We lost so many inspirational people last year, Sarge, Peeweetoms, Emily Hayward and Sofia to name a few. May they all rest peacefully.

@wendy-bellesadventures5323

5 жыл бұрын

I miss dan and Emily soo much, I loved their videos !!!

@whitegamma5106

5 жыл бұрын

@Robert Gardea all youtubers with terminal illnesses. You can check out their old videos. 2018 was a sad year

@FishesAndLoaves997

4 жыл бұрын

Very true. 😔

@jasonbrown9016

4 жыл бұрын

@@wendy-bellesadventures5323 young people taking to soon.God bless them let them be at peace and free from pain .

@listychick

4 жыл бұрын

awe i watched each and every one of them, i felt so sad for Sophia , such a beautiful young lady, i was praying she would beat her cancer,, i prayed for all of them, saying goodbye of here to each. they were all amazing, sorry for your loss

I have not ever commented but i have been following your journey . My cousin who is 36 , just had her second child , was just diagnosed with colon cancer . It was the size of a softball and once they got in they found an additional spot on her liver . Cancer is a vile beast . More and more , due to social media , we are lucky enough to witness the brave and strong people who come against it . It is eye opening and humbling . The both of you exhibit such beauty and strength in the face of this . I will forever be touched by your experience . Thank you for letting us in . Sleep in peace Sarge . You have made an impact in this world . My thoughts are with you and your family . Light and love ✌🏻✊🏻

This is devastating to hear that Sarge has been suffering pain and anxiety. Sarge is such a beautiful soul. To know that her pain is now being managed and she is comfortable is a blessing. Mrs Sarge you are wonderful. I'm just a stranger following this journey but feel so connected to you two. You both are being flooded with love and support from your "Minions". We are here for you! Sending hugs from The UK! ❤ ❤ ❤

Freedom from pain is the most valuable gift that Sarge can be given. Our thoughts are with you both.

@arideneros9015

5 жыл бұрын

Avril Bowler beautiful words... this illness any illness is just bad. I'm so done with my pain

@avrilbowler8755

5 жыл бұрын

@@arideneros9015 Ari. Am so sorry to hear of your pain. I have arthritis and have pain all the time so I understand. I wish you healing from your suffering and peace for your mind and body.

@arideneros9015

5 жыл бұрын

Avril Bowler The sweetest words I've ever heard. Thank you so much. I wish the best for you too! That arthritis sure is something, unfortunately it runs in my family. I see how my auntie Who 86 years of age jumps from the pain. Pain is unbelievable. Hope you have a beautiful day 🌞

@avrilbowler8755

5 жыл бұрын

@@arideneros9015 Thank you, Ari. Your poor aunt - how awful to see her hurting so much. I send loving wishes to you and your aunt in the hope that you both find life much kinder for you both.

thank you for updating everyone. Just know we all love you and Sarge very much. If you need ANYTHING let me know.

My heart is breaking with you, Mrs. Sarge. It is a little comforting to know she is sleeping and not in pain. Please dont let her forget that thousands of people love her and are holding her deep in their hearts. For you too Mrs. Sarge. This must be hell for you. Sarge strong!!!

my heart is broken, but I understand

I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this. I lost my dad to cancer eleven years ago and I know how hard this is for both of you. Sending both of you big hugs and prayers

i'm so deeply sorry. I wish you much strength in going through this with Sarge and I wish Sarge a pain-free, peaceful time.

Thank you so much for the update on Sarge. Her decision is well respected. She has fought her battle with pride and perseverance. God Bless both of you and the family. XOXO

Mrs. Sarge, Sarge couldn't have a better spouse. Thank you for the news even though it's sad. Sarge has been fighting a difficult fight, and I am glad she is getting some rest. You are both wonderful and dear people and I am pleased to be connected. I feel for both of you but also acknowledge that it is your inner strength that has brought you this far. Lots of love.

I completely understand and accept Sarge's decision. There is no reason for her to suffer. This is heart breaking because she's such a wonderful special person who always made her viewers feel they were important. my heart goes out to you both. Thank you for keeping us updated.

@michellelyman7092

6 жыл бұрын

miss her already but glad she is sleeping and not hurting

@petrec3662

5 жыл бұрын

Brave

The nurse told my daughter when her best friend ‘s mother was dying and in a coma,to keep on talking,as loved ones’ voices are the last thing we hear during the process of dying.

@patriciafoster3347

3 жыл бұрын

I worked in Hospice too. Yes...this is true. And we’d make sure it was good talk....never family arguing. I couldn’t believe it when that happened and removed family from rooms more than once. Seemed to me too that if the talking somehow made it difficult to let go..it was common for them to do so when no one was in the room. Even if just for a minute. So that was good too.

I feel for you Mrs. Sarge. Thank you for the update. We just lost a cancer vlogger last week, Emily Hayward. So incredibly sad. The most important thing is that Sarge isn't in pain. We all have come to love her so much and her fight has been such a courageous one. Much love to you 💜💖

@watsongg6496

6 жыл бұрын

ItzBecky Thomas I thought she had at least a month left. I'm shocked how fast that was

@sangellaferro

5 жыл бұрын

@Karen Love I was just thinking of Emily ... whatta woman. I wonder how Aisha is?

@nameinuse22

5 жыл бұрын

Debra Moeller I still think of Emily Hayward daily 😥

Mrs. Sarge, there’s no words of comfort to soothe your pain as I have gone through this journey with my own love ones. I have just surrounded my self with family and friends who were compassionate and gave me/us space when we needed it. Continued prayers for Sarge, yourself and your family as you are going through this journey. #staysargestrong 🌺

You are a gift. Don’t ever forget that. Palliative sedation is fairly new and I have seen it work wonders. Sleep (I hear her snoring) Comfort.. until the end. And don’t forget for a second that she she feels your presence as you are the love of her life. As a hospice nurse I feel this was a thoughtful decision and I believe it was the best she could have had. This was very hard for you but you have given her the biggest gift. Sarge is on her way... but I am Now wishing YOU healing and peace. The ones left behind suffer but know the suffering is behind her now. She will be so so missed

@HWolfe

6 жыл бұрын

NYC Trail Runner Thank you for your comments to Mrs. Sarge. Getting her out of pain was job one and praises that Mrs. Sarge is hanging in there "Sarge & Mrs. Sarge strong. I am praying for both their comfort as Sarge makes her journey.

@cherylgalleran6602

6 жыл бұрын

NYC Trail Runner ... this was a beautiful message to mrs Sarge. Much love to you❤️

@irisrose4732

6 жыл бұрын

Beautifully stated.

@sarawilliams9270

6 жыл бұрын

Amen

@williamcooke9958

5 жыл бұрын

NYC Trail Runne77

Oh, Mrs. Sarge, I can't imagine Sarge being nearly as strong as she has been without you beside her; you are such a blessing! I am in total agreement with respecting Sarge's wishes, and I'm glad to hear that she's being kept comfortable. My heart is with you both, and I'm staying SargeStrong along with you.

So sorry that things aren’t going well for Sarge. Thank you so much for coming on and updating us. I know it was very hard for you to do this video. You are a wonderful person and Sarge loves you with all her heart and is so lucky to have you. I know this is going to be a very hard time for you but if she is sleeping and out of pain that means a lot. Just know you are both in our thoughts and prayers. xoxo

My heart is breaking. May you both find peace.

Carsons mom here. Im praying for your family. You are such an inspiring family.

😭😭......I will pray that she will be as comfortable as possible, Sarge is an amazing fighter. Rest well Sarge, we love you. 💪❤ #SargeStrong #CancerCantWin #KickCancer

My heart is so heavy and completely broken into.. I wanted so bad to tell her how she helped save me.. God bless you Sarge and Mrs. Sarge😥 We love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Im so so sorry. .

I’m so sorry. I hope that her pain can be managed. Much love to both of you.

Thank you for sharing a difficult decision with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you from Canada. May you find great comfort in memories of happy times together. xo

Ya'll are in my thoughts and prayers! I pray ya'll find peace joy and strength at this time. She's a WARRIOR!

Everyone's end of life decision in the end, is their own. I have been on this journey with many, being a Pastor. You, Mrs. Sarge are amazing. If everyone who is dying had the support and love that Sarge has surrounding her right now, fear and lonliness would cease. She has won her battle with cancer. I will be praying for sleep and comfort for Sarge, and strength and rest for you. You are an amazing team, you two, on a journey we will all be on some day...you two and your love have shown us how to travel with Grace, with Love, and with Courage. God Bless.

@Travis-kt7cn

4 жыл бұрын

You're a fraud.

@lynncantrell5502

4 жыл бұрын

Wendy Lowden , you say your a paster. A woman. You must not listen to scripture, because if you did you know that a woman is supposed to be silent in worship. The real reason I'm commenting is to let you know, we don't have a choice to do ourselves in, we are to wait until God decides when to die. Christ hung on the cross for six hours, even the Romans offered him a drink to numb the pain and he refused. I sorry for this lady. But the choice is not ours

@christyl6231

3 жыл бұрын

I bet this is the double spacing after sentences "hospice nurse" from another long comment on here lol

Thank you for letting us know. 😥

God bless all caregivers. My heart bleeds for you. I have Stage 4A Ductal Prostate Cancer. Even so, it is harder for my wife than me. Again, God bless you and your whole family.

I Love You Both!!! Sending Prayers.

I am crying so hard right now my tears are like a river. I’m just heart broken but not for only her but for you to Mrs Sarge and the kids. She wanted so badly to go away with you guys and make unforgettable memories but I know that you guys have great memories anyway but it still breaks my heart ♥️. Love and hugs and prayers to you Mrs Sarge and always praying 🙏🏼 for Sarge to I wish there was a cure😢 Love you guys.

I am devastated by the news, even though I knew she wasn't doing well. It still hurts so much. I am just so deeply sorry. Please let her know we love her, and we are all here for her. We're here for you both. Sending all the love and prayers I have. Sarge strong forever!

I knew this was her dicision before you told us because sarge is a true champ! This breaks my heart cause once again someone ive followed on here is losing their life. Truly heartbreaking but understood. Mrs Sarge I hope your also getting all the love and support you need too. I hope that you will carry on her legacy with us if not, I understand that too. God bless.

You are absolutely wonderful at making videos! Thank you for the update and from the deepest part of my heart may peace be with you all.

You both have been so strong through everything. I’m so sorry honey. You both are in my prayers.

HUGS TO YOU BOTH.Thank you for allowing us to to be with you during this difficult time.

I'm so very sorry. I respect her decision. I just wish it hadn't needed to come so soon. I guess there never is enough time. Sending you both hugs and love. xo

You re both in my thoughts and prayers and much love sent your way 💜

You were right this wasn't easy to watch but I truly thank you for letting us know how Sarge is doing, I pray she stays comfortable and that you and the other family members can find comfort and peace at this hard time, much love and respect for you all 💙💖

Thank you so much for the update. You and Sarge have a place in my heart forever.

It's crazy and inhumane how many folks suffer. So sorry that she had to suffer. The Family vet is better to our sick animals...why must we suffer usually alone

I’m so sorry 😔thank you for the update and for the strength from the both of you. It has made me Appreciate life and the little things so much more and your journey has taught me more than you will ever know. My love and prayers to you and your family ❤️🙏🏼

so very sorry. prayers and love sent. xoxo

I am so sorry. You both are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs

Thank you for the update. This is very sad. HUGS to you both.

I’m so very sorry. My heart goes out to you all.

Still praying, Pensacola, FL.

#staysargestrong ✌🏼 Words cannot express the sadness I feel. Praying for you both xo

This saddens me, I will be praying.

@TheTmat007

5 жыл бұрын

Praying to whom?

Thank you mrs sarge. I am sad to hear that it’s close to end of life because I’ll miss her too. So many viewers will. Sending love and support and much comfort at this time. Thank sarge for helping me get through my stage 3 breast cancer. 3 more chemo to go. Be kind to yourself and I’m most happy you are not in any pain. Big hugs 🤗. Lori

I have been waiting all day for a report and knowing it would not be good, BLESS you, BLESS you.. wow..

@vivalospepes1402

6 жыл бұрын

Mitch Grooms blessings won't come from God

@BS-dq1kz

4 жыл бұрын

Viva los pepes Geesh...no one said, “God” but had the person chose to say this then it would have been none of your business. Don’t force your beliefs on people whom you don’t want to force their beliefs on you. Besides, I don’t think a year ago when this woman and loved ones were enduring this pain, was the time to run your trap.

I' am very sorry to hear what Sarge and you have to go through. She was a really nice and sweet person who I will remember as a you tuber who treated me with respect. Many prayers are sent out to Sarge and you. She has fought a long time, and God has a beautiful place for her to watch over in the future where she will no longer feel in agony and distress. God Bless.

Very sorry to hear that Sarge has taken a turn for the worse. I think she has made the right decision and at least she won't be in pain or suffering anymore. xxx

Sarge and you (Mrs. Sarge) are in my thoughts and prayers.

My Heart Is Breaking,Prayers Up,I Support Your Choice🙏🏾🙏🏾#StaySargeStrong

My father died from cancer so I'm fully aware of what you are going through but take comfort in the knowledge that she is no longer in pain, I'm so sorry that you both have had to go through this its so very sad, you have a lot of people behind you.

Peace and comfort for all of you

Prayers

Thanks for the update. Love and respect to you both.

I'm so sorry, love you both; you're in my thoughts and prayers

🙏❣💞💕🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I am so so sorry To hear about Sarge! Keeping her and you and the rest of the family in my prayers!

Sending love and prayers from Denver Colorado. I knew this time would be coming, just so sad. Sarge has such a big kind heart and has really taught me to put things in perspective in my own life as I’ve watched you both bravely and courageously battle this illness. You are amazing Mrs Sarge by the way!

Thank you so much for the update. You both are amazing. I love you both. My thoughts and prayers are with you both ❤❤❤

It's so hard, and I am so sorry. Love and strength to you.

Mrs Sarge, you are amazingly strong. My prayers are with you both. Thank you for keeping up updated.

Thoughts and prayers to you and Sarge. Peace and comfort in Sarge's last few weeks.

Sending an abundance of strength, love and prayers to you both. I wish I had more comforting words but I know there are none. Lots of Love from, Boston Ma. 💕💕

Listening with love, compassion and understanding. Bless you both!

Thank you for the update, I am sending love. Sorry to hear such a bad news.

Thank you so much for the update. You are incredibly strong. You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers during this time Wishing you both all the rest and comfort in the world

thankyou for posting.bless you!

My thoughts and prayers are with you both .love you Sarge & Mrs Sarge xx God bless xx

I love you both sooooo much! Your in my thoughts and prayers! Thank you for making this video! I know this has to be so hard for you! I am just speechless! She fought such a hard battle! #staySargestrong forever!!!!

I’m so sorry.I hope you are able to be strong.I know how hard it is for all of you .I have cried through this as if I know you both.God and many prayers sent your way hopefully will help you both at this sad time. Sending my love from Canada 🇨🇦

I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for posting this.

Sarge has been on my mind a lot lately. Thank you for the update. Sending lots of love your way and wanted you to know I appreciated you both sharing this journey. You both loved, smiled, laughed and lived; that’s a beautiful thing! ❤️❤️❤️

Peace be with you dear. God Bless you both. 🙏🕊

I am sending so much love from the UK......Thank you very, very much for updating us at such a difficult time. Peace also to you both xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

THANK YOU GORGEOUS your an incredible friend and lover.

This breaks my heart. I completely understand and appreciate the choices made and I will be sending you guys so much love. Mrs Sarge.. You are so amazing and strong. I can't say anything to make things easier for either of you, but you guys are in my thoughts and prayers. 💜

This is going to be the hardest time for you Mrs. Sarge. I hope you have support (in person). I truly know how you feel. I went through this, mostly alone, with by father in 2015. Sending you my love and prayers. SARGESTRONG!!!

Love to you all 💔 we are with you both xxx

I am so sorry.. not the update anyone wanted but I’m devastated for you. I hope she is comfortable. Truly that is what Sarge deserves for the rest of her days. I hope you are taking care of yourself as much as possible too❤️

Prayers!

Sending love from Texas,

I'm so sorry things have taken a turn for the worse. I am keeping you, Sarge and all of your family and friends in my prayers. This is so heartbreaking. I have truly come to love Sarge and you, her lovely wife. #staysargestrong

Much love to you both!!!!

God bless her give her a kiss from all of us, feeling sad but i know she has had such a fight like you say shes tired god love her, In my prayers always thank you Mrs SARGE for the update it must be so hard for you big hug from the UK XXXX

This means a lot to me personally thanks! My mom chose the same. THANK YOU!

Sending much love and support your way. You are both so brave. I’m not surprised at her choice of care. She is so selfless.....and I’m sure she’s thinking of you in making her decision. Praying for you both...🙏🏻🙏🏻

You are in my prayers.

Sorry to hear she has deteriorated so quickly. God bless you both.

So sorry to hear this news but just so y’all know, the prayers won’t stop. They will continue for Sarge and for every member of her family and all of her friends... now more than ever. Try to get some rest too you will need all your strength now.

I’m so sorry 😐 this is such sad news! But both of you have been so strong and positive through this whole thing! Love you both ❤️ #sargestrong

My heart is breaking for you. Much love for you both. God bless.

You Both have fought this for some time now. I’m sorry to hear that things aren’t going well. May Gods will be done and strength for you and your family during this time of hardship, God bless

I am so very sorry. I did the same with my mother. I feel for you. God Bless

This news is greatly appreciated because we all feel love for Sarge and for you, Mrs Sarge ( sweet Jenn). Personally speaking I offer a warm human hug and heartfelt care to you. Sarge is safe and you have the expertise and genuine capacity to make sure your wife gets the best care there can ever BE. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this update. All of us know this is very hard on you. With love and positive thoughts and prayers, Sheila

Love and prayers!

You both have been so amazing. God Bless you both at this most difficult time. Thank you Mrs. Sarge for the update. You are amazing. hugs

Just found this and am so amazed by you and your wife's understanding of each other even in the end stages. Goddess bless