My own mother and father were very toxic towards me as a child. My whole family is extreemly TOXIC my early life was filled with hatred and abuse.I left home at 17 and have never been back, Your own family can ruin your life.

@fleetapines7557

Жыл бұрын

I’ve learned that the hard way it really hurts but I’m trying to move on it’s not easy I’m taking it day by day

@chrisbond6056

Жыл бұрын

For sure I feel you I left my family I still talk to them I love them to death but sometimes you're just better on your own

@princysuniverse4616

Жыл бұрын

Same here.But I still love them.But always I face anger, hared, negativity from them.

@marciaabreu8246

Жыл бұрын

I am brazilian and it happens to me with my family , especially with my oldest brother. So dificult to deal with toxic people. 😰

@HomeFrendsten

Жыл бұрын

Families are becoming difficult for some children

Better alone than surround by negative peoples...

I had a friend who was toxic and used and destroyed me and acts like it's my fault. I'm glad I'm done with her. It wasn't a friendship it was a usership

I walked away from toxic negative family members and my life turned around and started progressing. I thank God for taking me away from them everyday.

@LytStyx

Ай бұрын

Me too! 🎉

“May all the bridges I burn light the way.”

I Forgive Myself and Others..I'm Learning to Let it Go ❤️

I left toxic ppl behind in my past. I'm so much wiser now I'm on my way forward!!!

My husband passed away suddenly 2 years ago. He was the most positive person I’ve ever known. I feel everything so deeply. I absorb energy negative and positive. I will no longer allow negative in my life. Life is preciously short. Rudeness, lying and angry people are soul suckers.

I learnt it a long and hard way that "It's better to be alone than in bad company". I am currently enjoying my space free from all the toxic family members and friends. It feels like a new beginning.

@MadamButterfly_82

Жыл бұрын

For financial reasons and not being able to drive and support I’m stuck in a situation that is very negative what can I do

@jaishriiyer1563

11 ай бұрын

My 2 cents - Everyone is capable of doing something useful. Please find how you can contribute to the society and earn some income. The other option is to educate yourself to make your employable if you can put up with the current situation for some time. You may also seek help from family and close friends who have a better understanding of your situation. Last but not the least, please talk to a therapist who are trained to guide us to solutions. Hope this helps.

Toxic people have to realise their problems are their own.

@danetspeaks8708

Жыл бұрын

And they need to seek help 🙏🏾

@chicdolldiaries

26 күн бұрын

they also need to stop doing that toxic stuff

Unfortunately, I have a toxic wife. Her main contribution to our marriage is continually tearing me down and blaming me for everything that's wrong. I have finally reached the point this week where I was clear that she has to get help for her own traumas, or we're done. It terrifies me to have to start again at 65 years old.

The best thing that happened to me was when that toxic person left my life. He just doesn't know how it feels to no longer suffer🙌

Why is it always our mothers who don"t believe in us?? We disapoint them but they won"t let us go!!

Hallelujah thank You JESUS SO TIRED OF TOXIC AND DRAMA PEOPLE 🙌🙏😌

@carolinekelly8481

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry but that’s just people nothing to do with you it’s their toxicity to work on & keep them very limited in your life ❤

@ganymeade5151

Жыл бұрын

Jesus and God are your best friends. Care more about Jesus and God than bad friends who you can never please.

This message is so true! I had to let go of “ friends “ and cut off even family because their energy was draining me! Thank you for this message!❤

Good advice is to value your relationship to God and Jesus more than your relationship to anyone else. God and Jesus are always there for you and can work miracles in your life when you are ready. However, if you are not a Believer or religious, you can trust in yourself more than the opinions of negative, cruel, and destructive people who exist everywhere and at all levels of society. Evil people exist in the workplace, in the community, and perhaps even in your own family. You must believe in yourself more than anyone else. Keep toxic people who delight in making you sad, depressed, and angry in check and at a distance. You don't need them. Wise Old Saying: You are better off alone than with bad friends. If you stay positive, you can meet good people.

This is very true 💯, I've been separating myself from negative/toxic people from my life. I'm only associating with positive people & it feels good 🔥

"Your own family can ruin your life"......True! And my so called "friends".....they feel like they have the right to abuse and insult me. I think l just closed that door though because their toxicity and insecurities are being vomited all over me all the time! Much better to be alone than around emotional vampires.

@trudyadams-kz1ot

Жыл бұрын

Amen i understand what it feels like my family to my ex husband left me after 20 years and his own kids age 23 and 18 but I'm glad I'm not with him he is toxic 💖💯✌️

@trudyadams-kz1ot

Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you did that my siblings are toxic waste my parents don't want nothing to do with me my mom is sick and I want to take care of her but i don't know what to do may God be with you always 🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏

Keep me in prayer ad im going thru anixety and depression

@ericathomas4362

2 ай бұрын

Same here and I'll b praying for ur health and strength we got this

Surround yourself with successful people. And you will grow good habits.❤

@colrn222

Жыл бұрын

For sure 👍🌹

Don't hang out with negative people at all because when you start hanging out with negative people you draw people to you

GOOD-BYE TOXIC PEOPLE FROM MY LIFE AMEN

This is brutally true because I’m going thru this right now !!!!! 🙏🙏💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🔊🔊🔊💯💯💯

Amen, don't tolerate the toxicity.

This is very true. Family is the WORSE!!!!!!!

When will we REALLY realize that life DOES NOT go on forever on earth.

I learn how to not be around toxic people who just want drama in there life

That is true. If we live with losers around us we become a loser.

When you have a person in your life and you dread to see that person's name come up on your phone... It's time to rid yourself of that person.

Well said i was married in toxic marriage i went to bed angry i woke up angry i decided i't was time to leave divorced him best decisions i made now i 'wake up with life of' full of' happiness son and i have peace love drama free my son said' mom do not ever back to dad' he sees the better life here ladies do not ever stay for your kids in a marriage kids want to live in happy peacful home much blessing for 2023

@colrn222

Жыл бұрын

Happy for you guys !! 🙏👑🌹

🎯 If they're not pulling u up, then they're dragging u down.

I’m going through that now I cannot continue another 20 plus years of my husband he is such a negative period

@colrn222

Жыл бұрын

Leave , You gotta think of your life first, Pray and get peace of mind, live comfortably, YOU DON'T HAVE TO WALK ON EGGSHELLS !! Speaking from ugly experience !! praying for you 🙏🌹

@rosalindapajanel9354

Жыл бұрын

Yes thank you 🙏🏼

My siblings have spoiled my entire life. Along with many many others. No more. I have moved somewhere I don’t know anyone I already quit 2 jobs because I was not being treated right so I said peace out no notice just outta there. Life is better around people that honestly and truly care. No more toxic no one.

Calling someone toxic when you’re being toxic is what I see most nowadays

I’m in a situation that is just not getting better. I’ve waited as long as I can. So happy to hear this daily when times get hard. Thank you! 😢😊❤

@911wasaninsidejob14

Жыл бұрын

I hope your situation gets better

@911wasaninsidejob14

Жыл бұрын

If you need someone to talk to I’m here

@chacatito17

Жыл бұрын

I wish you the best in life!! Hey, I don't know you. You don't know me, but I am sending all positive vibes your way. I'm praying that everything gets better soon 🙏 ✨️ 🙌

@trudyadams-kz1ot

Жыл бұрын

It will get better just pray and hang in there i went through hell with my ex husband my family my siblings but I'm so happy now because I'm living with my son just the 2 of us and I'm happy my siblings are toxic waste my parents hate me but I just let it go may God be with you always 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Yup. I was surrounded by toxic people all my life. Even if i did good it was never appreciated or recognized. I was bullied by my cousins because I was an ugly duckling. And lots of times I was getting punished by things my brother did. All that because I took it all in. A girl wasn’t supposed to flinch if things aren’t likable. I left home at 16 with the excuse to get married. Since then I got married twice. It’s obvious I have been looking for love and acceptance in the wrong people. Now I am single I have three kids and two grandkids and one more on the way. I am a stylist and studying paralegal. I am so done with toxic family and people. It’s me time now. I used to be afraid being alone but as time goes by I am thrilled that I have peace in my life. I will never go down that path again.

@elhadjdiallo633

Жыл бұрын

The only reason why your cousins and bullied you is because they were jalous , envious , insecure, intelligent, brilliant and stunning among all of the that's why they wanted you to have lowself esteem, insecure so that you will think you are nobody due to the fact that these folks want what you have unfortunately they can't have what you got that's why they decided to make your life miserable bullies bully others because they want what others have period!!! When someone call you names like you ugly you act like that and this just pat yourself on the back it's mean you're above them !!! When I was grounder I didn't know better as I got older I educated myself and become highly educated and intelligent as well !! I will clasify my self as a highly educated on sychology like M lor and master degree holder !!! If I get the opportunity to educated kids and younger adults in general I will make sure to educate everyone on narcissists and toxic people these people have ruined billions lives I'm so sure about ...people are dying , committing suicide, and are mentally ill because these bullies and toxic !!!yall gotta run for your lives !!! I know my worth and value period!!!!! I choose whom to give access to my life and paradise !!!!! Education and knowledge is the keys to open millions intact billions !!! I feel so sorry for the illitrate folks frankly !!!

@gasoc_official

Жыл бұрын

Difficult experience with Beautiful results

@LoveAtkins-gk1io

Жыл бұрын

God loves you

@colrn222

Жыл бұрын

Well you look in that mirror, And say: " I am beautiful" I am what GOD says I am ! 🙏🌹

@pkkp37

9 ай бұрын

A wonderful outcome when faced with adversity. Congratulations.👏♥️

I'VE BEEN SURROUNDED BY THEM,AND FOUGHT MY WAY AWAY FROM THEM......

Just stand strong In the lord 🙏

Wah bagus sekali . Terlalu banyak waktu berharga yang terbuang. Thanks you for sharing.

I needed too hear this this am cuz I battling so demons now five years sober and still struggle err day but Im gone win

@danetspeaks8708

Жыл бұрын

You got this king! Take it one hour at a time 🙏🏾🙏🏾

My morning is ok and this is making me understand that I have to make some changes in my life right now 👍🏾🙏🏾

👋 "Family" so nice to see with my own eyes and not the destruction I grew up with.

lately all I do is work very hard and when I say I am going to do something, I make it my goal to make it happen. I don't wish for stuff, I work for stuff and its becoming engraved in my mind to push passed my limits daily, to get up even when I am tired, to dedicate time for the stuff I want in hopes that one day it will get noticed by someone and I will reach success. All of this has made me be very intolerant for drama, gossip, rumors. I can't handle any of it bc I don't have to. I am going to choose me bc I see the vision very clear and I can feel myself getting close. It's true what they say, who you surround yourself with is eventually who you become and I can't deal with the fact that someone else is controlling my destiny.

@danetspeaks8708

Жыл бұрын

I know that’s right sis “I don’t wish for stuff, I work for stuff” 💃🏽🥰🙏🏾👍🏽

AMEN JESUS, THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ WE ARE APPRECIATE YOU 🙏 ❤️ 😊 🙌 💙 💖 🙏 ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

He influenced me negatively and positively. I've been through so much How can a man bring out the best and the worst in me. I'm drained..Thank God he left me. 🙏🏻

I’m around toxic people all the time and that’s why I’m leaving my job and one day out of the area

4:14 pm. I have been around so many negative people and I just got sick and tired. I have removed all the negative people out of my life. I feel a whole better and things in my life are starting to work out. Thanks for the motivation

He fucking snapped! This hit so deep. I am a roommate to my brothers gf. She use to live with us for YEARSSSS I always made her feel equal. Now I’m going threw it i moved in with her and it’s a whole new person. The toxicity I have been dealing with I be crying and going to work at the hospital with a smile on my face. Petty moves everyday constantly doing shit to piss me off and when I snap and I’m dropping my towel and beat ass naked im the problem. A female is trying 😭 she don’t be mad about the problem she bring up shit that don’t even gotta deal 🙃

Thanks for sharing . Currently going through it with toxic negative life sucking people 🙏

It may sound selfish but this is true, be with people that can contribute to your growth, It's actually not selfish, it's a very wise act to do. #bewise 🔥🔥

No more relationships for me, I'm done dating and chasing women(no offense to all the good hearted women). I'm just tired of being talked down, laughed at, and played with because I like handling things alone sometimes. No more for me just focusing on myself.

Yes moving forward positively

🙏🙏🙏 Thank you for all your help family. Thank you for all your family I always want to do better. 💯 percent greatful for the roof over my head greatful for my family. Thank God for the full time employment. Thank God for the people who have helped me out as well. I will always appreciate the help that I get and I will always try to help other people out as well. Thank God for my freedom.

Amen thank God for today 😊🙏

Yes Lordly God’s and I have been done let’s them toxic people go and let’s God’s. Amen 🙏

This was a GREAT video! Felt every word of it !! Be great, and surround yourself with great people. OQP !!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

Your Motivational videos are Truly Blessings.I wish I could have known about them in my younger years.I am in my 50's now,I am still determined and i listen to them everyday.I will Never Give Up,as long as we have life..we have the capability!!

OMG this is true "Birds of a feather flock together." "You will pick up there ways, habits, and there attitude about life." This happened at my job. One person at my job is toxic, has bad habits and attitude. Two new coworkers started working at my job. These two coworkers started hanging around that toxic person. Guess what??? Those two people started picking up that toxic person's attitude, habits, and the ways. Now these three are birds flocking together!! I'm leaving this toxic work environment 👋👋 and going to a better work environment.

Amen. For with God all things are possible.

His words are absolutely true

This episode is definitely about my life right now ! It’s time to get away from toxic ass people foreal 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💯💯💯💯🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽😎😂

Got to get you out of my life. Zero Toxicity. ✌🏾...

My ex really dragged me through the Dirt. The one thing I learned was to take responsibility for what I allowed , and how I didn't set boundaries. I didn't respect myself ... today I value myself , and Love what I see in the mirror. I couldn't say that on Feb 4th 2022...when I entered Rehab for 15 months. Today I'm working on myself.

@colrn222

Жыл бұрын

👍👏

Thanks God bless you and your family 🌹🌹

I’m 50 years old pretty close enough. I grew up with a narcissistic mother with two brothers. Our father has always been out of state until just last month. I always had phone calls from him sporadically. Spent about three summers I think with him. Now I catch him saying things like “ I did a good job raising my kids or at least half way.”. I will accidentally slip and say some thing that offends him, because I am a mother who has raised my child or legal physical custody on my own. Never what I imagine doing that to my child but I know there are people who do it. Sorry I’m not gonna change my ways to make him feel better. I have so much negativity around and this was the perfect video to watch. Back in my 20s all the way up till my mid-40s I was in training and became a lead HVAC installer through a union working for my mother. After 20 years, I had to break the leash because it has been so tight that hired fired quit and hire really has me sitting back like I’m still 20 years old living paycheck to paycheck having to still go back to family for help. Moral to the story is people that are very young dealing with toxic people . Don’t let them take the “ What you could be from you.” My mom tried to steal any of my satisfaction and achievements, and I think the Lord I awoken . I moved on and jumped out of that situation, strapped or not it had to be done. I’m glad this time I acknowledged I needed some videos on this for encouragement and to be woke up again . It’s OK if we stumble and fall and just get back up. Getting ready of toxic is not giving up. It’s getting better. I am responsible for my own happiness and I have choices and I don’t have to put up with people that don’t want to encourage me . ❤❤❤❤ Thank you!!!

True fact just today go thru this over and over again. Amen

Listening to you shows greatly that, I have a new group.Your encouragement has been helping so much....

Being with someone who is verbal abuser and narcissistic, and his family. I couldn’t feel myself anymore, instead of level up, I am level down and being more depressed than ever. He is like an evil ruining my life.

Amen amen and amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Soooo good. Very true. This is wisdom

Goodbye 👋 have a great day 😊

Yes and amen

Wise Old Sayings: It is better to be alone than with toxic persons. It is better to have a few good friends than many bad ones. Elon Musk basically said: Never let being alone tempt you to befriend toxic people.

So true it's not easy

Thank god

Pray for me a lot of people want $ from me and the 2nd job is not offering work to meet some of these needs

God is in everything Growing. Up or down

Many people think toxic people are substance abusers..we have ignored other toxic people i.e. gossipers, liars, snitches, back bitters, back stabbers , narcissist and people who are condescending . They are just as bad as substance abusers..they are toxic too! I have cut off such people n I have never been happier

Alhamdulillah,that's why I always happy in this temporary world actually and the hereafter also because I always avoid all negative people only and all negative matters only in this temporary world,Alhamdulillah

@SA-px3ln

Жыл бұрын

How did u let go of toxic family and still loving them yet they hurt u.. they pray by night abuse behind doors no one believes all pain depression anxiety they cause.. why won’t Allah release them from my mind..

@rosewint7203

Жыл бұрын

I love your video very inspiring it teaches me a lot how to not let people treat me as they likes not even my family i will cut them off when they need to be i rather been alone more than surround myself with dirty minded people and i all'so ask God to remove them out of way

@ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926

Жыл бұрын

@@SA-px3ln Just make pray for your safety first,than let the rest Allah only will do for your kindness.

Thanks!

The moment I try my best and work hard at what I do, it's back again, daily bad energy all over again trying to get under my damn skin, doing it's best to break through my bubble and I try sooo damn hard to stay away from it and I do and by God I'm DONE WITH ALL THE BS THAT TENDS TO JUST LOVE THE WAY I LIVE MY LIFE, it's done and I'm tired of it. I'm 34 years old and by the living grace of God I'm too damn grown to deal with other grown ass children that always got some problem they wanna share, I don't want that shit! You think I enjoy living the same y'all do?! Hell no I'm on my own, it's my life and I choose to go my own way spiritually and mentally! You don't like that, then find the next person who might, I'm out! Have a great day positive folks, I love yall

@colrn222

Жыл бұрын

I feel you on that one, They can " KICK ROCKS" ✌️

Exactly what we needed right now! THANK you!!!!

This is very true 🙏😳

So 👍true! Amen 🙏Blessings 🙌

Very inspiring

VERY TRUE!!!!!

I love this i actually been tested so many times being a single mom of two is really hard and i had to depend on toxic family and friends and it got so bad to the point i lost my job for calling out to care for my babies with faith and strength i am a person who doesn’t give up im just waiting my turn for better days and wishing toxic people well 🙏🏾💞

Amen.

AMEN AMEN AMEN AND AMEN WOW WELL SAID MY FRIEND 😀🌞

Helpful advice

Always,Negative people will get lesson from another negative people

WOW amazing I guess I'm different because I do not allow people like this in my life, I will just shut them out and not allow them to effect me in any way shape or form

I know that feeling

SORRY Oprah, but I don't Tol-er-ATE it. I was born into it and had to find the strength to leave at only 16! Thankfully I knew I was worth more even then! Sending strength to all those who are struggling to realize it for themselves. It's a long journey and it hurts to the depths of your soul but YOU ARE WORTH MORE!

Yes.. Its all so true. I was in such a negative enviroment and now I am over coming a lot

So true so true 👍

Thank you for this God bless ❤

The ones in staying with us toxic

True

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