a way out of this. You could argue that the end result is the same. Maybe that's true. But rather than me putting myself out there with an intent of "I could kill you so listen to me or else" I'm trying to do so with the intent of "I will protect and I won't let you push people around". In an ideal world, none of it would be necessary. But we don't. My town has a big problem with unpredictable, aggressive and often violent skagheads. I've interceded more than a dozen times in situations they've created but I've never once actually had to fight them. So my experience is that it's both needed and that it works.

  • @tinat.4508
    @tinat.4508 Жыл бұрын

    Toxic masculinity is perverted!

  • @carolmckee8456
    @carolmckee8456 Жыл бұрын

    I think what Mr Galloway calls 'masculine attributes' are more 'civilized human' attributes. His definition of masculinity might itself be a problem for men who aren't big and strong or able to hypthetically beat the crap out of someone in a bar. He seems to have a fine general philosophy otherwise.

  • @AprilRules
    @AprilRules9 күн бұрын

    Great to see two men say the end of sex segregated sports, locker rooms, prisons, rape shelters and psych wards isn’t a real problem and we just need to be more accepting. They’re so brave.

  • @jph2455
    @jph2455 Жыл бұрын

    Got sober this year … no drugs, weed, alcohol, or cigs. Working out at least 4 days weekly. Life changing

  • @yvonneplant9434
    @yvonneplant9434 Жыл бұрын

    Can he talk about why most criminals are male?

  • @that__girl_from

    @that__girl_from

    Жыл бұрын

    Not defending criminal men but women get a pass a lot of times cops overlook criminal females a lot my exwife would be serving life in prison if she was a male but she's a white female they finally gave her 5 years in prison after an home invasion outta state lol but before that she stole cars sold drugs u name it slap on the wrist if they didn't just let her go at the seen

  • @KaliFissure
    @KaliFissure Жыл бұрын

    Here in Canada I remember back in the 90s there being a movement towards male healing. "Absent Fathers, Lost, sons" I think was one of the early books. I have a video on this. How the protective outward energy which protected villages historically have, because there is no "outside" to countries anymore, become vacuoles. Attacking parts WITHIN the social body rather than protecting from dangers of nature.

  • @kevichiking3563
    @kevichiking3563 Жыл бұрын

    21:36 Finally!!! A boomer admitting the truth.

  • @Chewmbacka
    @Chewmbacka Жыл бұрын

    Very insightful thank you.

  • @PonderLust
    @PonderLust Жыл бұрын

    we will not make progress ending sexism/genderism while we so desperately hang on to the concept encapsulated by the words masculine and feminine

  • @vivisimonvi
    @vivisimonvi Жыл бұрын

    Great interview!

  • @yippieskippy2971
    @yippieskippy2971 Жыл бұрын

    TLDR: masculinity & femininity are weird social constructs.

  • @OliverSolorzano
    @OliverSolorzano Жыл бұрын

    Send this guy to congress!!!

  • @movingpicutres99
    @movingpicutres99 Жыл бұрын

    Masculinity? Education used to be aimed at raising well-rounded gentlemen. Physical, mental, emotional/spiritual balance.

  • @digydog205
    @digydog205 Жыл бұрын

    The rate of male college graduates compared to female ones doesn’t mean men used to be more motivated; it really shows how much more capable women are, especially when they’re encouraged to really go out and prove themselves. Rising tuition, and general lack of career opportunity is much more likely to stop men from going to college. Also, men feel more capable without a degree (not that they are), but women feel much more of a need to be educated to function even in our ‘progressive’ society. Also women are generally higher IQ, so that could be a very basic explanation to all of that 😂 The manliest thing you can do is break up a fight, I don’t think there’s really a bigger display of dominance 💪💪💪

  • @russswanson3820
    @russswanson3820 Жыл бұрын

    Good job, Scott. Glad to see your star on the ascendant.

  • @roarblast7332
    @roarblast73329 ай бұрын

    The end of this interview has me shook. That was a startling admission.

  • @greggmic6166
    @greggmic6166 Жыл бұрын

    Great interview. Professor Galloway always drops the knowledge.

  • @bpicc5250
    @bpicc5250 Жыл бұрын

    Scott is the man!

  • @SamGarmider
    @SamGarmider Жыл бұрын

    So many important issues condensed into such a short time frame. Great interview, need something longer to cover all of these in more depth.

  • @alrightyru
    @alrightyru Жыл бұрын

    Feb 2, 1984 ..he's 38. Also, Duran Duran was on the cover of Rolling Stone 😘

  • @kushclarkkent6669

    @kushclarkkent6669

    Жыл бұрын

    Didn't expect a Duran Duran reference on this video lol. Gotta put em on now 😁

  • @ivoferin8176
    @ivoferin81765 ай бұрын

    gsus couldn't be more synthetized than this... what a brilliant intervention. The western world issues in under 25m.

  • @adipraja9835
    @adipraja9835 Жыл бұрын

    great interview, two of my most favorite youtubers

  • @mikelofky587
    @mikelofky587 Жыл бұрын

    supporting women rights is NOT anti trans

  • @TheObliviousi
    @TheObliviousi Жыл бұрын

    Hope to hear/read about the affect of tropes being misunderstood and overused. I think 'titles?' like TM and feminism ect.. should be defined clearly before Every televised conversation. This conversation that isn't pointing fingers... .these kinda guys, I want to hear

  • @jaidev777
    @jaidev777 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the very few people who is able to do both things at once: empathize/talk about male victimhood, and _not_ be misogynistic. Unfortunately while feminism is rife with interlaced or even blatant misandry, it is frustrating to find that much of the men's rights community has the same problem in the opposite direction, and many of its speakers interlace some amount of misogyny and become yet another content creator playing to a specific audience because they end up chasing views, likes, subscriptions and donations. The other thing is the very sad fact that yes, even merely talking about male victimhood is treated as being misogynistic by itself, and it really shows that yes, men are in fact being treated as pretty much worthless by default. The other day when Scott Galloway was on the Lincoln Project and the topic shifted to the mere recognition of male suffering, the comments were flooded with gleeful mockery of male victims. As if male victims should be met with mockery unlike female victims who should be met with sympathy and empathy and strength-building. If just the mere mention of male victimhood triggers mockery and cruelty towards them, it says something about what society really thinks of men - and sure, it's really really easy for anyone to begrudgingly pay some quick "I didn't say all men are bad" lip service caveat to their overall indifference to men. It's treatment overall across the long run that tells the truth.

  • @malizee2264
    @malizee2264 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome guest, David! Thank you❤

  • @avedic
    @avedic Жыл бұрын

    Scott Galloway would make a TERRIFIC president. Seriously. Of course, he would never run.....because he's sane, has a life, isn't a sociopath, and has better things to do with his time. But.....this country needs someone like him. He's smart ethical and somehow capable of talking to all people without making them feel left out. He's good....really good.

  • @Damacles9
    @Damacles9 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful interview!

  • @joemarcou7335
    @joemarcou7335 Жыл бұрын

    wow what a twist at 6:55 to 7:01

  • @spiffyfitz
    @spiffyfitz Жыл бұрын

    13:12 Finally someone says it. What a poignant chat. Enjoyed.

  • @digydog205
    @digydog205 Жыл бұрын

    Loved the interview, except the five second bill Maher reference 😂

  • @normagrimstad8869
    @normagrimstad8869 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a feminist all the way, and I agree with his definition of masculinity.

  • @rpavlich
    @rpavlich26 күн бұрын

    Ok..starting to love Mr. Galloway

  • @tonyl9636
    @tonyl9636 Жыл бұрын

    Can we please get some likes for changing the title of this video? Seriously, I understand that certain things get clicks, but this is a fucking phenomenal interview and that title is not going to allow it to reach the people who need it the most. Seriously, this could go viral it's so good. But that title is honestly garbage and it will stop thousands of people from clicking the video. I'm 100% on the side of trans people, it's just not a title that reflects the depth and gravity of the interview. This is literally our version of "owning the libs" and I have higher standards and expectations for David's show, frankly. Let's not turn into that KZread channel. Edit. It's also worth noting, based on what he said in this very interview, Scott himself would probably be disappointed in this title. Calling it bullshit likely.

  • @fotochani
    @fotochani Жыл бұрын

    Very good information! Thanks

  • @mannersmatter6773
    @mannersmatter6773 Жыл бұрын

    You can contact that to young men and women being depressed and angry

  • @mannersmatter6773
    @mannersmatter6773 Жыл бұрын

    Love this guy

  • @krimmer66
    @krimmer66 Жыл бұрын

    An honest conversation about trans in sport would be good because people are ignoring that some trans men are ranking in the top 5 in men's sports and it's been made clear that there are more men in sports which is part of the reason trans women rank slightly higher in women's sports! Not all trans women are winning in every sport. So are men gonna start crying when a trans man finally wins in a male sport?

  • @AJ-hc5zo
    @AJ-hc5zo Жыл бұрын

    Great conversation. However, I feel like the problem with the concept of masculinity is that if you strip away the "superficial" aspects (e.g., men traditionally wore pants) there isn't really that much coherent left over. Like being aggressive or stopping aggressive are both masculine? Or is just having the capacity for physical aggression masculine? I think it is a word that actually is not very helpful.

  • @johnkoch8566
    @johnkoch8566 Жыл бұрын

    Outstanding guest appearance. I appreciate his insight, thoughtfulness, and honesty.

  • @fallenembers2518
    @fallenembers2518 Жыл бұрын

    Such a direct, honest and excellent interview!

  • @ranthony2714
    @ranthony2714 Жыл бұрын

    Great interview. I wish more people would use their brain and discuss issues using Scott Galloways non partisan refections

  • @Indy29045
    @Indy29045 Жыл бұрын

    Great interview! 👍

  • @topdilllin
    @topdilllin Жыл бұрын

    Wow! Great crossover of pods / voices i listen to, on the regular (TDPS + Pivot)... good stuff !!

  • @stelladonaconfredobutler9459
    @stelladonaconfredobutler9459 Жыл бұрын

    scott is excellent

  • @mosheedy9862
    @mosheedy9862 Жыл бұрын

    This guy is on the money.

  • @elainegoad9777
    @elainegoad9777 Жыл бұрын

    David get some trans guests on your show like Katie Montgomerie and others from The Line on You Tube the show: Trans-Atlantic, to discuss the "trans" issues".

  • @wagglebutt
    @wagglebutt Жыл бұрын

    Any way you could do your bleeps with a less aggressive sound?

  • @nancymarble8659
    @nancymarble8659 Жыл бұрын

    This whole conversation is mired in binary presuppositions.

  • @helenlauer9545

    @helenlauer9545

    Жыл бұрын

    You got it in ONE. WHY???

  • @zakaruahbones3142
    @zakaruahbones3142 Жыл бұрын

    As a native Australian coming from a matriarchal culture, continuous and stable for over 50,000 years, these discussions are strange to me. If a stable, peaceful culture is the goal, the successes of native Australians is often overlooked. For over 50,000 years, we had; no slavery, no prejudice against gay or trans, strong notions of individual consent and autonomy, a blind legal system, no malnutrition, communal care for the disabled and elderly, etc, etc.

  • @ikbo
    @ikbo Жыл бұрын

    That was a treat. Thank you!

  • @bianca-sg8zq
    @bianca-sg8zq Жыл бұрын

    Interesting interview. Thanks David and Mr. Galloway!!👍🏼

  • @saraa3248
    @saraa3248 Жыл бұрын

    What if 'men's' sports and 'women's' sports were replaced by height, muscle mass, and weight categories? On the surface, that seems like it could be more functional.

  • @that__girl_from

    @that__girl_from

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah some transgender women in sports is complicated subject. I'm a trans women and I'm way bigger then Leah thomas but I don't want to play sports and I'm not the athletics type but there are also trans women who are tiny I have friends like that she is transgender 5 foot tall about 100lbs and trans women who were on blockers as kids so not sure what's fair for everyone great suggestion.

  • @qjtvaddict

    @qjtvaddict

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes some women workout so much they end up being the same weight as some men 200lbs+ muscular women exist and these women are not fat at all.

  • @robb4964
    @robb4964 Жыл бұрын

    This dude is on point.

  • @dbunik44
    @dbunik44 Жыл бұрын

    he has a business degree...does he have a background in either biology or endocrinology ?or even sociology for tgat matter...I worked in a factory for 37 years and I have google, how does that make me an expert?

  • @mikerobinson7206
    @mikerobinson7206 Жыл бұрын

    We also need to get it out of our heads that lack of a typical 4-year degree = loser. By far, some of the brightest, most industrious people I know don't have degrees, because they *know* the obstacles they have to surmount, educationally and culturally. So many of those with degrees seem to approach life like a videogame: "Okay, I'm hungover, but I beat the levels, so gimme my points." And then don't continue educating or bettering themselves.