Q&A | Getting Him to Commit, Defining the Relationship, Boyfriend Reveal, Jealous of Exes

Answering dating & relationship questions as the big sis ain't nobody asked for. 🤪
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00-1:27 INTRO
1:28-1:57 SECOND GUESSING A RELATIONSHIP
1:58-3:45 IS "THE TALK" NECESSARY?
3:46- 4:07 I GET BORED QUICK
4:08-4:55 BOYFRIEND REVEAL?
4:56-6:04 CHEMISTRY W/ EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE GUY
6:05-7:32 WHEN HE DOESN'T WANT EXCLUSIVITY
7:33-8:18 CURIOUS ABOUT HIS EX?
8:19-9:22 HE DOESN'T SEE A FUTURE
9:23-11:10 MANAGING CONFLICT
11:11-12:04 26 & NEVER HAD A BF
12:05-13:38 WORK VS. RELATIONSHIP
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  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd.2 жыл бұрын

    Always love your advice. Your transparency and wisdom is ALWAYS appreciated. Thanks for the video ☺️❤️

  • @createinspireco1768
    @createinspireco17682 жыл бұрын

    Agreed that chemistry can be overrated, people love to throw that word around often. But compatability and core values are so so important but sometimes overlooked when dating, in a serious relationship, etc. Freesia is so wise!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @yyoonnn10
    @yyoonnn102 жыл бұрын

    My first time commenting because what you said about chemistry is SO. TRUE! The chemistry comment is so spot on. It's something I figured out pretty late, but its so important. Chemistry is what we look for in the beginning, but what drives a relationship is compatibility.

  • @sherrywong3571

    @sherrywong3571

    2 жыл бұрын

    I realised this advice late too. I still don’t understand the relationship incompatibility though

  • @jzara3984
    @jzara39842 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this Q&A so much. One of the best! Freesia you are so easy to listen to and I love your thinking and train of thought.

  • @JulissaMercedes
    @JulissaMercedes2 жыл бұрын

    make a longer one next time I would love to hear more, when it comes to relationships logic is what i think helps it last

  • @christinasiew3707
    @christinasiew37072 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate the emphasis on compatibility vs chemistry!

  • @shawonwawon
    @shawonwawon2 жыл бұрын

    Your sit down videos are my FAVE🖤 Your advice comes from such a logical place and I admire how you approach everything in life

  • @vivizhimomi9178
    @vivizhimomi91782 жыл бұрын

    When Freesia says “it’s time for a refresh” . Literally so refreshing your videos . Lots of love.

  • @ArnoldBanks_
    @ArnoldBanks_2 жыл бұрын

    Thoroughly enjoyed this video. More of these Q&A’s please.

  • @sriravipati6526
    @sriravipati65262 жыл бұрын

    Freesia spittin straight facts about chemistry vs. compatibility

  • @maggieinsf5714
    @maggieinsf57142 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate your more chit-chatty vids because I do find it helps me understand myself in a deeper level, and sometimes I think I do need to hear it from someone else :) you're amazing Freesia!

  • @teenaweenaaa
    @teenaweenaaa2 жыл бұрын

    Loveeee your maturity and wisdom in this video! The way you answer and give advice is top notch

  • @mfjed
    @mfjed2 жыл бұрын

    Your Q&A's are literally the best!!

  • @kloei
    @kloei2 жыл бұрын

    When you needed that “official talk” advice, thank you 💕

  • @saraomonuwa1099
    @saraomonuwa10992 жыл бұрын

    i think this is the best way to end 2021, ily thank you for the vid

  • @emilyyang5844
    @emilyyang58442 жыл бұрын

    yay! freesia, i love these Q&A sesh! pls do more u truly feel like a big sis to me ❤️❤️

  • @michellejy
    @michellejy2 жыл бұрын

    Love your advice so much! Chemistry is totally superficial. Compatibility is so important and hard to come by. Also your voice is very soothing and comforting. I’m sure everyone appreciates all of your relationship advice as well ❤️

  • @katedesingano
    @katedesingano Жыл бұрын

    youre so knowledgeable about these things!

  • @twentyfirst1499
    @twentyfirst14992 жыл бұрын

    loved your answer to the second question - the talk. great advice!

  • @maytan8778
    @maytan87782 жыл бұрын

    Freesia, you need to make a podcast. Periodt.

  • @DeliaX
    @DeliaX2 жыл бұрын

    listening to how compatible you and your bf are makes me so happy 😭 that is what I want. so healthy

  • @cinndis
    @cinndis2 жыл бұрын

    please make more video like this freesia, i actually really enjoying this kind of vid from u

  • @andreabryant1131
    @andreabryant11312 жыл бұрын

    love your advice freesia!! it's very inspirational! you are a fun person!! you inspire me!!!

  • @yieldm232
    @yieldm2322 жыл бұрын

    Honestly you give the best advice!!

  • @AyleeWonder
    @AyleeWonder2 жыл бұрын

    Love the real talk! This should become a trend with different topics!

  • @Zeeiconoclastic
    @Zeeiconoclastic2 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video. I like how you articulate yourself. ♥️

  • @ncltng
    @ncltng2 жыл бұрын

    I love this Freesia. What you said makes so much sense. Now time to reflect! HAHA

  • @seaweedjen
    @seaweedjen2 жыл бұрын

    this was a really good video!!

  • @rizavirtudazo
    @rizavirtudazo2 жыл бұрын

    You are one of my fave, Freesia! ❤️

  • @k_tuyenniie109
    @k_tuyenniie1092 жыл бұрын

    Girl! You should have a podcast. Love your advices, should do more of this. Sending lot of love from Australia! 💕

  • @dejabethel4626
    @dejabethel46262 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video , I really took a lot away from it .

  • @ns1498
    @ns14982 жыл бұрын

    Great advice! Thank you 🙏

  • @DungNgo-fv8xm
    @DungNgo-fv8xm2 жыл бұрын

    Ahhhh love your wisdoms and advices sm Freesia!!! Literally big sis vibes 😩🥺💛💛 TYSM!

  • @ElmoTinker
    @ElmoTinker2 жыл бұрын

    Great advice 😊

  • @glaix1023
    @glaix10232 жыл бұрын

    Yaaay been waiting for this ❤ Also, you're glowing Freesia 😍

  • @benatrix
    @benatrix2 жыл бұрын

    Damn she spittin facts right from the start!!

  • @NuieBriane
    @NuieBriane2 жыл бұрын

    U literally came thru at the right timeeee

  • @milkbread5036
    @milkbread50362 жыл бұрын

    this was very helpful. can u make a video more on compatibility and what to look for? I love your shirt btw!!

  • @NuieBriane
    @NuieBriane2 жыл бұрын

    EVERYTHING IS JUST ON POINT THANKKKK UUU

  • @Rob_Lerch
    @Rob_Lerch2 жыл бұрын

    This video was awesome, thanks Freesia!

  • @TracyEllennn
    @TracyEllennn2 жыл бұрын

    Really needed this! Thank you girl. :)

  • @helen124
    @helen1242 жыл бұрын

    I want to be like you 😭😭 I can really see what you mean by how logical you are and really appreciate all your answers 🥺

  • @johnkim8106
    @johnkim81062 жыл бұрын

    I love this video so much

  • @marizzapizza5599
    @marizzapizza55992 жыл бұрын

    Love it freesia!! Happy new year 🥳

  • @user-us6iv1im6m
    @user-us6iv1im6m2 жыл бұрын

    Like Fressia's love advice vids are the best in KZread

  • @ashleyahn5387
    @ashleyahn53872 жыл бұрын

    You are literally the best at Q&A so real and honest and humble ㅠㅠ

  • @christinalee9336
    @christinalee93362 жыл бұрын

    Damn good advice sis 👌🏻🔥💯

  • @nesrinemediouni3610
    @nesrinemediouni36102 жыл бұрын

    was waiting for a new vidd yayy

  • @michm6780
    @michm67802 жыл бұрын

    I can never have enough of Freesia! Please universe send me a friend like her cause she’s amazing! Love her videos along with Michelle Choi. So relaxing to listen to .

  • @karmingtan4059
    @karmingtan40592 жыл бұрын

    Very wise advices.

  • @jennyrose888
    @jennyrose8882 жыл бұрын

    it’s 2am on the 31st here in the ph and got your notif!!!!! aHHHH LOVE YOUR VIDS I CAN NEVER SKIPPPP

  • @unboxinggoods4768

    @unboxinggoods4768

    2 жыл бұрын

    11.52 pm here in India happy new year

  • @DailyAmyK
    @DailyAmyK2 жыл бұрын

    Always love to hear your thoughts and your advices are on point 👌

  • @cjwsk12
    @cjwsk122 жыл бұрын

    more of these please it's really helpful! i dont have a lot of female figure sin my life i don't have a sister to ask :( thank you

  • @lolo7984
    @lolo79842 жыл бұрын

    I rewatched the second guessing question a couple times to drill this into my head.

  • @moccisimo
    @moccisimo2 жыл бұрын

    You are my yt big sister; I love your pov on stuff I myself question

  • @sunnedd
    @sunnedd2 жыл бұрын

    I'm married but you are better than me at giving advices!!! ^^

  • @Itsme-pg4kq
    @Itsme-pg4kq2 жыл бұрын

    Where did you brought the shirt. ??It’s so beautiful colours.

  • @luagyvoorp
    @luagyvoorp2 жыл бұрын

    YES

  • @onedayatatime1561
    @onedayatatime15612 жыл бұрын

    where did you buy your shirt? love it queen

  • @aryelbrown
    @aryelbrown2 жыл бұрын

    I have been wondering why people don't want to define their relationship at the very beginning? I mean how come someone would not know what they want in a relationship? A fling? A friend with benefits? A long term partner? Does ppl genuinely don't know or is it just part of the "game"?

  • @stephanielake11
    @stephanielake112 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jayyjayy1231
    @jayyjayy12312 жыл бұрын

    happy new year Freesia

  • @Emilyghe
    @Emilyghe2 жыл бұрын

    I like that you said exclusive = relationship cuz it would be too vague if there is a phase between relationship and dating

  • @chunnieeeb
    @chunnieeeb2 жыл бұрын

    Girl just wanna say that your top is CUTEEEEEEEEEEEEE - where is it from?!

  • @mlepark
    @mlepark2 жыл бұрын

    where is your top from?? it's so cute

  • @got7ismyworld692
    @got7ismyworld6922 жыл бұрын

    Never clicked this fast!!

  • @meryllloisbonilla
    @meryllloisbonilla2 жыл бұрын

    Start a podcast already!

  • @freesiapark

    @freesiapark

    2 жыл бұрын

    🧐

  • @Mel-oc7pi
    @Mel-oc7pi2 жыл бұрын

    hey freesia! i don't know whether you've answered these in other videos but what is your mbti? and if your bf has done it, what is his? i want to see whether the mbtis are compatible too

  • @vaidehi1353
    @vaidehi13532 жыл бұрын

    Hey! Where is the top from?

  • @cynwme7608
    @cynwme76082 жыл бұрын

    "sit in your very secure badass bitch mode" OKAY SIS i resonate with you

  • @monicacollins5728
    @monicacollins57282 жыл бұрын

    Where are your earrings from?

  • @supermorningperson2917
    @supermorningperson29172 жыл бұрын

    START A PODCAST PLEASE

  • @TheChristineVan
    @TheChristineVan2 жыл бұрын

    Where did u get that top :0

  • @toribrownt16
    @toribrownt162 жыл бұрын

    PODCAST, PODCAST, PODCAST. Please. 😅🤩🤩

  • @freesiapark

    @freesiapark

    2 жыл бұрын

    maybe one day 😅

  • @ccvd399
    @ccvd3992 жыл бұрын

    you kind of look like Giselle from aespa (kpop girl group member)

  • @mandywhorwal642
    @mandywhorwal6422 жыл бұрын

    Chemistry is physical compatibility, Connection is intellectual (spiritual) compatibility and Condition is lifestyle (where and how you want to live) compatibility. You need at least two out of three (and be willing to negotiate the third) in order to have a successful monogamous relationship. There's a lot of undiagnosed female ADD out there. In boys it's easier to spot, as they're constantly running around and getting into trouble, but in girls it manifests as social drama and interpersonal emotional chaos. If you're bored with every guy you meet you could have ADD, or maybe you're just too immature for a relationship, or maybe most guys are just drab losers? There are 7 steps involved in Western relationships: talking, seeing, dating, exclusivity, engagement, marriage, divorce or death. If a guy isn't saying that he's 'looking for something serious' or 'ready for commitment' or 'sees himself married with kids in 3-5 years' he's probably not in the market for anything meaningful. There's always a chance you can wriggle your way into his life and he just gets used to you being there, but I think it's better if you spend more time getting to know the person during the early stages before you launch yourself headfirst into unknown with your ring fingers crossed.

  • @marilyngarcia3306
    @marilyngarcia33062 жыл бұрын

    No no Emergencia o menos en la tienda o me dan y si no manda

  • @mrnobody3325
    @mrnobody33252 жыл бұрын

    Love from manipur

  • @marilyngarcia3306
    @marilyngarcia33062 жыл бұрын

    No no youJoan Miró You Don’t Need a

  • @Johnnny92
    @Johnnny922 жыл бұрын

    That question at 6:06 had me thinking, it's only been 2 months but you want to be exclusive already, what's the rush? I feel like it's too soon, I want to ask them why now? besides from the obvious answer. I also feel like their putting a little bit of pressure on them make a decision when it hasn't been a long amount of time. I can understand maybe at the 6 month mark or even 1 year, 2 months is way too soon imo.

  • @davidparnell3241
    @davidparnell32412 жыл бұрын

    First

  • @freesiapark

    @freesiapark

    2 жыл бұрын

    😌🥇

  • @nongyuitinamat341
    @nongyuitinamat3412 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️