She is 1,000 % on point when I went to marriage counseling my wife said she had checked out of the marriage a year ago and she was bringing up past tense things to justify doing it

She always nails it. Every time I watch her videos, im like, yep, yep, exactly cos I have learned through observation and personal experience the situations she discusses. Men say they want a good woman, a loyal woman, one who will value them..nope, again through dating experiences and as I have gotten older I have observed that they remain stuck on the one that either pulled the rug or doesn't return their calls or messages. When I am in a crowd or around a large group of people I can also see things that I don't want to which is why I don't like being around a lot of people at once it is way more then I want to see, I can tell certain things about people and it really sucks sometimes. I can also feel bad energy from people. I remember when I was younger, ignorance was bliss but also dangerous. I remember also when I was younger and how married men, men in relationships, or even dating, they would literally do whatever and say whatever to me to go out with me or talk to me. Unfortunately because I have seen this side of men it has also jaded be a bit and made me have less respect and admiration for a lot of them because so many of them are just weak minded when it comes to attractive women. I also have married friends/women who allow their husbands to watch porn to "keep the peace" or also so that they don't have to have sex with them or they are not attracted to their husbands and are cheating. It's literally wild, and I see why so many good-looking women, this day and age, are very happily single or have certain arrangements, which Sadia discusses in another one of her videos. Which was another winning video. Sadia is a gift !❤

@Baz_09

Ай бұрын

That's interesting you have friends who are cheating. I bet if the shoe was on the other foot (guy cheating on her) you would have an issue with it

@Trecesolotienesdos

Ай бұрын

She bases her stuff of her own biases and values, and doesn't seem objective enough to a practicing psychologist. seems you're of her culture so i guess it's a mutual big up.

@catstanbul8903

Ай бұрын

​@@Baz_09Cry elsewhere.

7:42 “the woman should like the man more.” Why? Explained This makes complete sense. My own experience is explained right here why I withdrew.

She never misses!

So real, I like to listen to Sadia because it is coming from a woman who knows all these games, so true, once they have a healthy relationship, they will question it because it is unfamiliar to you and therefore want to go back to the toxic one because that is their comfort zone! 7:42, thank you for this, I always have trouble explaining this to my female friends. 9:14, you are so right, it is much better when both parties are equally crazy about each other but are at peace with the fact that if worse case scenario they break up, they are completely ok with it!

The other reason people despise consistence attention, care and love is that, the person attempting to show that consistency love, attention and care will not continue for the reason that they are imperfect, and realistically no human will continue to give something good or bad consistently...so we despise consistence attention, care and love as a measure of protection from disappointment when they will stop giving us that love.. (2) we naturally feel that.. anyone attempting to give us consistence love, care or attention..are attempting something impossible to maintain and realistically sustain as a human...and we classify their attempt as fake. (3) Our past, have taught each one of us that circumstances in this world and the nature of being imperfect does not permit a person to give consistence attention, care and love, even if they want to...so anyone attempting to behave as if they may provide consistence attention, care and love challenge our believe and experience in life hence we don't appreciate it..

This lady real deal

She’s talking about maybe 5% of men that are 50s trying to date 20 year old women. Most men know when a woman isn’t genuinely feeling them. The men that participate in the game with those women use those women as those women use them. Some of those men use those women to attract other women ( different topic). It’s a very small percentage of men dealing with overseas women/ sex escort women . People like her forget over 40% of men rarely having consistent sex with women . 30% are married .

She looks gorgeous and I always look forward to her videos ❤

@jsisbeingcensored

Ай бұрын

Right! I wonder how many wife’s her husband has, lucky man.

@noreenbi9079

Ай бұрын

She's caked in makeup

This is so interesting and true, thanks for the content Sadia

Under this subiects it's something else , we don't need ti think too much

So glad u said the woman has to like the man more than the man, always been told the other way.

She so on point all women play games. Most men who are looking for a long-term partner are not playing games, but women are, there lies the issue, if all men knew that how most are marriage would cease to exist.

@catstanbul8903

Ай бұрын

You act like men are Angels. Theyre not.

The men know that the young women are attracted to their money and status, the same way the women know that the men are attracted to their youthful bodies.

Only way to experience a true love at least for a while is both love from beggining at fullest capacity.

Wish I had a personalised session with you. My wife clocked out ages ago

This woman has become everything

So true

Why does he keep interrupting her ? Let her talk.

@TheOutlierToday

Ай бұрын

She was speaking for 90% of the time.

If you’re going outside, carry an umbrella. Sadia the shape shifter.

Where can I find the whole conversation?

I just want to marry this woman❤

The fine line between depression and fantasy is not being told by someone you like what they want exactly.

This concept that I am worthy and should be valued is a myth. We are told that we have to determine who we are, and therefore don’t need validation. However the reality is no human are totally good or evil, because we do have the capacity to do both, and therefore we don’t determine how our actions is being perceive. Our life is really a manifestation of our actions, and those actions are perceive in different ways. That being said, without feedback or validation we wouldn’t know if our actions is affecting people in a negative or positive way.

@Sironil

Ай бұрын

spot on. This idea of total independence and not needing valitation from others comes, I suspect, from the fact that many people working in psychology have an avoidant attachment style. They overvalue independence from others vs coregulation with others.

I liked her very much but am not that sure anymore.

I don't agree men accept monotony better than women. It def is dependant on culture. In my culture as I observe women raise children stuck in homes and men get bored and cheat

@cutekittens7030

Ай бұрын

Ι agree! What she said is so stupid. Men always will take advantage of the woman is they know she liked them more than they do!

@Takiki

Ай бұрын

She's obviously pro-men to get their money, she takes the reality and flips it upside down thats the language of men

Remember fellas even though she's attracted to you more she could change up in a heartbeat. Treat her like a stock have more than one option.

@TheOutlierToday

Ай бұрын

That's a great way to live life. Good luck

To create this dynamic, as a man you have to get sexual discipline and see yourself as better, smarter and worth more than a woman. Because if a woman finds a man really attractive, she can't control it, but we men are so strong that we can defeat ourselves.

I love this women , should be in all school for teens

The background reminded me of the soft white underbelly videos lol

I watch this stuff and it makes me lose respect for women and relationships.

Is she married? How long has she been married? Or is this theory? (aka babble)

@AnthonyManzio

Ай бұрын

She over 30 not married a hug red flag is dating a simp lets her do what ever she wants. Never get married

Sadia can you please describe to us or give us a clue on how to spot porn addict men? As there are some tricky ones who can still have lots of sex with you but once they step inside the house , first thing they do is, run to twitter watch porn stars and rest we know..How to spot men like that ? What are the red flags for men like that ? Thank you very much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@phoenixrisin2269

Ай бұрын

They are emotionally detached and can’t get it up unless they have freaky sex. They have a depleted dopamine system. Pretty simple.

@ajdrums8075

Ай бұрын

Most men rub one out daily, sometimes to porn, sometimes not. I'm not sure what constitutes addiction though

Sadia, you make all the other internet dating "experts" turn to garbage

Younger men know this now too. I call them gold diggers.

Sadia, if I hadn’t already met the love of my life, I would totally date you.

@ryuxfx52

Ай бұрын

What a strange thing to say

@connorissa961

Ай бұрын

@@ryuxfx52 to someone with a crush on me? I don’t think so. It’s like a very nice, and polite, “thank you”.

@CristyChavez-in9ok

Ай бұрын

​@@ryuxfx52Agreed wtf lol

@samia6888

Ай бұрын

If the love of my life said that to another woman, I would be crushed lol

For somebody who is a claimed psychologist, she doesn't base her views on clicinal practice but just her admittedly sheltered Islamic/Pakistani upbringing. some of what she says has value, but then most of her points are just from her own biases. Yes, porn can be problematic but if she tells her clients that pron is categorically BAD that's not right. no therapist or mental health professional would say it's totally BAD. if a person sees porn everyday but just as way to pleasure themselves and it doesn't affect their view of relationships, then it's fine. That said, i don't believe she warrants the hate she gets. clearly she is pretty , and yes, this wold be a weapon to use against her. She's just a social conservative who wants to go back to the values of the past, whilst accepting some things have progressed. she's not alone in thinking that.

@AgelessPhoton

Ай бұрын

Attention! Attention! Self denial has entered the chat!

7:50 Woman should like her man more

Stop being naive‼️

“When a man likes a woman more than she likes him”. I know at the beginning you talk about taking a “general, made for everybody podcast” and personalizing it. There must be something wrong with him. Well, I guess there is something wrong with me because I have NEVER, NEVER, in 40 years, had a one on one session where I did not encounter rude behavior. As hard as I work. As good as I can make people (you) feel, I deserve better. “When a man likes a woman more than she likes him, he becomes emasculated.” Right, because I just stepped into the ball buster. And you’re evil, you’ll do that. You do need the shifter, the anxious, the insecure. I sure as hell don’t. I’m none of those things. You don’t love me because you couldn’t receive me. I’m the gambler who gets a win every 20, 30 times. You need to learn dedication, Sadia. Because you just lost it.

Don't take advantage of the fact that she likes you more... That has got to be thee most hypocritical thing to date

@AnthonyManzio

Ай бұрын

Why?

A psychologist does not have "a super power" to judge people as cheaters or porn addicts. This is clearly nonsense, just for views and fame.

Low level advice. Sorry to say that. Every time when attractive woman loves man more,he starts loosing respect and treat her badly. This is why women should look partner who loves them more. To have taht peace.

Women fate is tragedy and being unhappy. 100% of them will disconnect and cheat eventually if given opportunity.

Ooh look at ‘er. Still talking

This is called gibberish - cognitive dissonance... She just wants to look pretty. She sounds like a bad teacher. The motive of such podcasts is that they want you to realize that you have problems - in reality, you are ok - but they want views, subscribers, and patients to pay them in person, too.

@samayantra

Ай бұрын

Or maybe she triggered something that resonates with what you are experiencing in life and its easier to diss her.

Man and woman can either impress or depress the other... when men do t live woman it's 100% loss for a woman. Man tend to tear woman like crap expecting the woman will be chasing and fall in love from unattention???... that's stupid

@cutekittens7030

Ай бұрын

You are so on point! They really think we will chase them and fall from unattention. This is what pimps teach them (listen to the 1st class of Andrew Tate he clearly says that they should pay no attention to us so will will give them sex to have their attention (why would we care for their attention though? ) I know its stupid but THEY ARE STUPID. And you might not believe it nowadays men try to pimp women! Most men in Greece believe me...I don't know about other countried but i believe its the same. If you see tactics like that pay them no attention NOTHING ! Not even try to date them to check them.

She’s so Honest about her being Jaded and …. The curse of her superpower 🦸 I know nothing about her personal relationship… But I hope that her man has done the work he needs to do on himself if he wants the relationship and him to evolve with how rapidly she is evolving