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i still can't believe that you guys aren't together anymore, but seeing you happy, makes me happy
@jeweljoya
2 жыл бұрын
wait whyd they break up
@monicac6157
2 жыл бұрын
Thought they were endgame
@HH-rz7lk
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe because they lived together? And they’re both growing up? These things happen haha
@gkk8910
2 жыл бұрын
@@HH-rz7lk if u listen to her podcast, she said they didn’t end on good terms bc something happened. Bc of the something she also didn’t wanna stay friend with Charles
@mysweetpianos
2 жыл бұрын
@@gkk8910 can u tell me the podcast
i noticed that you’ve been hanging out with a lot of new people and that was something you never did in your relationship. so happy to see your growth and your path to figuring yourself out
@user-qz1jz6uv7x
2 жыл бұрын
yes especially with her roommates!! i love everyone's dynamic and seeing different sides to her through everyone's vides!
i always thought she liked him more then he liked her and honestly i’m not mad about this break up. she deserves the world and more :’)
@TheSwellBell
2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! He had such a catch and felt he didn’t hype her up enough
@anadusao
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheSwellBell why whould you assume this sort of thing?? they looked happy in my opinion and yet i'm not saying anything about being sad bc it's none of our business
@Shegirlbossonmy
2 жыл бұрын
@@anadusao i mean …. she liked the comment
@mahimahayat4698
2 жыл бұрын
@@anadusao it was sooooo obvious. and she even liked the comment. i personally never wanted to assume ever, but it always seemed like she liked him way more than he liked her.
@mahimahayat4698
2 жыл бұрын
i agree. i never wanted to think too much into it but she was always hyping him up and talking about him, and I know I know social media does NOT determine relationships, but he rarely posted her or hyped her up as much idk. he was sweet but she deserved more
Ashley ur literally my age and I feel like we’re growing up together. Life is so confusing and mucky and I love that everyone is figuring it out
@share.theworld
2 жыл бұрын
I love that we were born in the same year, ashley inspire me to do the things I want and be successful ❤️
the “are u single” seemed like someone was trying to hit you up lol
I HAVE MY COFFEE AND BREAKFAST AND I AM READY FOR THE LIFE UPDATES
@xandraster
2 жыл бұрын
BISH HI I JUST WATCHED YOUR MBTI VIDEO LOL VIDEOCEPTION
@Niina-py5uw
2 жыл бұрын
Oh hey you YOU ARE kaiti yoo
@leahchhuye
2 жыл бұрын
@@Niina-py5uw u beat me to it 👍
@kaleighchan2950
2 жыл бұрын
I need a Kaiti/Ashley collab :((
@ltvball3609
2 жыл бұрын
omg i love both of your guy’s channels
I just really hope Charles did not cheat on her. She said in her podcast that she does not see them getting back together at all or being friends. It must have been pretty serious.
@maryandav
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t make me cry 😢
@SamDioneda
2 жыл бұрын
she also mentioned that as long as you know you worth and what you deserve and i was like… 🥲
@anadusao
2 жыл бұрын
stop speculating please!! ashley asked that people don't try to find out why they broke up. respect their privacy and stop theorizing
@maryandav
2 жыл бұрын
@@anadusao where did she say this & I agree. This ain’t really speculation this is just us talking about what we saw in the video.
@Angieptru123
2 жыл бұрын
@@maryandav prolly her podcast
honestly it's literally so inspiring that ashley posted yt vids full time while doing university like girl boss vibes???? yesssss
I've been so glad to see you happy and hanging out with friends on your ig recently !! and if you're still looking for a name for kitty, luxie means "light and darkness" which is fitting because of her colours! (and bonus, "bubby and lux" sounds like a cute kids adventure cartoon 😋)
@mariasocks
2 жыл бұрын
that’s so adorable :3
I think the breakup happened for good reasons. Obvi I don’t know how the relationship was off camera, but sometimes even just the small parts that you captured for KZread didn’t seem right :( idk how else to explain it but I’m so glad you’re happy!!!!! You look like you’ve been having so much more fun lately!!! :’)
@marquezlucia799
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! She put in more effort than him!
@lluviaelisegarcia
2 жыл бұрын
@@marquezlucia799 Yeah :( and the hugs/kisses just didn’t seem genuine from him
@marquezlucia799
2 жыл бұрын
@@lluviaelisegarcia yea! He was never affectionate with her :/ which is sad because she is so nice and did so much for him. I’m sure it was something bad because she said they are done for good and she isn’t trying to be friends with him.
@lluviaelisegarcia
2 жыл бұрын
@@marquezlucia799 She is soooo nice & was always always giving! I’m not sure what happened with them though, gonna listen to the podcast soon! But anyways, I hope she finds the perfect relationship for her that is 50/50!
@lluviaelisegarcia
2 жыл бұрын
@@KelleyPerez Did he? Omg. Well I don’t want to judge or jump to conclusions about why he may have did that, but basically I’m just glad she’s happy!
i hope we can get a q&a with you and your mom 💜 i am curious to know her parenting style and just her general mindset on raising a family. hope you have a good day, ashley!
@luizacarvalho457
2 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS
@esther8390
2 жыл бұрын
she did a podcast with her mom actually, it was really good, you should def check it out!
@Notoejr
2 жыл бұрын
i need this too
@denim4938
2 жыл бұрын
OMG YESSS she raised her kids so well😭
@ashlynnamitra9237
2 жыл бұрын
@@esther8390 omgg which episode was it ?
She’s so mature in answering the questions, handling post breakup thing, and I’m learning so much from her, been watching her for years now, I’m turning 21 in december and it feels like I’m not alone in adulting 💜
Not to downplay whatever happened but, Ashley, you are such a beautiful soul that I'm not even worried. You are mature, so hard working & an inspiration to many of us. Girl, you are destined for so much better. I can't wait to say 'I told you so' when you get your happily ever after.
ashley manifested her wish to start a business outside of youtube- she now has her matcha business! trust the process
I had to write an essay for a scholarship about who my female role models are so I wrote about you and amber and I got the scholarship! so thank you for inspiring me every day and helping me pay for college lol. this video made me really happy after a long week and I feel really grateful and inspired now :) ily! 💖
@jazz2313
2 жыл бұрын
@@osina7974 sameeee
@zein9557
2 жыл бұрын
this is so cool!!! congrats on your scholarship
@user-ov9vr1wc2j
2 жыл бұрын
Congrats omg !
@amaniibrahim5599
2 жыл бұрын
Congrats I hope you enjoy college you seem like an amazing person congratulations
When I saw the thumbnail with the question "are u single" I immediately knew something was up. I loved you two together but maybe he was just a chapter in your life and you deserve the world, honestly. Love you Ashley! Hope you're doing amazing! I'm so proud of you 🤍
I almost didn't even realize or find out that ur/her relationship had ended, because Ive been seeing u/her on IG super happy and hanging out with friends that I didn't even realize about the disappearance of that person. Im glad to see u happy with yourself and wish u all the luck with ur goals Ashley
I love Q&A's with ashley!!!! It's like having a real chat with her on the couch
Ashley has some decor skills the background of this video is literally beautiful 🤧💕
i absolutely love the vibe of ashleys apartment, green matches her so much 💚💚💚💚
love u, Ashley. You are a huge influence for all of us 🥰🥰
I love the fact that Ashley has been growing so much as a person, I literally feel that she's like my old sister. lysm
her whole setup is so cute 🥺
i love to see u so energetic and feeling great :’) i hope ur taking a breaks when u can and sleeping well. ur truly an amazing person
HI ASHLEY IM SO HAPPY UR BACK ON KZread ! i hope you had a nice rest and still feel comfortable taking breaks when you need to
Ashley is literally the cutest KZreadr ever!! love your vlogs man!!💜
awww you’re glowing Ashley ☺️ you genuinely look so settled and happy it makes me feel good too
i didnt expect that but anyways im so glad youre feeling good ❤️ you deserve all the happiness in the world
i’m sooo happy seeing ashley doing very well, GO GET YOUR HAPPINESS GIRL
sending so much love and light to you ashley! thank you for opening up and for always being such a genuine person!!
I’m so attached to Ashley .. now every time I see videos of them together it makes me wanna cry 😭😭
I’m glad you’re doing well! I hope you continue to be happy, healthy, and safe 💗💗💗
timestamps because im that one nice person you're looking for 0:00 intro and background information 1:27 did u have another career in mind before youtube? 2:07 when did u have your first kiss? 2:15 do you still plan on moving to California one day? 2:21 what is one accomplishment you'd like to achieve in the future? 2:39 (European) countries you want to visit? 2:49 Is there a time you thought you'd stop making youtube videos? 3:24 how are you doing, really? 5:22 where's charles? + breakup recovery advice 6:12 are you satisfied with your life rn? 6:37 does your cat have a name yet? 7:00 does the kitty get along well with Bubby? 7:27 favourite place to shop for workout clothes? 7:55 what's your gym routine? 8:35 steps of your everyday makeup? 8:43 where are you right now? 8:49 how to navigate living alone/is it scary? 10:28 at what age do you want to get married? 12:34 what are your hobbies? 13:43 what is your favourite way to unwind? 14:12 how to be yourself 14:32 favourite disney movie 14:38 how many kids do you want 15:21 do you like barbeque? 15:24 how long have you been vegan?
@Rose-ko4op
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
Hey Ashley! I hope you’re giving yourself time to relax and taking things easy. I’m wishing you all the best for you and the new adventures you’ll be having for the future! ♥️ I’ve also never really been one to listen to podcasts but when it comes to your podcast, I really enjoy it ✨
This video came at the right time for me honestly. I’m 20 and I’m considering making some hard life changes of my own. Thank you for sharing an update, it helped me more than you could know! so glad to hear ur doing a lot better now💖
i just wanna say that you look the most happy i've seen you since i started watching your videos and maybe all the changes you went through were necessary for you to realize what you wanted in your life
we're always here for you ashley ! i'm super glad to hear that you're healing, healthy, and happy. I hope it only goes up from here ❤️
i came from the podcast but i just wanted to say thank u for opening up ashley! it must've been hard couple months for u but it's nice to know that you're doing so well now + spending more time with friends! i want to let you know that we're always here for you so always pls take care of yourself first♥️ much love from your fans and I🥰
I hope you know that you're an inspiration to many people, especially with girls your age, like meeee. Haha. We're all going through a lot of stuff right now but seeing you conquer everything really really helps me a lot. You're one of the best people that I know, Ashley. WE LOVE YOUUUU!!
URE LITERALLY THE WARMEST PERSON EVER i can feel so much love just from watching u talking AHHH
Wishing you all the best Ashley! you deserve the world
Can’t believe i know Ashley since her Highshool and still excites me to watch her videos 🙆🏻♀️💜
lmao i literally rejoiced when i saw that you fixed your tank top sleeve at 13:45 😂 i love that top on you so much but i was literally staring at the flipped-in sleeve the whole video, wondering if you'd notice that it was tucked in 😩 anywayyyy thank you for the update, i know you've been having a tough time but i'm super glad that you're healing!!! feel free to take the break that u mentioned in ur podcast!! we'll always be here for you whenever you come back 🥰
i only wish you the best as you truly are the human equivalent of sunshine
im so happy to know that you enjoy doing youtube and yupp ill be here to celebrate ur 90 yo bday vlog for sure!!
genuinely wishing the best for you Ashley, you’re one of the big inspirations to a lot of young youtubers (myself included), so it’s nice to hear the podcast & see you speak about your own struggles, kinda like a reminder that shit happens, that’s life, but you can get through it? if that made sense?:)
hey ashley
the growing pains are challenging, but im so glad you are healing and thriving
First, you are GLOWING you are so beautiful! Thank you for sitting down for this video (and the podcasts), definitely makes me feel not alone in my friendships/relationships as well. Supporting you and sending you lots of love!!🤍
i’m glad youre doing well bc you deserve to be happy! i’m also feeling so optimistic and its such an amazing feeling! i love ur videos so much and ur my comfort youtuber :)
i love that you always be transparant to us yet bring all of that with positivity. i can imagine how hard it felt until you finally got to this position. i know its hard and a lot of healing. and i always wishing you a happy life and have a great adventure ahead. i love you Ashley!💕 Hi from Indonesia! edit: OMG did you just actually like my comment?!😭 YAY now you know i exsist🥺 i love you Ashley!!!!!😭❤️
Hi Ashley! This is such a great video, I love the casual, "let's catch-up" vibes! :) I've only followed you for a few months, but you're so genuine + have awesome content. My life updates: I also just graduated in Canada in June 2021! Congrats to both of us for finishing uni/college, yay! I can understand the point of friends being dispersed, SO RELATABLEEEE! Everyone has their own life path (e.g. going to grad school) and it's exciting but scary at the same time. You really don't realize you're not "talking" to your friends until they're on the other side of the world. It's crazy, but I'm glad you're saying to just go and hang out, I needed to hear that. I hope you and your family are staying safe and can't wait to see what's in store for the near future! Keep up the great work and grateful for your videos
always supporting youu!! your vlogs are so relaxing to watch, keep up the good work!! love you!
my girl Ashley totally deserves the best love, im glad you're able to grow into the person you are today and now trusting to love yourself again. I am very happy and proud of you sis. Sending you airhugs!!!
Ahhhh I literally planned out my whole study session just so I could watch this right when im having my study break lollll and also ily
Ashley!! I just wanna say that your channel has been a safe place for me these past months. Thank you sm, Ily
Your smile literally makes my day! I hope you feel better as the days go by. You deserve so much more than the world! Ur soul and personality are too precious for this cruel world :( Ure doing AMAZING GIRLY!!
im happy seeing you happy 🥺 like literally, you’re glowing!! ily stay safe always!! ♥️
Love how open and honest Ashely is! Every video feels like hanging with a friend ❤️ Glad to see that she is doing better❤️
thank u for all the updates :') seeing you always makes me feel so cozy and happy we're like the same age so it feels like we're going through the same things together genuinely hope you continue enjoying life, even with all the growing pains that come with it
loved this video
Hey Ashley, You are one of the main reason why I could get through 2020. Seeing someone of the same age inspired me a lot. Your KZread videos have always brought a smile to me. I genuinely hope that you are doing well and please dont be hard on yourself. You are a great person and I shall sincerely pray for your wellbeing. Love you loads and thank you very much for making your videos, they mean a lot to me. Keep smiling, you are AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, SMART, LOVING AND KINDDDD🥰🥰 Love from India, Sindhu :)
can we just all agree that ashley is SO pretty:’)
ashley you literally inspire me. i been feelin kinda down lately over stuff but you’re right i just needa recognize my worth and keep movin :,)
i think the fact that you reminded me ur only 21 brings me so much relief and hope and kinda motivates me bc wow i can do that stuff too and i have time also i feel like youve done so much and yet u have more years to go & im glad to see u happy
Girl, this is one of the first videos I have watched from you since spring. Me and my boyfriend of 12 years loved to watch you’re videos while having breakfast on Sundays in bed or on the couch before we were going to sleep. We broke up now and I couldn’t stand to see you’re videos in my feed because it reminded me of him and us. But now I am feeling relax and encouraged by your video. Thank you so much for being here for us ✨
I haven’t watched you in a few so when i watched this i was sooo shocked that you and charles aren’t together no more.. but like i am also happy that you’re surrounded with new, cool and amazing ppl :)
I’ve literally discovered ur videos last year and I’ve been addicted since. Ur personality is so refreshing and I’ve loved to see ur growth throughout the past year! I hope you keep growing and stay happy and safeeee xxx
Ashley thank you for opening up, talking to us and confiding in us in a way. Not gonna lie I wasn’t expecting this video but I just wanted to say that you are such a beautiful human being inside and out. 🥺❤️
ur makeup always looks SO GOOD
your videos definitely make my day! youre definitely one of my biggest role models 💓 i hope youre always taking care!!
I love these videos because you are actually one of my favorite KZreadrs/creators and I love seeing these little updates and stages of your life which makes me motivated (in ways that are progressive, productive, and good for me and my lifestyle). long story short, you're inspiring to me and seeing you do well makes me happy and all that jazz :)
I swear I've never seen such a sweet, nice and genuine person like ashley, i wish I had a friend like her❤️i aspire to be you. You literally deserve only the best.
We love you and believe in you, no matter what, Ashley 💚💚💚💚💚
im glad youre doing okay, thanks for checking in and im rooting for you in your steps ahead! im starting 2nd year at uni and a little overwhelmed with in person lectures but im pushing through, happy to unwind with your videos! also a suggestion: maybe since your cat played a tame impala song you could name her after one?
i’m glad that you are open to talk about sensitive stuff, it’s good! Hope ur doing good
omg, wishing you all the happiness for sure! stay safe and sane ashley!
i hope my internet big sister is taking care of herself and is healing beautifully! i love u, ashy :)
Hi Ashley, I'm currently going through a break-up right now, and I just wanted to share how amazing and powerful it is to watch you be strong and be willing to continue to grow and move on. Thanks for being such an inspiration. I appreciate you!
So glad that happiness is a priority in your life, the kitten is so cute and black cats are awesome.
before i even watch, i wanna give u a virtual hug!!!! i love you, ashley keep killin it
Love you girl ❤️❤️❤️❤️ do whats best for yourself always and we support
Can't believe I've been watching you for over 3years now at least! ❤️❤️ I love watching you and the family grow up 💖
@BIUnlocked
2 жыл бұрын
Me too
Ashleyyyy you're the cutest youtuber i've ever been obsessed withhhh like listening to u rambling is lowkey calming istggg
Yay I'm happy I get to watch this during my work lunch break🤗 I'm also half Korean and relate to you in a lot of ways so needless to say IM INVESTED lol. Sending love!💕
WAIT WHAT. i didn't know u are not together anymore :( but as long as you are happy i'm happy too ashley!! i loveyouu
you will never belive me but you always always helped me in so many ways, like because of you i know to cook so much good and healthy meals and your podcasts helped me over the summer job and your voice is so beautiful and i really appreciate that i had this chance to know your from yt like without you here on yt i can say i don't want this app anymore and i'm so proud of your life, of your hard work, i grow up with you i waited every week to you post here, i'm so proud of you ashleyyy, you look happy as always, love you so so much💖💖💖💗💗💗
so good to reconnect Ashley :) you look like you're glowing and THRIVING we love to see it
sending hugs !!! I hope you’re doing well and allowing yourself to heal and love yourself🥰🥰🥰🥰
AHAHA you've become such a plant mom 🥺 and silky is still the most elegant cat I've seennnnn and I'd love to watch you vlog at 90 as an 85 year old HAHAHA
hey ashley, i hope you keep staying positive and healthy. we love you
I’m excited to see more of your new vlogs 😊💕 Life is ups and downs, but stay strong!! As someone who’s the same age as you, seeing you and your videos makes my day😊
love you so much ashley you’re such a strong woman and literally my biggest inspiration. we are all here for you and your community adores you - keep doing you and don’t be afraid to take mental breaks whenever you need to 💕
@megm5186
2 жыл бұрын
you are so beautiful oh my gosh!
@katarinaizdepski
2 жыл бұрын
@@megm5186 thank you so much !
Ashley’s videos are honestly like therapy for me, genuinely like listening to a big sister, she’s awesome and fudging STRONG YES QUEEN👏🏼🤍
hi ashley, recently adopted a cat too ! not gonna say that you influenced me to do so 🤨🤪 but can you do a video about kitty, like things that you bought for her, things that you should’ve known before getting her or something like that.❤️
ashley, i hope you're doing well. you inspire me so much ♡ you're so strong and brave ♡
hi ashley! ive been watching your videos since i was still in high school and now im in college! you've helped me out a lot and i hope you'll stay healthy, happy, and safe! have a nice day ❤️✨
i am so sad over the break up :((( I hope you're doing okay and healing though. luv u sm!
@lovisahenderson1521
2 жыл бұрын
my heart literally skipped a beat when she mentioned that :(( but i hope she's doing well
@yaslmao4031
2 жыл бұрын
the way my jaw dropped :(
@iris-xo
2 жыл бұрын
THEY BROKE UP???? What I missed like a few seasons 🥺 that’s so sad
@yaslmao4031
2 жыл бұрын
@@iris-xo same with me! idk why but their break up made me really emotional even though i never knew them personally. their relationship was something i pictured to be the most perfect and ideal one, to the point i keep telling myself if i dont have a relationship like that then whats the point? :( this was probably a big change for ashley and her family. i hope theyre all alright :’)
@gracekang2161
2 жыл бұрын
same. never thought i'd be so sad over two people I don't know breaking up
Hey Ashley, i'm a "young adult" girl from Brasil and just wanted to say that I really look up to u as an inspo of someone who's a genuine and kind person, and also has the corauge to expose her true self to the world. Wish you all the good vibes to help in this growing up journey and to heal invisible wounds, fica bem!!
@juliaalmeida444
2 жыл бұрын
vamo ser amiga
I love how natural and enjoyable you are it’s so refreshing 🤍