They shouldn't be surrounded by adults ALL the time. They need interaction with other kids.

Dorit needs to be more aware of her children's level of behavioral growth in terms of socializing with other children. Cannot imagine growing up and not playing with all types of kids. Different cultures, personalities and positive and negative situations. They all prepare us with our growth. Dorit, stop complaining about the father of your children. He does get a say.

@nylotus

7 ай бұрын

Agreed. Being from NY I'm always thankful for the level of diversity with the kids I went to school with. All socioeconomic backgrounds, all races, and 30 different languages spoken at our high school. It taught us to socialize and respect all cultures and backgrounds and that's not something commonly displayed these days. Based off some of Dorit's comments, her kids could use that exposure.

@harriettmoss3225

7 ай бұрын

She is wrong wrong they are different people being home scholled they are more socially ignorant I know several, and they are pitiful

He's being honest and dealing with her P.T.S.D as best he can, mothers tend to project their "fears" into their children!

@mawreeoh

7 ай бұрын

So? School is more than memorizing facts. It’s socialization. Spoken like a conservative who yells at their TV 😂😂😂😂

I agree with PK . School is the best days of their lives. Not all schools are the same . They will find the best school for their children. Not all schools are terrible. Schools are different. They have the means to find a perfect school for their kids .

@simplesavage6382

8 ай бұрын

I think going to school helps you become social 🙏🏽 I decided to go to college after the pandemic just to get out the house for a few hours ❤😂

@vanessaandreatta9098

7 ай бұрын

I think they are both great parents, maybe Dorit feels more in control, less stressed with the social side of going to school (teachers you didn't choose, other parents etc). If you go to public school at 14 then you might really struggle socially. This is my opinion... I appreciate they even decided to film these scene they look so genuine to me

@ibtink2

7 ай бұрын

Homeschool groups provide a wide variety of field trips, music groups, foreign language practice, study sessions, sports teams. It’s a misperception that homeschooled kids sit at home all day. Time is utilized more effectively providing time needed for extracurricular activities.

@dianakidd4219

7 ай бұрын

@donk8105 I agree. I homeschooled and it was a great experience for me and the kids. Bullies are out of control these days. Beating up teachers is common these days.

@sela8788

7 ай бұрын

Homeschool is amazing and best decision for most families NOT ALL but one of the best things you can do for your child. If you worry about them being anti social take them out to socialize. I’ve met kids that go to school and they don’t know how to socialize outside of the people they are comfortable with.

I’m 100% with PK on this one! Kids need to go to school, it teaches them a lot about life in general, something they will not be able to acquire through homeschooling.

@crystalfoo5960

7 ай бұрын

100%

Agree with dad

I agree with PK. Kids need to be in regular school. Especially the two kids are different ages. They need to learn at their own rate. Socialization and learning how to interact with other students is part of learning. Dorit is being overprotective in reaction to her burglary PTSD.

As an adult, I have so many fond memories of my elementary years. I moved to a new place (new town) and school after grade 4 and did not have a chance to say goodbye to my friends and I still miss them. Of course, I made new friends from grade 5 to grade 8. Then my parents made me move again to another city. The friends I made during my elementary years were so much fun. It is the social aspect that her kids are going to miss out on. Dorit is nothing thinking about that at all. It is not all about just getting good grades. Having fun with your classmates, going on field trips, playing games during recess, being invited to birthday parties, having crushes etc. Memories you cannot make with being homeschooled with your sister.

my kid was born during the pandemic and didn’t interact with other kids for the first 3 years of his life because we were very careful. Now don’t get me wrong, he is thriving and a wonderful but he struggled with concepts like sharing and social interaction once we put him in preschool earlier this year. I think kids need interaction with others to develop, in the very least, social skills that will carry them forward for the rest of their lives. Not to say that home schooling doesn’t have its merits for certain kids, but for most of them, I think public or private school is the right answer.

So dorit isn’t teaching her kids and bringing in teachers and she’s out doing lunch or shopping or whatever she wants . How is this different from sending them to school ???

@headkandywhore

7 ай бұрын

She might be afraid of outside influences, like bad influences from other kids and their parents or she’s afraid that in Anlass of 20 kids, her kids will be looked over and not thrive academically.

@pduoduo7444

7 ай бұрын

At school they can get bullied

@fatimateresa19

7 ай бұрын

Bingo!! Their parents are in a reality show!

@dianakidd4219

7 ай бұрын

No bullying at home. Or indoctrination . Perhaps they are actually taught how to navigate life and get a job. Something no public school teachs.

@user-bm8bc2fy9g

7 ай бұрын

I hope she truly has her kids best interest at heart safety , health and education and etc.. and not just using homeschooling as her new storyline to stay employed ..

that’s the kind of disagreement that lead to divorce. obviously, dorit feels very strongly about how she wants her kids to be educated and raised and when the spouse doesn’t agree …. that’s a recipe for disaster

The covers the most important part of the book!? I think the homeschooling needs to be evaluated!

I was homeschooled and there was a big difference between the levels of reading we had compared to kids from school. We were very advanced, and had been reading university level materials since 8 years old. The most notable difference socially is that me and my siblings would talk to everyone, regardless of 'social rank'. We were respectful but were vocal in disagreeing with adults and why. We were also very skeptical and developed critical thinking skills and pattern recognition from a very young age. Our parents made sure we were social with our peers though, which balanced it out. We now have really good careers and networking circles and credit alot of it to being homeschooled.

@mawreeoh

7 ай бұрын

Lol this fiction is hilarious

@shirley-anaireland6367

7 ай бұрын

@@mawreeoh Not at all fiction. Many people worry about the socialization of homeschooled children. However, research actually shows the contrary. Franciss (1999) matched homeschooled children to public school children. The test conducted measured cooperation, assertiveness, responsibility, self control, problem behaviors, and then yielded a total social skills score. Homeschooled children received higher scores on all the social skills subscale, and lower scores on the problem behavior scale. Shyers (1992a, 1992b) also matched homeschooled children to children attending traditional schools. "The results were striking. Children attending conventional schools showed more than 8x more problem behaviors than homeschooled children." Furthermore, he noted that "the homeschooled children introduced themselves, initiated conversation, cooperated with others, invited uninvolved children to join them in play, took turns, let others know it was alright of they lost a game etc". Finally, Galloway (Galloway 1998, Galloway & Sutton 1997) compared college students who had been homeschooled to those which attended conventional school. The students were evaluated on 60 indicators of college performance grouped into five categories: academic, cognitive, social, spiritual and psychomotor. Homeschooled students "led the others by a large margin in every category except psychomotor skills". Galloway also concluded that homeschooled students were "readily recognized for their leadership abilities". Gallowar's results were so one sided she made the following statement: "I don't ever want to hear again that homeschooled kids are socially inept." Granted, the success of homeschooling depends on the parents and the curriculum used, so there needs to be alot of thought before choosing it. But I don't think it should be as villanized as it is.

@Eva-mf7sd

7 ай бұрын

citations and all! Excellent. @@shirley-anaireland6367

@mawreeoh

7 ай бұрын

@@shirley-anaireland6367 all fiction the studies you cited are funded by Christian nationalists who can pay for a study to say anything 😂 😂 okay Scientologist

Her kids are insanely smart and kids do learn more one on one with teachers, that’s a fact.

@gcchair7634

7 ай бұрын

There are some things you can’t learn in books…the socialization, resiliency, conflict resolution…the ability to network has a lot of advantages. You can’t do that if your circle is your sister.

@firebenderkitty313

7 ай бұрын

They have enough money to pay for the finest private schools as well as keeping an additional tutor. They need to be around other kids.

@danan1988

7 ай бұрын

@@firebenderkitty313I agree

@vanessaandreatta9098

7 ай бұрын

You learn more notion, and then what? Others play and you get bored. What is the point especially now we have internet google Wikipedia... You don't need to become a book we are not in the middle age 😂

@angelabogaard1102

7 ай бұрын

It's not just about learning. If it's always one on one, how will they learn they're not always the center of attention? Socialising with kids their own age? Learning to share? Etc.

School days are not the best days of your lives for every kid. It wasn’t for me. Primary school was cool but not secondary. I lost myself and focus of what I was and what I wanted to achieve. I think different schooling, whether it be stage school, home school, Private, Boarding whatever depends on the child individually.

@jade-br1xx

6 ай бұрын

I agree. School sucked for me. Missed every possible day that I could

Their kids seem very sheltered and so agree with PK

I agree with both of them, lol. Socialization is important part. However, there are other ways kids can socialize with other kids, ie after school activities. I honestly feel like I would’ve benefited from homeschooling as a kid up until high school. Nobody liked me though so😂😂😂

having lived through bullying for years 😢 school days are the worst of my life

Agree with PK

Send them to the most private school you can afford Dorit.

Hearing that child say that the cover of the book is the most important thing about it just makes my molars ache. Of COURSE that’s the sort of thing they’d learn with Dorit as a mother, where appearances are everything.

@Destination_Unknown713

7 ай бұрын

I noticed that too! Was really surprised as it's the complete opposite of what most people are taught, such as the famous saying, "Don't judge a book by it's cover" or "Appearances are deceptive" & here they are learning "Covers are the most important part of a book"?????? Whaaaaaaaatttt...Those kids really need a normal education in a school!

They need to socialise and learn to get on with other kids also they need friends of their own

It’s a coin toss, really. I kid you not, all four years that I was in college, the graduating valedictorian was a homeschooled kid. Each one much more social and kind than me. But I have also met weirdos homeschooled and also highly resentful people who hated doing it, some of them in the same family. (Like one sibling thriving and the other hating it). The best families I’ve seen with the most thriving kids are those who chose what was individually best for each child. Including sending to different schools if need be. Do what’s best for YOUR family.

@headkandywhore

7 ай бұрын

I fully agree

he's not listening to what she's saying....figure out why they don't want to go back to public school, talk to them and go from there...don't just put your two cents in when you're never actually around...

PK sounds like a normal guy and parent. Dorit, you aren’t the one doing the schooling please calm down. You aren’t that busy.

Totally with PK on this. Kids need to socialize with kids and not be surrounded by adults all the time. Not healthy for their development and what they'll do in real world situations when they become young adults and never learned important norms and skillsets you only learn by being around your peers at that age.

That was literally the opposite of don't judge a book by its cover

Retired elementary teacher here. Humans need social interactions growing up. My son attended public school, State University. My grandchildren also. I lived in nice areas, my son even more upscale. I still live in California, not near Dorit 😅, but very nice. It looks sad to see 2 children sitting at desks, with only adults as friends. PK comes from humble upbringing, as does Dorit, but wants to hide it, and create false narratives! He is right!😁🇺🇸🏫🗽

Scammers, the 2 of them

Dorit is thinking about what the kids want. PK is projecting a vision of what he wants on the kids

@mikahkadence-wilson9401

7 ай бұрын

As he should. Kid wants < Parent wants

@psps2034

7 ай бұрын

Kids want to eat cake and go to the circus everyday. PK is thinking about how to raise them so they can have a bright future after they have died .

@katiecook11

7 ай бұрын

why would they do what the kids want.... whats the point of the parent at that point.

Trust your gut Dorit.

Pk is completely right. Don't coddle them. They need to experience grow. Good or bad it's all part of it

I think home schooling is a good idea if it works. They can go to activities like sport etc after school. if my child was struggling with bullying or to concentrate I would home school.

PK is right, they must go to school.

I agree with PK. However, with the way things are in the world today and the benefits of having money/private teachers i see Dorits point too.

School was honestly not easy for me (I had an undiagnosed learning disability) but I am so glad I went to public school so I could learn how to socialize with other kids my age!

School days are the best days of your life, spoken by someone who hasn't been put through horrendous bullying for years. Team Dorit

In Spain my country or Germany homeschooling is not allowed. All the kids go to school.

PK is completely correct. Socializing with other kids will help with not only behavioral growth but also seeing that there are other kinds of people out in the world. Dorit complaining about being a single mom for a couple days is a mockery to women that get up every day and live the single mom life without a choice. Dorit needs to be brought back to reality

@Schele-vu5fw

7 ай бұрын

AMEN!! Most of us don’t have the luxury of having teachers come to our house.

He’s right …..socialisation. There’s more to school than academic learning

With all the school shootings and America turning a blind eye to it every time for some reason, and only saying thoughts and prayers, and needing to know the shooters identoty before the victims. I understand Dorit wanting to home school her kids.

@Christina-cb7bb

7 ай бұрын

They had a shooter in their home. I don't think that's the problem. There are other things going on in the screwed up public school system. Private school is the way to go if they choose to go that path.

As a school counselor, we see parents anxiety pushed on to their children, it's not healthy or thriving for kids. I have seen some homeschool children do well too.

Period. PK is right. Developmentally children are stronger when they are allowed to interact with other children.

Dorit is such a good mom

maybe she wants to homeschool them because they can't afford that private school tuition anymore lol

I see both sides of their argument. Their kids are absolutely adorable and seem so sweet and well rounded so they’re already doing something right. It’s a huge decision but you can always socialize your kids in ways that don’t involve school interactions.

Dorit does not live in reality... Mensa 🤬🤬🤬

Never in a million years would I have thought I would agree with PK

Agree with PK on this one. I’m sure they’ll go to a good private school ! let them have the memories!

I agree with PK. Learning to be with people from all walks of life is so important.

I would have loved to have been homeschooled - I had some truly awful teachers - not all but most

Grammar school & high school are the best years with lifelong friends that become family.. i have the same best friends since 2nd grade.

@Nashae-kz5bc

7 ай бұрын

People don’t have the same experiences. Elementary school and High school was the worse years of my life. So I see what Dorit is talking about.

@landonlandon2251

7 ай бұрын

@@Nashae-kz5bc life is what you make it... All the best to you

@Nashae-kz5bc

7 ай бұрын

@@landonlandon2251 Huh? Lol Having to deal with bullying is not what I wanted to make out of my life?

@landonlandon2251

7 ай бұрын

@@Nashae-kz5bc who hurt you? Don't let them take away your adulthood.. (you can tell you're broken just from these 2 interactions). There's free mental health resources online. Good luck on your journey. 🤙🤞

@Nashae-kz5bc

7 ай бұрын

@@landonlandon2251 I am talking about my time in public school, that’s my whole point. I am a adult now but I see what dorit is saying about homeschooling her children. Some kids have the best times of their lives and some people experience hell on earth.

Um, they can't afford the teachers anymore! Same with Dorit's glam squad.

Homeschooling in California is a must. Also 10years ago isn’t remotely the same as today. Homeschool them !

Dorit is off track here. She's lumping her children's educational and socialization experience through these formative years into her husband not being at home. Her marital issues should have NO bearing on the well being and academic needs of a child. It is your obligation, a mandated one, to ensure the proper education of a child. Although I can appreciate the concern with some of these ridiculous schools and their indoctrination rather than education ideologies today, these two can Clearly afford private schools - they are paying much more than that for 2 private teachers daily at their home. So this is about Dorit and her incessant need to control, and dominate a man that she cannot train to her specific demands. She's not having conversation With him, she speaks At her husband, like she does to a lot of people. This isn't a conversation about the best academic fit for the children, it screams convo all about Dorit and what's best for her. As per usual. Her screaming at the end of the clip depicts her disregard for her husband's contribution to the conversation which he does try to keep about the children's needs. Where she, always redirects to her needs.

With PK on that one. Dorit has zero sense at times.

Wished I was home schooled . Schooling is for learning . After school activities are for socialization.

Social skills are necessary for your personal growth

They aren't actually homeschooling they are just doing private school at home. Most homeschooling families socialize, do sports, co-ops, etc etc. My friends that homeschool are always socializing with other kids.

If I were Dorit, I would definitely put them back in a regular classroom environment only for socialization purposes but I would keep a teacher or tutor on payroll to help with their education.

omg the absolute cutestttt!!!

Her kids will thrive in that kind of schooling, as long as they're getting out and doing activities and being social in other situations, which I'd imagine they are.

Nobody needs school, but education, yes. Homeschool is Ok, if kids have friends and hobbies.

All going to a public school did for me was mess me up mentally, kids can be cruel. I understand not everyone has the same experience but I wish I had the chance to be homeschooled!

@NadiaAria

7 ай бұрын

So private school kids aren’t cruel ?

PK is right but man stick with your wife and kids mostly when she is dealing with her PTSD. Living in London and travelling around the globe may not be the good transitioning period now.

Children need social skills, unless you're going to keep them in a bubble for the rest of their lives. Nowadays parents are messing their children up, because of their hang-ups.

A kid being stuck in the house all day with no social interaction? Hell no. They will not learn to be independent. When i think of homeschooling i just cringe.

I had to homeschool my son BY MYSELF for a year during Covid with a full time job working from home. I didn’t have the luxury of having teachers come to my house. I think it’s important that kids be in school so they can learn social skills and learn to navigate difficult situations or conflicts. I don’t judge parents that homeschool however. It just wasn’t for me lol. I have a newfound respect for teachers that’s for sure!

PK is level headed and grounded. Dorit is an airhead.

Public school😮😮😮😮😂😂😂😂 Why can’t they pay for a fancy private school? Because they are grifters😂😂😂

I agree with both sides. Maybe homeschool yes, but be enrolled in lots of groups that teach teamwork- scouts, brownies, soccer, dance etc.

Say what you will about Dorit but she's an AMAZING mother and loves and cares so much for her kids.

@firebenderkitty313

7 ай бұрын

She has multiple Nannies and projects her fears onto her kids.

De av oss som har gått på skolen,har så mye minner som jeg aldri ville vært uten.Hvis ungene opplever dårlige opplevelse,går det å revurdere,men først og fremst skole

Public schools are out of control, private school will be way better if they choose that path.

I agree. He’s right!

Try it Dorit and then see!!! Not like they’ll be in an underprivileged school like a lot of kids!!! $$$$ school in Beverly Hills

Kids need other kids. PK is 1000 right

I agree with PK. Children need to be socialized. Part of growing up is being able to navigate in the real world and experiencing other ideas ,cultures Philosophy. You learn critical thinking , conflict resolution and resilience. If they want to add another aspect there are schools that focus on those aspects.

PK is 100% correct IMO.

The fact we call her Dozy is evidence she shouldn't make decision about theie education 😂

Being around kids their own age is crucial and if you’d like to see them go to college school outside of a home schooling setting will prep them for all thee distractions and social aspects of college. I preferred college over high school.

Could u imagine been round Doreto 24/7 ohhh nooope 😴😴😴😴

Kids may learn better one on one, sure. Because the attention is given to them solely . But schools isn’t just about learning. It’s about behavior. Learning what’s appropriate in a group setting. Learning to share. Learning from others and other ways of learning. You don’t get that - at that level - one on one. You just don’t.

PK is condescending. I’d be pissed if I was Dorit and he was telling me how to parent the kids he isn’t around. What is he good at, racking up debt and drunk driving? I was in public school my whole life but I was lucky to go to good ones - which are becoming rarer and rarer as politicians keep trying to destroy the education system in this country under the guise of “fixing” it. Pretty soon teachers won’t even have any books to read kids if these book banners get their way. Dorit would be smart to homeschool them but to get them involved in extracurriculars outside of school (private sports, martial arts classes, etc.). If I was rich that’s what I’d do.

@firebenderkitty313

7 ай бұрын

Dorit has multiple nannies and constantly on trips. Tell me how exactly she is around either? Just because she might sleep in the same house more often doesn’t mean she is actively involved.

@danan1988

7 ай бұрын

I agree with some of the things you said, but I don’t think he was being condescending, he’s their dad and I’m sure he wants the best for them

@Christina-cb7bb

7 ай бұрын

​@danan1988 book banners? The only books that are being banned are children's sexual books that shouldn't be on the library's shelves so that children can learn how to have sex and be gay. IT SHOULDN'T BE THERE, and you know it

@haute03

7 ай бұрын

@@Christina-cb7bb ...yikes.

It's 50/50. Homeschooling can be good.

He's not wrong.

I completely agree with PK Dorito is drama queen annoying AF

He's sick of her

Yampy Yank, Straight talking brit, Agree Pk 🇬🇧

I agree more with PK but can totally get and understand where Dorit is coming from. Especially today in America. A lot of parents are worried about their kids safety especially and if schools are doing what we send kids there for. And the issue of public vs. private is already a difficult decision. So I can completely understand why Dorit believes homeschooling the kids until a certain age is the best decision. But I also agree with PK in the terms of socialization and creating memories, something that can’t be replicated in homeschool.

I work with kids and I agree sooooooooooooooo with PK.

why did they bring them back 😒 god they are more boring than watching paint dry

Put Them in privateschool

Private, you can afford it, our Public schools are history. You might hv school choice. We lived in South Orange County, great schools then, not now! PK probably went to boarding school? He doesn’t get it! 🎄🌟🥂

Im team PK on this one. Sorry Dorit. But your choice would actually harm your children.

I would do a private school, not public

In this case PK is correct.

I am with PK. Try.

Poor Dorit Good luck with that

They are RICH they could find an awesome school!