Psychotherapist Reacts To Ren - The Tale of Jenny and Screech (Trilogy)

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Join me, Jim Morris, a licensed psychotherapist, as I react to Ren's song "Jenny and Screech." This includes all three installments of this tragic tale. I'll break down the psychological meaning of the songs and explain the symbolism used throughout. I'll also share some strategies on how to reduce abuse and promote healing.
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  • @billycockroach4823
    @billycockroach48234 күн бұрын

    "Do you think I want to do this, Violet?" Typical behaviour from abusers. Blame the victim. "Look what you made me do". I get frustrated and angry every time I hear that line. Because it’s so common. Thanks for the reaction.

  • @kennethriddle433

    @kennethriddle433

    2 күн бұрын

    It's so common it's even got a name. It's called gaslighting.

  • @swere1240

    @swere1240

    Күн бұрын

    just a characteristic of manipulators in general even if its not in a violent way. can just be by guilt tripping.

  • @shirazzza

    @shirazzza

    Күн бұрын

    My first real kinda living out of home boyfriend was when I had just turned 19. Had life gone to plan I would have never met him. Anyhow I did. And he was horrible. Took me so long to leave, thank all things that we never had kids, but he used to come in at all hours & lift up my eyelids. Like he controlled my sleep, if he wanted to talk to me when I was in the shower or on the toilet he would just follow me everywhere. It's just hit 15 years free of him but I'll never be ok. I had to go into hiding basically cos he was terrifying & knew people who could track me down etc. He grew up in a very violent & multigenerational dysfunctional family but that doesn't give him permission to be a violent jerk. "Why do you like to make me angry" while being dragged through the house by my hair at 2am vibes.

  • @dehro
    @dehro4 күн бұрын

    sirens sound like banshees in the night... the banshee, according to folklore, announces the imminent death of a family member of those who can hear her scream.

  • @lanapeterzon9055
    @lanapeterzon90555 күн бұрын

    "Violet was a silent girl, grew up with violent starts......" Ren already added the N. Great reaction and thanks for not being long winded during your pauses. Cheers.

  • @Dr.Brummel

    @Dr.Brummel

    4 күн бұрын

    Damn it, I've never realized that. Thanks for that. 👍❤ He even added a T, which makes it even better (can't find a right word for it): "grew up with violeNt starTs...".

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Sure thing. Thanks for not leaving a long winded comment.

  • @patrickquinlan3056
    @patrickquinlan30565 күн бұрын

    This has become my favourite reaction to this trilogy. No one has connected the descent of the stairs in Screech with his fall at the end. Well spotted.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Very nice to hear! Shine on!

  • @rudyb.
    @rudyb.5 күн бұрын

    Ren is one of the most important music artist of our time. His performance here is Epic. Great reaction!

  • @kadathsmith
    @kadathsmith4 күн бұрын

    I grew up on council estates (Projects) in North London in the 80's. I knew boys like Screech, Just consumed with anger and desperation, colloquially know as a wrong 'un. This work of art really holds such a deep place in my heart. It Transends music. No one, I'll say that again, No one, is making art like REN. He is a once in a lifetime talent. Great reaction and analysis. Thanks.

  • @yolandescheepers7262
    @yolandescheepers72625 күн бұрын

    This is the BEST breakdown of this song that I've seen....and I've seen a loooottttt ....❤❤❤

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you! 🙏

  • @coxfire
    @coxfire5 күн бұрын

    When you realise at the end that Jenny was only 14 walking the streets in high heel shoes, with rosy on her cheeks....the tale becomes deeper and deeper as you go, and yes, it's probably one of the best portrayal of intergenerational abuse. And thank you for your words and recommendations

  • @synp9ynir

    @synp9ynir

    5 күн бұрын

    That's why she wanted to explain. Can't blame her.

  • @Kennyancat

    @Kennyancat

    4 күн бұрын

    Also Patrick being absent in the middle of the night and Screeches girlfriend being "busy" at the same time.

  • @TonyVeijalainen

    @TonyVeijalainen

    4 күн бұрын

    ...wanted to escape.

  • @wayne3093

    @wayne3093

    4 күн бұрын

    @@Kennyancat there is a side story of Ren playing screech and Patrick is always with screech's girl and she is always sticking up for him.

  • @spruce381

    @spruce381

    4 күн бұрын

    The reactions of violet and Jenny are the same, as is the behaviour of Screech and Steve. The insight in the line - why do you make me do this - abusers blame victims. Love your reaction.

  • @32a34a
    @32a34a4 күн бұрын

    One thing to note is the police officer is also a victim and a survivor to a large extent. Not a main part of the story but his story in a lot of ways is just as important.

  • @boggyb11
    @boggyb115 күн бұрын

    Wow, this was not only a reaction video, it was 37 min of therapy that could help a lot of us. Please share more of your knowledge. ...wish i had a parent like you...

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    So glad it helped! Shine on!

  • @dannythedoodle

    @dannythedoodle

    3 күн бұрын

    Yeah, I knew I needed to subscribe when we got to Violet.

  • @Item_I_ate_them_pac-man
    @Item_I_ate_them_pac-man5 күн бұрын

    I’m constantly in survival mode. I know my traumatic childhood has prevented me from so many good things. I have broken the cycle but I still struggle to remove the walls I’ve built and to show affection among other things. I’ve recently requested my social services records (CPS) and I visited a foster family I was with when I was younger to thank them. I’m trying to heal but I am low income and no support network. I’m going it to be better for my children. It’s so hard. But Ren is amazing and I really connect with his music. Thank you for your insight, it’s great hearing from a professional and from someone who respects and appreciates Ren.

  • @ordinaryvalley

    @ordinaryvalley

    4 күн бұрын

  • @kellyt5341

    @kellyt5341

    4 күн бұрын

    💖.... very well done breaking that for your children. I did the same from an abusive mother but I found and met a sweet and caring man to help me break it. Married 35 yrs come Aug. and grandmother...two twin baby girls and a little boy. 😊

  • @Item_I_ate_them_pac-man

    @Item_I_ate_them_pac-man

    4 күн бұрын

    @@kellyt5341 wow 35 years, congratulations. Unfortunately I am in a loveless marriage I fear. We’re more like roommates than anything. He doesn’t get why I am like I am, what with coming from a very stable and loving/financially stable home. I’m sure I have had a part to play in it, what with struggling to show affection. But alas I have no true friends in a deep level, a husband I will just agree with because I hate confrontation and don’t want to leave to cause a broken home like I had. My kids are my world though.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    You are a resilient warrior! Keep going! Thanks for being here!

  • @two-sense

    @two-sense

    Күн бұрын

    You broke the cycle. That is removing a huge wall. Congratulate yourself for that as you continue your journey!

  • @andrewf3746
    @andrewf37464 күн бұрын

    Amazing isn't he. REN is pure genius.

  • @BiancaS1991
    @BiancaS19914 күн бұрын

    Where I live, if you ask for Dr. Violet at a hospital, it's a coded wording for "I'm being abused, I need help"

  • @shannonstradford6518

    @shannonstradford6518

    2 күн бұрын

    Wow. That's really interesting. I must find out if our hospital has a similar Dr code word. Peace

  • @malgreenley-lakedistrictvi5230
    @malgreenley-lakedistrictvi52304 күн бұрын

    I've lost count of how many reactions I've watched of this masterpiece . This is the best yet.

  • @AnneBiebrich

    @AnneBiebrich

    4 күн бұрын

    Agreed !

  • @williamparrish9954
    @williamparrish99545 күн бұрын

    Ren got the idea for Jenny tale from a news paper he read about a 14 year old boy that kill a streetwalker with a Knife

  • @karakreer6344

    @karakreer6344

    4 күн бұрын

    Yes, and in the news article the cop who shot screech was quoted as saying "...it's such a shame..."

  • @debbiehardisty3452
    @debbiehardisty34525 күн бұрын

    Love your breakdown on this x I was a ‘ violet ‘ and have never had help or therapy … it’s affected my whole life and I wish I and others could have met the person I should have become x

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    Thanks for being part of this awesome community!

  • @DavidLindes

    @DavidLindes

    Күн бұрын

    I hope you'll get to meet the person you still will become -- and I'm guessing the person you have become is pretty cool, too.

  • @joeuncoolio
    @joeuncoolioКүн бұрын

    Tale of Screech was written and performed first after Ren saw a news article about a police officer shot and killed a young boy. The officer was quoted as saying "it's such a shame." Several months later he wrote and performed the Tale of Jenny. Lastly, many months later he wrote Violet's Tale. I think it was nearly 3 years to write and perform all of them. He is a pure artist. He is good at absolutely everything music related.

  • @davidmarcus5833
    @davidmarcus58334 күн бұрын

    In the top 3 of reactions of the 100+ I have watched, for the deep insight into the inter-generational abuse, actually probably top spot.

  • @DenisMaksymowicz
    @DenisMaksymowicz5 сағат бұрын

    How you threw down your headphones once you came to the same realization that we all did. Priceless. All the previous analysis went out the window. That is Ren's genius

  • @arielbussart1305
    @arielbussart13054 күн бұрын

    The throwing of the headphones and the "no signal" sent me! We all knew it was coming, but your reaction was priceless. THAT SAID... I love that Ren isn't scared to talk about the hard things. His ability to spread awareness and start the "gross" conversations is epic. Thank you for this break down and conversation.

  • @hjr6139
    @hjr61395 күн бұрын

    The cycle of violence cannot be described better; I agree 100x100. I have seen several reactions to this trilogy and for me, yours is undoubtedly the most intelligent. To contribute something to what was said; the similarity in character of Jenny and Violet... and of Screech with Stevie. The life of the twins beginning and ending side by side...Ren suggests the configuration of the characters with very precise brushstrokes. It also takes advantage of the echoes of the rooms and all the tools at its disposal to support the narrative. He is undoubtedly a genius. A pleasure, as always, to hear your opinions with a lot of weight, undoubtedly the result of your knowledge and experience. Thank you!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    I really appreciate your kind words! Thank you! 🙏 😎🤟🎵

  • @bunnyshredderrl8689
    @bunnyshredderrl86893 күн бұрын

    What an intelligent reaction to this trilogy by Ren. I think you nailed this one on all levels.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Appreciate you!

  • @ambergarner8471
    @ambergarner847114 сағат бұрын

    The number of times that you had the Ending figured out without even realizing. Such a powerful and heartbreaking story. Trauma is truly generational and the cycle of abuse is truly endless. Great reaction!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    12 сағат бұрын

    Thanks for the positive vibes!

  • @revannyawryn3237
    @revannyawryn323718 сағат бұрын

    Ren's genius is so profound. He referenced an old children's rhyme but allowed you to finish it in your head in addition to that what his lyrics went on to say. "Knick Knack Paddy Whack...." Allowing our brains to finish the line "Give a dog a bone" which speaks very clearly to the focus Stevie had on his path of abusive behavior. Stevie was a dog with a bone. Which was a line Ren never even said, he allowed our brains to finish it. He is clever enough, I'm sure it was intentional on his part. So his lyrics he says are powerful and poignant as well as the lyrics he DIDN'T say. Impressive.

  • @karenlackner192
    @karenlackner1929 сағат бұрын

    When I first saw these video’s months ago all I could do is just sit with my mouth hanging open for a bit. Ren is an amazing musical artist, lyric genius, and a fabulous story teller with a message. My older brother and I were the ones in my family that stopped the long cycle of abuse for our future generations

  • @matthewschreiber2421
    @matthewschreiber24214 күн бұрын

    I've probably seen at least 50-75 reactors react to this. And your response to the end was one of the best. Also a great message after.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    I really appreciate you. Thanks for being here!

  • @elevown
    @elevown5 күн бұрын

    Thanks for doing more Ren :) 2 more you WILL be highly requested to do are Su!cide and For Joe- so a heads up- For Joe is a reworking of Su!icide with some extra stuff - and came out a month or 2 after it. Listening to it first will to a degree spoil the impact of Su!cide since it starts with the most impactful verses of it, but told in a less raw more song like manner - so I HIGHLY recommend that even if 'For Joe' gets more requests, you save it for for AFTER the origional version - su!cide. Ren added an hopeful tone to for joe which i think is the impression he wanted to leave you with after seeing both, but dosnt make sense seeing first.

  • @arklilbro

    @arklilbro

    4 күн бұрын

    I would add freckled angel to the list which is the real beginning.

  • @OleelO
    @OleelO5 күн бұрын

    I didnt know this either before watching 1000 reactions to this trilogy and reading comments, but apparently the mames James and Jenny are used in the UK like Jane and John Doe would be in the US.

  • @robgolding-photographer3485

    @robgolding-photographer3485

    4 күн бұрын

    This isn't true. They would be designated 'Unknown Male' &' Unknown Female'

  • @two-sense

    @two-sense

    Күн бұрын

    @@robgolding-photographer3485 Unless they identified as something else.

  • @EternalCreator
    @EternalCreator8 сағат бұрын

    You are the first person I've seen that caught the entirety of story and its implications in their first viewing. For instance, most people will have to listen twice to think of certain things like how screech and Jenny's interaction was exactly what it was because of the default responses they got from their parents, Jenny was quiet like violet and froze when met by screech, a violent boy who felt the full frustration of her being silent, just like his father. Odd satisfaction seeing someone not miss what was there to be seen the first time through 👍

  • @katiecoleman3205
    @katiecoleman32055 күн бұрын

    love seeing the addition of Ren's LP on your wall

  • @kiwigirljacks
    @kiwigirljacks5 күн бұрын

    You are so right about how he paints a visual… when he’s playing Stevie yelling at Violet after he has beaten her… it’s like you can almost see her huddling on the ground, silent, cowering…it’s so visceral!

  • @sanoraray
    @sanoraray5 күн бұрын

    Well, I was going to go to sleep. I always have to hear the psychological side of this story. Thank you. Im obsessed with why humans do what we do. Im at Violets Tale with you. I can tell you will be like me and wake up for the next few days still wanting to find Stevie and have a "chat". Ugh, the way Ren paints a picture is a blessing and a curse.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @two-sense

    @two-sense

    Күн бұрын

    Having a chat just brings you down to their level.

  • @davfive
    @davfive3 күн бұрын

    Well that was an inspired nugget: "we have things on our life that are instruments that we can use in ways we haven't discovered yet"

  • @joshuacraig6447
    @joshuacraig6447Күн бұрын

    This is perhaps the most impressive reaction I have watched to this song. You caught so many nuances I would never have thought about (Ren descending the stairs; Violet vs Violent). Your raw reaction shows your heart's sincerity. You just won a subscriber.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    Күн бұрын

    I appreciate your kind words! Glad you’re here. 🙏

  • @thecheekychipmunk9682
    @thecheekychipmunk96823 күн бұрын

    I’m always amazed at the realization that they were born together on the same night and they died together on the same night.

  • @AndrewJonesMcGuire
    @AndrewJonesMcGuire4 күн бұрын

    I've been so looking forward to reacting to this one. You did not disappoint. You should know, you might actually be the only reactor I have seen who has ever noticed the similarities between Violet and Jenny, and Stevie and Screech - before discovering the twist at the end. Now while none of us know what Ren's intentions were when he was crafting these stories, so whether this is intentional or not - is unknown, but you should be aware that in the UK the only way Violet got a council house at 16, when we have such a massive shortage of social housing, would be if she was ALREADY pregnant when she left home. Which means she would have been pregnant when she met Stevie already. This of course would mean the most likely father of Jenny and Screech would be Violet's own father, rather than is being Stevie - which might perhaps explain why Stevie was calling Violet a "little liar". I'm not sure how I feel about about Violet's mother being silent, and ignoring the abuse going on under her roof - but as a victim of child abuse, I would hypothesise that Violet's mother (as you point out with Violet herself) - very likely also was abused as a child, which is why she is silent, just like Violet - and has likely developed the drinking problem, as a way to not deal with the world. I don't excuse Violet's parents behaviour - just like I don't excuse my own biological parents behaviour. I simply try to understand what led them to here. One thing Ren HAS been very vocal about however, which I feel many reactors do miss - is that Screech in this story, is just as much a victim, as Jenny is. Now that you know a bit more Jenny's backstory via Violets tale - you now realise how old Jenny is, and that she is walking the streets in high heeled shoes with rouge on her cheeks "I swear to god I'll slice the rosy off your cheeks" - so we can have a guess that Jenny who has "walked these streets a thousand times before" - is also not in a good place in her life. Both Jenny and Screech have clearly been badly let down by the social care system, they have likely fallen through the cracks, and have been forgotten about, left to fend for themselves in whatever way they can. If Screech at 14, is involved with essentially gangs, and drugs - it's a pretty good guess - that he also is no longer in a foster home. One of the things I like about this trilogy - is that it can teach of the viewer, to consider other viewpoints than the main narrative - which we should all be doing a lot more of. Take a nature documentary as an example. We are shown a lioness with her cubs, she needs to kill to feed her cubs, so we cheer as she chases the antelope, and kills it, because her cubs will eat today. But there is of course another side to the story, if the story was being told was that the antelope was out getting food for it's own offspring, and they would die if the lioness killed the antelope, then we would be cheering if the antelope escaped from the lioness, even though that would mean the lionesses' cubs would not eat. We need to be taught to observe all aspects of a situation, rather than just being fed a narrative and following that. Thank you for a very informative reaction. Have a great day.

  • @cyclops60

    @cyclops60

    4 күн бұрын

    Well said @AndrewJonesMcGuire, it's easier said than done to break the cycle. We are all victims of victims to some extent or another. What's so great about Ren is that he is starting conversations about uncomfortable truths. He also makes the point repeatedly about holding the mirror up to ourselves rather than just blaming everyone else for society's ills.

  • @jorice5528

    @jorice5528

    4 күн бұрын

    One of the very best reactions I’ve seen to the masterpiece that is the tales and both your comments are the very best I’ve read in response. I speak from my own childhood DV experiences & how it shaped my psychology. At 53, looking back on my (and my 2 older sisters & our mum’s) “life of survival”, although we escaped many years ago, I can see very clearly how our relationships & coping mechanisms were all solidly moulded by our developed fight/flight/freeze surviving methods. Understanding how, why & where these cycles of intergenerational trauma & violence “come from”, is a crucial step in breaking those cycles. Our Father was one of 11 siblings who grew up watching their own father abuse alcohol & their mother, of the 11, 6 were boys & they “all” grew up & repeated their Fathers cycle. Of the 5 girls, 2 broke the cycle & Married wonderful men, 2 fell victim to repeating the trauma like Violet and 1, true story, drove the get away car for a bank robbery committed by Chopper Read. 2 out of 11 managed to break the cycle 🥹

  • @beverlywest7627
    @beverlywest7627Күн бұрын

    Ren is such a talent, such an ability to tell a story thru music. He makes us think.

  • @pault6639
    @pault66392 күн бұрын

    I love the way Ren poetically bookends Screech's tale with "Our story it starts right at the end" (presumably the 'end' being the death of Jenny) and "Our story it ends right at the start" (with the death of Screech). Masterful lyricism.

  • @laurentyvangurewitch3940
    @laurentyvangurewitch39404 күн бұрын

    Enormously satisfying breakdown of a masterpiece. Concise, insightful, you did this song justice!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    ❤️🤟🎵🙏

  • @thecheekychipmunk9682
    @thecheekychipmunk96823 күн бұрын

    I’m always amazed at the realization that they were born together on the same night and they died together on the same night. 💔

  • @MatthewC137
    @MatthewC1372 күн бұрын

    Violet is also phonetically not far from violate, perhaps especially to our subconscious mind.

  • @jeffwilson3205
    @jeffwilson32055 күн бұрын

    “So how do we stop intergenerational abuse”? Brilliant ending to your video. I hope Ren sees this…your response, I believe, is what Ren was hoping to inspire with this awful trilogy. It’s why Ren wrote these songs. To dig into the ugly and inspire change. To me the most profound moment is at the beginning of Violet’s tale, after he finishes the intro and gathers himself…put’s on his Minstrel’s mask. This whole thing is hard truth, meant to make it hard to look away.

  • @DavidLindes
    @DavidLindesКүн бұрын

    That this affected you deeply enough to go "NO SIGNAL" speaks volumes -- on Ren's art, on the authenticity of your reaction, on the profound weight of the stories of these cycles. I dunno if you're only doing new stuff, but if not, I wouldn't mind hearing your reaction to Tracy Chapman's "Behind the Wall" or Pat Benetar's "Hell is for Children". Each different than this, but both on the general topic... and powerful in their own (different) ways.

  • @chrissi5777
    @chrissi57774 күн бұрын

    Ren is a great artist who helps us and makes us more bearable in the form of I'm not alone! I hope this art is not forgotten

  • @Punatik
    @Punatik4 күн бұрын

    I’m writing this at the end of Jenny’s tale. Even at this point your reaction and your thinking is so clear and SO line with Ren’s it’s amazing. Hearing you say “manifestation of darkness” when talking about James/Screech and knowing how Ren says he “melted into the black night”…You are good!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it! 😎🎵🙏

  • @Punatik
    @Punatik4 күн бұрын

    This has been the best reaction of the Tale’s that I’ve seen. You pointed out something I missed, the actual physical descending of Screech. I also appreciated your genuine anger at Violet’s father, mother, and Stevie. That part of the story deserves more than the little wince that it most often gets.

  • @pointlesslab4179

    @pointlesslab4179

    4 күн бұрын

    Felt sick first time I watched and took me a second try to get through it. Too close to home

  • @Punatik

    @Punatik

    4 күн бұрын

    Yeah. No matter how many times I watch, I tear up for Violet every time.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    I really appreciate you. Shine on!

  • @Holcroft1969
    @Holcroft19693 күн бұрын

    Great reaction mate. I'm mid 50's now and I must've watched this video a million times and I still cry every time without fail. He's such a clever lad.

  • @seanleo3464
    @seanleo34643 күн бұрын

    I’m listening to this reaction while I’m working, I’ve been a huge fan of rens since hi Ren came out but every time I hear the tales trilogy, God, I can’t wait to get home and hug my kids in the morning and let them know how much I love them.

  • @monykasaso
    @monykasaso4 күн бұрын

    The best reaction I've ever seen to the trilogy!! I knew Violet's Tale was going to be hard for you but thank you for doing them. This story sadly happens in the world and Ren is a genius to wave it in such a way that makes it relatable but does not romantize the abuse.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Very nice to hear that! Thanks for sharing your kind words! ❤️😎🎵🙏

  • @im2yz4u17
    @im2yz4u174 күн бұрын

    One of the absolute best reactions of the Tales.

  • @okcdog5439
    @okcdog543912 сағат бұрын

    I discovered Ren a few months ago and had watched several of his videos, but it took me quite a while to react to this trilogy. I had read that it deals with intergenerational violence and given that my father was an abusive alcoholic, I needed my head to be in the right place before I felt ready to watch it. I wish I had watched this reaction to the trilogy, instead of tackling it on my own. I really enjoyed this reaction; I found it reassuring.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    7 сағат бұрын

    I’m glad you found it reassuring. Shine on!

  • @davepowell6835
    @davepowell68355 күн бұрын

    Have a little empathy for Violets mother. Yes, she didn't say anything , so she is culpable, but I am sure her husband was abusive to her long before he started on his daughter. She took refuge in alcohol and probably had the same character as her daughter and grand-daughter ie silent to abuse. The twins would have been taken into the care system which failed them, and alongside their genetics was a lethal combination. Speech thought Jenny was a lady, not a fourteen year old girl, because she had makeup ( rosy cheeks) and high heels etc. At 14 she had walked the floor 1000 times dressed like that so it is probable but not stated, that she was involved in prostitution from a very young age, which is very commonly the fate of girls in care in the UK. Such a sad story ,but so realistic. Thanks for a great reaction

  • @Seelieness

    @Seelieness

    4 күн бұрын

    Exactly, and probably part of this family's story for generations past.

  • @gember1382

    @gember1382

    4 күн бұрын

    Same for the father. The chance he was also abused as a child is likely (given the statistics)

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts. I’m glad you brought this up. It’s certainly a multifaceted issue, and it’s important to differentiate between empathy and endorsement. Empathy: yes. Endorsement: no. Thanks for spreading the healing power of music!

  • @petttybettty

    @petttybettty

    Күн бұрын

    ​@gember1382 I will not empathize with angove committing SA because they, too, experienced it. Never. Specially a parent.

  • @davidricks7128
    @davidricks71283 күн бұрын

    Ren tells the stories and the filming of the stories are all done so well i found myself looking for the bodies laying on the ground. The saddest thing about this is the fact each of these things are happening in every country at this very moment and the cycle continues

  • @blackberrystag
    @blackberrystag4 күн бұрын

    The passion that is so clear in your voice, and in your face, speaks volumes. Thank you for helping fight these battles.

  • @williamparrish9954
    @williamparrish99545 күн бұрын

    at the start of Jenny tale Ren is beatboxing trumpet

  • @ClearTheRubble7
    @ClearTheRubble74 күн бұрын

    Excellent reaction to Therapist Ren! (I'm glad you said that he's a therapist, because the effect his music has had on me has been very therapeutic.) I grew up on the wrong side of the tracks in a Jenny-and-Screech household, with two alcoholic parents who both died young or fairly young. Even though I'm a guy, my personality is more passive--so I ended up on the "victim" and co-dependent side of things, like Jenny and Violet. My bottled-up anger was directed mostly at myself in the form of depression and self-harm, though I later realized that it was also hurting other people in more indirect, passive-aggressive ways. Fortunately I was able to get therapy for a while and then continue that process as self-therapy, which I do to this day. Discovering Ren and his music (and listening to reactors like you) is an extension of that. My sister became a therapist later in life, and uses music therapy as one of her modalities. I started sharing Ren songs with her, which she has shared with some of her clients, including a woman with Lyme disease. I've seen reactions to the Trilogy many times, but you're the first one to mention some of the more subtle elements, like Screech sitting in the shadows and then descending down the stairs. Likewise, I see the spiral staircase in Violet's Tale as the metaphor for violence "spiraling out of control." Thank you for your reaction and analysis! Subbed! 🤠

  • @yiayiashearttarot5563
    @yiayiashearttarot55634 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this great and important reaction. Ren is truly gifted at conveying devastating stories in a way that allows people to LIVE them, rather than being told about them. The impact is so much deeper! I have seen so many reactors vilify Screech, Stevie, and Violet’s parents. Yes, their actions are horrific, but it is hard to imagine that they came to be this abusive and neglectful any other way than by living through it themselves. Thank you for bringing more awareness to the way that this type of trauma branches out and touches so much more than most people may realize.

  • @lulumeto
    @lulumeto5 сағат бұрын

    Top shelf reaction to Ren and valuable lessons for us all. Thank you❤

  • @mmoo5070
    @mmoo507013 сағат бұрын

    I’m only half way through Screeches tale and I think your insight is incredibly awesome!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    12 сағат бұрын

    🤟😎🙏

  • @barbarahatcher5942
    @barbarahatcher59424 күн бұрын

    I've watched so many reactions to the Tales. This one is so insightful and enjoyable -- one of the very best! Thank you!!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @kevingood4644
    @kevingood46442 күн бұрын

    You’re my kind of person. Your empathy shines bright. 🙏 Your patients landed on their feet with you.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    2 күн бұрын

    Very nice of you to say that. 🙏 Thank you for being here.

  • @meggsy82
    @meggsy824 күн бұрын

    You are by far my favorite reactor in the mental health sector. Your insight is spot on and very appreciated. Can't wait to see you go further down the rabbit hole. I have so many I want to recommend. I would love to see your take on Dominoes. I think you'll have a lot to sink your teeth into. It's one of his most impactful song, in my opinion. You can't really go wrong with a Ren song though. For something on the more uplifting side, try Humble. I also think it's important to watch his 1 Million subscribers-defining success video to get a peak into his views outside of music.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Very kind of you! Thanks 🙏

  • @kendrakirkham641
    @kendrakirkham6414 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this reaction which was so mesmerising from the beginning when you immediately began to talk about how a child's background can leave them stuck etc...and particularly interesting to me was a new concept to me which was to look at our default reaction in order to change patterns. I can and will relate that to myself and change a n unhealthy pattern or two! Even though the trilogy is difficult to watch, I have watched it a dozen times and I was dying of anticipation waiting for your reaction to the last verse / line and you didn't disappoint. You are always enjoyable to watch reacting to Ren's work and it is an education also. Gratitude to you and as always to Ren

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your kind words and support! ❤️🎵🙏

  • @mdh6977
    @mdh69774 күн бұрын

    i shed a tear every time i watch this story, and ive watched it a fair number of times... ren is such a powerful story teller and this is such a powerful story to tell... i believe this is loosely based on a news article he read

  • @ozzy7109
    @ozzy71094 күн бұрын

    This is the best reaction I've seen of this trilogy... Loved it

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Thanks for your kind words! 🤟🙏🎵

  • @davidmccain4133
    @davidmccain41334 күн бұрын

    ive heard these songs so many times but i get chills every time at the ending

  • @Phazetic99
    @Phazetic994 күн бұрын

    I love that you have the sick boi album cover next to those other great bands! In the first song you mentioned M Night Sham (can't spell it lol), and I thought that was funny because when I describe this song, I describe it as a kind of musical 6th Sense vibe, but not in the way you meant it at the begining. I meant it as the twist at the end. I love the twist, I love the reactions, I love when people are actively paying attention and have been playing this song like a movie in their head. They get so emotionally invested and tricked psychologically to feel this way and then to have the carpet ripped out under them, to see that a trick was played. But then to realize the FULL implications of the what happened. It is a truly magical song preformed as masterful as a David Copperfield special

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Well said!

  • @patp8526
    @patp85265 күн бұрын

    Thank you 🙏

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    You’re welcome 😊 Glad you’re here!

  • @Vmcf1968
    @Vmcf19684 күн бұрын

    ty for giving good steps to take to break this ugly cycle. my father came from an abusive home. he broke the cycle with my sister and i. it was tough for him. i thank his memory everyday for giving me the tools to lead a productive life without abusing his authority as a father.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Awesome to hear about the progress! Thanks for sharing!

  • @JulieAiken
    @JulieAiken4 күн бұрын

    My favorite thing you said was "I don't know if Ren did it intentionally or not..." Ren does not take a breath in a video that isn't intentional. He is meticulous. The play on words of "violet" and "violence" comes up in a later Ren rap battle with King Dotta, which is totally worth your watch as it once and for all settles the question of who Ren is and why he is on this earth. (Sorry for the hyperbole; Ren inspires that in his fans!) Anyway, welcome to Ren's world. It is so rich psychologically -- not only his music but his life story, which continues to this day as he is literally right now starting a new chapter. Enjoy the rabbit hole. (And watch your subscription count sky rocket, as I'm sure it already has.) Great video -- thank you! I've subscribed.

  • @francesdoll4039

    @francesdoll4039

    4 күн бұрын

    Only going to add that the Trilogy is on Ren's personal top 5..and ad a former therapist myself, ti note that the progression of violence goes the other way as well . Imagine the growing up of Violet's parents and grandparents as well. All of the issues so entertained with culture and ownership of family members. Even without such blatant abuse, everyone is victim to the culture of violence. Great analysis!❤

  • @lillia5333
    @lillia5333Күн бұрын

    Another artist fitting for Heal with music is Aurora. She does heal with her music. Maybe start with Murder Song (54321) from Nobel Peace Prize or Through the Eyes of a Child from Nidarosdomen. Thanks for a great reaction to Ren❤

  • @belinda35
    @belinda354 күн бұрын

    I've watched countless reactions to The Tales, and this is by far my favorite. You have such great insight and your reactions were so genuine. Thank you.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Thank you! 😊

  • @staceyjayneplatt9527
    @staceyjayneplatt95274 күн бұрын

    A new UK 🇬🇧 Subscriber here 🇺🇸🇬🇧👏👏👏👏👏👏 Absolutely brilliant analysis of this tragic tale Sir🫡 Actually one of the best I have heard so far 👍👍 looking forward to watching you react further into REN’s catalogue 👍👍

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Awesome! Thanks! 🙏 😎🤟🎵

  • @gracesprocket7340
    @gracesprocket7340Күн бұрын

    The publicity 'short' for the first of these "Instagram Stories: Screech" is available on Ren's YT channel, and is very worth a watch - giving context for the fictional Screech. The story is based on a real police involved shooting and the murder during a failed mugging of a prostitute by a 14 year old boy... The police spokesman relating the events kept repeating 'It's such a shame'... and that inspired this project from its insufficiency.

  • @poisonidea
    @poisonidea5 күн бұрын

    Been looking forward to this reaction for quite some time! Thank you ❤

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    My pleasure!! 😎🤟🎵

  • @Markus-uc5jq
    @Markus-uc5jq4 күн бұрын

    What a great reaction. And what brilliant storytelling, like (pain)ting pictures by Ren, which can inspire such a reaction. Celtic bard, combined with Shakespearean writing...

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it

  • @dropbarracuda
    @dropbarracuda4 күн бұрын

    New subscriber, amazing reaction! 🙏❤ If you want to see a modern-day miracle, take a look at the comments sections on reactions to the Tales trilogy. Ren's music has manifested the Renegades, people around the world who have come together and formed safe, non-judgmental, spaces where people who have first-hand experience with the difficult topics Ren highlights so open and unflinchingly. The Tales are *so* very important because they force the viewer to understand the horrors and tragedy of this story. I've read so many accounts in these comment sections of people who feel "seen" again through the phenomenon of understanding and recognition the Tales create. I've seen the Renegades come together to give incredible, loving support to complete strangers, and in many cases have seen accounts of the healing people have experienced through the power of community by exposing these topics out into the glaring light for ALL of us to see.

  • @sorenm.lairdsorries7547
    @sorenm.lairdsorries75472 күн бұрын

    Thank you 🙏❤ Jim ❤ for your 🐷 Ren - ❎❎🎸🎺🏥🔪 The Tale of Jenny and Screech reaction! #ren #taleofjennyandscreech #violetstale

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    2 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it! Shine on! ❤️🤟😎🎵🙏👍

  • @Phoenix_flying
    @Phoenix_flying2 күн бұрын

    Everything about this is genius. There are simply too many elements to comment on. Great analysis! Thank you.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    Күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @DogDocKat
    @DogDocKat4 күн бұрын

    This is one of the best reactions to this masterpiece that I have watched. Such a powerful story performed by an amazing storyteller. Tragic, touching and true. Really appreciated your analysis to this one. 💜💜

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it! ❤️😎🎵🙏

  • @janiceN4Nugs
    @janiceN4Nugs3 күн бұрын

    This is one of the best reactions I've seen to this trilogy. To break down the character stories just from the music and your interpretation ❤ but also the reaction to the end

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Appreciate you. 🙏🤟🤟🎵

  • @Dstinii
    @Dstinii4 күн бұрын

    If you want a great insight to Screech and his life, please see Ren's depiction of it in 'Screech's Tale Instagram Stories' on his youtube. To promote the song/video being released he acted out Screech's life over a few days, showing how he is with friends, his home life, what drives him to what led to that night and meeting Jenny. Screech is desperate for love and attention but struggles desperately. Ren has done a fantastic job portraying this. We need him making films.

  • @JIGreenOneNine
    @JIGreenOneNine4 күн бұрын

    Really enjoyed this mate. Thanks for the reaction.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it

  • @lynette.
    @lynette.2 күн бұрын

    Jennyys tale was prompted by a newspaper story and people saying its such a shame then a few months later came Screeches tale then it was nearly 2 years later he released Violets tale tying it all together. Masterpiece. To me the very final shock is the realisation that Jenny is 14 too and walking the streets in high heels and all that implies.

  • @salishseamermaid
    @salishseamermaid4 күн бұрын

    Ren is one of the few artists I apply the term genius to, but I think it applies.

  • @brianbru
    @brianbru21 сағат бұрын

    A wee part nobody ever seems to catch is why Screech's girlfriend and his best mate weren't available.... they were with each other.

  • @allybandy3047
    @allybandy30475 күн бұрын

    Excellent reaction!!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed

  • @glyngasson8450
    @glyngasson8450Күн бұрын

    Jenny is silent, like her mother and Screech is violent, like his father

  • @Kenai2008
    @Kenai20084 күн бұрын

    I thoroughly enjoyed your reaction. Generational violence is true and lives in silence. Thanks for the analysis. Much love to you! ♥

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Great to hear that! Thanks! 😎❤️🎵🙏

  • @ThePandemicFlu
    @ThePandemicFlu10 сағат бұрын

    You have earned my sub. Wish you were my therapist. Great insight to the story.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    7 сағат бұрын

    Thanks and welcome! 🙏

  • @kerstinahlstrand1626
    @kerstinahlstrand16265 күн бұрын

    Loved your reaction!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you!! 😁

  • @kennethriddle433
    @kennethriddle4332 күн бұрын

    People that stay in abusive relations keep hearing that voice in their head that says "If I'm just good, they'll stop". They blame themselves for their situation. They also think it will get better. I say this from experience...It will not get better. If they know they can get away with abusing you, they will never stop. Life is too short to go through it terrified. Get out. It will be painful, but not as painful as a broken bone.

  • 3 күн бұрын

    Yes, talking about abuse is mandatory. So, please, please, analyse "Uninvited" by Ren, and break down the second level message in it.

  • @cathrinewitty6749
    @cathrinewitty67495 күн бұрын

    History repeats itself the beginning is the end and the end is the beginning. Unfortunately this pattern happens more often than we like, although Jenny and James didn’t grow up with their birth parents many times in the foster/care system things are similar. We as society must do better. Your breakdown of Jenny’s journey in life is absolutely spot on. I think it’s very clever how Ren gave us the image that Jenny was a lady of the night without ever having to say it. May I also point out that knife crime in the UK is huge especially among teens and young adults. I would assume it’s similar to gun crime in America if they were to be compared. Violet’s tale is a hard listen but all too common and I’m sure in your profession you see many victims of situations just like this one. I don’t think I’ve seen you struggle to get through a reaction as much as you did with violet’s tale. I hope you are okay 🙂

  • @antiqueinsider

    @antiqueinsider

    5 күн бұрын

    And Ren generally avoids any of the words that KZread idiocy will have problems with!

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    4 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the kind words. Glad you’re here!

  • @ThaPietjah
    @ThaPietjah4 күн бұрын

    For me at the moment Ren is the best artist I know. I think you will love Ren - Domino's

  • @melissaandjosh6210
    @melissaandjosh62104 күн бұрын

    I came across your channel just searching for Ren reactions and I’m glad I did. I’ve watched way too many ( maybe not lol ) reactions to this trilogy but you picked up on points nobody else I’ve seen has. Especially with the names like Violet and the trauma from generational abuse. Excellent reaction, I subscribed and hope to see you do more Ren.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    Thanks for subscribing! More to come.

  • @scottclark3761
    @scottclark37613 күн бұрын

    If this experience isn't heartwrenching to you, I don't want to know you. But the storytelling is next level. It's beautiful, and horrific, and tragic....it's Art.

  • @Shacko14
    @Shacko144 күн бұрын

    Great reaction... it's clear that you have a lot of passion about what you do, and it is great to see. Your analysis was excellent all through the video.

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    I appreciate that!

  • @MrAfrojoe89
    @MrAfrojoe892 күн бұрын

    Thank you Doc, I appreciate and value your thoughts and time. Thank you sir, you deserve a lot more peeps peeping your channel !

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    Күн бұрын

    I appreciate that! More to come!

  • @cherylwitter5038
    @cherylwitter50383 күн бұрын

    Ren is a genius and your reaction was great

  • @MusicHealsYT

    @MusicHealsYT

    3 күн бұрын

    🙏

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