This is me and it disgusts me. I am telling myself that I've moved on but the truth is I haven't. My logic makes sense but my feelings and energy doesn't. I know his behaviour wasn't good enough but I'm not actually choosing to be happy in this moment and I don't know how to. You were genuinely spot on so thank you. I do know this and I know I'm the one keeping me stuck but I haven't figured out how to stop that...

@tarotbygabrielle

2 ай бұрын

First and foremost, it's so incredibly important to give yourself more grace. You're just looking to be loved in the way that you deserve, you just don't know exactly how to go about doing that. But it starts with loving yourself regardless of the things you don't like. We're so quick to be compassionate to others when they're flawed, however, we're "disgusted" with ourselves when we are flawed. Directing that love and compassion back to yourself is where the healing happens, and as you heal, you won't be pulled to the same connections that made you need to heal in the first place. The part of you that is looking for love through this person is ultimately looking to be loved by you. You're not doing anything wrong - you're just needing to be a little more gentle with yourself❤️

@user-cf6mb6ke2i

2 ай бұрын

@@tarotbygabriellehow do I view the extended version of this ? I am not wanting to see the other signs just the extended of this one x x

@tarotbygabrielle

2 ай бұрын

All of information on the extended reading is in the description box of this video!

I felt like this two months ago but not now. Let go, forgive & give yourself grace. I choose to not wait on anyone... working on myself and myself alone.

Great reading Gabrielle!!! This definitely resonated with how I felt 10-12 months ago… have done a lot of healing since then and no longer feel like I’m waiting… still healing and learning that this connection was put on my path to make deep realizations about my over-giving ways and my lack of clear boundaries… hard lesson, but needed!!! 🙏❤️

This was eye-opening. I left him 8 mos. Ago, and have been healing the trauma of the true realization of the purpose of this time of my life.😢

What a superb reading...thank you so very much!

Bang on. He's dismissive avoidant. He's running from some hurt in his past that I don't know. It makes me so sad, because I could support him if he'd let me. But he has to be willing to step up & let me. And if I went to him (again), he just runs... I'm notcwaiting but getting on with life; he did give me no choice, but I'm not chasing, miserable or giving away my power, or indeed knowing what the answer is.

Thank you so very much for providing me exactly what I know and the interesting part is that I’m not waiting- I’m just really disappointed because I think their amazing and it’s sadness me that they haven’t got capacity for anything- not even themselves. Not only am I moving on I’m learning and getting insight into what I need to know more about me in order to heal and gain from this experience. I do not wish them ill but i can’t in all honesty say I think they’re a wonderful person for engaging me in a relationship for so long only for them to never ever be able to love me back.

So true.. it is time 🙏🏾

Wow, I really felt this one. Such clarity. Thank you, I’m truly grateful!

This is me all over… made me realise how one sided our relationship was.. he left a couple of weeks ago and I have had hope but after watching you today and a big chat with my mum, today is a new day.. time to focus on me, thank you

I have been searching for months to understand this situation. Thank you does not express it enough.❤

@user-cf6mb6ke2i

2 ай бұрын

Agreed. I think this gave me more closure then they did or ever could due to their stunted emotional growth and capacity to understand

I feel this.. I don’t think he knows I am waiting..

For a general reading, this one was so personal for me.., sometimes we need to deal with this type of relationships.., to understand in a profound way, that we have so much love to give and feel for someone, that all this pain and waiting, wake up something deep inside of us, that only under this conversation, otherwise, we wouldn't know the true meaning of Love and surrender..! I am still learning.., I am still loving..! is okay.., the gift is not what we receive from them.. is what we feel for them.! at the end.., love will win, and that's exactly.., what we have in our hearts.! Love and light everyone... ❤&🌟

This is me 1000%! He moved out a year ago in May and im still very much in love with him. He breadcrumbs me still. I allow all of it. My therapist said it best im addicted to him like someone is addicted to a drug! WOW! His behavior is so on and off. "Im trying to date someone so i have to be good" Who he was at the beginning is not who he really is. I feel so broken 😞

😭 made several steps to move on but am having trouble opening up to new people and keep getting jealous ideations about whatever they may or may not be doing, definitely feels like a primal sort of trauma bond

@ai_bieu

2 ай бұрын

just made it to the end of the reading. you're right it's not about them 🙏

Almost exactly what occurred between us.

That was triggering cos that’s me lol thanks for the clarification though! 🙏🏽✊🏽❤️

Wow this is so accurate

She told me she was working on her trauma (sag) I did believe we were a TF and was told we were too and because I believed it was divine connection so it was worth the time and effort to have a connection that is from higher than the 3d

Really great read ✨👌🏽 new subscriber Thankyou 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

Thankyou

Very accurate. Thank you. But I am done and not waiting. After a year apart, the best he could do was to ghost and run away when he was confronted with his deception. My cut-off is strong. I will not chase. If he will not do the work, my focus is elsewhere. He had a third-party person with whom he played toxic, petty games, each trying to induce jealousy in the other. I was just being used. I have seen truth with 20/20 vision. He was a waste of my time. He is stuck and immature. So is she. They deserve one another.

"WAITING" on wrapping up the next chapter...which is the sale of the property we both shared...I'm eager to MOVE ON...my tires spinning...I don't express ANY feelings...but I do "HOPE" that he grows into an ADULT within time...I'm no longer in the hamster wheel... AMEN!

You described me and this situation precisely although the person I’m interested in is a Libra female. My question is how do I stop thinking about her it’s been constant for over 3 years

Not trying to fix him (twin flame) but we are mirrors to each other. We lived parallel lives of trauma …and I am working on self development and he is not. He keeps pulling me back to him and a third party and I love and respect myself (because of growth) and I refuse to go back until he realizes what he is doing to himself and me and gets the help he needs. Must break the patterns.

Correct

Well if it was ALWAYS meant to fall apart ...I shouldn't have been in that position...that what I refuse to let go of. Leap of faith to where? Last time I done that I ended up here.

@tarotbygabrielle

2 ай бұрын

Every connection and experience is always an opportunity for us to learn and grow. Sometimes things have to fall apart so better things can fall into place, as long as we are willing to be the student of the experience. I certainly don't have all of the answers for you; all I can do is share what I have learned and how it has led me to the people that now love me in the way I've always wanted. If it's possible for me then it's possible for anyone!

Nailed this I was wi hom 11 yrs m he cheated on me

He doesn't know how to put the smelly troll -phy back under the bridge...haha...the DIVORCE was finalized April 2 ...was married to a Sag NARC for over 3 decades...

Je cjeates i walk away Am ⁶ñov he's 2nd llert him