For that person who needs to see this... If you are a widow i.e you're involuntarily having to raise your Son by yourself... I don't think apostle means that your son will be a failed man because there's no father... Here's what you do Encourage him to have male mentors, have your brother (if you have any) have a place in your sons life, that is if you're sure of your brother's values o... Encourage him to be close to masculine figures that will positively impact his life Dear Single Mom that didn't have a choice YOU ARE RAISING A KING YOU ARE HELPED BY GOD❤️

@susanchenemidaniel7962

3 ай бұрын

The very first thing I heard him said that saddened me, having to do many jobs, prayers, discipline to train my sons alone. My brothers who grew up with me are successfully married and are not petty, There is also a God factor in all of this.

Practical things before marriage: 1) Maximize your singleness 2) Marriage is a journey 3) Heal before you deal - Overreacting to things means you are seeing someone else in your spouse - Heal process ( Seek the Holy's spirit to mend your heart, your partner does not have to deal with your traumas) Heal and forgive ( Don't give the devil a foothold in your life by not forgiving them) 4) Learn submission ( Women who do well in marriage is the one who understands submission) We have to submit to wise head

@osayomoreholy7455

5 ай бұрын

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@MasterEduardo-im7gx

5 ай бұрын

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@christabelanele8795

5 ай бұрын

Nice summary

@SamB195.

5 ай бұрын

It dope

@ebereanu4475

4 ай бұрын

God bless you,thank you so much

00:03 Preparing for marriage through practical teachings 02:59 Marriage is for complete individuals, not those who need another to complete them. 08:30 Ensure emotional intelligence before marriage 10:57 Authenticity before marriage is crucial 16:23 Heal completely from your past before marriage. 18:51 Healing is crucial before dealing in marriage 23:12 Emotional trauma needs healing and forgiveness for personal growth. 25:24 Don't carry emotional baggage into your marriage 29:43 Submission in marriage and its misconceptions 31:41 Take responsibility and understand the totality of marrying someone. 36:22 Be a woman your husband can trust and rely on. 38:25 Be financially independent before marriage 42:55 Sense compatibility and intellectual space are crucial for a successful relationship. 45:17 Practical steps for a successful marriage 49:50 Maintaining cleanliness and order in the home is crucial for a successful marriage. 52:22 Understanding the importance of prayer in marriage 56:29 Men need to bring more than just physical appearance to the table. 58:45 Men are often raised not to show their fears or emotions, leading to emotional struggles and difficulties in expressing love. 1:03:27 Communication is key in marriage 1:05:38 Men need emotional healing too 1:10:25 Understanding a woman's love language, including the role of money 1:12:49 Prepare financially and responsibly before marriage. 1:17:22 Men need financial security and emotional maturity before marriage. 1:19:28 Lack of emotional maturity leads to neglect and suffering in marriage. 1:23:23 Emotional abuse can be more harmful than physical abuse in a marriage. 1:25:26 Don't excuse mediocrity and be cautious in choosing a partner. 1:29:52 Understand the female species before you marry 1:32:07 Happy wife, happy life. Speak well about her, don't compare with anybody. 1:37:00 Communication is key in marriage 1:39:31 Get purpose right before marriage.

@dammyjoseph175

6 ай бұрын

❤

@peteradesope431

6 ай бұрын

God bless you for this

@sanmijohn2268

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for this ❤

@_Onyinye

6 ай бұрын

🎉Wow Thank you so much

@agentmyself12

6 ай бұрын

Thanks Boss

This is so true,I saw myself turning into a toxic person because of an emotionally immature boyfriend who was a serial sexual offender,I became violent to the extent of lifting a knife threatening to kill him several times,he could embarrass me in public,I dumped him several times but he kept coming back,he knew I loved him and he could manipulate his way back into my life through my daughter 😢 but I thank God for setting me free from that foolish love before I could make the biggest mistake of my life,am now single and more sane,working on myself,consciously on my healing journey. I now know better and I value my mental health more

@elizabethagbenla4038

6 ай бұрын

Keep healing in Christ...I've been there myself, also healing and God has been faithful. The Lord will give you peace in Him and your own husband after God's heart. The Lord continually be with you, keep you, transform you and meet you at every point of your needs in Jesus mighty name.

@omoduchimzimvictory543

5 ай бұрын

Glory to Jesus for you.

@oceansqueenc9281

2 ай бұрын

Amen❤❤❤​@@elizabethagbenla4038

@evelynmwewa9651

Ай бұрын

Been there 🥺I couldn't recognize my self...I'm glad am Healing and let go ,all been God

For a woman Heal Learn submission Financial Independence Home keeping Know God

Indeed, this series has rescued me from self-destruction...... Make sure you recommend this message for everyone you know

@preciousikechukwu8214

5 ай бұрын

Just 😢did

@preciousprecious8306

4 ай бұрын

Thank you

People can hurt you and move on and succeed.. your enemy is not God’s enemy.. this is touching 🙏🏾

@bienijennifer1620

Ай бұрын

People can hurt you and move on and succeed.. your enemy is not God's enemy. Life goes ooon So learn to forgive so u can heal. And be healed

Every married and single Woman should read that book Title: The power of a praying Wife Author: Stormie Omartian

@SylviaAbakpa-dc3om

5 ай бұрын

A must read for every woman 👠

@user-vy1mc4yh3h

4 ай бұрын

A must read 🔥

@jenniferqueen8695

3 ай бұрын

Pls where can someone get d book?

I'm single and been avoiding anything about marriage video cause I want to concentrate with God,but I just woke up this midnight to pray n got back here,❤

@noelalphonsus1238

5 ай бұрын

Hahahah Hi partner in concretion😂 Holy Spirit brought me here too and God I’m lacking when it comes to marriage preps

@shallontshuma2553

4 ай бұрын

Lol me too

@ohuizuemmanuel6489

3 ай бұрын

Lols, you want to avoid marriage and be spiritual😂 it doesn't work like that

I've decided to go into a relationship this December after 8yrs of REAL breakup but listening to this message I realized that I was making the same mistake with this new person in my life because I don't talk, I tolerate all even though I know I am not comfortable with the act. Now I got it that a close mouth is a close destiny... Talking doesn't mean you don't respect or love your spouse but it brings out the best in them.

@aeiou0123

6 ай бұрын

You better talk so he gets to know the real you. Cos one day you will start talking cos you will eventually explode if you keep bottling things up. If you are not talking then he doesnt know who you are. The issue is not to keep quiet but to learn how to communicate your feelings n opinions respectfully. You also need to set boundaries. A man who loves you will respect your opinion and boundaries

@2bk06

6 ай бұрын

@@aeiou0123 thank you, that's what I should do now. I appreciate 🙏

@Grace__________1000

4 ай бұрын

It’s been a beautiful journey of immense joy filled with revelations and healings since I started dating Jesus, I will date him until he personally hands me over to the man he has handpicked for me.

Don’t mourn your single season, prepare🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾

Pov:me at 18 listening to marriage lessons

First time listening to your message and it has really enlightened me…I love the fact you did not leave any stone unturned and did not hide anything all in the name of spirituality. I like how you handled this session thank you Sir

I am 'complete' in Christ. It is difficult to expect love from others without first understanding the love of God. You will frustrate the people because they can't give you what 'only' Christ gives. Only God should give you meaning.

These words are practical and powerful." Be the kind of woman your husband can fall on without complaining that you don't have all the time"

This teaching transcends beyond marriage.

Apostle: What’s your love language Sister: Prayer🥹🤲😅

I wish I can like this a million times God bless you Apostles Femi 🎉❤🙏

I have never experienced fatherly love before and I've asked God to help me heal before I'm ready for marriage

Financial stability Emotional maturity Healing ❤️

Thank you Pastor Lazarus. The calmness with which you release this God given wisdom is a praise to God. Thank you Holy Spirit for blessing the body with your Sons with this Son.

Things you need to know as a woman before marriage: 1.Heal 2.Submit 3.Be financially stable -Friendship 4.Know basic homekeeping 5. Know God Things men need to know before marriage: 1.heal 2.financial stability 3.emotional maturity 4.understand the female species 5.get purpose right

@pushuptv12

6 ай бұрын

Understand male species

@chiwetevalentine6400

6 ай бұрын

Very Concise.. Thanks

@exploitsnicholas5798

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for this effort

I honestly need to heal from the Past , it's has not be easy but I know this year I will enter a new dimension in Jesus name

@PremiumTeens_With_Debav

6 ай бұрын

May God Heal you,Sis🥰

Real men gravitate toward women who are productive. Gbam!

I saw myself in this message and I thank God so much for rescuing me from what would have been a destructive marriage…Ahhh!!! God thank you!!!

Any lady I want to get marry to must listen and agree to what Apostle is teaching, no negotiation 😂

@zahramissy4837

3 ай бұрын

And what are you also doing ?

@RiseandImpact

3 ай бұрын

It is good that you also listened to it😂😂

@EstherNjambi-rk1zd

2 ай бұрын

That's great 👍

Man of God, stay forever blessed. I told my son today that I am amazed at how practical you are with your messages when you teach or preach, drawing examples from your own marriage that I am sure many men of God never carry with them to the pulpit. I am forever grateful that I came across your messages, I have answers to a whole lot now. Thank you

May the holy spirit help me heal from past pain in jesus name

Poverty is also vanity, that one got me😂😂😂❤

Can't lie he looked intimidating on the thumbnail but I'm so glad I watched this👏 yeah he covers men and women's sides but essentially it's about the human heart plus being healthy and whole.

Marriage is not just a destination, it is a journey that requires a lot of equipping more importantly because the quality of the time the life you lived depends on it. Blessings Apostle 🙏🙏

God truly cares. I hope we will always run to him🙏

Not even halfway through the sermon; but, the gems deposited in this!

There's so much healing to be experienced from this teaching for anyone who listens to this teaching... Whooosh🔥🔥 Thank you Apostle for sharing such depth.

Lol 😂 oh! My God Pastor Lazarus femi is indeed very funny. I just love this man of God's life & his Sincerity in Christ Jesus

1,Heal from your past completely before you deal,2,learn submition as a woman, 3,be financially independent prov 31vs 10,if you don't have a job, what you need is work not marriage, Breakup happens, 4,learn basic home etiquettes/knowledge, be a home keeper, 5, know GOD, be a prayerful wife, apart from been a fine girl, what else can you bring to the table. MEN 1,Heal from baggages/Trauma,real men are whole men and whole men are scarce,2,Be financially mature,you need money as a man,In anything you do as a lady,never marry an irresponsible man, 3, Have Emotional maturity,4, understand the female species/Gender before you marry her, Happy wife, happy life, 5,Get your purpose right.

@joshuaeze814

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for this summary!

@constancekonadufosu7727

6 ай бұрын

Well said

@igohedimma4691

6 ай бұрын

Thank you

@ifeomaonwuzuluike6366

6 ай бұрын

Thank you everyone ❤️

😂😂"you boil water it burn"😂i love this man, and his teaching, quite relatable, interesting and impactful.

This message is making me heal from my past gradually. Its though, but I'm happy am healing gradually.

I'm healing from my past , ijn amen. Not going back to the past anymore, letting my self Free and letting it go , all the hut

This is very very on time.. truly these things need to be taught in alm churches... So marriages can work better!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌

If you refuse to forgive those that injure u.u are hurting urself..kaii 🔥 Am blessed under this teaching...Thank u Jesus for opening my eye

This series changed my perception about marriage. Thank you for this message it saved me from self destruction

I'll be better. I'm enlightened once again with an open heart to receive Thank you, Sir. And to the gentleman who shared too❤

Emotional Maturity fights 1.Abadonnment 2.Loneliness 3.Deprivity 4.Nakedness 5.Physical,Emotional and psychological abuse 6.Disregard 7.Mentally derangement.. Thanks you sir for this

@ogundiranmartha4405

6 ай бұрын

1.Abandonment 2.Loneliness 3. Deprivity 4.Nakedness 5.Physical emotional and psycological Abuse 6.Disregard 7.Mental deraangement Thanks for this.

A must watch video before getting married. Thank you Apostle for the powerful teachings as always.

Singleness is when you are complete in Christ !

I'm glad i came across this message, thank you Jesus.

Thank You Sir for this gem... At some point tears where in my eyes because of how direct, truthful and realistic this message has been.... You've helped me regain balance and clarity on how life should as a man.... God bless you sir

@efemenaipoko2205

6 ай бұрын

Amen. Well done bro.

@janemwamba5706

6 ай бұрын

I cried at the start too when I realised how much baggage I've been carrying, childhood trauma and past partners trauma and now I'm struggling with letting people in and being vulnerable, we trust God for his healing though...

@anyanwuhope9497

5 ай бұрын

I am blessed by this eye opener, thank you Apostle.

This series has changed the way I think and view marriage. Thank you so much Apostle for the intentionality in bringing light and clarity.

This series is just an eye opener for me. What a word... Jesus... Now I see reason behind my actions and acts.... God pls just take over. Thank you Apostle.

"many Saturdays are actually tragic events...silent burials" ..... so true

This series has transformed me, thank you Apostle. God bless you sir

Heal before you deal.., indeed the message is healing it self

I'm blessed with this message. God will help me heal. Amen 🙏

Thank you so much for this series Apostle, it has been healing for me among other things.

This is very very true and amazing!!!! To God be the glory

I’m highly impressed with your messages,thank you for healing wounded minds❤

I discovered this channel yesterday yhooo yhooo yhooo 🔥🔥🔥 God bless this man of God

May God bless you man of God, you said everything is need to hear. I'm blessed

Ahhh I most say that I am blessed to have listened to this word, I believe that am already by this word n the power of God at work in it amen.....

This series is something else🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 A timely message to the body

This message is full of wisdom. It is a must listen by every single person before marriage

So much Wisdom being dispensed!! Thank you Apostle

Hhmmmm! Chai. Deep words! I just dey shake my head/ laugh. More grace sir.

Thank you so much, Apostle for this series. It's really an eye opener.

‘Love and Vows’ took another dimension. These are ‘practical’ things every couple and intending couples should sit with, in preparation for a great and peaceful home. God bless you Apostle for sharing this light.

I have indeed learnt a lot listening to this and will put them into play. I am healed!

This series is a must watch! Full of so much wisdom that is needed in our generation. Thank you so much Apostle sir

God richly bless you Apostle ..The Lord continue to empower you in Jesus name

I just love this pastor, first time hearing from..the teaching is a wow!

This is what is needed for the body at large Thank you Apostle

I'm totally blessed by this message. This is timely. More grace,sir.🙏

Thank you so much Apostle for this light from your well of wisdom.

This series has been so timely and live transforming!🔥.... Thank you So much Apostle for being a blessing!.... God bless you greatly sir!!!

Sincerely, I was blessed running into this message. God bless you Sir.

Kash, 🔥🔥,the unbiased man of God.I love this balance messages.

I have been overly blessed by this teachings. God blessss youuu immensely Sir, I’m super grateful 🙏

This is a blessing to me, its insightful and sheds light to a lot of areas am having issues!

Thank you sir for the wisdom insight I listen to you but this is my first time as a full-time listener. Thank you for the impact. May God continue to bless you abundantly as you continue to Shepherd and lead us in the coming years, AMEN AMEN AMEN 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

Get busy maximizing your single days, do not mourn it A merry heart doeth good like medicine but sorrow dries the bones.

Heal before you deal... Thank you Apostle

This series has been a whole body of wisdom for restoration Thank you Apostle

Thank you so much Apostle for this teaching. I must confess it brought healing and light to me. I learnt forgiveness.

This teaching is timely for me... The wisdom is ageless

Thank you so much Apostle for this teaching. This part alone is enough to for anyone to get it right. I so much anticipate the next. Thank you sir.

God bless you man from God.this message has renewed my mind

I’m so blessed I shared this on my fb page. Thanks for sharing this Godly Wisdom.

So much light. Thank you Apostle

I bless God for what He is doing through you, sir.

I am blessed and my decision as regarding choosing a partner and being the right partner for my spouse is taking a new & positive approach through your teachings sir..More Grace sir …I am so grateful

God bless Apostle Femi Lazarus.

This kind of wisdom preserves. Thank you Apostle!

Have a Vision you're pursuing, Thank you Apostle 🔥

This was a fantastic message. Singles and married can surely benefit from this. More anointing sir!

This message is a whole lot. Thank you Apostle for this. God bless you sir.

Thank you so much Papa. This series has been so enlightening. I’ve learnt practical and applicable things to put in place in my marriage.

Been blessed greatly by this series

God bless you sir, I am really blessed and this basics will help me a lot before going into it. I really do appreciate your sincerity honestly not all pastors will say some personal things while they were dating or even in their marriages and for the fact that you balanced the two gender that was awesome. You're indeed a blessing to this generation of ours. Thank you once again. ❤

Thank you so much Apostle,this series has been an eye opener

Thank you sir, for allowing God use you to bless us with this message. I'm healed and relieved from pains.