its soo refreshing to hear someone else have a similar process when it comes to hobbys bc im the same way- like i used to be soo obsessive with tv shows/fandoms and then i would drop it in 2 years, kpop has been a little different for me bc im going on 4 years with bts as my ults and i dont plan on dropping my collection any time soon but its nice to know im not alone in that sense! side note, i also luv watching baseball and going to games lol

@mapledami

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omg i also really haven’t met many people who randomly cycle through hobbies i feel so seen right now lol 😭😭

Aaaahhh I've been waiting for this! Just was so curious what you're going to to with Oneus. XD And yeah, it seems like you've found a way to be happy with your collection again and that makes me happy too! :3 You really don't have to justify anything, like you said it is YOUR collection and it makes no sense to do it in a way that doesn't make YOU happy. Collecting one member is nice, it's not as much stress. I also only collect one and I'm happy about it. Sometimes I'd like to collect the whole group but I think it would just be to overwhelming for me. Also I think it's completely normal that people get into something but lose interest after some years. It's sometimes sad to think about it but you don't have to worry because that happens to (almost?) everyone. So yeah, I like your cute new binder and it's very relatable that you kept some of those OT5 sets. XD Lastly I just wanted to ask if it has been clear from the start that you would collect Dongju if you would downsize or if you thought about any other member or maybe about collecting two or something like that? Just curious about that thought process. ^^ Thanks for the video. :D

@mapledami

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thank you so much for your kind words omg 😭😭 i was so worried to post this video but this was so reassuring 🥺 i thought for a long time about how to downsize since i didn’t really know who my bias was other than ravn, but i debated between seoho and dongju for a couple of months before finally deciding ^^

Oneus sets look so good in an a5 binder! I recently picked up collecting Oneus again because I was having a collecting crisis. I now collect Keonhee and Dongju because I can't decide on a bias. I look forward to your new Oneus collecting journey!!

@mapledami

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right it’s so cute!! i was so excited to move them to an A5 binder 🤧

100% agree. Collecting is sooo expensive and you shouldn't keep up something that you don't love the same as you did before! I also have been having mixed feelings about collecting lately and I don't collect consistently like you have 😅 I am glad to see that this change is really positive for you and brings you peace/relief~

Definitely ok to downsize for your own peace of mind🫶🏻 I've been starting to feel the burn out of having to buy and keep up with everything 😵‍💫 I ult bts and i pre-order the albums to get the weverse pob, but xmas just passed and work time got cut I cannot keep up w the solo albums of they keep going at this pace🙏🏻 I'm like trying to come to terms with the fact that is ok if i get the album later without a pob, or that maybe once they're all enlisted I'll have some extra money to buy it secondhand 😪

@mapledami

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omg i totally feel this!!! i didn’t even buy indigo yet and i hear jimin will release a solo next month now 😭😭

your cover looks amazing!!

@mapledami

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Thank you so much!!

im happy that you are choosing what you want to do, even if the process is long

@mapledami

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tysm!! 🥺🤧

17:52 you should put that finger heart card in the front of the binder it's super cute ❤️ love your collection

Will you be selling your other cards? I would be very interested!

@mapledami

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actually yes however i had someone offer to buy the entire collection, we are still working out details so if it doesn’t go through they will be up on my instagram!! ^^

the binder cover is so cute!!!! why u say it's not cute 😢

@mapledami

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oh thank you so much!!🤧 i feel like everyone else is so talented that mine looks sad in comparison lol 😭😭

Out of curiosity how did you end up wanting to only collect Xion. I’m also a xion bias.sorry if this is mean

@mapledami

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i debated for a few months after i realized i wanted to downsize and since my bias line was ravn/seoho/xion i knew i wanted to either collect both seoho/xion or only one of them. after a while though i thought collecting just one member was best and so i chose xion ^^

The binder cover it's lovely ♡ also, this makes me feel better about downsizing when I need to/ feel overwhelmed 🫶

@mapledami

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tysm!!! and i’m so glad my video could give you some piece of mind! 🥰🥰