Its sad he has to point out that he has the right not to answer questions, especially personal ones

@MM-dq2pi

5 жыл бұрын

Activist burn out is real. For someone in the public eye, they become an automatic activist for their community, whether they want to or not. Obviously Queer Eye is more overt than other shows, and it does have a specific message, and an important one. The guys knew what something of what they were getting into. And for people like Tan and Antoni especially, who are shy and not as 'out there' as the others, it was a big brace decision to jump on board the Queer Eye Train. But the sexuality of these guys is just one part of them, and to only concentrate on that is to ignore their abundant gifts, talents and value. If you're an ally, as I am, take it upon yourself to educate others, answer question, and take some of the burden off minority groups.

@Madeeha_shinkoko

5 жыл бұрын

@@MM-dq2pi omg the realest thing I've heard in a while. I was getting so irritated at how if someone belonged to the LGBT+ , they're expected to be aware about every little thing about the community and be expressive of their sexuality even if they don't want to. People often just focus on their sexuality and nothing else. But recently when Lilly Singh came out as bi, alot of people, just because they weren't fond of her, resorted to say things like nobody cares anymore, this isn't 2017 and whatnot and that to me is just appalling. Like you supported a group of people that had suffered a history of dehumanisation and discrimination very intensely and then when they were getting a bit of representation, you just disregarded everything? Idk what to call it, sjw or whatever, but that's just amazing to me!

@MM-dq2pi

5 жыл бұрын

He is there to give fashion advice, not lay out his whole life story.

@ChristianHayes

5 жыл бұрын

@@leoprg5330 He has no responsibility to do any of those things. Sure, I'm sure he expects these questions, but he owes no one an explanation.

@NewMadrid01

4 жыл бұрын

Leon PRG That’s extremely ignorant.

I honestly feel like people don't consider Tan's situation very well. His experience as a gay person is not the same as someone else experiences for loads of reasons and one of them is because he is POC and Muslim. He's already under a lot of pressure and to tell him that, "He isn't loud enough" or "he should give those people his time of day" kinda excludes those other parts of him. He's already being looked upon and scrutinized for being a POC and Muslim. Try to consider where he is coming from in terms of representation and having to work twice as hard for little credit. Anyway, he's amazing and that was an awesome answer

@StimuliKing

5 жыл бұрын

Why are you linking the fact that he's Muslim to so much pressure? All religions address hs anyways.

@DS-lj4ud

5 жыл бұрын

Man of steel while I agree that most religions have a problem with lgbtq+ I think everyone mostly links this to Islam for many reasons. But I think that it’s mostly linked to the cultures of middle eastern and south Asian countries. There are a lot of beautiful aspects of the cultures there, but one thing that is not as good is their fear of “what will everyone say”? They have this fear that homosexuality, unholy matrimony etc will bring shame on their families. In those countries status, and reputation is very important. I don’t think that the families would have such a big problem if it weren’t for the irrational fears that is ingrained in those countries. It is also the extremely tight family bonds that is found there that can be a curse or a blessing. It’s a curse when someone is “different” and puts their reputation at risk and so everyone might get ostracised completely That said, there are also other religions in those regions that are very religious like the Christians and coming out is also a big deal there. I mean Russia and the USA both have problems with accepting lgbtq. If I’m correct, there is still a lot gay conversion therapy going on in the USA. This is my take on it at least

@StimuliKing

5 жыл бұрын

@@DS-lj4ud Exactly!!

@azzyb6165

5 жыл бұрын

It would be absolutely difficult following a religion in which the main sacred text implores you to kill, crucify, decapitate the limbs of and tax at 20% Jews, Christians, polytheists, gays and pretty much anyone that isn't Muslim. The reason he doesn't want to talk about it is because the values of Mohammed and the Quran are completely against everything gay liberal culture and basic humanity represents. I say this as someone who has read the Quran cover to cover and we won't ever be fully able to address this shit until we all start calling a spade a spade and call out the Quran as being the OG Mein Kampf disguised as religion.

@DS-lj4ud

5 жыл бұрын

Jon-Paul Brookman oh damn I want to have a discussion with you someday

Why is it that a gay person who becomes well known is pressured to become political and have to share their private thoughts or opinions too? I wish the activist types would stop thinking that all have to be strident zealots 24/7. Don't you realise that gentle, genuine, spiritual and caring gay folks also help wave the gay flag too. They lead by example and that message is way more powerful in the long run.

@JediNiyte

4 жыл бұрын

You are right on the money, Kam!

@teacupglitterinfested1525

4 жыл бұрын

Kam I’m not sure why that is to answer your question. But yes you are very true

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Then don't be in Islam. Simple.

@janokjaran

3 жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 im conservative muslim, but i disagre with you. Faith is personal choice, i might be sinned, a lot. But i dont want that to make me leave islam.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@@janokjaran Well, that depends on the sin. If you're one person that has a sexuality that contradicts you'refaith, it's a real problem.

His voice breaking hurts me

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Doesn't for me, that's a contradiction.

Tan is so right, he doesn't need to address issues that affect his community if he doesn't want to. At times we expect every public figure that falls in these minority spaces to be the spoke's person/ ambassador and that's not right. It should be up to the person to decide if they want to take a stance or not, not us. Being in his position as a non public figure is difficult, now imagine having to live that life and represent more people. That's hard! If the rest of the world wants to know more about a specific community they should take it upon themselves to educate themselves, not hold anyone accountable for not advocating.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

At the same time sinning, mhm.

i loved the part when karamo held him to help him calm his nerves,, it's so important to have supportive friends like that

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

ew

@junbh2

2 жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 If you can't even handle a friend putting a hand on your elbow when you're upset, then I'm sorry, that's sad that you don't have friends you feel comfortable with.

@cxarhomell5867

2 жыл бұрын

@@junbh2 It's not about that part with the elbow, it's about the man being apart of the lgbt. That's the part I'm not comfortable with. Only heterosexuality in matrimony and romantic relationships. I have many friends who I'm comfortable with.

@ganeevgill5286

Жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 holy shit bro ur a gay hating mf oh my gawd ur sad ur really sad. ur EVERYWHERE.

I'm sad about his tears cause I feel like they kinda forced him talking about it.... he's not confortable with the subject, give him some time or leave him alone.

@teacupglitterinfested1525

4 жыл бұрын

volubilis Iz I didn’t even know what the question even was

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Bro, he is a gay muslim, what did he expect lmao

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@muzaffar rojava Who said I was?

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@muzaffar rojava Well, not precisely. You see, the moment gay and muslim goes together in the same sentence, you know many muslims would jump onto that, not just me. "lOl"

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@muzaffar rojava No, I don't lol. I'm in this wider group that I'm in, it's classified on what it is, but it exists. Also, if I'm wasting my time, then my time is used greatly for this. Also, I'm not gay, I'm far from being gay lol. I'm willing to get a beautiful girl in the future, and hopefully have a family, have kids, teach them about the correct way of Islam. I will never come out, because I am straight.

I love you, Tan. Thank you for being exactly who you are.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, and not to talk about brainwashed liberal muslims every 2 minutes.

@cornpop7863

2 жыл бұрын

He probably could never return to any Middle East country unless he wants his life to be in danger

@Ozil129

Жыл бұрын

Even You Don't Like hime if u love hime u should have to tell him a trueth but u lying come back to nature that's fucking bulshit

ohhhh i’m a (closeted) lgbtq+ muslim as well and this video made me CRY because i understand him and how he’s feeling so well. edit: this seemed to have gotten a bit of attention, just wanted to say that you are loved and you are valid, no matter your orientation or faith.

@moldypizza

5 жыл бұрын

ines lime I really don’t mean to offend, but can I ask why you chose to remain Muslim when Islam is so indisputably anti-gay? It’s horrible view of gay people (and women among others) is why I left the religion. We can jump over hoops and try to ignore those hateful verses, but it doesn’t matter because people are still getting oppressed because of them.

@ineslime3929

5 жыл бұрын

moldypizza it’s not offensive at all! i’ve questioned my own faith multiple times in my life. i will defend muslims from islamophobes until the day i die, but my own personal belief in it has often been questioned by my own self. you’re right in that islam does have a reputation for being horribly sexist and homophobic. it is not all of islam, at the end of the day it is still supposed to be at its core a religion of peace, but there are many instances in islamic culture disgust me. however, my family is still very strict and leaving the religion right now (or worse, coming out to them) would be a death sentence.

@moldypizza

5 жыл бұрын

ines lime It appears that we’re very much on the same page! I am lucky to have pretty liberal Muslim parents. I came out to them as an atheist and they berated me for a while of course, but they love and understand me now. I still feel like the black sheep of the family, but I’m much happier now, able to be myself. Definitely do NOT come out if there’s any chance it will put your life in danger. I am very sorry you are in that situation, and I hope you’re able to get out soon. I think we need to talk about ex-Muslims in situations that we can in order to normalize apostasy. I also agree that no matter what your affiliation, it is crucial to fight anti-Muslim bigotry-especially these days when it is so rampant. Keep fighting the good fight and stay safe, Ines! Much love to you.

@pussyeater69

5 жыл бұрын

I'm with you. I come from a Muslim family. I'm not religious. I hate a lot about Islam but not all of it is bad or regressive. I questioned myself, Do I exclude it from me and move on? And I was like no. I won't be religious and shit but these are my people who I have so much in common with. We need to modernize the fuck up. And I'd rather do it by being a part of the community. You know, I could be an Aziz Ansari and be like not my problem. Or I could be a Tan or a Hasan and uplift the whole community.

@ess8057

5 жыл бұрын

@@moldypizza you cannot just leave a religion, because it's not only the religion you might leave behind, you could easily end up losing your family, friends, the people you grew up with, literally everything you know and the foundation to your existence, might have been easy for you but it definitely isn't for a lot of people

When Tan cried, it literally broke my heart. He’s very good at holding things in, so you can really tell when things are really truly hurting him.

@mily87ful

2 жыл бұрын

He has class. They need to leave him alone

@huzaifaafridi3065

2 жыл бұрын

No we hold our religion dearly. We do not accept things like this. We will not change our ways for anyone

Honestly just for Tan to exist on TV as a gay muslim is important. I know many friends of mine who could gain some courage from that to just keep on. It's tough being lgbtqia+ in the muslim community I dont blame him.

@ronaldmcdonald4313

4 жыл бұрын

Christopher Thakuri TRUTH. There’s no need to stay in a religious prison thinking. Be free and leave that disgusting religion behind.

@gakartatarta9339

3 жыл бұрын

Yea you can't be a gay and a muslim in the same time

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

That's because its haram..

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-ng7ri8qj9k And islam clearly says that it is haram.

@yahyarazi5597

3 жыл бұрын

Islam, Christianity, and Judaism all condemn homosexuality. Stop making everything okay ffs

Thank you so much for sharing this with the world. Huge love to you Tan xxxxxx

Let's all come together and protect this strong little baby . Let us all send him love he deserves it

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

No, hw doesn't get to speak on behalf of islam like that.

He did a great job, and I know it must not be easy. But damn he looking cute and smart doing it‼️

@MM-dq2pi

5 жыл бұрын

and so smol and cute

@imnotcryingimjustdroolingf354

5 жыл бұрын

Mike Campbell back off he mine

@MM-dq2pi

5 жыл бұрын

I was here first!

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

This is haram.

@toomuchmate

3 жыл бұрын

Y’all fucking stoopid rn being gay in Islam is forbidden, look at the story of lut, ya Allah this life is just 🤮

I love this show so much - it's changed me in so many ways. These guys are so real and down to earth - I just love them. ♥

I am so proud of all of them! It must be so hard for them, I can not even imagine. And the grace that Tan carries with him, is just spectacular!

@cornpop7863

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think you realize to a Muslim that is Haram..... This would be the equivalency of being Jewish and loving Hitler....

Thank you Tan for these words. You are so worthy and I love to see you in Interviews. You have an amazing energy.

Tan is a beautiful human. He is a sweet man and the kind of person I would be proud to call a friend! Hell, I'd be proud to call the whole group friends! They are all so genuine and that can be difficult to find. When and if you do then cherish them!❤❤

@gustofzephyr947

5 жыл бұрын

Tan is actually short for Tanweer, the Arabic word for enlightenment.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao no, he is a contradiction.

what a beautiful human being.

@marianafernandez8731

5 жыл бұрын

him saying thank you after is just beautiful

@jillhoskins9966

5 жыл бұрын

No doubt about that!!

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

More like a contradiction.

Love love love this 💕

pansexual muslim here, and i just know i cant and will never come out to my friends nor family for the rest of my life.. i did talk about this to my online friends i trusted so much but at the end of the day they'd ask "why dont you just get out of that house and be free??" and its tiring to answer such questions because my country is judgy af towards LGBTQ+ community, and we also have to consider about our own culture as well. if i had a penny for every time i tell people that "my sin is my own problem with god" i'd be richer than oprah lol im so fuckin proud for Tan for representing us out there, and to know there's someone could be free from the pain of religion and living the best version of themselves, makes me so happy and will pray (ironically) and wish for their ultimate happiness.

@safiyyahesat8313

5 жыл бұрын

I really hope everything works out for you ❤️❤️

@Kikua1612

5 жыл бұрын

From one pansexual to another, I will never know your struggle, I’ve been quite lucky in my circumstances and I really hope things become easier for you one way or another. Just know that I wish you all the luck, love and happiness in the world.

@neyiryldz8850

4 жыл бұрын

As a lesbian muslim I completely understand you struggle and I will pray for you , me and everyone who needs it wheter be muslim or not.Hope you will find yourself in better circumstances .

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@@neyiryldz8850 How are you a lesbian muslim? Explain.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Dee, you mind explaining how you're a muslim still?

You really should listen to the episode of JVN's podcast that he's referring to, it's called Who Are You Tan? episode #59. Basically his life story

So brave.. well done man. Isn't it weird that people automatically want you to stop being religious just because you're part of the lgbtqa+ community? Like, I'm a muslim, a hijabi, and still I should be able to practice whatever I want and not be considered a "fake gay" or whatever. Just because clerics of a religion, over the years, have had wrong beliefs about homosexuality or whatever doesn't mean it must be what God has thought or thinks. I refuse to leave my religion for my sexuality, because some fool men accredited something to God. I get to and want to keep both. So from now on I don't think me, Tan France, or any other person should be asked about the conflict between their religion and their sexuality. It's disrespectful. Stop it.

@CHPetMom

5 жыл бұрын

You do you! Only thing I want to mention is that I hope you do everything to stay safe. I hope you live somewhere where being both Muslim and a part of the LGBTQA+ community is not an automatic death sentence. Hugs and blessings from a straight Pagan woman! Nice to meet you!

@Shirinx93

5 жыл бұрын

@Derpy I said what I said as a Ph.D law graduate in Iran, we DEEPLY study sharia and fiqh. Nothing is clear. But I'd rather not explain complex stuff to someone who feels okay to just hate-comment on youtube videos from behind a computer like a coward. Have a good day.

@Shirinx93

5 жыл бұрын

@@CHPetMom Thank you for your nice comment lady. Hugs back to you! Well in Iran, on paper, death sentence is a thing. In reality, we're all just doing what we want to do. Our government is so deep in financial/economical shit, to care about people's sexualities. Whatever else you might hear of people being poisoned or killed is just media propaganda! :)

@pinkpantherforever

5 жыл бұрын

You're amazing. Thank you! I'm so happy to see a Muslim from the lgbtqa+ community who refuses to leave Islam just because some clerics criminalised everything but heterosexuality. They don't speak for anybody but themselves. Much respect to you!

@MuR1017

5 жыл бұрын

@@Shirinx93 ILY and your comment so much! I'm a bi muslim woman and bout to graduate my law degree :D feeling a kinship with you right now!!! :')

Yes Tan! As a “moderate” Muslim, I am so proud to hear your story and so proud to have you representing your truth.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Takfir.

@arolemaprarath3248

2 жыл бұрын

Leaving Islam is the best decision I've ever done. Moderate Islamism is a myth. Islam makes no sense whatsoever.

@duchessoftheprairie

Жыл бұрын

@Jude Who have the rights to tell what they are or they aren't? Mind your own damn bussiness.

@hamza1947

Жыл бұрын

'moderate'....lolz.

being a bi muslim girl myself his internal struggles hit close to my heart. i understand tan's hesitancy in speaking out and trying to find a safe space to speak out. being in a super, super conservative country the public's main response to lgbtq+ community is "well you're not saying anything back so it's your fault that the queer community in this country is silenced!" it's SO FUCKING DIFFICULT to speak up when you're raised in a country that is majority muslim, majority asian still with a collectivist mindset. there is almost zero safe space for you to fully express yourself. once you speak up, you're forcing yourself out of the closet and whether you like it or not, you're putting a distance between yourself and the community. and in a collectivist community, you're either following WITH them or against them. you can't be different AND still exist within a community.

@duchessoftheprairie

Жыл бұрын

SAME 💯💯💯

@m4n4h1l

Жыл бұрын

HEYY ME TOO lol it's so painful i'm laughing through the pain i hope you're doing better, friend

@nizarharzell5953

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

I really love Tan and I cried with him when his tears came :( he's such a kind person and the way some people are treating him is just so unfair. I love that he got so much applause for this

im a bi pakistani girl and I couldnt feel prouder

@amalnasser4118

4 жыл бұрын

Fantastic graphics some of us realize that the scripture is very loosely translated and the homophobia in Islam stems from a cultural stand point of severe restrictive practices. She should never be ashamed of her sexuality and chooses to practice the faith in her own way where she sees fits.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@@amalnasser4118 Islam has strict rules.

@mariumahmad3355

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone is a sinner. Don’t preach ppl only god knows. If have nothing say be silent and work on ur self.

We love you tan ❤️❤️ just you being unapologetically you means so much for us brown LGBTQ, thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

Absolutely love Tan, and the rest of the Fab Five. Full respect to you brother for your courage and honesty.

I am brown, gay Muslim I can feel the pain

@potato0269

3 жыл бұрын

you cant control the way you feel but you can control ur actions, ik it must be hard, but this world is a struggle, the next life will be a better one for us Inshaallah

@moiz-06

3 жыл бұрын

@@potato0269 inshallah

@freemoneycash664

Жыл бұрын

@@moiz-06 I hope allah guides you on the right path

Good for you Tan! People have forgotten that we struggled only 20 years ago with the same issue.

I really fell in love with queer eye because of Tan- because I didn’t see a gay (Pakistani) man , I saw a fun , loving , honest and very good looking may I add human and that’s what made me love the show . I love him for him gay or straight it’s his character .

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Say that in Saudi arabia.

proud to share a Pakistani ethnicity with you

@kcrown364

3 жыл бұрын

Hey

Absolutely LOVE Tan

Ok random as heck but anyone know where i can get tan's shirt ???

I’m so happy and proud of him. Its hard to talk about something you’ve been told to be quiet about all your life

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

No, this is haram

@sadekahmed7278

3 жыл бұрын

Çem Sultan thanks...I’m still proud of him👋🏽

@EscargoTouChaud

3 жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 You're being haram too for not being compassionate and accept differences.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@@sadekahmed7278 Then that is embarrassing and still controversial in Islam.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@@EscargoTouChaud Accept differences that are offensive to Islam? You can be different, just not anything that goes against the Islamic principles and its laws.

just Tan being out there helps. he is loud enough. there were few role models out there for us brown people, but thanks to him i feel valid and seen. bless him

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

No.

So much love and respect for this wonderful human being! He spoke beautifully and with honesty. I'm so sorry he had to answer such questions as he's clearly doing the best he can and being in the public eye made him even more "easy" to attack and criticize. I do admire his courage and strength. Thank you Tan for being yourself 💕 we appreciate you

jvn's outfit is a mood so is fucking tan's bow ugh I love these guys so much

So much love for you Tan 💗 Those who criticize may never understand how hard it is to speak let alone speak loudly. You are a beautiful beautiful man. Love that you're just you and that's what people need to see. That they can be their own sarcastic sweary selves and they are worthy of love just as they are. 💗💗💗

I adore and appreciate you so much, tan

as a fellow brown person I totally get this.

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

This sounds satire as hell.

@cxarhomell5867

2 жыл бұрын

@@myguyhasrizz_9210 No, never. The Quran and the Bible have their restrictions on them and their actions. Genesis, Leviticus and Lot, respectively.

@fe4r751

2 жыл бұрын

@@myguyhasrizz_9210 no he doesn’t

@ganeevgill5286

Жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 wahh wahh wahh holy shit ur EVERYWHERE 😭 imagine being such a useless fuck u comment on soo many posts about how much ur scared and “uncomfortable” around gay ppl. ur definitely secretly gay. guys i found a self hating gay!

@ganeevgill5286

Жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 heterosexual relationships r not prohibited u dumb fuck 💀💀 only marriage is allowed anything outside of that is a sin.

i am a muslim and a firm and passionate ally for the LGBTQ+ community. DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO AND GET THAT BREAD LOVES 🗣🗣

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

Thats takfir.

@animalrecapped

Жыл бұрын

You cant be muslim and lgbtq at same time. You can say you follow your desires and you have nothing with islam that makes more sense

As a Muslim and as a Pakistani, i honestly appreciate Tan so fucking much. Baby you make all of us proud. And if they can’t accept you for your true self honestly it’s their loss. You’re an icon and an inspiration. Don’t comprise on living your life just to please others. “You’re doing amazing sweetie”

@ELIAB424

3 жыл бұрын

YEAH IN A NONE MUSLIM COUNTRY

@Lucky-nb3oc

3 жыл бұрын

Can u be lgbtq and a muslim

@nashnasheeta

3 жыл бұрын

​@@Lucky-nb3oc yes u can be

@zakiuddinmohammad7387

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lucky-nb3oc no the hell you can't. it is prohibited. idk who told @akira fudo that you can be gay or lgbtq

@sragoth5081

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lucky-nb3oc no it is prohibited in Islam.

Stay strong Tan!!!!

❤️❤️❤️You can hear how hard it's from his voice

Tan much love from A pakistani women. Stay as you are ! you are a beautiful soul!

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

No, this is haram, a contradiction to Islam!

@sammcclaim752

2 жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 There are a lot of gay people in Saudi Arabia

@cxarhomell5867

2 жыл бұрын

@@sammcclaim752 No, there isn't. If anything they either left or are imprisoned. Don't believe what those corporations always say, but stick to primary sources when they say they are scarce.

@moeezawan2329

2 жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 lying is Haram yet you do it

@cxarhomell5867

2 жыл бұрын

@@moeezawan2329 How do I lie? In Saudi Arabia, you can get lashed, imprisoned, or even killed for this. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_Saudi_Arabia

I love Tan so much💗

Y'ALL NEED TO STOP MAKING ME CRY!

@headlights4395

4 жыл бұрын

y'all

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

stop

@marianafernandez8731

3 жыл бұрын

@@headlights4395 lol ooops

Youre so great Tan !!!!!

i love his shirt does anyone know where it is from?

The watch of seeing from Tan being all sad and then he starts to be himself again it’s like “yay baby Tan there he is@

I love you Tan. You are wonderful the way you are

I adore Tan soooooo much

I love you, Tan 😢😘

Tan, you are the person that me and my wife love the most. You're the realest person on that show. Thank you for just trying to be a good man instead of another pundit in the LGBT ranks.

Great

Thank you for being my representation

ahhh this hurts

❤❤❤

HE IS AMAZING And people who criticise just have no idea what he and also his family are living

Who loves his shirt ? I do 🤩

@aliheroes9426

3 жыл бұрын

I hate this t shirt 🤬🤬

@santanukumarmahalik3286

3 жыл бұрын

@@aliheroes9426 whyyyyy 😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😒😒😒😒😒😒

@santanukumarmahalik3286

3 жыл бұрын

@@aliheroes9426 you don't have an eye for beauty and aesthetics then 🤣🤣😑

@aliheroes9426

3 жыл бұрын

@@santanukumarmahalik3286 Are you seriously man?😑😑

@santanukumarmahalik3286

3 жыл бұрын

@@aliheroes9426 well if u don't like such videos why do u see them ? 🙄🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

As a straight Muslim I've always felt so bad for the struggles of gay muslims out there who have to hide or be ashamed of who they are. Have hope in the fact that you can have a Quranic interpretation of homosexuality not being sinful and that God wouldn't make you one way and then tell you not to be like that. For further information on this topic I suggest looking at organisations like Muslims for Progressive Values and Quranists online.

@AA123TD

5 жыл бұрын

The Quran states that Allah destroyed the city and people of Lut because of homosexuality. It is very clear about it. I am an asexual Muslim. I still carry on with my married life. There is more to life than sex and it is the homosexual tendencies that are a test for them in this world. Just like it is a test for a married person to desire/love someone else. They sacrifice their selfish desires for the sake of the family/community. Gay people do not have a monopoly on sex life issues. Also to think that homosexuality will not harm anyone, I beg to differ. The shift in western society regarding embracing homosexuals will change society as a whole. Most gay couples do not have children. They work for themselves with 2 incomes, many high paying. There is a gentrification that happens where a lot of gay people live. Less children will be born or women will start selling their uterus. This will raise the costs of items because there will be less sold. Supply and demand. Many heterosexual couples with children will begin to be pushed out of areas because they can't afford to live in locations where many gay people live. San Francisco, D.C., Manhattan, uptown Dallas, Rhode Island and Boston. Heterosexuals will opt out of having children for financial reasons, population decline, civilization declines. The foundation of society is the family. This sudden shift in society will affect everyone.

@Hoppelpinguin

5 жыл бұрын

​@@AA123TD Many gay couples would LOVE to have children (Tan for example said he wants six), but it's much harder for them and way more expensive. In a lot of countries they aren't even allowed to adopt, even though many would want to. If you want children or not, has nothing to do with sexuality. On top of that, the planet is pretty darn overpopulated to a point where to population is growing so fast, that we have to worry about the global food supply. Do you know how many orphans there are? A lack of children is not the problem here. As asexuals we belong to the LGBT community too, but that does not mean you understand what you're talking about. So you married someone of the opposite sex and sleep with them less than another person would. Big deal. But for a gay person to be in a relationship like that would be torture. And for what? Words in a book? I'd much rather be the child of a happy/content gay couple, than a "straight" couple with one of my parents hating the life they have to lead. I've lived in several gentrified areas and the absolute majority of people there were middle-aged people with high-paying jobs, young professionals and young families. Also...even in cities with a high gay population, the percentage almost never reaches 5%. This is the 21st century. If you want to justify your hatred, you have to work harder.

@almostafa4725

3 жыл бұрын

Hoppelpinguin The planet is not overpopulated, this is an absolute myth.

I am a Pakistani Muslim. Im not part of the lgbtq+ or at least I dont think so. I catch myself asking myself if I am sometimes but I keep... ignoring it? What I actually wanted to say was that people who hate against lgbtq; it not your business. Its that persons own journey or business with Allah and you hating on others and making them feel bad is also against Islam. I know what its like to like someone you aren't supposed to and it hurts, so please stop spreading hate. They are still Muslim and you are no one to tell them otherwise.

Tan is great, simply great.

Who else was thinking “OH NO TAN DONT CRY” and basically wanted to stop what you were doing to go hug this dear boy???

@teacupglitterinfested1525

4 жыл бұрын

1:56 YAAASSS Karamo much love

The dude so handsome and smart and humble... (enters someone: hi sisterss!)

He sounds a lot like this gay guy from my class at uni; I just noticed the gay speech thing might be real lol. My uni is in UK also.

We love you King 🙏🏾🤎👑

Very brave man

aww tan :( its not your responsibility to shoulder everyones voices

i fucking love tan so much

I don't get why people like aks him personal questions... Like he has every right of being privet, being a Muslim and a poc, it's very hard..I am an Indian and we have legalized homosexuality but still in most of the parts of India people think it as a disease....this thing are considered a taboo in South Asian communities 🤦 he is doing so well.. I am an Indian but still very proud of him.. his works will definitely give hope to many LGBTQ Pakistani and South Asian in general..❤️❤️ stay strong

My parents are Jehovah witnesses and I'm bisexual and they kinda know I think but we don't talk bout it it's very rough but it does get better just be u

@ayesha8809

5 жыл бұрын

You look really young...I hope you love yourself and know that you're enough...they might accept you they might not...you're still worthy

@anabelleb9919

5 жыл бұрын

Ayesha C I'm 19 actually haha just hsve a baby face

@ayesha8809

5 жыл бұрын

@@anabelleb9919 that is supeeeeer young and babyface means you'll always look youthful.

I'm a Muslim gay as well..... it's so hard not doing anything like be religious Muslim and be gay too

@ssssSTopmotion

3 жыл бұрын

What?

@ssssSTopmotion

3 жыл бұрын

Do you do "gay" stuff?

I love you

i understand him so deeply

I like Tan very much...!!

Tan is all that

love to you from your muslim sistah Tan

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

That's just wrong.

I'm a convert, and I see so much hate from a religion that's supposed to be peaceful.

The rules of homosexuality in Islam is clear. We can't make something Haram, and turn it into something Halal. The whole point of Islam is fighting the Nafs (the self). The second you disagree, you have left the struggle and submission. I'm a human, I have desires, and I don't act on them for the sake of Allah. And yeah no one said you're not equal to any other man on earth, but there are different levels of Iman. When a girl walks up to me and say hey you're cute can I have your number? It's not easy saying no sorry this is not right, but I do it to fight my own desires. Some people's struggles are harder than others, but believing in Allah is believing Allah will never give you a task you cannot handle and/or praying he makes it easier on us.

Je l'aime

I was aware of the homophobia in Muslim communities, but I did not understand just how different life is in a conservative household, even for someone who was born in the UK. And of course, you wouldn't want to reject your family for having certain beliefs, and you don't want them to reject you either.

I didn't know he was Muslim! 😅

Ok..but am more curious how he is sitting though....ok got it at end..

We heard u Tan..we love and support u..u are an inspiration to all..teach the bigots..educate the bigots with one makeover at a time..insyaallah with love and education..there will be changed

What is mentioned concerning these actions in the Qur’aan and Sunnah: A - Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And (remember) Loot (Lot), when he said to his people: ‘Do you commit the worst sin such as none preceding you has committed in the ‘Aalameen (mankind and jinn)? Verily, you practise your lusts on men instead of women. Nay, but you are a people transgressing beyond bounds (by committing great sins)’” [al-A’raaf 7:80-81] B - “Verily, We sent against them a violent storm of stones (which destroyed them all), except the family of Loot (Lot), them We saved in the last hour of the night” [al-Qamar 54:34 - interpretation of the meaning] C - “And (remember) Loot (Lot), when he said to his people: ‘Do you commit the worst sin such as none preceding you has committed in the ‘Aalameen (mankind and jinn)?” [al-A’raaf 7:80 - interpretation of the meaning] And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And (remember) Loot (Lot), when he said to his people: ‘You commit Al‑Faahishah (sodomy the worst sin) which none has preceded you in (committing) it in the ‘Aalameen (mankind and jinn)’” [al-‘Ankaboot 29:28] D - “And (remember) Loot (Lot), We gave him Hukm (right judgement of the affairs and Prophethood) and (religious) knowledge, and We saved him from the town (folk) who practised Al‑Khabaa’ith (evil, wicked and filthy deeds). Verily, they were a people given to evil, and were Faasiqoon (rebellious, disobedient to Allaah)” [al-Anbiya’ 21:74 - interpretation of the meaning] E - “And (remember) Loot (Lot)! When he said to his people, ‘Do you commit Al‑Faahishah (evil, great sin, every kind of unlawful sexual intercourse, sodomy) while you see (one another doing evil without any screen) Do you practise your lusts on men instead of women? Nay, but you are a people who behave senselessly.’ There was no other answer given by his people except that they said: ‘Drive out the family of Loot (Lot) from your city. Verily, these are men who want to be clean and pure!’ So We saved him and his family, except his wife. We destined her to be of those who remained behind. And We rained down on them a rain (of stones). So evil was the rain of those who were warned” [al-Naml 27:54-58 - interpretation of the meaning] These verses refer to the punishment that befell the people of Loot. With regard to the rulings on them: F - Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning]: “And the two persons (man and woman) among you who commit illegal sexual intercourse, hurt them both. And if they repent (promise Allaah that they will never repeat, i.e. commit illegal sexual intercourse and other similar sins) and do righteous good deeds, leave them alone. Surely, Allaah is Ever All-Forgiving (the One Who forgives and accepts repentance), (and He is) Most Merciful” [al-Nisa’ 4:16] Ibn Katheer said: “The words of Allaah ‘And the two persons (man and woman) among you who commit illegal sexual intercourse, hurt them both’ mean, those who commit immoral actions, punish them both. Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him), Sa’eed ibn Jubayr and others said: By condemning them, shaming them and hitting them with shoes. This was the ruling until Allaah abrogated it and replaced it with whipping and stoning. ‘Ikrimah, ‘Ata, al-Hasan and ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Katheer said: This was revealed concerning a man and woman who commit fornication. Al-Saddi said, it was revealed concerning young people before they get married. Mujaahid said: it was revealed concerning two men if they admit it bluntly; a hint is not sufficient - as if he was referring to homosexuality. And Allaah knows best.” (Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 1/463). G - It was narrated that Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘There is nothing I fear for my ummah more than the deed of the people of Loot.’” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1457; Ibn Maajah, 2563. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 1552). H - It was narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “… cursed is the one who has intercourse with an animal, cursed is the one who does the action of the people of Loot.” (Narrated by Ahmad, 1878. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 5891). I - It was narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Whoever you find doing the deed of the people of Loot, kill the one who does it and the one to whom it is done.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1456; Abu Dawood, 4462; Ibn Maajah, 2561. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 6589). And Allaah knows best.

I love him so much ❤🌈🏳️‍🌈💜💙💚🧡💛❤️

WAIT HE'S MUSLIM???? OH MY GOD AAAAAA

I can’t stand it, and it makes me Soooo sad! I feel that Tan nor anyone else needs to be pressured to openly, publicly tell their “private” business. Leave him Alone! He doesn’t Owe Anyone to talk about himself. I just hope Tan can remain true to himself despite people pressuring him to retell all!

I m sorry I really thought Tan dident talk about it I m sorry Tan I m sorry .

I’m confused, sentiment aside, who is he addressing? Is he saying that he feels obliged to rehabilitate his humanity with bigoted Pakistanis (which, according to his experience, is very hard) or that they should acknowledge his equality or that he is reluctant to evangelise but feels compelled to educate the community from which he came? Re first issue, as a famous personality, I doubt very much whether he needs to and re second point, what kind of equality is he seeking from fellow Muslims? It’s a strange quarter to go to for equality. I think we should all consider what claim making is going on before reaching a swift judgement about how heroic someone is.

May Allah make it easier for him ♥️

@Owfyy

4 жыл бұрын

Look if you know The story about prophet lut people you will know that's impossible to be gay and Muslim at the same time so please don't Distort Islam

@Owfyy

4 жыл бұрын

May Allah guide him to the straight path

@inkiadk

4 жыл бұрын

@@Owfyy You see that isn't possible. Allah made all of us different

@cxarhomell5867

3 жыл бұрын

@@inkiadk Yeah, but definitely not gay.

@inkiadk

3 жыл бұрын

@@cxarhomell5867 Yes. Did you decide to be straight? Please tell me why would you choose that lifestyle? You see where this going..

I love tan so much

Lol

Isn't that kind of like saying "I am a salmon and my religion is Kodiak bears" ?

@mooncake6308

Жыл бұрын

You don’t choose to be gay. Reinterpreting surah lut to a less homophobic version minimises violence against queer people. It’s a necessity

@suggiethames9870

Жыл бұрын

@@mooncake6308 Well salmon don't choose to be salmon either! and it is in their best interest to avoid Kodiak bears

So if I say bismillah before I drink alcohol it’s halal. Iblis got you rapped around his finger bro. May Allah guide you.

"gay muslim' is one of the biggest oxymorons ever said.

@monotonya4506

3 жыл бұрын

No it isn’t lmaoo being attracted to the same gender is not haram at all

@CR7Update

3 жыл бұрын

MUNA Dahir okay professor who gave you the authority to declare what's haram and what's not

@monotonya4506

3 жыл бұрын

M10 Berzerk who do you think dummy

@freemoneycash664

Жыл бұрын

@@monotonya4506 your so dam insane that I think I might be going insane

He is muslim?? Oh god, love you tan