S2 EP 7: It's not them.. it's you (commitment issues, singleness & more)

It's not them.. it's you. In this episode we are talking about commitment issues, singleness, reading the room, self love & more!
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  • @bijoualiza2105
    @bijoualiza21056 ай бұрын

    welcome back to another episode of ✨heavenly boooOoOoNnnndDdDd✨

  • @vikkifromthesouthside
    @vikkifromthesouthside6 ай бұрын

    You guys are real life❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @machejones9825

    @machejones9825

    6 ай бұрын

    Yess🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @SiphoBhenguY3

    @SiphoBhenguY3

    2 ай бұрын

    🫶🏾🇿🇦

  • @user-cr6ut5vg7z

    @user-cr6ut5vg7z

    7 күн бұрын

    Ye🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @Sonia-it4yh
    @Sonia-it4yh6 ай бұрын

    If we all live by biblical values our society will be thriving! - THAT HITS HARD🔥

  • @Naomi-kf5mk
    @Naomi-kf5mk6 ай бұрын

    Heavenly bondddddd 🎉

  • @RealCorban.
    @RealCorban.6 ай бұрын

    But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Matthew 6:33

  • @dedrickconnell
    @dedrickconnell6 ай бұрын

    “go deepaaaa” 😂

  • @xiomararivera1740
    @xiomararivera17406 ай бұрын

    HeavenlyBondPod gone hit every time! I just started listening not too long ago and when I saw this video's title, it was an answered prayer. God is using you guys and I pray he continues to strengthen you both in what you do, love the energy and vibes you guys are hilarious and also so well spoken and have great gifts🤍

  • @arielnariah1246
    @arielnariah12466 ай бұрын

    the way i was meditating earlier trying to get in the presence of God and was internally talking to him and expressing the things that i deal with and think about daily and asked for guidance about all of these topics you guys talked about in this just shows how intentionally God is and him allowing me to find this video

  • @nicolechimanikire2040
    @nicolechimanikire20406 ай бұрын

    I'm feel the urge to like the video, every 5 minutes. I needed this. God bless you both ❤

  • @hanajahslens
    @hanajahslens6 ай бұрын

    naww but y'all are so goofy😂that's what I love about y'all, just so genuine and relatable!! I loved the part about guarding your heart going back to Proverbs 4:23, and how what we say yes and no can determine how much the wisdom and discernment you have or If you have it at all! Having the wisdom and discernment is truly something that is from the Holy Spirit yesss

  • @valerielopez5640
    @valerielopez56406 ай бұрын

    Both men and women should be able to do basic things such as know how to cook and clean period

  • @akpejiprincesseneni2872
    @akpejiprincesseneni28726 ай бұрын

    I want to get married to a Godly man like you honestly. I’d wash, clean and do all that stuff. I’ve grown to learn to care for my children. I want to be a stay at home mum honestly

  • @Vic_Johnson
    @Vic_Johnson6 ай бұрын

    57:49 I am walking through this right now. My husband wouldn’t mind if I stayed home to take of our kids and the houses it’s truly an honor to work a 9-5. But I’m currently in that season where I want to stay at home and create my household and family dynamic. And start my own business which I will launch in Aug 2024

  • @MJJ352

    @MJJ352

    6 ай бұрын

    Praying for the future success of your business, may God continue to watch over you and your family!!! 🙏🏾

  • @alaula_sabia624
    @alaula_sabia6246 ай бұрын

    Thank you Jesus 🤌🏽

  • @user-ko2iq1pn8f
    @user-ko2iq1pn8f6 ай бұрын

    Bible is how we change the world.

  • @amb4368
    @amb43686 ай бұрын

    Yall are funny i swear! Thank yall for being a light showing me how to be a loving christian ✝️❤

  • @abrilrivera1628
    @abrilrivera16286 ай бұрын

    my respect for the realness, cooking is necessary beautiful ladies. Be patient with yourself as you learn and we will grow into home makers for the right mannnn . Thats just where we naturally thrive , it's a vibe

  • @FaithnChrist
    @FaithnChrist6 ай бұрын

    Yeah it’s true. Sometimes when it comes to a relationship, you might not be ready or it’s probably just not the right time yet. People are always asking me why I’m not in one and I explain this to them every time.

  • @Bert1010
    @Bert10104 ай бұрын

    idk how you guys never came across my timeline until yesterday! God bless yall

  • @seleneh3264
    @seleneh32646 ай бұрын

    Glory to God! You two are sharing in order to advance the Kingdom of God thorough true wisdom. I know you've been praying for this! Its so wonderful that God hears us and he answers... We love you Jesus!!!

  • @keraalyssa1475
    @keraalyssa14753 ай бұрын

    This is one of those pod cast that I needed to hear you guys speak so much wisdom. Thank you

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart4 ай бұрын

    I am late but so happy God led me to this podcast channel! 😭🫶🏻 Love you guys, thank you for sharing your wisdom & insight from the Lord 🙏🏼💗

  • @wholewomanyaya
    @wholewomanyaya6 ай бұрын

    BEST podcast episode I’ve watched thus far!! Bravo

  • @shantynaeatwater6303
    @shantynaeatwater63036 ай бұрын

    Melody! Your clarity and passion 🔥🤍 so pure and realllll! E.. it’d be crazy to shoot my shot in the comments lollll no but your wisdom!! The way your mind operates! Whew hard to find a man of God with these kind of traits and spiritual awakening these days! I LOVE YOU GUYS! Keep it up🫶🏾✝️

  • @busisiwexaba8044
    @busisiwexaba80445 ай бұрын

    I just started listening to your podcast, and your topic is what I'm preying for to change on. I have always pushed people way and thinking there where the issue I have never, self reflect but yesterday I was preying about it holy spirit told me It was me and I took time to self reflect. Thank you for this I need it

  • @FavourLucky-wq3qy
    @FavourLucky-wq3qy6 ай бұрын

    I'm always excited for heavenly bondddddd.I love u guys so much❤❤❤

  • @loubennecarde3573
    @loubennecarde35736 ай бұрын

    All facts! E is spot on every man of God should know these roles. This was as great episode✨

  • @alondrareyes_
    @alondrareyes_6 ай бұрын

    love this podcast! 💖💖

  • @AbigailGodsgirl27
    @AbigailGodsgirl276 ай бұрын

    My fav Christian pod let’s go 🤪🤪

  • @BriiiskiBeats
    @BriiiskiBeats6 ай бұрын

    🥰 Loved this ❤ Thank You! Praise God 🙏🏽 for this Podcast and these beautiful souls 🙌🏽

  • @Silvi757
    @Silvi7576 ай бұрын

    We are the light of Christ. More and more we are turning on in their awakening. We are the second coming. We are here. We are not motivated politically, dogmatically, socially, financially, or by oppression. We are motivated by Love, freedom, and acceptance. The more light, the less darkness. We are the Light of Christ

  • @samiiboo1
    @samiiboo16 ай бұрын

    Yall are HILARIOUS and amazing!! I recently started watching yall, and I've enjoyed every econs

  • @mercedes6396
    @mercedes63966 ай бұрын

    I found you guys a week ago and I binge watch every episode. I love it hereeeeeee❤🎉

  • @nickolasdavis4
    @nickolasdavis46 ай бұрын

    This blessed me. Thank you Guys ❤ *kisses* I love you Jesus!!!

  • @kelcipaige6497
    @kelcipaige64976 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the adviceeeee! I really love you guys. I pray for her definitely and I wish I was closer to love on her MORE. I really appreciate you guys responding to my Apple comment💓💓💓 praying for yall continuous success !

  • @thase4

    @thase4

    6 ай бұрын

    We love you!! 💙

  • @500john
    @500john6 ай бұрын

    We all growing from something and I do my best to always help and guide those around me and like ya say it’s not them it’s you and that goes both ways 😂 you can be the good person and the wrong one I pray for everyone that is still in need for the lord god I love you and always will follow him only he can show you and bring you where you need to be

  • @adornjamani
    @adornjamani6 ай бұрын

    25:39 Heavy on the “Man of God”

  • @adornjamani
    @adornjamani6 ай бұрын

    1:01:53 The truth needs no company 💯 agree. We definitely have to bring that back ;especially with how the world is now we need to grow our kids .

  • @ryley7123
    @ryley71234 ай бұрын

    Loved this episode 🩷🙏

  • @Kat_Apiata
    @Kat_Apiata3 ай бұрын

    So good ❤🙏

  • @Aristydanisha
    @Aristydanisha6 ай бұрын

    I love y’all fr 😂😂 I hope to meet y’all one day. Both your mindsets are so fire, it’s that Godly wisdom fr 🔥 & I love how strong E stands on what he says no matter what 😭

  • @xkendlex3475
    @xkendlex34756 ай бұрын

    this was really good! thank youu and God bless💞

  • @user-sn4qm9iz2u
    @user-sn4qm9iz2u6 ай бұрын

    Happy to be back❤️

  • @777coexist
    @777coexist6 ай бұрын

    love this.

  • @JadBeinJad
    @JadBeinJad6 ай бұрын

    Melody: Heavenly bonnneeeed. E: Go deeper! Go deeper!! Lol, i loved this and God truly spoke to me through you guys, you guys have so much wisdom from God, thank you for the discernment Jesus. Holy spirit, please help everyone have discernment. In Jesus name, I pray Amen 🙏🏾

  • @YeilinGomezB
    @YeilinGomezB6 ай бұрын

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️‍🔥 excelente EP! Thank u guys, thank u Lordddd

  • @alannamateo3958
    @alannamateo39583 ай бұрын

    I love you guys going deeper 😁❤ keep it up!

  • @Heavenlytruths.
    @Heavenlytruths.6 ай бұрын

    This is so powerful honestly my life has been changing since i have started watching this podcast i would like to make a request if you could make a video about speaking in tongues as christian cause i am curious about this topic as a new believer

  • @kamogelontuli3888
    @kamogelontuli38884 ай бұрын

    I love this podcast and the real talk ❤ shout out from south Africa 🙏✌️

  • @ollii5771
    @ollii57716 ай бұрын

    Yea nah this is definitely for me 😭at least I have the knowledge now to help me realise I'm the problem and how I can fix that🤞🏽God bless you guys 🙏🏽

  • @yalimarmercedes6179
    @yalimarmercedes61796 ай бұрын

    I love your podcast guys❤!!!! I just pray for more Bible verses 😪🥲 the first verse that came to my mind from the title was Matt 7:3-5

  • @alisabee3
    @alisabee36 ай бұрын

    I love it. I think if the man and women want there roles that’s great but the provider should still be an active participant when raising the kids. And yes marriage provides stability!!!

  • @itsallaboutjesus.4906
    @itsallaboutjesus.49066 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ i definitely loooveeed this episode too as you did..🤗 blessings to you guys...😘😘😘 keep it up in Jesus' mighty name!!!

  • @sandramks3876
    @sandramks38766 ай бұрын

    You guys went deeper🔥

  • @Jessstaysfresh1
    @Jessstaysfresh16 ай бұрын

    It feels genuine keep it up

  • @shawnsaligan8745
    @shawnsaligan87456 ай бұрын

    Heavennnnnlyyyyy bonddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd 🎉📖👏✨️💯

  • @Vanessa-km9mf
    @Vanessa-km9mf6 ай бұрын

    I love this podcast , honestly!!! I find myself saying out of the blue …..🗣️HEAVENLY BONDDDDD!!! Haha, love it. God bless you both , abundantly 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @YoMikeSZN
    @YoMikeSZN6 ай бұрын

    E was PASSIONATE this episode bro was cookin

  • @elizabethmichael1392
    @elizabethmichael13926 ай бұрын

    I was listening on Apple Pod but I wanted to see how you caught the bottle😂going back to Apple now🥰

  • @PhoebeKimM
    @PhoebeKimM6 ай бұрын

    I love your videos so much hope I'll get to meet you guys🤗

  • @luelenidramirez3272
    @luelenidramirez32726 ай бұрын

    Go deeeepaaahhhh

  • @AmiyahhAnnette
    @AmiyahhAnnette6 ай бұрын

    This was sooo juicy lol and definitely spot on! I could even see a part 2 of this! It would be nice to see the traditional way of having a household with Biblical principles! thank you guys for this video!🤍

  • @maryannenayebare8813
    @maryannenayebare88136 ай бұрын

    Heavenlyyy bOoOoooOnddd🤣🤣🔥

  • @thehoratiojay
    @thehoratiojay6 ай бұрын

    Heavenly Boooooooooonnnnnnnndddd

  • @emma_kmn3795
    @emma_kmn37956 ай бұрын

    Heavenlybonnnd😊

  • @kaylanisalgado7798
    @kaylanisalgado77986 ай бұрын

    Heavenly boooonnnd✨🫶🏾

  • @giavonnalove1743
    @giavonnalove17436 ай бұрын

    We gon need E to hold a master class for the men of God

  • @AudaL
    @AudaL6 ай бұрын

    0:36 okay alright 😂😂be cracking me up

  • @FaithnChrist
    @FaithnChrist6 ай бұрын

    GO DEEPUH! 👏🏽 😂😂

  • @nickolasdavis4
    @nickolasdavis46 ай бұрын

    55:01 😅 Men provide . Women nurture.

  • @bigyoung_sa
    @bigyoung_sa6 ай бұрын

    Not Imano snitching on the mercy 😂😂😂

  • @emilyharuperi6614
    @emilyharuperi66146 ай бұрын

    7:01 really is crazy🤣

  • @numb4882
    @numb48823 ай бұрын

    I think melody may want a nanny😂😂

  • @Wheelztotheworld
    @Wheelztotheworld6 ай бұрын

  • @eboniewirrer9127
    @eboniewirrer91276 ай бұрын

    My brain is glitching so much at that ‘play fighting isn’t normal.’ What you mean?

  • @Willem_J
    @Willem_J6 ай бұрын

    Completely agree i would want to raise my own kids not have someone else raise my kid

  • @deborahseegobin6004
    @deborahseegobin60046 ай бұрын

    another great episode! can yall touch on 1 Corinthians 11:1-16 in an upcoming episode?

  • @zyatta
    @zyatta6 ай бұрын

    Shoot i would love to be a house wife, who signed us up to work???😭

  • @nickolasdavis4
    @nickolasdavis46 ай бұрын

    1:03:57 THATS A P31!!!!!!

  • @Michael-gc9dc
    @Michael-gc9dc4 ай бұрын

    They didn’t do the boys perspective

  • @RealCorban.
    @RealCorban.6 ай бұрын

    1:10:03 Bronem always snitching

  • @_mamamoo
    @_mamamoo6 ай бұрын

    I’m new are you brother and sister?

  • @thase4

    @thase4

    6 ай бұрын

    Yeah we’re siblings

  • @_mamamoo

    @_mamamoo

    6 ай бұрын

    That is so cool, I love both of your perspectives! Sometimes it seems as though your sister is so excited and has so many good, well spoken words to say that you don’t get a chance to finish your ideas. I wanted to hear how you elaborated on reassuring an insecure woman and helping her to get to the root of her insecurities as you guys were explaining helping a man get to the root of his lust 13:32

  • @makeritamamea9474
    @makeritamamea94746 ай бұрын

    Great conversation and topics!🔥 My favorite episode thus far🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @Damnayo
    @Damnayo5 ай бұрын

    The heavenly rizz from E 🫦🤣