POLICE BY-LAW ENCOUNTER | Not the way I like to start my morning
Police by-law giving my a warning but I didn't slept there.
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Hi my name is Emi. I'm born in raise in small town just outside Quebec City, this is where my lovely accent come from. My #vanlife story starts in September 2018. After a long-term relationship that I was trying for more than a year to rebuild, I decided it was time to end this toxic relationship once for all. This is where I decided to move away from this man that I was still in love with. I put all my belongings inside my SUV (GMC Jimmy) and moved six hours from where I was living. I didn’t know where I would sleep, didn’t know where I would work but I knew I needed to make a drastic move. At that time, I told myself I will only sleep in my car for a month while looking for a place to rent. What I didn’t know is that one month became another month and another month. In the end, I end up sleeping in my car for a full year. Even if people will consider this the lowers time of my life, this experience was the best thing I couldn’t have done with my life. I took that year to focus on myself, decide what I wanted, and most importantly what I didn’t want. That year made me also realize that for so long, I was chasing the wrong dreams. I was chasing what society wanted me to be: to have a big house, a steady job, kids, get married… None of those dreams was making me happy. In September 2019, while I was actively looking for a van, I received a phone call that someone had found my cat (Kelly). After, trying for hours with no success to communicate with my ex-boyfriend (who was taking care of her), I decided to drive the six hours to go pick her up. Without going into too much detail, it turns out he wasn’t able to take care of her anymore. So I brought her in a cat kennel for a couple of days until I found a van we both could live in. I put all the savings that I had accumulated while living in my car and bought my van (a 2011 Ford Econoline that I end up adding a hightop) In the beginning, It wasn’t so glamour. My cat and I were sleeping on a mattress on the floor of the van. We both had to adjust. Now, my cat loves this lifestyle as much as I do; she looks at the window while I’m driving and she loves exploring new places. Since then, my cat Kelly and I are have been living full-time in my self convert van.
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Sorry about the music over me talking at 6:40. It's a little editing mistake of my part.
That note looks like it was written by a busy body walking by.
That does not look like an official warning note. They would use official notes for that and not just a piece of paper. That looks like some local person put that on your van and tried to make it look official. If you are not doing anything wrong ignore the note and go about your day.
Your phone has GPS which is always on. You can use GPS history to prove you didn't sleep there.
@RLeeVanCamps
Жыл бұрын
I don’t know how that works. Explain please
I been living in my van 4 yrs now. No police officer writes a note no parking patrol writes a note you get a ticket it’s just a neighborhood person handwriting note I wouldn’t worry about it have a great day
@sukokino2409
Жыл бұрын
Exactly,, neighborhood watch Aholes,,I'm in Huntington Beach CA,,hundreds of this Pieces of shiet
I got the same note at that same park. I saw the lady as she put it on my windshield. She is an elderly resident who feels she is doing her duty of deterring overnight campers in that park. I opened my door and told her kindly that I arrived after 6am, and did not try to be confrontational. She seemed a bit paranoid, perhaps there was a rash of campers or partiers taking over in the past. She seems to walk through there most mornings to “do her part” in her own mind.
@luckydubefan808
Жыл бұрын
So she is impersonating a police officer and needs to be reported
I totally understand how frustrating it is. I got surrounded by the police with hands on the weapons in the middle of the day at a public park. I was in the back working on my laptop in my minivan. It's always sucks when police think you're up to something when you aren't breaking in laws or trying to sleep where it's illegal. Good video, Emily.
@Alenasup
Жыл бұрын
That sounds scary! And maddening
@HensOnly
Жыл бұрын
That is intimidation and unlawful! Police overstepping their boundaries and if you are in USA, that's against your constitutional rights if it isn't lawful. File charges against the police. FOIA the records and calls.
@rainsofhealing
Жыл бұрын
Wow that’s nuts! Do you mind if I ask what country this happened in? What State or Province? I’m glad you’re ok! That’s horrible I’m so sorry.
@karenlowes7802
11 ай бұрын
Definetly not Canada. Police would never pull a gun! Are you kidding?
You may want to consider getting cameras on the outside of your van. That would really bug me if someone came up to my van, placed something under my windshield wiper and I didn’t even know it! I wouldn’t want someone that close to my van with me in it or touching my van. 😡 Times are different today ... we have so many sophisticated security devices where information comes at laser speed right to our phones screens. A security device might be worth looking into. ❤️
@claudejkarlesun2748
Жыл бұрын
Just Honk your Horn if someone bothers U.
I'd be suspicious of a hand written note, but I'd move anyway. Take care! 😮
Kelly looked like she was inhaling those fish treats & all the crumbs too, lol.
The weird part is, it was hand written. Arent warning notes from Bi-laws an actual warning ticket. I've had one in Burnaby. It was an actual ticket, but a warning to not stay. Hand written is weird unless it was the park ranger or someone.
@daveman439
Жыл бұрын
Nosy Nellie's, Karens or Kevins.
@devoe365
Жыл бұрын
In my small town they are handwritten in sharpie.
Creepy note, be careful of people posing as someone they are not. Love your videos
@wendysteinberg2595
Жыл бұрын
Carolyn, another RVer out there did a video on people posing as police officers only to turn out to be violent criminals. BE CAREFUL!
. Geez . People assume things . You can park and do your work . Stay safe and big hugs to kitty
That looked like a 'Karen' note.
@luckydubefan808
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, looks like "Karen" is impersonating a police officer and needs to be reported.
I reckon that hand written note was done by a prankster or practical joker, it should have at least had a legal letter heading. Hugs to you and Kelly xx
Kelly is such an affectionate kitty.
I love how you go through the difficulties with such a positive heart, what a good example to inspire all your viewers by.🐱⚘🌼🌻🌺😺👍
I have a friend who has a camper van. He put ladder across the top of it. And most people he said thought it was a work van.
Glad you always show us how important it is to obey the rules so that we don’t make it harder for others.
Hi Emi, love your videos and love your cat, Kellie. Stay safe and give Kellie a pet for me!! 😊😊
Hey Emi and Kelly ❤
That hand written note carries no authority whatsoever… looks like someone needs to mind their own business…
@cheflifevanlife
Жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking. People in San Diego leave those types of notes on vans by the beach because they don't live vanlifers. But it's Canada maybe it's a legit way cops warn people there. Heck I don't know. What I do know is people need to mind their own business it no on is causing problems or breaking the law.
@blackbob3358
Жыл бұрын
I'd agree with you ms harker, but i/you do'nt know if they've some dreadful experiences with vanners in the past. One thing for sure, they ALL would'nt be as responsible a vanner as this lass.
@barbaraallen3054
Жыл бұрын
@@blackbob3358 also there's been an increase of illegals being smuggled in via Van's and trucks.
Emi I’ve loved following you and Kelly for years now. It’s amazing how watching sweet people like you has helped my anxiety! Thank you for sharing your journey and being so real. I love that!! Blessings to you from colorful Colorado ❤🇺🇸❤🐾
Handwritten? It’s from an area resident who does not like “homeless” van dweller. Police would either knock or gives you a ticket.
Sending you and kitty hugs.
Thankfully it’s a warning and not a ticket 😊 Yes frustrating
@sukokino2409
Жыл бұрын
Warning?? You're a retard
We all have our lazy days i did today
Hi Emi I am sorry you had that encounter I do have a suggestion for you put the time you arrived on a note in the window or like I do here in the USA I just do Boon docking and city parks those are free and parking lots Just look for No signs I've NEVER had a problem ever and been doing it for 40 yrs
I notice Security at no overnight Walmart s park near my van when I am shopping. I tend to park a distance from the store so random carts and congestion don’t risk an accident to my van. I wave my shopping at them as I enter the van but often they stay until I have put it all away and am driving off. I wave again and try to make a sarcastic face, hopefully they can read my scorn
If your worry about the paint on your hood, some people wrap a piece of cloth around the magnet.
@nomadicfoodie6286
Жыл бұрын
Or put a felt thingie on that you put under chairs
Kelly does like those minnows. My dogs like them as well.
Your videos have improved a lot...in terms of composition and editing ...they are more lively n interesting to watch...good job emi....
Thank you for the video, Emi. I love how affectionate Kelly was being~
Hey Emi well the good thing is it was a warning and not a ticket so that was a positive that was crazy that you were the last one that was not allowed on but at least you’re in your beautiful little home so the wait isn’t as bad Kelli is too cute when she’s eating her treats, you guys are so much fun you guys always make my day. Be safe out there they warm and have fun. 🇺🇸♥️✌️🙂🇺🇸🐈⬛🏔️🚐🇨🇦
Sweet kitty
enjoy your weekend much love and blessings thank you Kelly for the Kisses much love
Hello Emi and Kitty. Just watch your video. I pray you had a wonderful and bless day. Kitty is so adorable love her. I have 8 cats they drive me cucu at times but love them all. Hopefully you don't get notes like that again. See you on your next video. Be safe and protection. Pray for all of you .♥♥♥🥰🥰😍😍😘😘😘😺🐈👼👼👼🙏🙏🙏
I live in a sticks and bricks home. We have a beautiful little park in my neighborhood. We have a little camper van living at the park. But they move around the park and do not sit in one place. They move around the park every day and no trash. So we tolerate them ❤
@arthurcutaiar9994
Жыл бұрын
You tolerate them. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. You mean you tolerate someone who is doing nothing wrong n wants to be left alone. They don't know how lucky they are
@rouxchat6033
Жыл бұрын
Hmm, tolerate? How benevolent of you. 😕
@luckydubefan808
Жыл бұрын
Stick and bricks are only ONE type of home that not everyone can afford these days. Just because you live in one doesn't make you any better than a van dweller.
@rythemzlatin
Жыл бұрын
ALL HAIL the great Benevolence of _Deborah_ _Harper_ who tolerates other people doing nothing wrong & breathing the air around her .
Aww, kisses to you Miss Kelly.
I love your recipe book. ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing❤ stay safe
My best bet is that it's probably a local who dosen't like vanlifers who wrote the little note. Usually police do not scribble warnings on a piece of paper. Furthermore, you were legally parked during permitted hours.
Hi Emi! Thank you for sharing ❤ I believe there are two sides to every story. For most van dwellers they are living in vans because of desiring for adventure and exploration, for more financial freedom, for mental and physical health reasons and solitude, or desperation, or for many other reasons and they respect the neighborhoods in which they travel to. There are other van and car dwellers who leave their area they stayed in with garbage and noise pollution, totally disregarding by-laws, disrespecting locals and the environment. When these notes are received it’s best to be compassionate and put ourselves in the shoes of the locals, the city, and police, and know if you’ve done nothing wrong then it is their issue of over generalization but also understand and honour their fear and distrust because of misbehavior among some van, RV as well as car dwellers. At the park you stayed at there used to be van campers who abused the by-laws which upsetted the locals so this explains the note you received. Hope this helps and anyone who read the message. Happy journeys to you and your beloved kitty ❤❤
lots of miss kitty kisses today❤❤❤❤❤❤
Try posting a sign on your van stating you obey all parking laws and are aware of the designated parking times.
Your love of French fries is cool. They are awesome. Kelly is always adorable eating her treats. A citizen wrote the note. It would be frustrating when you know the truth. You have a good system!
Enjoy your videos. Just love your kitty.
Great video. Kisses to Kelly!
That note may have been from a local resident who doesn’t know how to mind their own business. I am thinking of the HOA Nazi’s who try to puff themselves up with self importance.
thank you for taking me on the ferry
Spanish banks is a no go anymore 😊
@mylifejourney74
Жыл бұрын
Shut down months ago after all the complaints
Hi Emmy, thanks for sharing, and here's a kiss for Kellie😘😻❤🙏
@ThecatladyVAN
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sean. I really appreciate. Have a beautiful day
Have a great day emi
Working with someone from your area small world best wishes cute kitty
I sure understand waiting for a ferry for hours. I grew up on an island Bømlo on the west coast of Norway 🇧🇻 I live outside Pittsburgh Pennsylvania now
An official notice would be a typed form with sections to be filled in by hand.
You are like your cat soft and lovable ❤😊☮️love my 🐈⬛
Stay safe❤
Kitty is so sweet! Glad to know she adapted well to van life. Thanks for the tips!
I’m glad you didn’t get an actual ticket! Looks to me like they could have knocked to talk to you but then they may not believe you. You’re right though… they have a job to do. Kelly is so pretty and she was so happy to have the still, peace, and quiet 😃. Love to you both! Hugs and prayers ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Hi, I am new here, and enjoy how real, down to earth you are, and Love your Cat. I am also a Cat lover. Your cat is very happy with your life..❤❤❤
Another interesting video❤
It's no fun missing the ferry....unless you have a comfortable van :)
Guess what I'm making today from your cookbook the spring rolls. Thank you Emi. Sending kisses to Kelly
The ferry cafeteria sometimes serves a decent stir fry - I always get extra veggies instead of meat. It’s a bit pricey, but quite tasty! I think you have the right attitude towards people who complain, even though you’re following the bylaws. Love your content! 💜
Emi you are so cheerful & positive! 🤗💜😻
They hadn’t had they’re coffee yet! 🥰 ❤️you Emi 😊
The ferries from Perama (Attiki, is larger area around Athens) to Island of Salamis go all quarter, at night all half hours...Our ferries in Greece are exceptional, they care about people.
Great video. Safe travels.
Emily please give chrome a good message about avero press coffeemaker will be better than French press coffeemaker will be easy to clean lonewolf in Virginia
I always like you sharing the view from on the fairy Ride. I would like to see all surrounding scenery view from fairy....when you can....Please.😊
C’est un double négatif. Donc un positif que tu a fait quelque chose de mal 😊. Mais je comprends comme les autres ce que tu voulais dire.
Very pretty and friendly kitty so curious but that's a cat's instinct to do. Good video and I don't think I would have stayed where you were with all those people. Gotta watch out for strangers anymore. Some people are really nice and could just be out for some fun out doors but just remember that you have to be careful. Have a wonderful time and stay safe. Love and Prayers for you and the kitty.
Thanks for the advice about parking. Good to see you take it in stride. Warnings always better than tickets. Seemed odd put on passenger side of vehicle. Maybe just nosy Nelly😊. You and Kelly have great day
Best think to do is you can track your movements with a gps in order to have proof, but your smile will unlock hearts
Absolutely one of my most fav vid. Loved seeing the inside of the ferry and the process through which you go. They are amazing vessels. I hope to one day experience it and enjoy the area to which it takes me. Thanks so much.😘😘
Nice video. Good night Kelly. 🐈
I love this intro! It's so good!
I've been a subscriber since the beginning of your journey and you seem much happier and more comfortable on camera. It's beautiful to see you growing and enjoying life. Best wishes on your adventures ✨️
If you leave a note in your window stating when you arrived at the spot your at and the approximate time you will be leaving it could avoid unnecessary hassles from parking enforcement or neighborhood residents.
Good video. Good info. Ty
I stay really stealthy in my dodge caravan, but sometimes it happens so I move on
That’s just a Karen ! Worry not, I luv what you doing
I didn't do "nothing" wrong, actually means you did. Try, I didn't do "anything" wrong. Cops will try to use that as an admission if guilt! Be careful! Or "I did nothing wrong"
If it's handwritten I would contact. The authorities. Warnings and tickets have official papers that are filled out.
Those ferry's are gigantic! ⛴ Stay safe. 🕊
I enjoy your videos let's me forget I'm in a wheelchair.
I’d write a note back to them and leave it on their car.
Your accent reminds me so much of the old people from Woonsocket Rhode Island Because of the heavy French Presence in Woonsocket A lot of the people still have a French accent And we eat dynamites put tasheen wah.
God forbid that we should have parking lots for van dwellers, who are low-income, to stay overnight and be safe! Easy solution!!
Write a note that says I got here at such time. 😂
Also important don’t leave trash, don’t cook or sit in a chair in the parking lot. Ppl complain and everyone is kicked out.
Love your kitty.
Nice video!
I lived in Audi tt with a cat. Once upon a time!
Very nice
Thanks!
@ThecatladyVAN
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Laurel. I really appreciate
Thanks for sharing! What is kitty eating? Looks like she loves it
That note is written by someone not a bylaw officer.
Hang in there Emi There are good and bad people in this world You are doing what you can do to be within the law Stay positive and