Quiet Luxury Style Essentials (Plus Size Edition)

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00:00 Introduction
01:12 What is quiet luxury?
03:55 Some quiet luxury principles.
13:04 Quality is everything.
15:19 Grooming is everything.
16:43 How can you achieve this style aesthetic?
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  • @karenprinz5987
    @karenprinz5987 Жыл бұрын

    I feel like fit is important to the quiet luxury style too. Love that you addressed this style for a plus size! ❤❤

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re most welcome. We are all worthy of feeling like a million bucks! 😉💕

  • @dori9024
    @dori9024 Жыл бұрын

    I am getting so tired of fast, trendy cheap material made fashion. I would love to see you do a video on old money style for Apple shape petite body. Featuring high end quality fashion in natural fibers of cotton, wool, linen and silk. This would be great in helping to guide one on building a curated closet of only the best.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Fantastic idea, Dori. I’ll follow up for sure! 😃💕

  • @indigodande4345

    @indigodande4345

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Oralia_Martinez love your video. I want to do quiet luxury as well but a lot of these pieces come off as preppy. I personally just don’t look or feel good in preppy clothes. I come from a goth raver background. While I’m not running around in white face paint or neon rave anymore - is it possible to do quiet luxury that has more of an alternative / hard edginess to it ? Thanks 🙏

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    2 ай бұрын

    @indigodande4345 Yes! Make sure that what you’re picking up has quality, is minimal but has edge to match your punk/goth style. So maybe accessories with hardware, or that lean more rock/punk mixed with clean, minimal pieces. Also your hair can be an edgy avant- garde style. It’s really all about the contrast between the classic/minimal and hard/edgy in your outfit. And you can have pops of color - a lip, a shoe, a belt, etc.

  • @IAmPhasion

    @IAmPhasion

    24 күн бұрын

    @@indigodande4345 maybe some doc marten boots, get your edgy look from your accessories a nice red lip and some black jeans, or faded wash black gray even skirts and dresses you can definitely keep your goth look and look like quiet wealth

  • @francinebissonrealtor9485
    @francinebissonrealtor94858 ай бұрын

    you come across as a "class act" yourself - I have put weight on over my menopausal years and somehow lost my previous confidence in my own style - I am on a journey back despite my waist size and you are a phenomenal inspiration - I just subscribed

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    8 ай бұрын

    Aww, thank you! 🙈 And welcome! 👋🏼

  • @anilshrivastav7713

    @anilshrivastav7713

    7 ай бұрын

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  • @mcoknits856
    @mcoknits856 Жыл бұрын

    I love this video. My wardrobe is full of Brooks Brothers casual as well as professional styles. I’m so disappointed that they have discontinued their petites as I have many cotton petite blouses that are still in good shape. This video pretty much typifies my style choices.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a bummer. That's the nice thing about a place like Brooks Brothers, though - they're made to last! 😉

  • @janicebelfiore856
    @janicebelfiore8562 ай бұрын

    Oralia does an excellent job of helping women to take pride and love themselves, no matter your size. I myself struggle with weight as an older woman with health issues. Oralia is a breath of fresh air. I dont dress as much like her but have learned some invaluable tips and some self confidence! I cannt afford some of the fashions or accesories but i can shop around for better value and create my own look that i can love!

  • @marymahl4684
    @marymahl468411 ай бұрын

    Love the plaid gray pants with white shirt with blazer! Definitely quiet luxury.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @LauraGilmoreArt
    @LauraGilmoreArt Жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel, and am an instant fan. You really know your stuff and present it so well.

  • @aleshiaharding4578
    @aleshiaharding4578 Жыл бұрын

    This was a great video! Would love to see you do a video on plus size luxury fashion as well, and thoughts on shopping at luxury designers.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    That is an excellent idea and one that I will follow up on! 😉💕

  • @julieschnorenberg5370
    @julieschnorenberg5370 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! That was an excellent video on this subject, Oralia! I love your examples that you wear. Many thanks!

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    So glad you enjoyed it, Julie. I have a capsule wardrobe video coming, too!

  • @amyserna1204
    @amyserna12043 ай бұрын

    I absolutely LOVE you in this style. It is SO clean and beautiful. Dress me, Oralia! ❤️

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!! I have a little something in the works. 😉

  • @oldmama8929
    @oldmama8929 Жыл бұрын

    Old money is not minimalist, it's heritage/tradition driven. Minimalist rarely wear patterns, and can have bold silhouettes. While old money has tweeds, checks, floral and heritage prints in simple, well cut silhouettes. Quiet luxury is new items that are expensive. Old money is having the same items of quality (not necessarily expensive ) that lasts for decades. You can tell quiet luxury from old money by the furniture. If it's new, it's quiet luxury. If it was old and inherited, it's old money.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Good distinctions, thank you for sharing! 😉💕

  • @s.a.4358

    @s.a.4358

    Жыл бұрын

    Also, within Old Money there are also different aesthetics depending on the person, place, season, etc. There is the preppy / academic look, the hunting inspired look, the yachting / boating look for summer especially, what I would call the British colonial look (definitely more colourful as inspired by India), the country lady look, etc.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true!

  • @emerybayblues

    @emerybayblues

    6 ай бұрын

    A lot of these people talking about quiet luxury, old $$ haven't the foggiest idea.

  • @dwandavis3736
    @dwandavis3736 Жыл бұрын

    If you don't like her opinions, don't listen or subscribe. There is no need to be rude and insulting. Find someone whose ideas align with yours. SMH

  • @SHANiECEenj
    @SHANiECEenj6 ай бұрын

    I know alot of view points are shared in this comment section and this is an older video but I appropriate and love this thank you.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    6 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @abryant3000
    @abryant3000 Жыл бұрын

    I REALLY enjoyed this video. I've been a bit overwhelmed with this topic popping up on my feed (both IG and YT) but your explanations were succinct and easy to digest - "Old money isn't looking for show what they have, b/c they've had it for a while. It's nothing 'new' and therefore nothing to show off." That is SO true! Whenever you've had something for a while (or grew up with it) it's luster (not value, just luster) tends to lose its gloss with you. That doesn't mean you don't enjoy it as much, but it's gone from something you covet to something that's now apart of your everyday lifestyle. Big aha moment for me - thank you ma'am!

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re most welcome! 😉

  • @aliciamullaney6634
    @aliciamullaney6634 Жыл бұрын

    Very impressed with your video

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! 😃💕

  • @careya
    @careya Жыл бұрын

    Just found your channel and absolutely love it.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome! Glad you enjoy it! 😃

  • @AnnWright-jb2dw
    @AnnWright-jb2dwАй бұрын

    All very nice looks. A favourite was the white pants. 👍🏻

  • @winnysneece694
    @winnysneece694 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤ Great advice. Thank you

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    So glad you enjoyed it! 💕

  • @latashanicoleboudoirphotog218
    @latashanicoleboudoirphotog218 Жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video. I learned so much! Thank you!

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @moniquefelan556
    @moniquefelan5565 ай бұрын

    Love this thank you ☺️

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    5 ай бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @mcleanroom7997
    @mcleanroom7997 Жыл бұрын

    Great video!

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it

  • @lisa8990
    @lisa899010 ай бұрын

    Hello, I found your channel through The Quiet Poet. Loving your style.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    10 ай бұрын

    Oh thank you!

  • @cdanerg9416
    @cdanerg9416 Жыл бұрын

    Hi. Would you consider doing a piece on shoes for plus sized wonen?

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    With Fall coming, there's going to be a shoe video coming! I do have a summer shoe video, you can watch here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fnVsppOCkqeZmqw.html 😉

  • @jchow5966
    @jchow59665 ай бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    5 ай бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @LauraGilmoreArt
    @LauraGilmoreArt Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! I am so sorry for the late response! 😳

  • @mikebohling4305
    @mikebohling4305 Жыл бұрын

    love this video Oralia/thank you for all of your ideas XXX

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad you enjoyed it!

  • @donnadequire-rios3531
    @donnadequire-rios35316 ай бұрын

    I am so happy I found your channel. New subbie for sure.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for subbing!

  • @Racheeeeek
    @Racheeeeek10 ай бұрын

    Where do you buy belts for larger folk? I've been having a hard time finding belts that fit my waistline.

  • @JustMeB729

    @JustMeB729

    3 ай бұрын

    Plus size stores should have them.

  • @ava-ct4ex

    @ava-ct4ex

    Ай бұрын

    hey try temu , measure your waist

  • @psz1178
    @psz1178 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Oralia, love all of your pictures. I'm planning to buy Gucci belt. Would love to see your Gucci belt in jeans.

  • @kimhinojosa4707
    @kimhinojosa470711 ай бұрын

    I love the outfits you are wearing and apprecuate the kinks. Can you let me know which store carries the black trousers

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    11 ай бұрын

    They're an older pair from Nordstrom and are no longer available. Here's the link to a similar pair bit.ly/43aRzFv 😉

  • @jonispruit8877
    @jonispruit8877 Жыл бұрын

    Agree 💯 ❤

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    So glad you enjoyed it!

  • @makeiasmith4955
    @makeiasmith4955 Жыл бұрын

    Love the link necklace your wearing.... where from?

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry, it's an older necklace from Express. 🤦🏻‍♀️💕

  • @tuesdaysbirdseed
    @tuesdaysbirdseed3 ай бұрын

    I love this video and the tips you gave. I think the one thing that threw me was throwing in a birkin bag after saying we DIDN'T need the generational wealth hahha

  • @louisejgarcia3387
    @louisejgarcia3387 Жыл бұрын

    My lady, love type long sleeve shirt you're wearing in this post. Long sleeve blue stripe, where does you purchase it?

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    I got it from H&M but I thinks it’s sold out. 🙈

  • @cr8389
    @cr838911 ай бұрын

    What do you recommend for vegan purses and belts, I’m vegan and no longer buy animal products. Thanks

  • @stephfrancis7109
    @stephfrancis7109 Жыл бұрын

    Outside of clothes, what do people do now? sell all their designer bags? I love scarves, but I live in Florida and it gets hot. I like the way you explained this. It's very palatable, when others talk about this Quiet Luxury comes across insulting to people who buy logo bags like Channel, LV, Dior, YSL etc. handbags. It's as though you should feel ashamed of owning these bags.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, some bring it across that way. It’s a style choice, really. If you love it, wear it. The joy of how it makes you feel will come through and it’s really all about how you feel about yourself that matters. No one else’s opinion should take that away from you. 😉💕

  • @s.a.4358

    @s.a.4358

    Жыл бұрын

    Just wait 2-3 years and labels will be in fashion again and all these label designer bags will be far more expensive than they are now 😂

  • @ellenscofield5632

    @ellenscofield5632

    3 ай бұрын

    I live in Florida and plan to use my scarves once I receive my Birkin dupe lol. I love colors way too much but I’ll definitely use that aesthetic for my work.

  • @RoseSOak
    @RoseSOak Жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel and I am very open to what your views

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome! 👋🏼

  • @oraliaspahn6186
    @oraliaspahn61869 ай бұрын

    Ha! That’s my name. You and I have the same name!

  • @marygrace9117
    @marygrace9117 Жыл бұрын

    👏🏽🥰💕😊

  • @mina77ism
    @mina77ism Жыл бұрын

    Where do you buy those gorjus pants in your video?!?!

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    I got them from Eloquii. 😉💕

  • @josephinerimmer6888
    @josephinerimmer6888Ай бұрын

    You can never spot an aristocrat in this country by their clothes, particularly men. They tend to wear clothes they’ve had for years ( if they’ve kept their figure ). Very often wearing their father’s blazers and overcoats. Always classic shapes and colours. The ladies of course are a very different thing. Still classic pieces that will not date.

  • @Ingrid0410
    @Ingrid04103 ай бұрын

    I think you would look very pretty in a red dress and dresses and skirts. Just because the classic “old money” style is there, doesn’t mean everyone looks good in it Oralia. Trousers, button downs are not attractive on plus sizes. Beautiful draping pants and tops are.

  • @laulutar

    @laulutar

    Ай бұрын

    @@Ingrid0410 I think it depends on a person's build, not just their size. I wear a US size 20 or 22, and if the shapes are right (for my frame) trousers and button downs can work.

  • @emerybayblues
    @emerybayblues6 ай бұрын

    That big honking V on your belt at 5:30 is the antitheses of quiet luxury.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    6 ай бұрын

    True, but I really love the quality of it, and we all should stay true to what makes us happy in our personal style. In essence, I know the rule and have chosen to break it. 😉

  • @janekay2001
    @janekay2001 Жыл бұрын

    be careful that your stripes dont look like pjs

  • @susandrydenhenderson6234
    @susandrydenhenderson623414 күн бұрын

    It’s more difficult for an American to understand quiet luxury or where it is traditionally found. British aristocracy have always thought it wrong to waste and foolish to flaunt wealth. They shop once a season largely only for that which needs replaced. They buy very well made clothes of quality fabrics so that they last for decades. They wear neutrals so that they get their wear from them, nobody notices you wore those same few outfits last year. It’s easy to dress and travel and be suitable for all occasions. The saved money accumulates. Other intelligent wealthy people and others see the wisdom and visual appeal in this approach.

  • @mjw1111
    @mjw1111 Жыл бұрын

    So whyte people in classic clothes,

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    Not quite. Classic style suits everyone, regardless of race or ethnic background. 😉💕

  • @nickimillennium
    @nickimillennium10 ай бұрын

    I say look the best that you can but you will never look chic being overweight, the two just don't go together. Hair, skin, teeth and physique are the basic components of looking high class. As a sidenote (not trying to be rude or funny) but it's important to have impeccable oral hygiene (at least in the US) and you should have your teeth cleaned and tartar removed on your front teeth; then keep up a strict flossing regimen to keep it from coming back. Problematic hygiene/grooming are a tell tale sign of being lower class. Lots of upper class girls have a grunge/coachella aesthetic but their hair, highlights, skin and oral care will still be on point.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow. I'm glad you at least value good oral hygiene...

  • @christinastephenson356

    @christinastephenson356

    6 ай бұрын

    You know what another tell-tale sign of being lower class is? Being rude and insulting.

  • @ellenscofield5632

    @ellenscofield5632

    3 ай бұрын

    Ignore the trolls & haters. I think anyone can look chic as long as the fit & proportions match the individual.

  • @juliarodgers5795

    @juliarodgers5795

    24 күн бұрын

    @@nickimillennium This isn’t your channel…

  • @DaisyChain3339.
    @DaisyChain3339.10 ай бұрын

    Huh? There hasn't been in the history of this look and the world where this size is shown as 'luxury'. Get a diet, then new clothes.

  • @annamuller51
    @annamuller51 Жыл бұрын

    Obesity is considered lower class! Old money is never overweight. So before you judge new money people for being flashy, you might take a look in your fridge.

  • @Oralia_Martinez

    @Oralia_Martinez

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s a bit rough, don’t you think? Everyone deserves to look and feel elegant, beautiful, and expensive, regardless of size.

  • @s.a.4358

    @s.a.4358

    Жыл бұрын

    Clearly you do not know history. Obsession with being thin is a modern thing and was not always considered desirable. Just look at painting by the Old Masters. Secondly, Oralia is talking about a fashion aesthetic here. Nobody is going to think you are old money just because you wear a blazer. Especially not with that attitude. Rudeness is considered lower class. Old money is never rude or disrespectful

  • @marygrace9117

    @marygrace9117

    Жыл бұрын

    Your rude, clearly common with no manners.

  • @S0ngsyngr

    @S0ngsyngr

    Жыл бұрын

    Also hopefully in these times we recognize that people are individuals who not only can look different but also can have health issues. One’s weight is not always a ‘choice.’ sometimes it is a result of a health condition.

  • @rachela3066

    @rachela3066

    Жыл бұрын

    Manners are also far classier than rudeness but here you are…

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