Please Be With Me by Galadrielle Allman

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A deeply personal, revealing, and lyrical portrait of Duane Allman, founder of the legendary Allman Brothers Band, written by his daughter
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(Narration from the audiobook read by Galadrielle Allman)
Galadrielle Allman went to her first concert as an infant in diapers, held in her teenage mother's arms. Playing was her father-Duane Allman, who would become one of the most influential and sought-after musicians of his time. Just a few short years into his remarkable career, he was killed in a motorcycle accident at the age of twenty-four. His daughter was two years old.
Galadrielle was raised in the shadow of his loss and his fame. Her mother sought solace in a bohemian life. Friends and family found it too painful to talk about Duane. Galadrielle listened intently to his music, read articles about him, steeped herself in the mythic stories, and yet the spotlight rendered him too simple and too perfect to know. She felt a strange kinship to the fans who longed for him, but she needed to know more. It took her many years to accept that his life and his legacy were hers, and when she did, she began to ask for stories-from family, fellow musicians, friends-and they began to flow.
Galadrielle Allman's memoir is at once a rapturous, riveting, and intimate account of one of the greatest guitar prodigies of all time, the story of the birth of a band that redefined the American musical landscape, and a tender inquiry of a daughter searching for her father in the memories of others.
Praise for Please Be with Me
"Duane Allman was my big brother, my partner, my best friend. I thought I knew everything there was to know about him, but Galadrielle's deep and insightful book came as a revelation to me, as it will to everyone who reads it."-Gregg Allman
"If you have ever been part of a family that has no photograph left behind to record its wholeness, you know what the absence of that picture does to you: Its nonexistence is itself a portrait of an incomplete heart that doesn't contain you. Galadrielle Allman grew up in the territory of that loss, trying to understand a father who held her but who she never got to hold in return. Her account of the life of Duane Allman-rock and roll's most lyrical guitarist-is the most moving music biography I've ever read. Better than that, Galadrielle has uncovered the heart and motivations, the desolation and saving graces, of the man, and lays it plain in a born-to-write southern voice. She has looked into absence, and from it she has salvaged two hearts: her father's and her own."-Mikal Gilmore, author of Shot in the Heart
" 'You can live forever inside a goodbye,' Galadrielle Allman knows. But then you embrace it, explore it, and call forth its witnesses. In lyrical prose, and with love and wisdom, the now-mature daughter of guitar legend Duane Allman, who died at twenty-four when she was two, meditates on his outsized grip on her life, and retraces that life, and her mother's, sending us to the South at the end of the sixties, when girls were hapless hippie goddesses, music was male and muscular, and even redneck culture was being transformed. But beyond that vibrant portrait is a comfort. We all idealize someone who left us long ago; we all romanticize some memory. This story invites us to savor our own secret intersection of nostalgia and emotional mercy, and it feels very, very good to have soulful, elegant company as we do."-Sheila Weller, author of the New York Times bestseller Girls Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon-and the Journey of a Generation

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  • @jk1802
    @jk180210 жыл бұрын

    The depth of Duane's musical genius is still being explored to this day. Anyone who grew up loving music in the 60's and 70's owes Duane a debt of gratitude.

  • @JC-11111
    @JC-111113 жыл бұрын

    That's always been one of my favorite pictures of Duane. That and the one where he's sleeping with his Goldtop Les Paul. ❤️❤️❤️ Rest in Peace, Skydog! 🙏❤️🎸

  • @69burnttoastburgos
    @69burnttoastburgos10 жыл бұрын

    First of all....you have the most beautiful name i have ever heard in my 44 years....i have listened to your Dads music since the womb...literally, My Dad, went to see them when they played with the Dead upstate NY and since he passed when i was 9 yo, the memorys i gathered from his friends were his love of the Allmans....now passed on to myself.....God Speed girl "..................for peace"

  • @JC-11111

    @JC-11111

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know what it is to have listened to ABB from the womb. I did, too! 😁 My dad is the world's biggest ABB fan. So much so that I share middle names with Howard Duane Allman and heard that fact a million times as I was growing up lol. He's been my dad's favorite since '69 or' 70 and my father, too, passed on his love of ABB to me. Duane is my favorite musician, period. Any genre. His music 3ven motivated and inspired me to learn to play electric guitar myself. Bought my first in January. Now I have 2 guitars and 3 amps and I'm still learning to play. Thank you, SKYDOG! ❤️❤️❤️ I just wish I had been born about 30 years earlier so I could have seen him play live. 🙏

  • @JC-11111
    @JC-111114 жыл бұрын

    What a heartfelt book. I have it on Audible. I cried from the very first sentence. I feel like I have a connection to Galadrielle somewhat, being a father without his daughter, and she a daughter without her father. I buried my 2 yr old daughter in 2014 and my life hasn't been the same since. Been the most difficult 6 years of my life. When I started listening to Galadrielle zit brought on soooo many emotions...for my daughter, for Duane, and for his daughter, too. My daddy named me after her daddy. Today, I share middle names with one Howard Duane Allman and I couldn't be prouder or more grateful. I must have heard my dad tell me "you know, we named you after the best guitar player that ever lived, Duane Allman of the Allman Brothers Band" a million times as I grew up. At the time, it meant nothing. I'm not even sure I knew he had passed away. Today, it means *EVERYTHING* to me ❤️

  • @boblackey1
    @boblackey110 жыл бұрын

    Galadrielle, your audio work is very moving & excellent. The first time I saw the band was in 1970 at Love Valley, North Carolina. That was it. They were my favorite band then and there. When I returned home I was looking desperately for a record by them & a friend of mine introduced me to a guy who had the first album. He let me have it & I've still got it. Soon Idlewild South came out & I saw the band as often as possible live. In October of 1971 I was eating breakfast at my mom's & she had the Today show on TV & Frank Blair was doing the NBC news & I could hear him but not really paying much attention & suddenly I noticed he said "A member of the famed Allman Brothers Band was killed in a motorcycle accident yesterday". And I ran toward the TV in shock & wondering which one & he said Duane Allman. I just want you to know that lots of people I knew were stunned & very sad about the passing of your father. He was one of our heros & we all loved him. When the band was inducted in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, I saw you on TV with Gregg, Dickey, Butch, Jaimoe & Berry's son & daughter & I could see in your eyes the loss & the sadness that your father wasn't there. I often listen to Fillmore & Eat A Peach & 1969-1979 A Decade of Hits CD's & here in 2014 its as if he never left. What a legacy he left & at 24 years of age. I visited the cemetary in Macon back in the mid 1970's. To see him & Berry there just didn't seem fair. God bless you!

  • @midrider335
    @midrider33510 жыл бұрын

    Galadrielle- I saw your dad and his bandmates @ the Fillmore East on 6-26-71, late show. They played on until 7am and to say this was the musical highlight of my life is a vast understatement! I have your book and it's an excellent read! You did a great job of making the stories come alive! Thank you and God bless you and your family.

  • @robbiejr
    @robbiejr10 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the book Galadrielle. I consider myself very fortunate to have grown up in the Atlanta area back in the old days. By 1969, I was already going to concerts at the old Municipal Auditorium and the old Sports Arena, not to mention both the Atlanta Pop Festivals in 1969 and 1970. But the most fun was seeing the Allman Brothers Band playing for free all those times at Piedmont Park, before the first album was released. I didn't know it at the time, but later read, where they played there to see if their new style of music would go over with the crowd. Well, needless to say, it did, from the very first note. And I was there again in 1970 when they came back to say thanks. And I saw them many times after that at the Municipal Auditorium. I also remember in 1970 when the Grateful Dead were set to play at the Sports Arena, but their equipment stayed in Boston. So the band loaned them their equipment so they could play, and then jammed with the Dead. That was incredible. But as great as the band was, I was awe struck by your dad's guitar work. To this day, he is my favorite guitar player. So again, thanks. Can't wait to get the book and read it.

  • @zgrcic
    @zgrcic10 жыл бұрын

    Thank you thank you thank Galadrielle, you're dad, his music and the ABB has been a big important part of my journey through life.

  • @GeorgiaHallmark
    @GeorgiaHallmark10 жыл бұрын

    I was a rock n roll disc jockey for almost 25 years. This band; The Allman Brothers Band always has and always will give me joy, happiness, tears, faith, love of music, pride for the South, deep respect for amazing musicianship. I look forward to the book and frankly, I don't give a damn if it's any good or not, (although I'm sure it will be great) The opportunity to give something back to the musical family (blood & band) is a great gift!

  • @arturovalencia.s.1877
    @arturovalencia.s.18775 жыл бұрын

    I was in high school 78 79. When I had 2 l.p. of. Dueane allman. I've never been forgotten until now

  • @GlaucoAlves
    @GlaucoAlves10 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful, Galadrielle!!!

  • @J.C...
    @J.C...11 ай бұрын

    We're all so extremely proud of you, Galadrielle. I know your daddy would be, too. Thank you for this. 🙏 ❤️ 🎸

  • @Bopalena
    @Bopalena10 жыл бұрын

    I saw your father play at the Fillmore East on 3/12/71 with the ABB sharing the bill with the Elvin Bishop Group and the mighty Johnny Winter who headlined that weekend. I still think about that amazing night of music and good feelings and I listen to your daddy's music almost every day. It helps keep me strong, happy and honest! I can't wait to read your wonderful book and further my love and appreciation for Duane even more! God bless you.

  • @robertwoodward829
    @robertwoodward82910 жыл бұрын

    VERY MOVING GALADRIELLE. I GOT YOUR DADS RETRO. SET AND THE SEGMENT THAT YOU WROTE WAS ALSO VERY MOVING TO ME. DUANE WAS ONE OF THE GREAT INNOVATORS OF OUR TIME AND I STILL CONSIDER HIM TO BE THE GREATIST THAT EVER PLAYED. YOU HAVE BEEN A VERY FRESH AND DELIGHTFUL REMINDER OF HIM..LOVE

  • @pomegranate6221
    @pomegranate62212 жыл бұрын

    She is so lovely!!!

  • @bluesky62ful1
    @bluesky62ful110 жыл бұрын

    ciao galadrielle, ho sempre amato la musica di tuo padre e continuero' ad amarla , hai tutto il mio affetto ciao .

  • @mnkeegrl
    @mnkeegrl10 жыл бұрын

    Much love to you sweetest Glad! xoxo Yvette R.

  • @vinobody
    @vinobody10 жыл бұрын

    that solo in 'stormy monday' made me so very happy...

  • @GaryFox11000
    @GaryFox110003 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful lady ; who I admire like Terry Kath's daughter ; Had the courage to seek out the genuine truth .; while researching Duane's short ; but spectacular life ! Being a top musician in the 70's was a really crazy world filled with lots of vices ! Give his daughter lots of praise ... Well done lady .. Wishing you health, happiness, & peace of mind ! 😉🙋‍♂️

  • @donaldmarshall1409
    @donaldmarshall14096 жыл бұрын

    In 1971, I did not try to copy any one on guitar. I took guitar lessons. before 1971. The Allmans Band came out, but I had no knowledge of the previous music works of the Allman Brothers Band members. A person, whom I jammed with, on guitar, played the Allman Brothers Band's "LIVE AT THE FILMORE" album. This is the time in which i first became acquainted with the Allman Brothers Band. I later purchased the Allman Brothers Band's two "studio albums." I was going to a University, where I was studying music. I took a strong interest in the fact that the two guitars played in parallel thirds. While I attended college, I found some violin and viola duet tapes, in the college's music department's listening library. I wondered if the Allman Brothers Band could progress into such duets, since the Allman Brothers Band did a rendition of "MOUNTAIN JAM" which Duane and Dickey perform by utilizing interwoven counter-point guitar work, played in rounds, (or "cannon style") yet more like two "off set" and layered guitar parts that whirl around-about one another, much like layered-fuguing sounds (organs make fugue sounds). I did not know which one was Duane Allman nor which one was Dickey Betts. One of the songs on the FILMORE ALBUM is called: "STATESBOROUGHT BLUES." I learned that Duane played "SLIDE GUITAR" in the song "Statesborough Blues." I reallly liked "Statesborough Blues;" many people felt I favored Duane over Dickey. Upon the death of Duane, I felt great sarrow, and could no longer imagine the potentials of guitar applications, as i listened to the "Brothers and Sisters album. I did like the Brother and Sisters Album; I especially like the song "Ramblin' Man." I later learned that Duane was forming a Band, which brought Duane and Dickey together and this meeting is credited as the begining of the Allman Brothers Band. Berry Oakley is fundamental, since Duane was in need of a BASS Guitar player. Duane asked Berry to come-over to where Duane was playing, so that Duane (himself0 could hear and see what Berry could do on the Bass Guitar. At the Time, Berry was workingup a band with Dickey Betts. So Berry and Dickey met with Duane, and Berry played for Duane. Dickey was then asked to set-in, should he care too. Duane like both Berry and Dickey. Dickey's guitar work shined well as he and Duane worked up harmonys to Duane's guitar work; They had met, to Duane, to build Duane's Band, so they were doing Duane's list of songs to which Duane and Dickey (together) worked-up harmonies; they both had to know their individual parts, or their parts would not have fit-together in parrallel thirds very accurately, to get an idea of the two guitars working together in harmony. I have always liked them, but have not always known of their band changes, nor did i know of some of the albums which they did release. I was in the ARMY and i was stationed in Germany for 3+ years duirng the 1980's. In 1986 circa, Tower Records in las legas only had one album in a cadilog by Dickey Bets called "Highway Call." Nothing was listed for the Allman Brothers Band. Later I found out that Dickey had other Albums and the Allman Brothers Band had other albums. Since i was working on guitar, I focused on Duane and Dickey. In 1973, I did have a copy of Greg Allman's LAID BACK album (solo album), but I did not know the story behind the making of Greg's solo album's demands, as the industry pulled keenly at Greg and Greg's other muisc interests with the Allman Brothers Band. It is hard to satisfy all the interests that a fan base deems of an artist. I was not always UP-to speed on what they were doing, But, I always liked them. Anytime a person, whom we like, passes-away we feel deep remorse. People we hardly know are supplying us with an emotional need, which we do not realize util they are gone. We think they will always be there, do as they do. It is even harder, on the occations in which the person is a personal close family member or intimate friend. The needs that consume us, let us know we must move forward to accomodate our need to eat have shelter and exersize mobility (walking, and body movements to retreive vital goods, etc.). Creation gave all living entities the "WILL" to survive, through our sense of exhaustion (to rest), sense of selter from inclement weather, out hunger pangs to eat. We all grow as best we know. We establish courtesy toward one another, and up stand privacy (which is called civil order). All in all ... we have to pick our self up from our heartfelt losses and strive to satify the essential needs that vitally drive life, and we hope we serve each other well with ART and SCIENCE. Nature or nurture; We all are dependent on food, shelter and mobility as we secure perimetered areas from where we exersize our free spirits, according to the way-of-life we "provide to occur" within such a perimetered area. Galadrielle: Duane lived his life as best he knew. From his choices and integrity in music, he excelled to phenominal success, and he became well admired, accomplished and achieved.

  • @bassackwards0193847
    @bassackwards019384710 жыл бұрын

    Your Dad's playing in band , got me hooked on the 'Allman Bro's. Band ' , loved their music ! It would years before a new southern rock band would take their place , and that is ' Lynyrd Sykard ' ? . But I'll always remember them ! Ain't but one way out !

  • @jamiemctaggart8971
    @jamiemctaggart897110 жыл бұрын

    Peace and love

  • @mikaheinonen4439
    @mikaheinonen44396 жыл бұрын

    Thank you galadrielle from finland

  • @ejdevokaitis8842
    @ejdevokaitis884210 жыл бұрын

    yes. YES!

  • @bassbob42
    @bassbob4210 жыл бұрын

    I will be ordering this book. Having the opportunity to meet online some of the people close to the ABB and Duane, I treasure all their stories and pictures of the old days. Thanks for taking time to compile this book.

  • @captaincoconut8967
    @captaincoconut89673 жыл бұрын

    BEAUTIFUL 🥀

  • @petervankan1
    @petervankan110 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Galadrielle. I have often wondered from afar (The Netherlands) how you were and how your life had been infuenced by being Duane's daughter. It's wonderful to feel in you that same deep honest spiritual quality that I hear in your father's music.

  • @mikaheinonen4439
    @mikaheinonen44396 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful from finland

  • @user-hj4su7ke3h
    @user-hj4su7ke3h3 ай бұрын

    Great book!!

  • @andrewgrossman9899
    @andrewgrossman989910 жыл бұрын

    Tremendous.

  • @soulhealer20
    @soulhealer2010 жыл бұрын

    Love to you Galadrielle

  • @coryorosco2740

    @coryorosco2740

    9 жыл бұрын

    soulhealer20 Played with your dad @ Love valley in 1970 he was a great Man LOve Big Brother Ernie Joseph

  • @HansBruhner
    @HansBruhner10 жыл бұрын

    I have pre-ordered the book from Amazon. I can't wait to read it. I hope to discuss with you sometime Glad.

  • @amsterjam66
    @amsterjam6610 жыл бұрын

    courage

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