Ratna Pathak Shah on Relationships, Sex, Girl Child & Patriarchy | The Male Feminist
Ratna Pathak Shah talks about her relationship with Naseeruddin Shah and how she used to bully Supriya Pathak during childhood. She shares how her upbringing defied societal norms, thanks to her progressive parents, who never discriminated between Supriya and her and encouraged both sisters to learn to drive. She recalls her grandmother's reaction to the birth of two granddaughters.
Ratna Pathak Shah with Siddharth Aalambayan for the 75th episode of 'The Male Feminist'
Location courtesy: Mitron Bandra
1:20 - Was Mumbai safe?
1:48 - Eve teasing incidents
2:12 - Delhi is unsafe for women
2:50 - Family being against girl child
3:15 - Influence of their mother
3:30 - Ratna Pathak’s father was a liberal man
4:00 - No gender discrimination at home
5:08 - Motivation from home
5:35 - Ratna Pathak’s father was unhappy with marriage
6:00 - Ratna Pathak’s mom being Naseeruddin’s Bestfriend
6:10 - In laws never asked to ‘Convert’
6:28 - Supportive in-laws
6:55 - Hacks for a successful marriage
7:35 - Naseeruddin coming from a traditional background
7:56 - Ratna Pathak on not having gender roles after marriage
8:08 - No labels in relationships
8:20 - Ratna Pathak and Naseeruddin Shah as parents
8:35 - Ratna Pathak on kids growing up backstage
9:18 - Being a mother of 2 boys
9:46 - Imparting period and sex education to boys
10:00 - Parsis are not cool about menstruation
10:20 - Getting sex education from books & gossip
11:10 - Didn’t want to know sons’ love life!
12:08 - Having Supriya Pathak as a sister
12:25 - Ratna being an emotional bully to Supriya
12:50 - Comparison between Ratna & Supriya on sets
14:00 - Breaking stereotypes
15:25 - Portrayal of women in films was very limited
16:30 - Sexualization of women in movies
17:05 - Lipstick Under My Burkha
18:35 - It’s not easy for men to stand up
19:15 - Kaamwali Bais are an inspiration
20:50 - Old fashioned ideas of men and women
21:25 - “Main Mard Hoon” dialogue in Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
22:50 - Pay disparity during Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
23:50 - Consenting adults having sex is not wrong
25:10 - Idea of a modern woman today
25:30 - Feminism
26:10 - Changes during menopause
27:54 - Red flags
28:42 - Green flags
29:00 - Message to your 16-year-old self
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She’s a delight to watch every time she’s on an interview! Wisdom, dignity and strong persona do come very rare these days and she’s one of them for sure.
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
She is full of grace and wisdom. We loved having her on our show!
@kalahasan2284
Ай бұрын
Totally agree.
Everyone loves her bindaas attitude towards life and people's ideology in our society BOLD with brains
Why label relationships..actually this is what spirituality teaches us, and believe me once we put it into our daily life being life's great! Thank you hautterfly for bringing her and the candid show is just amazing 😊
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
We are glad you loved the episode! You might want to check out our other interviews here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fZ9-mK-TYby7ntI.html
Always look forward to her interviews
Wonderful conversation...she's always a delight to listen to ...so uninhibited
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
Agreed!
Love listening to her! Everything she says is absolutely true. We need to see her in some good roles on the OTT platform.
👏 Thank for this interview
I so relate to her views about songs like " Aap ki nazron ne samjha pyar ke kaabil mujhe". God so damn regressive. Why should I be considered kaabil by some damn male?? Or " Sajna hai mujhe sajna ke liye“ or " Charnon mei jo na jagah paoon ". I hate these patriarchal songs. When will men learn?????
Maza aaya ye interview dekh ke . Bht kuch sikhne ko mila . Kafi interesting laga .
Amazing woman, amazing interview!!🎉🥳 Ratna Ji is in excellent epitome of the modern thinking woman!!👏🏻👏🏻 I totally can relate to her…👍🏻 Love from London ❤️
She always reminds me of and has a huge resemblance with my friend Divya. I absolutely love this lady.❤
Always love to watch her nd listen her❤❤boss lady❤
I love this lady ...oh ..god.. where has this breed of artists gone...
Was waiting to see Ratna Mam on the show. ♥️🤌🏻 Thanks Siddhaarth for bringing her. ✨🌻
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
We really had a wonderful time interviewing her. So much to learn from her!
@abhinavrana1116
Ай бұрын
@@hauterrfly IKR❤
Very nice episode
Why camera change so much it's distracting
Meanwhile Monisha , Mummuji wahan gae he they toh free ki coffee pi aate ! 😂
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
Meanwhile mummy ji, Don't be so middle-class Monisha! 😂
With consent sex is wrong when an lover misuse women for sex in the name of love
punjabi grandmother married gujju pathak so love marriage so why no to girls . i am from matriarchy nairs in kerala we celebrate girl child at least in oldtimes. now ig is changing.
@praagyaanandjha8691
2 ай бұрын
Not gujju pathak is Brahmin up bihar😊
@Yhibvdawxcvgnhjj
Ай бұрын
Maybe because the first married someone of totally different ideology sort of man and the second daughter married a second hand husband , already married with children. As she said her mother and her husband had a Rocky relationship. So, parents are usually tensed for their children. She is the same woman who criticized karwa chauth,the brainwash is evident.
I liked the interaction.💌
Always a pleasure listening to her❤❤
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
Agreed!
Wonderful conversation
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
We are glad you enjoyed it. What was your favourite part of the interview?
Is it only me or does the video feels really rushed? There are no pauses in the video to give a thought or feel anything.
Heeba is her step daughter right..The same girl who was found hitting veterinary doctors and helpers at a vet clinic for not attending her pet first just cause she's Naseer's daughter.
@MerlinaM-fs8mu
13 күн бұрын
No
Really important topic.
Always favourite ❤️❤️❤️❤️
She is so intelligent
Absolutely love her thoughts
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
Sameeee!
She is just too good. Point about Mills and Boon is so to the point
Why is the video soo short? Seems like it is edited to much
I love Ratna pathak as a person. ❤ Superb Siddharth Greta job 🎉
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
She is wonderful!
Ratnajee never fails.
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
True that!
I just luv ratna mam...so spontaneous n intelligent 😊
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
She is!
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
She is!
Wow it was worth watching ..superb loved it
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
We are glad you loved it. What was your favourite part of the interview?
I like love her views... Sadly I dont know any women like her..
So much of camera shifting. Really distracting.
@madhupncard
7 күн бұрын
Its irritating ..
I find her very animated when she speaks….reminds me of Frances mcdormand
no i couldnt help it. i was helplessly in love with and dreaming about something like mills & boons all my life, and I always will. genre: soft romance. it wasn't too raunchy and had just the right amount of everything. god, I always hated saas bahu soap opera. they were so toxic. i was dying for something fresh all my life during teens and I just hated my mom being glued to those dumb, shitty k soaps. all I remember is my good old Doordarshan programs. I'm glad someone finally said it. patronizing is a red flag.
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How the way she is keeping her leg on the table ?? Is this Nice mannerism Attiquites ?
@raulera5202
Күн бұрын
Yes it's absolutely fine since she isn't interviewing to get hired for a job. It's a very casual setting just like chatting and hanging out with a friend.
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Beautiful and intelligent, in and out ❤
Why she gives her opinion on serious stuff , why can’t she stays in her zone & do her stuff These pseudo intellectual overtly glorified with weird world view are nuisance
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Maya sarabhai 💅🏻
@hauterrfly
Ай бұрын
Forever favourite character! But we also loved as Imran Khan's mom in Jaane Tu ya Jaane Na😍
ekta kapoor should be banned those serisls ruined our lives we were not watching but there was nothing good coming because of them the movies of 199oscwere bad songs were cheap , old doordarshan seriels rajini , udaan etc were so envouraging but by thevtime we came to high school these regressive serials came up
@kavi1501
22 күн бұрын
So true .. Doordarshan serials were the best
So privileged 😂
@HenneCindie
Ай бұрын
Soo
I wish I understood Hindi. I like really her attitude. Fortunately some parts of interviews are English. 🤍
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