RECOVERING FROM NARCISSISTIC ABUSE INTENT TO INFECT YOU WITH HATRED
RECOVERING FROM NARCISSISTIC ABUSE INTENT TO INFECT YOU WITH HATRED
One of the most hurtful wounds in life that an adult can endure is when you have a relationship or marry a narcissistic / Jezebellic spouse and love them in a very kind and caring way but then the abusive narcissistic spouse abuses you horribly, controls, manipulates, yells, intimidates, humiliates, throws objects at you, threatens you and then goes to all of your mutual friends, family and church people and tells them lies about you to make them hate you and have nothing to do with you, often accusing you of doing exactly what they actually did to you. They are masters of lying.
It is extremely difficult to recover from this type of attack because when you have endured some of the most traumatic, painful emotional abuse or worse from someone and then they lie better than you can tell the truth - and you lose close relationships with many people - then you often develop an intense hatred and anger inside of your heart for your abuser and want to take revenge upon them. Unfortunately that allows demonic spirits to torment you in your mind and body due to unforgiveness taking root. That is the goal of the narcissist so that demons will torment your mind and body even after they are long gone so that you never heal from their damage and abuse.
In Matthew 18:21-35 Jesus talks about the need to forgive everyone from your heart for anything they did to hurt you. It doesn’t mean you reconcile with an abuser for that would not make sense unless they were delivered and changed - it means you give the abuser and your anger for them to God to deal with them. When we don’t forgive those who hurt us from our hearts then we are the ones who will be tormented by demons as Jesus talked about. When we forgive all for their sins against us then God will forgive us for our sins against others and removes the rights demons have to torment us due to unforgiveness. When we can understand that every abuser was also hurt and abused and never could forgive those who hurt them so demon tormented them - then we can more easily forgive them from our hearts for all their abuse.
Romans 12:19 NKJV
“Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord.”
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I'm going to have deliverance prayer at my church tonight. This video is exactly why! I have unforgiveness in my heart for my narcissist abusers. I know that hatred is death but I can't snap out of it. HOLY SPIRIT FIRE IS GOING TO BURN OFF THE DARKNESS!!!❤
@shanalee8469
22 сағат бұрын
I’m going through it too
@cruzdominguez8261
13 сағат бұрын
@@shanalee8469 Love and Blessings to you and yours on your journey in Jesus' mighty name ❤️❤️❤️
I’m battling this. There was no reason for the abuse none. The person was just evil and hated the light in me
U thank my heavenly father for allowing me to recover and heal. I walked away 6 years ago and never looked back. It was the best decision I ever made. And another thing to,if those people who were lied to believe the narcissist and turned on you,they wasn't meant to be in your life anyway!! Stay educated and smart,and don't ever let that entity back in your life, period!
God bless you for sharing. Amen
"Verdad=True."
I never had hatred or unforgiveness for my x husband. I have deep concern and regard for our children, and their well being, he turned from me. I mourn and grieve the loss of my son alienated from me for 13 yrs. Being isolated and navigating that pathology alone simply wrecks me everyday. God is faithful! And will work all things together for good in His perfect timing. 🙏🙌⚔️ Thank you for your ministry. Please pray for my son Colton 🙏
@heisrisen7961
2 күн бұрын
@sandrathomas2893 I am praying 🙏 for Colton and for you for healing and restoration. God bless you.
@heisrisen7961
2 күн бұрын
““So I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, The crawling locust, The consuming locust, And the chewing locust, My great army which I sent among you. You shall eat in plenty and be satisfied, And praise the name of the LORD your God, Who has dealt wondrously with you; And My people shall never be put to shame.” - Joel 2:25-26 NKJV
@sandrathomas2893
2 күн бұрын
@@heisrisen7961 AMEN! HALLELUJAH 🙏
@sandrathomas2893
2 күн бұрын
@@heisrisen7961 Thank you so kindly! GBY 🙏🙌
@heisrisen7961
2 күн бұрын
@@sandrathomas2893 you are welcome 🤗 we ladies have to keep lifting one another up so we can keep truckin’ through life and do the things Hod has called us to do! 🙏🥰
Both my parents are guilty of this. Among other things, they made the stroke I just had a little over two months ago about them, saying things like, “I don’t care if he lives or dies!” (My narc father literally said this… he denies it to this day without realizing that I was still on cell phone with my wife, whom he said this to), and recounting painful childhood stories despite my wanting all said stories stopped (this is what my narc mother would while in my hospital room… I had to have her removed from said room). I have since gone no-contact or gray-rocked them from my life. They may be of my blood, but they certainly aren’t my family.
This is so true!
Praise God for loving us dearly despite our mistakes and giving us every chance to come into rightstanding with Him through his son Jesus Christ! In accordance with this word and 1 john 4:20, matthew 18:21-35, romans 12:19, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I therefore bind to hell every desire to hate another or self in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents, the children I teach and the body of Christ while binding one to desire to love another and self and binding to hell every lack of desire to forgive another or self for any sin or mistakes while binding one to forgive another and self for any sin or mistakes, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone desiring to hate another or self while lacking to desire to love another or self and anyone lacking to desire to forgive another or self for sin or mistakes, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and halleujah: "Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen."
Thank you.
But the trauma bond. They take up for them..
@shanalee8469
22 сағат бұрын
😢I understand deliverance is needed
I needed this
💯‼️
I will not forgive my evil parents who have tormented and hurt me since birth. I have not sinned against other people because I have never put myself before other people and thusly have spent all of my life along. This is typical in a narcissistic household as a scapegoat. Go stuff your book and your preaching, you do not know the true face of evil very well if you are so forgiving.