Recently I have been getting suicidal thoughts and here are the main reasons- 1.Toxic parents 2. No one to cheer or support 3. No friends (have some friends but they only use me for their work not close ) 4. Concentration is fked up 5. Fear that I can't do it and will probably fail 6. No internal satisfaction And really fear to die so yeah 👍

@romirhyme

10 ай бұрын

Leave that place as soon as possible take the help from police as soon as possible

@noman7945

10 ай бұрын

@@romirhyme we live in India things don't work like this here and yet I have got social anxiety

@PARTH_669

10 ай бұрын

Don't use your phone much , especially if u r a boy then don't go to "those" sites , things may become better

@noman7945

10 ай бұрын

@@PARTH_669 I don't just a bit youtube

@blackfriezaonyocrib.4418

9 ай бұрын

Mera almost aapke tarah hi situation hai aur mei koyi guru jaisa nahi bolunga bas aapko bato se relate karke mere experience se bolunga jisse maybe thoda sa aapki help hojae. Mei aapke parents ke baare mei kuch nahi bolsakta kyuki muje koyi idea nahi hai ki aapke parents exactly toxic kaise hai I have no right to talk about it. You can listen to calm songs of your type which is what I usually do when it is my sleeping time. You don't have to watch for emotional support because you will alone be responsible for your own success. Ignore those types of friends who use you for work are they even your friends then? Concentration would remain fkd up until or unless you start to actually think about yourself and of course try to engage your parents to just help you for once. If you are passionate about studying you will not fail You won't find any major satisfaction in this ride after 10th everything feels down so please try to make that one friend who is actually not a douchebag and who is genuinely supportive. Dying won't solve anything and I'm really sorry if I have been brutal but this is basically India's situation in education departments this is the bitter truth. In basic words the only supporter who will support you throughout your life till you die is your own self.

I left Kota like 2 months ago due to self harm. As someone who can be considered a bit privileged I can't imagine the situation of students who come from a background of financial hardships or even someone with strict parents. For me my parents were my biggest supporters and they later encouraged me to follow my passion and move towards the field of law. Now I'm in a different city preparing for CLAT and other law entrance exams. I am going to have a gap year in my record but I don't regret it at all.

@DeepanshV

10 ай бұрын

Happy to hear that you are following your passion. Gl for CLAT or any other exam you give

@swanandiapar6040

10 ай бұрын

​@@DeepanshVGI?

@DeepanshV

10 ай бұрын

@@swanandiapar6040 good luck = GL

@ss2797

10 ай бұрын

Best decision ever fr

@gwmanish6075

10 ай бұрын

I had also planned to take a gap year due to some reasons, but due to peer pressure and all, I didn't, and now I regret it so much. I wish I had supportive parents :)

I was forced to drop 2 yrs for neet. I dont know what did I learn from those so called institutes but in these yrs I learned how to tackle depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. People say think of your parents before taking wrong steps and they forget that unintentionally parents and loved ones are one of the biggest reason to the disastrous decision. Not demotivating anyone but aspirants need to talk to failures rather than glorified achievers. All the best to all those who are going for competitive exams.

@priyankakaushik9576

10 ай бұрын

Hats off to this comment🎉

@supriyaprakash3879

10 ай бұрын

Completely agree to your words

@user-mj6zk4vq6y

10 ай бұрын

Bro I also did 2drops from Kota , I went into anxiety, depression, mental tensions and suicidal thoughts......

@achiver565

9 ай бұрын

​@@user-mj6zk4vq6y what are you doing now

@SagarPrem-th7ho

9 ай бұрын

Dont blame institute tum chutiye ho jo dhang se padh nahi paaya.

I remember people calling me DR . SAHAB even before I cleared neet , I can't share how traumatizing it was

@Anonymous-007

10 ай бұрын

Nalla insaan

@notjustsharvil

10 ай бұрын

​@@Anonymous-007😑😑

@notjustsharvil

10 ай бұрын

True brother😢 expectations badhate jaate hai aur hum uss pressure me niche ghaste jaate hai

@Bhupender_singh_

10 ай бұрын

@@Anonymous-007 actually I have cleared NEET ..so who is nalla insaan ...guess

@secretunknown2782

4 ай бұрын

@@Bhupender_singh_sigma male

Indian education system needs to be revise and improved its high time we need that !

@aayushveersingh2630

10 ай бұрын

Mera hogaya first attempt mbbs kal se start hai hostel jana phati padi hai

@sagarjoshi10

10 ай бұрын

@@aayushveersingh2630 best of luck 👍

@Anonymous-007

10 ай бұрын

@@aayushveersingh2630kisi ne puch tere se lavde

@imAryanV

10 ай бұрын

Education system nhi college mein seats badhana chahiye

@Curiosity403

10 ай бұрын

​@@sagarjoshi10 Parties system nahi badalti because janta Ch*tiya hai, pehle ramdi rona karti hai but jab sarkar badalne ko karti hai to protest karne lagti hai

Being a student of kota and Neet aspirant I can agree all points of Harsh Bhai 👍

@candybutcher8662

10 ай бұрын

bro survived the gulag!

@riyanshsharma9541

10 ай бұрын

Same jee me bhi same hai

@architbhagat

10 ай бұрын

Agree with** English sudhar le warna boards mein fail ho jaoge😅

10 ай бұрын

Bro ekdam sahi apne Yaha India me 95 % se bhi jayda log sirf government job ka hi dream dekhte h or ye sab Education System ki wajah se hi h [According to My Thinking] ❤

@crazybeastgaming7198

10 ай бұрын

Abe ja na behrn k lwde jake pdhai kr

Bhaiya i am in kota right now i scored 94% in 12th and scored well in first 2 test in kota but at 3rd test i scored very low due to sickness at that day a teacher insulted me alot in front of whole batch of 300 students from that day i am very depressed and stressed you got our point and i am proudly saying i will do something big and one day i will return back to that coaching and tell them iit jee is not everything

@Henji235

10 ай бұрын

are bhai konsi buliding mai ho mai to 2 sal sa kota hu ajtak nhi dekha kisi teacher ko specific ek baccha ko datate hua

@HiteshDadhich05

10 ай бұрын

@@Henji235 ham 5 bacho ki insult ki thi ki in bacho ka koi dost bhi h kya no. Nahi aate toh chod do tumhare bas ka nahi h rhene do

@priyanshu561

10 ай бұрын

Bhai konsi coaching mein ho😂...hum bhi kota mein 2 saal rhe hain...issi saal wapas aaya hun...kabhi nahi dekha kisi teacher ko insult karte hue dusre bachche ko....infact test ke agle din teachers result ki baat tak nahi krte hain....

@HiteshDadhich05

10 ай бұрын

@@priyanshu561 Allen

@HiteshDadhich05

10 ай бұрын

@@priyanshu561 Allen main SR sir ne

As a local of Kota I can totally agree with you....coaching institutes are everywhere...the environment is so unhealthy that even if someone tries to stay positive they can't.....that situation is just so depressing ...

@Anonymous-007

10 ай бұрын

Kota ki local v studento se paisa lotte hai , ap v zimedar ho...

@Henji235

10 ай бұрын

​@@Anonymous-007yup bc kota ka locals jitna maderchod koi nhi hai bhai baccho ko kutta smjte hai aur jitna hi sake utna lutate hai But hum sabko nhi bol sakta lekin jitni ki bhi shops,auto etc. Sab lutate hai

@ss2797

10 ай бұрын

@@Anonymous-007 Kota me coaching business ban chuka hai. Sab students ke through Paisa earn karna chahte hai

@ANONYMOUS-kq9eq

9 ай бұрын

Buddy same in Kakadeo😅

@atulyaroy8962

9 ай бұрын

​@@ss2797hain?? paisa earn karte hai? Oh my god mujhe nhi pta tha capitalism mei private tutoring institutes aisa karte hai. Coaching toh ghatiya hai hi par society aur govt ki galti bhi hai. I can tell stuff which tv news will never tell you😂

One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔 Government should regulate the Hostel/Coaching as they pressure the student If they are late for fees submission

@nonstopgamer5374

10 ай бұрын

Point to hein

@ss2797

10 ай бұрын

Yea a fail in exam is not just an academic fail but also failing to perform for parents. Which is just so depressing

@juniorbeings

10 ай бұрын

Still not saying ki vo school itne achhe kare ki coaching ki jaroorat na pade .

@anandmotors3459

10 ай бұрын

​@@ss2797students don't remember that half percent of the selection are due to reservation and it's very difficult for general students to get that one rank

@ishitachopraec

10 ай бұрын

Isiliye I think online best option h

हमारे यहां लोग टैलेंट की इज्जत नहीं करते इसीलिए हमारे देश में अधिकतर लोग iit, neet, sarkari naukari के पीछे भाग रहे हैं

@harshu5670

10 ай бұрын

In sb exams m rank laane ke liye bhi hard work aur talent chahiye hota h...

@mrbeanclips9868

10 ай бұрын

@@harshu5670 ha Bhai chahie hota hai magar 99% log jinka nahi hua wo kya karenge tum hardwork kitna b karlo selection 1 %ka hi hoga har saal kyu seats utni hai

@thedaredevils6877

10 ай бұрын

28 sal k ho gye govt job ki teyari krte hue...Anxiety depression sab ho gya h...

@coderandbeast24x7

10 ай бұрын

True 😢

@harshu5670

10 ай бұрын

@@mrbeanclips9868 ha bhai pr hr field m competition to h hi chahe koi sa bhi ho...

Did my masters from IIT and I can guarantee that most of the suicides in IIT do not not even come to the media. Also, the way some professors behave is astonishing too. From calling the students illegitimate child to sexually harassing students, everything happens in IIT. Just want to say, the grass always looks greener from the other side. Do not fall for the trap of IIT is the best Institute. This Institute is a brand and makes the students (who survive) handle any situation. 😄

@jokergaming7309

6 ай бұрын

From Which iit???

@Trishitareads

6 ай бұрын

@@jokergaming7309 kgp

@aryanm2982

6 ай бұрын

Hey is this really true?? Because if it is then it's all so fucked up. I'm gonna be giving jee this year and for what then???

@Trishitareads

6 ай бұрын

@@aryanm2982 it is.. The harassment part happened to me, so I can vouch for that. My only advice for you (if you get into IIT) is - stay very focused, don't question the professors and do your work silently. Your peers will be very supportive, so make friends there. Keep your ego in a box before leaving for classes. The academic pressure will be huge, but you'll survive and become a better person in the end.

@regal_lane

5 ай бұрын

In general, are MOST of the peers truly supportive? I reckon that a whopping majority of them conceal their callousness and enviousness under the decisive veneer of courtesy and cordiality. Since it's a public platform, you may refrain from answering a question like this, and it's absolutely hunky-dory.

When you are from General category and from state like UP , Bihar and Rajasthan and cutoff skyrocketing to 613 / 720 in NEET UG , Private Medical college ask around 1Cr which is not possible for all . Govt of India should focus on reducing this fees .

When children are in high school, Counseling of parents should be made by management of school and teachers on one to one basis after assessing capability of students and educating parents on strengths and interests of children

Education system ki to lagi padi hai....but fir bi parents ka support bhot important hai.... Proud to have such parents ❤

11:26 onwards - Every student should listen this, no matter for which competitive exam you are preparing for. The words might sound harsh, but are definitely true. Listen to your gut instinct. If you having feelings like this course is not apt for me or I might be not able to do that good in it, then just drop it please. Don't think about money invested in it, money can be earned anytime but life is earned once. If you are having suicidal thoughts because of no matter what, go to a person and talk. It helps a lot. Ending your precious life is not a solution, you are not a failure or waste, you are just at a wrong place.

There have been instantances where I felt being side lines like 1. There was one teacher who said after four mock test I will make u sit according to ur marks like the first bench for toppers and last bench for student who didn't perform well 2. Our chemistry teacher only asked questions to the toppers and motivated them ...but what about students who are not good in chemistry ? They just sit quit with their eyes on the table not feeling confident ....and if an average student asks a question to the teacher before the answer There would always be insult in some or the other way 3. Telling the toppers which extra books they should buy and providing them with extra questions and pervious years questions.....but when a n average student asks which extra book should they go for ?the teacher would reply as "aap pehle ncert complete karloo" I was in Aakash for 3 years and now I can say those 3 years were the worst years of my life.....nothing in my life has demotivated me to this level There was a point in my life when I wanted to tell my parents that I don't want to got the institute but one thing that held me back from it was that if my brother can do it then why can I? Towards the end I got a lot of suicidal thoughts I would cry everynight thinking I am such a disgrace to my family I was jealous of my real brother...I use to hate when he use to come to our house during his vacations....I always felt detached from my own family members....but I didn't gave up and scored good marks in neet...even though I am not in my dream college but somewhere I am happy and confident now....to all those student who are appearing for any competitive exam I just have one advice that don't let go ur social life and don't let anyone make u feel inferior ....u are ur best version

@Wtf.kamikaze

10 ай бұрын

After reading your full comment i can for sure say one thing you made it happen bro ,

@Pratiksingh3

10 ай бұрын

Are u studying in government medical College??

@JahaanDosanjh

10 ай бұрын

@@Pratiksingh3 yeah

@unknownhacker8223

10 ай бұрын

​@@JahaanDosanjhcongrats bro don't know why but feeling so happy for you

@JahaanDosanjh

10 ай бұрын

@@unknownhacker8223 😊

It's not just Kota, I went to study for jee at a very known institute of a city, studied in the top batch but the pressure given by the institute was insane, they will make you do anything for top AIRs, they pretend they care about students but they also give 100% to destroy student's mental health, they tell you to attend every lecture even if you are so sick to get out of the bed.

@pritamdeb8395

6 ай бұрын

Honestly sorry that I can't sympathize with you cuz it's partly your fault for not having a thick skin. Blaming it on mental health are just excuses cuz you also know that they were doing that for your own good

In India everyone wants naukri but nobody wants to learn the subjects completely, most of the students lack the practical knowledge and skills. The students are treated like a product not human beings

@priyanshu8081

10 ай бұрын

Brother uske liye teachers bhi matter karte hai...personally mene face kiya jab teachers mere doubt sunte tak nhi theh.... PS I belongs to a highly reputed school of Rajasthan...🙂🤐

Bro, you doing a great job. You educating the youth in a perfect manner, not this specific video, all the videos. The way you structure the video, while backing it up with reliable studies is amazing. Goodluck👏🏾

to all aspirants lemme tell u I cleared JEE advanced with 7k rank and mains with approx same rank. currently I am pursuing Btech in IT from IIIT Gwalior. after spending 2 years here, I can tell u one thing , after some years it doesnt depends where u studied. I know many people from pvt clg who are doing way better than us and also some IITians and IIITians that ruined their life on drugs and smoking. SO in long term it doesnt matters whether u study in IIT/NIT/IIIT, but what matters is the hardwork u are doing in these 2 years, if u maintained this hardwork even after jee, believe me there is no limit to your success..

@abc-oe4nv

9 ай бұрын

@@raghunandan4914 SMART. REALLY SMART!

@atulyaroy8962

9 ай бұрын

Medical is the new engineering, 80% marks se bhi zyda kuch nhi hota unka, aur abhi june mei 1 suicide hua tha kyunki 3-4 bf the aur bf ko pta chal gya ek dusre ke bare mei aur ghar wale bhi strict the, phir vo bf pareshan/balckmail kar rahe the. Coaching toh ghatiya hai logo ki upbringing aur society bhi toh achhi nhi hai. Ye aspect news mei kabhi nhi ayegi kyunki mafia mafia karne se logo ko views aur trp milti hai😂 Coaching are too responsible, usually the arrogant younger teachers especially in allen. It's quite shitty that some teachers/students just cyberbully or some shit like asking minor girls if they are sexually active or catcall. It's just disappointing the way our society is structured because the victims are usually scared of involving in 'unnecessary drama'. To be fair what you said is said by most the experienced teachers and some of the younger ones are usually arrogant and egoistic The thing with private clg in medical field is that it's too expensive and thus people feel pressurized

@suruchi_sinha123

9 ай бұрын

@@atulyaroy8962 no and the main thing they have to drop yrs n societal pressure is main problem

@Randomanonymous234

9 ай бұрын

Finaly someone said this....even my brother from BHU IIT said the same thing....he found that he was not at all interested in engineering and hence somehow managed to stay there.....but wasted his life although his IIT tag somehow saved him in his professional life

@akshatpathak2799

9 ай бұрын

Bro I believe but somewhere you get more opportunities in iit the pvt clgs...

Yes true now I am in kota and I feel this Reason : Backlog Parents pressure Mess harmful food Kota water High price of things High price acompudation Can't miss a single class Can't live like normal day .....and leads to high depression and anxiety but kota aaker maine rehna sekh lya and now I am a strong girl

My parents always wanted me to become a doctor but after my one refusal they never forced me ever again. I am pursuing CA now .

It's not only about JEE and NEET students but it's a student problem as a whole. Students of master, PhD , medical CA, UPSC, NET , GATE, govt exam, students who are passed out and are unemployed everyone is facing this problem and it should be fixed as soon as possible

The bitter truth is lack of seats in instituitions, and difficulty level in jee advanced increses every year due to which mostly candidates join coaching instituite from 9th standard and strats preparation for 4 years till 12th standard, and one this Difficulty in exams is directly proportional to money earning by coaching instuites. And some corruotion also main cause behind studend suicide.

Not just Kota students, even non Kota students suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts. I myself was a JEE aspirant(not from Kota) and I can confirm this.

@Henji235

10 ай бұрын

Yup but other cities has some different environment too But kota is something different here whole environment is only of competitive exam from a shopkeeper to chai wala everyone talks about exams only😢

@abhinav.sharmaa

10 ай бұрын

@@Henji235 I understand their situation. One of my friends is in Kota for JEE drop year, he said that environment here is so competitive like you feel pressurized by yourself.

@user-mj6zk4vq6y

10 ай бұрын

​@@Henji235in Hyderabad and AP there is srichaitanya and narayana there literally torture students as in jail

I did my JEE advanced prep from Kota this year. Although I cleared JEE advanced but I did not get an IIT because I had 74.8% in boards, 🤡🤡

@gamingwithprakhar3149

10 ай бұрын

Bhai rassi lau 😂😂😂 😹

@gamingwithprakhar3149

10 ай бұрын

.2% 😂

@Karan_Singh14

9 ай бұрын

Bhagwan aapko himmat de 🙂❤️

@loveuzindgi5895

9 ай бұрын

​@@gamingwithprakhar3149😂

@shreyboss256

9 ай бұрын

Just Indian things bro 🤡🤡 , feeling so bad for you bro😓

Truly said.... "Hum kota se nikl jaate hain lekin kota hmse nhi niklta" ...... 4 saal ho gye but aaj bhi uska affect life pr h....

@ViratKohli-gp4cc

10 ай бұрын

Kaise btayegi

Thanks for this video. society itself is the problem. over expectations from child is very toxic, let child's live their life and let them choose their desired career and help them choosing it not forcing

A lot of people think ki Kota bhej denge to selection ho jaega, but Aisa Bilkul Bhi nhi hai. Hostels, specially in Kota just adds unnecessary pressure on students. Preparing at home Is way better than going Kota.

@nishchhal-zb4xc

10 ай бұрын

Bache pe depend karta hai bhai

@Ayush-li6nn

10 ай бұрын

@@nishchhal-zb4xc Haan wo Bhi hai

@peteck007

10 ай бұрын

किसी छोटे शहर में जाकर कर लो पर कोटा में जाना याने जो बंदा मोटिवेटेड होगा वो भी डिप्रेस्ड हो जाएगा

Everyone has talent in different fields, and people should start to respect all fields, being a doctor or an engineer is not the only way to succeed in life.

As a experienced ex neet aspirants believe me neet is not everything I realised this thing only this year just live for your loved ones not for neet ❤😊

each and every word said by him is accurate and on point, this video was much needed ! and this is coming from a guy who left his corporate career to pursue youtube, he is happy and as he said, success comes with patience. If he wouldn't have moved on from his low academic marks, we wouldn't have been able to see this side of harsh, and it takes alot of guts to leave a job for yt, so im proud of him and he himself is an example! so dont worry, life will give u many opportunities...life doesn't revolved around a single exam..keep going, there's a lot still left.

this video was too fine ,but as a jee aspirant i can confirm teachers are not just teachers they treat us like mentors , shout out to nkc , vj, skm, ag , alakh, gb, pankaj sir

@niggasinkanpur

10 ай бұрын

Nkc sir solos all but I hate unacademy for no reason

@ruchisaraswat7380

10 ай бұрын

Yeahhh gb Sir skm and vj sir are legends

@technicalgolu1294

10 ай бұрын

Pankaj sir ko goli maro 10 students toh pw vidyapeeth se maare h Bekar teacher h pw meh ek bacha toh hmare class ka hee h

@prnv19

10 ай бұрын

@@niggasinkanpur yeah unacademy is expensive

@prnv19

10 ай бұрын

@@ruchisaraswat7380 apni kaksha?

Well done Harsh this reality check was very much needed ... I cleared neet this year and now I can say that coaching centres are the biggest reason for parents high expectation.... They glorify their teaching but in reality they are just expanding their business These institutes make the child feel like there is nothing more important than exams ....I was in Aakash jalandhar branch and few teachers were so demotivating especially to student who were average ...they just focus on their top students and give their best facilities to the toppers only but what about students who are average ? Don't they have right for improvement or the same facilities ......

As an aspirant, I've been facing all this currently! I completely agree with your every single point. LITERALLY EVERY POINT🙂. All this is very heartbreaking 💔🙃 no one will ever understand this unless they've been actually to this phase Don't know when all these judgments will stop

@monu5555

5 ай бұрын

Bus apna lift khatam mat karna

I was in Kota last year in 4th phase of PW , nd one year dropper and new student for jee unfortunately I got only 7 months for both attempts and didn't able to crack my jee exam and got only 88.7 percentile I really suffered a lot there due to unavailability of teachers due to which I did prepare by my self using online and I am middle class really going through a lot and from last three months taking pills to comfert my self and now going to some private college. Home some day my days will be good in sha allah and I will overcome my depression and will do good in my lyf , due to money reasons I can't drop more .

School is old school ~HARSH

@AashiAgarwal-ln1ui

2 ай бұрын

Sad but true 😢

2:44 I confirm. Neet Matlab Chemistry aur bio ki pura books Ratt lo...if you thoroughly memorize each and every sentence aapke 540 marks assured hai.80%theoretical questions. JEE Is different.Very less theoretical questions,more about application.The more you know concepts and it's application,the more you score.

Government ko Baaki "Government Colleges" Ki level sudharne ki bhi jarurat hai . Agar India mai Saare Colleges ka Curriculum High class hai , Campus IIT's level ka hai toh kon ki Faltu mai IIT's ke peeche suicide krega. IIT's ko hi glorify krne se hi suicides hote hai IIT's sirf 17k seats provide krti hai .Usse kai guna jyada Government College ki seats vacant jaati .Uski Quality mai sudhar krna chahiye usse competition bhi kaaphi kmm hongi aur Job opportunities jyada honge

One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔

@Param_Hayaran

Ай бұрын

It's true

One of the best video by Harsh , it is really helpful and convening ❤

It's not only done in India It's also done in Nepal and other neighbors country on India. I'm from Nepal & Buaa's is from Delhi and her son is an IITina. when ever she call to my dad she use to tell about her son a lot only. she tells after bachelor my son is going to get 20 lakh package, 1 cr package blaa blaa blaa. My family pressure me to visit kota for Jee preparation and see I'm now in kota doing preparation of Jee. Even I'm interested in Science but due to family pressure I'm here. I don't know what next happens to me in my future but I'm sure I'm not going to do suicide at any cost.

I am in kota previous year preparing for neet. Mai kota gaya tha apna sapne leke kii KGMU jaunga agli saal aur mai iss saal KGMU jaa bhi raha hu lekin admission lene nhi balki har mahine apne headache kii medicine lene joo mujhe kota me mila hai. I SUGGEST EVERY PARENTS TO DON'T SEND THEIR CHILDREN'S TO KOTA FOR ANY PREPARATION OR THEY LOST THEIR CHILDREN PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY.

@Dr.Abhinav_

10 ай бұрын

Hey i am a resident doctor at KGMU and don't feel low life is just Like ECG reading ups ad down failure and success is part of process and about headache migraine come on Monday i will try to meet you and get to the neuro department straight aay

@suruchi_sinha123

9 ай бұрын

@@Dr.Abhinav_ sir I m 28yrs wanted to give neet exam , is there any discrimination in college regarding age ?? Or pursuing medicine ,

Being a student living in Kota I can confirm it eveyrthing here is messed up everyone just cares about money be it hostel owner or coaching ...

@ruchisaraswat7380

10 ай бұрын

Same vro

Really this topic needs discussion. Very nice video ❤

the similar situation is in some north indian communities with regards to visa approval. the stigma is the same it’s just instead of IITs and NITs its Canada america Australia

Being an aspirant is really tough. I was also a medical aspirant (not an indian, so i dont know much about kota.. But i had also suffered alot.. Its a very big buisness.. and manipulation happens a lot to take money from students.. after working hard for 4 years (1 drop year and 1 year lost for covid in our country ) i quit everything and joined arts.. A lot of my beliefs were changed after that.. The suicidal feeling is not unusual.. the whole damn preparation phase isolates you from the entire world.. so you start getting delusional and start feeling like nothing exists beyond medical college..

I remember when my father said beta I wish you best of luck for your future but when you feel like to leave your job you can leave we are not forcing you" I was so relieved to know that if someday I want to leave I can because of my parents and family 😊 ❤️

जब हम लोग स्कूल में थे वो समय बहुत बढ़िया था अब तो स्कूल एक धंधा बन चुका है 😢 शुक्र है कि अब हम स्कूल में नहीं है लेकिन हमारी आने वाली पीढ़ी की ही चिंता रहती है 😢

2021 = 16 lakh students 2022 = 18 lakh 2023 = 21 lakh so what is the numbers in 2024 and seats are only 1 - 1.5 lakh so what 19.5 lakh students will do I think government should make population control law first

@swanandiapar6040

10 ай бұрын

Btw in 2023 it's 23lakh😅

@aishwaryamaiti4249

9 ай бұрын

26 lakh Sala population bhi kam nai hai na

@shreyboss256

9 ай бұрын

@@aishwaryamaiti4249 Fucking 145crs bruhh🙂

@Param_Hayaran

Ай бұрын

Actually there are around 50k good colleges but students only want iits

Being a student of Kota I can tell you, please go to Kota only if you want. Don't go to Kota by taking pressure of parents. I myself told my parents to go to Kota, I was not told by anyone and now I am in IIIT Kancheepuram

@soumyadipmukherjee6627

5 ай бұрын

Difference bro in intelligent and average people like us bro

Challenges and hardships are part of life , they either break you so bad you can't recover, or mold you so strong you can never be broken .

Kota was so depressing for me , you have to face the pressure of parents and also of teachers if you failed to score good marks in test . Teacher's mainly focus on the topper student who can get them rank and demotivate other student. Finally feeling relief after leaving kota .

@hariomsingh7317

10 ай бұрын

😢

Born and brought up in Kota, I've always seen all these in air. That too in an area where most students live. My house itself is let out to 15 students. My mother makes sure that they are doing good and treats them like their own child. Not advertising my house, just telling how owners of rooms/pg can also contribute to improving Kota's environment as responsible citizens.

The problem is we as lower-income families have little and dreams of having more and for that when we get into the streets of competition with very little knowledge and patience and then we get frustrated with failures because we chose the right path but didn't get the right guidance and right support to walk on that path and then that path either leads to death and if we get lucky, we change the path and get some hope to live but now with different dreams but same old frustrations of having little.

main root cause is parents expectations....

Financial burden killed me , I am no more of my older version, totally devastated 💔

@muhammadabdurehman-sp3qx

Ай бұрын

Don't give up! Life is beautiful. Believe on God ❤

Problem isnt education system its just too much competition and population

2 years Ago I was suffering but my parents and one old teacher was highly supportive towards me . I am pursuing B.Pharm From Dehradun but have learned so much that even being a doctor could not have done.

@paran8561

10 ай бұрын

Bhi sab kuch jyada nahi hogya😂😂. Ur a very Good jeVlin thrower😂

11:38 Is Too Relatable ❤ I Got Good Marks In IIT And AIEEE Entrances After My 12th But I Thought To Improve My Marks In Next Attempt After Coaching Which Got Worse Yes Peer Pressure Is The Main Stress To A Student's Mind

@HiteshDadhich05

10 ай бұрын

Same brooi

BHaiya Ap ka khna Bilkul shi hai But kota me Kai ese Institute hai jo Shiksha ke sath sath Students ka pura pura dhyan rkhte hai .........kafi Acha Environment provide krwate hai ... Because I m fully satisfied with motion 💯😍😍😍

Yes, You are absolutely right bhaiya I am also in kota if someone is listening to me then please don't send your child,brother or friend to kota . Keep them in front of yourself.

I can confirm that that when I got 80k rank in jee mains so got very depressed and didn't study for 1month and then got 23k rank in advance In short Never Give Up.

@lakshaybhardwaj2695

10 ай бұрын

Bhai to konsa kuch badiya ho gaya dono me kuch nahi milne wala

@ajain2603

10 ай бұрын

@@lakshaybhardwaj2695 bhai pucha kya tere se gyaan mat chod

@anshumodi13

10 ай бұрын

​@@ajain2603bina padhe 23k rank 😂

@user-zt9dw2dg3z

10 ай бұрын

​@@ajain2603abhi kidhar ho bhai aap fir?

@lakshaybhardwaj2695

10 ай бұрын

@@ajain2603 bsdk never give up ka kya matlab h misinformation faila raha h mc anpad Bhai mains me gen cat me agar 98.5 nahi aaate to kuch nahi h available aur adv me acchi rank 5k se start h theek and agar koi sc st ya obc h to Kam karle percentile and bhai jo internet pe har cheez Jo user ne public kardi h uspe comment Kara Jaa sakta h fir pucha kisi ne terko ye comment karne ko

Just wanna guide my junior prep for jee .....Take competition in healthy way , it short term stress......AFTER CLEARING ADV , IIT WILL RETURN U IN 2 MONTHS THE PRIZE OF THAT STRESS ❤

I would never say its a motivational video but close to eye opening.Parents should go through this video. They need reality check.

Being an engineering student from tier 3 college who couldn't clear iit, I can surely say that whether you crack IIT or not ultimately your hard work and passion towards a certain field will make you successful and I mean it... Engineering sab same hai uske baad kya karoge wo socho 😊

@hardiksharma9341

10 ай бұрын

Bro I think u haven't gone through the society and it's mindset. My cousin is IITian and I still remember whenever someone ask him what he is doing he replies BTech then everyone had a smile on their face but when he says that BTech from IIT everyone in room turns serious in just a second. Even today many of my seniors from school have persuaded BTech from tier 3 colleges or private colleges like LPU and CU but the school board bears the name of ex students who got selected into IIT and NIT. Moreover in private or tier 3 colleges the maximum package goes around 20lpa but in Gen 1 IITs the median package goes upto 25lpa and the highest in crores that makes the difference. Wether u accept it or not but an engineer isn't respected in India until he's an IITian or NITian .

@Levi_Ackerman_0

10 ай бұрын

@@hardiksharma9341 yeah I agree that iit has its glory and prestige... I'm talking about those who can't get into it but still manage to get high paid jobs through hard work and passion... So don't get demotivate and work in right direction

@Levi_Ackerman_0

10 ай бұрын

@@GGLACC-ij2ko Congo bro... What's your work domain ?? Where are you placed currently?

@hardiksharma9341

10 ай бұрын

@@Levi_Ackerman_0 yeah I too admit that. I m just showing you the face of our society. A non IIT engineer isn't given that amount of respect as an IITian. Yeah there are very good options like BITS Pilani, IIIT H&B, Thapar but non of them is as regarded as IIT/NIT

@anshumanmishra5760

9 ай бұрын

​@@hardiksharma9341comedk college too

Absolutely true. Even I almost became a Dr. My parents thankfully, always encouraged me to follow my passion and to do what I actually enjoy. Even our school was different. The founder of the school personally new Rabindranath Tagore and was inspired by his teachings. The Principal always encouraged us to do what we love and not follow the herd. I am so blessed to have grown up in such an environment. Now I have my own 3D animation studio, which I always wanted. Still, some relatives and people around me always say directly or indirectly that I could have done much better as a Dr. Its true that I don't earn nearly as much as I would have if I went to IITs but at the end of the day, I love what I do and slowly and surely I am confident that my venture will grow bigger.

a jee student in kota ,all you said in this video is 100 percent true ..but on other side kota tells us about hardwork in life

Very true. I am an engineer but working as a freelance data scientist. Even though I am earning 3 times of an engineer in Google but still facing challenges in marriage because that's how society thinks. They think of getting into a good college and then a secure job. But economy has grown so much that even gig workers like me get immense work opportunities.

@criclover13

10 ай бұрын

How did you become a data scientist? What roadmap you followed?

Ye parents ke pressure ke wajah se..hota hai jisko emotional blackmail kehte hai...jaise ki apke mother father apko baar baar apni pareshani batate rahenge...jisse aap frustrate ho jayenge..aur aap ki pareshani bhi aise jo aap kisi ko bata nahi ...sakte..tab apke paas ek solution bachta hai suicide...

Such a great video everything was on point Thanks we need such a video ✨

every line is on point , best video harsh bhaiyya , as a aspirate , everyline just feel so real!!!

My parents are not toxic actually they never forced me to prepare for jee it was my sole decision and so was coming to kota but after coming here i have lost my interest in studies it's been one month only but i can't focus much my mother tells me to study everytime and not make much friends and even restricts me from going anywhere but she still says if the pressure is too much come back. But this actually hurts knowing that you chose this career option yourself and not having any interest in it. Sometimes i just cry and cry but can't share it with my parents because my mom is very emotional she'll ask me to come back instead of motivating

I didn't wanted to take pressure that's why i left the school after 5th class. And guess what today i am earning even more than degree holders. In my early age i saw jethalal left the school after 5th class, this gave me idea and i opened Electronics shop. 🙏

Brother your yt channel is growing rapidly. Congratulations 🎉 & best of luck .

A neet aspirant especially a dropper can relate with it, well researched harsh bhai

me kota me hu 11th (jee) mai unn sabhi students ko yeh advice dena chahta hu ki aggr aapka interest uss subject mai nahi h to peer pressure me uski prep karne kota kabhi mt aana , kyuki tum kota aaoge tumhara interest hi nahi rahega to padhai me mnn nahi lagega or tum class bunk chalu krr doge but 4-5 months bitne ke baad tum apne aap ko worthless samjhoge and galat thought aayenge and now u can see the situation of kota. so please choose your intrest by your choice non of your parent choice thanks

I'm from nit, i think government ko companies pe restriction lgani chahiye ki wo on campus placement pe na jaye, on campus placement band kar seni chahiye aur companies ko ek comman platform bnana chahiye placement ke liye jha par sabhi college ke students apply kar sak. Aise karne se sabhi students iit jee ka picha shoad denge aur sirf research oriented students hi iit/nit jayegnge

That helped a lot bro I was 14 years old when I joined aakash institute in delhi It ruined my mental status I had been suicidal for several months Thanks to god I had such supportive parents who even lost their life earning in coaching fee and stills support me in my drop year decision

Kabhi kabhi there's no pressure from parents ...its just individual feelings where a person feels all her dreams are shattered and theres no hope left

" Chote City ke medical clg me Jake kya kroge Jana hai to metro City jao"🙂👍🏻 so called motivation

I am a 12th grade students and can really relate to all these problems, It was really helpful bro Thanku

@idk-69247

10 ай бұрын

Bro I'm also in 12th Not doing any Of these jee iit courses Coz i know this is just shit , bit the teachers and parents always demotivate me as I don't opt for it and I'm not even interested in it now, What I'm interested in is 3d works and VFX But you know no one supports us Fu*k Education System

@dumb_art156

10 ай бұрын

@@idk-69247 that's how society treat those who persue something different, I'm also interested in animation but ya I also feel confused and self doubt but that's part of Journy would recommend to follow your passion or you may regret later. Huh l should also work on my passion. Good luck to you!

@soumyadipmukherjee6627

5 ай бұрын

​@@idk-69247can understand u bro but in my case my Mom supports me to do what ever I want so I don't have any pressure of doing any iit or medical that's for sure

Agar ye video Mai mummy ko dikha dunga na to pahle to muze 1 ganta lecture dengi aur fir kahegi bachhe padhai he nahi karte 😶

As a citizen of Kota .....I can verify his news and points are all accurate

As a neet aspirant I'm sure about my Career,,,, If anything happens with me I'm pretty sure about changing path . I'm not that fake aspirant who will take 8 drops just to get into mbbs

Though i cracked IIT back in 2022, without going to kota just prepared from youtube and self study since my finacial situation was not good it took a lot of hardwork,dedication i also was getting depressed sometime but my desire to get into IIT was so strong that i stood against all odds and made it so never give up on your dream your time will come 👍

If India had built 300 IITs with annual enrolment of 2000+ in each IIT, then Kota like institutes will be dead! The problem is with limited IIT/AIIMS/IIM seats!

I will be graduating next yr from Engineering. During 2020 COVID lockdown even I was diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder due to JEE exams. Till today I'm having anti depressants !! I wil die but will never forget those painful days 🥺

Aur tvf walo ka to pura career hi upsc, iit pe tika hua hai

You aree toooo good . I just want you thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge. Thank you

The real number suicides ain't even close to the stats shown. Trust me I have been in kota.

Finally someone talk about this topic.

❤❤thank you brother. I was preparing for neet for mbbs. And I thought that there is mbbs only for a successful life . Even right now some where I feel lost . Right not I'm giving cat and then I will do my mba . From a good college hope so I get out of that zone soon enough 😅

Good video Harsh well researched data and facts !!

Bhaiya I will tell you one of the very big reason why people get mad on colleges is that due to curriculum in our school and then coaching most of the students lost all there other hobbies that usually led them to believe this is what they meant to be.[ I am in similar situation I don not have any other skill scare to start learning anything new at 19 in order of fear that what if if I fail?

Bhai, sometimes students themselves take undue pressure which is not even needed.

I am preparing for JEE 2024 and tbh I am proud of myself because I don't share same mindset as of my classmates and competitors...they only care about "rank" and "percentile" whereas I only and only care about depth knowledge of physics and math as I wanna pursue them as main subjects....maybe it's just my self endurance because I am just used to be depressed and hyped up most of the time as I am a bipolar...I hope students will soon realize that rank and IITian's tag doesnot decided their future at all...

exactly harsh bhaiya , as a jee aspirant i can understand all the things

Thank you Harsh....this video is must Watch video for parents and aspirants as well ❤

I'm really happy that I've never been to Kota and neither my parents forced me to go.