Reading a room and understanding human nature as a socially awkward introvert.

You can read a room to identify snake oil salesmen by understanding human nature as a socially awkward introvert. This is how you do it.
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  • @meera1471
    @meera147110 ай бұрын

    Felix.... no. You can't hang around people who you know secretly don't like you. That's very dangerous. That's how a lot of these women in the media got killed - by hanging around jealous "friends" who I am pretty sure knew didn't like them. Besides, hanging with someone who you know is keeping tabs on you just to collect data and actually can't stand you is no fun company. They are always snubbing you and insulting you under the table under the guise of a "joke" and eventually gang up on you. I know because most people who hung around me not so secretly didn't like me and when I stayed around them, it only hurt me.

  • @keyhimself3542
    @keyhimself354210 ай бұрын

    One of the greatest skills you can learn is how to quickly figure out what others (especially strangers) want from you. When people approach you, it's ALWAYS for a reason. Example, Many ladies waste years with gents who only wanted a few nights of fun. Or, many gents will waste plenty of dough on a lady who just wanted to be friends. The first question to ask yourself when you meet a new person should be, "What do they want from me"

  • @joshesky112

    @joshesky112

    10 ай бұрын

    Or "What does the universe want me to do with this person?"

  • @iambloopy
    @iambloopy10 ай бұрын

    Oh the title drew me in as soon as I saw it! As introverts, we pay the price of social inelegance far too often. Our analytical and introspective nature would serve us well in social settings instead of relying purely on authenticity - we pay for that! Oh, let me watch.

  • @joshflugel
    @joshflugel10 ай бұрын

    INTJ introverts have potent b.s. detecting sensors.

  • @meera1471
    @meera147110 ай бұрын

    I don't need to be around anyone who doesn't accept me for who I am. Being around people or part of a community often feels like being surrounded by people who have made worse decisions than you, have the audacity to tell you what you should change about yourself. I don't want to look or act in any way that I don't already choose to as a 26 year old woman.

  • @julius-christonnreid4675

    @julius-christonnreid4675

    10 ай бұрын

    Lmao, I kinda get that. I relate so much that it's funny. It's already weird enough that I seek to improve but still have highly opinionated people slide their critics my way at times. I get that it's human nature, but it still catches my attention now and then.

  • @vanessavilchez2730
    @vanessavilchez273010 ай бұрын

    I’m always wary of people who have the same goals of: treat your body right, better yourself, and care for those that care for you.. only because two people can agree on those same goals but one can see it as a status symbol and another can see it as something deeper, the point of life.

  • @doomz4564

    @doomz4564

    9 ай бұрын

    Damn man

  • @Velvet-Sunshine.
    @Velvet-Sunshine.10 ай бұрын

    Wow, I probably couldn't compete with this one. But speaking strictly from me, it's as though people, friends of mine, speak to me as if they are speaking to someone who is less intelligent. And this somehow puts them in the right. But the significance of this point, is that they are dealing with intelligence. I know what they're up to. I let them have their ego, because I really don't care about anything that others think. Because quite frankly and I don't care who you are, you can spend hours talking to someone and they might even agree, but the moment they disengage from the conversation they will go right on doing it their way even if they're in the wrong. That's why I don't say anything, because people cannot be changed or change their mind even when they know for sure they are wrong. And the odd part is, if I know I'm wrong, I'm glad to change. I must be one in a million or just some lonely guy without an ego. Strike that lonely part💖 still got love. Later dude.

  • @roamakes
    @roamakes8 ай бұрын

    Currently bingeing all of ur vids

  • @taurahelms3068
    @taurahelms30689 ай бұрын

    I thought it was just me. I work with a lot of fake people. They show their true colors of how they feel when no one is around because they understand that I can see through the act. The crazy part is that I never said anything. I just observed how they were acting and the nonsense coming out of their mouths.

  • @Sandiego2019

    @Sandiego2019

    8 ай бұрын

    I’m with you on this one. It’s funny how people look for you to respond a certain way to their fake act. I you don’t, they hurry to try to clean up what they’re saying or at least say it in another way. All you have to do is just observe and react in your own way (or not react at all), instead of the way society has tried to condition us.

  • @funkymunky
    @funkymunky10 ай бұрын

    People exist in a Potemkin village as walking, talking presentations managing desired impressions to control human investments. They are masks collaborating; they are not persons: they are processes. Life is not ONLY a performance. It is ALSO a performance.

  • @vanessavilchez2730
    @vanessavilchez273010 ай бұрын

    Also, I would love to hear you speak more on identifying people around you who secretly don’t like you. Let’s get into it.

  • @Bg-cr2vx
    @Bg-cr2vx10 ай бұрын

    This couldn’t have been spoken of any other way; your last few mins that you talked on are very important I think that’s why physically touching nurturing and talking to a newborn is critical we need a sense of belonging

  • @M0101EP
    @M0101EP10 ай бұрын

    Wheres the old videos

  • @thisisnotrobi
    @thisisnotrobi8 ай бұрын

    Matrix green. Nice. ❤

  • @toluene21
    @toluene2110 ай бұрын

    That'd be me (I feel so honored/humbled). Thank you, brother, FS (made my-life). Words on the screen help - I like how you highlighted the current-word, too. Having worked in LE - I can tell you first-hand - sometimes body-language is way more indicative than what the individual, or group, first-says; you can see body-language before you hear anything come out of their mouth(s). I like to identify a serpent before I even engage w/them, preferably saving me from even engaging w/them - ever; lost-time; although, you can learn a lot from engaging w/them - on how not to be as a human/better read them (future-encounters) in-advance. I've had some coworkers that were that way; and I had no-idea until the damage had been done. It'd also be interesting to hear you talk about the dangers of group-think; to me it's the most-dangerous thing facing our society; and, has been. Grow-ing 24/7/365. I'd been meaning to ask for this topic for a while; but, you went away for a bit > blessed you're back - then, I got so busy w/work. Exactly: It reqs be quiet and listening; some will never understand that > as all they know is having their voice heard (over others; bc they believe their always right). The abstract-form of acting as a proxy builds the pseudo-trust/rapport; individuals that can do seamlessly I avoid. Comfort in silence. We're just a byproduct of our environment(s). Seeing ppl for who they truly are is a gift. I hope we can one-day we all understand it (what we're doing here) - not just the conforming to generational-microcosms. As an empath, I can often feel more drained from feeling everyone's feelings/emotions; even when I don't want to. Change starts w/us. 'Part of something that doesn't make us feel a part of anything at all,' FS. > profoundly-said. Glad the battery lasted as long as it did/overheating. Thanks, for being a voice for us all; robust/bold, FS

  • @Roseroserose24468gkgj
    @Roseroserose24468gkgj10 ай бұрын

    Hi ,brother. I hope you are doing great. I just want to ask you if you can make a video about AI technology, chatgpt...because I trully love your videos and point of view and the fact that I am a medical student and the AI idea is kinda depressing me a lot post of peers are using it for their benefits but for me I am like can I trust this thing more than books! What about the future ....

  • @jacobshores28
    @jacobshores288 ай бұрын

    true wisdom

  • @jacobshores28

    @jacobshores28

    7 ай бұрын

    you must be a therapist

  • @Happy_Limpet
    @Happy_Limpet10 ай бұрын

    guard dogs , groundhogs , parrots , sunnypeaches and narcs are on the radar normally and im typically evasive .

  • @naletai
    @naletai10 ай бұрын

    🔥

  • @sloppychoppy
    @sloppychoppy10 ай бұрын

    White cat jumpscare

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    10 ай бұрын

    My deceased cat Sam.

  • @sloppychoppy
    @sloppychoppy10 ай бұрын

    Not gonna lie but sometimes, some things people say about themselves in tangent from a separate topic can be sometimes, true.

  • @JaYohanes
    @JaYohanes10 ай бұрын

    10:13 let it be

  • @AMiah-jz8uu
    @AMiah-jz8uu10 ай бұрын

    Why do u have bubbles on your upper lip

  • @meera1471
    @meera147110 ай бұрын

    Lol have you seen the Barbie movie?