What's your biggest petite style challenge?

@cfarmer2298

3 жыл бұрын

I like the dress in monochromatic tip. I gave to stop buying black lol

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, you'll look so much better dressing in colour. You will be able to sit back and watch the compliments roll in. :)

@sueroberts3006

3 жыл бұрын

Pants too long

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

@@sueroberts3006 That is a common challenge.

@pattyelsberry7654

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your tips. I have a hard time choosing clothes to wear as a plump petite; solid colors reveal more of the tummy.

Well, my dear... I am four foot seven and I have no less than 16 fur coats... I love being 55 inches tall... I love velvet and furs... I really love being tiny... I love wearing bright color shoes like red or silver or gold...wow... I go against all your recommendations and I often get compliments especially on my unusual shoes. I wear nearly always plain dark colors and always wear monochrome tone such as a chocolate brown top and trousers, and perhaps a pop of color in my shoes and matching handbag. Yes, the long line is best. I hate a slit in a dress myself, but that is personal choice.

I'm 5 feet. I've always wondered why we needed to dress to look taller.

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

You don’t, only if you want to.

Firstly, the "petite" manufacturing criteria these days is 5'4" and under. I'm barely 5'1" and find that it is becoming increasingly difficult to find any petite clothing, other than in JJill, Chico's (but only on line) Talbots, Loft and Ann Taylor. Stores that used to cater to petites have disappeared, and the space taken over by plus size stores. Petite sizing is to do with proportion only, and has nothing to do with what size you are. Liz Claiborne (remember them?) used to do a plus size petite line - but again that has disappeared. I don't want to look taller -what's wrong with being short? Most of these tips apply to all women, not just petite. The only thing I would absolutely agree with is to keep prints small, avoid shoes that are too heavy looking, but chunky knits can look fabulous as long as the rest of the outfit balances the bulk (which again, is true for any size).

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. I didn't intend to imply there's anything wrong with being short. I certainly don't believe that. When I create these videos they are intended to answer the questions of as many women as possible. Every woman's wants and needs are as unique as they are, so, some of them do want to appear taller (as some women want to appear shorter). Also, since women are all different there is always an exception as to what will look best on her. I'm speaking in generalities.

@fionafrazer8820

2 жыл бұрын

@@StylebySheila Of course - vive la difference! Thanks!

@tinalettieri

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. I had a faux mink coat about 35 years ago and I got so many compliments in it. I consigned it because it was too warm for Atlanta.

@pj595

Жыл бұрын

I'm finding the same, petite sizes are now for 5'4, and those 4 inches make a huge difference. I think you still have more choices than we have in the UK. I find many petite styles are also young - like the only petites out there are teens or 20's.

@nccrchurchunusual7990

Жыл бұрын

I am 4' 10" and size 3 child's shoesize. Dont mind being short, but any weight gain shows quickly. I am what I am- love comfortable clothes. The only thing I do right is wear mostly solid colors. I can try on 20 items and none of it fit. Crazy

I am 5 '3 and love velvet in fall and winter. I don't feel it adds bulk at all. I feel elegant and luxurious in it. Totally agree about chunky shoes.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

That's great. If it makes you feel elegant and luxurious that's all that matters. These are guidelines and not true for everyone. 🙂

One of my pet peeves about buying petite clothing is that some brands' shorten the rise of the pants, making the waist sit too low on my 5'1" frame. I am 59 and have become thick around the middle. I have found that if I buy the 'Tall' size the waist is perfect and if I like it well enough it is worth paying a tailor to hem it to my inseam, which is 28 in.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

That's true Rita. We all have different vertical measurements and it's impossible to fit everyone into one category and petite is one of those categories. I'm happy to hear you found a solution. A tailor is a must-have for most every woman.🙂

Thank you from Japan🎉

Helpful tips, thank you. Most people, including those who design clothing brands, regard petite as 5’4” or under. I’m a just-petite, at 5’4”, but I have a very small frame, narrow shoulders and hips, and a short torso. My biggest challenges are: 1) tops and dresses that are too long, making my favorite, V, necklines too low-cut and straps that fall off my shoulders; 2) shoulders of garments being way too wide, most jackets and tops have a 5” shoulder seam, but I need, at the very most, a 4”; and 3) trousers that are too big in the hips, if I’m to have decent fit at my slightly thick waist. Another complicating factor is having a naturally large bust, DD/E cup, but I know that’s for another video. Subscribed, from San Francisco.

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

When manufacturers make clothes for petites they basically just make the sleeves and hemlines shorter, they don't account for much of anything else. This is where you'd need the help of a good tailor or find styles that do work with your body.

Thank you so much Dear Sheila for your important advice and tips.

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Great jnformations!!! Thanks.🌼

Quite helpful.Thank you.

that was a great point about considering weight of material. I've never given that any thought before.

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

I’m happy it was helpful 😊

This video was very informative for me. Thank you very much.....

Thank you thank you thank you! Will put all your tips into practice right away😘

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful!

You are wonderful. Fabulous advice. Thank you. 💚

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Thanks so much I’m 4 ft 11 weigh 150 have a shorter life due to cancer for the 3 rd time we are going to Italy and Greece in October I want to look beautiful HELP

Petite sizing is technically 5'4" and under. But if you have a long torso, you might actually find a standard size fits you better. Monochromatic and smaller prints are great. chunky knits, boxy fit not as flattering. If you are heavier, lightweight fabric and shiny fabric accentuates lumps and bulges you may not wish to draw attention to. It is foolish to not layer and wear heavier fabrics and in Northern climates. V-necks look pretty bad on older women that have crepey skin on their neck or decolletage. Chunky shoes do indeed make anyone look shorter. But if you are hiking or live in a rural area where lightweight and heeled shoes are not appropriate, then just wear the shoes that are designed for your situation. Shoes the same color as your leg/pants will indeed make your legs look longer but they're also really boring. Fun and colorful shoes can make a delightful statement, regardless of height. I ended up learning how to sew because standard petite clothing can be very limiting and boring and for me, just doesn't usually fit well.

Never thought about shoes. Thank you.

Thank you for sharing this.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

Thank you for the examples

@StylebySheila

11 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Great tips, thank you Sheila

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Like it.Thank you!!!

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you too!

I like the tag....'Sophie's Choice'. I think it was the better choice. Truly.

Great tips for petites here! Really enjoyed. How can you avoid wearing bulky fabrics if you live in a cold climate? Also, how can you avoid wearing bulky shoes for the same reason? The answer must be to move to the sun 😊

It's like you knew exactly what I needed Sheila! I'm petite and literally can't wait to put these tips into practice!

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to hear that.

Thankyou so much Sheila for all my questions answered! I have written down all your suggestions to take with me when shopping. I now have the appropriate solutions to all my fashion mistakes and look forward to implementing them. Turning 57 has been difficult to dress as some of my clothes look too young for me now, especially as I'm not colouring my hair anymore, now a silver sister! But I don't want to dress too old either, so keeping style simpler and following your great tips. Thanks again and I've just become a subscriber 😊

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

I am so happy to hear that Anna. You're right, you don't want to dress too young or too old and it isn't always easy figuring out which is which. Thanks for subscribing - I hope you'll enjoy all the videos that are coming next. 🙂

@cg9616

Жыл бұрын

Not about looking taller it’s being in proportion or drowned by clothes. I’m 4’11

thank you. great video

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!

thank you so much!

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Great tips:)

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them! Thanks for watching.

Great tips

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

If it's boring...it works!

Super helpful video thank you! 🙂

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

You're so welcome!

@Lot-4656

Жыл бұрын

I agree,

Great info. I always struggle buying shoes!!

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

Happy to help!

I’m 5ft 3in tall & PETITE dressing works well for me most of the time when buying tops & dresses. But that’s not the case with slacks or jeans. Need to look for a SHORT length then instead. Love all yr videos!

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

The average fit model is at least 5’7”, clothes are designed for that height, and the average petite model is 5’4”, which is not that short, and is actually the US average height for women (average size is 14-16, or XL at most brands). Clothes are designed for size 2 women. How many of us are really 5’7” or more and a size 2 or smaller? Not very many, especially in our mature age group. I think Medium sizes should be designed for the average height and weight of us customers, not models. I’m sick of having to hem my trousers 9” shorter and I’m 5’4”!

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

You're right, it would be much easier if clothes were made to fit average women instead of models. Maybe that will happen some day.

@angieparton6434

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with every single word! Preach it, sister!

I'm 4"9 thanks for your advice. My biggest struggle is finding Womens shoes in size 3 1/2 that actually fit and are comfortable enough to walk in

@sharonjackson538

2 ай бұрын

I have the same Problem, Usually Buy Size 4

@apollonia-ava

Ай бұрын

Me too !! I barely fit a 35 which is a Uk size 3 and children’s styles that size can be too childish 😂

Not wearing velvet in Chicago in the winter is wrong. It looks wonderful and it's not very bulky. Other than that Sheila's advice is pretty good.

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

If you like to wear velvet that's great. These tips are generalities, everyone is different and what looks great on one petite person won't look great on another.

I'm 5'2 and your tips are so helpful. Thank you!

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome and I'm very happy it's helpful.

Need bulk for the cold!

Thanks❤

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome 😊

In New Zealand, there is no petite sizing. You have to know how to hem a garment if you're my height, 5ft.

What about in cold weather? Cotton and Linen all year round?

Those huge, super-long, bulky sweaters that are so popular just look awful on us petites, as do any oversized, extra-long, boxy garments, Teddy coats/jackets, etc., they’re everywhere, too. I also won’t wear capri/mid-calf pants or tunics, they make me look stumpy, especially together, a popular look for mature women that I think is super-unflattering, dated and aging. It can also be difficult to find accessories of the right scale, when I’ve looked at “mature” brands, everything is scaled bigger to work on bigger women. On me, these make me look like a little girl wearing Mommie’s jewelry.

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

I like what you've said. It's important to get to know your own body and the styles that enhance it (and it seems that you have ) to avoid getting sucked in to the latest fashion trend.

@fionafrazer8820

2 жыл бұрын

I you buy those items (obviously not if you don't like them!) in a store that caters to petites, you will find that they have been designed to be the right proportion and will look much better. Capris are not very flattering on any size, a better choice would be a skirt if you are hot, or ankle length.

@tinalettieri

2 жыл бұрын

From your photo, you're hardly "mature" enough for "mature styles." I'm almost 76, live in a warm climate and am an artist. I wear dresses that aren't huge and flowly but just skim the body without a set in waist. Some are long, some are short. Some are a bit boho and others more classic. I have one that is a solid light blue sundress so the top is modest but a bit scooped. The skirt is a bit full but the top is slim fitting. This works with my hourglass shape. It also has ties at the shoulders which draws attention to my face in a good way. If I wear a skirt, I wear a top that comes just at my hips and the skirts tend to be long. I have a lot of problems with my feet and need to walk a lot so I ignore the shoe tips unless I know I won't have to walk much and want to look special.

Here’s what I have learned as a woman who is 4’ 11”. Wear what you want. Life is way too short to put yourself into a restrictive bubble because of some guidelines that were made up by the fashion industry.

I’m new subscriber 5’3… 5’4 on a good day TYFS ❣️

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

Welcome!!

My challenge many times buying clothes that are too big or long for my body size, but am getting better as age. I usually give my clothes away to my Mom and my daughter after buying and maybe wearing them once or none at all..

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

You're on the right path if you know what's not working.

im super petite

Excellent video! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@StylebySheila

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

Thank you for a great video….very good information!

Hmm...Im 4'11 - dont really care about looking taller ( I get complimented on my heigth often) but yes on proportioning- my hips are rather wide- ish and long? Would love advice on this

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

It's wonderful that you don't want to look taller. I have an ebook that you can find on my website called Petite Perfection that all about what to wear for different petite body shapes -www.stylingbysheila.com/product/petite-perfection-dressing-tips-for-petites/

Hi Sheila! Any tips for petite women that have a large bust?

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

Hi Jia, I will put this question on my list. What exactly would you like to know?

I am confused now on shoes. You first said match shoes to your hemline, then later it was wear skin toned shoes. Which is it?

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry about that. It's both. You can do either.

Very very helpful and that is what I have tried to do is to not make any outstanding color choices trying to make my shoes match and not look like I am pregnant. Ha ha with all these tops. But it is so hard to find petite clothing. I have a high waist and most jeans or pants do not come up to my waist which I can’t figure out why. But I do dress in a classic manner nothing with large pattern or loud colors. I look forward to your videos. Thank you very much from the 5 foot 2 Soon to be 80❤

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome❤

I’ve always heard anyone 5’4” or under was petite

i am 5 flat only. broad shoulder 😂😂

I am 53 4 ft 9

I do not agree with letting the colour shoe match the hemline. As a 72yr old 5footer, I know. Wearing a neutral or nude shoe elongates the legs

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

You're right, a neutral shoe does elongate the legs and I'm happy to hear you know what's best for you. However, there are lots of women who don't want to make their legs look longer and actually want to make them look shorter. So, matching the shoe with the hemline is chic when you keep in mind your proportions. Everyone is very different so we can't all wear the same shoe, dress, pants, etc. and have it look great on all of us.

I really have to disagree about the foot. Most petite women have small feet. I wear a 5 and get compliments often on my small feet and pretty shoes. I love sparkly and fancy shoes.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think I said anything about petite women having big feet. Actually, I think you're right most have small feet. I guess I wasn't clear regarding sparkly shoes, sparkly shoes draw attention to the feet and if you're petite you don't want attention down so low, you want to draw the eye upward. However, if you have small feet and like pretty shoes by all means, wear them. It's more important to love what you wear.

@tinalettieri

2 жыл бұрын

That's true if you're truly petite. Some of us are just short. I'm curvy, hourglass shaped, but have big hands and feet. I don't have petite proportions. I'm long waisted and have relatively long legs in relation to my height. I also have rather angular, not sloping shoulders. My first MIL had size 5's and she had a hard time finding shoes.

@robinborsos2368

2 ай бұрын

My feet are a size 4 and since I have narrow heels, my choices are very limited. I do wear some size 5 shoes, but they tend to be loose. I put heel grips in nearly every pair of shoes I own, which means no mules or strappy heels. I buy my tennis shoes and simp,e flats in the children’s section.

Nowady people use blok colours

I find all these tips for petite women focus on looking taller to be annoying. Phooey! I'm 5'2" and I can't do anything about that. Good things come in small packages and I don't need to look like a runway model to be attractive. The tips about prints and some of the proportion suggestions on all sites are good. Enjoy who you are and stop worrying about not meeting some made up ideal.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

You're right. Attractive comes in all heights. Many women want to look taller (and some want to look shorter, slimmer, larger, bigger this, smaller that) and I make videos based on what I see women are looking for. Again, I have to agree, it's a made-up ideal - one that none of us need to buy into. Styles look great on women who get their proportions right, no matter what their height. 🙂

@tinalettieri

2 жыл бұрын

@@StylebySheila Thanks. Please believe I wasn't targetting you. I can understand wanting to change something that can be changed but our height is what it is. It happens that people are always surprised I'm only 5'2". I stand straight with my shoulders straight, not hunched and I have a fairly energetic and assertive walk. I think how we carry ourselves does a lot for our height image.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

@@tinalettieri I didn't think you were. Posture is very important, that's great.

@tinalettieri

2 жыл бұрын

@@StylebySheila Thanks, sometimes things don't come out how I mean them. Then people get offended.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

@@tinalettieri People are easily offended these days. It's up to them whether or not they decide to be offended. If we had to baby step around everything we say, we wouldn't say much.

My biggest problem is My breast are double Ds and I'm a small woman. It's very difficult for me to find the right bra.

@StylebySheila

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it would be. Have you found a brand you like?

@SGA47

2 жыл бұрын

@@StylebySheila NO I have allergies. I'm allergic to the underwater. I hate the pointed look.

more IllUSTRATION and less camera focus on the speakers....camera should SHOW at the same time what speaker is explaining.

Velvet? Fur?

Whatever

Petite and chubby very little to choose from, yes I am actively trying to lose weight but it doesn’t happen overnight, so ugly clothes it is

So I don't agree. Only some of what you said is ok

@StylebySheila

Жыл бұрын

That's totally up to you.