James, you outshine all the other reactors put together. You are a lovely human being. ❤️

@triciamesser6782

4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@saflynn14

4 жыл бұрын

Irene Downie ...if I could hit thumbs up a million times I would! Love love love James!!

@irenedownie6559

4 жыл бұрын

saflynn14 - Me, too. He’s a darling.

@robertlongwill8856

4 жыл бұрын

Irene Downie I will second that. James is such a great reactor and seems like a great man keep up the good work James

@Ben-rj7xs

4 жыл бұрын

He is what we need more of in this world..

I am Black American this song got me through my teen years. Everyone loved this song. It didn't matter if your white, black, yellow, orange, purple or black. MUSIC IS UNIVERSAL!!!!!

@theniceone06

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@megmeg9461

4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@mrs.martin3158

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@rosemarysinder2151

4 жыл бұрын

So true .

@legaltidbits

4 жыл бұрын

So true just certain music that resonates with all races and ages.

When a man cries it doesn't mean he is weak,it just means he has been strong for to long.-Johnny Depp

@valeskaweich5886

3 жыл бұрын

this!

@nicholaswatson999

3 жыл бұрын

There's a biological reason around men why don't cry so much the male tear duct is recessed 200% further into the eye socket then the woman so it takes twice as much emotional weight to cause the tear.

@valeskaweich5886

3 жыл бұрын

what a beautiful and kind quote!

@tomvodicka2307

2 жыл бұрын

You are the Shit..Depp..respect personified

@lilian_1977

2 жыл бұрын

Everybody feels.

I'm 65 years old, and that amazing song came from my generation. There was a time when people actually cared about one another. Can we make that happen again?

@silviosweeper1006

3 жыл бұрын

We will

@jacquelinebell5584

3 жыл бұрын

We do x the good ones of us, we do ❤️🙏❤️ jb x

@stalinjoesph700

3 жыл бұрын

People still do care. Wanna be fair it’s your generation that sold out. You baby boomers are responsible for the path this country took

@Lappen598

3 жыл бұрын

I hope so right now everything is fucked uo

@TheresaGraf

3 жыл бұрын

@@stalinjoesph700 Not all of us baby boomers are responsible for the mess this country is in. Many of us fought for, protested against, and stood up to the federal government. It's not us you need to be blaming. It's our corrupt government that seeks at every path to divide us. If we ever come together we will be a force to be feared and the government will learn its place: servants to the citizens, not their masters.

Everybody Hurts is one of the truly great songs in history.

@Enjoyinglife82420

3 жыл бұрын

Facts !! ❤️

@ynos_

Жыл бұрын

World groub

"Show me a man that never cries and I'll show you a psychopath" - Gen. Norman Schwarzkopf- Great song.

@debbiec4516

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome quote!!

@pamelajordan5948

3 жыл бұрын

Right on

@Ocalif3

3 жыл бұрын

Love the quote.. thx 😊

@SeliahK

3 жыл бұрын

On point.

@therunawaykid6523

3 жыл бұрын

If I’m gonna cry I’m gonna cry I won’t hide it, I’m not afraid in showing my feelings

I am hurting now. A man I loved just died. He took me in when I was homeless at 19. He introduced me to REM. Desmond Robinson was a great man. I loved him dearly.

@donnadimuro9427

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you

@ellendobbyn-blackmore3504

3 жыл бұрын

@@donnadimuro9427 Thank you so much.

@GetOnTheFloor82

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so so sorry. Love from Ireland 🇮🇪❣👍🏻

@ellendobbyn-blackmore3504

3 жыл бұрын

@@GetOnTheFloor82 thank you so much. This is snowballing. Desmond Robinson's sister just died of Covid. Ripped the bandages off everything. I was his white roommate, Kelli was his sister. She didn't approve of our living arrangements. She told me she didn't like me living with her brother. She died, I was invited to funeral arrangements. I didn't know what to do. Kelli didn't like me. I had no feelings about her except sadness that she hated me being her brother's roommate because I am white. I know different people feel differently about who is appropriate to attend funeral services. Kelli didn't like me. I felt so sad about her death. That family losing another? Awful. I chose not to attend her zoom service, because I thought it was disrespectful. Other white friends of mine reported tears, sobbing over Kelli"s death. I really don't know what to think. I am truly looking inward to see if my own unconscious thoughts might be racist. I am perplexed, unutterably sad and confused. I know I will continue to examine myself and root out any awfulness. Right now I am wrestling with why I didn't like Kelli. Was it because she was awful to me? She was. How much because she was grating? She was. Was her being black part of it? Yes. I am thinking and feeling very thoroughly about all of it. I know if Skip were alive he would help me through this, my beloved Skip. My good friend. My benefactor.

@valeriejohnson5283

3 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss.🥀🙏🙏

This song is written for: suicidal persons, lonely persons, people going through medical problems, loving caregivers, young people who don’t have loving parents, a jilted relationship, a loss of a loved one, it goes on & on & on, because we live in a time when everybody hurts, no matter who they are!😑

@terryfranks6714

Жыл бұрын

Lv

@gailhancocks5207

2 ай бұрын

Not just medical problems, we all hurt for a reason

People feel this is a sad song, it isn't, if you listen to the words it tells you that it gets better, you're not alone and you have friends. It is emotionally jarring but one of my favourite uplifting songs. On repeat for nearly 30 years, will never kip this song. Michael Stipe is a genius

@robinpesek3657

7 ай бұрын

I agree. It is a song of hope.

James to me it is just the opposite, a man that can show his feelings is a man!! A true man.

@star3006

4 жыл бұрын

Yes we Do . ❤️🙏🏿😇 I agree .

@dorothymcmahon9995

4 жыл бұрын

You got that right.

@cockfan101gamecock9

4 жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY. It's called empathy. Use it. It IS YOUR FRIEND. BUT, don't let it overwhelm you....world needs more of us sir.

@stephanietip

4 жыл бұрын

Truer words have never been spoken

@ginamarandino6451

4 жыл бұрын

The strong men know how to recognize their feelings and experience them and learn from them. Men who shot their feelings down inside and don't learn from their experiences and their emotions are the week ones.

Fifty years ago I came so close to ending my life. My parents told me over and over how much they hated me. I was ten at the time, and so very alone. And one day a person became a friend. Some one valued me, and that got me through. Thirty five years ago I got help for the rage that was planted in me, and while it was a long journey, I found peace. And I never doubt the value of a friend.

@renaelynn6376

3 жыл бұрын

What would we do without friends?

@twinkletoes6290

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you’re still w us here today and that you’re doing better, feel loved, valued, appreciated and important!! ❤️❤️

@jenniferd.w.357

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for staying here, your message is also healing and giving hope to others who feel the same. Loving vibes sent your way.

@TheJanet4321

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you went through all of that. Nobody should be subjected to that kind of treatment. What they did to you says everything about WHO THEY WERE and NOTHING about you. For whatever reasons, your parents were very flawed individuals. Just think of the strength and courage it took for you to overcome those challenges and obstacles in your life and you are STILL HERE. You are giving many people inspiration and strength just by sharing your story.

@1000wannabeartist

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing you story......I wish you peace and happiness.....

I always say, if someone doesn't get emotional with this song, it's probably not human. Because no matter what happens in my life, this song always makes me cry.

I'm a 2 tour Vietnam Vet. You're words touched my heart brother. Thank you.

This song is so emotional and heartfelt. Yes we need to stop telling our boys and men to “man up”. Everyone has emotions!

@armadillotoe

4 жыл бұрын

No, we don't. You can hurt and still man up and do what needs to be done. We don't need more metro-sexuals, girly men, or soibois.

@beesnort4944

4 жыл бұрын

armadillotoe why not?

@olanaowen7320

4 жыл бұрын

Really...I would like to know as well. Why not?

@beesnort4944

4 жыл бұрын

Olana Owen he/she doesn’t have a good reason why not. That’s why we probably won’t get a response. How sad for him/her.

@olanaowen7320

4 жыл бұрын

Sad, indeed.

Probably the most empathetic song ever. It’s sums up sadness and depression perfectly, yet at the same gives so much hope. You are not alone

@moonlightgemsart6071

2 жыл бұрын

This comment should have more recognition

@jacobrackham432

2 жыл бұрын

@@moonlightgemsart6071 - thank you for your comment. To me good songs are heart felt poetry put to music. An if you actually “listen” to this poem with the respect it deserves you cannot fail to feel that he wrote this from a place of deep understanding and personal experience. It never fails to fill me with sadness love and hope every time I “listen” to it. It’s a truly therapeutic masterpiece. “You are not alone” four simple words that I’m sure have an will continue to give hope an save lives. ❤️💙❤️💙

This song has a beautiful message especially with the rise in suicide remember folks we never know the pain someone is feeling.

I love men that are not afraid to show their feelings. We are all human, being sensitive is a sign of strength

@thebrazilianatlantis165

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. This is a digression, but the guys' Georgia accents remind me how much great music there is out there.

@mariusvanniekerk7707

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I wanted to comment. So true 😔

@richardwhitehead40

4 жыл бұрын

So you're the one. I've only heard rumors of your type of woman.

@GrimrDirge

4 жыл бұрын

There is a tremendous need in all societies for people who can repress their emotions in the moment of action and chaos, when all those who cannot are overcome. We ask men to repress their pain, their anger, their fear, their hurt in the face of suffering, and I think sometimes that women forget (or never really considered) that these habits are not a light switch to be flicked on and off as it suits others. A few people can open and shut on command; most if us have predispositions in one direction or the other, reinforced by habit and group need.

nearly thirty years and this song still has the power to move one emotionally.

@patriciasalvatore2394

4 жыл бұрын

Oh, my gosh. 30 years!

@peterhendry2154

3 жыл бұрын

Eternal.

@JonsTunes

3 жыл бұрын

Dam that makes me feel old 😶

@traciasmith1542

3 жыл бұрын

Damn, this comment aged me faster then my grandkids birthdays. Wow 30 years..

This album came out a few months after my mother committed suicide, when I was fifteen. It was just the two of us, so the trauma was... all encompassing. You are right, you never know when the smile or frown you give someone will turn the tide for them one way or the other. We must be the good we want to see in the world. Having emotions is human. Showing them is healthy. Working through grief, sadness, depression, it’s possible. When you see yourself getting too close to the end, get help. Please, please reach out. Be visible, and find a way to work through it. 💗

@jacobrackham432

3 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss. You’re so right though we, you are not alone. I live with depression anxiety and ptsd, but I live. There are people that care.

@danduntz9112

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t even begin to grasp what you went through, and it breaks my heart to hear that that happened to you at such a young age. I’m really sorry. Truly. I hope you’ve found some sunshine since the clouds and that you’re doing well.

@stephenhowell834

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@issatagibateh1724

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I'm a 61 year old stroke survivor and I can relate. With the pieces of my memories that are now gone, I fell into depression. A year after the stroke, I had the opportunity to move to rural Tennessee, where my dad used to live. A lot of memories are coming back, but some never will. To help keep me here on earth, I got a dog. He's my responsibility and he's saved me a few time from the dark reaches of reality. Loved your reaction. Keep them coming.

The greatest of men hurt the most. And you are a great man, never doubt yourself.

@lisagraham2944

4 жыл бұрын

I really like you You are real . you don't tAlk trash

@lisagraham2944

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being you. Too many people are fake. I really enjoy your u tube

@punpuniia

4 жыл бұрын

big boss spitting straight facts

@humansgivemeasplittingheadache

4 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@bkh5648

4 жыл бұрын

Love that. Ditto. Never doubt your heart ❤️

I knew you'd cry at this one, real men cry. You're a wonderful, kind sensitive soul. As I always say, a smile can save a life, I'm living testimony. A stranger, an African man, when I lived in Cape Town, smiled at me one day, I was on the brink of taking my own life. That stopped me, I thought he saw something to smile at in me, maybe I'm not as worthless as I imagined I was. This song was always on the radio, after my second parent passed, my mam in 1995, I was home alone a lot, when this would come on, I felt it was mam talking to me, advising me to hang on, this too shall pass, what I was feeling was normal. I'm extremely sensitive, as are you, in fact, I feel that you're an empath and healer too, as I have been told I am by several of both. Maybe your calling, is to react to songs on here, that are universal. If I had watched you react to this, when I was grieving, it would have comforted me. You are helping many souls already. God bless your work, and wisdom at such a young age ❤

@johnsrome8459

3 жыл бұрын

Bless you too, Breda. Hold on. X

I am still hurting over my friend's death. Thank you thank you all, for the comfort you have given me. This channel has the best people. Desmond Robinson has been honored here. Thanks, all of you. It really helps when I miss him that you have all been so very kind. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

R.E.M.’s music is timeless. Such a beautiful song with a beautiful message. Hold on, don’t give up. You’re not alone. God bless each and every one of you. 🙏❤️

It does my heart good to see young people enjoying our music.

@hornerinf

4 жыл бұрын

@Professional Keyboard Warrior Music from an older generation. This music from REM isn't even that old when you come from the 50's! But music becomes "classic" pretty quick.

@anns1921

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!!!

This is one of the most beautiful songs ever recorded.

@nancymizur7034

3 жыл бұрын

This one and Simon & Garfunkel's Bridge Over Troubled Water.

I’m old, a 63 year old great grandmother but kiddo I love you, your reactions and the way you let your emotions show makes you very special, I love the way you give us personal information about your self, like depression, your what they call an open book

This song has saved more lives than anyone could ever know.

It's fun to see a new generation appreciate the music from my younger days. You seem like a good dude. Take care.

@suzanneanderson6921

4 жыл бұрын

Truth

@makelikeatree1696

4 жыл бұрын

K.L. 100%

Bro, the look on your face as you watched the end of this video just broke my heart. Im glad you made it through whatever you went through. And Im glad your here. Thanks.

You nailed this. We live in a sick society. Men aren't allowed to show their emotions, their fears their sadness, their grief. My his song was written for everyone, but men should take notice and be noticed. It's ok to cry, to be sad sometimes.

I think that everyone can relate to this song. This song is heart-piercing. 💘

It takes a real man to show his feelings

@therunawaykid6523

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, if I feel like crying I’m gonna just let it out I’m not going to keep it inside, nothing good can come from that it’s natural to have emotions

@1236rs

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@SillyUncleAndy

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@linda86760

3 жыл бұрын

Sure does.men need to show there feelings more there human. I hate just man up . That just leads to angry issues or suicide. Things need to change

@SillyUncleAndy

3 жыл бұрын

@@linda86760 I couldn't agree more, I hated that phrase growing up it felt like so much pressure. There should never be pressure for any gender to do things a certain way or bury your feelings based on these stupid gender stereotypes, women have it just as bad don't you , with being told "ladies don't do that" etc. Totally agree with you , like that one "boys don't cry" , not true it's the opposite boys should cry and getting called a wuss or wet if we are upset is ridiculous

Sweetie, I'm from the '70s the music back then was so heartfelt. We lose someone, you lose your job, the love of your life is gone. Yes everybody hurts. Oh by the way. I'm an old white lady that love's to see this generation appreciate the music of my generation. My grandson is 14 now and he knows more 70's songs than me sometimes. He listens to the words. It's funny he'll say put it up Memaw. Too funny. Thank you for being you. Do not change for anyone. Hugs from NC. Try to listen to Starry starry night by Don McLean. About the artist Vincent Van Gogh. Listen to the words.

@patd4317

4 жыл бұрын

Nennine1 YES YES YES Starry Starry Night. This song is absolutely amazing. This song is the reason why I needed to learn all I could about Vincent Van Gogh. An amazing artist who had such a tragic life. I highly recommend this one and like you said listen to the words. Very moving song. 🤗

@Starrynightdiner

4 жыл бұрын

Starry night is my favorite song ever.

@EchoRider515

4 жыл бұрын

Good call! Vincent is a beautifully sad song.

@daffyduck6582

4 жыл бұрын

Nennine1....me too. Xxxx

@jujulionesselsa1416

4 жыл бұрын

OMG rem is the best and you my darling are the nicest most genuine lovely guy.. Julie from the UK

This song came out when I was alone, tired and broken. The 80's and 90's were always so dope...... there was pain underneath our laughter and antics. This song said it all.

Thanks James, you're an honest and admirable man, you bring tears to my eyes.

I never knew what true hopelessness felt like until my 6yr old son and my husband were killed by a drunk driver years ago. True darkness. I got thru it.. you just have to truly hang on❤️

@sfogliatelle

4 жыл бұрын

I am so very sorry you have had to suffer like this, I wish you strength and love ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️

@karenstrader6300

4 жыл бұрын

I can’t imagine your pain. I’m am so sorry for your loss. My condolences. 🙏🏼❤️

@rendtheheavensallthetimele7474

4 жыл бұрын

So very sorry for your loss my its crushing me reading comments like this I am a survivor of suicide attempt I was in coma 5 days on life support over a week and I'm so glad God gave me another chance I'm angry at myself for others I hurt although. God bless

@Gigi-rk7dr

4 жыл бұрын

Vonda Berryman .. We are survivors, let’s not waste our second chance being angry. I wish you all the happiness this world has to offer, it’s yours for the taking. Take care of yourself, sending you all my love my friend❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@rayolaiz1460

4 жыл бұрын

I lost my brother in 1993 in a car accident he was only 16 at the time I was 22 yrs old and the pain I felt was such a deep hurtful pain that literally made my heart hurt I cried everyday for 2 weeks and then had to see the pain my parents went thru. So when you talk hopelessness I feel your pain and I pray that God comforts you and hope you heal and try to move forward.

VERY PROUD OF YOU! TAKES MORE OF A MAN TO SHOW HIS EMOTIONS THAN TO HIDE THEM!

@delilahduckett7448

4 жыл бұрын

Very true

I always tell my boys that it takes a real man to show his emotions, admit when he's hurting and ask for help. Beautiful reaction mate.

Love this song. It's so truthful and heartbreaking at the same time. Always puts tears 😢 in my eyes.

This guy gives some of the rawest, most honest reactions I've seen. I feel for him, he is dealing with some serious private pain but if reaction videos and empathy from his viewers helps him then that's amazing. Keep your beautiful soul my dude.

@thebrazilianatlantis165

4 жыл бұрын

He's a good man and that's not going to change, so he's going to be alright.

@markswoman2134

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful words. This young man warms my soul ❤.

MY HUSBAND OF 40 YEARS NEVER CRIED WHEN OUR LITTLE BOY DIED...HE THOUGHT HE HAD TO BE STRONG....IT CAUSED HIM TO HAVE A HEART ATTACK....YOU CAN NOT HOLD YOUR FELLING IN....THE STRESS WILL KILL YOU....CRY...TALK TO SOMEONE!!!

@nikwalters1029

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry for both of your losses.

@kathleenbrame9269

4 жыл бұрын

Peggy. So sorry to hear that. The love of a child will bears you. We feel the pain of our children.

@cosmiclight81

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. I can't bear it, how you must be feeling, it's so traumatic, bless you. Yes, you are totally right though, holding feelings inside, it does have a negative effect on the human body itself. It's healthy to cry, to mourn, scream shout, in whichever way that you need to let it out. You can literally make yourself ill by holding things in. Let yourself go! Much love and healing hugs to you and everyone else here xx

@ChristMyselfYou

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry for both your loved ones!! 💜

@margomargo7999

4 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss

This Song Speaks to Everyone who has a Heart. Right On Young man, Your reaction is BEAUTIFUL ❤️❤️

Love to you man. I played this non-stop when my marriage broke up but I had my brothers, parents (now sadly departed), even my wife's friends to talk to but most importantly my beautiful daughter who I would never let down.

Michael wrote this song after his Beloved Grandmother died. He was devastated. Hauntingly Beautiful Song..😔💔😭

@chaost4544

4 жыл бұрын

Michael Stipe doesn't have the largest range but he's one of the best at conveying emotion.

@MariaLopez-yb9fc

4 жыл бұрын

Linda Colombo he actually did this song because he lost a very close friend ( Kurt Cobain)

@troubledjoe6201

4 жыл бұрын

This came out 2 years before Cobain died (92 v 94); the Cobain tribute was Let Me In - which is also great, if not so accessible -m.kzread.info/dash/bejne/dnhrmc6bqLDHds4.html

@lindacolombo8364

4 жыл бұрын

@@troubledjoe6201 I thought so Joe..Thank you.

@spacemonkey4811

4 жыл бұрын

Bill Berry wrote it, not Michael.

Your heart is too big for this song, I knew you would feel every word. Stay strong young man

@thomasmanning829

3 жыл бұрын

He's big enough for the sdcc song. Most people cover their hearts.

@saragodres-tomes1032

3 жыл бұрын

❤

Real man cry. My dad is the strongest man I know. When my granny died, he cried in front of us. First time and he felt ashamed of it. I said to my son- crying is not a sign of weakness. People are meant to cry. People- not only woman!!!!

A real man is never afraid to show their emotions. Love you and your reactions. ❤️❤️✌️

Wouldn’t it all be so much simpler if we could all just love each other. Peace, love and prayers for our earth ☮️❤️🙏🏻🌎🌍🌏

@towanda2947

3 жыл бұрын

Miss kitty IMAGINE!

@dianemcdonald5095

3 жыл бұрын

Love is the answer!

@miznana58

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. And amen.

When my son died I played this song over and over. It literally kept me alive through miles of tears.

@charlareese8871

3 жыл бұрын

Same when my son died, Laurie Crader... Not this song but "It's So Hard To Say Goodbye" by Boyz To Men. Literally saved my life...

I've seen this REM song about 10 times and I still cried all the way thru. I hope I can give this guy a hug some day.

The depth of your compassion is massive, you never know how profoundly it can impact the lives of others. Thank you

I lost one of my friends to suicide about 6 months before this song came out. I cry everytime that I hear this song! It reminds me of Hugh!

@humanearthling1484

4 жыл бұрын

Big hug to you.

@raymondfrancis2983

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way

@stephanieyee9784

3 жыл бұрын

Vale Hugh.

@denisesalmon4496

3 жыл бұрын

Sending up prayers for you

@lonnierh0dgejr41

3 жыл бұрын

Michael Quinn i lost a long time friend a few years ago. it hit me really hard. we spent years helping each other through difficult times and this song reminds me of him, as well. sadly, dealing with loss is part of life and dealing with the grief can take time. it's been 6 years for me and i still have my moments when i break down because of it. time will ease the pain and it will get easier. J.D. Bailey will never be forgotten. RIP. :(

You’ve got to hand it to Michael Stipe, he read about the teenage suicide rate and wanted to do something about it. Many songwriters might have the same sentiments but very few could write, what is arguably one of THE songs that makes the listener reach inside of themself and conduit their own emotions and expose their feelings.

@mariusvanniekerk7707

4 жыл бұрын

I just got educated. Thanks for the info 🇿🇦

@thebrazilianatlantis165

4 жыл бұрын

The beautiful string arrangement was written by John Paul Jones of Led Zeppelin.

@davidwiley4953

4 жыл бұрын

He didn't write the song. It was by one of the other band members. I remember that because of when that member hat to quit due to medical reasons Michael emphasized who wrote it.

@LOVEchristHEwasVEGAN

3 жыл бұрын

i cried as a teenager to this and it did help. youre right

@mariannshake4396

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. It's about teenage suicide written before the It Gets Better public announcements. Michael Stipe was trying to talk to teenaged gays.

Dude, easy to see you’ve got a good heart... I knew that this song would hit you. Thanks for being a good human being.👍

You are such a special young man. Your advice is so caring. Jesus loves you, this I know. Thank you for sharing your emotions.

@jennifertaylor2308

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

"Man up" is one of the stupidest things anyone ever said. It's like telling someone with depression to "snap out of it". Utterly pointless, completely unhelpful and possibly dangerous. Showing your feelings is the pressure valve we all need sometimes, don't ever, ever be afraid to be yourself. That's the sign of a real man, not all the macho bullshit we're fed on. Well done for being the man you are, not the one others expect. Much love.

@MrJaaaaake

4 жыл бұрын

It's not stupid. It's basically a simplified explanation of stoicism. " Keep swimming", " keep moving", " man up". The nature of man is to overcome things. The harsh reality is not everyone can make it in life. We live in the easiest time in human history.

@dorabolick9275

3 жыл бұрын

Real men always cry.

@markjones7109

3 жыл бұрын

@@MrJaaaaake You said exactly what I was about to say.

@pamelajordan5948

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah woman are told to relax men are told to man up. ..

@rebeccasimantov5476

3 жыл бұрын

Will Gatenby well said...

''Man up'' is one of the most emotionally corrosive phrases to come out of anyone's mouth.

@EternaLivesMatter

4 жыл бұрын

A male who weeps, is a man.

@MrJaaaaake

4 жыл бұрын

To some. But to others it helps them recover. Everyone is different after all. "Man up" has been my way of living since childhood, without being taught this.

@katthill7506

4 жыл бұрын

"Emotionally Corrosive" is the absolute BEST description I have ever heard for a phrase that never helped anyone.

@cbrownes

4 жыл бұрын

@@katthill7506 I agree. Never heard of 'Emotionally Corrosive' before. But will remember this.

@wilable70

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

You're a good soul and this world needs you. Stay strong bro.

This is one of the most emotional songs ever and his voice is one of the best, I saw them in concert years ago and he's this good live, amazing band.

@irishguy200007

Жыл бұрын

This and "if you tollerate this" by the manic street preachers

This song saved my life 25 years ago, when I had no one to turn to. Everybody hurts, sometimes.

This song let me know that at least one person understood how I felt, just at the moment I needed it..... thank You R.E.M.

This song needs to be played on everyone's channel today.

It’s good to see another man reacting like yourself and I also wear my emotions and my heart on my sleeves as well and I’m not ashamed of it!

This song makes me cry, but also gives me strength, "you're not alone".

@lolalilolily

4 жыл бұрын

Just hold on

Gandalf said, "I will not say, 'do not weep'. Not all tears are evil."

@chrisbeauvais2982

4 жыл бұрын

I forgot he said that. Thank you for reminding me. After watching his wonderful reaction, I’m in tears. Thanks to Gandalf/Tolkien.

First time sharing a reaction video with you and I need you to know that your heart and your beautiful soul left me weeping because I have so much respect for you as a man to allow yourself to be venerable and show your emotions. I wish a had a brother just like you. Whoever is in your life are very lucky to have you. I feel such a strong connection to you and I want to thank you for this amazing experience. I thank God that you are here. Bless you and your family and please know what an amazing young man you are. ❤️😊

I watched an amazing Cover of this song on Americas Got Talent. I was in tears!!!! The gentleman singing is named Father Ray Kelly. I am sure you do not have time on your channel to react to it. I just think you would really feel the emotions through his singing. Whenever I am depressed, I listen to it and cry, but always feel better afterwards. It is soul cleansing. I love your reactions. Many times I can feel the music through you. What a Blessing you are.

“This is not how I want my story to end”........that’s what I needed to hear. Thank you.

This song literally saved my life when it first came out...I had it on repeat continually...Then couldn’t listen to it without getting upset...30years later...it still makes my tummy flip but Without it I would not be here...🥰

Yes, you are a man...a Hu-man! Don't ever forget that it's your HuManity that connects you to everybody else, and connects them to you. This song is about understanding our connection to each other. Peace to you brother, the peace that passes all understanding.

Its refreshing to see a young man who can articulate his emotions. You are a breath of fresh air, stay strong, stay positive and be happy.

Hey dude - really wanted to applaud you talking about the issues you do. Being told to "man up" etc is such a barrier to young men learning to express their emotions healthily and if they can't then this can lead to depression and anxiety. i LOVE watching your reactions and especially your love of classical and opera music. Keep doing what you do and it'll really help break down these old school barriers. Thank you.

No shame - EVER, Young Sir...when YOUR heart is SO FULL of care and love and well-wishes for others, ok??! You are such a terrific role-model and not JUST for men but also we women...not that you asked to be a role-model but...being A MIRROR to The World is a SUPERB characteristic, James! WoW. And, thank you!!!!

I gotta say, tears are a sign of strength. They make you vulnerable. Never be ashamed of them.

Hold on always hold on. For you to understand this song and put your feelings out there makes my heart full. Bless you, James. You belong here.

James, thank you for adding that simple sentence, "animals hurt". I love my fellow human beings but I also have always felt compassion for all God's creatures who can't speak for themselves. In addition to having pets I've always done animal rescue work (& always ended up keeping the handicapped/special needs ones who are usually completely unwanted), I know animals have the same emotions we do. Sometimes people need to be reminded. Thanks again for such a heartfelt reaction to a beautiful song.💙

@debbiesnyder3789

4 жыл бұрын

Wow.... I feel the same way about animals... my last rescue was a little Shitzu dog going blind. He is so precious... I now look for other dogs with disabilities. They seem to know they are special to us!! Thank you.. its nice to see others feeling the same way I do.. I LOVE ANIMALS too!❤

A man who shows his feelings is a beautiful thing. I cry every time I hear this. No shame in tears.

As a black man, yes your black mom and dad said, " man up." Sometimes one hurts, but they dont have time to cry , man, woman and child and if youre black, yes, there are times we have to stay strong. So you dont just throw away that wisdom, but know when you do or dont have to, " man up." Dont let others persuade you that your ancestors wisdom is no longer necessary.

Music moves me like nothing else. And now I'm older and lived a life it moves me more. Never be ashamed of our humanity. Art is a reflection of our humanity. I'm there with you brother.

I think the most manly thing you can do is be open and honest about how you feel. When you said "I'm gonna feel what and how I feel, and i'll never change that for anybody." THAT was manly, that was king shit.

Your face is so expressive. So genuine! Stay strong. Seeking help is not a weakness

You're real man, you shared your truth. No shame, nothing but encouragement and delight in your honesty. You are loved.

This is pretty much the gold standard of reaction channels.

My first impression: you’re special and real. Just the first 30 seconds and I feel your trueness. I think I’m subscribing to your channel. Thank you. ♥️

@davidwarner8353

3 жыл бұрын

Me too.. First few seconds of hearing this guy. I knew he was a good man. Genuine

@tammybailey2397

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Within a minute of him talking I was in.

@towanda2947

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful soul... I just want to be an Auntie for you!!! You be you! It's all good ✨☮️❤️

@kirstieh8094

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. Love this man’s authenticity & humanity.

"End of the World As We Know It" and "Shiny Happy People" are great songs also by R.E.M, give them a go!

@lisasnyder3036

4 жыл бұрын

Funny happy monsters on sesame street is great too.

@allisonyoung4007

4 жыл бұрын

@@lisasnyder3036 🤣My kids were little when I saw that ! So cool!

@janimations6115

4 жыл бұрын

I think you mean Man on the Moon, and the Beyond! Micheal Stipe himself said he cant stand shiny happy people...to the point where he wouldn't play it live

@caseyjones9359

4 жыл бұрын

Orange Crush, This one Goes out toThe one I Love, and Whats the Frequency Kenneth are ace tunes as well

@travismunro7376

4 жыл бұрын

Any REM is good imo

A man who cannot cry is a broken man who is in trouble. We're all human. Tears are a part of this life. They can be healing and help a person find the strength to carry on even for just one more day, just one more hour, until a better day comes and those tears turn to laughter and joy. Tears reflect strength. Even Jesus Christ, God in the flesh, cried... and more than once! He was an amazing man. You nailed it my friend. Good on ya!

This came out in 1993 and when I listen to it, I just think about all the people who've listened to it and cried and felt pain since then. It comforts me on my dark days and reminds me that even though I might feel alone, I'm not.

I was watching reactions videos. Can’t sleep. And I stumbled on yours. I’ve been in a dark place lately and I’m 47, I grew up with REM. But seeing your reaction, feeling your pain, sharing your pain, gave me hope that I can open myself and let go of mine. Thank you. Thank you.

@elainebaldwin928

4 жыл бұрын

Hi, carlos.....i too, an in a dark place lately. I've found that these reaction vidros are really helping. I'm 59 and found music really helps. Try his queen reactions.....it's wonderful for someone my age to see someone discovering the music i listened to when i was growing up....just hang on in there. you will emerge at the other end, believe me. Take care....😆😆😆 xx

@ImMoonlily

4 жыл бұрын

I hope you've found your way, my friend. Just remember, we're all in this together and you are never truly alone. There are random internet people who will help lift you up when you fall.

@thchadster

4 жыл бұрын

Big love to both of you 🥰

@tomperkins6424

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Carlos, I feel your pain even though I don’t know your situation. I am in my 50’s and feel like I have made all the wrong choices in life even though it was the plan that I was supposed to follow. Had to work night shift jobs to go to college and then study all my free time. Never was able to have time to get married or have kids. So I am at a spot where I totally screwed everything up and all alone. I will make it through and I believe you will too. Hang in there and talk to someone about what you are going through. God Bless.

@delilahduckett7448

4 жыл бұрын

Good luck and remember it seems like it will never end but it will . You are worth so much to a lot of people . Good luck and don't ever give up please. Sending prayers your way 🤗🤗🤗

JB you are allowed to cry! When you feel low, lonely listen to this! You are not alone!

I know this song. Your reaction made me cry. Never let go of your heart. Feel life to it's fullest. Men should never hold back their feelings. Be proud, I'm proud of you and I don't even know you.

Mate you're an absolute legend. Men get a lot of stick for crying when in reality we have feelings just as much as everyone else. Gotta subscribe to a real one, much love brother

My dad was the rare man who cry in public and not give AF. I didn't know for a long time that he was the exception. Men who skow emotions, all of them are real men.

Respect brother a true man is one whom shows others how they are feeling love from the uk

I met a man in California, who said to me 'people think men don't hurt...but we do...just like anybody else'.

And with what is going on in the world today, this song is needed so people can understand and we can move forward. Bless you James. Keep safe & well, Squire.

This was the best and most sincere reaction I’ve ever seen. I applaud you and your courage to discuss suicidal ideations and admit your emotional reaction to this beautiful and somber song. You are a real man and do not let anyone tell you differently. Compassion and understand are sorely needed these days. Thank you. This the first time I’ve subscribed to someone after seeing just one reaction video (actually I subscribed during the reaction).

@patcomery3520

4 жыл бұрын

Dennis Vincent I agree sir!

A real man shows his emotions ❤️

Oh James please, please never hurt yourself and leave this life before your time. My oldest son took his own life and it changed the lives of everyone who knew him. Your a sweet gentle soul. We all need you

@atlscott744

3 жыл бұрын

Barb Leigh, sending love and prayers

This is one of the most beautifulest songs ever written and recorded.

@onechopbuddy3849

4 жыл бұрын

low rider it’s in my list