Please Don't Blame the Girls

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  • @artisticanimedreamerchohui1029
    @artisticanimedreamerchohui10294 жыл бұрын

    Whats really crazy bout this is that literally like 99% of them werent even fat. Like what fat is there to even lose.

  • @marissaflip8707

    @marissaflip8707

    4 жыл бұрын

    ArtisticAnimeDreamer ChohuiDance4Ever i know it’s 100% I mean there’s NO FAT in them

  • @yishi.4466

    @yishi.4466

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@marissaflip8707 there is but the healthy type we all have fats if we didn't have fats then we would just be skeletons but I get what you mean by fats... "excess fats" and NONE OF THEM EVEN HAVE 1 POUND OF EXTRA FAT NONE LIKE WTF WHY DO PEOPLE CALL THEM FAT??

  • @sodalir8653

    @sodalir8653

    4 жыл бұрын

    They don't have any access fat and even if they had a little what is that going to change but really they want them to lose skin cause that's all they are basically

  • @mariunfabregas7533

    @mariunfabregas7533

    4 жыл бұрын

    No, what's _really_ crazy is the fact that the people who shame dols for being "fat" are usually fatter than the idols they criticize😕

  • @micheyam1ch3y43

    @micheyam1ch3y43

    4 жыл бұрын

    Going by the nhs standard of healthy weight the woman that was 177cm, was considered underweight. Like the nhs consider 75kg up to be healthy weight. Like wth?

  • @purushothaman8538
    @purushothaman85383 жыл бұрын

    "we starve to death, we have low self esteem, we are called ugly" tv show hosts : BAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA OMFG SO FUNNY LMFAO

  • @lisalalisa182

    @lisalalisa182

    3 жыл бұрын

    True... it's really a sad reality

  • @dylanthomasbraxton4916

    @dylanthomasbraxton4916

    3 жыл бұрын

    to be fair i think they laughed it off because if the hosts dared commented on how the starving part sounds like mistreatment, it would cause a scandal on their part and may even risk their jobs.

  • @purushothaman8538

    @purushothaman8538

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dylanthomasbraxton4916 they couldve atleast said "oh thats sad" and moved on

  • @cSedx00022

    @cSedx00022

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@purushothaman8538 Yeah. All that laughing was unnecessary af

  • @nevergonnagiveyouupnevergo9439

    @nevergonnagiveyouupnevergo9439

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your mother died today tv show hosts: OMG *LMFAO*

  • @miguelmartinez9687
    @miguelmartinez96873 жыл бұрын

    That guy who pointed out Sulli's "fat" made me sick to my stomach. She was too precious for this cruel world and it makes me happy seeing all of the times Amber defended and stepped up for her.

  • @keererhdgejs1246

    @keererhdgejs1246

    3 жыл бұрын

    that man should look in the mirror himself before judging others like he looks like a fucking rat nd had the audacity to say 'loose weight' to a person who looked soo beautiful

  • @viri6509

    @viri6509

    3 жыл бұрын

    he literally looked like a dinosaur

  • @nikki3355

    @nikki3355

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes it fills me with so much rage. He had the audacity to go into specifics in front of a crowd and that completely disregards her feelings. These types of comments may stick with someone forever.

  • @minari1044

    @minari1044

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ofcourse is a man

  • @addictedtoprocrastination9986

    @addictedtoprocrastination9986

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes. And what's sadder is her first instinct was to say "I'm planning on losing the weight". She's conditioned to think she's never good enough that she has to make excuses to a stranger about her body. I really admire the girls actively trying to criticize and defy the unfair standards in kpop, but they're so few and far between because the industry destroys most girls' self-esteem to the point they can never speak up.

  • @saanvisharma2126
    @saanvisharma21263 жыл бұрын

    Taeyeon is a queen for defending Wendy and Seulgi.

  • @s.seulbae

    @s.seulbae

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr 🥺

  • @bdn3832

    @bdn3832

    3 жыл бұрын

    So is amber from fx for defending her members

  • @sanaandyujusslave1121

    @sanaandyujusslave1121

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe if she defended her own member 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @momoring7424

    @momoring7424

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sanaandyujusslave1121 you do know wendy and seulgi are younger than her. if anything she wouldn't want any of them to be told they're too fat or anything but at least she stood up for someone. we don't know if she stood up for her members behind the scenes or anything.

  • @c00chie_men.official

    @c00chie_men.official

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@butterflytae0903 but have you ever been a part of snsd hm?

  • @zei9379
    @zei93794 жыл бұрын

    One word explains all: disgusting treatment.

  • @evl7341

    @evl7341

    4 жыл бұрын

    Seb Nick agree w you but that’s 2 words

  • @radioactivepi734

    @radioactivepi734

    4 жыл бұрын

    Which word

  • @dinaadriana8984

    @dinaadriana8984

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's two

  • @juul2250

    @juul2250

    4 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely agree with you and this is indeed disgusting, but they're 2 words

  • @estepark7294
    @estepark72944 жыл бұрын

    I like how taeyeon defend Seulgi and Wendy to thier managers, she's such a good unnie.

  • @WATWUZDAREASON
    @WATWUZDAREASON3 жыл бұрын

    I remember this girl group said that they don't even get their period anymore because of the excessive dieting.

  • @Iseeyou0165

    @Iseeyou0165

    3 жыл бұрын

    wth...period sucks but it is important..they might die at this stage...may ik which girl group it is?

  • @WATWUZDAREASON

    @WATWUZDAREASON

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think it was Lovelyz. They were being interviewed by Heechul.

  • @thesevenkingswelove9554

    @thesevenkingswelove9554

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's so horrible

  • @tpwk_ghvodka6479

    @tpwk_ghvodka6479

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg... What if something even worse happens next?!

  • @fruitjuiceandzerocoke

    @fruitjuiceandzerocoke

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@WATWUZDAREASON WTF!!! This is not right!! In some cases, the girls may find it difficult to have children in the future

  • @ava-tf1ni
    @ava-tf1ni3 жыл бұрын

    “You’re a female idol, so you need to lose weight” always sickens me to hear. like no, their job is to sing and dance, not to starve themselves, and suffer from low self esteem for their entire lives.

  • @LilliaGreen7977
    @LilliaGreen79774 жыл бұрын

    I feel like Hwa Sa laughed a lot to cover up the fact that she was hurt by what the head of the agency said.

  • @ebele.i7484

    @ebele.i7484

    4 жыл бұрын

    It’s really sad 😢

  • @shizunnanase543

    @shizunnanase543

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ebele.i7484 I don't sleep because of it. 😢

  • @Deryatari

    @Deryatari

    4 жыл бұрын

    Probably true. I would feel incredibly hurt if someone would say things like that to me. Also, it's absolutely stupid, because all of Mamamoo's members are gorgeous, beautiful - inside and outside.

  • @zuinotr2550

    @zuinotr2550

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's sad. Poor my queen Hwasa(〒﹏〒)

  • @shizunnanase543

    @shizunnanase543

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@zuinotr2550 Now the agency must be Thinking what they did back then was a shame for them

  • @ayeshaazmat230
    @ayeshaazmat2304 жыл бұрын

    the thing I hate most is when the girls try to talk about these issues people shut them down, telling them it's a part of their job

  • @LaurenGrz

    @LaurenGrz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! The fact that it’s a part of the job is the problem! That’s why people are talking about it.

  • @mymiialm1316

    @mymiialm1316

    4 жыл бұрын

    IU suffered about this in the past

  • @reinas9666

    @reinas9666

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know it's healthy to have a proportional body but some idols are skinny and yet their label told them to do diet. Idol can die by starving.

  • @naihgeislerfexica4447

    @naihgeislerfexica4447

    4 жыл бұрын

    So what?! Imma shut them down too! tsk!

  • @violetsden

    @violetsden

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@naihgeislerfexica4447 Ok then.

  • @jeojiibnida987
    @jeojiibnida9873 жыл бұрын

    the thing that worries me the most is that everyone is laughing about it and doesn't realise how DISGUSTING and TOXIC this is

  • @sharu1029

    @sharu1029

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, I just can't understand how in the world is this funny? Is it something wrong with my brain?

  • @manjupillai7715

    @manjupillai7715

    3 жыл бұрын

    its all fun and games cause the toxicity is unseen and "normal" there !

  • @kritika0950

    @kritika0950

    3 жыл бұрын

    they do know as well , but they gotta act funny and all so things dont get weird and awkward

  • @MilotusLucifera

    @MilotusLucifera

    Жыл бұрын

    They do know but they can't really do anything about it so they gotta make it look not too problematic to the public. There's a reason so many girl groups disband on their own volition

  • @beththompson2253
    @beththompson22533 жыл бұрын

    the fact that the women said her dad would starve her since primary school is so heartbreaking

  • @sanicalouiselee2418
    @sanicalouiselee24184 жыл бұрын

    That Shindong comment was disgusting. Deeply disgusting.

  • @celestialmaiden4606

    @celestialmaiden4606

    4 жыл бұрын

    He ended up dieting now too and is married with a child. Let's see how long he lasts with that.

  • @mdkitchen1932

    @mdkitchen1932

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@celestialmaiden4606 shindong married?? I think u confused him with someone else

  • @shantaliguiron363

    @shantaliguiron363

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shindong isn't married he just loses weight

  • @yeet5302

    @yeet5302

    4 жыл бұрын

    once he feels bad, I feel like he'll be going, "Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry" (SJ pun)

  • @yasmincoelho8124

    @yasmincoelho8124

    4 жыл бұрын

    He actually apologized already because of the things he said on the past

  • @summera7144
    @summera71443 жыл бұрын

    Yoona’s face really screams “r u fcking kidding me” when they called her too fat & too thin in the same time 😭

  • @sabinamohan2415

    @sabinamohan2415

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right! Like omg they were trying to give this backhanded compliment as if she was supppsed to take it nicely. "Oh no no, we mean you're TOO SKINNY and want you to become fatter"

  • @erin9110

    @erin9110

    3 жыл бұрын

    And Yoona is absolutely gorgeous 💓

  • @brittneyreimers7968

    @brittneyreimers7968

    3 жыл бұрын

    Find it disgusting and humiliating when they don't like you as a singer or a person but like you cuz of your body and how you look and they look like 👹💩

  • @nicholasmutch1556

    @nicholasmutch1556

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah, that comment was also bogus, I read a caption that said , that they used the fans words of her being so overworked that she's so thin that she should eat something, and they have their korean word for it. That is just picking on people.

  • @angelabby2379

    @angelabby2379

    3 жыл бұрын

    bruuh they shouldn't even include that...its just mistranslation

  • @mariaaguirre6730
    @mariaaguirre67303 жыл бұрын

    09:15 Taeyeon, thank you for your existence, really, thanks.

  • @starrynightfall00

    @starrynightfall00

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @exoisthereason.491
    @exoisthereason.4913 жыл бұрын

    4:43 the way Amber protected sulli. (:

  • @risayu5274

    @risayu5274

    3 жыл бұрын

    she should throw her shoes toward that guy

  • @visualbeauty3427

    @visualbeauty3427

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@risayu5274 but people are always double standand & over sensitive sometimes & nowadays.

  • @did_i_ask_btchDO_i_look_i_care

    @did_i_ask_btchDO_i_look_i_care

    2 жыл бұрын

    My female crush :)

  • @amandamenin8959
    @amandamenin89594 жыл бұрын

    how is calling a person “fat” and “ugly” in front of them considered normal?? omg this is disgusting

  • @zalinad7369

    @zalinad7369

    4 жыл бұрын

    I used to think no one said things like that too because I'm skinny but actually it's VERY common my sister get comments from my family all the time and she has flat stomach

  • @expensivegurl1112

    @expensivegurl1112

    4 жыл бұрын

    Believe me its quite common no matter what body type you have.. im genetically underweight and people would just criticize me for it with "are you anorexic?" "You're so thin" In public..

  • @amandamenin8959

    @amandamenin8959

    4 жыл бұрын

    Zalina D from the family i think is more normal, but obviously still not cool

  • @amandamenin8959

    @amandamenin8959

    4 жыл бұрын

    expensive gurl uωu that’s so rude of them, and i think that is actually part of the culture of the country to say things like that informally right? because in my country, most of the time you just say thinks like that if you are intimate with the person, but in korea apparently not...

  • @amandamenin8959

    @amandamenin8959

    4 жыл бұрын

    PerrySport yass queen

  • @offgun6466
    @offgun64664 жыл бұрын

    Hitomi: *has chubby cheeks* Knetz: She's fat Hitomi: *gets skinny* Knetz: Does she eat?

  • @rosemilkthy

    @rosemilkthy

    4 жыл бұрын

    hitomi has lost a scary amount of weight. especially as shes known for her cute cheeks; she doesnt have them anymore. its sad and worrying

  • @offgun6466

    @offgun6466

    4 жыл бұрын

    just an egg True but all of this stems from unrealistic Korean beauty standards

  • @gummiecheol1912

    @gummiecheol1912

    4 жыл бұрын

    and that's just really sad

  • @SCab-oj5ce

    @SCab-oj5ce

    4 жыл бұрын

    Knetz every minute: J U D G E S Okay maybe not all knetz but you get the point😅

  • @thuhienle1814

    @thuhienle1814

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not everyone is perfect. Knetizen are scary.

  • @staph.aureus2771
    @staph.aureus27713 жыл бұрын

    I feel really bad for late Sulli. She immediately saying that she planned to lose weight when heard that guy’s comment. It makes me remmeber how bad she was bullied by people on social media. May she rest in peace 😢😢😢

  • @rtk-ok1yp
    @rtk-ok1yp3 жыл бұрын

    My standards this, my standards that...like stfu, I understand everyone has their own taste and standards so just try to find the one you'll like and don't insult those who don't match your stadards and don't make them uncomfortable, they don't have to change themselves for you.

  • @LovelyKissess

    @LovelyKissess

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @emmasi532
    @emmasi5324 жыл бұрын

    "I would never date an ugly girl , because there's no girl the world who's ugly" - Lay Zhang ( Exo )

  • @ZetsumiSekai

    @ZetsumiSekai

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yixing is such a sweetheart ❤

  • @katielee7364

    @katielee7364

    4 жыл бұрын

    i'm sure if he saw me he'd change that opinion real quick

  • @user-wi6ti1zj4z

    @user-wi6ti1zj4z

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@katielee7364 aww sweetie don't say that ☹️ I'm sure you're beautiful

  • @elcrego

    @elcrego

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gentleman of all times

  • @saikicoffeejelly8643

    @saikicoffeejelly8643

    4 жыл бұрын

    we stannnn periodt✨

  • @dirgmario
    @dirgmario4 жыл бұрын

    In tons of comments, people say: “oh, that guy looks awful, how dares he to judge any girl?”, but let me tell you: Even if these guys were top male 1% professional models, that still wouldn’t give them any right to judge idols’ looks.

  • @ataud9754

    @ataud9754

    4 жыл бұрын

    This

  • @bekcha4170

    @bekcha4170

    4 жыл бұрын

    That’s true, but if they don’t take care of themselves they have no right to expect girls to be at their “in their opinion best”, it’s hypocrisy. Everyone has their own standards and that’s totally okay, but no one has a right to tell other people how to look

  • @rosa-zh9sx

    @rosa-zh9sx

    4 жыл бұрын

    THIS!!! Thank you for writing this!!

  • @minyaw1234

    @minyaw1234

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes he has every right to, idols want the money from fans - idol business is a visual one. They don't sell fruits, they sell their image and songs. If you sell fruits and your customer doesn't tell you they taste like shit, you will go bankrupt. Simple as that.

  • @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive

    @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive

    4 жыл бұрын

    well said !

  • @plsnarayanan
    @plsnarayanan3 жыл бұрын

    I had respect for shindong but after he said those words, *I 👏 LOST 👏 ALL 👏 THE 👏 RESPECT 👏 FOR 👏 SHINDONG*

  • @marinacomasvidal4110

    @marinacomasvidal4110

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same, I am so disappointed...

  • @jjongscorner7476

    @jjongscorner7476

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@marinacomasvidal4110 He had even insult fans for weight. U should see more about him and some other suju members. Most of them are amazing sirs and Im obsessed with their music, but some r really the worst people. Kyuhyun is one of my top favorite vocalists but I'm disguised of him and don't like his personality. He's selfish and disrespectful and sorry for saying

  • @taeblends

    @taeblends

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I'm the opposite. My respect for Shindong has slowly built up over the years because it seems like he has changed his attitude. Keep in mind that comment was literally from 2005, over 15 years ago. I don't know about you but I would want people to judge me on the person I am today, not the person I used to be.

  • @thesevenkingswelove9554

    @thesevenkingswelove9554

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel so disgusted by what he said

  • @danielalala5337

    @danielalala5337

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@taeblends he still was a whole grown ass adult, no excuses

  • @stanshinee378
    @stanshinee3783 жыл бұрын

    And then ppl blame Bom for her surgery but she was literally called ugly

  • @damara5618
    @damara56184 жыл бұрын

    One thing that is bothering me is that in all these shows, the problems with their weights and their CEOs are being shown as funny and not serious. Everyone is laughing about it

  • @katgreer6113

    @katgreer6113

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fr wtf? It ain't funny.

  • @user-pk4lr5kz5i

    @user-pk4lr5kz5i

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bruh it’s the only way they can complain or else they gonna be treated like shit even more, it’s actually sad and I’m fuming

  • @damara5618

    @damara5618

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@user-pk4lr5kz5i Yes and it really makes me angry

  • @rion6206

    @rion6206

    4 жыл бұрын

    I see that these women didn't laugh tho (except for the ones who called jihyo fat, too), they really got bothered, and making fun of this is a way they can tell these things. Maybe it's not taken seriously because Korea still very sexist and male chauvinist (idk if it's wrong, I'm not that fluent in English lol), several countries are like this, Korea is just one of them.

  • @velvet8859

    @velvet8859

    4 жыл бұрын

    they think it is funny? pathetic. it's not funny at all

  • @sennataylor592
    @sennataylor5924 жыл бұрын

    Amber has such restraint while defending Sulli. I was expecting her to yell at the guy or something.

  • @akb48frenchfansite96

    @akb48frenchfansite96

    4 жыл бұрын

    Senna Taylor she have her image to protect too :(

  • @priyankaamusiclover

    @priyankaamusiclover

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's why I respect Amber Liu so much .. One of the reason why she is my favourite ( one of the favourite ) .. Amber Unni is really great

  • @letssmile3564

    @letssmile3564

    4 жыл бұрын

    She does stand up for her, but not like yell YELLING more polite. Watch the full video of it :D

  • @amirakhaldi5101

    @amirakhaldi5101

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @minhtrang6620

    @minhtrang6620

    4 жыл бұрын

    That man's standard was disgusting, Sulli was already so skinny and beautiful at the time. We can see how she became super conscious when he said that. Just plain disgusting to judge a young girl with that unhealthy standard.

  • @ramaamali
    @ramaamali3 жыл бұрын

    i loved how taeyeon defended wendy and seulgi and called out the manager we need more ppl like her like kindness is really important and some companies dont even lets there idols eat thats so cruel

  • @ChicaBuenosAires
    @ChicaBuenosAires3 жыл бұрын

    I love Taeyeon at the end defending Wendy with their manager and even cheering them up about their weight.

  • @101dream2
    @101dream24 жыл бұрын

    Remember what Hwasa said "If I cant get to Korean beauty standard, I will build my own standard"

  • @g.ale21

    @g.ale21

    4 жыл бұрын

    and she is divine

  • @audreylaurel

    @audreylaurel

    4 жыл бұрын

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @d.h.7314

    @d.h.7314

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is a queen

  • @priyankaamusiclover

    @priyankaamusiclover

    4 жыл бұрын

    It should have to be every ladies saying .. Like "if you don't like me than don't cause I don't even care about you and I will gonna make my own way by my own specialities . your words doesn't matter even for a little bit"

  • @timeoftheend9516

    @timeoftheend9516

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hwasa is absolute queen, legend she is the only female k-idol I admire 👍♥

  • @rmsdimples8533
    @rmsdimples85334 жыл бұрын

    Fun fact: Yg calls CL ugly because Cl stood up and said she didnt want plastic surgery for her debut while YG was forcing her, she said no

  • @kpopstan2202

    @kpopstan2202

    4 жыл бұрын

    MLD389 So happy she stood up for herself ! And I also think he called them all ugly. He’s a pig.

  • @BlackjackiesChannel

    @BlackjackiesChannel

    4 жыл бұрын

    i mean he also said 2ne1 is an ugly group... YG WILL FOREVER BE A SCAM AND IDIOT

  • @rollydhar9971

    @rollydhar9971

    4 жыл бұрын

    Queen

  • @soukkk6773

    @soukkk6773

    4 жыл бұрын

    CL first when i saw her i said she is beautiful lmao he is blind

  • @lalaa5600

    @lalaa5600

    4 жыл бұрын

    I thought yg was against plastic surgery?

  • @lucyk.5163
    @lucyk.5163 Жыл бұрын

    Well, this is Asian culture for y'all. I live in Japan and here people are obsessed with weight and looks too, I know in other countries such as China, Vietnam and Thailand things are like this too, but Korea takes it to a whole new level. They are truly, truly obsessed with how they look and how much they weight and the bullying about it is fierce. I refuse to wear makeup but in Japan and Korea not using makeup is considered basically a crime against humanity. I'm surprised 2ne1 rehearsed without makeup because yeah, it's not the norm. That's why she was bullied by the jerk. And I used to be bullied too in Japan but I've grown a thicker skin. I did reach rock bottom though thanks to the bullying I went through. I still have leftoverPTSD from it and it's been 10yrs already. Been a long journey to heal myself and learn to not care and not depend on people's opinions about myself.

  • @elephantshrew6304
    @elephantshrew6304 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a 5’7” woman, and 117 lbs and under is underweight. In regard to the 2018 knowing brothers clip:… That girl was already underweight at 116 lbs. Her boss was telling her to get to 112 or lose her job and was essentially saying, get sicker and lose your health or you’re fired. Evil, evil, sick in the head.

  • @sanaamariam5193
    @sanaamariam51934 жыл бұрын

    I feel like the most despicable thing is how journalists and interviewers will press idols for answers about their weight, and EXPLICITLY for their hardest diets, nothing about sustainable healthy lifestyles. Several times I've seen idols edited with funny effects after saying they nearly died from their diets. Everyone wants to ask idols how they lose weight, but no one wants to ask how badly they suffered

  • @thehainote1082

    @thehainote1082

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sanaa Mariam exactly! I’ve always found that so disturbing how they edited as if the idols’ suffering is a funny joke

  • @btsmochimi7924

    @btsmochimi7924

    4 жыл бұрын

    Damn Korea's beauty standards are one of the worst cases that I've seen so far....

  • @estelaangeles2346

    @estelaangeles2346

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@btsmochimi7924 i remember when suga said in 2018 that he had to lose weight and jin said the ceo of bighit bullied him

  • @milkbread5036

    @milkbread5036

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@estelaangeles2346 where was this? :o

  • @bottlecap6763

    @bottlecap6763

    4 жыл бұрын

    I remember when Momo said she only ate an ice cube for a week (i think) and she was scared she would gain weight even from that.

  • @tania8409
    @tania84093 жыл бұрын

    "its my standard" and what exactly makes these men think that women will do anything to please THEM and THEIR desires?....

  • @andinho6372

    @andinho6372

    3 жыл бұрын

    Period

  • @sagearviso1979

    @sagearviso1979

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol because sadly girls do makeup for other guys to look impressionable or to find a good partner

  • @andinho6372

    @andinho6372

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sagearviso1979 Not all girls do it, most of them do it to look good for themselfs or to look good for everyone, not only for men.

  • @sagearviso1979

    @sagearviso1979

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@andinho6372 most girls I know who wear makeup do 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @oka5969

    @oka5969

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sagearviso1979 most girls you've met isnt enough to generalize all of em

  • @k8tisawesome
    @k8tisawesome3 жыл бұрын

    Amber is such an amazing person, willing to stand up to these toxic norms and defend her group who were being subject to that. These "standards" need to change.

  • @cactase
    @cactase Жыл бұрын

    Notice how all these men don’t hold a candle to the beautiful, stunning, gorgeous women in this video

  • @julianaaloisa5525
    @julianaaloisa55254 жыл бұрын

    Just wanna give a quick shoutout to the girls defending each other. Especially the more established girls like Taeyeon and Hyuna who have the (admittedly very little) power to speak up.

  • @anadammifalastini594

    @anadammifalastini594

    4 жыл бұрын

    And amber!

  • @cami9298
    @cami92984 жыл бұрын

    "I'm a boy and you're a girl"-the most 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗽𝗶𝗱 reason i have ever heard.

  • @lamiah.2938

    @lamiah.2938

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im suprised Shindong acc said that

  • @teddybearjellysubliminals8798

    @teddybearjellysubliminals8798

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bang Si Hyuk Ikr... I kinda lost respect for him after reading that.

  • @aeiara

    @aeiara

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thing is, I definitely say his words are absolutely wrong, they are supposed to be admonished, but remember he said those words many many years ago. His opinions on this definitely changed, I'm sure he is respectful these days, because I know how much a person can change in a span of years. I'm not justifying his statement, it is extremely bad, but, he is definitely not the same anymore. He is respectful to women, I'm sure he changed. But if he makes a comment like this in the recent years, I don't see the reason to like him anymore. But it was many many years ago, so just think about it. He's definitely changed. His behaviour these days show that.

  • @gohondieli9232

    @gohondieli9232

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@aeiara but is he respectful to all women or to the pretty ones? Because that would say a lot.

  • @betxlvr4836

    @betxlvr4836

    4 жыл бұрын

    I heard that he said years ago and he changed 👍

  • @subakai
    @subakai3 жыл бұрын

    I bet if amber could've gotten away with slugging a couple of people, she would have. Wouldn't blame her at all.

  • @Dynamatrix1973

    @Dynamatrix1973

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amber is a girl? I wonder why the company let's her be so masculine looking.

  • @WhySoPrettyJinsoul.

    @WhySoPrettyJinsoul.

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Dynamatrix1973 even before she debuted, she also likes to dress like that so I think the company just rolled with it

  • @am5ters504

    @am5ters504

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Dynamatrix1973 Thats just the way she likes to dress. Fuck gendered clothing

  • @samyukthachandrashekar2577

    @samyukthachandrashekar2577

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@am5ters504 Yas!

  • @thesevenkingswelove9554

    @thesevenkingswelove9554

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Dynamatrix1973 because she can look masculine. Just because a woman is masculine doesn't mean she's less pretty. Literally stfu and stop spreading societal standards

  • @pbj4142
    @pbj4142 Жыл бұрын

    Dude, Yoonas flabbergastion when the Chinese man said the fans called her fatty is what did it for me. You could tell she was absolutely shocked. Poor thing.

  • @lauraelizabethbrown
    @lauraelizabethbrown4 жыл бұрын

    "He said we're ugly." *everyone laughs* No one should be laughing at that.

  • @flyhigh9434

    @flyhigh9434

    4 жыл бұрын

    erm actually if you watch the video, they are actually laughing because CL(the lady) imitate his boss voice(YG), so they found it is funny

  • @Maba-lg3og

    @Maba-lg3og

    4 жыл бұрын

    UGLY is stand for you U Gotta Love Yourself so when people say you're UGLY take that as motivation not as insult

  • @seemaroy7541

    @seemaroy7541

    4 жыл бұрын

    They probably laughed because the guy who said this was ugly (no offense tho) himself...

  • @pmanlicious7117

    @pmanlicious7117

    4 жыл бұрын

    Honestly my heart hurt watching this

  • @lauraelizabethbrown

    @lauraelizabethbrown

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@flyhigh9434 I mean I get it, but to me it still isn't funny. It's disturbing.

  • @pineapplefriend5987
    @pineapplefriend59874 жыл бұрын

    I'm surprised that the guy who criticized sulli had the audacity to say anything when he himself looks ugly asf. like don't be a hypocrite.

  • @bruh-ok5ks

    @bruh-ok5ks

    4 жыл бұрын

    bruh exactly

  • @catleaxmas5416

    @catleaxmas5416

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was just gonna say the same thing.

  • @talachiragwandi9122

    @talachiragwandi9122

    3 жыл бұрын

    If I were her I’d be like before u say anything fix ur teeth.

  • @reeceo9939

    @reeceo9939

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pineapple Friend like in the beginning of the video, Shindong’s quote ‘I’m a boy, and you’re a girl.’ :/

  • @stefanssmellsvictory105

    @stefanssmellsvictory105

    3 жыл бұрын

    Is it not possible that the TV show asked this person to say these things?

  • @fadhillahm8750
    @fadhillahm87503 жыл бұрын

    4:32 Damn, people like this are the reason of sulli's suicide 🤬🤬🤬

  • @jjk_0797
    @jjk_07973 жыл бұрын

    Like Bella said "this ain't build a bitch. You don't get to pick and choose..."

  • @ainathirah9384
    @ainathirah93844 жыл бұрын

    "There are two types of people who will judge you, woman who are jealous of you and men who are not as good as you" - Zhao Xiaotang

  • @luvwoodz8566

    @luvwoodz8566

    4 жыл бұрын

    WISE WORDS FROM A QUEEN

  • @Adele5554

    @Adele5554

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true. Ugly men love to put beautiful women down.

  • @arieskyllelariosa9658

    @arieskyllelariosa9658

    4 жыл бұрын

    Be a Zhao Xiaotang, Shuxin is in the right hands.

  • @immabaddass

    @immabaddass

    4 жыл бұрын

    OMFG XIAOTANG MY BABY! STAN THE9

  • @chuueries5234

    @chuueries5234

    4 жыл бұрын

    PERIODT.

  • @namreblis
    @namreblis4 жыл бұрын

    thats so gross. just let girls be in control of their own bodies.

  • @trashy_ashy2490

    @trashy_ashy2490

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree let them eat all they want REAL fans would support them no matter what and fake bitches should leave if they don’t like it

  • @nafirahyumniharahap8726

    @nafirahyumniharahap8726

    4 жыл бұрын

    But the truth is when they're on the thin side it opens more chance to them. They can be in more magazine and be a muse of some brand. They 're like a model, if they use the clothes prettily it will make people want to buy it. It means more money, fame, and fans which is the point of them being idol (harsh i know but its real 😭)

  • @trashy_ashy2490

    @trashy_ashy2490

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nafirahyumniharahap8726 It really doesnt matter about the body tho i agree with the part that people want thin people but i think it should depend on charecter, personality,attitude...But you opinion counts

  • @yellowblobby

    @yellowblobby

    3 жыл бұрын

    idols*

  • @unaaaaa356
    @unaaaaa3563 жыл бұрын

    3:35 I love how amber ask him back, like what he said is really pissed me off

  • @peachysparkles
    @peachysparkles Жыл бұрын

    Dude the beauty standards in Korea are so crazy. I'm chronically ill and when I was healthy I was a size 4. After getting sick my weight dropped to a size zero. Things improved a little and I went up to a size 1 or 2 depending on the clothing item. Even at size 4 people always used to tell me that I was too skinny. I wasn't at all underweight tho. I don't feel good at a size 1. I can tell I'm severely undernourished in how I look and feel. The size these girls are being pushed to achieve is literally the size I'm at as a chronically undernourished sick person and that is so alarming. These girls look totally normal and healthy. The first time I saw the clip about Sulli I was so shocked bc she isn't overweight at all. In Korea they just think it's good to look almost bone thin for some reason....but they seem to have this ideal without taking into account what a body needs every day in it's basic health requirements to survive and function well. No one should be forced to eat less than allows them to get their daily nutrients in!!! Especially not young people who are still growing and being made to burn so many nutrients through their physically demanding daily activities. That is abuse! And what Shindong said is so disgusting. Like it's ok for you to be fat bc you're a guy but a girl should have to be super thin? Like no, how double standard can you be??? The only reason its like that is bc things are too male biased over there sometimes.

  • @happybunnyntx

    @happybunnyntx

    Жыл бұрын

    They have no consideration for body types either. I'm the same height and body shape as Park Bom and she's always hounded for being fat. She has a short torso and a large chest. They see her in a certain cut of shirt and it makes her look top heavy so they automatically assume fat, then talk about how skinny she looks a few days later in a different outfit.

  • @reesemalo
    @reesemalo4 жыл бұрын

    2NE1 was marketed as being ugly. It hit them hard, especially Minzy. Being so young growing up in such a negative environment is terrible. Debuting at 14 is difficult enough already

  • @Mighty.Matcha.

    @Mighty.Matcha.

    4 жыл бұрын

    but despite that they showcased their talents really well.Ngl I used to find 2NE1 ugly as well ( that was when i was around 9 when first saw them ) but as time goes on, their talents outshined their looks and I was stanning them for their artistry and found them really cool. I feel that YG lost a group of legends due to his trash ass of a decision to be biased towards BP, these ladies have proved that their talents can outshine their looks, it isn't easy to prove that unless you have an insane amount of talent, YG you are human trash

  • @YannNovas

    @YannNovas

    4 жыл бұрын

    People still call Bom a plastic monster when everything she did was just to fit their ridiculous beauty standards. It's heartbreaking.

  • @stavros2644

    @stavros2644

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Mighty.Matcha. "biased towards blackpink" huh... how exactly is he biased towards the only senior group in the industry right now with no full album and only 13 songs? if you really knew about yg you would know that 2ne1 was bound disband with minzy needing a break and blackpink were actually supposed to debut in 2012. stop trying to make it seem like it's blackpink's fault.

  • @sparklingruth

    @sparklingruth

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@YannNovas she also had plastic surgery not to fit their standarts, i heard it's also because she have that special condition like minzy that force them to have plastic surgery. Those people who called her plastic monster rlly disgusting, bom was also really pretty before her plastic surgery.

  • @beatm6948

    @beatm6948

    4 жыл бұрын

    They don't completely fit a very specific standard, but regardless are beautiful.

  • @athwaithakrishnan3848
    @athwaithakrishnan38484 жыл бұрын

    What really pissed me off is that these men's looking like a living potato speaks about standards!

  • @mohdrahimi6374

    @mohdrahimi6374

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am also an ugly potato but i respect and love women just like how i love my mom

  • @agathasaraswati1330

    @agathasaraswati1330

    4 жыл бұрын

    Indeed

  • @taeyongworlddomination5705

    @taeyongworlddomination5705

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey are u from India...just asking..

  • @athwaithakrishnan3848

    @athwaithakrishnan3848

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mohdrahimi6374 looks doesn't matter I respect you fo being kind to others

  • @athwaithakrishnan3848

    @athwaithakrishnan3848

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@taeyongworlddomination5705 yeah 😊

  • @c._.lover.
    @c._.lover. Жыл бұрын

    When the boy said to Sulli that it was his standard. I wanted her to say that ugly men were not her standard.

  • @julia3162
    @julia3162 Жыл бұрын

    Will this ever end? Will there ever be a sane world to live in?

  • @amfgvideos2517
    @amfgvideos25174 жыл бұрын

    I've been seeing an increasing number of Toxic comments shaming and blaming these girls for sharing their diets and I know it's not healthy but they are just acting on what they've been taught and learned to do. It's important to remember the majority of idols don't have eating disorders and are not part of some sick pro-ana group, they are being pressured and at times forced to go on starvation diets because they're told they can't work otherwise. But they themselves also hate it and don't want to do it either.

  • @kuuuuaa

    @kuuuuaa

    4 жыл бұрын

    It seems like one of the most stressful workplaces to ever be in. The fact that people blame the girls and guys is entirely beside the point. In an environment and even country that enables this sort of pressure, can you really blame them when your career you worked so hard for is on the line?

  • @kuko333

    @kuko333

    4 жыл бұрын

    glad you addressed it with a video

  • @9Angstroms

    @9Angstroms

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. It was incredibly eye-opening. Could you please do a video for Dilraba Dilmurat? 🙏

  • @UBZ.7927

    @UBZ.7927

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos, its like a biography of the person since debut to now, its really shocking to see how many hate some people have to resist every day. Can you do one of Hwasa of Mamamoo?? I dont have money for Patreon, but i think that she has a pretty rough story with fat shaming as well.

  • @spicygirl8369

    @spicygirl8369

    4 жыл бұрын

    What is the show at 6:08 ? Where can I watch it with English subtitles please

  • @pauciloquentflibbertigibbe5217
    @pauciloquentflibbertigibbe52174 жыл бұрын

    'Fans call you fat because they are worried you're too skinny.' Please spot what is wrong with this statement.

  • @yoursuperhero3042

    @yoursuperhero3042

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pauciloquent Flibbertigibbet them too don’t add up.. like it’s shows how contradicting Korea’s society is !!

  • @acielvert8573

    @acielvert8573

    4 жыл бұрын

    I lost my brain cells when i heard him

  • @MiuXiu

    @MiuXiu

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yoursuperhero That was about Chinese fans, but ok.

  • @Tiffany-ov2jf

    @Tiffany-ov2jf

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@MiuXiu Either way they have the same mentality

  • @RinRin-os9xb

    @RinRin-os9xb

    4 жыл бұрын

    everything

  • @AyaHizunashiArts
    @AyaHizunashiArts2 жыл бұрын

    My question is.... While I get the love some fans have for their fav members/groups..... How can we still support such an industry at this point anymore?.... It is 2022 and we still talk about these issues...

  • @cutebutevil7387

    @cutebutevil7387

    Жыл бұрын

    Because it's not the companies that their lose their livelihoods and their dreams if we stop supporting the groups.

  • @valtaep1ece796

    @valtaep1ece796

    3 ай бұрын

    These clips are kinda old the industry has changed since then.

  • @user-kaira1
    @user-kaira13 жыл бұрын

    3:39 wtf, jihyo looks so beautiful

  • @pretzel5009

    @pretzel5009

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes she was so pretty

  • @slayer-dj3dc
    @slayer-dj3dc4 жыл бұрын

    I find CL rly attractive is it jsut me she’s rly beautiful in her own way her eyeliner compliments her face rly well

  • @kimarisu972

    @kimarisu972

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am gay for her. I call her Chaerin oppa! 🥰🥰

  • @altheaisok6026

    @altheaisok6026

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes she's so beautiful but in Koreans standard is the opposite, like tf? What's inside your eyes?

  • @jajapichai

    @jajapichai

    4 жыл бұрын

    @jonathan hell no this is not a place for 2ne1 slander. they are all beautiful and talented. i bet you don't have as much talent in your whole body as they do in they leg

  • @annano7761

    @annano7761

    4 жыл бұрын

    @jonathan are you entering a new circus rn ma'am ❤❤?

  • @slayer-dj3dc

    @slayer-dj3dc

    4 жыл бұрын

    jonathan r u kidding she’s so beautiful she has high check bones that pop and her eye makeup compliments her eyes so well

  • @najmamohamed5170
    @najmamohamed51704 жыл бұрын

    When the chinese guy was calling yoona fat and skinny at the same time. She looked just as bewildered as I felt. Like what the hell bro

  • @kerol5905

    @kerol5905

    4 жыл бұрын

    Plus she's skinny because she suffered malnutrition as a child. That comment must have felt too close to home.

  • @charcolatier

    @charcolatier

    4 жыл бұрын

    Apparently he says that the netizens called her pangpang (which means fatfat) as a wish for her to gain weight

  • @bichen4151

    @bichen4151

    4 жыл бұрын

    He didn't call her fat. He was explaining that fans call her that because they wish she'd GAIN some weight. You guys need to read things properly and not making things up.

  • @bichen4151

    @bichen4151

    4 жыл бұрын

    @agahse The thing is that people always make something up and cause more drama. Overall it's not that big difference but in a slightly different scenario, it could be.... If you address a certain thing you should interpret it correctly. I agree with the last part. Both versions are bad and that man should do a bit of self-reflection.

  • @snowydadog2788

    @snowydadog2788

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your reading comprehension is worse

  • @lexi2408
    @lexi24083 жыл бұрын

    It will always be my fave part when Jihyo put on that determined face and say "I'll lose the weight". It was the confidence that radiated from her that she was gonna prove them wrong. Now look at her, she's on the fucking top

  • @jupither5952
    @jupither59523 жыл бұрын

    "it's my standard" if i were the girl, i would reply this : "hmm im glad I wasn't your standard though. does your standards finds you as their standards too anyways?" i have no time being kind to a jerk

  • @yellowblobby

    @yellowblobby

    3 жыл бұрын

    you only make the problem bigger.

  • @jupither5952

    @jupither5952

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yellowblobby no. these kind of people are the actual problem

  • @yellowblobby

    @yellowblobby

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jupither5952 Yes these kind of people are part of the problem. You are too. You simply fight fire by fire. You don't fight the problem, you use it. All you do is responding critisizing of the body by doing the same exept in a rude way. You contribute to the problem, it works both ways and if everyone keeps using it as a weapon no wonder it only gets bigger and bigger. This "no u" mentality is so childish too.

  • @jupither5952

    @jupither5952

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yellowblobby oh I've never thought of that. u got a point

  • @sharu1029

    @sharu1029

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yellowblobby that's a good point... How should we deal with those comments then

  • @rachelectroDC-84
    @rachelectroDC-843 жыл бұрын

    "It's my standard" he said, with his teeth pointing in three different directions! To a woman who committed suicide, due to comments like that! Hope you sleep well at night, my dude. >:(

  • @yxiishh1870

    @yxiishh1870

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh this comment is underrated

  • @cynthia8687

    @cynthia8687

    3 жыл бұрын

    May i be pardoned but i lost it and almost burst into laughter when you mentioned his teeth. 😅😂😂

  • @alia_babo

    @alia_babo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr like NOBODY cares to fulfill his standards anyway because nobody would want to be with a person like him. Like, what kind of standard is that? Her arms are "too fat" so I won't date her/I don't find her pretty? Shitty standard shows a shitty person.

  • @Error-qt4lu

    @Error-qt4lu

    3 жыл бұрын

    What's worse is she is no longer with us, I hope that guy feels guilty asf

  • @chen-mr7ei

    @chen-mr7ei

    3 жыл бұрын

    *Three different directions* lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Moon-hr2xh
    @Moon-hr2xh4 жыл бұрын

    “...Girls have to be visually pleasing and talented whereas a guy can be ugly but if he’s funny they’ll say he’s charming...” - 4MINUTE Nam Jihyun (Leader)

  • @petrasb1

    @petrasb1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nonsense. Men are being judged by the looks as well. "guy can be ugly but if he’s funny they’ll say he’s charming". Same can be said about girl.

  • @moomooradish7466

    @moomooradish7466

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@petrasb1 Nope, women are not called charming if they don't look the part. give one name

  • @xxsexybabytimexx8303

    @xxsexybabytimexx8303

    4 жыл бұрын

    petrasb1 They are not judged as much as women.. don’t even try to compare it

  • @AaAa-zz8fi

    @AaAa-zz8fi

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@petrasb1 chaeryeong from itzy is the whole package: she can dance sing and rap and has a very funny and outgoing personality. yet she is EXTREMELY underappreciated by both jyp and the fans only because her looks dont fit their standard or whatever. with guys this doesnt happen as often

  • @Fia-ps6ur

    @Fia-ps6ur

    4 жыл бұрын

    petrasb1 Of course they are being judge But men often find an obese woman more “disgusting” than obese men And somehow woman think the same way too The thing is, Korea is a different place with America or any other countries Their standard is so hard, especially female artists, you cannot deny it by anyway

  • @thaunn33
    @thaunn33 Жыл бұрын

    Hyuna protecting hyomin warms my heart so much.Knowing how precious their relationship is.Thanks Hyuna for being with hyomin thick or thin 🤎

  • @margauzroth1160
    @margauzroth11603 жыл бұрын

    confidence and kindness is what makes a girl or any person beautiful remember that

  • @vaishnavijha6896
    @vaishnavijha68963 жыл бұрын

    YG should stop debuting girl idols when he wants to waste their talent and throw them away after 7 years.

  • @riyamanoj7685

    @riyamanoj7685

    3 жыл бұрын

    YG CEO CHANGED..........SO NOW I THINK THEY WOULD HAVE MUCH BETTER CONDITION

  • @nothing_too_seahere8804

    @nothing_too_seahere8804

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@riyamanoj7685 the new ceo is just a puppet. It’s all just for public image.

  • @laylarbkx8203

    @laylarbkx8203

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@riyamanoj7685 actually the old yg CEO is actually a nice person the time it was still 2ne1 and bigbang and other group until he made new group and gained more fans I think then he changed

  • @joythinker739

    @joythinker739

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@riyamanoj7685 new ceo literally was among the people who voted for 2ne1 disband

  • @xandercorp6175

    @xandercorp6175

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can just support those washed-up performers all by your lonesome if you think it's unfair.

  • @moyaa.a
    @moyaa.a3 жыл бұрын

    The “please give me some food” made me cry, are they pets to ask for food...they are humans they should eat, i’m so done with their agencies

  • @juliee593

    @juliee593

    3 жыл бұрын

    People feed their pets better than companies feed their workers...

  • @mariakiwi1428

    @mariakiwi1428

    3 жыл бұрын

    Time stamp pls

  • @e.9425

    @e.9425

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mariakiwi1428 8:34

  • @ashcatchum

    @ashcatchum

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @Chachixo

    @Chachixo

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hate when I see videos of girls getting treats and their managers snatch them away before they can have any :(

  • @bettydao8000
    @bettydao80002 жыл бұрын

    I rewatched Running Man and they talked abut Song Ji Hyo's weight in many early episodes. She was like 53kg which I think she was totally fit compared to her height, she could even gain a bit more and would still has a fit body but she was stressed abt it a lot and wanted everyone to stop talking abt it but they still brought it up sometimes, it was really annoying. In Korea I feel like if a girl's weight is above 50kg It is a threat

  • @ahmadrausyan9585
    @ahmadrausyan95853 жыл бұрын

    Jihyo has always been beautiful since 16 era. Btw, i like jyp's reaction when he facepalmed after listening to the other two judges

  • @idg.2194

    @idg.2194

    3 жыл бұрын

    He’s always so uncomfortable when he heard people bodyshamed the others coz he too was bodyshamed before

  • @hongjoongspaintednail50

    @hongjoongspaintednail50

    2 жыл бұрын

    The thing is that he was rejected too because of his visuals, so he knows what it feels like. Ps. Imo i think JYP doesn't prioritize visuals as much as other companies.

  • @brianna9822
    @brianna98224 жыл бұрын

    Millions need to see this. These idols are shamed into these situations. Edit: this can also be said for the young people growing up in the korean society, dealing with harsh bullying into being skinny and weighing less. It can be tough growing up like this, and they lose sense of who they are. 💕💝Make sure to send love to people who need it during these times, as well as idols and people struggling with weight-related issues and bullying. Xx

  • @estelaangeles2346

    @estelaangeles2346

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its the company forcing them to lose weight and suga said he had to lose weight in 2018 also jin said the ceo or manager called jin fat

  • @unseasoned3629

    @unseasoned3629

    4 жыл бұрын

    Estela Angeles Okay But I’m mainly mad how boy groups don’t have to worry about their weight but girls groups do

  • @nikodismal8386

    @nikodismal8386

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@unseasoned3629 They do, though. One fan who went to a Monsta X fansign,for example, said that Wonho told her that Starship didn't want him having "chubby cheeks" at the time. Jimin from BTS has constantly talked about trying to trim down as much as possible. TY from NCT says he eats nothing but oatmeal. These are just some of the things I can think of off the top of my head. Nonetheless, it's the backlash that's far more overt and severe against the girls.

  • @valdusoswald7130

    @valdusoswald7130

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woman* are shamed by Korean men & even the women join in too.

  • @haneyqistina9038

    @haneyqistina9038

    4 жыл бұрын

    Is not idols only but EVERY WOMAN IN KOREAN

  • @cleo5364
    @cleo53644 жыл бұрын

    so to koreans: Hwasa who is naturally curvy needs to lose weight because she looks too "thick" compared to other idols BUT Lisa who is naturally skinny needs to gain weight because "she doesn't even look like a woman and has no assets" Wendy was called fat every single day in 2015 and when she lost the weight she "looked like a skeleton" Umji has been bullied by knetz so much that she performed with her face covered by her hair Tzuyu has been harassed because of her body since she was like 16 Sooyoung is naturally skinny and she's called a stick and not a "real" woman even to this day Naeun is somehow both fat and skinny at the same time CL can't even breathe without getting called ugly and fat the list goes on and thats sad

  • @itznia_ok8069

    @itznia_ok8069

    4 жыл бұрын

    Like knetz don't know what they want

  • @estelaangeles2346

    @estelaangeles2346

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@itznia_ok8069 lisa said she jad to lose weight

  • @flowr6508

    @flowr6508

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wasn’t Tzuyu harassed for wearing revealing clothing when she was 16?

  • @JN-wo5ob

    @JN-wo5ob

    4 жыл бұрын

    Estela Angeles uhm when did she said that? she even says that she doesn’t diet because she dances everyday

  • @ximenacerezo1590

    @ximenacerezo1590

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sunmi gets criticized too for being too skinny, like female idols can never win

  • @Emy-fv5ny
    @Emy-fv5ny Жыл бұрын

    4:08 Is he f..ing kidding talking about other ppl's appearence?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @cutebutevil7387

    @cutebutevil7387

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr! His "standard" is definitely imaginary and even then he couldn't pull her with a tow rope.

  • @caronchan5232
    @caronchan52322 жыл бұрын

    Watching this was heartbreaking and shocking. I’m a big kpop fan and I’m aware female idols are unfairly treated but I never knew that it was this serious. One of the girls said her CEO strictly said her weight can never go into the 50 kgs, but the average weight of a 12 YR OLD is 41.5 kg. People HAVE to stop.

  • @yesipan
    @yesipan4 жыл бұрын

    The dude commenting on F(x)'s weight has clearly never looked into a mirror before.

  • @christianyuscrush5273

    @christianyuscrush5273

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did you know the name of that show?

  • @Carat538

    @Carat538

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@christianyuscrush5273 hello counselor

  • @jasminetartila3768

    @jasminetartila3768

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm repulsed by him

  • @joycepanganiban6060

    @joycepanganiban6060

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amber is so angry

  • @Tippy2forU

    @Tippy2forU

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. I know he has his nerve.

  • @user-fe8vr7xw3q
    @user-fe8vr7xw3q4 жыл бұрын

    I get so sad when I see them being called fat and they can't even defend themselves or people will come at them because of that too. You could see that Amber was angry and wanted to tell that man to shut the hell up but just couldn't, I'm still happy she said something. I really hope that everyone, not only Asians, learns that you don't need to be really thin to be pretty or happy, let's just be healthy and happy, everyone!!!

  • @annaagoston2756

    @annaagoston2756

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know right? And its so sad because i am naturally skinny and i was glad and happy about it until i started listening to kpop. When i saw those girls going on extreme diets i felt like i should do it too and now im underweight, im terrified of gaining even 0.1 kg and just want to lose as much as possible. Its not only bad for the idols' mentality but fans too, i cant be the only one who feels this way. We need more people like Hwasa and Amber in kpop and they need to get more attention because the shaming that goes on there is so damaging for everybody :/

  • @tinaluvs

    @tinaluvs

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Anna Ágoston agreed, I am a very petite person. I am short 5ft.1 and very thin but then you have some of these idols who are much taller than I am weighing the same or even weigh less than me. That’s not healthy, I know some of them are naturally thin but why force them to lose weight? Edit: When you see these girls you admire them, especially if you’re young and you see them lose weight and dieting so you start to feel bad that you are also gaining weight. That’s also not good for your mental health. I hope these horrible standards would just go and everyone gets to live happy and healthy.

  • @lucrivas1366

    @lucrivas1366

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that really upset me. But in the case of amber, if you search the full video, she tells the guy that those are his standars but he don't have to be rude and tell others to fit on that. And I mean, I know is also rude, but look at that guy is so ugly, he can't say that in his position

  • @keripark7514
    @keripark75143 жыл бұрын

    Why am I crying? Why is this relatable? Why do we live in such a world! I don’t understand.

  • @kimchikim8459
    @kimchikim84592 жыл бұрын

    the last part of the video, those last words are so warm

  • @lovebot9037
    @lovebot90373 жыл бұрын

    momo spoke in a vlive that she was forced to lose weight in a week and she only ate ice and she was afraid of falling asleep bc she was scared she’d die in her sleep.. i always think about that, my heart breaks knowing how hard it is for them i love them so much :( no one helps them

  • @hessaa1712

    @hessaa1712

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ice??! Only?? How can she even practice

  • @aelishajazzgarcia

    @aelishajazzgarcia

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yestyongday I heard that thats a disorder if you do that, im not quite sure what its called but its not healthy at all. I feel bad for the girls

  • @sukidakara4326

    @sukidakara4326

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aelishajazzgarcia dude it's called bulimia lol

  • @aelishajazzgarcia

    @aelishajazzgarcia

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sukidakara4326 ye i didnt know what it was called, chill

  • @yestyongday

    @yestyongday

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aelishajazzgarcia yeah, I heard it from baekhyun, when people keep calling him fat, he went into a "diet" and that's what he did to lose weight. It's very sad

  • @tiny.violet
    @tiny.violet3 жыл бұрын

    girls: We were starving and didn't have enough energy to do anything tv show hosts: HAHAHAHAHAHA LMAO ROFL

  • @Marley-18.

    @Marley-18.

    3 жыл бұрын

    That got me so angry

  • @soullessbody7924

    @soullessbody7924

    3 жыл бұрын

    But if the hosts take it seriously then the girls would be out of the agency next day if they are not popular or otherwise they will get punishment for saying that. So the hosts have to do something to make it look like a joke so they laugh to it as if it is a joke.

  • @wowjuswow

    @wowjuswow

    3 жыл бұрын

    9:05 that one tall dude from knowing bros was saying that they should eat though so i guess some care

  • @wilzenryanbolak2521

    @wilzenryanbolak2521

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@wowjuswow Janghoon always give advices to idols. Love when he does that, love how they don't edit it out as well.

  • @beatm6948

    @beatm6948

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish they wouldn't, but given the nature of shows like that, it can't get too serious. Now, I think that's a problem in of itself, but that's how things are.

  • @beetledune9264
    @beetledune9264 Жыл бұрын

    The man said its my standard,not even look like a shadow of Leonardo Di Caprio..the audacity.

  • @laurazaetz9505
    @laurazaetz9505 Жыл бұрын

    I was 5'2" and used to be under 100 lbs. I was underweight. The fact that I'm now finally at a healthy weight and people are telling me to lose it is scary.

  • @danjoshi

    @danjoshi

    Жыл бұрын

    Just eat healthily and don't listen to them. For these people, we will never be good enough!

  • @taufanajie6984
    @taufanajie69844 жыл бұрын

    "Its my standard" - Said an ugly men who has weird bold eyebrush or something

  • @sunny-zg4gy

    @sunny-zg4gy

    4 жыл бұрын

    YES

  • @superiorspeed5318

    @superiorspeed5318

    4 жыл бұрын

    I LAUGHED at this so hard and yes I agree

  • @shaikhie

    @shaikhie

    4 жыл бұрын

    And weird crooked teeth set 😂

  • @katrina5609

    @katrina5609

    4 жыл бұрын

    We shouldn't fight back people who says ugly stuff about anyone's physical by doing the same thing....... let's be better than that omk :(

  • @Bonnie92

    @Bonnie92

    4 жыл бұрын

    I cannot believe he was talking with those teeth and face. 🥴

  • @yen2153
    @yen21534 жыл бұрын

    taeyeon defending seulgi and Wendy, we need more people like her 🥺

  • @lucienestelle9719

    @lucienestelle9719

    4 жыл бұрын

    나야 !! i think because she is also went through the same issue before. taeyeon such a sweetheart.

  • @yen2153

    @yen2153

    4 жыл бұрын

    dodolipet woy yes! i love her sm ❤

  • @zuheir546

    @zuheir546

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wait when? Can u show the time plz?🥺

  • @yen2153

    @yen2153

    4 жыл бұрын

    zuheir 5 9:08 ❤

  • @michiko5945

    @michiko5945

    4 жыл бұрын

    no we need to act like her!

  • @yasmineanastasia4411
    @yasmineanastasia44112 жыл бұрын

    holy f*ck this needs to change, i can't even.

  • @tnaomi577
    @tnaomi577 Жыл бұрын

    One of the girls in the video said she was 1.7m and 53kg, she was already underweight by health standards, and her CEO forced her to lose 2 more kg?!

  • @ydalangin
    @ydalangin3 жыл бұрын

    My blood boiled when that guy told Sulli she needs to lose fat in her arms and calves!! UGGHHH

  • @chloereed454

    @chloereed454

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yonna Dalangin pissed me off how she went straight to saying she was going to loose weight...ugh no don’t fucking listen to men with opinions like that especially when they’re the ones who should be insecure with their looks

  • @rhexiaorz

    @rhexiaorz

    3 жыл бұрын

    And she is so skinny already! I really feel bad for her. May she rest in peace

  • @chloereed454

    @chloereed454

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Sasha you can loose muscle?😂as someone who lost most of my body weight a few years ago (including any muscle I had) the only thing that you can’t lose without surgery is the skin. Even then you’d have to have a lot of it to realise.

  • @chloereed454

    @chloereed454

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Sasha no you did that. Nobody mentioned the ones she was born with. She clearly has a little bit of muscle purely from daily tasks I imagine but I don’t think that’s a bad thing. She wasn’t born with them.

  • @chloereed454

    @chloereed454

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you deleted like six of your comments to then comment the same thing underneath🤔

  • @suly5742
    @suly57424 жыл бұрын

    *"I'm a boy and you're a girl"* This irritated me so much I felt like punching the screen *edit- yes i am aware that it was a long time ago and that shindong is a changed person now*

  • @soukkk6773

    @soukkk6773

    4 жыл бұрын

    atinyyy yy did shindong said that?

  • @luigiluigi4366

    @luigiluigi4366

    4 жыл бұрын

    He apologized 10 years ago and admitted what he was dumb

  • @nova707ha

    @nova707ha

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@soukkk6773 yes in a show ten years ago when they asked him what will you do if your girlfriend wanted to lose weight and that was his answer, and he apologized later twice when people said they understand him , he said again " thank you for understanding but a wrong doing is a wrong doing and I apologize...."

  • @lestatschlongh8065

    @lestatschlongh8065

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too, i was irritated, but sadly what he said is actually a fact in korean idol beauty standards ;(

  • @winniejung

    @winniejung

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sorry which part?

  • @pukupukupaopao
    @pukupukupaopao Жыл бұрын

    So many new kpop fans sees the kpop world in rose colored lenses, but it's such a cruel and honestly scary and sad world. Of course you're gonna like your idols but it doesn't mean they are exactly what you seem to see. Like my views on so many people has changed over time, yes I like their music, their voice and song and respect their hard work and talent, but it doesn't mean I like their personality, like I was shocked so many times to see my biases were horrible people lol, what I thought was comedy when I was 12 is trash to me now.... This is reality. No one's angle or innocent, everyone has tgeur flaws. It doesn't mean everything about them is horrible or bad, they have good in them too, but it's important to keep that in mind. It's not always what you see or think.

  • @caitlinmccloud7431
    @caitlinmccloud74312 жыл бұрын

    I’d feel like I belong on “my 800 lb life” if I stood next to any of those girls.

  • @kasaisuru8139
    @kasaisuru81393 жыл бұрын

    It always shocks me at everyone's reaction to laugh at these scarring stories. These people dead ass find these girl's traumas funny and it infuriates me.

  • @CanopusLux

    @CanopusLux

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true! I could never

  • @roselamoure

    @roselamoure

    3 жыл бұрын

    That show is horrible in general! I don’t understand why it is still not canceled yet

  • @angelicaaboulhaf4887

    @angelicaaboulhaf4887

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's how korea was.. Very depressing

  • @16yearsago94

    @16yearsago94

    3 жыл бұрын

    I want to beat them

  • @sophiewebb4549

    @sophiewebb4549

    3 жыл бұрын

    If I was on those shows they'd probably kick me out because I'd be spitting fire 😂

  • @arigungame2550
    @arigungame25504 жыл бұрын

    Yoonas face looked so uncomfortable 2:46 when they were calling her 'fatty' If you have to explain a joke to someone, it's usually not funny. Like thin shaming her right after too, Yoona has taken so much crap and hates it when people mention how skinny she is, like the girl gets it now move on.

  • @Suh6727

    @Suh6727

    4 жыл бұрын

    Though I don't excuse their comments towards Yoona, I've seen at least three different occasions of Yoona talking about Tiffany's weight, even going as far as calling her a pig. People can call it a joke or say they're close so it's okay but to those same people, I doubt they are considering how all of that made Tiffany feel.

  • @marissa2075

    @marissa2075

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Suh6727 whoa really?

  • @panda-panda757

    @panda-panda757

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@marissa2075 Yup. Sooyoung's called her it too (which I find ironic and hypocritical because the two of them are famous for how much they eat). And iirc, Tiffany's expressed discomfort and annoyance at being called this. In addition, it's mainly because Tiffany has an apple shaped body, so her middle looks fuller than the rest of her body, even though she's nowhere near overweight.

  • @user-hm9uq8gk5x

    @user-hm9uq8gk5x

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's sad because she was one of the most severely underweight. This must have been crushing to hear and I honestly don't know where people think they have a place to say that to someone

  • @Suh6727

    @Suh6727

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@panda-panda757 Tiffany's midsection is not necessarily her body shape but rather due to her having scoliosis (curve in her spine) If you look up those also suffering from it, you'll notice they too tend to have one side of their abdomen curved (like an hour glass) and other side straight.

  • @babyqeels
    @babyqeels2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like taeyon in the last clip was trying to tell the girls to not be ashamed of eating/gaining weight but in a way that wouldn’t annoy their manager. It’s natural to eat at every age!!

  • @queserasera6913
    @queserasera6913 Жыл бұрын

    Not really surprising when a man call woman fat but a woman calling out other woman fat??? I thought that would be easier to sympathize when you're on the same side

  • @raishaxhinata6228

    @raishaxhinata6228

    Жыл бұрын

    Same thinking

  • @purushothaman8538
    @purushothaman85383 жыл бұрын

    "isnt 50 kg too much??" EXCUSE ME ?? WTF THATS THE NORMAL AND HEALTHY WEIGHT

  • @juliee593

    @juliee593

    3 жыл бұрын

    Depending on your height that can even be underweight :(

  • @DianaGonzalezGzzP

    @DianaGonzalezGzzP

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's scary how they think that, according to their standards I would be super fat when I'm completely normal

  • @a_bear

    @a_bear

    3 жыл бұрын

    Depends on your height. to me 50 would be super undeweight!

  • @clownery9837

    @clownery9837

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@a_bear im 155cm tall and i weight 50kg and i hear a lot of ppl saying its normal and im happy since its kinda harder for me to gain weight 🎆

  • @khushee5103

    @khushee5103

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@clownery9837 am 157 and 61 kgs and still people say it's normal in my country

  • @johnavernia1026
    @johnavernia10264 жыл бұрын

    When that person criticize Sulli, that kinda hurt me. I'm not even her fan, but after she died, video like this made feel disgusted with Korean beauty standard and how they treat female like an object.

  • @alzaen2240

    @alzaen2240

    4 жыл бұрын

    Why did she died?

  • @talyorgreen9342

    @talyorgreen9342

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@alzaen2240 Cyberbullying

  • @vivifree234

    @vivifree234

    4 жыл бұрын

    • alzaen22 She did suicide

  • @raquelgaytan2648

    @raquelgaytan2648

    4 жыл бұрын

    ikr? and the way amber tried to confort her . It broke me.

  • @alzaen2240

    @alzaen2240

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@vivifree234 this is so frikin sad...

  • @lm.1221
    @lm.12212 жыл бұрын

    Why is it so normalized for idols to talk about experiencing inhumane treatment, like dangerous dieting and constant mental pain as if it’s a joke? This is the things they aren’t afraid to say in public, so imagine what they actually do keep secret.

  • @idontshiplarryanymoreiship2716
    @idontshiplarryanymoreiship27162 жыл бұрын

    If you call someone ugly, if shows who you *are* as a person than them

  • @patinadador
    @patinadador4 жыл бұрын

    That clip of f(x) absolutely shatters my heart. They all look so pissed off, and even with that, Sulli tries to smile. And when the guy tries to justify himself, ugh. "It's my standard" boy no one gives a damn about your standards. Amber was about to throw some hands and honestly if I were there I probably would've

  • @felmargego2534

    @felmargego2534

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same. I would've straight up told him, "but we don't follow your standards, so your standards don't matter." 😂

  • @layloo5244

    @layloo5244

    4 жыл бұрын

    lana coelho even when Amber said to super juniors Kangin ‘what about u tho’ when he told those girls they should lose weight bc they are female idols. Loved that part lmaooo

  • @d3n_2

    @d3n_2

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr his standard is just skeletons w/ make up and long hair like bro straighten ur teeth before u judge-

  • @mischiefmaker3140

    @mischiefmaker3140

    4 жыл бұрын

    If this one thing I took from this video Korean men have the audacity. Ugh his so ugly his teeth is weapons but worried bout the girls

  • @AGPostarStudios

    @AGPostarStudios

    4 жыл бұрын

    He wants idols to follow his standards but to my standards he has a ugly hair cut and desperately needs braces but no one would say anything to him? No one gives a crap about ur standards, if someone doesn’t meet ur standards fine someone else who does don’t put down that person.

  • @elementalstar1036
    @elementalstar10364 жыл бұрын

    “I’m a boy and you’re a girl” I’d reply with “I’m a human and you’re a human”

  • @smash3439

    @smash3439

    4 жыл бұрын

    "and we bleed the same."

  • @catpaws1913

    @catpaws1913

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@smash3439 "want some proof?"

  • @abisundaram1247

    @abisundaram1247

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'd be like.."I'm a human and you're a trash" 😑

  • @sunaleexo

    @sunaleexo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shindong deserves a slap real big

  • @user-jh4zz4up6f

    @user-jh4zz4up6f

    4 жыл бұрын

    more like "im the woman and you're a pig"

  • @yeojin6759
    @yeojin67593 жыл бұрын

    i love jackson, he has so mush respect for women people need to learn from him

  • @VasanthSG
    @VasanthSG3 жыл бұрын

    CL Thumbnail : He told us that we were ugly Me : I'm gonna beat yg's ass up