My sister and I are a year and a half apart and she is still my best friend to this day closer in age is definitely better!

@Quntah888

6 жыл бұрын

Maira zarate same thing with my younger brothers.. my mom has a seven and eight year older sister and brother, and she was quite lonely when she grew up. They still don't have a great sibling relationship. That's why my brothers are only 1,5 year apart :)

Hey doll I can honestly say 100% I do not regret having my baby's together my daughter was July 2015 and my son was June 2016 he did come a month sooner tho he was suppose to be born on July 2016. You might be wondering what made me make this crazy decision. I decided to be a stay at home mom until she went to school. That made me think if I'm going to stay a home to raise her and spend so much time with her why not give her a sibling. "We didn't think we would be pregnant so soon" but we did! Seeing my baby's grow up together has been the most beautiful experience yes it's not easy not easy at all but just imagine you love carter so much and having him love his brother or sister being able to experience those moments are just amazing! You will see such a strong bond that they will have and how they'll always be there to help each other comfort each other it's beautiful. I can tell you it would probably be the best thing you do for baby. Don't believe all those who say ohh but you won't be able to spend or give enough time that's a huge lie you will see they will have different schedules and you'll learn when it's baby time and when it's carters time and when it's family time. This is all stuff that you'll learn and adapt to I promise. Well good luck with your decision and I'm very exited for you.

Omg, Carter!!! Too precious! Let me tell y’all...there are terrible 2s, 3s, 4s, etc. Every age has it’s challenges and every age has it’s cuteness. I had my older two almost exactly two years apart, and the younger one is 4 years older than my youngest. They are all boys and are all soooo different! It really just all depends on what you want to do. And sometimes surprises just happen, and you go with the flow. Whatever you guys decide will be the right timing for you. Y’all are awesome parents! Btw, I see Carter gets his dance moves from Dad, lol! Blessings! 💕 (Love how the stairwell turned out!)

Enjoy your baby as long as you can. I have two sons 5 years apart, and it turn out FANTASTIC for everybody!

I have 5 kids (I know, I know). A three year gap is really difficult. We have one three year gap, which was the hardest. Jealousy has kicked in by then, and sibling rivalry is at its peak. Through out their childhood, it was a hard relationship. The rest of the kids have 18-24 months between, and that was hard on me as a mother, but great for the kids. They grew up with an extra confidence and built in friend.

@beckym28

6 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with 5 kids :) I have 2 kids and 1 on the way, and I always thought 5 or 6 kids would be a good number. I grew up with a lot of families of this size (others with more!), so I'm always a little surprised when I hear people say that it's a little too excessive.

@mariemarie6778

6 жыл бұрын

Rebecca this earth isn’t made of infinite resources

@beckym28

6 жыл бұрын

Depends on who you talk to. Besides, as parents we raise our children to be a blessing to society and our environment rather than a burden. No one should be made to feel guilty for having many children, especially since many countries have an aging population where there are too many pensioners and not enough younger people to help lift the economic burden. Not trying to pick a fight. Especially on Brittany's video.

Anyone else find her cleaning portions of the video EXTREMELY satisfying???

Mine are 2yrs and 2 months apart and I love it! Hes a little helper and i was potty training during the time of conceiving and I liked that.

I just have to say. I LOVE the stairs now. I had my 2 kids at 2 1/2 yrs apart. It wasn't that bad for me. Really want to try the broccoli.

Same topic that has been going on in my mind lately. I was thinking 3 years is perfect age gap but after seeing 3 year olds ( and older) of my family and friends who were having difficult time dealing with newborn, i realized that 2 year apart or less is better. The energy and effort can be spent in one time period for two babies and then they will get older and get a long. Instead of putting all the effort in one baby and when he gets independent you go back to nappies ,night feeding , sleepless nights. Hope that will help ( excuse my English) and i love you and your family ❤️

@kaebriedae8321

6 жыл бұрын

wara83enab exactly!

We have three little girls and they are each 15-18 months apart. I'm SO glad they are this close in age because their schedules blend together so easily, I do what I would normally be doing for one child, I just do it for two more kids. It's less hectic because I'm not trying to force an older child to work around a new baby's schedule (and vice versa), because they were on the same, or similar schedule. Now it's even better because they are all best friends and they enjoy playing with each other! Like you said, they can relate to each other, and it's super sweet. I know whatever you decide for your family, it will be great, and Carter will be the sweetest big brother!

You and Ryan are a perfect parents. You guys did great on making Carter

Adorable family! I had my second when my first was in kindergarten on purpose!! It was awesome and my kids have never had a problem w jealousy or fighting. Plus I thoroughly enjoyed those first years and didn’t have to rush the first to be a ‘big’ boy. Plus they each had their own time in school, which they preferred. So DO what’s best for YOU!

I have a 7 year old and a 7 month old, & the age gap is awesome! Especially when the baby is new born. Because she could entertain herself while I took care of the new born, she loves to help, she's super independent so I don't have to worry about her as much and focus on the baby a little more when need be. Now, they are the best of friends, they love playing together & the oldest is wanting to help alot more with the baby & what the baby needs. She's also more understanding of if the baby needs me, I need to tend to the baby. Compared to a two year old, who wouldn't understand. Just a thought for you guys :)

@jenniferannfox2316

6 жыл бұрын

I fully agree

@janetvaldivia5450

6 жыл бұрын

Totally agree! I have an 8 year old and a 2 year old both boys! My oldest son is just like your older child. My son is very loving and protective over him. He's very helpful and understands.

I paused the new episode of This Is Us to watch this. That is how much I love your channel!

@vasseurbeauty

6 жыл бұрын

wow that's a BIG DEAL! Love that show!!

@amandaallinson7839

6 жыл бұрын

VasseurBeauty It's so good! Every episode makes me cry but it's so worth it.

Mine were 21 months apart. That worked out good. Could play together good. I just think sooner is better.

@themilanovic3754

6 жыл бұрын

Lambchop532001 I am pregnant with baby #2...It will also be a 21mnth age gap.

Your whole family is amazing- the love and care you put into your home (physically and emotionally) really shines through in all of your videos. Thank you for sharing with us!!!

My oldest 2 kids are 3 years apart and I think it was perfect. Gave me just enough time to spend quality time with my son, potty train him, get him in a big boy bed etc.....he was just old enough to allow me quality time with my daughter without being overly needy. They are 18 and 15 now and have always been close.

Me and my brother are six years apart and we started getting along when I was 7 and he was 13. It took seven years for us to get along so I recommend that 1-2 years are the best. My kids are 1.5 year age gap and they get along perfectly from the first week. I'm now 25 and my brother is 31 and our kids see each other every weekend and get along.

I think the age gap is different for each family... like you said carter might behave and be good at 3.. We waited 5 years with our girls.. Mainly cause we wanted to enjoy our first daughter more and we didn’t want her to feel replaced or jealous.. And it was the best decision we made.. Our 2 year old is a handful since she turned around 8 months she was bad lol.. total opposite from our first.. so she had horrible ones, terrible 2, so we are hoping when she turns 3 it would be better for us. So yes each kid can act up at a different age.. with my first daughter I do remember it was harder when she was 3 thats when we started having trouble with her..but nothing compared with our second one lol

I had my two boys back to back, 12 months apart, it’s only difficult the first couple months but that’s just because newborns are hard work no matter what, I️ feel. I loved how after the first few months all their needs were so close in relation and, by the time the youngest was a little older, they were best friends and it makes it so easy to get stuff done around the house. They are now 5 & 6, in kinder and 1st grade. I just love the relationship they have! My sister and I were 13 months apart, and she’s my other half, so I have joy knowing what my sons now get to have. I have been binge watching your channel these past days as I now have my 3rd in her newborn stage (helps the nursing sessions fly by) lol I am honestly somewhat sad this baby won’t have a sibling-peer. BTW Your channel is one of the highlights of my day!

My boy's are two years and 4 months apart and they are the best of friends! I think two years apart is actually the best! They grow up together and keep each other occupied alot, so I can get my housework done!

1. Ryan's evolution of dance was hilarious 2. Carter is *adorable* that smile is just *so sweet* 3. *thanks so much for showing that rollup dish drain!! that is EXACTLY what I needed in my tiny kitchen and I'm def going to purchase one!!* 4. aww congrats on baby number two!! my kids are 1.5 yrs apart. this is perfect age gap, as they like the same things and can share many things developmentally. 5. CARTER DANCING OMG!!!

I am so happy you’re vlogging now!! I love getting to see your happy family. It warms my heart 💕

I had my girl 1st then my boy, they are 12 month's & 3days apart. I didn't plan to have another sooo soon I actually broke down when I found out lol but they are best friends. I like the fact that both have always attended school together because they can watch over another. As babies they kept each other company and tell this day but at 10&9 they do fight a lot but they can't live with out each other, even find them hugging another in thier sleep. It's a good thing to have a sibling you can grow up with.

Awww Brittney, I think you should have another one sooner and a little brother for Carter would be sooo sweet. Just make sure you have a mini Brittney a few years later lol. I also love the white molding against that paint color. It upgraded that space nicely!

We are also discussing baby #2 as our first is now 2.5. I wholeheartedly believe that the age gap really doesn't matter that much as far as how the kids will interact and get along. When talking with other mothers, I get the sense that the ones with closer age gaps can struggle through the years with their littles. The ones I know all seem way more frazzled and just not as able to take care of themselves. Almost stretched too thin. On the other hand, the ones with larger age gaps (3-5 yrs apart) seem much more peaceful & seem to be enjoying their every day mom grind a whole lot more. Having littles is TOUGH. I knew I didn't want two tiny babies back to back. I want to fully enjoy my time with my little one before the next little one arrives. And then my first will be in school and I will be able to still get all that one on one time with #2.

@RoskeGR2

6 жыл бұрын

Sami's Sweet Life I completely agree! Since I work in a daycare I see lots of different families and different age gaps. Siblings will grow attachments with each other regardless of how far apart they are. I also notice that having a toddler and a newborn together do create challenges as they both have high demands.

@XO-uu8kc

6 жыл бұрын

I think the "grass is greener on the other side" holds true. Moms who have big age gaps wish they didn't wait and moms with little spacing between each child wish they waited. Each family should make their decision based on their preferences.

@jenniferannfox2316

6 жыл бұрын

I agree I think there is great advantages for a 3-4 year gap. I had mine 22 months apart. They are now 31 and 29. But honestly it doesn't matter if they or 2 or 3 or 4. You'll have a toddler and an infant. All are so different. Age gaps do not make them closer together it's their personalities, how they are introduced to siblings and parenting. I did not plan mine that way.

@catalinaseebach5096

6 жыл бұрын

Sammy's sweet life, You couldn't have explained better.. if the gap its bigger its easier for you, Britt! and if the gap its smaller its though because you have take care of a toddler and a baby. Just wait and see until Carter is a little bit bigger, Its another story when they start walking =) BTW, I have a 2year old daughter and expecting a baby boy in a month.

@aneta5342

6 жыл бұрын

Sami's Sweet Life this might not be true as sometimes in families the younger sibling will get more attention and the older sibiling will be unnoticed

Closer together is always better! They will be closer, they will go through all the bad stuff around the same time and get it over with, and on the flip side they will go through good stuff together, and the bond they have will grow, and the memories will be so amazing!

I really like the staircase, such a simple thing and it looks fantastic!! My first 2 children were 17 months apart, a boy and a girl, they played together and the house was full of baby stuff and I cleaned up twice a day, I wanted my next child to be close in age also but that didn't happen, when my third child was born she was 4 years apart from the youngest daughter. By then, I didn't have the playpen up anymore, no one was in diapers and the older two were sleeping through the night! Wow, what a shocker when I had to get up to feed the baby through the night and and all that other good stuff!! It was certainly easier having the 2 babies together than the long span between our last daughter!!

Such an amazing video...and about your question even medical science says having gap of 3 yrs between your first and second child is considered healthy for both mother and child...and I loved Ryan dance😝😂😂❤❤

My brother and I are four years apart and we are really close and can relate to each other. Also we weren't in school together so we didn't have to worry about goin to school with your sibling. But closer together you're still in the swing of how to take care of a baby so it'll be easier

My 3 little sisters and I are all 1 year apart and it’s so awesome!!! We’re all friends and love it.

My babes are two years apart and I am so happy we decided to have them this amount of time apart. They are so sweet with another. Our son (oldest, 3 years old) and our daughter is 16 months. I love how they interact with one another. She copies everything he does and they get such a kick out of one another. The bond that they have with one another just melts my heart ❤️ So, I feel 2 years apart is such a great age gap. There are difficult times but the good totally outweighs the hard moments. Makes me appreciate every moment. :)

My brother and I are just about 3 years apart (2 years and 9 months) and I think it’s the perfect gap where I feel like we’re close enough in age to where we have a close relationship and even shared some of the same friends in high school but far enough apart to where we weren’t having major life events too close together. My biggest thought is that you want to space your kids out enough to make sure that all of your babies have time to be the baby. And I think they need to “be the baby” and get that ‘you’re the baby’ attention from mom and dad for about 2 years. But that’s just my opinion.

I love how you're even more excited about Carter's new toys than he is! It's so relatable. I don't think you should pressure yourselves with the age gap thing. There is no ideal gap and it does not define how close your children will be. It really comes down to education. If you teach them to value and help each other, they will be just fine! My brother is 13 years older and my sister 7 years older. We know the other two are always there for help or for a good talk. We depend on each other a lot. So my point is, second baby should be when you think it's the moment, Carter will be fine and a great big brother I'm sure!

@Classic_courtney

6 жыл бұрын

Lily Coralie love this perspective on age gap!!!!! Taking notes (my boy is same age as Carter)

@closedcoursedonotattempt5465

6 жыл бұрын

Lily Coralie Very well said. I concur.

@faraleepersad-mohammed4031

6 жыл бұрын

Lily Coralie very well said...I'm scrolling thru to see how the responses are and this is perfect...my thoughts exactly...no stress.

@lilycoralie3768

6 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to see this many people have the same views on sibling bond! Hello there!

my first was oct 2012 my second was oct 2014. 2 boys literally 2 years apart and it worked great. they are close and my oldest has helped my youngest with talking and learning things. I love it

I absolutely love the walls!! It really brought them to life!! I think 2 years is the perfect gap to have kids. I have 3 boys and my first two are 4 1/2 years apart and it was too long. My last two are 2 years apart and it’s perfect! Crazy in the beginning because you have a baby and a toddler but when they grow up it’s like having twins. They’re best friends most times but always have a buddy/someone to play with!

My Kids are 4 years apart. I think it was perfect decision. My older is doing it great as a big brother, and he wasn't jealous at all. The whole time, since my first was 6 months old, I thought, if I ever have another baby it will be a boy again. And till the 17th week when I was pregnant, I was soooo sure it's a boy. But my gynecologist said, it's a girl. Well now I have a 8 months old girl 😍 Interesting fact: I watched your pregnancy announcement video as soon as you uploaded it, and I was thinking, oh God, I want another baby so much. On the next day, I took a test, and it was positive ❤

@Usernametakenfornow

6 жыл бұрын

Marijana Milanović my boys are 4 years apart as well and at first I enjoyed it because my oldest was so independent and all but now that they are 6 and 2 I really really wish they were closer in age and could play together more and get more out of each other

We only have 1 daughter so I can’t give concrete advice on age difference- but I can confirm that age 3 is no joke! It makes sense to me that people are telling you to have another baby before Carter turns 3. He’s such a doll I can’t imagine him ever giving you trouble though 😉. The wall looks great!

My boys are 1 yr and 9 days apart and it’s great! They’re best friends and have most of the same friends. When they were little, there was a time when they were both in car seats and I had to use a double stroller. People were always so helpful opening doors, etc. For a few years strangers assumed I had twins. I say the sooner the better! You and Ryan are great parents and your kids may never even go through the terrible 2’s. I got lucky with my boys.

Carter is just a joy to watch :-). Love the way he tries to communicate.

My son Oliver will just turn 4 when my second baby is due. He is so excited and asks what the baby is doing in my tummy all the time! He loves wearing his big brother shirt. He never went through terrible 2’s or 3’s. He is the best child, but every child is different. I loved that we waited a few years to try for baby #2, because Oliver is very independent and it’ll be easier on us. It really depends on Carter and your all’s situation so good luck! I love your little family!

I read the notification and literally was shook 😳😍

You guys are the sweetest family! I've only started watching your videos as of last night and I love your vlog!! I have 6 daughters, 3 bio and we adopted 3 sisters to keep them together as we were foster parents. I decided on a 2yr age gap with my girls to keep them close together...but everyone is different. I find it great that your husband supports your vlog and even gets involved, so he's a keeper!! I've been married 31 yrs. My girls are all grown and now I have 11 grandkids, but I really miss those days of taking care of them! I enjoy your videos because you make it relaxing and fun and of course happy!

You seem like such a good mom and your husband is a good dad. Honestly what ever age you pick , you will totally be good, sometimes parenting is hard but no matter what that hard time ends and life is good again, and no matter what it just works out

I don't think there is a perfect age gap between siblings. For example, I have 2 older sisters, a 4 year age gap and a 9 year age gap. I remember my sister who was 4 years older than me used to argue so much! We didn't have much in common and had to share a room. We have different opinons and political stances and still get at each other today, although we respect and love each other at the end of the day. My sister who is 9 years older than me are closer, we have more in common, she always looks out for me and is a mentor to me. Also, my boyfriend's nephews are 1 year apart and 10 years apart. The two older ones are always bugging and arguing each other and they have similar interests. The youngest is just a toddler, 18 months but they love to play and bond with him, although sometimes a little too rough. It's just about what works best for you and your family! :)

@Classic_courtney

6 жыл бұрын

Hey It's Renee great points!

Hahaha Alexa talking to your husband was funny😂

@pittsburghgirl9898

6 жыл бұрын

Alaina Nicole omg that was so funny with Ryan's reaction he was embarrassed lol

I love your staircase. My children are three years apart. I love it that way. I really had alot of time between children. They were all potty trained, and talking. This made it easier.

I sometimes watch your family videos when I've had a terrible day. They always make me smile!

You can have the baby when ever you want❤️❤️don’t rush to have another baby 👶🏼

Wow....the wall looks fantastic!!!!

I’m due with my second now and my daughter will be 4.5 when he is born. I love that she made it through the crazy 3 year old stage and is starting to be more independent. From talking with a lot of my mom friends it seems like it’s easier to have them either right back to back (easier transition for the older one) or to wait until the older one is past 3. ❤️

HE IS SUCH A SWEET AND HAPPY LITTLE BABY 😍BLESS HIS HEART! You’re so lucky to have such a pleasant little sweetheart. My husband and I just got married four months ago so we would like to wait a bit longer but between family, my mom friends and KZread .. oh the baby fever is hitting hard! I want a little one!

My daughters are 1.5 yrs apart... it’s been a struggle right now lol my oldest is 3 and she is in the terrible twos and let’s just say the 1.5 yr old is just getting there doing everything big sister does. I think it will be a struggle no matter the age but it will get better as they get older.

Just found out we're expecting on Friday! (Really need these videos) 💜

@mari2542

6 жыл бұрын

KSLunbreakable Congratulations!!

@cintiabokor5645

6 жыл бұрын

KSLunbreakable ohhh congrats:3 I'm 21weeks pregnant and love it❤️

@maybememories925

6 жыл бұрын

Congrats!!

@KL-xu1nm

6 жыл бұрын

maybememories Thank you!!

@KL-xu1nm

6 жыл бұрын

Cintia's Channel Thank you!! I'm super nervous!! Congrats on your bundle!!

He's so gorgeous Brittany! Mine were two years and 3 months apart. It was wonderful. My oldest was potty trained, could take and understand most of everything.

Your an amazing inspiration. I have just recently had a misscarage and I watched every one of your videos. Thank you so much for having such a wonderful happy channel. Your an amazing mom I'm so happy you guys are wanting a new addition.

Smaller age gap! I have 3 sisters and we are now very close adult friends. So happy we are close in age! Feel there are way more benefits, especially later in life (aka the majority of our life!)

You guys are such an inspiration! What an attractive and powerful family

Awww I’m so happy to hear your thinking of another baby!!! You guys make adorable babies. I had two years apart between mine and honestly I think the closer the better. They will always have a friend and the activities will be around the same level for them both. I’m glad diapers and bottles all were out of the way within the same time and they get to enjoy a lot of the things together. I really agree with closer ages. I really think you have it handled down now and it will just come naturally with second baby. That makes me happy. Whatever God blesses you with

Hi Brittany! I just love your videos. You are so creative and able to express yourself articulately. I can relate to a lot of your thoughts and sentiments. Carter is ridiculously cute! Don't stress too much about the "perfect" time for baby #2. Whenever he or she arrives will be the perfect time! You will adapt to whatever stage Carter is in and embrace another new life chapter. You guys are great parents! Also - love the wainscoting!

I would want my kids to be at least 3-5 years apart so once one kid goes off to college you have another kid. I really like the name Landon!!!! I think Carter and Landon sounds so cute together!!!

@mallorykretz1015

6 жыл бұрын

But however long you want to wait is your choice!!!

I'm so happy for you and Ryan, two amazing parents and also Carter will be an amazing older brother 😍🙌🏾😍🙌🏾

My girls are 3 1/2 years apart and I LOVE it! I personally couldn’t do it any sooner. They are SUPER close! Good luck on your decision.

Awesome vid! My little sister and I are 1 year 5 months apart so at my 1st birthday my Mom was 4 months pregnant with her. We grew up SUPER CLOSE. We're both married today, but to this day she is my best friend and all of our other mutual friends have been inspired to get closer to their own siblings and establish a true bond with them after seeing how close me and my sister are. I think the small age gap was a huge factor in us being this close because we can relate to each other on so many levels even though we are different genders. Plus, going to school together, college together and having a similar circle of friends that are similar in age is such a huge added bonus and it's something we do not take for granted. I think huge gaps like 8+ years can be good too because then the younger child has like a second mother or second father and the older sibling can really help you out when it comes to taking care of the little one. But if you want to stick within the smaller age gap realm I would have them as close as possible together. I think it will actually be easier for you as you can "raise them together." In the end, don't worry too much about the age gap because like others mentioned you and your husband seem like incredible parents and as long as you instill good values in your children they will behave well, cooperate with you and cooperate with their other sibling as well. Best of luck and God bless! :)

I clicked as fast as possible you guys are amazing parents and have such a great personality Carter would be amazing older brother omg I can't get enough of his smile!!!!! BTW I got so excited when I read the tittle!!!!!

@xyummii909

6 жыл бұрын

Closer in age is better because they will play together and plus when ur done with the diaper bag u are really done. Im glad i had my kids together. O and ur next one will be a girl. :)

I love the wall!!! 😍

Go for it! Mine are 25 months apart and I love it now that they’re almost 3 and 5! They’re so sweet together. Of course it was a bit challenging st first but it’s not bad once you get into a groove. 😀

My sister and I are 2 1/2 years apart and I'm sooo grateful I had her growing up. I don't know what I would of done without her. Definitely a plus having a sister close in age 😄 excited for you two! Carter is adorable! 🤗💕💗

Most of my cousins have a 5 year age gap between their kids. It seems like a big gap but their kids are get along great. It just worked out that they have boys as the first born. My husband and I have decided on a 5 year gap too!

We feel like when Natalie(currently 16 months) will turn 2 we start trying for baby no2!!thats just us but to tell you the truth she is such a dream babe we have our hard days of course teething etc but generally she is not that whiny kid at all!!so we think 2 years and then start trying is great!

My sister and I are 22 months apart. My mom always says having two toddlers at the same time was the hardest thing she did in her life, but I love being close in age. I know the times we were attending separate schools (e.g., I was in jr high but she was still in elementary), it was really challenging for my parents. It was a big relief for them when we ended up at the same school again. Also, we eventually ended up in the same dance class so we attended extra circulars at the same time/place once we were in high school. Something to consider. There is no "perfect timing". We have a brother that is 9 years younger than me and 7 years younger than my sister, and learning how to take care of a baby at a young age was really fun (I changed a lot of diapers). He was kind of a pain to us from like age 4-12 but he ended up being a really cool teenager and now I love that we are even closer as young adults!

You guys are amazing I love watching your videos! And I'm sure Carter will be such a wonder big brother whenever you two are ready!

Carter is just the CUTEST!!!i cant!!!

@mommabear5059

6 жыл бұрын

Anna JD I know! His smile and personality melt my heart.

@vasseurbeauty

6 жыл бұрын

thank you!!! It touches my heart that you guys show him so much love

I love the stairway! Really made a huge difference!

My sister and I are 4 years apart and it’s a bit inconvenient with schools and stuff but it’s good because she acts almost as another mother as she will take care of me and relieve pressure off my mum! I hope this helps xxx

Loved this!! I've been watching you for YEARS and have always loved your videos!! Such amazing quality and tips, love you guys!!

Well by accident all four of my girls are 3 years apart and yes very difficult that wasn't planned but I would say if I actually had to plan it I'd say the sooner the better... have them all right now!!

Me and my older sister are 2 years apart and it's perfect! We have lots of similarities in our interests, me and my younger brother are Irish twins and we get along very well! My youngest sister and I are 5 years apart and I gotta say that it's a bit hard for her with all the "older kids", for example we were watching Christmas videos of when we were babies and she got so sad that she wasn't in it:( just saying big age gaps aren't always the best!

My sister and I are two and a half years apart and it is awesome! We're super close and do almost everything together! Also having two years together in high school is really fun.

My 3 kids are all about 1.5-2 years apart and I love it!! :) I feel like that's pretty close together, but it felt like an easy transition. I had 2 boys and then a baby girl. I know you guys will make the right choice for your family!! :)

oh p.s. I love seeing your cooking recipes please do more!!!!

Great video!! I think 2 years is a perfect age gap for siblings, love the name Landon, Carter dancing was the cutest thing ever, you should have a dance off between Carter & Ryan hehe! I will have to try that recipe.

My favorite ages with my two boys were ages two to three. They are SO MUCH FUN at this age. I planned for two years apart..did not work. Three years was amazing..lots of help from older fellow. Healthy babies are all that matter. Enjoy EVERY minute! It goes so fast. Best time of my life!

Molding above the staircase turned out absolutely gorgeous! It's amazing how one detail can bring so much chic and character to the wall. Thank you for sharing! Ryan is full of great ideas! You guys are amazing together and it's a joy to watch your beautiful, happy family grow. Good luck with the second baby! :)

I’m one of 2 with a 2 year age gap and I class my sister as my best friend x

Love you both and baby carter 💕 I’d say no more than about 2 yrs apart 🤗

I love love love this format!! And I always love seeing you make healthy recipes I can’t get enough of them!!

Omg... I am fascinated w how much carter has grown and how smart he is!! I love the way he points to the dog w his lil finger! Lol. And his dancing... Adorable!

Can't wait to watch Carter grow up on thus channel😍

My kids are 26 months apart (to the day 😉) and let me tell you, it’s hell on wheels!!! OMG!!! Not twice as hard, ten times as hard!! I would wait until Carter is like 4-5, where he is fully potty trained & can be your “helper” he’ll also have a little bit better if an understanding of baby & might not be as jealous. My daughter, who is a wild one, became extremely jealous of my son and would like to act out when I was busy with him. Like while I would be nursing him she would try to run outta the house! Bs she was tall enough to unlock the deadbolt, constant battle! We just now started potty training and it’s like, I’ll be feeding him or trying to get him asleep & then she says she has to potty, then we get to the potty & she doesn’t do anything 😒 girl I’m just being real with ya! Not trying to scare you, but “if ida known then what I know now...” I would have had them farther apart.

@vasseurbeauty

6 жыл бұрын

that's exactly what i'm worried about - it being more than twice as demanding with 2. Good luck with your 2 littles, I hope it gets easier soon!

My kids are two years apart and i love it. Sure sometimes it is challenging.. but i think every age has its challenges. I think the most important thing is for you to feel ready.. body and soul... to go through another pregnancy and dealing with a newborn and a toddler. Xoxo

I think 2 years would be best; my brother and I are 2 years apart and we relate to each other a lot more than my other friends and their siblings :)

I’m a grandmother of 9 and at a different stage in my life, but your channel is my new favorite! It’s like watching a real life Barbie and Ken. I say that with respect and admiration!

@vicinalucinda

6 жыл бұрын

haha 'Barbie and Ken' so true! I love them too :)

@TaylorRaine

6 жыл бұрын

Omg so true!!

My brother and I are 1 1/2 year apart and it was always a good age gap because our interests were always similar and we could relate to each other in a lot of aspects. Hope the best for you and your growing family, and when it's meant to be it will be 🙏🏼💙

My brother is just under 2 years older than me and honestly I love it! We can relate to each other and he is very protective for me, his younger sister. But honestly it’s up to you ❤️

2 years 💙

Closer is better! They can relate and talk and your kid will always have a best friend

Hi Brittany! MY children are almost 6 years apart and it's perfect! I didn't plan them to be so far apart but it's great. My oldest helps so much. She even changes diapers. They love each other so much. There really is no perfect time. If you wait for it, it will never come! Do what is best for you! Best wishes.

I love love love the wall treatment you did. The white on the grey is amazing. I'm stealing this for our new home we are just starting.

2 years is apart is perfect! Plus you're already in mommy mode so you'll be fine!