Julia's Daughter: A Touching Family Tale | Real Families

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Following on from 'JULIA'S BABY', we see how Julia has coped with the birth of her daughter, Ayla. After two years the pair have figured out their own way of communication, but that is just one of many difficulties for Julia to overcome.
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  • @laurajudd6785
    @laurajudd67852 жыл бұрын

    Julia Gates is now Mrs Julia Kimbell, mother of three, still living around Peterborough with John and their children. She hasn’t much of a presence online after 2004, however seems she’s been living a great life since the show - so good to hear!

  • @marybelvin452

    @marybelvin452

    2 жыл бұрын

    !

  • @marybelvin452

    @marybelvin452

    2 жыл бұрын

    M

  • @shiniestar32

    @shiniestar32

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is awesome to hear. I fell in love with her the way she talks so sassy lol. Wow. She has raised 3 children, that is great. She did it and proved everyone she could do it.

  • @NadineMiller1974

    @NadineMiller1974

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting the follow up. That is wonderful to hear. So that means her children are grown adults now. I had seen another program of a husband and wife, I believe the mum was Blind & Deaf but I think the das was blind living in the UK as well. Julia's story (life) is no where near how this family was/is. They were chain smokers and the eldest daughter was actually filling the role of mum & dad. It was an extremely sad situation to the point she wanted to end her life and she was barely a teen if that. The parents said they would just keep having kids and no one could say different. Difference is Julia was/ is determined to be the best for Ayla and she was!

  • @buglove515

    @buglove515

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing!! Love the update ❤ thank you

  • @heatherleonbruno3263
    @heatherleonbruno32632 жыл бұрын

    "Well then, don't ask stupid questions." 🤩 This woman is one quick, brave, and independent lady. Really an inspiration!

  • @kristycanning9255

    @kristycanning9255

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just commented this and saw your comment !! Right like haha 😂 she’s amazing and so strong and she’s witty af. I’d totally be this ladies BFF if she didn’t mind me for being witty and cheeky also

  • @kristahathaway9308

    @kristahathaway9308

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kristycanning9255 both of you are 100% right this lady is amazing she's beautiful strong independent woman and she proved them all wrong and shoved it in their face she's doing so good now I hear she has three children I am at 34 minutes and 49 seconds so I don't know what goes on after that but it looks like she gets married Maybe three children wow

  • @catherinethemba

    @catherinethemba

    Жыл бұрын

    You left out selfish. No kid would choose her as a mother. Zero eye contact and left crying for hours. Luckily for Ayla she got that dad.

  • @njsmkmmsthatsit3518

    @njsmkmmsthatsit3518

    Жыл бұрын

    @@catherinethemba There has never been a parent that was perfect. Not you not anyone else, so don't be so judgmental.

  • @tinktinkkks4209

    @tinktinkkks4209

    Жыл бұрын

    When she was telling the doctor ur hurting me, and then called him a bichh lmao or did she call the bby that 😭😂 I hear lil b

  • @cristinadinger5115
    @cristinadinger5115 Жыл бұрын

    I don’t believe Julia hates social services, she just wants the chance to do things on her own just like the rest of us. I think she is a very positive, hardworking, good mom!

  • @saram2446

    @saram2446

    Жыл бұрын

    yes but I also understand that the social workers have the need to look after them, because we cannot really know how it is to be deaf and blind and we do not have the other senses oversensitiv such as deaf and blind people do have it

  • @pamelarogers8897

    @pamelarogers8897

    Жыл бұрын

    Exact, and she needs to be grateful that so much help and assistance is available to her, graciously accept it, and drop the attitude. It's good for her to have determination but common sense needs to prevail.

  • @notaprettymom7620

    @notaprettymom7620

    Жыл бұрын

    I work in disability support and this situation wouldn't be the same nowadays. Julia's "attitude" is in my humble opinion completely reasonable and she is very articulate and patient. She's got super positive energy which is actually amazing given that she seems to have been alone in her struggles for so long and keeps being made to prove herself. Today, she would receive support on her terms. People who she interviews and trains would either be hired through an agency or by her without the middle man, and be paid through funding for disability support. Listening to the social worker and the staff in those early days try and figure out what the problem is is with the benefit of hindsight kind of silly. Julia knew all along how the support should have been and I'm just sorry she didn't get it at first because it's tough for anyone being a young mum and she had all of these extra troubles trying to get proper supports in place which took precious energy away from the beautiful and massive responsibility of caring for her sweet girl. But she did it!

  • @ph4780

    @ph4780

    8 ай бұрын

    @@notaprettymom7620 they tried to give her a seeing eye dog to help her be independent and she abused it so badly they took it away from her. She's just unable to regulate her emotions.

  • @ilikenapsandyou1060

    @ilikenapsandyou1060

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@ph4780 where did you find that information?

  • @angelaberni8873
    @angelaberni8873 Жыл бұрын

    To have such a friend as she has having to constantly do signs on her hand is truly a God sent. You are a gem of a friend.

  • @LyYAHN

    @LyYAHN

    3 ай бұрын

    And at that age as well! I have tremendous respect. Not for being a friend... Julia seems to be a great friend to have and you can count yourself lucky to be her friend. The respect I have for Lisa is much more directed towards the fact that she decided to go into that line of work. As I've previously mentioned - especially at that young age. It's amazing that she decided to learn this specific language. She is a hero for that!

  • @illailla5813

    @illailla5813

    3 ай бұрын

    I don’t think it’s just a friend doing a favor. I think she’s a paid by the state assistant.

  • @Jessicavargas-ig1zm

    @Jessicavargas-ig1zm

    23 сағат бұрын

    She is a paid assistant however, they built a friendship and a bond with one another, so their relationship went beyond a working relationship.

  • @justineharper3346
    @justineharper3346 Жыл бұрын

    Ayla is such a beautiful and intelligent child. I love how she leads her mom by the hand to show her stuff ❤

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo

    @MsPiinkFllamingo

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too it’s so cute.

  • @survivingitall5263
    @survivingitall52632 жыл бұрын

    Julia's best friend/helper is an amazing person. It's so great that Julia has help that she chooses and isnt just assigned people she doesnt trust

  • @DieAlteistwiederda
    @DieAlteistwiederda2 жыл бұрын

    For anyone wondering: This little girl turned out just fine and is now an adult. Only saw some pictures bur she also had one with both of her parents so I am sure I found the right person. Disabled parents can be wonderful or horrible parents just like any able bodied parent can be.

  • @zimzalabitch

    @zimzalabitch

    Жыл бұрын

    Where did you saw it?

  • @daynalynnxo

    @daynalynnxo

    Жыл бұрын

    Also curious

  • @melindathomas21

    @melindathomas21

    Жыл бұрын

    @@daynalynnxo me2

  • @bettymikhail5101
    @bettymikhail51012 жыл бұрын

    Does anyone remember HELEN KELLER AND HOW FAR SHE DID GO AND HOW MUCH SHE CONTRIBUTED TO THE WORLD OF THE DEAF AND BLIND? This woman is amazing!!!!!!

  • @kirstenornelas881

    @kirstenornelas881

    2 жыл бұрын

    Everyone remembers Hellen Keller and she deserves the admiration for being such a fighter but we often forget to give the admiration deserves to the teacher who didn’t give up on her and who developed the method of teaching those like her.

  • @amandapanda7878

    @amandapanda7878

    2 жыл бұрын

    helen keller never had a baby

  • @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530

    @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amandapanda7878 so this makes Julia Truly an Amazing ❤ felt momma n determination of more that some without disabilities ✔💯❗... I'm Amazed by her story n her witty personality n determination jus as others are 🗯😍❗...

  • @kirstenornelas881

    @kirstenornelas881

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amandapanda7878 the reason she is being referenced is the way that Julia communicated and the woman communicated with her with the hand movements was created by a teacher who met decided Helen Keller was not brain damaged like everyone thought. She simply didn’t have a way to see or hear so she found a way to reach her and teach her how to communicate. That’s the method of communication this woman is using here and people are referencing that without the teacher and Helen Keller both being strong and stubborn and not giving up people like Julia would never have had a way to communicate with or understand the world around them. They were prior to that placed in homes and left in the silence and darkness and barely cared for. So nobody was mentioning her over the part of being a mom or not but without her and her teacher, people like Julia could have never been mothers. She wouldn’t have been given a chance and wouldn’t have made it to adulthood without the method of communication she was using having been invented. If she had made it to puberty they would have sterilized her or had someone like her gotten pregnant they would have forced abortion on her or just taken the baby away without her ever knowing what was going on. Without a way to understand what was happening to her because there wouldn’t have been a way for her to be told or understand what was happening.

  • @tyffaneelavely8087

    @tyffaneelavely8087

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah but it was even worse for Helen Keller bcuz sshe was born that way. Julia went deaf at 20 YO and blind at 4. So she was already taught the world thru her ears. Which makes it much easier to learn the hand sign language. Not saying it's easy by any means. She is a true inspiration. I'm just saying the fact that that woman was able to teach Helen Keller anything is a miracle in itself.

  • @freespeech4ALL1966
    @freespeech4ALL1966 Жыл бұрын

    I empathize with the social workers and caretakers...you are angels! Gratitude is not always given when it should. In this field, if your paycheck is all the gratitude you'll ever receive...DO IT ANYWAY! God sees your heart even if no one else does!

  • @extracelestial1027
    @extracelestial10272 жыл бұрын

    wow 20 years later and they’re still together :) love that. every relationship has bumped in the road

  • @kristahathaway9308

    @kristahathaway9308

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm trying to look for all the information all you guys on here are telling me you found the information on the internet but I can't find it anywhere can you give me the link

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    Жыл бұрын

    She's lucky her partner has good values. She's lucky.

  • @andrecancol

    @andrecancol

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kristahathaway9308 exactly I cannot find any information about this at all

  • @justmejo9008
    @justmejo9008 Жыл бұрын

    I think losing John for a time was probably a real eye-opener for Julia. Not appreciating people was part of her problems

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo

    @MsPiinkFllamingo

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too. It was an eye opener.

  • @TJHutchExotics

    @TJHutchExotics

    Жыл бұрын

    I think she loved and appreciated him but had a wall built around herself preventing her from displaying amd saying it - but I think she did need her eyes opened

  • @hellaSwankkyToo

    @hellaSwankkyToo

    Жыл бұрын

    ableism + the tough exterior she had to built to protect herself from it + all the ableism social services agents was her problem. Julia was clearly capable from the beginning + had to fight doubters + prove herself twice over every step of the way. she needed help but she should’ve been able to direct + determine what that help was + how it was received. she should’ve been treated + respected + listened to as if she knew her own life + her own needs better than anyone else ever could. it wasn’t until they figured that out that things got smoother. thank god we do things better now. even though the ableism is still just as bad + ever present. especially in the minds of abled spectators who think they know better than the disabled person when it comes to identifying their “problems” + what they need. 🙄

  • @hellaSwankkyToo

    @hellaSwankkyToo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TJHutchExotics completely agree.

  • @justmejo9008

    @justmejo9008

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hellaSwankkyToo they gave her the kind of help she requested 🙄 ugh! Go safe a woman who needs your help.. this lady was amply accommodated

  • @vickiezaccardo1711
    @vickiezaccardo1711 Жыл бұрын

    What a heart- warming update. What a wonderful mom! In comments it was said that Julia went on to marry and have 2 more children. Would be nice to see a doc on that. I'm so glad all worked- out for her

  • @theresajohnson1959

    @theresajohnson1959

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here🤗

  • @teijaflink2226

    @teijaflink2226

    8 ай бұрын

    All the kids should be adults now, would be so fun to see how they all are doing now and if she has grandchildren.

  • @royalejordan-hunt8358
    @royalejordan-hunt83582 жыл бұрын

    Julia was ALWAYS determined to take care of baby ! Even with here multiple disabilities, she never backdown. Because she knew if she gave social services a step they would have taken a mile and her baby away from her. This story is truly inspiring.

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

    Жыл бұрын

    Why would they take the baby away from her? She has rights as a mother.

  • @hellaSwankkyToo

    @hellaSwankkyToo

    Жыл бұрын

    yup!

  • @kristycanning9255
    @kristycanning92552 жыл бұрын

    Omg I love this lady “don’t ask stupid questions then” 😂

  • @babsywoman4212
    @babsywoman4212 Жыл бұрын

    It is amazing the way Ayla adapts and feels instinctively she has to communicate with her mom in a different way as with others.

  • @BlindBombshell
    @BlindBombshell Жыл бұрын

    As a blind mother of three in the United States, I understand why Julia was apprehensive and abrasive with social services. They just assumed because she was a person with a disability that she had to have around the clock help. She’s a beautiful, wonderful mother and I hope for, the best for her and her family.

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo

    @MsPiinkFllamingo

    Жыл бұрын

    Props to you! ❤

  • @hellaSwankkyToo

    @hellaSwankkyToo

    Жыл бұрын

    exaaaaaactly. this is what nobody else in the comments seems to get or understand. this exactly! + i’m sure i know why that is.

  • @OhioTreasures

    @OhioTreasures

    Жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't want these ppl in my business at all

  • @kimdenny3294

    @kimdenny3294

    8 ай бұрын

    It's obvious she cannot look after a baby by herself......

  • @magdalenaos8215

    @magdalenaos8215

    7 ай бұрын

    She is not only blind but also deaf. Maybe not her, but her baby will need help of someone else all the time.

  • @carolynlong9148
    @carolynlong91482 жыл бұрын

    I think Juliea is doing fantastic. I work with people with disabilites and I support independence all the way. Two 👍👍for this video.

  • @kellym9756
    @kellym9756 Жыл бұрын

    Wow. What a remarkable woman. This is so touching. I am neither deaf nor blind and I struggle with 2 children. I hope she is made aware of these comments and realises how much admiration she has received. This has made a real impact on me. Thank you so much for sharing. Blessings to you Julia and family.

  • @marielcastillo6025
    @marielcastillo60252 жыл бұрын

    Julia has been better mother than so many who can hear and see but prefare to ignore their children....full marks to her. It would be so nice to have an update about her and her family.

  • @dorisfrech7368
    @dorisfrech7368 Жыл бұрын

    This lady is very complicated to get along with. Too stubborn. I admire all helpers and social workers for their enorm patience.

  • @andreabennington

    @andreabennington

    Жыл бұрын

    Me, too, LOL. She reminds me of some old people at the assisted living home where my Mother lives. Rude and argumentative and think they can get away with it because they are old.

  • @jeanneprieto5219
    @jeanneprieto5219 Жыл бұрын

    Julia is truly remarkable. Having a baby is challenging for anyone. Most moms need help and I think she recognizes it, but she was being scrutinized with the expectation of failure. Good for her proving everyone wrong. The way I see it, she needs help mostly having people visit and talk to her so her baby learns how to communicate on a hearing world.

  • @Sarah-xj9il
    @Sarah-xj9il2 жыл бұрын

    so cool how so young she helps her mother by touching. plus so smart

  • @SaMaNtHa.2023
    @SaMaNtHa.2023 Жыл бұрын

    I love and how she explained that there is mums out there that are just got a baby but don't love it. And there is people out there that have a baby and love it so much that they are more protected than just a mother. I would be proud to have you as my daughter. I had my daughter and she was born with a cataract and she is completely blind and deaf in her left ear as well as blind in the left eye due to the cataract. And my family history and genetics wearly in life as I've got glucoma and I'm only 35. This is giving me hope that my daughter could chief of everything being a mum and I am so proud. Thank you so much for sharing your lovely story.

  • @kathyhardee2398
    @kathyhardee2398 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud for Julia, I noticed she smiles most of the time. I feel Julia is making a great parent and is doing great with her well behaved baby.

  • @gillianbrookwell1678
    @gillianbrookwell16782 жыл бұрын

    Julia's carer is a very patient and wonderful help to her; I think she should accept all the assistance she is offered.

  • @tiffanypenaguzman749

    @tiffanypenaguzman749

    2 жыл бұрын

    She doesn’t have to, if she doesn’t want help it should not be forced.

  • @sistatiph2308

    @sistatiph2308

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@tiffanypenaguzman749right when it comes to HER. but unfortunately when you have a child, even NOT deaf and blind you need help. How will she know if her child has a bruise or a bump or a rash... What if a stranger walked in...Ayla needs someone to show her the things Julia can not . you didn't see the real version of this. At one point the baby was in the cot all day. 😢

  • @feliciasamples3311

    @feliciasamples3311

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@sistatiph2308and how did you find that out?

  • @twingytwango6971
    @twingytwango69712 жыл бұрын

    Talking to her via signing in her hand is amazing!!!

  • @katekburns3495
    @katekburns34952 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t like the way she smacked her hands when she was feeding her. The baby is so well behaved and feeds herself

  • @dlminor

    @dlminor

    2 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t like that either. I’m glad I’m not the only one that noticed that. Anyone know when this was actually filmed and how they are doing now?

  • @petitehippie7064

    @petitehippie7064

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you. She wasn't even doing anything. Not that there is ever an excuse. But, how often does she get smacked if Julia feels she is misbehaving? Absolutely dreadful.

  • @Garfieldisswag

    @Garfieldisswag

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right and how often is she smacked off camera ? You can tell she has a bad temper

  • @petitehippie7064

    @petitehippie7064

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Garfieldisswag You're absolutely right. I completely agree with you.

  • @pdjtw

    @pdjtw

    2 жыл бұрын

    First reaction shocked but I think there's a specific reason for it that we wouldn't know - something like she's trying to train her child to leave her hands down so that she (mom) can feel her hands to communicate with her like before each spoonful (a kind of behavioural training for special communication, a way to adapt to her disabilities so that she can properly communicate to her child). And if you think about it, smacking her hands is what sighted parents do to their kids at times too to get a message across.

  • @lindasanderlin4444
    @lindasanderlin44442 жыл бұрын

    So happy for her! What a delightful little girl. She was a beautiful baby and is a beautiful child. They are a lovely family. May God bless and protect them.

  • @brera2434
    @brera24342 жыл бұрын

    The main thing would be to find a solution so she can detect when the baby is crying when it is not next to her...nowadays it would probably be a vibrating babyphone (instead of one with a microphone or a light notification)

  • @Lynnette04
    @Lynnette04 Жыл бұрын

    She’s so amazing! Her child is beautiful abs I’m so happy she has John now❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼

  • @tammyjuice
    @tammyjuice2 жыл бұрын

    Julia is rude and defensive but it can be understandable why. Happy she can defend herself instead of agreeing with what she’s not comfortable with

  • @emilytelfer7542

    @emilytelfer7542

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think if she hadn't been so defensive and head strong they would have taken her baby at birth. She did what she had to.

  • @mayhemmiracles700

    @mayhemmiracles700

    2 жыл бұрын

    she should of been on birth control but workers and authorties cant enforce it.

  • @girlwithnoname77

    @girlwithnoname77

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mayhemmiracles700 what a horrible thing to say!

  • @kristahathaway9308

    @kristahathaway9308

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mayhemmiracles700 you're horrible person everybody deserves a chance telling somebody should have been on birth control that's f***** up she obviously has her s*** together and put it together and can take care of her child you should be ashamed of yourself open your heart a little bit more there are mothers that do not take care of their children what people do bad things to them and do bad things to them and this mother is a wonderful woman and mother wonderful mother and she's amazing shame on you

  • @mariaparker7545
    @mariaparker75452 жыл бұрын

    Totally in awe of this lovely lady... what a fantastic mother she is... so happy for them...

  • @messybunmurderconnoisseur8603
    @messybunmurderconnoisseur86032 жыл бұрын

    We need more ! Thanks for this update

  • @anytopicgoes4119
    @anytopicgoes4119 Жыл бұрын

    I felt the feeling of abandonment that Ayla seemed to feel. That light in her eyes were gone when John left. And she looked unkept. But as soon as he came back, those eyes lit back up with assurance. I’m happy John realized that he had to be there for Ayla. And Julia, has become more calmer with him.

  • @hellaSwankkyToo

    @hellaSwankkyToo

    Жыл бұрын

    seriously? 😂 please stop projecting onto a whole 8month old baby. wild! 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @jenniferbaggett5775

    @jenniferbaggett5775

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@hellaswankky510 not that it matters but she was well over a year old at the time of projecting 😅

  • @pamelastates5600
    @pamelastates56002 жыл бұрын

    Aww she is a smart little girl. Beautiful family. Wishing them all the best . God bless them. ❤️🙏🏽🇨🇦

  • @rosannacellini2158
    @rosannacellini2158 Жыл бұрын

    Aww, The baby is so beautiful and healthy! So happy for Julia, and it's great that she had help to live and thrive as a mother. A mother's instincts are very strong. Happy to hear she got married and had two more kids.

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo
    @MsPiinkFllamingo Жыл бұрын

    What an amazing mother. Such an inspiration.

  • @brownskin477
    @brownskin4772 жыл бұрын

    This story was so real, it’s taught me how blessed I am. Through her strength!❤️🙏

  • @Therealmegalollie
    @Therealmegalollie Жыл бұрын

    I hope so badly that they are all doing well!! I stumbled upon their story this morning and just adore the kindness in Julia and Isla is precious. Sending so much love, wherever they are!

  • @moniquevanleeuwen6514
    @moniquevanleeuwen6514 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so so happy to see she’s doing so good!! Live your best life Julia, you deserve it as much as anybody and more!! 💕🙏🏻💕

  • @KinkyKatie
    @KinkyKatie Жыл бұрын

    Thirty-nine-year-old Julia Kimbell is explaining how she lost her sight quite gradually from the age of two. And how her hearing, which had been slowly deteriorating, disappeared suddenly around the age of 20. She was educated at a boarding school for the blind (“There was no other choice then but to send us away,” she explains), where she gained five O-levels. She learned Braille at school and, for a time, used a radio hearing aid tuned in to the teacher’s microphone. The children are fascinated to hear details of Julia’s life - she is married with three children, loves animals and has a Border collie and eight pet rabbits. But it has its frustrations: she cannot simply put on her coat and get out of the house, particularly after a row with her husband. She would love to be able to take her daughter for a walk on their own.

  • @vidhoard

    @vidhoard

    Жыл бұрын

    Where did you find this info?

  • @sonjam314
    @sonjam3142 жыл бұрын

    It seems to me she wants John around because it makes her entire life easier. Even by the end she couldn’t just say I love him. It’s I need him. I hope over there tears she was able to truly love him not just as someone who helps take care of her and the children. I hope she shows and tells him how much she loves him and vise versa.

  • @mistiashmall6175

    @mistiashmall6175

    Жыл бұрын

    She did say she loves him and that she and Ayla and the new baby need him.

  • @hellaSwankkyToo

    @hellaSwankkyToo

    Жыл бұрын

    she communicated to the audience that she loved him in other words. also, “i need” doesn’t just have to mean need physically. people say that all the time + mean they need their partner or loved one emotionally. to me it’s pretty clear she loved him (which doesn’t negate or diminish John’s very valid need to hear that more directly, especially if that’s more in line w| his love language). it’s also clear she hates being seen as vulnerable more than anything else. i mean, this entire documentary is about her resenting her own vulnerability!

  • @patriciakelly69
    @patriciakelly692 жыл бұрын

    This was so sad. I read the comment down below. I’m so glad she found happiness. Can’t believe he walked out.

  • @Leahla333
    @Leahla3332 жыл бұрын

    I was looking all Over KZread and the web in hopes of finding this. I had heard mention from a viewer of the last documentary about Julia. So excited to watch!

  • @kristahathaway9308

    @kristahathaway9308

    2 жыл бұрын

    So just to let you know I heard she got married to John she had this son that she's pregnant within this show and then one more kid

  • @Rosa-kf6yy
    @Rosa-kf6yy Жыл бұрын

    Julia needs to thank her lucky stars for social services. It's WHY she can live on her own. $$$ Ayla is doing great because Julia HAS had the help of social services, people to help her, make her dinners, clean her house, help hold, talk to , make visual contact and respond to Ayla. Show some gratitude.

  • @elizawybieraa7357

    @elizawybieraa7357

    Жыл бұрын

    True that, I use to work in Uk with disable people and some of them were so entitled... not that I expected some gratitud but at least be nice to me. But some of them were lovely people that I still miss

  • @87clits

    @87clits

    Жыл бұрын

    That's exactly what social services is designed for. Think of all the incompetent ablebodied people out there who need help with their children. It takes a village. This is what that Village is there for.

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo

    @MsPiinkFllamingo

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah well without her strong push for independence and proving everyone else wrong-she definitely wouldn’t have a right to her own child. She’s amazing and the one person I can think who is entitled to help as an amazing human being who holds her own to the very highest level she can given the cards she was dealt.

  • @amiel.vinson9444

    @amiel.vinson9444

    Жыл бұрын

    She didn’t ask for this and Isabel amazing woman. No one wants to live with strangers and she does awesomely

  • @brendahutcherson42

    @brendahutcherson42

    Жыл бұрын

    How about giving Julia some credit! She wanted to keep her Baby ,being Blind,deaf. My Mom had 12 and kept 5! Julia’s a Great Mom!

  • @lyneemathison2402
    @lyneemathison2402 Жыл бұрын

    Loved watching this! Julia has a strong personality but she is truly amazing and so is Ayla and John…3 amazing souls…wow! 🙏💪💖

  • @LadydogC
    @LadydogC Жыл бұрын

    Julia, you are a better mom and person than I ever was. ❤

  • @AD-pt5iy
    @AD-pt5iy2 ай бұрын

    As a mom that has had two C-sections, one that was not emergent after 20 hours of labor and my last being emergent when his placenta started detaching while I was in labor I absolutely cannot not fathom the trauma of going through what she did while being deaf and blind. Her friends crying because there just wasn’t anything they could do to help her in that moment and they probably felt so awful for her was so real.

  • @jessedavis8499
    @jessedavis8499 Жыл бұрын

    I knew she would just be an amazing mama! So proud of you Julia!

  • @tinktinkkks4209

    @tinktinkkks4209

    Жыл бұрын

    All she did was leave the bby crying and was selfish of every person who came in her home to only try to help.

  • @Zu-Noma
    @Zu-Noma Жыл бұрын

    Oh my word this is one impressive woman. Wow! I'd not have imagined that someone who is both deaf and blind would cope with a child almost alone. Pretty headstrong too. That her child senses her mother's challenges is fascinating to me. Impressive!

  • @yourpetyourway
    @yourpetyourway Жыл бұрын

    What an incredible and determined woman!

  • @kristiwetsel5473
    @kristiwetsel54732 жыл бұрын

    She would be so proud to hear her ❤

  • @QueerCripple
    @QueerCripple2 жыл бұрын

    Lovely carer, she knows that Julia will resent her a bit. Yeah, it happens. My partner and I are both disabled and we can lash out at each other here and there. We don't mean to, we don't want to, life is just stressful.

  • @lvnprntlc

    @lvnprntlc

    2 жыл бұрын

    But you are partners. A caregiver is first and foremost an employee and should never be abused in any way, shape or form.

  • @QueerCripple

    @QueerCripple

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lvnprntlc my partner and I don't have the money for full-time caregivers

  • @QueerCripple

    @QueerCripple

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lvnprntlc also, we both have sleep issues and so when dealing with sleep deprivation, it is a bit impossible to control your emotions. We don't snap at each other constantly, but we also are forgiving when we become cranky. We also talk through any issues we have 😊

  • @rabahnasheet5243

    @rabahnasheet5243

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@QueerCripple if you need any Help sort in anything let me know if I can.

  • @suesally2103
    @suesally21032 жыл бұрын

    The baby so beautiful !

  • @QueerCripple
    @QueerCripple2 жыл бұрын

    "How is a woman who is deaf-blind going to know of all the dangers in the house?" Um. She navigates by feel. She has to keep her home a safe environment for herself. I am pretty sure a deaf-blind person's home is inherently going to be safer than the home of someone sighted and hearing that can shuffle around obstacles easily 😅

  • @secretdoll92831

    @secretdoll92831

    2 жыл бұрын

    so true. They arrange things much safer to decrease the chances of injury /harm

  • @QueerCripple

    @QueerCripple

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@secretdoll92831 yep, and I noticed later on that as dangers were becoming present, she was very aware of them and trying to figure out what to do.

  • @catherinethemba
    @catherinethemba Жыл бұрын

    She is only coping because of her husband. Watched a few documentaries about her, Ayla was left crying for hours waaaay too many times that's why she attached so easily to others when small.

  • @antoniajane5442
    @antoniajane54422 жыл бұрын

    As of 2004 Julia is married and with 3 children. Maybe someone can find a more recent update.

  • @bettydamnboop3030

    @bettydamnboop3030

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bless you Antonia I was praying that everything worked out for them. Such a beautiful journey that they are on🌹

  • @pacemarshall9358

    @pacemarshall9358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Antonia! Where did you learn this? I've been trying to find a follow up but can't.

  • @kyla6538

    @kyla6538

    2 жыл бұрын

    Where can I find this update?

  • @antoniajane5442

    @antoniajane5442

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kyla6538 I just Googled her name.

  • @yikesokayy7606

    @yikesokayy7606

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@antoniajane5442 what name did you look up

  • @kyliewaiomio6816
    @kyliewaiomio68162 жыл бұрын

    that kid is a special made to order for her mum bubba what a delightful child.. and much respect to her mum and her mums caseworker and her partner ...amazing guys applaud you xx

  • @twingytwango6971
    @twingytwango69712 жыл бұрын

    Damn, I wasn’t deaf or blind and I had angst as to whether I could keep my children safe. These social workers are presumptuous.

  • @justsandra71
    @justsandra712 жыл бұрын

    Oww, it's 3am here. I have to wait til tomorrow. Julia is amazing.

  • @chriskilgour5576
    @chriskilgour5576 Жыл бұрын

    Her speaking is so good because she didn’t lose her hearing completely until she was 20. So up until then she heard so she learned how to speak well like any of us.

  • @tanyabrown9839

    @tanyabrown9839

    Жыл бұрын

    ah thanks for that, I was wondering how she came to speak so well

  • @DuFreZa

    @DuFreZa

    Ай бұрын

    Nope. I met quite a few deaf people, they were all completely deaf since they were born. I didn't realize they were deaf until they casually mentioned it about a year later (they thought I already knew, so the topic never came). So no, they don't need 20 years of hearing to learn how to speak. They only need decent teachers and by the age of 3 they'll have completely full conversations like any kid their age. Oh, by the way, they also had a couple of deaf and blind friends since born and they'd also speak perfectly fine.

  • @bettymikhail5101
    @bettymikhail51012 жыл бұрын

    Her situation is that she has to be an over achiever from the moment she wakes up THANKGOD FOR HER STUBBORNESS

  • @pamelarogers8897
    @pamelarogers8897 Жыл бұрын

    She needs to be grateful that so much help and assistance is available to her, graciously accept it, and drop the attitude. It's good for her to have determination but common sense needs to prevail.

  • @shamasseylivingwithblindne6110
    @shamasseylivingwithblindne6110 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been blind since birth, and this was very interesting for me to listen to. I do have a few deaf-blind friends. I can relate to her attitude with people trying to help me and my husband out so I try to let them know in a nicer way when I first meet them. 18:01 18:06 6 am. 18:58 19:37

  • @viyannalangager4039
    @viyannalangager40392 жыл бұрын

    She is such an inspirational woman!

  • @5trace
    @5trace2 жыл бұрын

    She's amazing !

  • @alisonalibongo3177
    @alisonalibongo3177 Жыл бұрын

    i work with severely disabled children. Bringing up a baby who is deaf & blind. wow Don’t know how to feel about this. She will always need help. But i have deep respect ❤ being blind & deaf what an courageous women. Not being able to hear or see your child….

  • @lisathompson6722
    @lisathompson6722Ай бұрын

    Julia has been an inspiration in my life,, I love her and her family... I wish she had more videos,,I would love to follow,,,thank u Julia ...

  • @rebeccaxx
    @rebeccaxx Жыл бұрын

    wow the way she communicated with Lisa with the hand tapping was cool

  • @kristiwetsel5473
    @kristiwetsel54732 жыл бұрын

    I can't imagine the bond they feel without her hearing and seeing , the bond must be 100 times more, it makes me feel like I can be a 100 times better of a mother

  • @samanthajackson9236
    @samanthajackson9236 Жыл бұрын

    She's is wonderful, many hearing and sighted parents do not put in that much willpower and effort into their children. I would be proud if my mother had advocated for my rights the way Julia advocated for Baby Ayla.

  • @AotearoaAnge
    @AotearoaAnge Жыл бұрын

    She's a very intelligent woman, of course she knew he would want her to say she loved him. She was throwing up brick walls to protect herself because of being burned by the married man, Ayla's birth father.

  • @kristiwetsel5473
    @kristiwetsel54732 жыл бұрын

    Amazing how the baby knows ..

  • @sarahmcleod777
    @sarahmcleod7772 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love you beautiful young mother, you are extraordinary and amazing 😍

  • @buggiebuild1
    @buggiebuild1 Жыл бұрын

    Bless them forever & a million days,🙏🏻💕, not only a beautiful ending, a truly inspiring one as well, I’m so glad she did this doc👍🏻👍🏻😇 and thank you so much for the upload✌🏻💕 we can learn a thing or 10 from this beautiful couple🥰

  • @lauraantic1384
    @lauraantic13842 жыл бұрын

    This baby is real beauty🥰

  • @raquelclass9647
    @raquelclass9647 Жыл бұрын

    I would like a follow up and see Julia and her Daughter today. This should have been followed and it would have been the MOST amazing documentary.

  • @elizabethmcaloon2402
    @elizabethmcaloon2402 Жыл бұрын

    I am very happy for both. Congratulations

  • @terrinew9474
    @terrinew94742 жыл бұрын

    I hope they are still together. Ayla is beautiful!!

  • @kristahathaway9308

    @kristahathaway9308

    2 жыл бұрын

    People in the comment section section say they are and they got married and now she has three children

  • @cylversprings
    @cylversprings2 жыл бұрын

    I needed to see this. My heart broke for her when John left with her pregnant again.

  • @bettymikhail5101

    @bettymikhail5101

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is that the last news?

  • @carrieanncancino5118

    @carrieanncancino5118

    2 жыл бұрын

    She is married to John with 3 children now

  • @adraper46923

    @adraper46923

    Жыл бұрын

    He was a married man. He had a different family with other kids. He cheated on his wife with her.

  • @justineharper3346

    @justineharper3346

    Жыл бұрын

    @@adraper46923Ayla’s father was. Not John

  • @lilblacklamb222
    @lilblacklamb2222 жыл бұрын

    What strong women!

  • @alicechamberlain6411
    @alicechamberlain6411 Жыл бұрын

    I’m thrilled for Julia she certainly deserves it !!!!!!

  • @AzizanYunus
    @AzizanYunus Жыл бұрын

    Lisa you are such a good friend to Julia and not to mention how good you are with The baby ❤

  • @twingytwango6971
    @twingytwango69712 жыл бұрын

    My only concern is that she doesn’t hear the baby crying.

  • @tanyabrown9839

    @tanyabrown9839

    Жыл бұрын

    I cant figure out why they couldn't have trained the dog or a dog to alert her when the baby (or later child) is crying.

  • @ddsmiles6382
    @ddsmiles6382 Жыл бұрын

    How traumatic! I admire that she has gone on to have a happy family a husband and more children. I doubt after that I would even think of it. She’s an incredibly strong mom and women and wife.

  • @Doplev
    @Doplev2 жыл бұрын

    How can she be sitting on the couch, petting her dog, while the baby is crying her eyes out? And claiming she dont need help? That's like, i dont hear het crying, i dont hear her crying, so she isnt crying?

  • @Foxys1974

    @Foxys1974

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! She doesn’t have to see or hear any pain from the child so she’s not in tune to it at all… I think she’s very entitled and selfish. She smacked that poor child harshly for nothing.

  • @mayhemmiracles700

    @mayhemmiracles700

    2 жыл бұрын

    exactly what I said...

  • @mayhemmiracles700

    @mayhemmiracles700

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly,,poor baby.

  • @Lacirose88
    @Lacirose882 жыл бұрын

    @21:47Well don't ask stupid questions! i totally agree Julia! what an amazing strong Woman!!! Tell her julia!

  • @beam3819
    @beam3819 Жыл бұрын

    I am so glad for the happy ending. Her friend, the social worker and husband seems to be sent from God to bless Julia. Beautiful family.

  • @lynnleigha580
    @lynnleigha580 Жыл бұрын

    Awe, he's absolutely smitten with her

  • @AzizanYunus
    @AzizanYunus Жыл бұрын

    Social services were worried for the baby and Julia failed to understand that. She doesn’t need to be rude to Sandra as she was leaving. She will understand later in life I hope. I wounded why her mom doesn’t want to help her. John walked on her and will leave her again. She makes it difficult for her self and other and mostly her baby. Pray for her🙏

  • @gingerleamcwow435

    @gingerleamcwow435

    Жыл бұрын

    Guess you havent seen the updates, lol? She's been married to this man for over 20 years now and has 2 more children with him.

  • @PetuniaPicklebutt
    @PetuniaPicklebutt Жыл бұрын

    Ohhhh I am so happy to see she found John! I heard she had 2 boys with John. Ayla should be in her 30s now. Has anyone heard anything about her? She has the most gorgeous eyes!

  • @AellaWW

    @AellaWW

    Жыл бұрын

    I saw their 3 facebooks, they Seams doing great aside older brother - his page is odd. Maybe someone can interview them to hear her story

  • @kooolkidninjamaster

    @kooolkidninjamaster

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@AellaWWwhat's their Facebook

  • @lindasanderlin4444
    @lindasanderlin44442 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness!! I wrote that comment only to see he left her. That’s terrible. Shame on him. If he needed her to say I love you, then he should have asked for what he needed. What an immature man! Shame on him for up and leaving her Aylah and his baby. I’m so disappointed in him. Grow up, you made the choice to create a baby so work it out.

  • @sophiaoscar2281
    @sophiaoscar22812 жыл бұрын

    so incredible this woman I hope Ayla and the new baby are all of them ok :)

  • @shirleyhayes9901

    @shirleyhayes9901

    2 жыл бұрын

    She is an amazing woman , just need that special trust from her caretaker! 🙏🏾❤️🌹😊🌈

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo
    @MsPiinkFllamingo Жыл бұрын

    This child is a brilliant communicator as a result. I bet she’s grown up to be an amazing girl.

  • @shonatyson5934
    @shonatyson59347 ай бұрын

    JULIA YOU ARE AMAZING DONT LET PEOPLE BULLY YOU

  • @barbarae-b507
    @barbarae-b507 Жыл бұрын

    How can you have someone move in with you and get pregnant again but never say you love him.

  • @rlpittard
    @rlpittard Жыл бұрын

    What an amazing mother, her disabilities made her stronger and more determined to succeed!

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 Жыл бұрын

    ...and congratulations to you and John!

  • @babsywoman4212
    @babsywoman4212 Жыл бұрын

    Such a cute baby!

  • @jessimessi80
    @jessimessi808 ай бұрын

    Such a sweet beautiful little girl ❤

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