Others perception of you is not a reflection of you, it is a reflection of them.

@gioovannabp

3 жыл бұрын

So true! ❣️

@theunclejesusshow8260

3 жыл бұрын

@@gioovannabp yeah, that's pretty much it🌠🌞

@galacticglitter6612

3 жыл бұрын

So much this!💗

@espah6980

3 жыл бұрын

So im starving, not him

@Khh444

3 жыл бұрын

Nice😘

It seems that people have this inherent desire to be likeable and appreciated by everyone. The need for validation is strong among humans and we tend to think that if we're not validated by everyone, then it means that there's something we need to fix about ourselves. But it's important to realize that our mere existence makes it so that not everyone will like us and honestly, that's fine. It really doesn't matter.

@howardcohen6817

3 жыл бұрын

This is just not true, Future. Neither validation nor being liked forces anyone to fix stuff unless we think it needs fixing. Today, I was waiting in the doctor's office looking out the window and watching the traffic. Do you know that nothing that happened in the five minutes I was watching was predictable. None of the movements or length of time of the stopping, or idiosyncrasies of the pedestrians. How traffic turned left was infinitely different. Starting after the light turned green, slowing down and stopping at the red light etc. this was all different. Did you know that the blown bubbles all move at different speeds, directions and trajectories? When we average all out we say that wind is moving at x mph in a certain direction. But really each molecule of air has its own energy level, heat level and direction. It's next to impossible to validate what you can't predict. You CAN marvel at this, though.

@sandycarter5300

3 жыл бұрын

@@howardcohen6817 Future is saying the exact opposite of this.

@howardcohen6817

3 жыл бұрын

@@sandycarter5300 Well, Future's speech was ambivalent saying first that some desires are inherent and strong and that reality shows us that this isn't especially important. But I don't agree that I'm particularly looking for validation - I'm just looking to hear you and to be heard. Sandy, don't you feel that I heard you in your taking exception to what I wrote? Do you feel that I took your comment as an attack? on me? Thanks, though, for wanting to set me straight on what Future wrote. I'm grateful. Love.

@stephaniecallahan5356

3 жыл бұрын

@@howardcohen6817 sooo you’re not looking for validation but you’d like to be heard… seems like splitting hairs here; wanting to be heard means you’d like to feel a sense of validation… and there’s nothing wrong with that… we all need to feel loved, appreciated and important to the people in our lives… anyhoo, much love ..

@howardcohen6817

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephaniecallahan5356 I don't agree with your assessment, Stephanie. Hearing and being heard is necessary to take proper action and is the basis for common understanding. It is neither proving that I am a good person, nor even that I exist (which is what I think of when using the term "validation"). It's quite the opposite. I validate reality and don't misuse reality - yours or anyone else's - to validate me. I am already convinced that I exist. Thanks for your love. Love.

There will always be somebody who can’t see your worth, don’t let that somebody be you. - peace and love from a growing youtuber ✌🏽💚

@LayRae13

3 жыл бұрын

we must follow a lot of the same people 🤗

@pyewackett5

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe the herd mentality. It works for some species

@pyewackett5

3 жыл бұрын

...safety in numbers prhaps

@theunclejesusshow8260

3 жыл бұрын

Right On Cuzinz 🌠🌞

@user-yk9sk7pg6v

3 жыл бұрын

Endlessoul - I've been noticing your comments everywhere. :) Can you tell me your top 3-5 favourite KZreadrs?

Never rely on someone else's perception of our worth.....it will always be less than what you're actually worth.

I'm such an introvert that I don't want to be on anyone's radar, then I get sad because no one thinks of me or invites me to stuff. I self sabotage myself. Its annoying. Thanks for the video.

@howardcohen6817

3 жыл бұрын

What are the advantages of being an introvert?

@sandrashevel2137

3 жыл бұрын

I'm like that too. Many hugs

@erinsuzy613

3 жыл бұрын

@@howardcohen6817 I like that I don't need a lot of attention and I'm not addicted to drama. 🤷‍♀️

@howardcohen6817

3 жыл бұрын

@@erinsuzy613 Thank you for the answer, erinsuzy.

@artivan111

3 жыл бұрын

Awareness is the first step towards change ✌

You can be the juiciest, most plump peach in the bunch, and there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches.

So spooky. This morning I went to the woods with my daughter and I was just sitting and thinking how nice it was. Then I had this wave of like “why do I allow myself to think I’m always less then others”, it was almost like a massive wave of how I shouldn’t do that anymore.

@patriciagriffin1505

3 жыл бұрын

Yes bc in thinking that you unconsciously transfer those feelings and thoughts to your lovely daughter

@Dethian666

3 жыл бұрын

everything we looking for we already have just have to apreciate it

@hud8265

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dethian666 this comment bright tears to my eyes 🤍

Needed to hear this today after being suddenly discarded for no apparent reason, thank you.

@stephaniecallahan5356

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you’re feeling better… sending love ❤️

@tstar5944

3 жыл бұрын

Hope u are better. What u need can't be discarded, only whats bad for u. Sending 🥰🥰🙏

@stopmotionmoron2373

3 жыл бұрын

The same thing happened to me recently,but you know what,I now dont let it bother me

@kaelightupthedark

3 жыл бұрын

sometimes rejection is protection ❤️

Your wisdom and shared thughts are always welcome like a soothening medicine! Thank you Nada!

Listening to this for the second time today. It was so important for me, I'm definitely going to write this whole video down and listen again and again. Everyone should. ❤️

You you held my hand during my depression, thankyou for helping me getting better 💫❤️🌍

What a relief to read such interesting comments. Beautiful minds. Beautiful souls 💕

Whenever i see your video pop up...just by seeing thumbnail..i feel so soothing...❤️

This is one of the best messages I’ve ever heard’ thank you 🙏

“You’re not for everyone & everyone is not for you” ~ Awaken Insight ~

Thank you! So true and well put.🥰👌

It's easy to limit the perception of our self worth when we encounter people that don't see it in us... We have to see it in ourselves first 💕 this came in the best moment

@charmincat

Жыл бұрын

we have to see it in ourselves and be okay with letting that be enough ❤️🙏

People often forget that their own self-worth _doesn’t_ depend on others. Being here in our own spiritual existence, and yet, having a _human_ experience, as French philosopher Pierre Thiehard de Chardin once said-in essence is special within itself. By that evaluation, we are guided by our own _inherent_ self-worth to express our greatest gifts most humanly possible, w/a spiritual desire to manifest our dreams in our collective _shared experiences._

1. Not everyone is meant/going to be your friend. 2. How someone makes you feel isn't your responsibility to manage, it is their karma that you are experiencing. 3. The mind is always fertile. Be aware of the seeds and the weeds. 4. There is no positive or negative person, only positive or negative momentum.

While we live unconsciously with ego steering the wheel, it seems in my experience, self worth is not very high so others opinions of ourselves is more important. As we live consciously, we (I) realise that our own self worth is much more important than what others think of us. If you are living mindfully we hopefully accept things about ourselves and others. Ego still exists but not the driver, now only a passenger.

Thank you! I’m still shocked at the people who immediately become quite horrible to me, when I simply say something that doesn’t align with their own thoughts and beliefs. I have actually had them become quite nasty to me. I would love to go to the place where people’s love is unconditional and who have open hearts and minds. It’s rough being in the area I live. I do believe in God, so I feel I have everything I need and more. God please bless everyone here!!🙏🏼❤️

Few mins in and this is definitely needed. Will watch fully later. Its not me...its them...and thats ok. 💫💜💫

He's a very genuine person. He's not just throwing out some daily psychobabble. He's giving this careful consideration.

Yes, some people value the tree for the shade, others for the lumber. Value is truly subjective

Really enjoy the mood and atmosphere of your videos. :) Keep it up!

To prove your point, this excellent video has 3 dislikes so far. You can't please everyone!

Amen to that brother. Misinterpretations, unkind words, meanness, from others, is not our short comings (which I thought was in the past), but it's their shortcomings. Reclaiming self worth is so important and we must tend to it daily.

One of the most important channels on this site ❤🙏 so many blessings to you and all

Awaken insight, this is an extraordinary message that deeply touches me. I was curious about why I had chosen to receive notifications from you, and now I remember why. Your clarity, and Gentleness in sharing this wisdom Opened me right up to hearing the message. It allowed me to receive what you were saying without any resistance. I am feeling such gratitude for your generosity, and a little more empowered than I was half an hour ago before listening. Thank you

@LisaFirestone

3 жыл бұрын

@@mickrozycki451 As we speak, I am. Thank you for the compliment

Thanks, Nada. This is actually one of my favorite channel in yt.

i really appreciate your talk on self worth and value. I listen to it frequently to remind myself not to look for my value and worth from other people. It is a too easy trap to fall into so thank you so much! I do not have to do anything to have worth, it is already within me.

This inability to love oneself or anyone else applies to women too. . So many times we think this is about men. Let me tell you, women everywhere are suffering from huge deficiencies in self love and i mean the good kind... Men, be sure that she really does love and care for herself b4 you give it heart... Women, can we reach out to the sisters that we see suffering in this way and build each other up? This to me is as important as the priority that we place on our romantic relations... Bc we can't keep what we have (good romantic relationships rooted in self worth) unless we are also giving it away! Love and peace to all❤️😘🌈

So true! We are equally valuable and it has nothing to do with one’s status in life or other’s opinion of us. Simply because we exist; are consciously aware at some level; and possess the ability to raise higher in awareness supports our innate value. Though we are part of a collective consciousness, true awareness begins with self-self worth, self acceptance. For those who desire it, it is a life-long process to better know who and what we are while simultaneously enhancing our unique, individual and collective awareness.

Thank you so much for your sensitive and clear talk. It has helped me understand much of my problem. I'm listening to a lot of your posts from France (I'm French). English is a second language but you speak so clearly with such a good articulation that I understand 100% . Thank you again.

@marivicmarcial7635

3 жыл бұрын

You got it right. Sensitive and clear talk. So thankful for him for sharing his thoughts on self worth.

I also like your thoughtfulness of placing your body where you are and leaving the open space of leaves 🍃 of the trees for us to see the gentle movement as we listen you, it’s pure marination soft voice and gentle leaves moving ..

I've noticed you haven't posted anything on here for some time now. I sincerely hope all is well with you and yours..and that you will be able to share your thoughts and spiritual insights with us all again soon. Peace and love. 🌹

Thanks. Your examples really help understand the concepts.

Your soul reminds me of how Jesus taught his disciples and treated everyone with forgiveness, loving kindness and understanding with compassion. You're so sweet⚘🌻⚘

this video resonated with me deeply. I was meant to hear your message. Thank you

I miss your calming videos. Come back soon :)

Blessings my friend

Your humility is unmatched but you can let go of the "maybe" 😅 Love you brother, Appreciate your insight and your expression of it.

So great! Thank you for this reminder.

I always return to you every now and again over the years. I remember when you just started your channel. You’ve helped me so much and continue to do so. Bless you!

Best video ☺️

I have struggled with the knowledge that I thrive on validation. I am trying to do acts of kindness for myself and try to remember not everyone is going to like me. Being an introverted empath, I have found, can be a huge help or a huge issue. I appreciate your words and hearing them helps. Thank you for your honesty and authenticity.

i am so glad i found this Channel !!

Nice to see you again. what you have to offer has value to me

Wow, feel like I've just had 10 years of therapy, thank you immensely for your work 👍❤

Awaken Insight🙏🏽🙋🏽‍♀️, bless up & ty 4 the reflective uploadz, they have helped me immensely! ❤💛💚 sending luv & light 2 U🦋💙🦋

Low self esteem makes many treat you even lower

You are so incredibly underrated I can’t even believe it. I just found you this morning and I have almost every single one of your videos in your personal growth playlist saved to my watch later

Where are you?.. lease come out and share guidance when you're ready!!.. I truly miss you!!.. Sending peace and strength!!..Love!!..

I was so excited to see this that i got a bit shaky!! Such an important and crucial topic. I remember a time when i did not feel so important. I wasn't really taught about really knowing and loving yourself. I mean, i would hear some say the words : You should love yourself," but that was the end of it. You explained it here so beautifully. I have felt quite misunderstood for most of my life. Because of my unique {from the heart} style, it seems that there have been so many that think that's all i'm about, all i talk about. I have had quite a few come up to me and say: "you look so cool!" "I wish i had the guts to do that!" And although that is fine and good, i would start feeling so alone when i would proceed to let them know that i truly dress from my heart, and go on to more meaningful conversation, and i see the wall they just put up! Everything i do comes from my heart, and that's what i want to convey with others. There have even been people that i really thought i would have a deep connection with, but all they wanted to talk about is where i got my dress, or how i did my hair the way i did. It was actually quite disturbing to me. I knew that i had so much more to offer, to put on the table. It is a very lonely feeling. But i am learning that there is a beauty within that. I had only heard about you a couple of months ago, and have already watched most of your videos. There have been some that i have watched 2 or 3 times! I have really been benefiting from them. Your kind words, your gentle voice, and your ever reaching and compassionate eyes, calm my nerves more than anything else ever has. On my journey, i am realizing more and more, that i don't need everyone to understand me, to "get me." As you said, some are just incapable. I do believe at this time in my life, i feel more "alright" with me then i ever have, and i bid thee thanks!

What a good and powerful speech. We should never interpret other peoples’ behaviour as a critique on ourselves. Don’t bother what other people are saying. Live your own life and be happy!

Clear inspiring presentation. The value placed on us is usually "monetary value", so yes we need to get away from that and cultivate our own sense of self worth

Very powerful and wise! Thanks

This is so timely. I really need this! Being in a sales job makes me doubt my own value. Thank you for making it so easy to understand! 🙏

Thank you so much for sharing.

The one who are reading this. We all came here for a purpose. Facing a pain, struggle. We all seek mental peace and a new headstart. Wherever you guys are, may all your pain fade away. Ameen. may all of you and us will succeed one day

@joeo7086

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

I miss you Nada. Please come back. Me and the world are waiting. Peace. .

This is an incredible post. Thank you 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 The free food table analogy was so accurate!! 💓💓💓

I value this youtube channel :)

This is all so true. Thank you! I wonder if you have been going through things like that - people not appreciating you... There's something very authentic, very heartfelt in your voice. From the heart I want to say to you: I appreciate deeply what you have to offer and the wisdom you share. Maybe you could do something about the theme of longing for a real love story dealing with the disappointment of appearing to retro for it because the environment in these days is kind of cold and casual and fifty shades of grey more than hippie...

Always coming in just when I need you

I love your videos!! ❤️ I feel I live in a big shadow...the best way to work with these inadequate feelings is to understand that embracing differences is what will liberate me from caring about them. I'm not just a drop of the ocean's water...I'm the whole ocean :)) I choose to be okay with me and accept others without taking the differences and/or opinions personal... sometimes some things are just a them thing and I'm alright with that.... 🙏

Thanks for this video

Thought, even though someone might not have a car, their friend who is into fixing cars may have some other value to add to the friendship. In addition, the person without a car knows others with cars, and if their friend is great with fixing cars, the friend without a car could tell their friends if they're looking for a mechanic. Word of mouth. ❤️

I value you because I love how you explain things giving simple example and wish you keep doing this.

I feel more love from you on a daily basis than from anyone else in my life. Thank you, sir

I recently had a fallout with someone I'd been chatting to online, due to my having expressed myself in a way which was disfavorable to them. However, instead of telling me this, they choose to let it slide... and then later got mad and broke off communication. Ultimately, as I see it, there is nothing I could have done to prevent this -- I cannot read anyone's mind, especially not through text! So, I'm simply moving on with my life. It's a shame that they cannot communicate their needs, but it is completely independent of me.

@mrsp8999

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you for moving on shorty care face - you’d be walking on eggshells in no time if you stay 💪

@marivicmarcial7635

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve experienced similar to this but it was a friend. We were very okay and while we were chatting I said that pls. do not send pictures of this particular person bec. I am not interested and suddenly she got offended she swore that she will never mentioned her and that’s it she never talk to me again. It was not the first time that she did this. A lot of times but we will talk again because we were colleagues at work. I always feel crushed after she will stop talking to me. I wallow in sadness, blame myself for saying something that upset her. But really there is nothing bad that I did to her she just easily get offended without giving me a chance to explain or apologize whether needed or not. I am still very affected. Glad that I saw this video.

I've come to call this dude "the guy that tells me everything is going to be ok".

That's the whole problem, isnt it? 🔥 love it As always, thank you for your message

Value is subjective and your value of yourself is created by yourself. If you believe you have value, you are right. If you believe you are worthless then you are also right.

Thank you Nada. Wonderful videos always. Many blessings to you

A simple yet profound message. I needed to hear this.

Thank you so much!

Thank you! I have been dealing with this for so long, this helps tremendously in finding my self esteem and not feeling unworthy based on someone else's opinion or emotions.

So many people need to hear this. I'm glad I don't need anymore, but still glad that you are offering those words for whoever needs it.

@lindsaygonzales3598

3 жыл бұрын

how did you go from needing it to not needing it?

@igordomanski3477

3 жыл бұрын

@@lindsaygonzales3598 10h/day job + workouts can do wonders to someones mind/personal world. But hey, that's my case. I've been taking care of others for long years before I got time for myself.

Thank you Nada..this was just on time...❤️

I kinda binge watching almost every video's. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your truly amazing 👏

Yes!!! We have the Power to live Authentic, Inspired, and fulfilling!!

I needed 2 hear this 2Day. Thanks for sharing 🌲✌🧙‍♂️👍🌲

this man has not posted a video in two months, I hope he's okay

I'm happy that I found your videos.

You are a wise man. Thank you for sharing the truth.

Love and peace. Tim

I run into trouble with this when what other people think has a measurable impact on me. For example, I struggle with finding gainful employment. As I write this, I have a gap on my resume that is over 5 years wide. I'm working with someone who helps people like me. He wrote last week, "Don't worry about the gap. EVER." My response was that I typically do not worry about the gap or make an issue of it. The problem is that prospective employers are the ones who make it an issue. And since they get to determine whether or not I get to eat tomorrow, what they think of either me or aspects of my life DOES matter. Autistic adults like myself currently enjoy a 90% unemployment rate. Good times. I've also struggled with what my value might be to others. When I find potential "friends," I panic at the idea that I need to bring value in order to keep these friends. I'd then put myself in a position where I end up going out of my way. Next thing you know, I have friends merely because they get favors, which is wrong. The alternative is that I have no friends, which is where I currently reside. Of course, I don't require this of them, and yet I've required it of myself in the other direction. So for the past five years, I've had no job and no friends. I'm a burden on my mother, who helps me survive. Maybe the hardest part is that I can find NO good reason to keep up this charade. I'm only postponing the inevitable. Yes, I have professionals working with me on this. Knowing me, I'll figure it out and understand it right as I draw my last breath. That's not really helpful.

Thank u my light brother!!

The most difficult aspect of self worth for me is as a parent. I did my best to raise kind, ethical people. I routinely go out of my way to help while not interfering and get treated as though I'm invisible...until they need a favor . It saddens me that my adult children are self centered, materialistic, but I keep my thoughts to myself, but it weighs heavily on me.

@krisshensley9388

2 жыл бұрын

Just my opinion .... Life will teach them what they came to Earth to learn. There is no escape route.

Thank you! I am worthy! 😊

Your worth is no matter what anybody says and no matter how much somebody tries to put you down. Love and light to all!

Thank you, Nada.

We try our best to do everything with love and are discarded like that nothing that we do is good. Some people it seems can't se any good only focus on things that you don't do.

Thank you for your loving insights . One love 💚

You have changed my way of thinking in so many ways. Thank you 🌻

I had covid in feb and now have auto immune disease pots when standing it’s lead me to a spiritual path and awakening. I let go of guilt, shame, fear…. Just wanna be healthy and free

Thank you.

Thank you for your wisdom!

Title deserves this vids attention if not the subject itself