Resolving Family Issues || The MA Podcast || S2 || Ep 34
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@ayeshairam7745 Жыл бұрын
Honestly lack of words to praise her. The more you listen, the more you want to listen to her. She is undoubtedly blessed with beautiful thoughts n words, from which she is helping humanity. The woman like her is a gem to her family. May Allah bless her here n hereafter!
@prachimastan3818
Жыл бұрын
Plz share name of the lady. In these podcast
@truebeliever3948
Жыл бұрын
She is MUGHEERA LUQMAN'S MOTHER
@aishaa99171
Жыл бұрын
And to have a child like @mugheera luqman is cherry on top mashaAllah. How blessed this family is! ❤
@maryamayubsheikh Жыл бұрын
Assalam u alaikum! Dealing with toxic family members is toughestttt thing in the world bcz v can't leave them 😭😭 u've changed my perception towards them & resolved my biggesttt problem Jazak Allah for this informative podcast.🙏🤍
@truebeliever3948
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@hibamompk
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@saniyasaba1623
Жыл бұрын
MAY ALLAH PAK BLESSS YOU WITH EASE AND PEACE AMEEEEN SUM AMEEEN
@bhatishrat8666
Жыл бұрын
Allah tala Ussai shefa karaii.. Aameen ya Rabb...
@aditikundu9916
Жыл бұрын
Guess what u can leave them!
@zulfiqarmahmood8015 Жыл бұрын
ماشااللہ علی بھائی آپ جب بھی ان محترم خاتون کے ساتھ بات کرتے ہیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے کہ اگر اللہ تعالی عورت کو اچھا ذہن دے دے تو دنیا بھی جنت اور آخرت میں بھی جنت۔ اللہ کرے ہمارے بچے، بچیاں ان محترم خاتون کی باتوں کو سمجھ کر اس کے مطابق عمل کر پائیں، آمین
@sumairakhizar7978
6 ай бұрын
I think woh sirf kawateen ki hi nai dono taraf se baat samjhana chahti ...mard should have to be
@mahfoozbegum4734
Ай бұрын
Tru
@UnKnown-fw2mz Жыл бұрын
Dr. Asiya is kind a dose for me. I love to listen her after few days.
@shadteacher Жыл бұрын
This is called a balanced and practical talk. Love it.
@Qalbiwrites Жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu khayrn brothers aap logo ki waja se hamari life m itni changes aa rhi hain aap logo ne deen ko itna beautifully explain kia h
@Sajidedits02
Жыл бұрын
Yes All the youth club members are gem.
@Qalbiwrites
Жыл бұрын
@@Sajidedits02 G! They all are precious we need more brothers like them
@ilmakhan7260
Жыл бұрын
Yesssss.......mujhe bhi bahutttttt knowledge mili hai
@themughal31311 ай бұрын
Really glad to see the great women like her who genuinely care for men and understand them.
@samraza4398 Жыл бұрын
Ali bhai and Dr. Asiya Madni always doing a great job in regards to family counseling and issues. It's helping out the society in many ways. May ALLAH PAK bless you both with lots of happiness.
@heenamaqbool9251 Жыл бұрын
Assalam u alaikum. Maam I must say that we as muslimahs need strong and dynamic women like u as our mentor's. And sir I salute ur way of balancing things, accepting many wrong things in men which is really a symbol of courage being a man ur self.
@nidamoedkhan391 Жыл бұрын
This podcast is a gem . Simply love it. Already listened to it 4 times. Jazakallah khair. When ma'am comes , it just goes to another level. May Allah bless you both with long life and health .
@shamailafarooq Жыл бұрын
This is the first time I got a very positive yet realistic perspective on dealing with with toxicity and narcissism. MashaAllah
@tayyabanauman8416 Жыл бұрын
This was an awesome podcast learned alot from auntie please invite her more often.
@farzanaahmad2723 Жыл бұрын
Assalamo alekum ap sabhi plz mere 3 month baby yusuf ke liye dua kare plzzz allah usko sifa ata kare ameen🤲🤲🇮🇳
@Short.Reminders
Жыл бұрын
Allah jald complete shifa de yusuf ko. Aameen ✨
@zeeshanahmad1601
Жыл бұрын
Amin
@theakshu0498
Жыл бұрын
Ameen...
@kiranikram4407
Жыл бұрын
Beshak ALLAH PAK shifa ata farmya ga sister dua krayn or yakeen rakhy hain ALLAH PAK py...
@farheensayyed9542
Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@TheAabi22 Жыл бұрын
behtreen baten kahi aap logon ne.. likin ik baat kahoongi yahan per kch logon ki zindagiyan poori poori isi tug of war mai guzar jaati hai literally poori life..
@imranch1545 Жыл бұрын
Aslam o Alaikum Ali bhai am from Paris. last 1 year sy apko follow kia hai Alhmdulillah bht faida hoa hai abi bhi bht si galti gunah ho jata hai Allah pak mjhy Rah e haddaytt py chlny ki tofiq attaa frmaye Ameen ♥️
@vishayy11 ай бұрын
MashaAllah such a soothing voice she has. Every word out of her mouth is Precious. A REAL QUEEN! 👑
@faizashuja3193 Жыл бұрын
*ماشاء الله تبارك الله* Such an amazing and excellent podcast. Great Analysis with tremendous wisdom. Excellent communication skills. May *ALLAH SWT* grant you all tremendous rewards in both worlds. *آمين يارب العالمين*
@SADKHAN95953 Жыл бұрын
one of the best conversation on youtube...Alhamdulillah...no words to describe.
@oreo3271 Жыл бұрын
Apa is amazing.pinning the right point.Muhammad Ali bhai is asking such pertinent question family issues ki rug per haath hai.MashAllah wala...
@SYEDNURULHasan1789 Жыл бұрын
She understood the human psychology so well that deserves commendation...
@temporary_world Жыл бұрын
I agree with Ma'ams point on individuality, diverting your mind by keeping yourself busy and knowing that you are not the problem in case of narcissists but I don't agree that you must not distance yourself from narcissists.. If physically its not possible as in most cases then emotionally you have to do it else you will also acquire narcissists behaviour and become toxic.. and no amount of care or love from you will change them unless they themselves want to change it (ofcousre nothing is impossible for ALLAH. But where is the test then if every narcissists get better one day.) It's sort of wired in their brain and they don't see anything wrong in it. You can sympathise with them but you can't be emotionally attached to them else you will be abused emotionally and mentally. Your energy will be sucked up. Their favourite weapon is projecting their shortcomings on you and gaslighting you. Detaching emotionally will not let it happen to you and they will be happy thinking that they have achieved their goal. And always pretending to be agreeing with them also won't work as they are very smart and will see through it and ask you to do more difficult things increasing levels everytime. So, once in a while openly disagree as well to give them the satisfaction that they reached your nerves. It's all a game for them and you have to play that game. But play the game setting your own rules. This will help you protect yourself and your children. Do your best as much as you can but never keep on sacrificing yourself because in the end you will end up empty shell. Knowing when to put the break in their list of demands and knowing that you are human too will help in long run. Note:- please don't come after me for this thing. It's your choice whether you want to follow this or not. Also if anyone claims that the other person is narcissists without inspecting ownself for those trait then most likely you are narcissist yourself. If you think it's impossible for you to be a narcissist then that is a red flag.
@saimamaqsood3922
Жыл бұрын
Agree with this post 100% I lived with a narcissist for 20 years. I have given everything to keep the family together. Now in court for a divorce that is imposed on me. Empty shell is best description of what i am right now. I wanted to leave this toxic relationship for years but was forced by parents to stay. Don't know what could i have done differently to not be in this situation. Everyone from both sides of the family stands by me. But no amount of support means anything to what i have lost... 25 years of my life!! If you see nothing is working pack and leave is what i would tell a narcissist's wife or husband.
@temporary_world
Жыл бұрын
@@saimamaqsood3922 May ALLAH heal you. It's very sad how other people don't see the signs and you are left in this mess all alone. May ALLAH ease your life now. And Yes leaving a narcissist is the best advise.👍 Only awareness among mass population will help victims leave without losing so many years of life.
@temporary_world
Жыл бұрын
@@saimamaqsood3922 and best way on journey of healing is to accept that you couldn't have done anything else and fault is not upon you.💓
@ayeshakhurram9672
Жыл бұрын
@@saimamaqsood3922 i too agree 100 % and can feel your pain ..... May Allah heal you, have gone through the same and wasted may whole life, pray for me too dear sisters 🌷
@salehafatima9909
Жыл бұрын
So so true. Agree 100%
@fahminakhurram3212 Жыл бұрын
Ma sha ALLAH bht zaber10. Ehtreen samjhana ma sha ALLAH ALLAH SALAMAT RKHY AAMEEN ALLAHUMMA AAMEEN
@nataliakhan3324 Жыл бұрын
What a fantastic intelligent nuanced conversation… both speakers were so sensible . Thank you so much
@farihaasim6521 Жыл бұрын
JazakAllah o khairan.. such a amazing and fruitful podcast.. much needed one..
@binterazzaq6427 Жыл бұрын
Masha a Allah Amazing topic 💕 Thank you soo much Mohammad Ali Bhai Barak Allah
@asiyaasif1231 Жыл бұрын
Asalam o Alaikum wa rehmatullah!! Alhumdulillahi rub il alamin... Bahtreen topic.. Its seems u r talking to me... Stay blesed.. Allah berket day ameen 💕
@amreenshaikh4841 Жыл бұрын
I am Also a woman & i am in love her & i wish i could be like her. ❤️
@izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Жыл бұрын
Mashallah yar ap in aunty ko hamesha bulaya karin plz in ki batain dil main utar jati hain also kindly invite prof doc javed iqbal
@kaamkatv Жыл бұрын
یا اللہ رب العزت.... ہمیں اپنی رحمت سے کبھی بھی مایوس نہ ہونے دینا... ہمارا بن جانا اور ہمیں اپنا بنا لینا... آمین یا رب العالمین
@atharnaeem9730
Жыл бұрын
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@maryumsateh2036 Жыл бұрын
Amazing talk Ustaza Asia May Allah give her more wisdom and enable her to help others .
@fancymalik5487
Жыл бұрын
If anyone is having her contact . Please forward. Im in need
@sabihamustafai9044 Жыл бұрын
Is guftgu ko sun kar mujhe ehsas hua yeh meri apni soch aur uspar amal paira hona tha chand sal mein hi sare hi log mujhse ziyadah kisi ko aql mand aur izzat wali khatoon nahin.... 70+ eyer mein apki guftgu ne samjha diya . Jjazakul lahu khairan kaseera.
@goodthink6184 Жыл бұрын
اللہ تبارک وتعالیٰ آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش رکھے آمین یا ربّ العالمین ❣️❣️
@desilivingcanada3668 Жыл бұрын
Ma Sha Allah, amazing discussion. You really pin point all the important aspects that we are dealing with our lives, now a days.
@humee7088 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah, I learned a lot from this video, JazakaAllah
@vishaldehade7515 Жыл бұрын
Waa really nice and great session 👏 👍
@truebeliever3948 Жыл бұрын
30:00..hazrath Nusayba (Ra) Umm e Ayman and many more, Apart from those 4 ladies Jo Nabi(saw) zikar kar chukae Hain.
@sabakhan5678 Жыл бұрын
Ma Sha Allah! Best ever conversation I have heard on KZread! May Allah swt give Jaza e khair to the ustaza and to the host!
@zarnabrajpoot Жыл бұрын
Sir I have learnt a big lesson from this podcast that how to deal with toxic People. Mam Asia explained it very well.😊Sir plz do a podcast with mam about Sahabias so that we know more about their life ❤😊
@pandaleena9170 Жыл бұрын
Jazakillah Ali Bhai and Aunty... It really helped me out... I think I'll listen it again n again.. Need more podcast like these...
@shifakhan2805 Жыл бұрын
Maa Sha Allah such a beneficial session…and really the book of Aid al Qarni named Don’t be Sad is not only the best medicine for people who are suffering from depression but also for everyone who wants a stable and crisp mindset.
@karam2339
Жыл бұрын
Really nice book
@maryammalik1374
Жыл бұрын
I've downloaded it 😊
@Mrsfahad-sr9ik Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah boht achhi conversation thi ..especially how to deal with toxic people... jazakumullah khair
May Allah guide all of us....Lots of love from india!
@niqabi164
Жыл бұрын
❤️
@samadshahworld
Жыл бұрын
🌹
@syedhussnainbokhari4262 Жыл бұрын
jazak Allah worth listening conversation
@mariyamkhan-jm4qf6 ай бұрын
Mashallah ❤mashallah what a beautiful talk 💯subhan Allah 👍🏻❤️
@abdulhaddi2425 ай бұрын
Allah pak apko sehat tandrusti ata kry ap n is podcast k end p bat smjhai by God ap n meri problem solve kr di
@shabilashabila2538 Жыл бұрын
جَزَاكَ اللّٰهُ بہت مسلۓ حل ہو گٸے ہم سب کے
@myviews4290 Жыл бұрын
Pyari or behad intellectual aunty or brother Allah bless you 🙏♥️ Aap k liye mere pas words nahin Masha Allah behtreen andaze bayan or on points ko itne pyare tareeqe se samjhana jiski hum sub ko behad zaroorat hy Allah pak se hr dum aap tamam behtreen personalities k liye duaen hn hamesha rahengi Inshallah Aameen Suma Aamin ya Rabul 🙏
@Muslimah931 Жыл бұрын
Honestly speaking i could not know the name of aunty but she is more intelligent than all men in youth club 😜 love her to bits.
@tahirajabeen6603
Жыл бұрын
She is mother of mughairah luqman of youth club MashAllah
@atiqaiqbal4587
11 ай бұрын
Acha Masha Allah
@Nadiaandherchildren Жыл бұрын
being toxic is very tough to understand until you are living in it . but some what has been very well described........
@alirashid8543 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Ali Bhai for such a great podcast again
@shabanashaikh1630 Жыл бұрын
Assalamalaykum Very useful and guide me this lecture..jazakallahu khair I must practice All these things.. In Shaa Allah
@ruqqyakashif9495 Жыл бұрын
AOA congratulations for touching such a burning issue of our society۔۔۔hats off to Mr Muhammad Ali and really nice to listen to Dr Asia ۔۔her way of speech and elaborating issues is amazing❤۔۔۔Very nice opinion of Mr Muhammad Ali about discussing family rights in Jumma prayer sermons۔۔۔I really appreciate this point of him👍its need of the time actually۔۔۔JazakAllah khair 🌹
@ismail.159 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah bhot achi malumat
@shabanamazher767 Жыл бұрын
Mujy aisy leg raha ha k mujhy bahtreen andaz mein samjha rehy hein JAZAKALLAH JAZAKILLAH ALLAH AML K TOUFIQ DY MUJHY OR SUB KO AAMEEN
@AnonymousS.1 Жыл бұрын
This issue is really really critical... much needed podcast.. it should be address more.
@simplesolutionbysaira Жыл бұрын
Love this podcast thankyou so much
@zainabghazali5332 Жыл бұрын
Needed topic jazakallah Khair bhai
@Short.Reminders Жыл бұрын
Giving and sacrificing is the key point. Well said barakAllah ✨
@Believe_in_one_Creator
Жыл бұрын
From both side 🖤
@muskaanfatima7629 Жыл бұрын
What a podcast mashallah mashallah...😊😊Literally i learned so much
@Short.Reminders Жыл бұрын
But I feel more than 50% of people nowadays are narcissists. Very difficult to deal with. May Allah heal everyone and make ease for every difficulty. Aameen
@petal21
Жыл бұрын
Narcissists maazrat ke sath kabhi kabhi Walden khud banate hai. Apne bachon ko especially larkon ko ese raise karte hai Bachpan se jawani tak woh boys parents pe dependant hote hai. Beta khana khaa kar ammi ko bulata hai ki ammi le kar jao dastarkhan. I mean, khud to uthaa sakte ho na. Aur phir maa baap ki khidmat karne ki baat karte rehte hai. Khidmat to abhi karni hai na aur kab karni hai phir? Bacha zid kar raha hai to Har zid puri karte hai bacha ghussa dikhata hai to parents us ko chup karane ke liye us ki baat mante hai. Hote hote bacha jawaan ho jata hai tab to Esa lagta hai ki parents jawan bete ke ghussa na dekhne ke liye woh tab bhi baat mante hai. Beta namaz nahi parta to parents kuch nahi batate is dar se ki ghussa na ho jaen. Allah maaf karden aur hidaayat pe rakhen hum sab ko
@sjt4321
Жыл бұрын
narcissist are no easy to deal with. One can become sick while living with such toxic mentality ppl. No matter how nice you try behave with them, they only care about themselves, not even their own kids. such evil they are! may Allah Protect us from their evilness.ameen
@bilalbhai6834
Жыл бұрын
U r right
@saimalatif786
Жыл бұрын
Ameen😢
@afsheenirfan9721
Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@farhatrizwan9636 Жыл бұрын
It really really help me alot. . . Maam nd sr muhammad Ali. . MashaAllah great talk.
@snow_art8snoberwaqar899 Жыл бұрын
Assalam u alaikum its helping me alot whenever ma'am comes with sir muhammad ali please its a request do more on this topic marriage related and tarbiah of kids for newly weds bride please i need this jazakallah 👍
@mehndibyuzma149
Жыл бұрын
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@bebo8193 Жыл бұрын
Asslam u alaikum Mashallah you both of you helped many people like me. Ase laga ki jaise mere liye hi aya vdo. Kuch hai baten vo sahi me kafi logo ko Asa hi laga hoga. As u said toxic people hote hai and yes har jagh hote ham apne aap par tawajjo dena chahiye best aunty. And unko Tabib mentality se treat kare best Ali bhai. Zazakallah
@suniyaarshadbutt2440 Жыл бұрын
MashAllah very informative talk
@nasirahafeez6395 Жыл бұрын
Jzakalla khair an kaseera
@chandjaral99297 ай бұрын
Mashallah amazing speech 😘
@sidrahassan1207 Жыл бұрын
It's a life changing session for me 😌 from now I start working on it Jazakallah khair
@niazi6583 Жыл бұрын
Sir Mohammed Ali is really a very good teacher ma shaa Allah.
@binterazzaq6427 Жыл бұрын
Asslam O Alikum Mohammad Ali Bhai plz make a social media platform where you can answer our questions. Please sir
@aylaasad2325 Жыл бұрын
Much needed amazing podcast
@mahreenislam4203 Жыл бұрын
can’t explain how much i adore mam Asiya...! ♥️
@rehanakhatoon2328 Жыл бұрын
Aaplogo ki solution bahut aachi hai Allah un aurat o ki islamko janne ki taufic aada kare
@mdaetesamuddin8657 Жыл бұрын
This lecture is a blessing !!
@SehrishAsim-bq7wh Жыл бұрын
I got it... I got the exact way to respect myself at last... Ufff... It took alot of years to find my answer...
@abdullhalimtomal9760 Жыл бұрын
I love this episode 😍.I love ur conversation mem
@user-el6eo7ix9o24 күн бұрын
Nice MashaAllah
@ayeshaqamer5024 Жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah khair kaseera
@sunlight2863 Жыл бұрын
She is amazing ...Ma Sha Allah
@Voiceoflife275 Жыл бұрын
Bhai main n ajj app ke buhat sare vedio dehke mashallah nice sharing
@mohammadishaq3284 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah very beautiful and logical conversation regarding relation between wife and husband as well as family....
@maryamansari5400 Жыл бұрын
Kindly come more and more with different topics too, we appreciate the thoughts, Alhamdulillah...
@khalidbeopari9538 Жыл бұрын
اسلام عليكم Ma'am please can u also recommend a book (easy to understand) for the unmarried girls? Wanna prepare for not facing those hectic marriage issues. Just wanna live and let live others happy In Shaa Allah. جذاك الله خيرا
@nayabadroz9188
Жыл бұрын
inshaAllah
@arifkhilji547 Жыл бұрын
Super Excellent 👍👍👍
@nilophertamboli3854 Жыл бұрын
mashaallah very nice explanation..
@vishaldehade7515 Жыл бұрын
Really great 👍 👌 👏
@farieagle7955 Жыл бұрын
Masha ALLAH ,plz do a session with Sahil Abt waqia Karbala ,it will clearify our vision
@naheedshaikh8855 Жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیر کثیرا
@reaperd.indosarusdeathx26067 ай бұрын
Masha Allah
@amtashimali7745 Жыл бұрын
please make a video series on life of prophet Mohammad (PBUH) like tale of exclence there are movies on him but they all show the face of characters .
@Dreamer-ou5qo Жыл бұрын
amazing and very Benificial session jazakALLAH khair sir and ma'am🤍
@saminatahir1623 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah very good thanks for giving the best power energy talking about Islam and 🕋🕋🙏🤲👍👏
@abdullhalimtomal9760 Жыл бұрын
Jazza Allah kahire
@aizanoor.7682 Жыл бұрын
This is very important topic for discuss... Now these types of conflicts highly increasing in all homes
@K_Saida Жыл бұрын
Fantastic topic. Thank you
@haniakhan140 Жыл бұрын
jazkAllah for such a best podcast.
@hunainyousaf9443 Жыл бұрын
Oooo I am waiting sir
@chali5673 Жыл бұрын
Great sir 👌
@Fatimafatima012 Жыл бұрын
So true sir they consider it interference rather than taking it positive
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Honestly lack of words to praise her. The more you listen, the more you want to listen to her. She is undoubtedly blessed with beautiful thoughts n words, from which she is helping humanity. The woman like her is a gem to her family. May Allah bless her here n hereafter!
@prachimastan3818
Жыл бұрын
Plz share name of the lady. In these podcast
@truebeliever3948
Жыл бұрын
She is MUGHEERA LUQMAN'S MOTHER
@aishaa99171
Жыл бұрын
And to have a child like @mugheera luqman is cherry on top mashaAllah. How blessed this family is! ❤
Assalam u alaikum! Dealing with toxic family members is toughestttt thing in the world bcz v can't leave them 😭😭 u've changed my perception towards them & resolved my biggesttt problem Jazak Allah for this informative podcast.🙏🤍
@truebeliever3948
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@hibamompk
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@saniyasaba1623
Жыл бұрын
MAY ALLAH PAK BLESSS YOU WITH EASE AND PEACE AMEEEEN SUM AMEEEN
@bhatishrat8666
Жыл бұрын
Allah tala Ussai shefa karaii.. Aameen ya Rabb...
@aditikundu9916
Жыл бұрын
Guess what u can leave them!
ماشااللہ علی بھائی آپ جب بھی ان محترم خاتون کے ساتھ بات کرتے ہیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے کہ اگر اللہ تعالی عورت کو اچھا ذہن دے دے تو دنیا بھی جنت اور آخرت میں بھی جنت۔ اللہ کرے ہمارے بچے، بچیاں ان محترم خاتون کی باتوں کو سمجھ کر اس کے مطابق عمل کر پائیں، آمین
@sumairakhizar7978
6 ай бұрын
I think woh sirf kawateen ki hi nai dono taraf se baat samjhana chahti ...mard should have to be
@mahfoozbegum4734
Ай бұрын
Tru
Dr. Asiya is kind a dose for me. I love to listen her after few days.
This is called a balanced and practical talk. Love it.
JazakAllahu khayrn brothers aap logo ki waja se hamari life m itni changes aa rhi hain aap logo ne deen ko itna beautifully explain kia h
@Sajidedits02
Жыл бұрын
Yes All the youth club members are gem.
@Qalbiwrites
Жыл бұрын
@@Sajidedits02 G! They all are precious we need more brothers like them
@ilmakhan7260
Жыл бұрын
Yesssss.......mujhe bhi bahutttttt knowledge mili hai
Really glad to see the great women like her who genuinely care for men and understand them.
Ali bhai and Dr. Asiya Madni always doing a great job in regards to family counseling and issues. It's helping out the society in many ways. May ALLAH PAK bless you both with lots of happiness.
Assalam u alaikum. Maam I must say that we as muslimahs need strong and dynamic women like u as our mentor's. And sir I salute ur way of balancing things, accepting many wrong things in men which is really a symbol of courage being a man ur self.
This podcast is a gem . Simply love it. Already listened to it 4 times. Jazakallah khair. When ma'am comes , it just goes to another level. May Allah bless you both with long life and health .
This is the first time I got a very positive yet realistic perspective on dealing with with toxicity and narcissism. MashaAllah
This was an awesome podcast learned alot from auntie please invite her more often.
Assalamo alekum ap sabhi plz mere 3 month baby yusuf ke liye dua kare plzzz allah usko sifa ata kare ameen🤲🤲🇮🇳
@Short.Reminders
Жыл бұрын
Allah jald complete shifa de yusuf ko. Aameen ✨
@zeeshanahmad1601
Жыл бұрын
Amin
@theakshu0498
Жыл бұрын
Ameen...
@kiranikram4407
Жыл бұрын
Beshak ALLAH PAK shifa ata farmya ga sister dua krayn or yakeen rakhy hain ALLAH PAK py...
@farheensayyed9542
Жыл бұрын
Ameen
behtreen baten kahi aap logon ne.. likin ik baat kahoongi yahan per kch logon ki zindagiyan poori poori isi tug of war mai guzar jaati hai literally poori life..
Aslam o Alaikum Ali bhai am from Paris. last 1 year sy apko follow kia hai Alhmdulillah bht faida hoa hai abi bhi bht si galti gunah ho jata hai Allah pak mjhy Rah e haddaytt py chlny ki tofiq attaa frmaye Ameen ♥️
MashaAllah such a soothing voice she has. Every word out of her mouth is Precious. A REAL QUEEN! 👑
*ماشاء الله تبارك الله* Such an amazing and excellent podcast. Great Analysis with tremendous wisdom. Excellent communication skills. May *ALLAH SWT* grant you all tremendous rewards in both worlds. *آمين يارب العالمين*
one of the best conversation on youtube...Alhamdulillah...no words to describe.
Apa is amazing.pinning the right point.Muhammad Ali bhai is asking such pertinent question family issues ki rug per haath hai.MashAllah wala...
She understood the human psychology so well that deserves commendation...
I agree with Ma'ams point on individuality, diverting your mind by keeping yourself busy and knowing that you are not the problem in case of narcissists but I don't agree that you must not distance yourself from narcissists.. If physically its not possible as in most cases then emotionally you have to do it else you will also acquire narcissists behaviour and become toxic.. and no amount of care or love from you will change them unless they themselves want to change it (ofcousre nothing is impossible for ALLAH. But where is the test then if every narcissists get better one day.) It's sort of wired in their brain and they don't see anything wrong in it. You can sympathise with them but you can't be emotionally attached to them else you will be abused emotionally and mentally. Your energy will be sucked up. Their favourite weapon is projecting their shortcomings on you and gaslighting you. Detaching emotionally will not let it happen to you and they will be happy thinking that they have achieved their goal. And always pretending to be agreeing with them also won't work as they are very smart and will see through it and ask you to do more difficult things increasing levels everytime. So, once in a while openly disagree as well to give them the satisfaction that they reached your nerves. It's all a game for them and you have to play that game. But play the game setting your own rules. This will help you protect yourself and your children. Do your best as much as you can but never keep on sacrificing yourself because in the end you will end up empty shell. Knowing when to put the break in their list of demands and knowing that you are human too will help in long run. Note:- please don't come after me for this thing. It's your choice whether you want to follow this or not. Also if anyone claims that the other person is narcissists without inspecting ownself for those trait then most likely you are narcissist yourself. If you think it's impossible for you to be a narcissist then that is a red flag.
@saimamaqsood3922
Жыл бұрын
Agree with this post 100% I lived with a narcissist for 20 years. I have given everything to keep the family together. Now in court for a divorce that is imposed on me. Empty shell is best description of what i am right now. I wanted to leave this toxic relationship for years but was forced by parents to stay. Don't know what could i have done differently to not be in this situation. Everyone from both sides of the family stands by me. But no amount of support means anything to what i have lost... 25 years of my life!! If you see nothing is working pack and leave is what i would tell a narcissist's wife or husband.
@temporary_world
Жыл бұрын
@@saimamaqsood3922 May ALLAH heal you. It's very sad how other people don't see the signs and you are left in this mess all alone. May ALLAH ease your life now. And Yes leaving a narcissist is the best advise.👍 Only awareness among mass population will help victims leave without losing so many years of life.
@temporary_world
Жыл бұрын
@@saimamaqsood3922 and best way on journey of healing is to accept that you couldn't have done anything else and fault is not upon you.💓
@ayeshakhurram9672
Жыл бұрын
@@saimamaqsood3922 i too agree 100 % and can feel your pain ..... May Allah heal you, have gone through the same and wasted may whole life, pray for me too dear sisters 🌷
@salehafatima9909
Жыл бұрын
So so true. Agree 100%
Ma sha ALLAH bht zaber10. Ehtreen samjhana ma sha ALLAH ALLAH SALAMAT RKHY AAMEEN ALLAHUMMA AAMEEN
What a fantastic intelligent nuanced conversation… both speakers were so sensible . Thank you so much
JazakAllah o khairan.. such a amazing and fruitful podcast.. much needed one..
Masha a Allah Amazing topic 💕 Thank you soo much Mohammad Ali Bhai Barak Allah
Asalam o Alaikum wa rehmatullah!! Alhumdulillahi rub il alamin... Bahtreen topic.. Its seems u r talking to me... Stay blesed.. Allah berket day ameen 💕
I am Also a woman & i am in love her & i wish i could be like her. ❤️
Mashallah yar ap in aunty ko hamesha bulaya karin plz in ki batain dil main utar jati hain also kindly invite prof doc javed iqbal
یا اللہ رب العزت.... ہمیں اپنی رحمت سے کبھی بھی مایوس نہ ہونے دینا... ہمارا بن جانا اور ہمیں اپنا بنا لینا... آمین یا رب العالمین
@atharnaeem9730
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Amazing talk Ustaza Asia May Allah give her more wisdom and enable her to help others .
@fancymalik5487
Жыл бұрын
If anyone is having her contact . Please forward. Im in need
Is guftgu ko sun kar mujhe ehsas hua yeh meri apni soch aur uspar amal paira hona tha chand sal mein hi sare hi log mujhse ziyadah kisi ko aql mand aur izzat wali khatoon nahin.... 70+ eyer mein apki guftgu ne samjha diya . Jjazakul lahu khairan kaseera.
اللہ تبارک وتعالیٰ آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش رکھے آمین یا ربّ العالمین ❣️❣️
Ma Sha Allah, amazing discussion. You really pin point all the important aspects that we are dealing with our lives, now a days.
MashaAllah, I learned a lot from this video, JazakaAllah
Waa really nice and great session 👏 👍
30:00..hazrath Nusayba (Ra) Umm e Ayman and many more, Apart from those 4 ladies Jo Nabi(saw) zikar kar chukae Hain.
Ma Sha Allah! Best ever conversation I have heard on KZread! May Allah swt give Jaza e khair to the ustaza and to the host!
Sir I have learnt a big lesson from this podcast that how to deal with toxic People. Mam Asia explained it very well.😊Sir plz do a podcast with mam about Sahabias so that we know more about their life ❤😊
Jazakillah Ali Bhai and Aunty... It really helped me out... I think I'll listen it again n again.. Need more podcast like these...
Maa Sha Allah such a beneficial session…and really the book of Aid al Qarni named Don’t be Sad is not only the best medicine for people who are suffering from depression but also for everyone who wants a stable and crisp mindset.
@karam2339
Жыл бұрын
Really nice book
@maryammalik1374
Жыл бұрын
I've downloaded it 😊
MashaAllah boht achhi conversation thi ..especially how to deal with toxic people... jazakumullah khair
اَللّٰهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَ أُمُوْرِيْ كُلِّهَا وَ أَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ خِزْيِ الدُّنْيَا وَ عَذَابِ الْآخِرَةِ
May Allah guide all of us....Lots of love from india!
@niqabi164
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❤️
@samadshahworld
Жыл бұрын
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jazak Allah worth listening conversation
Mashallah ❤mashallah what a beautiful talk 💯subhan Allah 👍🏻❤️
Allah pak apko sehat tandrusti ata kry ap n is podcast k end p bat smjhai by God ap n meri problem solve kr di
جَزَاكَ اللّٰهُ بہت مسلۓ حل ہو گٸے ہم سب کے
Pyari or behad intellectual aunty or brother Allah bless you 🙏♥️ Aap k liye mere pas words nahin Masha Allah behtreen andaze bayan or on points ko itne pyare tareeqe se samjhana jiski hum sub ko behad zaroorat hy Allah pak se hr dum aap tamam behtreen personalities k liye duaen hn hamesha rahengi Inshallah Aameen Suma Aamin ya Rabul 🙏
Honestly speaking i could not know the name of aunty but she is more intelligent than all men in youth club 😜 love her to bits.
@tahirajabeen6603
Жыл бұрын
She is mother of mughairah luqman of youth club MashAllah
@atiqaiqbal4587
11 ай бұрын
Acha Masha Allah
being toxic is very tough to understand until you are living in it . but some what has been very well described........
Thank you so much Ali Bhai for such a great podcast again
Assalamalaykum Very useful and guide me this lecture..jazakallahu khair I must practice All these things.. In Shaa Allah
AOA congratulations for touching such a burning issue of our society۔۔۔hats off to Mr Muhammad Ali and really nice to listen to Dr Asia ۔۔her way of speech and elaborating issues is amazing❤۔۔۔Very nice opinion of Mr Muhammad Ali about discussing family rights in Jumma prayer sermons۔۔۔I really appreciate this point of him👍its need of the time actually۔۔۔JazakAllah khair 🌹
Mashallah bhot achi malumat
Mujy aisy leg raha ha k mujhy bahtreen andaz mein samjha rehy hein JAZAKALLAH JAZAKILLAH ALLAH AML K TOUFIQ DY MUJHY OR SUB KO AAMEEN
This issue is really really critical... much needed podcast.. it should be address more.
Love this podcast thankyou so much
Needed topic jazakallah Khair bhai
Giving and sacrificing is the key point. Well said barakAllah ✨
@Believe_in_one_Creator
Жыл бұрын
From both side 🖤
What a podcast mashallah mashallah...😊😊Literally i learned so much
But I feel more than 50% of people nowadays are narcissists. Very difficult to deal with. May Allah heal everyone and make ease for every difficulty. Aameen
@petal21
Жыл бұрын
Narcissists maazrat ke sath kabhi kabhi Walden khud banate hai. Apne bachon ko especially larkon ko ese raise karte hai Bachpan se jawani tak woh boys parents pe dependant hote hai. Beta khana khaa kar ammi ko bulata hai ki ammi le kar jao dastarkhan. I mean, khud to uthaa sakte ho na. Aur phir maa baap ki khidmat karne ki baat karte rehte hai. Khidmat to abhi karni hai na aur kab karni hai phir? Bacha zid kar raha hai to Har zid puri karte hai bacha ghussa dikhata hai to parents us ko chup karane ke liye us ki baat mante hai. Hote hote bacha jawaan ho jata hai tab to Esa lagta hai ki parents jawan bete ke ghussa na dekhne ke liye woh tab bhi baat mante hai. Beta namaz nahi parta to parents kuch nahi batate is dar se ki ghussa na ho jaen. Allah maaf karden aur hidaayat pe rakhen hum sab ko
@sjt4321
Жыл бұрын
narcissist are no easy to deal with. One can become sick while living with such toxic mentality ppl. No matter how nice you try behave with them, they only care about themselves, not even their own kids. such evil they are! may Allah Protect us from their evilness.ameen
@bilalbhai6834
Жыл бұрын
U r right
@saimalatif786
Жыл бұрын
Ameen😢
@afsheenirfan9721
Жыл бұрын
Ameen
It really really help me alot. . . Maam nd sr muhammad Ali. . MashaAllah great talk.
Assalam u alaikum its helping me alot whenever ma'am comes with sir muhammad ali please its a request do more on this topic marriage related and tarbiah of kids for newly weds bride please i need this jazakallah 👍
@mehndibyuzma149
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Asslam u alaikum Mashallah you both of you helped many people like me. Ase laga ki jaise mere liye hi aya vdo. Kuch hai baten vo sahi me kafi logo ko Asa hi laga hoga. As u said toxic people hote hai and yes har jagh hote ham apne aap par tawajjo dena chahiye best aunty. And unko Tabib mentality se treat kare best Ali bhai. Zazakallah
MashAllah very informative talk
Jzakalla khair an kaseera
Mashallah amazing speech 😘
It's a life changing session for me 😌 from now I start working on it Jazakallah khair
Sir Mohammed Ali is really a very good teacher ma shaa Allah.
Asslam O Alikum Mohammad Ali Bhai plz make a social media platform where you can answer our questions. Please sir
Much needed amazing podcast
can’t explain how much i adore mam Asiya...! ♥️
Aaplogo ki solution bahut aachi hai Allah un aurat o ki islamko janne ki taufic aada kare
This lecture is a blessing !!
I got it... I got the exact way to respect myself at last... Ufff... It took alot of years to find my answer...
I love this episode 😍.I love ur conversation mem
Nice MashaAllah
Jazak Allah khair kaseera
She is amazing ...Ma Sha Allah
Bhai main n ajj app ke buhat sare vedio dehke mashallah nice sharing
Mashallah very beautiful and logical conversation regarding relation between wife and husband as well as family....
Kindly come more and more with different topics too, we appreciate the thoughts, Alhamdulillah...
اسلام عليكم Ma'am please can u also recommend a book (easy to understand) for the unmarried girls? Wanna prepare for not facing those hectic marriage issues. Just wanna live and let live others happy In Shaa Allah. جذاك الله خيرا
@nayabadroz9188
Жыл бұрын
inshaAllah
Super Excellent 👍👍👍
mashaallah very nice explanation..
Really great 👍 👌 👏
Masha ALLAH ,plz do a session with Sahil Abt waqia Karbala ,it will clearify our vision
جزاک اللہ خیر کثیرا
Masha Allah
please make a video series on life of prophet Mohammad (PBUH) like tale of exclence there are movies on him but they all show the face of characters .
amazing and very Benificial session jazakALLAH khair sir and ma'am🤍
MashaAllah very good thanks for giving the best power energy talking about Islam and 🕋🕋🙏🤲👍👏
Jazza Allah kahire
This is very important topic for discuss... Now these types of conflicts highly increasing in all homes
Fantastic topic. Thank you
jazkAllah for such a best podcast.
Oooo I am waiting sir
Great sir 👌
So true sir they consider it interference rather than taking it positive
Impactable ..!