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@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

I'm definitely going to be there for you!

@wadelinn3059

2 жыл бұрын

I. Do. Love you. Ok. Rebecca. 🌹😘❣️💝💓💋🐇💖💞

@elishaha3148

2 жыл бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq I really don't understand why people hate or dislike jada or label as a narc. It seems unfair

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

@@wadelinn3059 sending you light

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

@@elishaha3148 look at what she has said in the media lately

Yes, I agree with you. It's not the money, it's his trauma bond connection to Jada that keeps him from leaving her. As a person who has experienced narcissistic abuse in my family, I know how strong the bond is to someone who is abusing you for years. There is this urge to try to please them so they will one day truly love you, but it will never happen.He will be subject to her put downs and always be second in her eyes to Tupac until he breaks free from this hold she has on him. I finally broke free after years of being abused by family members and I'm a healthier and happier human being for it.

Trauma bonded 100%. However, I hope Will breaks that toxic bond so that he can be healthy and happy.

@stevehollahan3533

2 жыл бұрын

Poor Will, Whip Poor Will!

Listening to this a year later for the first time. Just got to 6:04 where you say Will's past trauma allowed him to not feel worthy in the relationship. That hits so hard right now considering Jada now has a book out called Worthy claimimg it's her journey to feeling worthy of love, etc. in their relationship/family. Smh

He should go! Just like I should. The trauma bonding cycle I've lived for 22 yrs is causing me to have difficulty making the move that I know I should 😔

@tonifonseca9178

2 жыл бұрын

The problem is after you get rid of them you keep attracting more of them and that's not even a joke..

@browneyedgirl4285

Жыл бұрын

@@tonifonseca9178 maybe I will just play it safe and never date again, my narcissistic divorce was finalized last week

@The_Variant

7 ай бұрын

Did you leave?

I think you’re right. He’s in the eye of a narc storm and probably doesn’t know which way is up at this point. The emotional exhaustion in his eyes is very telling. I hope he gets out. He deserves someone who truly cares for him.

I thought this was a recent upload. It’s aged like fine wine. I agree. I never thought this was a money issue but an emotional one.

@YTpsychMyths2

8 ай бұрын

Same!

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2 жыл бұрын

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@anndavis2920

7 ай бұрын

I am a woman that has experienced Narcisstic Abuse in the past so i agree w/everything in your post. I feel this deeply that people are toxic, jealous/envious & therefore dangerous also. The so called 'right person' is not in my reality therefore i feel that does not exist. Such as soulmate, twin flame - none of these ppl exist for me as a single, celibate minority in a majority white town where i have been labelled 'crazy', and all kinds of nasty words. At this 62 years of my life, i feel better & healthier staying alone & single. I thank my Higher Power for my freedom from everything & everyone toxic, narcisstic & energy draining vampires. These are so depressing & being w/these ppl gives me suicidal tendencies i do not need to have.

Right on Rebecca! Yes, he should have left long before this.

I got it. Confusing trauma bond with something like "Law of Attraction" or "Twin Flame" is a sign of toxic relationship.

Sad for Will... So much more suffering to come if he does not make that shift....

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

So true

6:03 “it allowed HIMSELF not to feel worthy” and now Jada has a book titled ‘Worthy’ ugh the irony!

You’re absolutely right! I was talking to my sister today , and said that he is with her because she is just like his father. I also think he is on the narcissist spectrum and they also hold some kind of “empathy “ or affection for other narcissist. I have a narcissistic brother and ex husband.

I knew it was gonna be trauma bond. Will isn't strong enough to divorce her YET. But it's also difficult he's a public figure. Everybody's got eyes on him. People then might say to him that he's a hypocrite when it comes to divorce, IF he ever does it. The criticism he probably could not handle. Jada has 2 strikes as far as i know that what he has done to Will. One was the entanglement and second is the emotional manipulation of her death stare to set Will up to do something about Chris Rock's joke on her. If Will still can't and won't divorce her on or before or after Jada's third strike, Will needs some serious help asap. Spend all that wealth on your emotional, mental and psychological health. Because he is only destroying himself further on

Hopefully, he doesn't hurt himself. He's probably under a tremendous amount of stress and money means nothing to someone depressed. He should dump her when he's stronger.

@wellnesspathforme6236

2 жыл бұрын

He can't get stronger until his environment changes. I feel for his situation. He doesn't realize he's dealing with a toxic spirit that will almost certainly get worse. She can't control her jealousy and takes it out on him. She has to feel like she wins, which means he must lose. This won't end well.

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2 жыл бұрын

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@cc1k435

8 ай бұрын

Doesn't have to hurt himself, as being with a narcissist will do all the hurting it takes. The constant stress creates some violent reactions in the body and often triggers autoimmune diseases.

yep been there done that!! had no idea till i was deeply ensnared. Almost killed me trying to get out.

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2 жыл бұрын

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One can really see in Will’s eyes genuine kindness and in Jada’s eyes pure narcissism. But he seems totally clueless about it. It’s like a spell, I know.. I’ve been there it’s horrible and I’m lucky I can see clearly now. It took me 41 years before getting knowledge about narcissism and then learn and heel to see it. Rebecca you are doing something so important and are so courageous taking openly about this important topic.

It breaks ny heart when you see the way he looks at her and she neverrr looks at him. Its all about her and her ego

That poor child writing a letter…….how sad 😢

It’s really sad but I agree. I think he’s trauma bonded with her, &/or there’s an unhealthy co-dependency going on.

A lot of people see Will as a soft push over because of his hard life and background but at the end of the day he has a spine and stands up for what he believes is the right side to be on. We saw this with the slap.... he wasn't just the goofy fresh prince, he was a thug and stood his ground. Unfortunately he is martyring for a woman that probably uses him as a pawn anyway she can. Just sad.

The Trauma Bond is a phenonema

He should leave ASAP! Life to short

@robinfox9667

2 жыл бұрын

to/too*

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

Yes yes yes. I felt it the moment I heard about what happened. Trauma bonded for sure… I hope he finds his way out of that psychological prison

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2 жыл бұрын

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She had a name before him.

@rashmi411

2 жыл бұрын

she controls

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

yes but he has the much bigger name now

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

@@rashmi411 for sure

😂😂 yep , extreme commonsense 👏🏼❤️ He was an easy target for her

I agree 💯

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

Everyone should have happiness

I have a lot of empathy for Will because I do believe he wants to be a better man than his abusive father was, which is why I believe he works so hard to make his marriage work and to make his wife happy. Unfortunately, I agree that his wife is a very toxic woman who does not respect her husband. He almost went to jail for her that night of the Oscars, had it not been for Chris Rock not wanting to press charges, he would have been in more serious trouble. I believe he needs to find healing to forgive his past and to seek counseling for his mental health.

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

Agree

"Narcissists only win when you give in" - Right 👍

It takes 2 ! Bottom line they can both leave if they wanted I think they are just use to having a toxic relationship there’s no going back

It reminds me of The Color Purple Albert had abused Celie for many many years. To make sure she never went to the mailbox and discover letters from her sister, he told her the mailbox was booby-trapped and it would blow up if it was not opened in just the right way.

Very Accurate. Lots to think about in my own life...at a smaller scale, obviously.

Lol. At first I thought Rebecca was gonna say something crazy abt this but Shes spot on with this

Agree!

She couldn't let him have a good night knowing he might win that award. She would be a nobody if she wasn't married to Will. I pray he gets out. The frerdom it brings is a wonderful feeling.

BAD MARRIAGE FOR LIFE

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@flyingfig12

2 жыл бұрын

that is one twisted mantra.

He's got 7x the networth she has, and no prenuptial agreement... so she gets half if they divorce. Also, since she is clearly a narcissist and they have kids, it's not like she's going to go away after that. Personally, I think he should take the loss and go get with Charlize Theron. I think Charlize really cares for him. I saw an interview with Charlize and she kind of alluded to something like "the one that got away". Will is definitely trauma bonded, though. It sucks to see. His kids are getting older, though, and they are going to gain their independence, and as those kids age they are going to start seeing the reality of how they themselves have been manipulated. After those kids are out, maybe Will will see how the marriage to Jada isn't worth it.

I always thought Will and Rosario Dawson seem to have good chemistry

Exactly what I have thought since I saw his document about his childhood with his violent father. She is a female version of his father. He is definitely trauma-bonded to her. BUT. I am starting to think that he may be somewhat narcissistic himself, just by what he says and does to his children and this whole "family business" as he likes to refer to his and his family activities (acting, singing, ...). Like a royal/rich family.

Willow wrote a letter to 2Pac.....wow😂

Problem is he don’t understand he’s dancing with the devil and the only fix is to get away without warning

RUN, Will, RUN!!!!🙏

Your Toronto 🇨🇦 law nerd fan here. I was curious as to what you were going to say as the reason, because as a survivor of NA I only had one guess: the trauma bond! Of course you never disappoint 🤗 I also believe it’s the same trauma bond that Prince Harry is still with his wife and most definitely why Johnny didn’t leave Amber at the first sign of devaluation. Brilliant video! 🌹

Run Will, run!

Probably cheaper to keep her, IDK. This whole situation is a nuisance!! Hope it will workout either way.

He should divorce her and prove in court about mental abuse she's inflicted upon him. That will not only destroy her narcissistic ego but also boost hustself esteem. Therapy will also help him and after healing and staying single for a whike he'll attract a wonderful woman who is good for him.

She would use the triangulation tactic

What exactly is trauma bonding? Didn't get it 😕

@annaburns2865

2 жыл бұрын

Watch videos on it. It can’t really be explained in just a comment.

@myutube5882

2 жыл бұрын

Look up Jess Stanley, Dr. Ramani, Dr. Les Carter, Exposing the Narcissist (with Clarice), and trauma bonding. They are all on KZread and all really good!

@leslietiwari8625

8 ай бұрын

It's when you are getting psychologically abused by someone and you get so used to it you can't seperate from the person because you actually feel you can change it and one day they will actually treat you right. There is this hope, but it is a false hope in the case of a narcissist because it will never get better. That's what it was in my case and I still feel an attachment, but I have to fight it.

Very true....trauma bonded once...he can't break away...she won't allow him to break free..

Why are they staying in this marriage like there’s some kind of prize at the end.

I think they're both narcissist. He wanted her in the beginning to make him look good. She got what she wanted. He turned down the emotions and she's not goin leaving with out half.

He could be the narcissist. He did work with Dr ramani on his youtube series for his wt loss and book.She is the narcissist whisperer....so who is the narcissist here

@annaburns2865

2 жыл бұрын

They are probably both narcissists but she is also a cheater.

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

he could be but he is still in pain. She definitely seems to be also

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

@@annaburns2865 agree

@catwrangla9027

2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Ramani has been on Red Table Talk more than once. Kinda blows that idea....oh, and you might want to check out Dr. Ramani's book 'You Are Why You Eat'.

@7:35 she has a very masculine jaw and he has a very soft jaw. Trauma bond is a thing. And when there are kids involved it's almost unbreakable. But all things are possible when we are honest with ourselves.

He should get away from her, she's a monster.

That is a hard question, because no one wins in a divorce ... but I will say whatever they do its their business ... too many people, too many opinions

He should go!!!

major codependent

death will separate them, it is correctly said and I have met many such cases in my life.

Toxic or not it can't be easy to give up on a 20+ year marriage. He won't leave her but that's his choice.

Him a narc too? 🙄🙄

He should have been gone... And I too... But what you said is right.. trauma bonded.. that's real I can tell. I need a way out but my wife is always on this love bombing, devaluating cycles.. it kills you alive. You heart is always sad. Arguments every single day.... It's just ridiculous

It’s cheapa ta keepa

He writes that ""you can attract or create whatever you want", but that's only for God to decide... It's a BIG lesson he's been taught.. Home for his sake he understands it now

@patrickevelyn8028

2 жыл бұрын

Hope* and not home

@patrickevelyn8028

2 жыл бұрын

But it's hopeless for all the Jada Pinketts and Amber Heards of this world

Go

Or if you are married someone who doesn't understand what vows and commitments are( and they are not going to change, it's who they are), why am I then required to continue to honor it. Anyway back to the Smiths..

You can’t get well in the place that made you sick. Will won’t get well until he leaves her.

...but really, why would she support Chris Rock? That wouldn't be right. CR went a bit too far and got slapped back. Boundary broken and repaired. Done. Over.

Great analysis! I think he definitely needs to divorce her but I also agre with you that he is trauma bonded.

He told her from the beginning that he will never divorce her..She has been pushing that boundary from the beginning..He needs GOD not some budda statue..He needs Jesus Christ they are the ones who can help him..Denzel be trying to tell him..

@cassiebrown9786

2 жыл бұрын

👍

@tonyasmith5437

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

it's almost so crazy it's funny at this point . it's actually boring now.

Will the wtf is wrong with you she beaten you self esteem down snap the g out it...this not love you deserve that ! Anyone deserves that ! ...you climb that bld in nyc much respect ! Now you respect yourself life is short that woman can never love you the way you like! She don't know how! Find someone that will and that does ...this is toxic

Ok. My. Loving. Baby girl. I. Never. Married. No. Kids. Or. A. Wife. Ok. 💖🐇💋💓💝❣️😘🌹

@RebeccaZungEsq

2 жыл бұрын

maybe smart

Is a trauma Bond the same thing as Stockholm Syndrome?

His wife is a very toxic women the o my reason he is trying so hard to make this marriage work is he don’t want to be like his father. But sometimes you just need to look after your inner health and peace and just leave a toxic relationship

He needs to leave her, I can see the evil in her eyes 👀, just take a moment and give her expressions a real good look.

Ok he is bigger than jadas crap, he considers her a fun toy, her ctap doesnt bother him

Will won't leave Jade 'cause he's an idiot. It's as simple as that, really...

I think Jada & Prince Harry will run off together. He likes bald women; they remind him of his brother. JK

Triangulation

Rebecca. Should. I. Call. You. My. Wife. And. You. Call me. Your. Husband. Then. Ok. I. Love you. So. Very very. Much. Rite. Now. Ok. 😘🌹🐇💞💖💋💓💝❣️😍👄

Rebecca Zung is Super negative about Will and Jada relationship.

@keenah1111

2 жыл бұрын

bc theyre toxic and love to spread toxicity

Wow I did not know that Will Smith was not Christian I thought all this time he was Christian I must have seen something that he did but the fact that he's gone to do Zen and yoga and all these other things proves he's not a Christian as a Christian we are not allowed to do anything of this nature and it's biblical. So when you said law of attraction that is so demonic and occult I guarantee you I bet you $30,000 I'm not a better by nature but I am that positive yeah he's not Christian okay I accept that now I'm shocked at all the different areas that he has gone to he's going to answer to God when he does die no matter what he does works donations in any of this nothing nothing counts well this is shocking okay I'm good

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2 жыл бұрын

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Will said he is a Christian, yet after the slap, he went all the way to India to go see a spiritualist ! He needs Jesus Christ, not some voodoo priest! Jesus Christ is The only way, The Truth and The Life.

He won’t divorce her because he is a narcissist! Bottom line. And Jada has been extremely relevant to the Black community just because you have not watched what she has starred in does not mean she isn’t relevant she is only not relevant to you because of racism (not your racism societies racism) if racism did not exist she would have more work. Also it feels sexist that you are rating her relevancy based on a man. she doesn’t need Will to have a show or a platform it’s 2022 you have a show and no Will Smith and she has way more popularity than you ever will so as a woman to say she wouldn’t have a platform even though she has been wo rking for more years than he has, is wack. Only recently in this country have some Black actresses that have been working since childhood began to get more work on “White” TV and movies. Will Smith is popular because he sold out very young and he is a man that both White men and White Women find safe and acceptable for their programming and consumption, so comparing them does not make sense culturally if you understand how Hollywood has intentionally not included Black Woman on set or as a part of story narratives even when they have Oscars they still don’t get work. Jada Pinkett Smith to the Black community would be like Cameron Diaz to you all in terms of impact she has made us laugh and cry. Please do some more research if you care about this issue. Follow how he responded to the woman he worked with on Fresh Prince he is obviously an extreme Narcissist. Also Jada has addressed Narcissist Abuse on her show with a specialist on the subject NO ONE THAT IS HEAVY ON The NARCISSISTIC SPECTRUM would ever bring on a doctor to Highlight their own abusive behaviors as a matter of fact the difference in how that doctor speaks to Jada compared to Will shows you how careful she is being not to say any of the things that trigger narcissist when speaking to him. Consider also that Will had already cheated on Jada for years and spoke openly about it yet shamed her for the same behavior and gave her daring looks when she mentioned it when they were talking. Often times people forget that when Men have dads like his men that accomplish the amount he has achieved, do so because they adopted the behaviors of their narcissistic fathers. You Have not heard Will Smith speak about how much he has controlled everyone in his family and how he made all the rules until recently. You have never heard Jada describing how she felt early on in the marriage and it is exactly what those of us that have been in a controlling abusive relationship experience. His own daughter talked about it. Also he admitted to hitting Jada with a News Paper and he smacked a reporter so he obviously has issues with control. Another thing to keep in mind is woman recovering from his style of control often look narcissistic as they begin to take control of their own lives. Being assertive becomes necessary to not be beat completely down. Check Jada pre Will. It’s unfortunate but necessary in order to not get stepped on. I do not know if she is Narcissistic but I will say she has already proven with her honesty that she is always working on herself way more than he has been and if anything I believe Red Table forced him into a self analysis he may not have done otherwise. You should research parenting that cause Narcissism and Parenting styles that cause codependency and look at the discussion she has with her own mother. Just a suggestion.

Maybe this is just a tactic to stay relevant. I mean there’s no such thing as bad publicity in show business, right? 🥱