PSA-It’s ok if you don’t have it all together sometimes!🫶🏼 Honest convo as a Mom of 5
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@-living4jesus4ever-8 ай бұрын
Deut 31:8 “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” I’ve been holding fast to this verse lately and I pray it blesses you. 🌻🙏✨
@AshbayFam
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this!!❤️
@-living4jesus4ever-
6 ай бұрын
@@AshbayFamyou’re welcome, from one sis in Christ to another. He’s got you and His Grace is enough. 🩵
@vineandbranch
6 ай бұрын
Love this!! I love when I see a comment that brings it to the Lord. 💚
@-living4jesus4ever-
6 ай бұрын
@@vineandbranch it’s all about Him! God bless you on this fresh new Monday. 🙏🩵
@ourcozycorner8517
6 ай бұрын
Yesss this. Thanks for sharing!
@stephaniem.59248 ай бұрын
Yes, same here 😩! It's definitely okay not to have it all together. As someone who has really struggled with their mental health the last year I can relate to this so much. They say the state of our house is a representation of the state of our mind and it is soooo very true! Thank you for sharing ❤. We need those breaks ❤
@rahat693
8 ай бұрын
Yess agreed no one ask the SHAM if she is doing okay or needs a break, all they see is the mess and unfinished tasks😢
@sunshineandsoul8 ай бұрын
I appreciate the raw and the realness. I love your channel so much but tbh sometimes your content is hard for me to watch because you seem so perfect. Thank you for thissssss.
@AshbayFam
8 ай бұрын
That’s def not my goal! I’m trying to figure out a way to incorporate a balance of the good and bad
@sunshineandsoul
8 ай бұрын
@@AshbayFam Thanks for taking the time to respond. You are doing a stellar job and you definitely have a spirit of excellence that is super admirable. I appreciate your transparency. 🤍
@psalmethyst8 ай бұрын
When this happens, I try to be open to my kids and say, mommy is struggling and need help, can you please do your own laundry this time/clean up this+that mess? And then I see them so willingly do it for me. I feel blessed and then I feel better!
@TheAngeltinks
8 ай бұрын
Thank you……
@TheSaltyRemnant8 ай бұрын
I love the honesty. The quiet time away always helps to launch me further than if I just keep grinding away.
@tyslearninglab78856 ай бұрын
You are right, as moms we do get overwhelmed. Sometimes we just need a minute.
@loisshowalter99118 ай бұрын
I hope you have found some peace for your heart and mind ! Life can be brutal, hang on tight and count your blessings! Not every day can be Sunday ready ! Mom of seven.
@Rosie_C8 ай бұрын
I just discovered using one of those mini cordless vacuums for cleaning up the kids shoe drawers!! I think I squealed out loud the first time I tried it, it was so convenient and efficient!!
@breerodriguez2588 ай бұрын
Love this so much! I needed to hear this. Thanks for sharing
@vap3228 ай бұрын
I need to learn to relax and let stuff go sometimes.
@DianaGonzalez-gl5ho8 ай бұрын
Thank you for being REAL I’ve been struggling over a year now but I keep going 🙏🏻
@aidtij8 ай бұрын
My house looks like this a lot. I battle depression and I praise God for the days I have the strength to cook a meal, clean, and do the laundry. On the days that I can’t even get myself to take a shower, I praise Him too, because I know he’s fighting my battles and I just need to hang in there and lean on His love and peace while I take it one step at a time 🫶
@Justagirl3258 ай бұрын
Yes keep it real can’t be perfect all the time but you got it back on track
@jessicasweet1147 ай бұрын
Really love all of it!! Us moms try to take the weight off the world, and we can’t do anything without God!! Taking time off is a great idea!! As a mom of only 3 I never thought that was possible !! Thank you for showing me it is and it’s a great idea I never thought of !!
@lisaelliott38647 ай бұрын
Thank you! Our Father has taught me that thete is a reason he tells us to cast all our cares upon Him! He knew we couldn't handle it all! Thank you, I needed this today! Be encouraged!
@youniquem46328 ай бұрын
Wow thank you ! Needed this !!!!!! Please post more of these and also the orderly videos as well 😊 but this was refreshing
@-living4jesus4ever-
8 ай бұрын
Agreed. Authenticity & grace are beautiful. 🌻☀️
@disenchantedtear82197 ай бұрын
Thank you for keeping it real and showing us other struggling mommas that we are not alone! 🥰
@Lucyvanb5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for being so honest. This is so helpful for me. I'm sorry for your devastating news. I wish you peace too move forward. Thank you for inspiring me to allow myself to have time "off" when needed. Much love
@lisamedland52678 ай бұрын
Thank you for the realness We don't see that enough on social media You got this pull yourself out of that rut you got this and you know you aren't meant to carry the weight of the world but God will give you strength to carry the weights that you should carry and are able to carry with him!
@kadiearnswald79673 ай бұрын
Amen sweet heart. Same over here, mom of 5
@shannonskiptomylife8 ай бұрын
I love this so much! Thank you.
@mandysellen33688 ай бұрын
Same here! Glad to see I’m not alone xoxo We got this - God has us
@jusino0076 ай бұрын
Amen felt this last week getting back to routine slowly
@britl40998 ай бұрын
❤John 16:33 NLT❤ [33] I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” ❤
@jessicaredding51448 ай бұрын
Thank you for your transparency. I struggle with different routines that will work. Stay positive, momma❤
@herleanrivers95347 ай бұрын
Yes I love the giving yourself grace, I’m learning this is so important.❤
@plainmom27 ай бұрын
As moms we need breaks too 🫣 mental health is important. Keep doing you mama 💪🏼🫶🏼
@mapletree80868 ай бұрын
I hope you’re doing better hun ❤ it’s good to take a break from things
@banmeetkaur17878 ай бұрын
You are Amazing! A super human yourself! It’s motivating to see someone do such a good job at being the most amazing self they know! You go girl!
@kellydimuzio17857 ай бұрын
Much needed for me. Thank you!
@JimsLady-8 ай бұрын
It happens to the everyone * know that you are an inspiring woman. You encourage me to want to be a better woman, mother, wife etc. Everyone has hard times, know that you got this*
@jesuslovesyoucw7 ай бұрын
Love the relatable honesty. Thank you.
@chrisashbay81058 ай бұрын
Wise words momma!
@liliamartinez4707 ай бұрын
Totally there with you! Keep it up! You are so inspiring 😇
@shewolf69968 ай бұрын
It’s always relieving when everything builds up and it ends up being “a load of laundry” or “a load of dishes” 🩷
@nf3258 ай бұрын
Your before is like my norm when I feel fine. It's refreshing to see reality. Feel better if a mini-mess is not your norm.
@rashmimathur53188 ай бұрын
You are awesome ❤ dont you forget it. Its okay to take breaks
@esperanzabh8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! 💗 on another note i would love to know more about those M-F clothing bins you had!!
@maysen778 ай бұрын
You are an amazing human! I’m so glad you took that time for yourself 💓 everyone deserves self care. And whatever you and your family are going through, y’all are in my thoughts are prayers ❤️
@Nikki-ks6wi8 ай бұрын
Just got through my first trimester with my second and my gosh thank you for showing your home it looks just like mine I’m taking time catching up
@nourisheddaily4088 ай бұрын
I love your posts I appreciate this msg I hope you regain ur sense of peace ❤
@katelynwade7718 ай бұрын
I love the honesty, I have had a very similar week.
@bamboospirits91248 ай бұрын
I needed this love❣️ As I too have gotten off track… #NewlySingleGodlyMomOf5 may God bless your honesty and openness 🙏🏽 Thank you❣️❣️❣️❣️
@laurasbrain43448 ай бұрын
Best of your videos. Natural. Healthy. Thank you. Hugs from Germany.
@LaveenGnanasunthar6 ай бұрын
so clean. Great job
@marleneferia5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@reddeperlasnetofpearls55528 ай бұрын
Love your Honesty! ❤
@Pocketlint1438 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video ❤
@NaturalRhythmss8 ай бұрын
this is So BeautifuLL and powerful 💜 thank you for your vulnerability to share your humaniss its beautiful.•°☆.•°♡
@serenequeen89738 ай бұрын
Hope you’re okay beautiful and you are doing such an amazing job 💕
@Ksu111238 ай бұрын
You are amazing! Wow your house is such an inspiration! Bless you and your family!
@anamyengle90188 ай бұрын
I hope you are doing better! You inspire me! 🤗🌻
@VanessaRose8 ай бұрын
This helps me feel better. Thank you:)
@my55127 ай бұрын
my husband needs to see this.
@ashleyjones77148 ай бұрын
You're doing a fantastic job!❤❤❤❤
@andrea35188 ай бұрын
Can you please do a longer video...would love the cleaning motivation.
@bonnypurac59238 ай бұрын
And its ok to get the kids to help out with chores especially if they are at an age where they can understand. When i see these videos it always seems that the wife mother is doing everything. My apologies if thats not the case here.Hope things start to get better. I think you are pretty amazing and keep a gorgeous home.❤❤
@copiouscat8 ай бұрын
Damn I must be going through a freaking crisis these past couple days
@peilootok45038 ай бұрын
Love u. Pray that u get lots of rest and in Jesus name heal
@carlypoulin17588 ай бұрын
Something must be in the air because same!
@AshbayFam
8 ай бұрын
Life just feels kinda heavy lately!
@Tidyingthenest
7 ай бұрын
@@AshbayFamhope you’re doing okay you haven’t been on KZread in awhile !
@steffistecher24018 ай бұрын
So relatable ❤😂
@luftfiltertogo15137 ай бұрын
Thx for sharing...so nice
@connieo39277 ай бұрын
As a mother, we need to remember to give ourselves a break, often. It is perfectly fine to have a messy house sometimes. God wouldn't stop loving you or stop blessing you. Each child equals to a full time job, do the math😊. So my dear, remember to give yourself a break often and just take it one day at a time
@lw34438 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾👼🏾📖🕊️
@rebeccah.64038 ай бұрын
Pregnant with my 4th and I feel like such a failure. For some reason I thought I'd be a super mom and my symptoms wouldn't hold me down. Apparently, NOT. Disappointed I'm not as disciplined and in routine as I'd like to be.
@MayWinn
Ай бұрын
Hey. Im not a mom but I know what it’s like, to not feel together. Im constantly getting mad at myself for not being productive. But give yourself some grace. You are not a failure. Just because you don’t feel disciplined doesn’t mean you area a bad mom. At the end of the day your kids aren’t going to think, “ oh mom didn’t clean the kitchen today.” . They are going think about if they felt loved. Just focus on loving them and things will get easier. You’ve got this❤
@rebeccah.6403
Ай бұрын
@@MayWinn Thank you, this is a great reminder!
@TheSaltyRemnant8 ай бұрын
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@kathleenbolanos7 ай бұрын
❤
@elenagtz.61258 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@ecc8156 ай бұрын
Those Monday through Friday clothes organizers, did you make those or buy those?
@AshbayFam
6 ай бұрын
Bought them and then ordered the labels! Everything is in my LTK! I believe it’s in my bio or you can search @unexpected.blessings on the ltk site or app🤗
@rose89685 ай бұрын
Vacuum brand please
@jaywires7177 ай бұрын
Are those to washing machines side by side?
@jadedavis69438 ай бұрын
Where did you get your bed?
@jessiebowman42787 ай бұрын
Where did she go?????????
@phillisob8 ай бұрын
What if we never have it all together? 😂
@pseudonympseudonym25958 ай бұрын
It’s super trendy to talk about not being perfect on social media.
@MayWinn
Ай бұрын
Well it might be a trend but the reason she is doing it because sometimes it looks like she has it all together. So she wants to show that she’s not perfect and encourage mothers out there who need it
Пікірлер: 95
Deut 31:8 “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” I’ve been holding fast to this verse lately and I pray it blesses you. 🌻🙏✨
@AshbayFam
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this!!❤️
@-living4jesus4ever-
6 ай бұрын
@@AshbayFamyou’re welcome, from one sis in Christ to another. He’s got you and His Grace is enough. 🩵
@vineandbranch
6 ай бұрын
Love this!! I love when I see a comment that brings it to the Lord. 💚
@-living4jesus4ever-
6 ай бұрын
@@vineandbranch it’s all about Him! God bless you on this fresh new Monday. 🙏🩵
@ourcozycorner8517
6 ай бұрын
Yesss this. Thanks for sharing!
Yes, same here 😩! It's definitely okay not to have it all together. As someone who has really struggled with their mental health the last year I can relate to this so much. They say the state of our house is a representation of the state of our mind and it is soooo very true! Thank you for sharing ❤. We need those breaks ❤
@rahat693
8 ай бұрын
Yess agreed no one ask the SHAM if she is doing okay or needs a break, all they see is the mess and unfinished tasks😢
I appreciate the raw and the realness. I love your channel so much but tbh sometimes your content is hard for me to watch because you seem so perfect. Thank you for thissssss.
@AshbayFam
8 ай бұрын
That’s def not my goal! I’m trying to figure out a way to incorporate a balance of the good and bad
@sunshineandsoul
8 ай бұрын
@@AshbayFam Thanks for taking the time to respond. You are doing a stellar job and you definitely have a spirit of excellence that is super admirable. I appreciate your transparency. 🤍
When this happens, I try to be open to my kids and say, mommy is struggling and need help, can you please do your own laundry this time/clean up this+that mess? And then I see them so willingly do it for me. I feel blessed and then I feel better!
@TheAngeltinks
8 ай бұрын
Thank you……
I love the honesty. The quiet time away always helps to launch me further than if I just keep grinding away.
You are right, as moms we do get overwhelmed. Sometimes we just need a minute.
I hope you have found some peace for your heart and mind ! Life can be brutal, hang on tight and count your blessings! Not every day can be Sunday ready ! Mom of seven.
I just discovered using one of those mini cordless vacuums for cleaning up the kids shoe drawers!! I think I squealed out loud the first time I tried it, it was so convenient and efficient!!
Love this so much! I needed to hear this. Thanks for sharing
I need to learn to relax and let stuff go sometimes.
Thank you for being REAL I’ve been struggling over a year now but I keep going 🙏🏻
My house looks like this a lot. I battle depression and I praise God for the days I have the strength to cook a meal, clean, and do the laundry. On the days that I can’t even get myself to take a shower, I praise Him too, because I know he’s fighting my battles and I just need to hang in there and lean on His love and peace while I take it one step at a time 🫶
Yes keep it real can’t be perfect all the time but you got it back on track
Really love all of it!! Us moms try to take the weight off the world, and we can’t do anything without God!! Taking time off is a great idea!! As a mom of only 3 I never thought that was possible !! Thank you for showing me it is and it’s a great idea I never thought of !!
Thank you! Our Father has taught me that thete is a reason he tells us to cast all our cares upon Him! He knew we couldn't handle it all! Thank you, I needed this today! Be encouraged!
Wow thank you ! Needed this !!!!!! Please post more of these and also the orderly videos as well 😊 but this was refreshing
@-living4jesus4ever-
8 ай бұрын
Agreed. Authenticity & grace are beautiful. 🌻☀️
Thank you for keeping it real and showing us other struggling mommas that we are not alone! 🥰
Thank you so much for being so honest. This is so helpful for me. I'm sorry for your devastating news. I wish you peace too move forward. Thank you for inspiring me to allow myself to have time "off" when needed. Much love
Thank you for the realness We don't see that enough on social media You got this pull yourself out of that rut you got this and you know you aren't meant to carry the weight of the world but God will give you strength to carry the weights that you should carry and are able to carry with him!
Amen sweet heart. Same over here, mom of 5
I love this so much! Thank you.
Same here! Glad to see I’m not alone xoxo We got this - God has us
Amen felt this last week getting back to routine slowly
❤John 16:33 NLT❤ [33] I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” ❤
Thank you for your transparency. I struggle with different routines that will work. Stay positive, momma❤
Yes I love the giving yourself grace, I’m learning this is so important.❤
As moms we need breaks too 🫣 mental health is important. Keep doing you mama 💪🏼🫶🏼
I hope you’re doing better hun ❤ it’s good to take a break from things
You are Amazing! A super human yourself! It’s motivating to see someone do such a good job at being the most amazing self they know! You go girl!
Much needed for me. Thank you!
It happens to the everyone * know that you are an inspiring woman. You encourage me to want to be a better woman, mother, wife etc. Everyone has hard times, know that you got this*
Love the relatable honesty. Thank you.
Wise words momma!
Totally there with you! Keep it up! You are so inspiring 😇
It’s always relieving when everything builds up and it ends up being “a load of laundry” or “a load of dishes” 🩷
Your before is like my norm when I feel fine. It's refreshing to see reality. Feel better if a mini-mess is not your norm.
You are awesome ❤ dont you forget it. Its okay to take breaks
Thank you for sharing! 💗 on another note i would love to know more about those M-F clothing bins you had!!
You are an amazing human! I’m so glad you took that time for yourself 💓 everyone deserves self care. And whatever you and your family are going through, y’all are in my thoughts are prayers ❤️
Just got through my first trimester with my second and my gosh thank you for showing your home it looks just like mine I’m taking time catching up
I love your posts I appreciate this msg I hope you regain ur sense of peace ❤
I love the honesty, I have had a very similar week.
I needed this love❣️ As I too have gotten off track… #NewlySingleGodlyMomOf5 may God bless your honesty and openness 🙏🏽 Thank you❣️❣️❣️❣️
Best of your videos. Natural. Healthy. Thank you. Hugs from Germany.
so clean. Great job
Thank you for this ❤
Love your Honesty! ❤
Thank you for this video ❤
this is So BeautifuLL and powerful 💜 thank you for your vulnerability to share your humaniss its beautiful.•°☆.•°♡
Hope you’re okay beautiful and you are doing such an amazing job 💕
You are amazing! Wow your house is such an inspiration! Bless you and your family!
I hope you are doing better! You inspire me! 🤗🌻
This helps me feel better. Thank you:)
my husband needs to see this.
You're doing a fantastic job!❤❤❤❤
Can you please do a longer video...would love the cleaning motivation.
And its ok to get the kids to help out with chores especially if they are at an age where they can understand. When i see these videos it always seems that the wife mother is doing everything. My apologies if thats not the case here.Hope things start to get better. I think you are pretty amazing and keep a gorgeous home.❤❤
Damn I must be going through a freaking crisis these past couple days
Love u. Pray that u get lots of rest and in Jesus name heal
Something must be in the air because same!
@AshbayFam
8 ай бұрын
Life just feels kinda heavy lately!
@Tidyingthenest
7 ай бұрын
@@AshbayFamhope you’re doing okay you haven’t been on KZread in awhile !
So relatable ❤😂
Thx for sharing...so nice
As a mother, we need to remember to give ourselves a break, often. It is perfectly fine to have a messy house sometimes. God wouldn't stop loving you or stop blessing you. Each child equals to a full time job, do the math😊. So my dear, remember to give yourself a break often and just take it one day at a time
🙏🏾🙏🏾👼🏾📖🕊️
Pregnant with my 4th and I feel like such a failure. For some reason I thought I'd be a super mom and my symptoms wouldn't hold me down. Apparently, NOT. Disappointed I'm not as disciplined and in routine as I'd like to be.
@MayWinn
Ай бұрын
Hey. Im not a mom but I know what it’s like, to not feel together. Im constantly getting mad at myself for not being productive. But give yourself some grace. You are not a failure. Just because you don’t feel disciplined doesn’t mean you area a bad mom. At the end of the day your kids aren’t going to think, “ oh mom didn’t clean the kitchen today.” . They are going think about if they felt loved. Just focus on loving them and things will get easier. You’ve got this❤
@rebeccah.6403
Ай бұрын
@@MayWinn Thank you, this is a great reminder!
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Those Monday through Friday clothes organizers, did you make those or buy those?
@AshbayFam
6 ай бұрын
Bought them and then ordered the labels! Everything is in my LTK! I believe it’s in my bio or you can search @unexpected.blessings on the ltk site or app🤗
Vacuum brand please
Are those to washing machines side by side?
Where did you get your bed?
Where did she go?????????
What if we never have it all together? 😂
It’s super trendy to talk about not being perfect on social media.
@MayWinn
Ай бұрын
Well it might be a trend but the reason she is doing it because sometimes it looks like she has it all together. So she wants to show that she’s not perfect and encourage mothers out there who need it
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