No hate to anyone in the comments but I like how it’s always the people who are left out seeing these and not the people leaving THEM out

@rumiko8065

Жыл бұрын

FOR REAL they need to recognize them!

@Cheese_cake-_

Жыл бұрын

Here 🙌😅

@Nn-ev1eo

Жыл бұрын

Even if they see they would act like they didnt

@oceandellylatte

Жыл бұрын

Here..

@itsmee211

Жыл бұрын

So true

it’s the worst when you have to pick a partner in class and you would just be standing there awkwardly waiting for someone 😭

@Emily-wc1st

Жыл бұрын

So true I’m in a trio and my two best friends will always choose eachother for everything and I’m always left out

@cilla_2008

Жыл бұрын

@@Emily-wc1st im so sorry for you😔

@Bry_hawks

Жыл бұрын

​@@Emily-wc1st same

@Cheese-wn3eh

Жыл бұрын

Me and i work alone while my best fiend picks a person they just met👌

@nusrafaiz9566

Жыл бұрын

@@Emily-wc1stits ok it happens💔

“It always works, only with the right people.”

@lucianacopacaba9826

4 ай бұрын

Yaaa

@Queen-Queensly

4 ай бұрын

Yess

@Potterheadforever144

4 ай бұрын

True

@Summer_Fxiry_Violet

4 ай бұрын

I guess I’m never gonna find them.

@oyadlmga

4 ай бұрын

I thought so too

Being the ignored friend in the group is the worst thing ever.i'd rather alone than feeling that pain again ever.

@Wolf_1ii

3 ай бұрын

My “best friends” matched without me again and we go on google meet usually but sometimes they change the code without telling me…

@voidig

2 ай бұрын

@@Wolf_1iiSame like i dont think they like me :(

@not_sue10

25 күн бұрын

@@voidigSame bro they dont invite me to calls or want to hang out

teacher: «ok pick a partner»💀 edit: makaroni i have 5,3k likes edit: 5,7 MOMMY IM FAMOUS 6,2k thank you

@Anonymous-tw6ix

Жыл бұрын

And that’s the worst part LMAO they always partner up and you get the weird kid 💀

@SISU_577

Жыл бұрын

Fr-💀

@pielover3.14

Жыл бұрын

@@Anonymous-tw6ix FR THO 💀

@pippinthehedgehogs

Жыл бұрын

That would be me if the other person was in the class 😅

@alexgisruiningmylife

Жыл бұрын

(using first two letters for privacy) Me: ma or ro? Ma: sorry, I'm going with fa. (Her other friend who's not in the trio) Me: oh. Ma: wanna go together? Me: (I don't like to) no thanks.. Ro: I'll go with di! Me: sure :)

meanwhile harry, hermoine and ron: jkkk i know this situation

@Elfieee13

Жыл бұрын

Yea lol Harry was kinda low key third wheeling the whole time tho💀

@daisygautam6063

Жыл бұрын

Cause it's two boys and a girl An all girl frnd group can't exist.

@Harry_potter_fan_Always

Жыл бұрын

Well they Are best friends ofc but harry kinda becomes the third wheel

@lost.cities

Жыл бұрын

​@@daisygautam6063 oh, i have a friend group with a girl ( my bsf ) and our youngest boy we basically babysit. ( He is adorable cause we're both older then him lol )

@TheAnonymousuchiha1225

Жыл бұрын

@@daisygautam6063 it does exist actually. It’s more like a quadrio for us but we’ve learnt how to communicate and give each other time.

yep.. its always the ‘duo and one side person.’

In every trio is a duo ..

@Star-ty5up

4 ай бұрын

this is actually really annoying just because u don’t have a good friendship doesn’t mean u need to hate how is someone like YOU supposed to say that

@The1stmaddi

4 ай бұрын

⁠@@Star-ty5upyou don't even know them and what they have been through you might just feel betrayed and don't wanna say it but I have been feeling betrayed by my friend group of 3 cause I'm always third wheeling and they always whisper and talk about me behind my back and I feel like I want to quit my sport cause of them it's not always fun and games being a trio so you have to knew peoples story before you judge and yes I know I wrote an essay so come hate on me

@Mxlania

3 ай бұрын

@@The1stmaddihoney you sound like you need some new friends!

@starr594

3 ай бұрын

​@@Mxlaniame to lol

@user-xr5gs2lz1z

3 ай бұрын

Actually that's not true you just need to find the right person

True besties never leave each other out 🥺. Trios do work you just have to find the right people!

@Bookworm_Of_The_Year

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for writing this! My best friends and I tell each other everything and we never let anything get between us and we just have fun!

@JaMieM_123

Жыл бұрын

@@Bookworm_Of_The_Year no problem! I'm in a couple trios myself and we always include each other!

@povyourgay69

Жыл бұрын

im in a trio that is still going on after 5 years I think it's true that you need to find the right people for it to work out

@ellaandeiley

Жыл бұрын

It won't work forever,trust me.

@thediamondmummy6126

Жыл бұрын

So true. I’ve been in a trio friend group for about 13 years now and our bond is unbreakable. We’re like sisters. Like you said, you just have to find the right people!

me with a healthy relationship with my 2 besties as a trio: And also, To those who say "how do u know that the other bestie doesnt feel left out?" Its cus i dont make them feel so, All of us are equally treated and none of us is favoured, We all hang out equally, face time equally and every other thing 3 besties would do together, we do it!!

@itz_kawww

Жыл бұрын

lol same🤣🤣

@Uhhhhhhhh2

Жыл бұрын

Smae

@Faceless___

Жыл бұрын

Fr

@reese_y09

Жыл бұрын

Sameee

@umbrella3106

Жыл бұрын

samee

For the one reading this..Dont worry its gonna be alright we all go through those days🤍

@Galaxy12435

8 күн бұрын

Thank you❤

“It’s always 2v1” in arguments YEAH HUNNY IS A TRIO.

@Diamondbeach_123

3 ай бұрын

No they meant, That like who ever IS in the wrong, the other person would be on the person who is in the wrong

@zZz-BR1Z3Y1zZz

2 ай бұрын

Literally they were such fake friends to me for 8 years and then one time I asked one of them why she always left me out or hanged out with (Aly) other bff more and she said cuz they get along more and that I always start the arguments when they are always the ones bullying me and calling me names and then when I say something back they get mad and say I start the arguments like wha- and then they would just talk bad things about me behind my back and I would know but just not say anything and then when we are having arguments Aly never gets involved but when (Layla) bff says something mean to me Aly comes in and starts saying things and defending Layla and then I told her that it wasn’t fun or nice being left out and she fr said yeah I know and that when she cries it’s cuz Layla is all over me saying she loves me when she never is and aly says that I’m leaving her out BUT LAYLA ISNT and said get so confused but like 2-3 weeks ago we had this big argument and it was bad bad and then today my other friends is trying to make us besties again and to stop arguing and then I was like YEAH LAYLA and then she started yelling and starting a whole argument and then I just yelled and said see what I mean I told u I can’t talk to them and then we also have to do a project together and they don’t help at all and just giggle and laugh while I’m trying to get a good grade so now I’m not friends with them anymore and I don’t ever wanna be..💔

@zZz-BR1Z3Y1zZz

2 ай бұрын

Dang I wrote a lot

@ItzAishaa_

23 күн бұрын

For my trio the argument is 1v1 and the not in the argument randomly gets roasted in the middle of their argument

@Galaxy12435

8 күн бұрын

Yup 2v1 always… that 1 is me…

“There’s always a duo in a trio” -A wise person

@luhv_stella

8 ай бұрын

Not always 🫢

@Noobsarecoolya123

8 ай бұрын

Not always 🫢

@Dog-over19.

8 ай бұрын

that’s why I have a quad

@tm_22471

8 ай бұрын

​@@Dog-over19. Lmao 🗿

@Sillylittle._.gh0st

7 ай бұрын

@@Dog-over19.I was in a quad and I was extra left out 🥲

Golden trio b like: 💀💀 Im lucky my trio works❤

@Allieballie1989

Жыл бұрын

Good luck…

@cloxdy_mochi8538

Жыл бұрын

Have fun whilst it lasts ❤

@cuffedteen

Жыл бұрын

my trio is pretty fun, we’ve been together for a while. im the only girl out of two boys, im dating one of them but we don’t typically leave anyone out, its pretty chill and fun

@char7988

Жыл бұрын

Mine’s been going for 4 YRS

@justmehyu

Жыл бұрын

Harry is the third wheeler so it kinda makes sense

Me and my Trio watching this: "We were all BFF trios for 4 years and never happend LOL"

@Crossnttx

3 ай бұрын

Maybe because your just the one who isn’t being left out (no offense)

@meowssaY2k

3 ай бұрын

thats what YOU think. ive been in an trio before and i was the one left out multiple times but my "friends" still include me

@Crossnttx

3 ай бұрын

Yes it’s my opinion and I’m sorry if it made you feel offended

@Prettytoenails

2 ай бұрын

I have a trio and we make sure no one is left out

@Crossnttx

2 ай бұрын

@@Prettytoenails some trios work out fine and orthers don’t And I’m sorry if this is offensive to anyone But I’m just saying things from past experience

fr. let me tell a story. so i have been good friends with my cousin, and then i found out that my best friend and my cousin play a lot of the same games and i thought it might be cool to play games with both of them because it became hard to juggle playing with both of them at separate times. so i decided we should play together! so we started hanging out as a trio and it was all fun and in a few months, we were really close and i was starting to notice one thing… i would see them in spotify jams and in calls without ringing me? and they would always be talking about their favorite music artists, they are a 99% music taste match in spotify. and i dont really like those artists, so i would ask if we could play and then my cousin would always say “no im bored im gonna go” and leave. AND THEN I WOULD SEE THEM PLAYING ROBLOX TOGETHER. I dont know if im overreacting but i feel kinda like a 3rd wheel rn

@janese444

3 ай бұрын

Nope. You weren’t mistaken. They were leaving you out

When we were a trio, two of my friends would always invite each other to their houses and then come to school and start talking about it right in front of me in school and THEN a year later, they'd start talking about how it nostalgic. I hope the people who leave that last person out see this

@mahasoutIet

Жыл бұрын

fr i have two friends that i was really close to until now they start talking about each other 24/7 and ask me if i’m ok like yeah i’m ok thanks for asking

@alexaarreola8681

Жыл бұрын

Same :(

@billsjumbie.

Жыл бұрын

notice how the people that leave that person out r just ignoring how we feel?

@alexaarreola8681

Жыл бұрын

@artistklee Yeah, and they will always they don't care about how we feel or even if we're left out.

@shler3691

Жыл бұрын

Same I feel you

as someone in a trio, its really hard to stay bsf with both of them. I'm the one in the trio that's always the main attraction I'm the main person my trio talks to. And its hard to keep my friendship together when Im talking to the other one and the other one starts talking to me. And i don't wanna lose any of them.

@AuroraDazzle5466

Жыл бұрын

Same. It's really hard.

@ok_ig1

Жыл бұрын

I'm not the main person but we fight for the main person which tears all of us apart

@newme3059

Жыл бұрын

omg same , but for me its either they want me too much or ignore me for quite long

@Dashingangelz

Жыл бұрын

Yep💔

@cocobunbun9159

Жыл бұрын

Me too I used to find this as a problem cause one of them was jelous and hated the other one while the other one loved her but finally war is over and we all live eachother now

When the trio is you, your crush, and your crush’s girlfriend/your bff😭😭

Especially watching your best friend slowly replace you with someone “better.”

as the third person in a trio, this is 100% true. nobody pays attention to me and they always take sides. the only time they even acknowledge i exist is when they’re fighting and all of a sudden they want to be my friend. and when they have plans i never hear about it and i’m never included in anything. and when they’re talking i always say what and they just say nothing, and ppl are always shocked when i don’t hear about something big like an argument. it’s bc i don’t hear about anything. they always just pick each other. it sucks.

@Sam-cd9os

Жыл бұрын

Get away from them. They’re toxic and you don’t want those kind of people in your life

@calmonthebigscreen

Жыл бұрын

leave them girl you only have one life. spend it with people who treat you right

@Shaxqr

Жыл бұрын

Right! Gurl trio sucks! 😑 Just get a gud one bestiee 💜

@3suesisters

Жыл бұрын

I absolutely adore trios that work, and I have been in and is in many trios that do work(I had to work with two siblings). But there is a trio I am in that does not work. It is honestly so boring for me. One of them obsesses over their phone while the trio spends their time together, but the second still converses with the phone obsessed more. I am a great listener, when I want to listen and isn’t petty. But for some reason the second one seems to prefer conversing with the phone obsessed. I guess it’s because their humors are similar, since I don’t ever understand what is so funny. Although, I am considered to be very funny among my family. My family also thinks I’d be popular if I spoke more freely at school. So I don’t think it is because I am not funny enough to understand the joke. I also remember instances I have been ganged up, upon. Though only two incidents have made me feel bad so far. One was when, we were talking about art. So I didn’t know many artists. But I was really interested in art and I’d say passionate(but most people don’t see it that way and think the phone obsessed is much and much more passionate, which I have nothing against). So the second one’s dad is a designer(?) and the phone obsessed is also interested in art. So they started talking about a certain artist, and I said that I didn’t know who that was. Then, they suddenly went into shock. They started going on about how I wasn’t that interested in art because I didn’t know many artists. At this point, I was really angered. I always felt that many in my life have always paid no attention to my interests and I have always gotten overshadowed by another. I have spoke about how I felt in a jokingly, light-hearted manner since I feel like I would always cry while speaking or be overthinking and speculating, then seem pretty crazy. So what I am saying may be over exaggerated and untrue. I do not want to seem spoiled and would like to be grateful to those who care about me, so I shall stop here. This was just one crazy rant and was pretty freeing. Sorry for the long comment.

@Xox0x0

Жыл бұрын

I get you completely. I always feel like they want me to find someone else so they can just be best friends but people underestimate how difficult it is to try be included or even make new friends and it’s impossible to make a new best friend. We put so much effort into the small things like trying to walk next to them and not behind them or trying to go out on the weekend at the same time, it’s usually us that pull the weight of the whole friendship and it’s exhausting. Do any of you get that?

i’ve cried too many times in art class because i am seated next to my trio and they never include me in their conversations lol why do I have so many likes 😭

@Sav011

Жыл бұрын

I used to feel like that. I used to be in a trio and I was the one who was l’est out, they would always make plans without me and hide things from me. I’m so sorry I 100% understand you, I hope you find better friends soon

@lumiayaro

Жыл бұрын

@@Sav011 the thing is i can’t leave them because they are my since kindergarten friends and i’m not allowed to have sleepovers yet thank you for saying this :DD also i am glad you got to leave them!!

@GodsWrath7

Жыл бұрын

​@@Sav011u wanna be my friend☺we can play roblox together

@Kannwalls33

Жыл бұрын

When this happens, just listen to what they are talking about, because it may be useful or just interesting. I always did this and now our trio works out.

@lumiayaro

Жыл бұрын

@@Kannwalls33 i do this and they still leave me out sadly 🤷‍♀️ it’s usually plans that i can’t do

I was in a toxic relationship with my two "BEST FRIENDS" and i left them cause it was already too much like they would make plans and leave me out or not invite me theyre always taking each others side and sometimes theyre laughing about something when i ask them why they will just say "Oh is just between us two you would not get it😒" also sometimes i hear them talking sht about me behind my back and after those days i always ask myself "what did i do to them?"

TRIOS WORK!!!!!! U just need the right people. Right now, I’m gonna solve a few left-out problems. The pick-a-partner situation: -As much as possible, try making sure everyone trio member partners with someone who is not in the trio 2v1 in arguments: -Don’t have arguments… Only 2 seats next to each other: -Try squeezing in -Stay in the seat behind but lean forward so they listen Have a nice day/night :) Also, I’m part of a trio as well.

my trio tho>>> and as some wise person i know said “its not the relationship, its the ppl in it”

@-YourLocalPotterhead-

Жыл бұрын

True and my trio is best ❤❤

@jgurlrules5025

Жыл бұрын

Nothing ever last forever…

@Mikecok420

Жыл бұрын

What happens if the teacher says pick a partner?

@sugarcookienazxx

Жыл бұрын

@@Mikecok420 we werent in the same class and we also have another friend we can always pick

@Awhehwvwuwh

Жыл бұрын

@@Mikecok420 my teacher is super nice and usually lets me work with 3 people. Even when I don’t, there’s another friend of ours in our group that isn’t exactly part of the friend group but she sits with us

This is so true. When the teacher says pick a partner, the same two people in the trio pick each other..meanwhile the other person is left out. They don’t even hesitate. But..when one of them is gone, they always pick the “outcast” There is always someone in the group that is the “second choice”

@xxsophiexx801

Жыл бұрын

Always me

@Simply_Vanessa01

Жыл бұрын

The always happens to me

@vJocelynn

Жыл бұрын

Every time 🫤

@sallycooper-tt2qz

Жыл бұрын

..and that person was always me. But i've got new friend now :)

@Lyn_028

11 ай бұрын

Frrr you said it

Whenever i get quiet and feel left out my bestie is like "HEY WHY ARE YOU NOT TALKING BI-"

In my trio we have three duos, all that’s needed is balance. having my two best friends be best friends is the best thing ever.

I'm part of a trio too. We are literally stuck to each other like glue. Whenever we have a problem with each other, we talk it out. Sometimes though, one of my friends just ignores us for the whole day, but she tells us that we've (my other friend and I) been ignoring her. We just talk it out. I don't think its all trios, just a few too many toxic ones that may have created a bit of stigma around this kind of thing

@7avdes

Жыл бұрын

yeah same but now two of us are in the same school and the other is in another one so she feels left out sometimes but we try our best not to make her feel that way because we don’t

@evahysenbelliu7042

Жыл бұрын

so lucky im in a trio too but they always are together not me and 1 of them is my cousin and she loves the other girl even my bff loves her more so each night i cry it helps me sleep and i always feel this when im with them😳

I’m in a trio thats literally the best non-toxic healthy environment filled with wonderful people. Not all trios work but this one does. It’s different for everybody.

@hasheenarahim5502

9 ай бұрын

❤❤

@beelee4310

8 ай бұрын

Omg yes finally someone who says trios do sometimes work instead of saying they never work

@Luna_luvs-ku6lf

6 ай бұрын

Mine works too! (We yell at each other a lot lmao ☠️)

@Amytoyas

6 ай бұрын

Mine too!

@user-ru2oe5kh1s

6 ай бұрын

Omg mine too I love my trio and they are amazing people

imagine stepping to the side in a photo accidentally scrolling through yt shorts and sewing one of these vids with your trio in it 😭😭😭😭

When our group gets into an argument, it's a 1v1v1 because we all just fight eachother. Ours does work out!

A few months back, I was in a trio, and its hard to say how badly they ignored me. I talked during a phone call, either being told to shut up, or being ignored, luckily for me, my now best friend had my back the whole time, and we left them behind. A few weeks ago, they came back to me, asking to be friends again and that we "had something" i simply said no and walked away.

@JustRomi13

11 ай бұрын

I can relate to this so much, hope your better now ❤

@sushilkumar-ow6nm

9 ай бұрын

Congoo baby I m proud that God is with you🎉

@URFAVEPUPLEHAIREDGURL33

6 ай бұрын

I can relate SO much because I’ve had this stuff happen to me to 😢

@shaninevolo8392

5 ай бұрын

As you should you are a girl boss

@vdoerig

5 ай бұрын

i had a very similar story and they are still tring to win me back

So true. My bestie's doesn't even pay attention to me like sometimes I try to join their conversation but they always have to look at me werid and it just makes me uncomfortable. Sometimes tears come out my eyes but I play along and yawn or look away or sing while looking up, but they always ask questions like: why do you do that or why are you built like that? And it just..- not fun to experience 🫤 ( tysm guys for support! I actually have new friends :D )

@FR0STB1T3_3

Жыл бұрын

I feel u but they hardly ever talk to me and then they did 2v1 argument with me

@maddieflopped

Жыл бұрын

@@FR0STB1T3_3 BRO SAMEE BUT I ENDED WALKING AWAY- AND ONE OF THEM SAID: NOO COME BACK, IT JS SO CONFUSING-

@FR0STB1T3_3

Жыл бұрын

@@maddieflopped maybe they are using u

@itsmee211

Жыл бұрын

So true 🙂

@MymelodyI

Жыл бұрын

Stop this is so true and I mostly only get attention when one of us are sick because we only see each other on school days

even if you don't think so, 1 person is always left out

the "2V1 arguments" is so so so true and I'm now almost in tears

someone's always bound to be left out. but coping with it is how you make it work. my friends have their common fandom, and I have my own common fandom with each of them. we include each other as much as we can. but I think because I'm an introvert, and both of them are ambivert, with one being more extroverted than the other, we complete each other. we don't overwhelm each other but we also don't leave someone out (at least, not on purpose). sometimes, yes, the conversation will be between two of any of us, but the questions are always going to be answered by the three of us. if you can't make trio friendships work, you're either: a) too young to manage your relationships or; b) friends with the wrong crowd not all relationships are good. we have to understand each other's boundaries and we have to speak up when we feel like we're being mistreated. that's how it works. or if speaking up made it all tumble down, then at least you tried. EDIT: I'd also like to add in. Majority of the time, you might not even be left out. It's just they're probably doing something they think or know you're not interested in. But if you do find yourself in that position where you feel neglected, intrude. Assert your presence into the situation and make it known you want to be included. Lets also consider that we have different dynamics with each of our friends. Regardless of how close we are to them, there's always gonna be that one friend you trust to talk about say, a fandom that you can't talk about with your other friend. There's a friend you go to for a hobby, another for gossip, etc. So, yeah.

@PerseusJackson_TheLastOlympian

Жыл бұрын

yeah me an my friends are a group of 4 and it doesn't **Always** work out right be we're still friends

@theweirdo.

Жыл бұрын

i think my problem is b.

@Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee8

Жыл бұрын

That’s such a pure friendship ❤

@_S4rcasm_

Жыл бұрын

I used to go to and international school and I’ve had trios all my life. When one person left, we would have someone new to bring into the friend group. Me, M and Jas used to hang out quite often but then Jas just left us so it was just me and M. M left so I became friends with Jess. Me Jess and A formed a friend group. Unfortunately jess left so it was me and A. But A introduced a new friend of hers (jul). Later after that A left so it was me and jul left. I left after as well. I think trios work if ur in an international school and your young. When your small you don’t tend to really do stuff like hanging out or texting. It’s always worked out for me tbh. Until about right when I moved to my new school. Half a year later I met M, H and S. But we really split up into twos. Out of the blue Sof decided to barge in. This year I wasn’t with any of my friends so I was kinda sad. There were two new girls, F and C. F was kinda rude to me but I didn’t mind. Since I had no friends in my class I decided to just be friends with them then. Big mistake, I’m always left out and the feeling sucks. My relationship with M, H and S grew a lot and I spent time with all of them and make them feel included. But Sof is in the way. I have a lot of friends but I tend to spend break on my own sometimes. Bc some of them have a activity, Sof steals M away and C and F don’t bother with me. Also this isn’t a vent, just telling y’all my story. I’m so sorry if this is long and if ur not interested lol.

@barbaragordon_

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

This is why when ever the teacher says pick a partner I don’t say anything

I have had a trio and we work amazing:))

I’m in a trio and we work perfectly 😭

@user-nk2ee7uh9o

3 ай бұрын

If you think it works, you are not the one left out.

@Officiallysadiee

3 ай бұрын

@@user-nk2ee7uh9o none of us get left out 😭

As someone in a trio, it really isn’t as bad as a lot of people make it seem. Yes, there can be many toxic trios out there, and I’m not doubting that it doesn’t happen often. However, our trio works really well as we all hang out together all the time and no one is really ever left out. And yes, sometimes it’ll only be two, but we always switch it up and we’re always happy with what happens and we all get along. I just feel that people are taking this whole “trios don’t work” thing to a bit of an extent. Some trios don’t, but some trios do, and that is perfectly normal. There isn’t always a duo in a trio. Maybe if your trio isn’t working, try finding somebody else. 😐😐

@zoey2cool4u__

10 ай бұрын

same i’m in a trio and like let’s say we need partners we’ll take turns also u should have others friends too so u can rotate

@PositivelyHads

10 ай бұрын

REAL

@noturs1111

10 ай бұрын

same, if the people in the trio aren’t weak and offended easily the trio will work

@mydogatemyhomework7763

10 ай бұрын

@@noturs1111 Yeah exactly!!

@briellahernandez6764

10 ай бұрын

Same I’m in a trio and it work out perfectly

Worst part is when they exclude you from everything they do and then your just there 💀 But my trio works SOMETIMES

@moruters

Жыл бұрын

That sometimes...

@Sainagurl111

5 ай бұрын

Yeah I used to be in a trio for 9-10 months, and it would work sometimes

The “2v1 in arguments” and “someone always taking a side” that happened to me today it’s painful but you can find better people

There’s always that one friend in the trio that is never left out

I’m always the one that’s left out :(

@alexasangle

Жыл бұрын

im srry :(

@tifftalkstoomuch

Жыл бұрын

I’m here for you 🫶

@sabrinasususa6957

Жыл бұрын

Same

@bethy691

Жыл бұрын

Same

@blakelygraham4899

Жыл бұрын

Same I’m sorry

I know the struggle of being the left out one in the friend group. My story is a pretty long one lol. So I used to be in a group of 4, we were doing okay I guess, but I was already being kinda left out because they were treating me like a 3 year old and excluding me from activities. This quartet lasted until one of them left the group for some reason and we turned into a trio. The trio was working well at first until a new girl joined our trio. After she joined, they started paying more attention to her and starting ignoring me. I didn’t realize I was being left out until one day there was 3 lunch passes and they all got lunch passes for themselves and not me. This caused a boy to come up to the group and try to pay those girls to say I’m not apart of their group. I didn’t want to listen to him until I explained the situation to my dad. My dad gave me something called tough love. He said that the boy was probably right and that I should leave them. I explained the situation to my mom and she told me that those friends seemed fake and that I should leave that group and find another one. I listened to my parents and I did leave that group, but it was *NOT* an easy decision… I left that group and they didn’t even notice. I joined a new group of friends and I explained to them the situation of the past friend group I was in and they responded to me by telling me how bad they felt for me and how hard it must’ve been to leave that other friend group. The group was originally me and 6 other girls until 3 more people joined our group. 2 of them are twins. 1 is a boy and 1 is a girl. They are new kids who speak Spanish and the other girl is one of my friends’ twin sister. Fortunately, no one was being left out ever since those 3 people joined our friend group. We’re a pretty big group of 10 now. Things have been going great for me! I’m still in good terms with the last friend group but I’m learning to just leave them alone. It’s hard for me not to think about that group, but I’ll do my best. I wish all the best for that group though!

@YEONJUNTHEFOX

7 ай бұрын

Wow i am really happy for you😊 My story is kinda different tho and its pretty long. At first we were a group of 8 friends till 5 but then a pair of twins had to shift because of their father's transfer. Then we bacame a group of 6 till 6th grade and then covid came along and we used to have online meetings but then my best friend had a fight with one of our friends in 7th grade and since then they do talk but it just isn't the same for them anymore like it used to be but they are still in the grp. After that my twin brother took allen in 9th and we had different sections and one of the friends also was shifted to some other section. Now, in 10th the friend whose section was shifted asked to let her change her section and she came back to us in 10 and that too on my birthday and i was really happy about it because atleast we 4 were together. But in the middle of the term ig it was in may or so..that one of my friends tried to manipulate me and told me how my best friend of 10 years was controlling me at first i felt that maybe she was right and she told me that i should really keep some distance between us and me being stupid did it for a while, but then i thankfully got my senses back thanks to my mom and my twin brother and then i started ignoring them and used to have brunch with just my best friend for a while they didn't say or asked us to join them in brunch. But, then one day they finally did but we did not move from our seats because whenever we used to have our brunch with them alot of boys started to join us the ones they once used to say they never liked coz they were backbenchers type . And when we did use to eat with them they always used to talk about the gossips of people who we didn't even know about coz they were of different section and am not really a type to talk about gossips neither my best friend so we used to just shut our mouths and listen to them talk which was boring and frustrating . Oh God! I don't even know how much i have written and was going to write more but its a really long story but to end this i will say that we are still friends but we don't join them in brunch anymore and we barely talk to them at school and i think they've understood i mean i hope so but ig they haven't but whatever i don't really have many friends its just us 4 in which i only talk to my bff and when she gets absent i have no choice but to join them because they ask me to whenever my bff is absent and i jsut most of the time sit quiely have my brunch stay there for a while and listen to them talk and then go back to my seat😅

@Bella_975

6 ай бұрын

Wow your story is very similar as mine but mine did not have a very happy ending I think the best is to come😊

@YEONJUNTHEFOX

6 ай бұрын

@@Bella_975 yes thank you. Its going pretty ok but idk for how long it would last,because they are the type who give you attention when they are bored with the people around them and then abandon you again but anyways, i wish you come over that bitter past friendship group of yours and just stay happy with your current friends group, and i just wanna say that ykw your past group was actually fake with what i have read and i think you should leave them alone and not talk to them at all because they do not deserve you and your kindness. You are really lucky to have good people around you in school. I mean with such a big friend group things do get complicated but i am genuinely happy that you've found the right people in your life and moving on.😄

@wecanbeherosjustforoneday

4 ай бұрын

SAME OMG, WHEN A NEW STUDENT JOINED THEY STARTED PAYING MORE ATTENTION TO HER TO THE PART WHERE THEY DONT TALK TO ME

@Pastel._.Roblox698

4 ай бұрын

hello!

I remember feeling left out sometimes when 2 of my friends were there for each other.

Bro my trio works perfectly 😭😭

I'm in two groups of trios, in school and out of school. Personally, I am really happy in both trios and I know that everyone is included. You aren't with proper friends if they exclude you.

@_cry1ng.ch1ld_

Жыл бұрын

I hate the trio I’m in. I need to find a way to not be friends with them to be honest.

@Bread-isthebest

Жыл бұрын

that is how ifeel like FR

@starfishxs

Жыл бұрын

Then how do I have good friends if they exclude me?

@Rainydaystay

Жыл бұрын

Same thing exactly for me

@zoeyslays26

Жыл бұрын

​@Mia..Playz..Roblox Sameee! I have one really good friend but I also have a friend who is super dramatic and can't take a joke at all! It makes me super upset! But I'm not sure how to end it with her.

i’m in a trio, but i always feel left out. in every trio there a duo :’)

These vids : 😛😛😭 My trio : 🥳🤩😁

I'm in a trio rn and nobody is left out, we all try our hardest not to make anyone feel left out and we have alot of fun together

I lived thro that 2v1 argument because ones to kind and the other always says sorry but then one also guilt trips the other two I lost my two besties of 4 years because I could handle it anymore I always say sorry for everything even If I didn’t do anything finally stood up tho 😀👍

@ViiArts_

Жыл бұрын

Bro same

As a person who is in a trio for 12 years we have never had this problem. Every once a week we share how we feel, if we feel left out and etc.❤

@Idiotic_to_me

6 ай бұрын

Same! But for the 12 years- wow that's long! Anyways I am in a trio for almost a year now, we bond well and thats amazing! Sometimes I couldn't find them but only a few times-😄😗

@wecanbeherosjustforoneday

4 ай бұрын

Please tell me your ways

@-Flowery-lovely-

4 ай бұрын

@@wecanbeherosjustforoneday for real, and also you guys never had that problem because you’re not the left out one

@Potterheadforever144

4 ай бұрын

Same but for 10 years I love them both very much

i’m in a trio friend group right now, and i know these are good people because they say something when their feeling left out like “hey guys i’m feeling third wheeled” and that is the reason i’m in a trio again

In friend groups, I'm the one who's usually left out and just hanging on for dear life to be noticed and remembered

I thought that trios could work , but then i got third wheeld so it doesn’t work

@kaylasxo

Жыл бұрын

It does for some people

@dulapeepa3957

Жыл бұрын

@@kaylasxo yeah the ones who DONT get left out

@Laura_youtube

Жыл бұрын

@@dulapeepa3957 i agree

The walking in the back one is like me in the trio I'm in :/ once I asked them how my hair looked and I heard "she looks like" and then she whispered into the other girls ear. I was sitting across from them while they whispered about me and where laughing. One of them said "Omg stop that's so mean💀💀😭😭" I was holding back tears.

@shrek8949

Жыл бұрын

Omg I hope your not in that friendship anymore that’s so mean of them ):

@Allyceccarelli216

Жыл бұрын

@Shrek🌝 We stopped talking cause ome day a girl litterally jumped me and they started laughing at me so I like lashed out at them

i’ve actually had one trio work but the rest fell to bits 😭

Hmm. That is true maybe it is 2v1. But me and my friends don't really get into arguments...

The Maze runner trio (Newt,Minho,Thomas)be like : ✨ we made our own rules now ✨

@sisiiplayz7713

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@jendeukie2351

Жыл бұрын

✨

@regan632

Жыл бұрын

OMF A MAZE RUNNER FAN IN THE WILD

*Important:* It's true that most of the times they don't work out because of these reasons. But it *IS* possible. It's just rare. I am in a perfect trio. I love my best friends so much, I don't know what it would be like without them. I am so grateful to have them

@henry.hasmyhart

Жыл бұрын

Same in 2019 we had so much drama but we’re really good now LOL

@blueduckart9684

Жыл бұрын

are you sure? you may be one of the two people leaving the third one out. they never really realize how upset the other is

@henry.hasmyhart

Жыл бұрын

@@blueduckart9684 No we don’t leave the other out she’s just sometimes too busy to text us bc she always goes places lol We always ask her if she feels left out and she says no

@henry.hasmyhart

Жыл бұрын

@@blueduckart9684 and trust me I can tell if someone feels left out In one of my friend groups I feel left out rn I’ve been friends with the friend group that’s rlly strong for about 6-7 years so trust me everything is fine lol

@parkjimin-yy8xd

Жыл бұрын

❤ trying to be mature tgther🥹

Me and my friends are probably one of the few people who can actually keep a trio going for more then 5 years

'It's 2v1 in every arument' Not me and my friends having 1v1v1 🤭

No matter how hard someone tries truly in their heart its always gonna be one person not two, even if you want to love two people equally its so hard you can think you like them equally but when someone asks whos your bestfriend the first person who comes up is the one you love the most, its funny when your the favorite in the trio so you don't realize and it hurts when the left out one vents out and many just say they are dramatic, being the left out one hurts so bad... like it hurts so much you wanna leave but you love them so much you stay, I mean the amount of tears they shed is messed up(treat your friends right please).

@itsCas

Жыл бұрын

well my bffs were twins, so it worked out perfectly as they both loved each other as siblings but then loved me as a friend, no one ever felt left out ❤

@parulpatel9179

Жыл бұрын

I mean how can u help it when you yourself said that there is only one person in their heart

@artistcookiez24

Жыл бұрын

i lost 3 besties

@l0laxue

Жыл бұрын

i’m the left out one and it drains me. i cant do anything about it

@SalmaGirl

Жыл бұрын

You literally explained my whole trio. I got one thing, i've had 3 trios one was both of them were toxic af. 2 is they acted like i didn't exist. 3 one is my bff and one i don't like. And they r always with each other.

I tried SO hard not to believe this for the longest time. Now, all they have is eachother and no one else

@weebweebanime8561

Жыл бұрын

Same

This is why I don’t hang out with anyone in my class,but I’m usually the one that can here all secrets from everyone in my class,since they think I won’t tell anyone because of how quiet I am

The fact im in a trio but we never let one of us alone! But sorry for other trios that dont work...

Our trio didn’t work because the third person just up and ditched us😭

Me and best friend have been in so many trios. Usually I’m the one who feels left out but the trio always falls apart and we stay best friends. Recently we were in a friend group of 4 which was great! Sadly one moved away and we were in different classes so the group fell apart. Still best friends with her though, since 3rd grade!

@blossom5450

Жыл бұрын

Agreed don’t know what will happen to mine 🤯😐

@zamu102

Жыл бұрын

Same used to be in a group of 4 but sadly one had to retake another year so now in a trio..though we still hang out with the fourth girl it's just not the same as we don't have the same schedule

"its always 2v1 in arguments" thats so true.

someones always taking a side and its always 1v2 arguments its so real😢

Guys, sometimes this isn't true. I am in a very healthy trio and we always take care of each other equally. TRIOS DO WORK SOMETIMES!

@AtoneDipsy

Жыл бұрын

Das what I’m sayinnnnn

i have a science class where we often do group projects. there is a large group of friends there, and i am part of it. im beginning to feel resentment, since when a project is announced they will all group up, no room for me. *i will be physically STANDING THERE and they ignore me.* i then end up having to go with someone who i dont even know, as my friends all happily collaborate and i stare (in despair after being rejected/ignored ). its always such a breeze when i get to do a lab assignment with at the very least ONE of them, but then next time i am just completely forgotten. there was one time where we picked new seats, and you had to pick your partner (who you sat directly next to). every. single. one. of. them. grouped up. into little groups. and i was the leftovers. there was one extra leftover, who brutally rejected me, so i was forced to go with the "weird kid" for the rest of the quarter. such fun

In every trio,there’s always a duo.

Fr I can relate because I’ve been in this situation 2 times and now they tell me I’m over reacting. 😢

it has always been like this for a year now but I got the confidence to stop being friends with them🖤

not👏all👏trios👏are👏bad👏as👏you👏think👏. as person who is in a trio, we’ve been the closest of friends ever since we were born and I can tell you that it’s not as bad as it seems. ok so we might feel left out sometimes but in the end we’re always together

@danery420

Жыл бұрын

Im left out always and it doesnt matter they will always pick eachother. I am so happy for you I wish I had that. ILY 💕

@random.person196

Жыл бұрын

lLYT🫶🏽🫶🏽 I honestly feel so bad for u bc that has never been a problem in the trip I’m in

This is the so fricking true I can’t even you literally explained my old trio

True... My trio always leaves me out, my trio just haves fun playing and im just there sitting alone..

I’m usually the one who is left out but my trio is perfect ❤

@zarax..

Жыл бұрын

nah fr same

@Luz-jh3jx

Жыл бұрын

Girl it's called a trio not a duo

@FellowFlower

Жыл бұрын

@@Luz-jh3jx What???

@Luz-jh3jx

Жыл бұрын

@@FellowFlower if u keep getting excluded it's not a trio overall

@FellowFlower

Жыл бұрын

@@Luz-jh3jx (idk about the other friend) my friend that’s in the trio has autism and basically makes them do things they don’t wanna do so.. explains it a bit but idk about the other friend like I said-

I would've said this wasn't true like 2 months ago I now fully agree there's always the duo

@Sainagurl111

5 ай бұрын

Same here. If u would ask me that question 4-5 months ago, I would say the trio is "PERFECT," but a few days ago, it's not a trio anymore. It's now a duo... 😭

The groups of four hit different tho 👌

That’s why my friend group is 4. Not too much drama, we all have eachothers backs, no one’s left out.

I am so lucky. Me and my friends are a group of 4, and are kind of like two duos (we just have stronger relationships with someone). The thing I like is that we are all comfortable with each other, so even though we have these duos, we still hang out in a group. It used to be 5, but he was toxic for us. Sometimes I feel bad when I look at people around me, because they don't have the same situation like me and my friends. I'm Sorry for everyone who is always left out. It's true, trios don't work. 😒

@Elfieee13

Жыл бұрын

Yea I had that for a while we would all kinda trade out talking to eachother it was fun but eventually another girl came into the group and then her and one of the other girls left the group but they’re both really sweet and I have nothing against them even tho we fell out of touch

@dubu124

Жыл бұрын

Yeah i used to be happy too because we're a group of four but now I'm just like a fourth wheel and dang that hurts but I'm glad it works out for you

@theartroyalty4429

Жыл бұрын

My exact situation..

@ellacollinsx

Жыл бұрын

someone who’s in a trio here, we had seperate relationships for 2 years, then joined together, and that’s why our trio is still going strong after 7 years

I’ve always thought this but I’ve happily been in a trio for almost three years. Keep in mind they’ve known each other for years before we knew each other but we immediately clicked. We can all hang out individually but we all work so well as a group. No one’s left out. They’re honestly my favorite people ever

@sophia6228

Жыл бұрын

thats what my friend group is like. Me and another girl were friends since early early childhood. And then later one she became friends with another girl. Then I met her and we all started to hang out. We hang out individually too. I think that is what is healthy about our group honestly.

@buggiethegreat

Жыл бұрын

@@ThePoeticAvocado I literally said that may not be the case and that I’m sorry if I got it wrong. But I was also in a trio and I was the one being left out and they were completely clueless about it. I’m just saying you have no idea what the other person thinks or feels.

@v3ra13

Жыл бұрын

​@@buggiethegreatnot evry trio has someone thats left out js bc ur trio does doesnt mean all do

@buggiethegreat

Жыл бұрын

@@v3ra13 Actually most do. And for the third time I said that might not be the case for your friendship. But you should always check on your other friend to make sure they aren’t being left out. It’s natural for two people to get along but that means the third person is left out. Of course if everyone is happy in you group then I’m not talking to you.

Me and my trio " Ok guys its 1 vs 1 vs 1"😂😂

Some people just aren't lucky when it comes to trios. But its not impossible, i have two best friends and we all care for each other equally and try really hard to include each other in everything, there amazing people and i could never ask for things to be different. 😊

i’m currently the one left out in two different trios i’m in. the first trio is constantly hanging out and having sleepovers without me, making handshakes together, partnering up for group projects, etc. and it just makes me feel super alone. the second one, one friend has made it pretty clear that she likes the other person more than me. they’re constantly making inside jokes that i don’t understand, sometimes just being upfront rude to me. but i love my friends and i don’t want to leave our groups, but i also don’t want to feel left out all the time. advice?

@Kiomii_lol

Жыл бұрын

Try to make new friends!! It Will help u a lot 😁

@Luz-jh3jx

Жыл бұрын

Girl, you Need to get over those people, being a shadow of someone that doesnt even give a shit about you will only make you lose your ego and have trust issues, u need to get new friends and move on with your life

i’ve been in a trio for almost 7 years, yes we argue but we always come back to being best friends. idk if the other two being sisters makes a difference, but being in that trio is just the best. i’m a very independent person so i’m not bothered by them being super close.

@evavelixon4702

Жыл бұрын

Lucky you

@emmyxo

Жыл бұрын

@@evavelixon4702 i really hope other people can experience how my friendship is going. including you

@evavelixon4702

Жыл бұрын

@@emmyxo everyone says it but I have social anxiety and separation anxiety and thinks everyone and everything hates me but this makes me happy 😊 thank you for the hope you've put in me

me sitting in my two friends house, our trio having worked for the past 8 years: 👁️👄👁️

i used to be in a trio and i can confirm this is EXACTLY what it’s like.

I’m in a trio and we all have the same humour and actually love eachother so much, even if you say it won’t work it will for us. ❤️

@lisakaka842

Жыл бұрын

Same

@sumarelan

Жыл бұрын

agreed

"The golden trio in Harry Potter"

My trio is literally amazing and no one ever gets left out u have to find the right people

One gets forgotten 😢

In the fourth grade, i was in a friend group with 5 ppl including myself. When we had to work on projects, I would always feel left out. I remember crying in my room at night. I felt like they just didn’t want me. Luckily I moved far from where I use to live. Now I’m in 6th grade and I’m actually happy. I have many great friends !😊

@Gravelkisser985

Жыл бұрын

I hope school keeps getting getter for you

@drr3ahh

Жыл бұрын

you were way to young to be crying in your room about fake friends. you were in 4th grade. i hope life is getting better for you❤️

@hudasajid2233

Жыл бұрын

Omg I'm so happy 4 uuu

@_ngone

Жыл бұрын

@@Gravelkisser985 yes it is ! Ty for asking

@_ngone

Жыл бұрын

@@hudasajid2233 Tysm :)

Exactly. Once I was in a trio and one of the girls talked bad about me to the other girl but here’s the thing. The girl that talked trash was lying abt me but the other girl believed her so I lost both of them :(

@pihu7795

Жыл бұрын

They don't deserve you gurl

@avalynn.in.chains

Жыл бұрын

@@pihu7795 tysm

@Thearoace_fizzy

Жыл бұрын

Happend to me too

@simarbal2364

Жыл бұрын

One of my friends said to me if u were to be a animal u would be a black hairless cat or a balck hairless chuawawa ( idk if i spelt it right) and my other friend sayed thats so mean and that day i went crying home to my real friends and they supported me and the next day she was still being rude to me and my friends stood up for me but the girl who said thats so mean just stood there and started doing a tik tok dance and the girl who was mean to me and the girl that barely said anything are besties for 5 years and this is all happening infront of the other girl

@Thearoace_fizzy

Жыл бұрын

@@simarbal2364 I'm sorry that a sad story so sorry to correct u but "said"

Im in a trio friendship rn and my other two friends are the duo and its so akward when they make plans in front of me the teacher says pick a partner or theres only two seats left in a row.

Some trio does work but..only if they are loyal and kind❤