Starting at 30 is when a man hits his prime. Even in the Bible Jesus started his ministry at 30. King David was anointed at 30 etc. Just be patient fellas

@6-98

2 жыл бұрын

Good thing I found Elliott at age 17 and now I'm 18 this man speaks the realest shit on youtube and there is no other like him

@FLS713HTX

2 жыл бұрын

Wow thanks for that brotha

@aabevincent5601

2 жыл бұрын

@@6-98 I am 18 just like you brother! It's soooooo hard to find like minded people nowadays I never meet people of my age that thinks like me you know?....

@piccolo5346

2 жыл бұрын

Unless you’re goal is to become a famous athlete...30 isn’t that old.

@derekstreet322

2 жыл бұрын

Joseph got out of prison and was second in command to Pharoah when he was 30

I just turned 24. After 4-5 years of being two major relationships, I’m more than happy to be single. This is the time when I focus on my health, friendships, family and education/career. There’s so much to learn and so far to go. I can’t imagine having a woman in my life for a very long time. It’s tough because I don’t believe in casual sex and clearly don’t have time for a relationship. All the power to my fellow single lads out there!

@OzanCaglar

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha are you me? Happened to me this year too :)

@TheSoundofTanay

2 жыл бұрын

@@OzanCaglar we’re in this together man xD

@lsubeast13

2 жыл бұрын

Semen retention will change your life bro. Stay on your grind and grow as a man physically mentally and spiritually

@isdenn7

2 жыл бұрын

turning 25 soon... also had a couple of girls but I think the same most of the times girls were a distraction, im glad for my experiences but i can see now how they can pull me down if Im not 100 % on my path. soo let's keep working on ourselves !!

@Mrjemal1

2 жыл бұрын

Inspiring to hear that. I've been in one long term relationship at 25 and realise it's about PERSOANL growth! So much we must accomplish first before we seek woman and I am thankful I went through BS in my early years... now I know how and why its beneficial to put YOURSELF first! Keep grinding 💪 💯

Extremely honest and truthful assessment of reality. Therefore most of society will hate it. Why? Because they would rather hear pretty lies rather than brutal honesty.

@6-98

2 жыл бұрын

The sad truth of today's generation, but hey that's just motivation for me

@888shayan

2 жыл бұрын

preciesly

@TheModernSamurai

2 жыл бұрын

Use your 20s to hustle and build an empire for your 30s!

@claudiu_npd

2 жыл бұрын

That's one of the recent lessons I have learned. I understand now that no one wants to hear the truth, especially girls & I've always been brutally honest. I guess it's time to change that.

@thebetterplaybook7891

2 жыл бұрын

It is best to worry about what matters to you rather than others

This is great advice. When I was younger I got NO attention from women. Now that im in my late 20s the women are starting to chase after me. Women that rejected me in high school now want me. I politely tell then no and go back to dating women in their early 20s

@Chadthefatherbear

2 жыл бұрын

32 here. Got SOME attention from attractive 18-21 year old women when I was 18-21 years old BUT I was a full-blown beta male simp until like age 26. After the military I had woken up to what’s going on, I went back to college at 26 and by age 28 I was sleeping with an 18 year old or two from class. Now I’m 32, was in the gym yesterday, got a 19 year old’s number who says she’s about to go back to college out of state; “I’m tryin to have fun before I go back.” 🤷🏻‍♂️

@Heritagepostfarms

2 жыл бұрын

@@Chadthefatherbear Boy, stop sleeping around and pop out some babies with a wife

@MrDavidinho96

2 жыл бұрын

What did you do differently to make women attracted yo you, if I may ask?

@Heritagepostfarms

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrDavidinho96 A lot of it was simply age and the maturity that came with it. But I also aquired a lot more resources (great job, house, nice car)

@Tm4k10

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrDavidinho96 the trick is to not do it for the women, elevate yourself for YOU and women will follow

I can really relate to your words, man! I’m 34 now and married and all the girls i used to like when i was 20-24, now they realize that i’m a good catch and regret not giving me a chance 10 years ago… Well, too late now, darling 🤷‍♂️

This video was very helpful man. I’m 22 just graduated college, I have a full time job I’m in the best shape of my life and I still have 0 options. It seems messed up but I trust that god will get me through this grinding stage. Keep up the good work Elliot

@connor43057

2 жыл бұрын

Most of this advice isn't good. You have no options because you're not being *fun* around women. You can be in great shape, have excellent finances, and be surrounded by super models, but unless you're able to show them a good time they're not gonna stick around. As for how to show them a good time, you don't need anything too fancy (unless your goal is to retain gold diggers). Just pick something that you enjoy that isn't too obscure and share it with cool girls :)

@kingleki26

2 жыл бұрын

bro you’re on the right path, just wait!!💯

@charlesbukowski7730

2 жыл бұрын

Read models by Mark Manson and change your Life. You dont have to expect 10 Years for get laid. You can now.

@AfroLatinoJG

2 жыл бұрын

Bro you’re on the right track. I know some ppl including friends at 22 that still dunno what to do and are unemployed

@kevinodera2157

2 жыл бұрын

Amen bro...may the good Lord see u thru in Jesus name...amen

Im literally crying, when he said you respect up and love down it changed my whole perspective

This idea about 12 year cycles is pretty spot on. I am 24 and I feel like this last year I have really learnt what it truly means to be a man. I now have a girlfriend, I’m the leader and I am devoted to my purpose and building my life. Thanks Elliott, you’ve helped me a lot over the years.

@sonjaki

2 жыл бұрын

Love to hear that 🙌🏼

Can't thank you enough, Elliot. This is very valuable for a guy my age, especially growing up without a father. Forever grateful

Just turned 30 this year, never broke more than 45k a year prior to this, this year I'm starting at 65k + bonuses, am in the best shape of my life and women are just flocking, it takes time fellas, stay focused and stay vigilant

Guys are attractive by what they provide, women by their looks So don’t just wait on your time, keep progressing and build your empire

@isdenn7

2 жыл бұрын

and by their aura. if you retain your seed your aura will be high, I can recommend you buddha xan youtube channel u wont regret it

@Jay-yy7uk

2 жыл бұрын

Guys are attractive by what they provide to women who want security. Usually 28+ year old women or women looking for a boyfriend. But at all ages, women also get turned on by looks and choose guys based on looks for casual stuff.

@TheCraydee

2 жыл бұрын

Girls that are past their prime and have been thrown around by guys care about the beta providers. Looks are the main attraction

solid game Elliot. I'm 22 and made the personal decision at 20 to lock in my early 20s loving the results so far

I have never dated a girl, I am 24 in good athletic shape reasonably good looking and I feel as though I have missed the fun years that many of my peers had. Although, I feel blessed at the same time that I haven't been tainted by any relationships and I don't have that distraction now. I will be able to focus on my career and work and allow the rewards to present themselves when they do.

@michiel4894

2 жыл бұрын

23 and exactly in the same spot as you. We will have our time mate.

@kristiyangrigorov5232

10 ай бұрын

22 same situations as you, although i dont find myself good looking, maybe more like average looking dude.

Patience: : bearing pains or trials calmly or without complaint 2 : manifesting forbearance under provocation or strain 3 : not hasty or impetuous 4 : steadfast despite opposition, difficulty, or adversity 5a : able or willing to bear -used with of

From 33 till 38 now I’ve had way more women than I did younger. It’s down to being more complete with yourself. Mind,body, money etc… I feel as though it accelerates even further as you get older before you actually start to turn inwards and you don’t even think about girls. I can see that happening because self improvement never stops.

Please never stop making videos. I follow you since my early 20's and yeah, it was a rough time until now where i'm 28 with shaking my body and bioenergetic stuff, but damn. If i would be the same guy as i was at 20, i don't know what would have happend to me. Your videos saved me in some way to grow and build a character, which i need to stabilize. Beautiful video.

@DouglasNollPeacemaker

2 жыл бұрын

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“Women age like milk” 🤣 🤣 true

@proykemrscthcmc

2 жыл бұрын

men like fine wine

@geneticsmatter3834

2 жыл бұрын

Haha not quite true, because then that’s basically a pedophilic statement if ya think about it. I’ve always thought that they age like fruit. When they’re too young, everything is too tight and underdeveloped, lacking real JUICINESS and softness… then they ripen, and then finally they are mushy and wrinkly. This somewhat is the case for men, but I’d say we are ripe/“prime” for longer, and in quite a different manner. And we have a bold mind that, if you’ve lived right, WILL age like wine. Women can experience a little bit of this, but to a lesser degree.

@masterexploder9668

Жыл бұрын

@@proykemrscthcmc Only if they take care of themselves, instead of growing that beer belly and going complacent.

One of Elliott’s best videos. Go back to this often for solace

Im 41 and just starting to get it together. Powerful stuff Elliott

Elliot, man... Your every video is worth gold, God bless you man.

Jo Elliot, thanks for al these good videos man! Didn't know you a few weeks ago but I learned a lot already. One of the best mentors!

When I was in my 20s I thought money was the key to being happy and being a real man . Now I'm 36 with money and material things and I see all of that doesn't even matter . When we die we are not taking anything . I believe real relationships are the key to being happy family..

Man that's some golden pill advice right here! Thank you man for your advice, it's really eye opening.

Fellas, continue to focus on your purpose and stay disciplined. I'm 27 and have spent my last few years growing in my career, fitness, and building wealth. The closer I get to 30, I see the tables start to turn. More women are coming onto me and looking over the fuckboys they had fun with in their early 20's. Be patient and don't get distracted. And try your best to not have kids right now if you can.

I couldn’t agree more with everything that you said in this video Elliott!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

You know what Eliot your the type of man we all should strive to be good job brother

Love you man u helped us all since middle school days

Although I'm currently 27, I can certainly relate to this guy. Currently building my value (finance, look and fitness) but the temptations on social media makes you wanna act needy. But this is certainly one of the best and honest videos I've come across and I've never heard of Elliot Hulse. Bless Up!

Can’t appreciate these vids enough 🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

Thank you Elliot. I really needed this. Been hurting bad in my 20's, grinding hard making good moves, but sometimes losing hope.

@tmoneypoleductions9764

2 жыл бұрын

keep doing you , its still good girls out here.

@cockaroach1458

Жыл бұрын

Same here man I’m 23 and it’s so difficult.

@bernard4459

Жыл бұрын

@@cockaroach1458 God bless you bro. Stay strong. I think of Saint Anthony in the Desert when God said "He who does not work, will not eat" so I'm trying to work to become the best man, provider, and leader so I can know that whatever the outcome at least I did my responsibility.

Thank you so much. Saved my life and sanity. Respect

Terrific video Elliot, so insightful

I am a 20 year old man in this exact situation, you hit the nail on the head as always Mr Hulse and I appreciate your insight

This is true, i just turned 25,and i was like a kid until 23 and in last 2 years my attitude, my brain and all changed so hard, now i feel much more older than my other friends, and i think i lost them, cuz im sick of living from Friday to Friday, and i started focusing on my plans and when i started that my friends just be like, you don't go outside chilling, drinking, but for me that is old story cuz i can't expect new things with opening old doors... Just keep motivating and giving advices... With love from Balkan.

Thanks Elliot, for all the advice.

Amazing advice. I read the rational male upon your recommendation and its very eye opening! Definitely a recommended book for all men out there.

This was a great one thanks Ellliott!

Really valuable video Elliot. I really appreciate it.

Been listening to you for a hot minute man and I love the ideals. We’ll see how I do getting back into dating. I decided to avoid it for 5 years to get my mind right.

It's happening to me I'm 24 and I'm in a dark dark place. Seeing so many people around me achieve so many things but I have nothing. No money, no love nothing

Thanks for selflessly giving away your wisdom to try to help us

This is dope. Subscribed!

Great video ! Turned 24 in July and totally relate to your points your brought up. Gained a follower, would love to hear more of your experiences.

Thanks for sharing your wisdom. It is very helpful being in my 20s. God bless

Bro u amaizing. Thanks for the content!!!

Great video Eman. I'll keep thinking I'm deserving of tough life 🧠

Incredible video. I really respect you man.

Thank you Elliot! It helped me alot 😭

you gave advise like big brother elliot!love From Nepal 🇳🇵..Keep uploading!!!

This man is 100% right, and I can confirm this because we’re 100% balling 😝 Shout out Elliot, been listening from a teen to an adult. What a guy 🌹

This is actually very good advice and it seems to come from a genuine desire to give young men advice that will actually help them.

Elliott, very well explanation of the value aspect of women which is getting lost by riding the cc.

I just want to say THANK YOU!

same thing for me (20) i notice alot of young dudes dont be looking for anything serious, and with the older men i deal with they still look at you as a little girl w/ no life experience. but being young and being told not to take things so serious, with guys i focus more on the companionship and vibe rather than what he can do for me . and sometimes i dont think some men want a good woman just someone who is willing to put up w/ crap.

Awsome advice. Again … Eliot 👍

At 29 this message still sounds true. I guess it makes sense since apparently I‘m still haven‘t reached ‚max potential‘

Elliotts Videos keep popping up on the KZread algorithm & there all Great videos 👍 😊 😌

Good content Elliot! You’ve definitely shaped your channel up for the better! Are you still doing fitness videos?

Love down respect up. Profound. 👏🏼👏🏼

Needed to hear this, thank you so much bro

Awesome content elliot

I’m pretty close to my 24 birthday and all of a sudden I just started losing interest in video games now I want to go out and socialize and work out it’s weird that it brings more enjoyment to me all of a sudden.

@futuredominatingseal

2 жыл бұрын

Same here man, only that I’m 22 and I want to start enjoying life, and start searching for my purpose.

Totally agree with everything you say here. Kind of feel a little bit of red pill tone in your lingo. But that's cool. Still remember myself watching your videos at 19-20 years old. Now I'm 26, soon to be 27. Good advice as always. I like your perspective and your ability to keep things real and objective.

@aimane3375

2 жыл бұрын

The meaning of red pill is the truth and only the truth and how to navigate the truth. But this does not mean that RP content creators misuse or spread wrong things

I'm gonna listen to this video over and over again

@DouglasNollPeacemaker

2 жыл бұрын

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This advice is perfect for me right now. I'm used to be I a long term relationship at the age of 18. I was immature boy. Now I'm 22 but I still feel like I need to grow more. I wanted to find someone quick, also my dad wanted me to go out with women but I want to be patience and work for my goal. I want to buy land in Tennessee one day and live in the country. so date right is not it for me. thank you elliot.

A man forms his personality by his mid 20s, feels comfortable with his values and beliefs by his late 20s/early thirties and feel willing and able to defend what he stands for by his mid 30s.

@thebetterplaybook7891

2 жыл бұрын

That being said there is no one size fits all formula that works for everyone

@Adriiell

2 жыл бұрын

My politics have changed so drastically from when I was 18-25 Began as a uber liberal young man arguing with everybody that I disagreed with. When I was 23, I was the opposite extreme. Now that I’m 25 and married I’ve settled down and feel way more comfortable with everyone around me regardless of their political opinions, no more arguments, just healthy discussions, and young mans mind is like a sponge

very good video Good job! im very impressed

My life still sucks but it’s way better than it was last year and I have made a ton of progress. This is what I’ve been focusing on. Just keep progressing fellas, don’t compare yourself with anyone else besides who you were yesterday…

You’re an absolute legend!! We are all so thankful that you put yourself out there to the betterment of society and I just want to personally commend you for this!! 👏👏👏

Thanks man Frfr u helped alot

I love this so much because its so true

thank you for everything you do for us young men uncle E thank you

at 20 I thought I’ve had things figured out, but then year after year I realized that I still have a lot to learn. Now 25, I’m pretty sure that it gonna take me another 5years or so for sure to finally achieve what I didn’t knew I needed

Known about Elliott for a long time but hadn’t seen him in awhile. I’ve had the videos on auto play trying to soak in the wisdom. Keep em coming champ.

Wow, this video was very well timed for my life. Haven't listened yet but thank you Elliot. Listening now.

@pangsthemans

2 жыл бұрын

Same!

It's not dating down just because she doesn't make a lot of money and isn't the most attractive face out there. She's a catch because she's submissive supportive, and knows what she wants. THAT's what you look for in a female.

@MrGmanVids

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, only part of this video I didn’t really follow. My girl makes more, is older. but looks up to me like crazy… Has all of the personality traits you just describe. What do you think is going on here at I a catch or?

@SlashPanther

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrGmanVids If she seems like she's all good for you then it comes down to how long you know her. Usually one two things happen after the first few years: either you realize she's been used up, (you may notice interactions with guys she "knew" back in the day, or she may make references to those situations) or maybe she is still messing around with someone else. Just take a peek overtime because if you're looking you will tend to find those things out. If you really do trust them you have to give them the benefit of the doubt on things or that can also ruin your relationship potentially. That doesn't mean you can't keep a watchful eye. Often times the best thing to do in a situation is to just sit back and observe. That should tell you everything you need.

Was just thinking towards this topic may God Bless you brother you are thy messenger 🙏🏽

@advicewisdom8477

2 жыл бұрын

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Elliot I've been watching u since day 1, I stopped watching u regularly for some years and I must say I'm impressed to how u have developed as a man especially in the espiritual field

I agree with most of what you said, except for the part where you talked aboult man esentially doing all of what we do for women. I think women are one of the reasons why we want to fight, conquer and achieve. But it also has to do with completing oneself and adding value to the society and people around us. And we also want to feel respected and loved by people close to us, family friends and ultimately also women.

I really needed this video, Thanks E I turned 20 just a month ago 💯👌

Powerful stuff uncle E

You definitely was on point.

You are so accurate thanks for this video

Best relationship advice I've ever gotten was: "Don't bother"

@ales3880

2 жыл бұрын

fr 🐐🐐

The greatest video of all time🥰

Thank you Elliot

Great video man

Thank you Elliott

Fuckin love u Elliot, Listening to you is music to my ears. Cheers buddy

Amazing advice, every man needs to hear this

Thanks bro, in my 20’s , fairly attractive and was feeling the same way as the kid in the email.

Wow the end there is some real shit. Thank you E.

Man he spoke truth the whole video💯

I've just turned 20, and I had a relationship when I was 16, I did something that I'm not proud of now because I didn't realise it at the time, I was immature and I hurt the girl that I loved and cared for so much ( I know it was young love but its really affected me) ever since then I struggle to talk to girls I find attractive, Idk if im scared ill do the same thing again but ever since then my confidence levels have decreased and my anxiety levels have grown. I like to think that I've accepted what happened, but it's affecting so much still to this day Nothing I do, for example, like going to the gym or eating healthier or working, gives me joy. I know life isn't perfect, but I can't find any solution

This is really great advice... Holy shit ... Thanks Elliot

Just thank you sir!!!!👊🏾😉

i never had a relationship i am 34, was too busy when younger dealing with grief then got a job for 15 years working a physically demanding job lost it since covid, no one has been interested in me really, totally a hermit now with no social circle at all at this point i am ok with this.

This is one of your best vids!

@advicewisdom8477

2 жыл бұрын

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Thanks for the advice, i agree With you 100%. I think its Important that especially Young people Need to Hear this. We live in a degenerate world Brother, especially in my Country Greetings from Germany

Respect is autority, autority is power and power is life.