Quitting Drinking Changed My Life: Here's What I Discovered!

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In this video, I'm sharing my story of how quitting drinking changed my life. I share with you the advice I've learned about drinking, how it's changed my life, and the steps I took to successfully quit drinking.
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  • @TheMichalaks
    @TheMichalaks5 ай бұрын

    Hey guys: I've created a totally free 40-page guide packed full of helpful advice, delicious mocktail recipes, and more for anyone trying to quit: You can grab it here: page.glowstate.com/letsgetsober :)

  • @ChristopherEric-fr8im
    @ChristopherEric-fr8im5 ай бұрын

    I started drinking alcohol since my teenage. Spent my whole life fighting alcohol addiction. Also suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

  • @CristiandlfDeval

    @CristiandlfDeval

    5 ай бұрын

    YES very sure of Dr.alishrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

  • @Mcdogmom288

    @Mcdogmom288

    5 ай бұрын

    I'm really happy for you that your wife decided to help you...I hear about alot of family members or so called friends shutting an addict out of their life, which since most addicts do it to mask emotions to me is the worse thing someone can do to an addict.

  • @AnnaRoth-pb8xv

    @AnnaRoth-pb8xv

    5 ай бұрын

    How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

  • @AndrewLiam-lp5cj

    @AndrewLiam-lp5cj

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes he's Dr.alishrooms Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used mushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.

  • @MariaHernandez-mb3qz

    @MariaHernandez-mb3qz

    5 ай бұрын

    I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

  • @kaliprincess76
    @kaliprincess7611 ай бұрын

    Today is Day 1 for me. 47 years old and I have been a social drinker since 13. The hangovers cause major sadness and anxiety. It takes 3 days to get back on track. I’ve missed days at work and quality time with my kids. Alcohol is not worth it anymore for me. I’m ready to live the next half of my life happily sober

  • @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100

    @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100

    11 ай бұрын

    How’s it going? I’m 49, on day 9. I feel really good.

  • @coggy52

    @coggy52

    11 ай бұрын

    Hope it’s going well?

  • @joknul1

    @joknul1

    11 ай бұрын

    How is it going?

  • @dr_corrupt1014

    @dr_corrupt1014

    10 ай бұрын

    bet he relapsed

  • @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100

    @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100

    10 ай бұрын

    @@dr_corrupt1014 You are a pillar of support.

  • @Bicyclesidewalk
    @Bicyclesidewalk5 ай бұрын

    About to hit 1000 days 100% sober, I gave it up on my 45th bday - back in 2021. Great video, great words.

  • @fleurjoesten
    @fleurjoesten11 ай бұрын

    I’m 14 months sober after drinking for 11 years (15 - 26). I didn’t consider myself an alcoholic, because I didn’t drink alone, and I didn’t drink from morning to night. I started drinking alone, and I started drinking earlier and earlier in the day. Alcoholism doesn’t have just one look. It took me many years to come to terms with the fact that I had a problem. My life has completely changed now. I am still recalibrating, and I don’t know what it will look like in ten years, but I haven’t touched a drop since I quit a year ago, and I am very proud of myself. ❤️

  • @peterthomas5911
    @peterthomas5911 Жыл бұрын

    I’m 68 and drank each and every day for the last 40 years . I’m now 7 days into zero alcohol . Feel so much better in mood , sleep , alertness and the list goes on . I am so convinced I can continue without alcohol . Thanks for sharing your story

  • @andersstorhaug4334

    @andersstorhaug4334

    11 ай бұрын

    How you keepin up, Peter?

  • @Kevin_Yagoonie

    @Kevin_Yagoonie

    11 ай бұрын

    You still going strong peter? I'm on day 26 sober

  • @ftwplayboy19

    @ftwplayboy19

    11 ай бұрын

    Good to hear peter… im sober 3 months now . 🫡 its tough still wit this hot weather in texas .. craving a beer after work.. but im holding strong.. just get home and exercise and drink water everyday 🫡

  • @campbellmorrison8540

    @campbellmorrison8540

    11 ай бұрын

    I'm 69 and drank every day for about 40 years too. I never drank to oblivion etc but I drank 3+ beers a day. Im now at 6mths and Ive been pretty good up until the last few weeks and the craving has come back so make sure you have cover. I take Antabuse every few days just to be sure I wont lose control. My will power is pretty good and Im very confident of totally stopping but I'm just warning you to get some cover. I am annoyed the cravings have come back but Im sure they will go again and they will get less and less but I do look forward to the day I never even think about alcohol. Keep very busy especially around drinking time like 4pm onward, get some antibuse or similar to give you some cover. One thing that I found takes my mind off alcohol before dinner is doing a jigsaw just a suggestion. All the best its not easy but its very possible

  • @aaron6807

    @aaron6807

    11 ай бұрын

    I hope that you're going strong, good luck. And even if you relapsed, you can try again

  • @dewaynetodalen4491
    @dewaynetodalen449111 ай бұрын

    I am 52 and have been a drinker off and on most of my life. Since March 2020 I have been drinking whisky virtually every night for 3 years. My business is now grinding to almost no income and I'm deeply in debt. My anxiety has been off the charts. This is day 1 of not drinking. I need a change or my life is over. Drinking is just not worth it anymore. I am ready to grow. Wishing everyone all the best on their journey.

  • @jimmytwostones

    @jimmytwostones

    10 ай бұрын

    You still doing ok mate?

  • @kathryngannon485

    @kathryngannon485

    10 ай бұрын

    Don't quit cold turkey.

  • @dylannichols1

    @dylannichols1

    10 ай бұрын

    I think you can quit cold turkey! If you've had enough, you can walk away form things because they just don't help. But, you have to pep talk yourself everyday and change your environment.

  • @antonio198523

    @antonio198523

    10 ай бұрын

    Good luck, it will be totally worth it. If you do go back to it after a period of abstinence, be careful, it's dangerous.

  • @tonygiovanni5761

    @tonygiovanni5761

    7 ай бұрын

    You can make it. Good luck. Today is day 1 for me

  • @stuartwilko
    @stuartwilko11 ай бұрын

    I’ve haven’t had a drink for 10 days now and already a feel more confident and more focused and have more energy.

  • @TheAuteurist23
    @TheAuteurist237 ай бұрын

    5 months sober today. It's an ongoing process, but I feel fantastic. Used to get through over a half bottle of whisky a day. Now sparkling water is my jam.

  • @ianmarshall2798

    @ianmarshall2798

    7 ай бұрын

    What about 0% alcohol beer? Had the brew dog variety the other night. Great taste with zero after effects 😊

  • @solvisionx9965
    @solvisionx9965 Жыл бұрын

    I don't drink. I am just here to support. I am very proud of everybody who resists the social pressure of drinking. Well done you.

  • @Zett76
    @Zett7611 ай бұрын

    Hi. Thx for your words. I have been sober 5 years, then began to play with alcohol again. Honeymoon phase for one or two months (1 drink was enough for a great buzz, I was LOVING it), then that vanished, and I was back to drinking up to 10 drinks (sometimes two bottles of wine), on more nights than not. that was 1,5 years ago. I was sometimes sober, for one or two weeks, one time even for two months. But I always went back to drinking again, with little remorse... I just didn't care what I did to myself. I gave up my sports routines (I was runnning up to 70k a week), gained 25(!)kg. The last two weeks I was on a binge. With one day pause, 2 bottles of wine EVERY night. TODAY I am on day one. Determined. In everything I gave up, when I REALLY got through some weeks, I think I am kind of different from the classical case. I don't miss the stuff. I didn't smoke for 6 six years, at one point in my life. I didn't drink for five years, I stopped playing videogames for almost two years. No problem. But there IS a problem: it has always been a false sense of security. And one day, you say to yourself: I think NOW I can handle it... It almost never works. I wonder if there are others you DON'T want to drink, even after years of sobriety (according to AA, it's a struggle every day)... because when I get over the hump, I don't struggle. And while it sounds like a blessing, it's also a curse. There's always this point when I get careless and over-confident. Let's try it, again. This time, it will work. I will only drink, when with friends, and only two drinks, max... Yeah. Sure. Thx again, for you video. It's very motivating. 🙏

  • @ceberro5874
    @ceberro587411 ай бұрын

    hi im 322 days sober, decided to stop after a pretty bad hangover, honestly believe it has been the best decision ive ever made, im 40 years old and had drinking since i was 15, parents were heavily drinkers, was about to loose my wife and my relationship with my 9 year old wasnt the best, after i stopped drinking my relationship with my wife and son skyrocketed, was able to break the cycle of drunk parent and feeling like crap taking your son to school, to now where i can wait for the morning walks with my son and have great conversations, my finances improved i see the money now, i feel that my energy and mood are stable.im able to stick to morning routines. hope this helps to someone, now that im nearly a year sober

  • @dustyoldhat
    @dustyoldhat11 ай бұрын

    The best thing about not drinking is the sleep. I"m also in early 40s and so glad I set aside the habit of drinking alcohol. I can see the future so much more clearly. If anyone is reading this and struggling, just know it's worth it. If you stumble while trying, then just keep trying to get back on the path. Eventually you'll feel the benefits. Good luck.

  • @justg1226
    @justg1226 Жыл бұрын

    I am not a drinker but I felt the lifelong effects of living with an alcoholic. I commend you for not putting your kids through the inevitable embarrassment of a parent with that problem. My life would have been very different if booze was not part of it. Congrats. You rock!

  • @CaRrIcKCc19
    @CaRrIcKCc19 Жыл бұрын

    This is my public commitment to not drink from today. I've been drinking from 15 to now (26). Slowly it has pushed whole friendship groups, housemates, and a very dear girlfriend away. I'm not sure when but for a few years I've started to binge drink whenever I touch the stuff. I can't just have one or two. I'll consume whatever is around me and then seek more until I pass out or black out. I become a very angry and arrogant person with no self control that says horrible things to nice people and puts myself and others in harms way. I even talk to my parents in a disrespectful manner which I wouldn't dream of if I was sober. Besides the effects is has durring the drinking, the hangover often is accompanied with a sense of shame so deep I can't leave my room all day. It affects my motivation and sense of worth. Thank you for the continued videos. I'm going to take the necessary steps to give up alcohol completely. As I need, and want to quit.

  • @mermaid9557

    @mermaid9557

    Жыл бұрын

    Good luck with sobriety.. I would recommend getting to an AA meeting as you will meet a lot of people there who drank like you and now they live successfully without it 😊

  • @johnnyfrickinutah

    @johnnyfrickinutah

    11 ай бұрын

    Good job man. You're fortunate to be deciding this early at 26 years old. One thing I can tell you is that if alcohol is affecting this much and this negatively at 26 it WILL ONLY GET WORSE. Best of luck to you and look into options such as The Sinclair Method which may help you along your journey.

  • @joelarama

    @joelarama

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. I’m 10 years sober now, stopping drinking saved my life. Alcoholism has affected my whole, I’m grateful that I was able to stop. I go to AA meetings and follow a 12 step programme which works for me but not everyone. Good luck on your continuing journey. ☺️

  • @melissas7821

    @melissas7821

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your brutal honesty. The struggle is real.

  • @jamesallen8441
    @jamesallen844111 ай бұрын

    I start my new job Monday, currently writing this hungover after having the most traumatic experience drinking last night. Every single problem I have/had comes from alcohol. Lost relationships, financially not good and many more. Im only 23 and I suffer extreme anxiety and depression. From this day on im quitting. Wish everybody doing the same success. going for a week, when I don't drink next weekend, I won't drink then for the months, then 2 months and so on. thanks for the video

  • @beefandchicken

    @beefandchicken

    11 ай бұрын

    How's it going so far??

  • @emgaf9
    @emgaf9 Жыл бұрын

    I quit drinking at Christmas after moving out of my partner’s house with our 2 year old. He drank about half a case of beer per night and I couldn’t even enjoy a beer anymore because I always felt like I had to have more just to socialize with him. I got my own place and completely quit so I could be a better example to my son and for the health and fitness goals I have for the year. I feel so much better and I don’t miss it, although I never had an actual alcohol problem. I just don’t want it around my son when he’s with me. Best decision ever.

  • @1991maz

    @1991maz

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @beefandchicken

    @beefandchicken

    11 ай бұрын

    Good job. 👍♥️

  • @12HENSON12

    @12HENSON12

    4 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @emu9520
    @emu9520 Жыл бұрын

    Best decision of my life to give up alcohol at 30…never miss…no hangovers…no dark morning horrors…better skin…it’s such freedom

  • @AntoninusPius17

    @AntoninusPius17

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice. Truth hurts right. Drinking alcohol is an excuse to be lazy and achieve nothing.

  • @psycold

    @psycold

    Жыл бұрын

    I started drinking at 30. I'm about to turn 40 and I know I need to quit. I think I'll start today.

  • @emu9520

    @emu9520

    11 ай бұрын

    @@psycold best of luck

  • @saundrakaye9497
    @saundrakaye9497 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you…5 days sober…not my first attempt….your honesty is what I needed at this moment. ❤️

  • @realironballs

    @realironballs

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't give up Saundra! The benefits of quitting are real. I could tell you many stories and every drinking cliché in the book about myself but it has the benefit of being true so I'll skip it. I haven't had a drink in 7 days and have been drinking less and less over the last few months. I just hate the way it makes me feel.

  • @saundrakaye9497

    @saundrakaye9497

    Жыл бұрын

    @@realironballs Thanks! I will not give up! Please don’t give up Nathan!

  • @tanishanightingale

    @tanishanightingale

    Жыл бұрын

    Stay strong

  • @chadgriffith5819

    @chadgriffith5819

    Жыл бұрын

    How's it going?

  • @saundrakaye9497

    @saundrakaye9497

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chadgriffith5819 I’m doing well. 72 days sober..

  • @biancalutz-kokuner2907
    @biancalutz-kokuner2907 Жыл бұрын

    9 months drink free too🎉It's been an incredible journey so far!

  • @immhepp638

    @immhepp638

    Жыл бұрын

    very cool! when did it get where you felt like you never was a drinker? I quit since Jan after doing dry jan the last 2 years. I use to smoke 2 packs a day for years and quit in 1992. I don’t miss it at all now BUT golf season is coming and summer days sooooo I don’t know if the fomo will get me to drink the poison or not 🤷‍♂️

  • @biancalutz-kokuner2907

    @biancalutz-kokuner2907

    Жыл бұрын

    I think that feeling will only fade after a year or 2. I don't think about it and want to have it however a trigger here and there does pop up, those hot days when you're out in the sun lol

  • @rr2170
    @rr2170 Жыл бұрын

    39 months. Thanks sharing your story and helping to normalize the choice not to drink!

  • @Luonto6
    @Luonto611 ай бұрын

    First day. Been failing many times but this time i will not give up! I really believe that there is light at the end of the tunnel

  • @stephenlangrick27
    @stephenlangrick2710 ай бұрын

    I'm 3 days into sobriety, I've drank basically every day for the past 6 years and heavily at that, at least 5 beers a night, sometimes 15... weather socially, or on my own. I'm also 3 days into a gym and diet routine, you've got this guys! Go hard and go in the deep end head on!❤

  • @jaysilverstone7221

    @jaysilverstone7221

    10 ай бұрын

    Really cool Stephen, onward and upward

  • @GabriellaBordo
    @GabriellaBordo Жыл бұрын

    I quit drinking in January. I’d lost my best friend, father and mother within six months and was drinking heavily to cope. Seeing you and Hannah make the decision gave me the affirmation and support that I needed. I can’t thank you enough. So much love you you both. Cheers.

  • @dustyoldhat

    @dustyoldhat

    11 ай бұрын

    Hope you're still doing ok

  • @skipdog9912

    @skipdog9912

    11 ай бұрын

    Not cheers! 😂

  • @Luchoeds

    @Luchoeds

    11 ай бұрын

    Sorry for your lost Gabriella. I do struggle with depression and anxiety and this summer has been a killer. I am glad you're doing much better.

  • @BarriosGroupie

    @BarriosGroupie

    11 ай бұрын

    Our sense of reality and hence the integrated person we see in the mirror comes from the experiences we go through. I hope you've immersed yourself in the reality of your loss and are familiarizing yourself with your new social reality so that it becomes a part of your new identity: life goes on together with our new experiences.

  • @SimonDelaney1974

    @SimonDelaney1974

    11 ай бұрын

    Grief is a common trigger into a way to deal with your feelings. I’d recommend bereavement counselling, it’s a safe place to let that out without taking it to family and friends.

  • @chack4341
    @chack434111 ай бұрын

    I took 6 months off of booze last year and thought that I could moderate. Unfortunately, a couple weeks after reintroducing alcohol, my little brother unexpectedly passed, which put me into some dark places. I now fully realize that giving up alcohol for good is the right move.

  • @KING-TJ

    @KING-TJ

    10 ай бұрын

    My condolences

  • @thefuturist8864
    @thefuturist886411 ай бұрын

    It’s important to distinguish between an addiction, a dependency and a habit. Someone with an alcohol habit will drink when they get the chance and might occasionally drink at inappropriate times, but they can still function pretty well if they’re not able to get alcohol. Someone with a dependence will try to have a drink every day, but a small one is usually enough and they don’t want to be drunk; they struggle a bit when there’s no alcohol available but they can cope. Addiction is like both of these plus a thousand; the person has a compulsion to always be drinking, even when they’re already drunk, and their body goes into withdrawal without it (which is very dangerous, as alcohol is one of a few substances where withdrawal is potentially fatal). My point? Most people aren’t addicts and shouldn’t believe they are. If you can stop doing the thing without much trouble it was likely a habit.

  • @raymondlin8728
    @raymondlin8728 Жыл бұрын

    I quit last summer, 9 months ago. Nothing at all. Summer is coming soon, I think I can handle it. The weekly BBQ, the weekend getaway. May 23: Still not drinking.

  • @esmewhiter6077
    @esmewhiter6077 Жыл бұрын

    not an alcoholic, but have been smoking weed every day for around three years now as a way to escape at the end of each day. I recently decided to quit as I'm about to sit the final exams of my degree and realised i needed to be mentally present for them and everything that comes after. Thank you for giving me the extra motivation i needed to do this! :)

  • @thatdudekyle5690

    @thatdudekyle5690

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m an alcoholic of about 10 years. I’m actually smoking weed to stay off the booz and it actually does wonders. Idk why I thought I’d share that. Good luck on your exams 😁

  • @AntoninusPius17

    @AntoninusPius17

    Жыл бұрын

    You forget how much mental power you have when reduce stimulants including food. 🙏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @joeybtown1
    @joeybtown1 Жыл бұрын

    3 months sober from drugs and alcohol. I feel great, and it has been a truly eye-opening experience. I have binged alcohol and smoked weed since I was 14, with other drugs mixed in over the years. I turned 42 and finally decided to move forward from these anchors. Quitting has been nothing but positive in every way...but I do miss the social aspect. The drinking culture is incredibly high in my college town and my social circle drinks. I feel like the odd man out often, and I'm worried I might fall back into my old habits. I started watching videos like yours, and it seems to be helping. Stories like yours only allow me to move forward, and I have to stay strong. Thank you for sharing.

  • @928pcar

    @928pcar

    Жыл бұрын

    Drank since I was 14 and smoked weed since 15 so I hear you!! Today is my first week of sobriety at 34 years old! Keep it up man there are more of us than ever waking up

  • @pdk213

    @pdk213

    11 ай бұрын

    @@928pcar Word! 54 and 33 days clean.

  • @melissas7821

    @melissas7821

    7 ай бұрын

    Two decades of drinking here. 60 days sober. You begin to see who belongs close to your sobriety and who does not.

  • @michellec24601
    @michellec24601 Жыл бұрын

    When I had long covid I gave up alcohol and never restarted. 2 years later and I still haven’t had a drink. My very close friends are the most understanding and never force me. But it’s the work colleagues that are the most judgey and some of them think what’s the point in going out if you’re not going to drink. I celebrated my 30th last year on alcohol free gin and had the best night and remember every second. I feel so much better in myself and saved loads of money! Thank you for sharing this, I feel like it’s something that isn’t spoken about enough.

  • @averageguydude3833

    @averageguydude3833

    Жыл бұрын

    How is your experience being at parties sober?

  • @michellec24601

    @michellec24601

    Жыл бұрын

    Parties for me have been absolutely fine. I’m very confident in the decision that I have made for myself and that outweighs anyone else’s opinion. There are so many amazing non alcoholic options that I can have, meaning I just don’t miss it at all. If you’re struggling with this then I feel that the “right glass” often makes people think you’re drinking when you’re not.

  • @legs_11.82
    @legs_11.82 Жыл бұрын

    Day 4 currently, drove to the bottle shop tonight but ended up getting some crisps and juice. Hopefully it gets easier. One day at a time.

  • @vendrim1962
    @vendrim1962 Жыл бұрын

    I quit a week ago. I didn't drink every day, or even every week, but when I drink I just can't control myself. I cause so much trouble and so much drama to everyone around me. The most embarrassing moments in my life came to be, because I drank. I am looked at like the guy who, when he drinks is just a danger to everyone around. I probably have had more injuries and very close to death moments, than ever, when I drank. So... I quit. I want to know who I am, when I don't drink and what is possible. I just want to try and see who I can be, what my sober me can do. I wish everyone who has the same problem as me, to just stop and think about who you are when you drink. Is that actually you? Because it is you, but all the bad parts of you. You would never do those things if you were sober right? So, why be such a guy/girl. Just give yourself the opportunity to find out who you really are. The boring times and the social times, every time, like the guy said, for at least half a year. Get to know your true self. Imagine what a wild adventure that'll be!

  • @scotthazelwood
    @scotthazelwood11 ай бұрын

    I'm on day 97 of quitting alcohol after 10 years of solid binging - i've never felt more in tune to who I am as a person. Best decision I have made this year! Good luck to any one else starting sobriety

  • @benjamincostello3373
    @benjamincostello337311 ай бұрын

    I’m 45. I stopped drinking when I was 41 also. Best thing ever. Like you I didn’t think I could do it but its surprising how you just forget about drinking after awhile. Keep it up👍

  • @jentaylor9438
    @jentaylor943811 ай бұрын

    Today is my day 1. I will start a new job in 2 weeks and need to have a clear head, I can’t ruin this opportunity x thanks for your videos x

  • @Woto4
    @Woto411 ай бұрын

    I am 48, drank all my life and stopped 8 months ago. It’s good to push yourself to stop of course but it’s also important to realize that’s life without alcohol is another life altogether. It has specific qualities and pros and cons. But most of us boomers who just drank since high school just don’t know how it is. We imagine it, yes. But we don’t know. So it’s very important to keep an open mind and not be in performance mode all the time. Just observe how is the sober life and you will gain strength from it. It’s not always a good idea to power through difficulties and just hoping it will get better. The journey to being sober is also a journey of being kind to oneself.

  • @paulramage7247

    @paulramage7247

    11 ай бұрын

    There's a saying when you habitual drinker ..at the end of the day .. quote' ends up in impending Doom!' always rings caveats when I think of taking a another drink and take on board that quote.take care everyone.paul

  • @gilliand777
    @gilliand777 Жыл бұрын

    this weekend I binge drank so badly I got alcohol poisoning. I put myself in dangerous situations because I don't have an off switch. I am sick of destroying my body. I am going to attempt sobriety. You & Hannahs videos on this topic were extremely comforting, so thank you so much.

  • @magetaaaaaa

    @magetaaaaaa

    Жыл бұрын

    You can definitely do it!

  • @jimenasalinas4110
    @jimenasalinas411010 ай бұрын

    Im sober for 9 days, (was doing a ton of weed and drinking a bunch) cancelling plans with everyone to be able to keep going , feeling depressed, lonely and fatigued but these videos are getting me through

  • @jimenasalinas4110

    @jimenasalinas4110

    10 ай бұрын

    Day 23 without alcohol , been out at the beach rental for 2 weeks, beach has always been about nightly drinking, glorious to wake up hangover free, feeling well rested , smoked herb a bit, made me so tired noticed clearly how it affects me

  • @brentstafford6289
    @brentstafford628911 ай бұрын

    Started sober 4 days ago , I’m terrified for this weekend

  • @rustyobollox2489
    @rustyobollox2489 Жыл бұрын

    The best thing I’ve ever done to help myself and because of it my family was to quit drinking. There are no winners in alcohol abuse,it’s so destructive and harmful.I’ve been sober 421 days as of this morning and I will never go back to those bad times. I deal with my depression with exercise and and getting in to as many projects and hobbies as possible. Anything to keep my mind of slipping. Life is the best now I’m sober and if anyone is struggling then realise you can get sober and there is a life without alcohol. Great video too buddy😀

  • @Daisy_Dobby
    @Daisy_Dobby Жыл бұрын

    My brother is an alcoholic. Living with him was a nightmare. Just thinking about the time gives me a huge anxiety attack.

  • @leah6425
    @leah6425 Жыл бұрын

    I had become a “glass (or two) a night” kind of drinker and your video really made me think about my relationship with alcohol and how it’s truly affecting me. Hannah’s comment about patience with the kids especially stuck with me. I’m not sure if I’m done for good, but I’m definitely taking a break from alcohol. Almost two weeks so far…

  • @brendanthompson2082

    @brendanthompson2082

    Жыл бұрын

    For me it's also about the example I set. I function well, but drinking was like running with a parachute on my back. If I say to my kids "I don't need alcohol, and I can quit." They will always remember that should they ever feel the need. Or maybe they won't start in the first place.

  • @vitkomusic6624

    @vitkomusic6624

    Жыл бұрын

    I was like you. Now i drink every day for 5 years. Soo.. Quit!!

  • @rossthemusicandguitarteacher

    @rossthemusicandguitarteacher

    10 ай бұрын

    This is the boat I am in

  • @cbiscuit1272
    @cbiscuit127211 ай бұрын

    Almost 3 weeks free. Noticed the only reason i liked to golf was mainly it was an excuse to drink. Have been enjoying non alcoholic beers. Better sleep, healthier overall. More productive, positive and better self esteem

  • @yakoubyakoub9315
    @yakoubyakoub9315 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I believe in you too. One month sober today. The best thing I have done in my life - so far.

  • @nich2.0
    @nich2.0 Жыл бұрын

    I am thinking about my relationship with alcohol recently. It has a major effect on my mental health (took me ages to come to terms with this) and also my relationships with people. These videos and the comments makes me feel less alone. I love how your videos and channel is taking a really direct direction. Tackling these subjects on your podcast/YT is great but so fitting. ❤

  • @Quesfire23
    @Quesfire2311 ай бұрын

    I have to stop today, I didn’t want to go to work and felt so low in vibration. A weight of regret felt so heavy over my mind and I came across this video

  • @KING-TJ

    @KING-TJ

    10 ай бұрын

    You can do it bruh trust me...everybody thought I was going to die drinking..now here I am 3yrs sober.

  • @Joysteib
    @Joysteib Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations to you Stef! So happy for you and your family. Your health is worth more than a drink. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @rastaman07101984
    @rastaman07101984 Жыл бұрын

    Approaching day 4, & not giving up this time. Prayers appreciated!!!

  • @Mobsy-bw7yj
    @Mobsy-bw7yj Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing! Same to those commenting - it really makes me feel like there’s a community around me. Almost 5 months in and my life has improved drastically, in every way imaginable. To those just starting - stick with it!! It does get easier!

  • @mondialman
    @mondialman11 ай бұрын

    Never been a huge drinker, but I noticed as I’ve gotten older my body just doesn’t like it. The headaches, the sluggishness, the dehydration, the stomach issues….I’ll pass… I’m 46 now and haven’t had an alcoholic beverage in over a year…I don’t miss it.

  • @mikedee4540
    @mikedee4540 Жыл бұрын

    I have to say on my 5th sober vacation , I am so grateful Leon to you and your work. My life is so in sync now. Many blessings to you sir!! Thank you 🤗

  • @JazzyArtKL
    @JazzyArtKL4 ай бұрын

    I quit drinking last week after one of my mates died of alcoholism. I just snapped out of it. I do traumawork now to find the reason why I drink. I got clarity. I feel good.

  • @oliverlocke6644
    @oliverlocke664411 ай бұрын

    I’ve been not drinking for 4 weeks and 1 day today, and I have done this all by myself without any support from any services or anybody, and I feel so so proud of myself and that’s great!, well done you! for not drinking for 6 months that’s an amazing achievement! ☺️🙌🏻, and that’s honestly where I would like to get too ☺️🙌🏻, baby steps!

  • @mareksv1947

    @mareksv1947

    8 ай бұрын

    First months are the hardest. After 6months it is loot better. Have to remember that you are still addict even when sober. Love for alcohol doesn't change. You only stop crave it. I'm 11months sober and it is crazy how much better I feel mentally and physically. I ain't going back. But i still would like to get drunk, the good times 😂 Even from sip of alcohol my brain starts demanding more and gets hipped up.

  • @leviandrenuet5878
    @leviandrenuet587811 ай бұрын

    I'm 29 years old and I've been drinking around 6-12 pints a week for the past 15 years (excluding the parties, clubs and concerts). Today is day 3. Every single person around me drinks, but I still think I can do it. Wish me luck.

  • @detroittv5282
    @detroittv5282 Жыл бұрын

    Today is my first day. Thank you and Hannah for y’all truth. It helped me realize I got a problem and I’m not alone.

  • @billybigbollox
    @billybigbollox11 ай бұрын

    I never for one minute thought I would never drink alcohol….. now I can’t believe I ever did drink alcohol.

  • @jemmah4723
    @jemmah472311 ай бұрын

    I’m just reading some of the comment about people committing to not drinking. Which is absolutely fantastic. But I feel I need to make a point about safety. If you are drinking a large amount very regularly it is not safe to go cold turkey. Stopping suddenly can lead to seizures, hallucinations and delirium tremens. If you think you may fall into this category please consult with your doctor about how to safely withdraw from alcohol. I wish you well on your journey to sobriety.

  • @1tiananni
    @1tiananni Жыл бұрын

    Lovely video Stef! So happy for you and your family !!! Congratulations 🎉

  • @WeatheredCyclist
    @WeatheredCyclist10 ай бұрын

    I am 235 days W/O alcohol. I have found such comfort and support from people like you. Your story and your support mean so much to me. I honestly do not know if I could continue on this journey without this kind of inspiration. Thank you for being open and thank you for having my back. Please never underestimate your impact on people like me. Thank you and take care.

  • @mikedee4540
    @mikedee45405 ай бұрын

    I’m almost 3 years , you’re spot on. I like to watch videos , in my circles I feel alone at times being around it all the time.

  • @Papi_Cinnamon
    @Papi_Cinnamon11 ай бұрын

    I’m 26 years old and I’ve been trying to quit for sometime but keep relapsing every 3-4 months. I relapsed again last weekend. I have a feeling I’m going to do it this time. Im 6 days in. Let’s do this everyone.

  • @Kinuva
    @Kinuva9 ай бұрын

    Sober for two months, 25 years old, can already spy the slippery slope. Ever since I quit, a burden was lifted off my shoulders and I made my first 10k month from video sponsorship deals. Crazy how quickly things can change by reversing some integrated habits.

  • @3M1IY_
    @3M1IY_4 ай бұрын

    Day 9 and I woke up and realised for past few nights I've been sleeping through and feeling like I slept when I woke up!

  • @Anthony-mt2rm
    @Anthony-mt2rm11 ай бұрын

    I am 11 days sober right now and I only made it to 4 months max so I’m quitting for good again I only say that cause I failed before! But this time feels different like I truly don’t wanna drink anymore so I know I’m truly done in my❤

  • @seasnails4683
    @seasnails4683 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your insights!!! And congrats!

  • @jorgepulidovaladez9418
    @jorgepulidovaladez94185 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this brother . 3 weeks clean today

  • @noturmate2951
    @noturmate2951 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you brother for you making your first video. I am here watching your second video and I really appreciate your videos.

  • @ladylekta
    @ladylekta7 ай бұрын

    Thankyou Stef, feeling alone in this right now. It’s the beginning for me, Thankyou for your encouragement ❤

  • @stevefalk5969
    @stevefalk596911 ай бұрын

    Drinker on the weekends, and it is usually labatts blue light beer. Anywhere from 12 to 20 on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays. Day 2 of a 30 day goal. Last time I quit was for 75 Hard. Good luck to all of you out there.

  • @YakAngling
    @YakAngling4 ай бұрын

    I've battled drinking from the age of 25 to 45 because I found myself living for the weekends and not happy with my choice of work carrier. I would drink through the week to cope with life and binge drink with friends on weekends when possible. At 45 I emotionally knew I was failing in life by my choices and actions from alcohol. At 47 I found my passion for the outdoors to be more true to myself, so I started a tube channel for fishing and camping. I am happy to say that I found myself before loosing everything I had embracing me like my wife and kids to the true friends that were not abusers. I can stay sober for weeks now and choose when and how much I want to drink if I choose to with friends. Life really begins when you understand!

  • @katethegreat5947
    @katethegreat594710 ай бұрын

    43 days here, loving it so far. Not always easy, still drinking an alc free beer most days but still reaping the benefits. Being able to get off track in a convo and then being able to go back to what i was saying is supreme haha. Videos like this one have been so helpful.cheers

  • @aarionrhodman4465
    @aarionrhodman4465 Жыл бұрын

    leaving me in tears. Thank you! I always say I hate the day I ever tasted alcohol. Each day that I live, is a chance to try again! We got this!!

  • @nosvibes9786
    @nosvibes9786 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story my friend. You've motivated quite a few people

  • @markrung8051
    @markrung805111 ай бұрын

    Appreciate the honesty

  • @lifexfashionxbeauty
    @lifexfashionxbeauty Жыл бұрын

    I quit drinking last summer during the holiday & all the musicfestivals to challenge myself and because I didn’t like my relationship with alcohol. At this moment I can easily drink 1 glass and enjoy it and forget about alcohol again without feeling an urge to drink more. This video does however make me excited to quit for a few months again, I think it’s a really healthy thing to do.

  • @timcrumpton206
    @timcrumpton20611 ай бұрын

    I've just stumbled onto your podcast. Thank you. I've been aware of my problem with drink for a long time, I'm 68 years old, and have really cut down to relatively moderate level gradually over recent years. I'm happy to say I'm really motivated to stop now that I'm a grandfather for the first time this week..I keep very fit and eat well. I'm lucky to have a very loving wife and family. So no excuses for me..thanks for having my back! Sobriety here I come..

  • @beefandchicken

    @beefandchicken

    11 ай бұрын

    Congrats Grandpa!! 👍♥️. Good luck.

  • @frankt8079
    @frankt80796 ай бұрын

    Thank you, great video. I’m 44 and started drinking socially in my teens. I’ve used excuses my whole life and because i work and lead a normal life, I tell myself I don’t have a problem. It’s my first day of trying to quit today. Will do my best to beat this.

  • @StarGirl01ish
    @StarGirl01ish10 ай бұрын

    I am starting today. Thanks for sharing your story

  • @kthup
    @kthup10 ай бұрын

    I needed this video! Thanks man

  • @parveenappiagyei194
    @parveenappiagyei1948 ай бұрын

    Day 1! Such positivity in the comments! Great motivational and realistic clip!

  • @carloswithac
    @carloswithac5 ай бұрын

    I quit drinking for five months. I had one drink at Thanksgiving and fell back into it. Today is day two of not drinking. Sleep sucked yesterday, but I know it gets better.

  • @christinevisser350
    @christinevisser35011 ай бұрын

    Alcohol free since 31 Dec 2022, and feeling absolutely fantastic. I do not miss out on any parties, I go and have great fun sipping my water and lime or even the occasional cup of coffee or tea. My friends commented all the time in the beginning, but now they are just OK with it and enjoy the fact that they have a designated driver :) I have no desire to go back to it, I am free!

  • @markg.4246

    @markg.4246

    11 ай бұрын

    If you were a chronic drinker with difficulty quitting, being a "designated driver" is like playing Russian Roulette.

  • @lianidri80
    @lianidri80 Жыл бұрын

    Hi. Thank you for your encouragement. I am starting today. Scared but excited

  • @Ashelinaa
    @Ashelinaa Жыл бұрын

    I love this and love you guys. thank you for your transparency 🫶🏼

  • @munuhekiama3043
    @munuhekiama304311 ай бұрын

    Am so happy to have come across this video! It's my second sober day and I look forward to not getting back

  • @joryiansmith
    @joryiansmith Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this video. I really want to start my journey today.

  • @sikka_ru
    @sikka_ru11 ай бұрын

    Thank you I really really needed this. I’ve been trying to quit drinking for 2 months now, and it’s been going horribly, and it’s hard to tell myself to keep trying and to keep going. I’m gonna try again, so pray for me, I really want off of this drug.

  • @noahros-or6wg
    @noahros-or6wg5 ай бұрын

    Although I’m only 20, alcohol has had such an effect on my life. I’m fortunate enough to have got into a very prestigious uni and It’s only since taking a year out that I’ve noticed how much alcohol affects my mental health. Binge-drinking 4-5 times a week never gave me chance to recover and as silly as it sounds I never blamed it on the drink. Whenever I drink I have the typical hangover, then cravings and then on the third day I become incredibly anxious and feel as though the world is ending. It’s interesting to me because the ‘world-ending’ problems seem to be genuine in the moment, something unrelated to the alcohol, but by the fifth day I feel fine and I can rationalise all of my thoughts and feelings. This is not to say life is perfect but I feel so normal and focused after a week off drinking. I think my issue is after the anxiety disappears… When I feel great I want to go out, dance with friends and ‘enjoy myself’. I tell myself that it’s my imagination, that it has nothing to do with alcohol, that all my friends drink and they are fine. I trick myself to believe that all the depressive after effects are placebo!!! Next minute I’m out again and the cycle renews. I know this is very common, people saying they’ll never drink again and then the following weekend they’re at the pub - but for someone that is so aware why do I keep going back to it? I think it’s because, even writing this sober I still acknowledge that nights out are incredibly fun. I know there are substitutes however nothing seems to compare. I think I need to persevere but it’s so difficult when at my age it’s so easy to facilitate drinking. Also although I can acknowledge that everyday life is so much more enjoyable sober, when I think about the future, there’s something about sobriety that feels so monotonous and depressing. This is something I’ve thought about a lot over 2023 and I’ve already drank quite a lot in January this year. That being said I know I’m on the right path… I’m not sure. I guess it’s just comforting to know that I’m not alone when it comes to the severe stress and sadness alcohol causes (even if on the surface alcohol doesn’t seem to be the problem). I never comment on videos but I’m glad I’ve shared this.

  • @h0lzical
    @h0lzical Жыл бұрын

    Needed this today 😊 thank you

  • @patrickwalker-nolan7617
    @patrickwalker-nolan761711 ай бұрын

    I stopped a while ago, but I like to watch videos encouraging people to understand and end their drinking. Thanks to you and a big cheer from me if you’re trying to stop; keep at it you won’t regret it, oh.. and you’ll have way more money. 😂😂😂

  • @hutts72
    @hutts7211 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your video, inspirational. My journey has just begun - i'm excited for the future!

  • @sb2687
    @sb2687 Жыл бұрын

    I'm starting today. Your videos are inspiring. Will update month to month. 🤞

  • @martinbrophy6898
    @martinbrophy68989 ай бұрын

    Today is 1 week sober after my detox after 17 years of heavy drinking. I'm 33 by the way

  • @lauriegrissom672
    @lauriegrissom672 Жыл бұрын

    8 days AF! Thanks for the inspiring content. Love your channel.

  • @julieinfinite852
    @julieinfinite85211 ай бұрын

    I’ve quit many times but this is my last and finally time. Alcohol has brought so much pain into my life so now i’m 5 days in and hopefully a lifetime to go

  • @smithy0506
    @smithy0506 Жыл бұрын

    I like that there's no bullsh*t u speak facts that are so relatable

  • @hudlim001
    @hudlim00111 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video. I too have been drinking daily and want to quit. I really loved that you said that you loved it. I think a lot of people will just say quit as if its nothing. But its good to hear that there are someone out there that is willing to say that they loved it and still realized that they needed to quit. It has been destroying my life and marriage and has made me a terrible person. That to me is enough to not want to drink again. Its just not worth the few sips that taste good. I watched your previous video too about you saying what would even the point of going out then and I feel the same way. I know that i need to work on finding happiness in something else.

  • @martynbonanza
    @martynbonanza8 ай бұрын

    Lots of what you said resonated so much with me - I took a break in July 2013 after pretty much drinking every single day for 20 years - I was a working dj and music promoter so was constantly surrounded by alcohol, most of it a free rider for me so initially it was difficult and more of a cultural shift than anything else. All that being said after I hit my 3 month target I realised I didn't want to resume drinking as I was enjoying sobriety far more. Ten years on I work out most days rather than drinking most days and am fitter in my 50's than I have ever been... So if I can do it anyone can... 10 years alcohol free and loving life more than ever before.

  • @lisaquick1196
    @lisaquick1196 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! I'm motivated to make today my first day AGAIN! 😅

  • @zeahroela
    @zeahroela10 ай бұрын

    Best video I've seen in 2023 so far! New sub! Cheers! Ps. Never being a heavy drinker. Quit drinking 4 months ago and it is exactly as you described "i don't need that"